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If you look at a follower count to evaluate your value, you are a bigger loser than you think.
/r/seduction21/07/26 11:12 AM
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Stop giving boyfriend energy and these women wouldn’t see you as a boyfriend. Should’ve kept it casual but instead, you are probably letting these women sleep over and pillow talk with you.
/r/seduction25/03/26 11:52 AM
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Pretty much. Most of the time, those awkward celebrities who are always in women drama are typically the ones who are not upfront and “suggest” to women to stop by their place to do something other than sex. If you are not direct with women, that’s how you get yourself in fucked up situations. Of course, those weak ass dudes bitch about it later on X or TikTok.
/r/seduction24/03/26 06:22 PM
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Not only does this dude treat it like sales (lol), he is not even straight forward with these women… making up shit just to get her to see him at his place and “matching” what she’s looking for. So if she’s looking for a relationship, he pretends to be looking for that too and keeps it casual. I recommend to folks not to follow this person’s advice. First of all, because I know his dishonesty is actually unattractive to these women and if he even sleeps with them, she’ll know he’s nothing specia…
/r/seduction24/03/26 12:04 PM
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I will admit… “protocol” is not the right word for it. But hey, expect eventual drama if you are treating your fwb as a gf/bf. Someone is going to catch feelings eventually.
/r/seduction18/02/26 12:56 PM
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Don’t matter. If you are giving off boyfriend energy, you are dating her. She might even think you are changing your mind about the casual sex and want to take things more seriously due to your actions.
/r/seduction18/02/26 12:48 PM
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You are not actually following the friends with benefits protocol. You even stated in your post that you both would hang out and do shit together outside of sex… so you both are literally dating. Friends with benefits is purely sex, a bit of pillow talk, then you both go back home. But no… you are literally hanging out with this woman and probably even letting her sleep over and you are confused why she’s upset? lol.
/r/seduction18/02/26 12:27 PM
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Yall with your technical jargon to describe talking to women you find attractive will always put you in a state of analyzing everything you do and doubting yourself when you think you are going to make a mistake. You’ll always appear fake to these women and they’ll smell it off you. This whole “status game” and you needing to be rich to attract “10s” is just sad. If you want to lead with your money, then cool, let these women attach a leash on you while you spend every penny you have on her… but…
/r/seduction31/12/25 07:51 PM
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The level of insecurity that comes out of this post, man…
/r/seduction31/12/25 07:34 PM
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Or better yet, if you are interested, don’t look for signals and just ask her out. If she says no, then cool. If she says yes, then cool. Ya’ll are making it too difficult on yourselves and not living.
/r/seduction19/12/25 11:27 PM
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So… we are going to blame your ex’s periods for her manic episodes and disrespect towards you? And you allowed that to be the excuse for her to treat you poorly? No offense dude, but why would you want to deal with that bullshit? Sounds like you made a poor decision having that woman be your girlfriend in the first place. And just because someone is a combat veteran, firefighter, or a police officer doesn’t mean that they themselves make proper decisions for their own life. At the end of the day…
/r/seduction02/07/25 04:16 PM
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First of all, if a guy gets into a relationship with a woman who clearly has a screw loose, he deserves every pain and annoyance that comes with it. Sometimes men need to truly respect themselves and actually pick the correct woman for themselves, but ya know… nowadays guys have no standards and jump into relationships with any woman that gives them any kind of attention.
/r/seduction02/07/25 11:40 AM
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You need more guy friends, my dude. No one busts your balls when you are overreacting over something small? It ain’t that serious. Edit: OP ended up replying with insults and quickly deleting his message. This dude is sensitive /insecure and exactly why he’s struggling with “rejection”.
/r/seduction29/06/25 01:04 PM
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Easy… stop worrying about the outcomes. Live your life and shoot your shot. Either that woman wants to participate and go along with your program or she doesn’t. Every woman has the right to say “No” and that’s fine. If you truly believe that you are THAT confident guy, you’d be thinking “She’ll be missing out if she doesn’t want to be with me.” and not like how you are thinking with “omg… is something wrong with me… she said no… even though everyone close to me says I’m handsome… is my whole li…
/r/seduction29/06/25 12:51 PM
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Sounds to me you are outcome dependent and if it doesn’t work out, you get all in your feelings and psyche yourself out when you don’t “pick up” ladies that you are approaching. No idea why you even mentioned the 50 year old woman… didn’t you want her since you approached her? As for others calling you handsome, it could be adding unneeded pressure on yourself where if you are not getting the success you expect to be getting, you start to doubt yourself (leading to you psyching yourself out).
/r/seduction29/06/25 12:38 PM
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It’s hard to imagine someone who apparently has a “high body count” doesn’t know how to approach women… just be who you are that’s giving you this much success and repeat it… it’s not that hard. Someone who isn’t used to getting laid would be a lot more hesitant to approach. You even stated that you go to bars and clubs… I get that they are on the kinkier side, but are you actually approaching people in these places or are you the one getting approached? If you are not doing enough approaches in…
/r/seduction29/06/25 12:29 PM
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… and then I woke up.
/r/seduction23/04/25 09:07 PM
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Because he’s authentically himself and lives his life while dudes like you are critiquing another dude’s looks and staring at his girlfriend wondering why she likes him lol. Women can smell insecurity off men with ease… and your post tells me you are an insecure dude.
/r/seduction21/04/25 02:21 AM
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Imagine pretending to be gay to get women and thinking it’s a great idea to share that advice in a dating subreddit with a serious face. Lol.
/r/seduction11/04/25 03:11 PM
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I dunno man, I'm reading through your message and I can tell you are someone who is deep in that "pick up artist" bullshit and your looks is completely carrying you and you are just accidentally falling into p*ssy... if you even get any. Your most recent message alone has so many cracks of insecurity.
/r/seduction19/02/25 01:28 AM
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First of all, if you need validation from women, you'll never be attractive to women. Women can smell the insecurity from a man and they'll clearly tell when a man hates himself. You know how? Let's use the one example above. One way is that she's clearly being disrespectful with you and you are still trying to pursue her. But hey, lots of average guys out there seem to think women are always playing "hard to get" with guys they are attracted to. What you indirectly tell to women when you do thi…
/r/seduction19/02/25 12:23 AM
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And I’m saying why bother with women like that? If she’s willing to be rude and disrespectful right off the bat when she likes you, imagine the nightmare shit you’ll be dealing with when she’s upset about something.
/r/seduction18/02/25 11:49 PM
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And you want to be with these type of women? Women who go straight to being rude / disrespectful as a mask hiding whatever deep scars they got going on? So you are saying it’s worth dealing with these women because why? She knows how to put on her makeup real good? Bud, I recommend moving on and finding another woman who’s sane.
/r/seduction16/02/25 05:40 PM
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No idea why men with any self esteem would even entertain a woman who’s giving him shit tests. She ain’t into you if she’s pulling that nonsense, gentlemen. Wish her well and move on to the next one.
/r/seduction12/02/25 12:00 PM
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I know this for sure… a man who uses womanese as a word doesn’t get any women so I’d keep your comment to yourself.
/r/seduction07/02/25 04:46 AM
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It’s never too late to hook up lol
/r/seduction22/11/24 12:13 AM
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I’ve always find issues with this advice because it comes off like OP, and overall men in general, need to perform in order to attract a woman. Like you are the clown and she expects to be entertained by you to consider you. Nah, OP should’ve kept it simple and invited her to his life (she joins you for a drink one-on-one somewhere he likes) and if she tells him that her friends are joining, he tells her that I’m not interested in getting to know her friends, just her. If she resists, cancel the…
/r/seduction17/11/24 04:15 PM
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Because he’s in the friend zone and he doesn’t realize it.
/r/seduction17/11/24 02:23 PM
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lol is that what you guys call yourselves? Retainers. Living in some Harry Potter fantasy world, instead of going out there and approaching women.
/r/seduction07/11/24 06:55 PM
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So what do you want me to do with this answer? Feel sympathy for those dudes? If you allow porn to impact you this much, maybe you need to seek therapy rather than pretending holding your sperm in is granting you this magical aura that adds +5 into your Motivation stats. You are either a lazy mofo or you are not. You decide what you want to do.
/r/seduction07/11/24 02:51 PM
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Porn and masturbation are just excuses for dudes to use for being unmotivated. Let’s be real. You are simply too weak minded to change your ways and go out there. You are lazy. You are scared. You are literally a lion who’s too nervous to hunt for zebras. No hunting instinct. You are way too comfortable just staying at home and being alone. And all of that is YOUR choice. As men, if you are not happy with your situation, you need to realize that it is entirely up to you to change your surroundin…
/r/seduction07/11/24 12:17 PM
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Energetic pull… seriously… you all are making this way too difficult. Just approach women you are interested in. You think lions wait for a energetic pull to go after zebras lol
/r/seduction04/11/24 06:31 PM
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You want to find out if she's interested in you? Ask. Her. Out. Or step aside and let someone else take her away. Seriously folks, this whole "beating around the bush" and being too scared to ask women out isn't going to do you any favors in life. Can't believe you all prevent yourselves from enjoying and living life.
/r/seduction31/08/24 09:19 PM
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Ask her out or someone else will.
/r/seduction31/08/24 07:26 PM
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Are you seriously referencing a cartoon character’s behavior? Whatever helps you cope, man. Next time a girl is treating you like shit, why don’t you ask her out since apparently you seem to think that’s her showing you interest… isn’t this subreddit all about choosing signals? Lol
/r/seduction31/08/24 12:48 AM
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Folks, if women treat you poorly or acts disrespectful, she’s not into you. People like OP overthink shit. A woman who’s attracted to you isn’t going to be RISKING trying to be mean to you… cmon people. It ain’t rocket science.
/r/seduction31/08/24 12:08 AM
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Precisely. There are quite a lot of glaring things he says in his post that already tells me why these women find him soft and not a man to take seriously. Surprised that OP can’t read what he just wrote and notice these things.
/r/seduction27/08/24 12:31 PM
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Damn… fine, I’ll take 2 out of 3.
/r/seduction24/08/24 07:32 PM
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Whenever I read these, I just envision some dude tapping away on his noisy keyboard in a dark room, sharing his fantasy stories of things he wishes he could do in real life.
/r/seduction24/08/24 07:09 PM
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And that’s fine. Not every woman is going to go for the short fling situation. At the end of the day, it is what YOU want to happen and if she’s not a fan of it, you shouldn’t be doing anything with her. Shit, I assure you that there are women out there that actually will enjoy the short fling situation and them knowing you are leaving in a month or so is a huge plus because they know they can just get sex out of the situation and you won’t be on her ass like most dudes out there that get any ac…
/r/seduction04/08/24 01:38 PM
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Wait… so you are not direct and upfront with women on your intentions? So you are one of those guys that bring women back to your place and do the whole “Netflix and Chill” passive af behavior? Dude, women love sex, especially when she’s sexually attracted to you. Be upfront with women.
/r/seduction04/08/24 01:29 PM
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What? You are asking a woman out on a date. You are attracted. Her following you to wherever on the date shows she’s interested. Go wherever YOU want to go. Don’t worry about “establishing attraction”. Dudes who think that way don’t attract women at all.
/r/seduction04/08/24 01:06 PM
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The hell you talking about. What makes “how you met the person” change the venue on a first date? I swear dudes make this way too damn complicated.
/r/seduction04/08/24 11:59 AM
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She’s looking at you because you keep staring at her like a creep. She’s not interested; just leave her alone.
/r/seduction29/07/24 10:36 AM
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Because you are busy time wasting with these women instead of just asking them out right off the bat. YOU are the one wasting time.
/r/seduction29/07/24 03:42 AM
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LOL. I’ve been to Seattle. The women are the same as any other city. Go find yourself a coach to teach you how to talk to women.
/r/seduction29/07/24 01:33 AM
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It’s crazy how delusional and insecure you are. Yes man, give us more fake stories so you can seek validation from Redditors and have them assure you that you ain’t old. Like I said, you got deeper shit to figure out. You might actually need some therapy because if you are 39 years old and still in this mindset, you gonna need the professional help.
/r/seduction29/07/24 01:29 AM
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So now “many girls from Seattle” are telling you that you are past your prime in Seattle. lol. The only head that is getting messed with is your head.
/r/seduction29/07/24 01:25 AM
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So some random guy on the internet says anyone over 33 is past their prime in Seattle and you actually believe this nonsense? Mate, your struggles with women are much deeper than your age. Trust me.
/r/seduction29/07/24 01:19 AM
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OP, why do you hang out with losers?
/r/seduction29/07/24 01:15 AM
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Why are you even hinting shit? Do what YOU want to do? The fact that you are playing this softly and wanting to see a movie with this woman already tells her your fuck game is weak. It’s mind blowing how passive you guys are. You literally have this woman who MATCHED with you, which literally tells you she’s attracted to you, and you are subtly hinting at a movie date and moving like a snail.
/r/seduction28/07/24 08:00 PM
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I stopped reading as soon as he said “I somehow got a 10 back in 2017”. He lost her before he even realized it with that pathetic mindset.
/r/seduction22/07/24 11:08 PM
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Just because she’s going out on a date with you, doesn’t mean she’s attracted to you. There are dorks out there that take women out that clearly aren’t into him and when she doesn’t kiss him, the dude goes on YouTube and complains that he spent all this money and got nothing in return. Well no shit dude, you don’t have any sense of social awareness to know that she ain’t into you.
/r/seduction22/07/24 12:24 PM
1

How does a woman living in a different country providing you with any value? Is she helping you remotely with your taxes? 😂
/r/seduction17/07/24 05:08 PM
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It simply blows my mind how most dudes waste their time with women. This woman lives in a whole separate country and you spend all day everyday talking to her? Folks, go after women that live nearby you. What’s going on here? OP, I’ll be blunt. She used you for the attention. She got a whole lot of it from you so she’ll be fine never talking to you ever again. Move on and this time, don’t invest all this time with a woman you never met in person. If you actually mean it when you say you are quit…
/r/seduction17/07/24 11:53 AM
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lol fr. It’s like telling people you are very good at math, but you struggle with algebra.
/r/seduction17/07/24 01:57 AM
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Sounds like OP isn’t willing to put in any work and thinks that everything needs to fall in place for him with ease. Lazy af. Let me guess, you probably don’t even approach women and talk to them at all. You sit on your coach, swipe for five minutes, then bitch about the results. Put. In. The. Work.
/r/seduction15/07/24 12:53 PM
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If you are not used to women being immediately attracted to you and you can't tell when they are when they are talking to you, then yes, your reality thinks this way. DISCLAIMER: Not every woman is going to be attracted to you and that's okay. We all have our types. This is why having experience is important because you can start to TELL when certain women are attracted to you by the way they speak and behave around you.
/r/seduction09/07/24 06:32 PM
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Bruh, why do guys even bother? If she’s not being cooperative with you and doesn’t want to see you in your past attempts of you asking her out, she really isn’t into you. This whole “try and try again” approach until you wear her out and finally get her to go out with you is pathetic behavior on your part and she’s only going out with you because you are honestly her only option. I don’t understand how guys don’t see this… and these are the same guys that complain about women being gold diggers …
/r/seduction09/07/24 11:42 AM
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That's the thing man... the way you are moving comes off like you are being way too timid and "omg, are you okay with me doing this...?" That's not going to turn women on... IMO, you need to be more upfront with women. You should let her know you are taking her back to your place to get her naked and thrown on your bed for some fun. You need to be specific and blatant about it before you take her back to your place. If she's attracted to you, she's going to be perfectly fine with it. For all we …
/r/seduction08/07/24 11:40 PM
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Okay, I noticed the "During this time, I kissed her a few times and usually would have tried to initiate sex, but since it was our first time," so I get it... you both are virgins. Because everything you both did for HOURS is wayyyy too much wasted time. Like... you spent an hour cuddling with the chick... then hours of making out and half an hour on specific bases... my god dude... it was brutal to read.
/r/seduction08/07/24 11:02 PM
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The reason why these ladies are half-assing with you is because you the type of guy that spends 15 FUCKING HOURS on a date with them… Jesus Christ man.
/r/seduction08/07/24 09:39 PM
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Especially if you use “sperg” as a word
/r/seduction07/07/24 11:14 PM
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I’m just going to say this… if you don’t know what you are doing, it’s best you keep away from fucking with women at work. You just not that guy.
/r/seduction07/07/24 10:28 PM
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The way you are talking already tells me you have absolutely no sense of sexual education. Raw fucking random strangers and having them take 'morning after pills' like M&Ms. It's hilarious that you think I don't live in the city, when your goober ass is the one having sex like some hillbilly in the country-side who only deals with 3 women around his village. LOL Mate, I know you are not getting any with this kind of talking you are doing. I'm just entertained at how much you lack common sense ab…
/r/seduction07/07/24 07:03 PM
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You fuck with women that pop $20+ morning-after pills EVERY TIME they have raw sex with you and other dudes. Those pills aren't meant to be taken every time you have sex, you goober. They are considered EMERGENCY pills. They can cause harm to a woman's body and even worse harm if you take them like fucking TicTacs. And you are telling us that you hand these pills out right after a raw sex session. So you are literally paying $20+ every time you have sex because you don't like how condoms feel on…
/r/seduction07/07/24 05:15 PM
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Dude, are you 15? You think popping 'the morning after' pill every time you have raw sex is smart? That pill isn't meant to be taken lightly. You think those pills are like magical Tik Taks LOL. You either full of shit or every woman you sleep with are bottom-of-the-barrel bitches. I thought you dealt with quality women, my guy.
/r/seduction07/07/24 04:39 PM
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Yeah, and there are dudes out there that say they have amazing "pull-out" game and they have it down to a calculated art. Lol. Dude, you do whatever you want. You've been warned.
/r/seduction07/07/24 04:10 PM
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So yeah id rather live my life with no regrets and go all in or nothing. Lol. Oh trust me, you are going to live a life with regrets with the way you are moving. I know a few people like you (and I mean VERY few because I'm typically not friends with irresponsible people) and unsurprisingly, they are not living the good life that you imagine. If making your peepee feel amazing during sex is more important to you than risking getting a permanent STD or impregnating a stranger, then be my guest, b…
/r/seduction07/07/24 03:30 PM
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Do us all a favor and punch your dad in the throat. He failed you.
/r/seduction07/07/24 03:05 PM
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Bro lol I see where you coming from, but the chances of something like hiv are quite low. LOL. Well you better hope the others in your neighborhood are using their noggins and they are using condoms to avoid the spread. Besides the look, there are few other things I use to judge their quality. If they live by themselves, downtown/uptown or in a nice area, can present themselves well and are well put when we go out, well spoken on the date, decent job, then it’s a green light. No fat girls, tall …
/r/seduction07/07/24 02:43 PM
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I think the mods will allow me to call you a fucking moron for that comment. My god, dude… WHY you hate yourself SO MUCH?! This dude calling women attractive and high quality and he barely knows these women. He only bases her quality on her looks. So incredibly pathetic. Enjoy the eventual HIV you are going to get and remember this conversation when you get it.
/r/seduction07/07/24 01:53 PM
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You fucked a woman you barely know raw on the second date? OP, why do you hate yourself so much?
/r/seduction07/07/24 01:15 AM
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Dude, wtf is this clinical explanation of this?! Ya’ll are way too logical when it comes to women, to the point where you overthink shit and say the stupidest nonsense. The fact that you think her shit testing you is a good thing lol. A woman who’s into you won’t be shit testing you. Why would she risk that with a man she wants to get with?? You came off like you were beating around the bush with her. Incredibly indirect. Not only that, you were trying to invite her back to your place (in the mo…
/r/seduction05/07/24 09:02 PM
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Bruh…
/r/seduction02/07/24 01:01 PM
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Make them your friends and take advantage of their social circles. Don’t sleep with your coworkers… not worth fucking up your wallet over a woman.
/r/seduction02/07/24 12:33 AM
1

OP, why would you want a ‘bottom of the barrel’ woman in your life?
/r/seduction28/06/24 01:06 PM
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I don’t know what lines you are reading in between but clearly the message isn’t being read by you if you think approaching women is considered needy behavior. A man goes for what he wants. You see a woman you are interested in, you approach her and shoot your shot. She’ll either take your number and text you later or she’ll not take your number and you move on. What makes you needy or chasing women is if you keep pursuing that same woman that refused you. You try to convince her to like you. Yo…
/r/seduction26/06/24 12:27 PM
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Dude… where do you live where you barely see women in public? What are you talking about?
/r/seduction26/06/24 03:21 AM
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Of course, because a lot of Redditors are hoping that their next Doordasher is going to be an attractive woman that gives them “choosing signals” and STILL expect the woman to ask them out. lol. A lot of people find the truth to be uncomfortable, and you making them feel any slight of discomfort will result in you getting downvoted. It’s the way it is.
/r/seduction25/06/24 11:39 PM
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Even if actual advice is given, you will just sit there on your couch, surfing Reddit, and going months not approaching any women. The post gives a perspective that not too many people think about. You are indeed comfortable. No sense of urgency. A bunch of grass-eating lions that don’t hunt anything. That’s the point of the message. You got to wake up and get out of your comfort zone.
/r/seduction25/06/24 11:30 PM
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You will never be a “high value man” when you are focusing so much with comparing yourself to other dudes. You should be focusing on being a “better you” every single day. I’m telling you… all you guys who believe this “high value man” and “top 10%” bullshit are moving like women. The insecurity is so obvious and women will smell that insecurity easily off you while they use you for your money since you think leading with your wallet is how you should get women. I swear man, with how men are mov…
/r/seduction16/06/24 12:47 PM
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Just asking that question smells of desperation. I don’t get it… why are there men out there who want to deal with women who aren’t interested in them? There is no warming up that has to happen with women who are into you… so why chase after a woman who isn’t attracted to you? Why put yourself in that situation?
/r/seduction16/06/24 04:01 AM
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You should be learning people’s names because that is simply common courtesy, but you shouldn’t be doing it for them to perceive you in a positive light… I know some losers in my life that I unfortunately have to speak with due to specific reasons and I know their names and say their names when I talk to them… but I don’t do that to make them like me… I just have social skills and it is common etiquette. There is no fancy sales technique with that. It’s like you telling me that saying “hello” to…
/r/seduction14/06/24 05:18 PM
1

First of all, then what would you call it when you introduce yourself to someone you desire, without knowing them trough friends, an activity or work? Termonology from sales coveres that situation perfectly. What gives? It’s called “introducing yourself”. I’m not selling myself or trying to make the person like me with gimmicks / tricks like what salespeople try to do when they “cold approach”. That’s why I hate that term. You introduce yourself, you tell her why you approached her and your inte…
/r/seduction14/06/24 02:08 PM
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First of all, remove “cold approach” from your vocabulary. That term is for sales, not for talking to women. If you are worried about selling yourself to women, you are fucking up. Secondly, if you are not good at approaching women you are interested in because you are too scared to, then you don’t have the type of swagger to be pulling off this imaginary nonsense that OP pulled in his fantasy story. Lastly, what league are you talking about? Is there a league where a woman is above you? If that…
/r/seduction14/06/24 12:52 PM
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If most of the men on this subreddit are seeking external validation, then you are already fucking up because that will always show in how you communicate and how you move with women. Too scared to cold approach? Too scared to flirt? Too scared to tell a woman your intentions early on? Well yeah, dudes’ egos and their desire to get positive external validation is keeping you guys from taking risks because you are worried about a woman saying “no”. I think most men should be focusing on learning …
/r/seduction14/06/24 05:56 AM
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I read these posts sometimes and I genuinely wonder if these people have actually dated women before. This story is equivalent to Andy Stitzer explaining how a woman’s nipple feels like sandpaper. A very friendly and nice guy, who states that is very novice in “cold approach” which you mind as well tell us you are anxious and worried about talking to strangers in person, but you are apparently capable of flirting with a woman heavy to the point where after only two dates and a makeout session, s…
/r/seduction14/06/24 05:35 AM
0

It’s a chore because you are taking women out to do things YOU don’t want to do. If you focused on inviting her out to do things you actually like to do, you’d actually enjoy yourself.
/r/seduction08/06/24 10:30 PM
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The truth about you will eventually come out. You can wear that mask all you want but as soon as they spend more time with you, they will notice the mask slipping off and the cracks in your shield. It really takes hard work to change who you are as a person and requires consistency. Personally, if there is one thing men should really work on is their leadership skills. Take classes on it, if possible. Find a mentor or coach. Becoming a leader is a fast track to changing certain bad habits that w…
/r/seduction07/06/24 11:39 AM
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Because you put women that you want on a pedestal.
/r/seduction05/06/24 05:14 PM
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I just find it wild that you are actually considering moving out of Florida, your home where you have your family and you enjoy your surroundings, because you can’t get a woman. Sounds like you have no idea how to actually attract a woman and you moving anywhere else won’t make a difference. Have you actually taken a 1-2 week vacation where you visited any of these cities you are considering moving to just to see if there is any difference on how you can pull these women?
/r/seduction05/06/24 12:38 PM
6

What does you having a good paying remote job got anything to do with you attracting women? Seriously folks, leading with your wallet isn’t going to make a woman sexually attracted to you… it’ll only make her realize you are someone she can take advantage of.
/r/seduction05/06/24 05:25 AM
0

Uh no… if a woman is being “difficult” with you, she’s not that sexually attracted to you… Your girlfriend would fuck her celebrity crush within an hour of meeting the guy. It wouldn’t take four months and three dates, trust me. So this whole “friendship for four months and taking her out on three dates” to get into her pants is her playing a game with you and getting you invested in her. Of course you see her as your best girlfriend because you put in so much time investment in this woman that …
/r/seduction01/06/24 05:37 PM
8

I just don’t understand why dudes even deal with difficult women in the first place. But hey, as long as she’s pretty, you are willing to bend the knee and appease her. Enjoy yourself, OP.
/r/seduction01/06/24 03:19 PM
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My god, the advice all posted in this thread don’t even explain why his ass got ignored. OP, yes, it is possible that she really wasn’t that interested to meet up and she might’ve just wanted you to be her virtual pen pal but the issue is that you came off like you are trying to be in her world, instead of her being in yours. Don’t ask women “When are you free?” Or “What does your schedule look like this week?”. Tell her when YOU are free and ask her if she cares to join you. You need to live yo…
/r/seduction01/06/24 09:47 AM
16

Because you hate yourself.
/r/seduction31/05/24 03:51 AM
4

Adapting to women to make them like you is such a loser mentality. Terrible…
/r/seduction27/05/24 12:03 PM
1

OP has literally turned into a woman that seeks attention and validation from the opposite sex. Good job taking care of your health, OP, but it sounds like you barely work out your mental health.
/r/seduction23/05/24 12:15 AM
15

What do you want to do in this situation, OP? Are you trying to have her as a casual fling? Do you just like to get female attention just like how women love getting male attention? Do you have any plan at all? You’ve made out with this woman a couple times which led to nothing… so… what’s the point of all this?
/r/seduction21/05/24 03:24 PM
1

Just the question in the title alone already tells me you will not have much success with “attractive women”.
/r/seduction20/05/24 06:54 PM
1

My Reddit account is most likely older than that YouTuber’s account. Plenty of Alex Costa’s out there.
/r/seduction20/05/24 03:51 PM
6

OP, you fell in love with a woman after two days and you are already ready to marry this woman and your insecurities are putting thoughts in your head like wondering if her family is going to accept you. OP, no offense, but you have no game whatsoever lol.
/r/seduction20/05/24 02:12 AM
56

Precisely. Dude playing off as if he wasn’t creeping on her at the very start. If you see something you like, go for it immediately. She noticed he was hesitating the entire time and trying to build his courage to approach her. Women aren’t impressed with you if you take forever to shoot your shot.
/r/seduction19/05/24 08:01 PM
3

lol ah alright. But yeah, just giving you the heads up on that cuz you don’t want to be doing that lip puckering shit in your pictures.
/r/seduction19/05/24 06:12 PM
10

The fact that you are shamelessly sharing a selfie picture of you doing the duck face shows your lack of awareness.
/r/seduction19/05/24 03:12 PM
119

Just the way OP talks already tells me he is not built to have any kind of “affair” fling going. He’d fall in love with this chick and stand outside her house with a boombox if she even gives him any kind of play. For your sake OP, avoid this. Don’t be “hanging out” with women you clearly attracted to… especially when they are married.
/r/seduction17/05/24 12:10 PM
2

OP, you should love yourself more because clearly you don’t.
/r/seduction16/05/24 09:32 PM
1

Emotions? Yeah I would say that dudes are more emotional nowadays to the point where they are starting to sound more like women than men… that’s for sure. Shit man, even this whole thing you all are saying about how it’s normal for men to have their “sex flings phase” and now they feel unfilled and want something more serious… do you all know who commonly say shit like that? You got it… women talk like that. “Omg girl, I’m done with my Hot Girl Summers… I feel so sad and alone… gotta find myself…
/r/seduction12/05/24 03:41 PM
1

This is simply going over your head. Men who naturally date women and keep things casual at the start are typically men that aren’t focused on getting themselves into serious relationships. If they meet that one woman they actually like and she shows consistency during the hooking up phase, then you both naturally see each other more and it becomes more than a casual arrangement. These types of men are good with women and can have any pick. And if OP’s numbers are actually real, then OP wouldn’t…
/r/seduction12/05/24 12:38 PM
0

I’m completely chill, man, but honestly I just don’t understand how you all are dating… All your relationships with women you are attracted to should be starting off as a casual fling… the thought of initiating a serious commitment with a woman should really only be considered when she is actually showing consistency with you and if she’s a woman that’s willing to put in the work to be your help mate. I would rather you guys just be honest and admit that you are struggling to hold onto these wom…
/r/seduction12/05/24 05:05 AM
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Just get your T-levels checked.
/r/seduction12/05/24 04:36 AM
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Mate, the fact that you are telling us right now that you are seeking a relationship… you’ve ALWAYS had that mindset… that’s why your story doesn’t make sense. Dudes that are actually getting laid with multiple women aren’t thinking about relationships… until one of the women they are sleeping with is showing consistency and girlfriend material… then at that point, it comes NATURALLY that they see each other more and more and months later, he makes it official with that woman. You, in the other …
/r/seduction12/05/24 04:21 AM
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Dude, all I can say is that the way you are “dating” isn’t what a man who has the mindset of seeking a relationship behaves, that’s why I think this whole post is sus. Out of the 40-50 women you were with, have you continued seeing any of them? What about the 20 or so women you slept with… have they come back for more — are they reaching out to you? Or were these all one-night stands? Also it seems like there isn’t much of a reason to hate on dating apps when you met all these women using these …
/r/seduction12/05/24 03:58 AM
1

No I am not. This Reddit account is older than his YouTube channel.
/r/seduction12/05/24 03:38 AM
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Dude… it’s just sex… You make yourself sound like you are an aging porn star that has fucked hundreds of women in the span of 25 years and you now have this indifference for sex and dating… Either you need to check your T-levels in your next doctor’s visit or you need to get yourself off that high horse because sleeping with 20 women in one year shouldn’t be switching up your mood in this manner.
/r/seduction12/05/24 03:27 AM
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Because he’s making shit up.
/r/seduction12/05/24 03:14 AM
2

The way OP talks shows why he’s struggling so much with women. Hate to say it man, but your brain has been rotted by the internet. The way you describe yourself and how you compare yourself to other dudes… I can smell the insecurity through my phone.
/r/seduction12/05/24 03:03 AM
0

But you are concerned about other dudes’ feelings. You commented about my tonality on my advice rather than the actual advice. This is going over your head, bud, I hope you have a great night!
/r/seduction11/05/24 02:31 AM
0

I know you didn't ask me about my sleeping, you goober. It's a saying. I'm not concerned about people's opinions on my advice, how it bothers their feelings, and that I'm sleeping peacefully at night with no thought about any of this. It's looking like you might be the one who needs to work on your reading skills. And how is telling you to focus on yourself a teenager thing? You are worried about other men's feelings and how they will be negatively impacted by HOW I'm typing my advice out... if …
/r/seduction11/05/24 01:45 AM
1

My approach isn't going to suit everyone and I personally do not care how you take it. And don't worry, I'm sleeping just fine and I'm not bummed at all about no one liking my advice. I'm simply calling out weak shit, which apparently not too many of you are used to. Focus on the advice given. Don't worry about the tone and ESPECIALLY don't worry about how other people take my tone and my advice. Focus on yourself.
/r/seduction10/05/24 07:33 PM
4

And who cares? Not everyone is going to like you. Stop living in fear of everyone liking your ass.
/r/seduction10/05/24 03:43 PM
3

Right, except for all those times when the reason actually is as simple as they don't like you. News flash. Not every woman is going to like you and that shouldn’t bother you. Stop living your life in fear of having every woman you are attracted to like you and just do you. If you are attracted to her, approach, hand her your number, ask her to hit you up so you can set up a date. If she reaches out, cool. If she doesn’t, cool. It ain’t that serious, man. Stop looking at a cute woman and imagini…
/r/seduction10/05/24 03:38 PM
5

And them choosing not to be involved with you could be for ANY reasons that might not even relate to you! Here, let me list some out: she’s a lesbian her pet dog died last night and she is simply not in the mood she’s getting back with an ex and wants to focus on the relationship she thinks YOU are too good for HER and her insecurities are telling her to pull out of the situation Honestly, I could go on and on but you get the point. Anyways, the reason shouldn’t matter at all. If she is choosing…
/r/seduction10/05/24 11:34 AM
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Because he thinks a complete stranger choosing to not associate with him is a "rejection". It's a pessimistic way of seeing things because it puts you in a negative mindset. You are telling yourself in your head "that woman doesn't want me", instead of "that woman is missing out". If you love yourself, which one are you telling yourself?
/r/seduction10/05/24 12:57 AM
2

I just don't comprehend how you, a person who supposedly had plenty of FWBs, doesn't understand what I'm saying... You would think you would know precisely what I'm talking about due to your experience, but apparently, you've been treating your FWBs like you are their boyfriend and you've had absolutely no drama come out of it. Next, you'll tell me that your FWBs' nipples feel like sandpaper. Yes, go ahead and grab a coffee with your FWB, catch up on life, laugh, enjoy yourselves, invite her bac…
/r/seduction09/05/24 11:46 PM
0

You are investing way too much valuable time with someone who's supposed to be simply a FWB. Going on road trips with the boys is completely different from going on a road trip with a woman you are having sex with because you are showing her you are willing to dedicate HOURS (even days, depending on how long this road trip is) of your time with this woman, which shows her that you are willing to commit your time to her. That's boyfriend energy. But of course, dudes with little experience and nev…
/r/seduction09/05/24 10:44 PM
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lol bud, why are you even asking questions if you’ve never had a FWB? Focus on getting a girl first before you bother anyone with your amateur questions.
/r/seduction09/05/24 09:58 PM
2

Well, genius, the whole point of you and her being FWBs is to hang out for a bit, catch up, fuck, then you both go on your separate ways. Going on dinner dates, taking her out to road trips, doing activities for hours on end… that’s all boyfriend behavior and at some point, most of the time, one of you are going to get all in your feelings. If that is your intention, then cool, proceed with this. But if OP wants to keep this as a FWB arrangement, he can’t be giving boyfriend energy to this woman…
/r/seduction09/05/24 09:42 PM
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It’s not rejection. You gave her an opportunity to get to know you and she didn’t take it. Move on. Stop hating yourself, OP.
/r/seduction09/05/24 09:13 PM
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It’s mindblowing that this advice is being upvoted this much and it really shows how people have absolutely no clue how to properly manage relationships. First of all, that first sentence is dumb af. Last time I checked, women can’t have sex with a man unless a man’s dick is hard. Of course, there are a lot of thirsty dudes willing to have sex with any woman, even if she treats him disrespectfully, so I guess your saying is for the average dude who lives in scarcity. Second of all, you shouldn’t…
/r/seduction09/05/24 08:39 PM
1

I get it, you gotta save that energy to jump through women’s hoops. You do you.
/r/seduction07/05/24 12:31 AM
1

What makes a woman "high-value" to you? I gotta hear this, because you apparently will compromise on your own values and happiness to make this kind of woman happy.
/r/seduction06/05/24 03:21 PM
1

You are a man that compromises with women, calling certain women “high-value”… what makes her high-value, by the way? If you can answer that, I would appreciate it. Most women, especially straight women, want to FOLLOW a man. You are supposed to be the leader… the rock of the relationship. She wants to COMPLIMENT your life, she doesn’t want to actually lead you to do shit she wants to do. When a woman wants you to compromise to her needs, she doesn’t see you as the guy. She’s settling with your …
/r/seduction06/05/24 01:02 PM
1

lol compromise. And this is why women don’t take you seriously.
/r/seduction06/05/24 10:20 AM
-1

Knowing my own value. A lot of you men are a lot more valuable than you think. Unfortunately, social media and Reddit has made men compare themselves to other dudes, just like women. Soon enough, commercials will be advertising makeup for men in order to looksmax 😂
/r/seduction05/05/24 06:59 PM
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Well yeah… if she’s going out with you… Joking aside, why do you hate yourself, Tovo34? EDIT: The folks that actually agree with Tovo, I do feel bad that you've never witnessed a woman who was actually into you and you have to depend on what SHE wants to do to make her happy. It's a sad reality for you. I do recommend laying off the loser 'red-pill' content and work on yourselves so you get to the point where you are living the life that YOU want to live and you invite women to tag along to expe…
/r/seduction05/05/24 03:01 PM
25

Once again, if your date likes you, she’ll have fun no matter what you are doing. YOU are the vibe. The fact that you don’t see this is why you depend on your surroundings to entertain your date because you know, deep down, you ain’t fun.
/r/seduction05/05/24 01:00 PM
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You make it sound like we are supposed to entertain these women like we are clowns. Do whatever YOU want to do and invite her to tag along with you. If she likes you, she doesn’t care what you both are going to do, she simply wants to be with you.
/r/seduction05/05/24 11:33 AM
4

Who beats around the bush here? You do. I’ve had sex on plenty of first or second dates and also after 5th or 6th but we had still kissed on the first or second. I truly don’t get it. You are making out with women on the first or second date, and it takes five dates to have sex with them… and you say you are a good kisser lol. I just don’t think I’m entitled to sex because I’ve gone on a second date with someone, that’s too fast for a lot of stable people. Who said I’m entitled? She has every ri…
/r/seduction03/05/24 09:39 PM
2

Damn I just got the ick from that first paragraph, that’s a wild thing to type out and then hit reply on man. Oh boy, let’s see how the dude who beats around the bush sees things. That’s a very entitled way to look at it, I really really just can’t relate. I make my intentions known but I’m not so thirsty I can’t wait a few days for a drink. Not thirsty either, bud. I simply respect my time. I just prefer seeing women who are attracted to me. Most women who are incredibly into me have always had…
/r/seduction03/05/24 08:52 PM
5

Come over to do what? Watch TV in your living room? Play UNO? Hangout? Talk about your past relationships? Make your intentions much more clearer. This whole “beating around the bush” shit is going to get you guys in trouble someday. Once again, that woman already knows if she wants to fuck you or not. Wouldn’t you want to know if you both are fucking when you invite her back to your place? Or are you the same like every other average dude who invites her to their place and watches two Netflix e…
/r/seduction03/05/24 08:37 PM
1

At the end of the day, I make my intentions known with women. I understand if sex doesn’t happen after the first date, that’s perfectly fine and we might need some more time to feel each other out. But on the second date, I do make it known that after our date, I’ll be bringing her back to my place to have sex, and if she’s not up for it, I just know she’s not that attracted to me and I simply move on. You can play the whole “beat around the bush” and get women to eventually like you enough afte…
/r/seduction03/05/24 08:32 PM
13

Guys… if she is giving resistance to the idea of going back to your place, she ain’t into you like that. If you’ve had two dates and she is pushing back on the idea of having sex, she isn’t sexually attracted to you and you are basically on the “Backup Plan Shelf” until a better guy comes along.
/r/seduction03/05/24 07:03 PM
3

Not really; just a passive way to tell someone that you have a feeling would inconvenience them. People are so used to saying 'sorry' for the tiniest things to avoid conflict, that this passive behavior literally becomes integrated into their personality and they stop realizing they are being soft.
/r/seduction03/05/24 05:02 PM
3

You might think it was great sex, but she might’ve thought otherwise lol A guy getting attached with a woman this quickly and you’ve only had sex with her once already tells me that even if she gave you a half-assed blowjob, you’d bust and tell her that was the best BJ you’ve ever had.
/r/seduction03/05/24 12:28 PM
16

It’s always good practice to avoid saying the word “sorry” unless you actually mean it.
/r/seduction03/05/24 12:26 PM
45

This is bad. Just keep it as “I don’t do social media.” Apologizing and then hoping she doesn’t see it as a deal breaker is passive behavior.
/r/seduction03/05/24 11:30 AM
-1

The fact that you want women to initiate with you is a problem.
/r/seduction03/05/24 12:31 AM
13

You call yourself a loser and you compare yourself with other dudes… Yeah man, you need therapy at this point.
/r/seduction03/05/24 12:20 AM
2

Would you offer this same kind of treatment to women you DON’T find attractive? That is the difference. You are giving this special treatment (offering her a ride) for a reason. What is that reason? THAT’S what makes you the “nice guy”. You can pretend to be doing that stuff from the goodness of your heart, but we know there is a hidden agenda to it.
/r/seduction03/05/24 12:05 AM
1

Using your analogies, Durant is still one of the best players in his era. Just because he isn’t Kobe or Jordan doesn’t mean he isn’t elite Yes, he's one of the best, but he could've been a legend if he worked on his mindset as hard as he worked on his basketball skills. I'm sure he'll become a Hall of Famer but when he has long retired, people will talk more about Steph Curry and Jimmy Butler, because they just had IT. With game, just because a guy doubts himself in the face of experience doesn’…
/r/seduction01/05/24 04:24 PM
1

Just because you have the athleticism, doesn’t mean you are THAT guy. Kevin Durant is a great baller, but we can admit that what prevented him from being the best ever was his insecurities and allowing others to get into his head for “riding on the coat tails of Steph Curry” which made him make a terrible decision leaving a great thing. His mindset was weak and it cost him a great deal of success. Now let’s think about men like Michael Jordan, Kobe Bryant, Larry Bird. You could tell those mother…
/r/seduction01/05/24 03:17 PM
1

It is normal to have hot streaks and dry spells. Even a man who understands the game will encounter weeks where it isn’t hitting. And that’s perfectly fine. The difference between a man who has game and who doesn’t have game is that one man doesn’t even think about “streaks” when it comes to women. He lives his life for the purpose of making himself happy and if it leads him into a dry spell, he doesn’t give two shits. He has his rules / boundaries, he can simply do him and if he encounters wome…
/r/seduction01/05/24 01:45 PM
1

The point is that you typed that out as if it was a good text example. Relating with a woman by texting like a woman isn’t going to get you anywhere. And I love how you ended up editing your original comment and removing the Omg!. Good stuff.
/r/seduction29/04/24 10:49 AM
1

The guy should’ve simply asked her out via text and avoid the “joking around” over text. I don’t think replying back to her with that text suggestion you gave will do him any favors… he’d be coming off like a chick with that “omg!” And “So excited for u!”
/r/seduction29/04/24 10:40 AM
4

When did I say you’re worried? I’m just saying you gotta loosen those panties a bit.
/r/seduction28/04/24 09:24 PM
3

Says the dude who got all in his feelings when that girl didn’t give you some play first before asking you to take 2 minutes out of your job to check if her keys are in Lost and Found. I think you are a tad bit confused what is actually crossing boundaries and what is a simple request.
/r/seduction28/04/24 09:22 PM
13

Dude wtf you talking about? She simply asked if she left her keys at your workplace? That’s it. What… she needs to entertain your ass and appease your fragile ego before she’s allowed to ask you for a tiniest favor like checking if your workplace has her keys at Lost and Found? She’s not being disrespectful with that request so I have no clue where you are bringing boundaries from.
/r/seduction28/04/24 04:54 PM
3

If you don’t see yourself as worth it, you are putting women on a pedestal and you will never be successful with women. OP, why do you hate yourself so much?
/r/seduction28/04/24 11:33 AM
14

You all really need to stop calling these moments as “rejections” and call them “missed opportunities for that woman”. Love yourself, gentlemen.
/r/seduction27/04/24 08:42 PM
0

I thought the fuck up was admitting that he, a grown ass man, has Snapchat.
/r/seduction27/04/24 01:41 PM
23

The fact that you are this outcome dependent when it comes to women tells me that you place women on a pedestal. Why you hate yourself so much, OP? Faint feeling of voidness and nothingness? Because of women? If women have this much influence of you, you never had these women in the palm of your hand. They had YOU on the palm of THEIR hands.
/r/seduction26/04/24 11:32 AM
0

Not overthinking it. If you have to pretend that a woman sees value in you, that already tells me you truly don’t see value in yourself. If you have to pretend that you have value, that should already tell you that you have a lot of internal work that you need to get done. Let’s face it, there are a lot of insecure men on Reddit, especially on this subreddit, that treat women like puzzles and using “seduction tactics” and “personal mind games” to appear confident and trick women into believing t…
/r/seduction26/04/24 11:26 AM
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Because you are PRETENDING that the woman sees value in you, when you should ALWAYS see value in yourself. You just move so much more differently when you don’t care how others see you in terms of value, and you just know you are the shit, but that’s the thing… if you actually have to “fake it til you make it” like the shit advice in OP’s thread, you still have a LOT of internal work you need to get done.
/r/seduction26/04/24 11:19 AM
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There are healthier and much better ways to improve yourself so you have a better mindset. Playing imaginary games like telling yourself that the girl you going out with just paid you $8000 to be there with her is just next level stupid. What’s next? I’ll see a post on here that we should put a banana down our pants and pretend it’s a real cock so we feel more confident?
/r/seduction26/04/24 03:48 AM
3

This gotta be the dumbest advice yet.
/r/seduction25/04/24 11:40 PM
18

I just don’t get why there are dudes out there that want to date or even have sex with women like this… OP, why you hate yourself so much?
/r/seduction25/04/24 11:37 PM
23

This. These women are realizing this guy doesn’t get any women from all the texting he’s doing. What are you doing, OP? Ask them out.
/r/seduction25/04/24 10:16 PM
10

Wait WAIT! You are talking about YOUR WIFE?! Ohhhhh my God!
/r/seduction22/04/24 10:38 PM
14

OP, you need a punch in the chest because this post makes you look like an absolute chump. You’d actually be doing that woman a lot more of a favor by dumping her at this point.
/r/seduction22/04/24 09:50 PM
10

The fact that you are holding back and not displaying your true self to the world is the reason why women find you unattractive. Shit man, your first paragraph already gave you the answer to your problem. You don’t bother talking to women because you believe they will eventually find you unattractive and move on… the fact that have that mindset makes YOU unattractive. Women can smell a man’s insecurity from far away and if I can tell you are insecure in this post, women can tell you ain’t that g…
/r/seduction22/04/24 12:40 PM
4

All I can say is don’t worry about frames. Worry about knowing yourself and improving yourself. You should always be YOU no matter the situation you are in. If you are an anxious person and you have to tell yourself to put on a masculine frame to be more confident, you are fucking up. Work on those weaknesses so you are a confident man at all times.
/r/seduction18/04/24 11:00 AM
-1

See, looks like you are in your feminine frame with that “Lollllllll…” response. Switch to the masculine frame and have an actual conversation.
/r/seduction18/04/24 10:48 AM
0

You can tell OP watches red-pill content on YouTube and hates himself. EDIT: OP blocks me because he's in his feelings. Perfect example why he struggles with women.
/r/seduction18/04/24 10:46 AM
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Personally, I think this whole “frame” talk is fucking stupid. You are either a man or you are not. This whole “gotta be in your masculine frame” in front of women to attract them blows my mind when you actually think about it… so what… you are feminine when you are by yourself or with your boys? People who say that they have different frames clearly don’t know their own identity and should stick to going to art galleries if they like frames so much.
/r/seduction18/04/24 10:22 AM
0

I’m just going to tell you this… I would confidently say that most women are FREAKS. They have much more nerve endings on their pussies than a man’s penis AND women are much more stimulated sexually when their emotions are impacted so doing freaky shit EXCITES things. Unfortunately for that woman you are with, she doesn’t realize just yet that she’s with an insecure judgmental vanilla dude. Shame. Add some spice to your bedroom skills, OP.
/r/seduction17/04/24 04:22 AM
2

Never said it’s difficult. I’m saying your descriptive stories are fantasies.
/r/seduction16/04/24 04:35 PM
1

Bud, you might be convincing inexperienced dudes with your stories but I know you are not that guy. Your latest story is full of shit as well. I can smell the bullshit from miles away on what you are doing, what you are saying, how you are behaving, especially you thinking that you can simply make out with women (especially Japanese women in their homeland as a foreigner) right in front of her friends within a few minutes and pulling that off several times in a couple nights, I can go on and on.…
/r/seduction16/04/24 12:17 PM
5

Can’t a man just have some quick fun with a girl then leave to continue meeting other people and let preselection kick in? What happened to the abundance mentality this sub roots for? Ever heard of logistics? (I bet you did since y’all seem so active on this sub) My man is in another country, having fun, exploring, and letting go. It's the equivalent of watching a fisherman have his line shaking violently and he doesn't even attempt to pull in the fish. What is even the point? If he doesn't have…
/r/seduction15/04/24 04:17 PM
8

No, he had his fun by singing along with this girl and her friends lol. That’s what he meant. Tbh, I wouldn’t be surprised if he paid for everything and the group took advantage of it.
/r/seduction15/04/24 02:56 PM
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lol I’m sorry but I can’t. He’s making out with random women in front of their friends then he decides to walk away instead of striking when the iron is hot? Dude is probably standing in the corner of this bar, with a drink in his hand, imagining these scenarios in his head and sharing his daydream stories with us.
/r/seduction15/04/24 11:15 AM
18

So… um… did you actually bring a woman back to your hotel and smash? You seem to be getting all this attention but from reading what you are writing, you really are not doing anything with it except going to karaoke with one of the girl’s friend group.
/r/seduction15/04/24 10:45 AM
2

4 months ago… jfc man…
/r/seduction14/04/24 11:46 AM
3

That is true, but it is mostly true I am open and true to myself, I might do cold as hot approach, that is not a big deal for me. But usually it 'doesn't work' because they are not interested in me unless somehow I can make them laugh or they feel comfort and then rapport. Can we please stop calling it cold or hot approach when all you are simply doing is talking to a woman? The fact that you guys put this "cold approach" and "hot approach" terminology to something as basic as walking up to a wo…
/r/seduction24/03/24 05:21 PM
14

I can tell from your first sentence that you’ve never tried it and you beat around the bush with women. Like the typical average dude. Also, when you give it a try, don’t do it a few times and stop. Make it part of YOU because trust me, in the long term, it’s greatly beneficial for your own character to be a go-getter and not some chump who takes forever to do shit because they are too scared to go for it. Also, why are you even saying “rejection”? The woman doesn’t even know you. For all we kno…
/r/seduction24/03/24 01:18 PM
26

Treat every woman the exact same way. Don’t fucking use these gimmicky-ass techniques, depending on her “hotness” level. You actually want to stand out from the crowd of average dudes that these women deal with. Why not be authentically you? Why not tell her your actual intentions with her? That is a much bigger fresh of breath air to ALL women than these ridiculous seduction techniques that you deploy depending on her looks… Playing the aloof act is not going to work. To actually be “aloof”, yo…
/r/seduction24/03/24 09:51 AM
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OP, I highly recommend toning out these incels from telling you to “think of yourself less”. All these dudes hate themselves and you, being a man that is confident in himself, is a threat to them because you are someone who they aren’t. A confident man. Anyways, your issue is that you are coming off too gentle. When women see you as boyfriend material, it is simply that you behave too much like someone she can see settling down with and you don’t have any edge coming out of you. You beat around …
/r/seduction23/03/24 02:05 AM
1

So you thinking she had sexual interest in you means she’s now invested in you… No offense dude but that sounds creepy.
/r/seduction21/03/24 10:51 PM
8

All I’m reading is that she said hello to you enthusiastically and that’s it. Then one day you finally say something more than a ‘hello’ and asked for her number, you texted her and she didn’t reply. Thats it. Not much investment whatsoever from the both of you. It ain’t that serious. She’s not interested so simply be professional, say your hello, and keep it chill. If she changes her mind, she’ll reply back (but honestly don’t count on it).
/r/seduction21/03/24 10:20 PM
8

Lower her investment? Dude, all you both did was say Hello at each other in the hallways lol
/r/seduction21/03/24 10:12 PM
0

I read some of this and honestly dude, I genuinely don’t think you have much experience with women to be writing up this entire thesis on what makes a woman attracted to a man. Women need to be comfortable with you? Nah dude, I’ve had my fair share of one-night stands and we were simply sexually attracted with each other and we fucked. I wouldn’t allow any of my one-night stands stay overnight at my place because I wouldn’t want to be sleeping beside a complete stranger. A good chunk of those wo…
/r/seduction20/03/24 04:54 AM
1

OP, you didn’t take the lead whatsoever in both situations. Just be careful moving forward because you seem like the prime guy for a malicious woman to pull you into an alleyway so you get robbed by dudes. Yes, women love sex. Women want a man to lead. Those examples you gave were fortunate situations that ended well for you but moving forward, YOU should be directing things and not these ladies.
/r/seduction19/03/24 11:39 AM
7

The modern men are now women.
/r/seduction15/02/24 03:47 PM
2

Wow… OP, stay away from this woman.
/r/seduction22/08/22 12:03 PM
2

... You are kidding me, right?
/r/seduction05/12/14 02:43 AM
13

She definitely wants you to slap her ass.
/r/seduction25/05/14 05:16 AM
1

because I'm a needy little bitch who thinks he will never get a girl No wonder your girlfriend isn't attracted to you. With that kind of mindset, you won't be attracting anyone. Work on yourself.
/r/seduction24/02/14 10:56 PM
2

No... just... no.
/r/seduction19/01/14 02:27 PM
16

Sounds like oneitis. Give her space to work out her own life and you continue living your life.
/r/seduction01/09/13 02:08 PM
2

How do you even have upvotes? This is terrible advice... This is the worst kind of showing vulnerability. It shows neediness, which makes you look unattractive. You might want to read Models for your own good. Sorry if I come off harsh, just tough love.
/r/seduction23/08/13 11:14 AM
115

Make sure to also support Mark Manson by purchasing his book. It really isn't that expensive.
/r/seduction31/07/13 10:05 PM
2

I hate you.
/r/seduction15/07/13 12:41 AM
9

Sorry if I came across harsh. I can't stand the "cringing" feeling.
/r/seduction14/07/13 03:10 PM
30

This is so pathetic, it's almost hard to believe it.
/r/seduction14/07/13 02:54 PM
1

This is a great video... but this has been posted here on Seddit almost twice a week. It's also a top post on this very subreddit. C'mon fellas.
/r/seduction09/07/13 04:54 PM
4

Whooooooosh
/r/seduction27/03/13 09:45 PM
12

You seem like a fun guy at parties.
/r/seduction25/03/13 11:05 PM
0

Can the moderators please ban this guy? He's spamming, just so he can get some traffic on his website. His original post: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1agn52/how_to_be_cocky_funny/
/r/seduction17/03/13 08:12 PM
2

Does anyone else think that the example used is pretty terrible? If I was the woman in that situation, I would think the guy is a creep... It just feels incredibly rehearsed.
/r/seduction17/03/13 02:04 PM
14

I shook my head when you spelled "your" wrong and got it right the second time around (in the second image). Other than that, you can't constantly say "Awesome" on everything she says... agreeing with doriangreat on that one.
/r/seduction12/03/13 12:54 AM
1

You OBVIOUSLY buy your girlfriend drinks when you want to... We are talking about when you should buy drinks for other girls. If the girl is a friend of yours, feel free to offer to buy a drink. But if you do not know the girl at all, don't buy.
/r/seduction10/03/13 08:16 PM
1

Whoosh!
/r/seduction10/03/13 02:07 PM
9

I hate using the word 'retarded' but man, your advice was retarded.
/r/seduction03/03/13 04:42 PM
2

Exactly.
/r/seduction24/02/13 11:10 PM
2

lol If you said "Please respond", you will put yourself in a MUCH BIGGER hole.
/r/seduction24/02/13 10:32 PM
2

Yeah man, because how one guy dances is clearly how every guy in the United States dances.
/r/seduction13/08/12 02:00 PM
1

Lolwat
/r/seduction07/08/12 05:01 PM
10

Respect the man's privacy.
/r/seduction24/07/12 11:33 AM
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