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AlexGreenleaf/r/askMRP12/07/19 05:01 PM
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AlexGreenleaf/r/askMRP18/07/18 08:55 AM
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AlexGreenleaf/r/askMRP14/09/18 02:35 PM
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AlexGreenleaf/r/askMRP20/07/18 01:43 PM
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It's some degree of semantics. That being said RC's comment about being wary of anyone saying or selling this made me wonder if RP/MRP has lost it's connection with the past, with those who came before them. MC, DC, RJ, also guys like SteveP and Hypnotica. Clearly the connection is there, via SGM, but it's like where that comes from is forgotten. This particular topic is actually just one example of that. If that is the case it makes me wonder how much RP/MRP are reinventing the wheel and in tha…
/r/askMRP12/07/19 09:22 PM
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Are you familiar with MC?
/r/askMRP12/07/19 06:08 PM
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See my reply to ReddJive for clarification.
/r/askMRP14/09/18 05:49 PM
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I must have been unclear in my post. The post isn't about my marriage or not having to put in any work. I discovered the seduction community over 15 years ago, I've read the sidebar material (or equivalents) including SGM and I've applied it. I turned my marriage to what I wanted it to be. I still messed up in many ways bc managing LTR's was never the strength - and often not the focus - of the community. Things declined and I couldn't figure out what I was doing wrong. Then I found Rollo and MR…
/r/askMRP14/09/18 05:45 PM
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Sorry for going awal for a bit. Thank you, great response and explanation. I agree with the not getting married advice. And I also agree with 'we just have to make the decisions right'. You intend to stay married anyway it seems. By taking the 'can't love a woman' perspective (yes, it's a perspective) you are leaving a lot of value on the table. If everything else is going well for you, it looks like this is the one part where you still can make your decision to stay married 100% right.
/r/askMRP13/08/18 08:40 AM
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She can add value without you being married to her. Rephrasing 1st Q: What value does being married add to your life?
/r/askMRP09/08/18 08:13 PM
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Really a side issue but why 8x reps on your lifts?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/18 07:37 PM
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You sound like you have issues with acceptance. If you can't love a woman, why be married.
/r/askMRP08/08/18 07:26 PM
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Was she always like this? If not then you going Rambo like you did when she was reaching out sexually and giving you comfort tests could be the primary cause. She feels you don't give a shirt about her genuine emotions and will not open up to you about them even if you come at her all touchy feely. This is one of the reasons MRP is TRP on hard mode. If you fuck up with a girl at a bar you learn from that and move on. If you fuck up with your wife you have to stay and clean up your meds and all t…
/r/askMRP02/08/18 11:51 AM
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Yeah that is weird. There's great wisdom here in MRP and on the flip side sometimes you really need the eye-opening slap in the face "stop being a faggot" one liner. But sometimes it's really fucking retarded. Nuance please. You fucking Rambo-faggots. All of you. You hear that?
/r/askMRP02/08/18 11:37 AM
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What is it you don't know? Your stay-plan is the same as the go-plan anyway, don't let this hesitation be your excuse to give up and settle, or to jump ship before you've gone through all the steps to regain her respect (which is the actual problem here).
/r/askMRP25/07/18 07:19 AM
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That's not my definition but it seems to be a big part. Emphasis on 'solve anything'. They think everything can and should be talked about. RP advices not to talk about RP at all, not to DERP and engage in downward spiraling conversations (STFU), to simply go to the gym instead of telling her about your plans to get more fit, to do stuff and not ask for permission. Dread is primarily covert/passive and not overt/explicit. Don't talk to her about fears and negative emotions that will risk her los…
/r/askMRP22/07/18 02:39 AM
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Yeah pretty much this. Remember to not do dread during pregnancy. I'm pretty sure 4 days post pregnancy still counts as pregnancy for this purpose.
/r/askMRP21/07/18 07:20 AM
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I've been with my wife for 17 years now and she still considers me her soul mate. For sure we are where we are despite some of the crappy stuff I've been doing for years, but equally certain we are also here because of some of it (edit: then by definition it's not crappy - what I'm talking about is stuff that seems to be overlooked from an RP perspective). I'm trying to pinpoint exactly what is what so I don't throw out the baby with the bathwater here.
/r/askMRP20/07/18 03:13 PM
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If all you have is EG, yes. If you have both then I don't think so. In my case we had an open marriage at one point. It ended up being me having a GF and her going on a couple of dinner dates and being horrified about what's out there. Also some swinging and threesomes and she wasn't impressed. This is part of what made her conclude I'm the only man for her. She couldn't lie to save her life and is always wearing her emotions on the outside. This is not bragging it's me trying to figure out what…
/r/askMRP20/07/18 03:11 PM
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Ok so this leads me into my theory/perspective. I read The Game in 2005 or so, I was utterly fascinated and being married at the time I set out to figure out how to apply all of this to a marriage. I took a deep dive into PUA and anything related, trying to find the LTR/marriage guides and gurus and whatnot. I quickly realized that most PUAs suck at LTRs. I also found a ton of good stuff that was either from someone who was in fact married and experienced success, or something PUA-ish that was t…
/r/askMRP20/07/18 02:48 PM
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I have some friends like this but they don't boast about the quality of the relationship either. Come to think of it I've never seen someone with what looks like a blissful bluepill marriage in real life so /mrpjourney and casper is prob spot on...
/r/askMRP20/07/18 02:29 PM
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Also some bloggers/relationship advice guys. Goodmenproject (or whatever it's called) comes to mind.
/r/askMRP20/07/18 02:27 PM
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Oh a ton of shit over the years... Apologizing has had various results. Seems it's rarely bad, sometimes meh, then ranging all the up to intense make up sex. I have ideas about which factors influence the outcome but Im curious if there are any RP truths on the topic? Last night I acted like a butthurt child about a comment she made about where to eat. Then I got my act together, made a decision, and we went there. I said sorry I'm such an idiot sometimes. She also apologized, and was tingly for…
/r/askMRP18/07/18 11:20 AM
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It disappears for me too at times. But search for 'married red pill wiki' and then bookmark that one.
/r/askMRP17/07/18 07:21 AM
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You're not special, you are what is called a hardgainer and the problem is twofold: 1) You're not doing it right, you're fucking around with silly high rep exercises and expecting to grow muscle and get stronger, that's not how it works. Get on a solid linear progression lifting program like starting strength, 5x5, Greyskull LP or whatever and get on a subreddit for such a program. Mix in some bodybuilding exercises for hypertrophy (= muscle growth, 6-12 reps per set) if you want to. This is all…
/r/askMRP16/07/18 05:54 AM
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You don't have to shut off your emotions to be in control of them. Learn about Stoicism and figure out the distinction.
/r/askMRP10/07/18 10:20 AM
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