AlexBr88 Archive

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0	Any tips to be more non-reactive and calm? There's more than one way to any goal here are a few to consider: 1) Act as if. Even if you care act as if you don't and sooner or later it might become how you actually feel. It works with smiling so why not with caring? 2) Rationalize it. For example, you're talking to a really hot girl and you start worrying she might be the hottest girl you've ever had a chance with. Go check out backpage and know that for just $150 you can get something hotter with more skills. 3) Think of things more impor…	/r/seduction	15/01/15 05:20 AM
2	How do I tease girls? Teasing is great tool to build attraction if done correctly. The key is to do it playfully. You can get away with pretty much anything except calling a girl fat! The first step is to work on your delivery. Make sure you actually come off as playful and fun, and not as an asshole. So the key here is calibration. Once you're out in the field, build a little rapport first if possible, as that will go a long way in how receptive she is. But, you can even get away without rapport if you're willing to…	/r/seduction	13/01/15 02:49 PM
1	Went on a date, lots of touching and laughing, kissed her... but now she isn't responding to my text. It might be that you didn't work on building rapport and gaining her trust, and instead went straight for the sexual stuff. When she woke up the next day she was prolly thinking, that guy just wants to fuck me and unfortunately that's not what gets girls going. It seems counter intuitive but sometimes you need to slow things down and work on appealing to her on an emotional level and getting her to see you as a potential bf not just a sex object. Once you have her thinking that way you can do an…	/r/seduction	28/12/14 04:06 PM
2	Very sad and i want her back and its been almost a year since we broke up. I feel like a mess. Please help me Out of site out of mind bro. Don't creep on your ex. Block her on FB so you can't even look at her profile, delete all her pictures etc. It takes a long time to get over someone that you were really into, but if you know you broke up for a reason and are not meant to be, you need to help yourself get through the healing process. The only real cure is time and finding someone that you are truly into. That will definitely help you get over your ex. It's okay to feel a little sad until that point. …	/r/seduction	28/12/14 04:00 PM
3	Tips for maintaining conversations Your first problem is trying too hard to maintain the conversation. Sometimes, your best bet is to let the conversation die and hold the tension. Use it as an opportunity to look her deep int he eyes and smile. This will allow you to convey that you are confident and can deal with tension. If you're trying to find topics to keep talking about and it doesn't happen naturally, the girl will know right away that you are trying too hard to get her approval. This is an attraction killer! Chances are,…	/r/seduction	23/12/14 08:06 PM
0	How do I initiate dancing? You need to get a girls approval before dancing with her. That's just my opinion and I'm sure other guys out there will disagree. This is my approach - easiest if done at a club where people are grinding.. You come up behind her and put your arm on her hip and angling you face so that she can see you in her peripheral. When she looks at you, smile and ask if she wants to dance. Most of the time, if the girl thinks you are cute she'll say yes! Make sure you smell good and are well groomed.	/r/seduction	23/12/14 08:00 PM
1	Should I text her if our next meetup is in one week? Texting is the lifeblood of M-F daygame. Make sure to keep her attention and get things going. Depending on if she's into it, you can get her really horny by saying the right things and position the relationship. If your texting game is on point, by the time you meet, thing should go a lot more smoothly.	/r/seduction	22/12/14 02:29 AM
6	How to MAINTAIN Confidence? Mine constantly fluctuates Condition yourself to feel good regardless of other peoples' reactions. I went out this Thursday to a small predominantly Asian club, and got rejected by approximately 15 girls straight. But at the end of the night I felt great about myself, and my buddies respected me. You know why? Because I am the only one with the balls to not give a shit. Find what makes you feel good and do that. Figure out what makes you feel anxious - and get into those situations as much as possible. Overwhelm yourself …	/r/seduction	20/12/14 04:06 PM