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AlexPhase2/r/seduction27/08/17 11:47 PM
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I'll try and give you a genuine answer here..but the main thing is it seems like you're coming at this from the "what's the perfect thing I can do here" mindset instead of thinking "what do I want". These moments in the club of not knowing what her "intentions" are by doing that can always be awkward, but it comes down to: what am I going to do about it? I'd say shift your mindset to being a bit more shameless. I mean ask yourself, what's the worst thing that can happen here? If you do engage he…
/r/seduction29/11/21 07:09 PM
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Great post, concisely puts it all out there 👏
/r/seduction14/12/18 11:42 PM
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Good points by ManBeast, it comes down to you but i'll go into more detail. Just like the fat chick example, getting laid is the SOLE responsibility and blame of the person who is doing it. BUT, it's obviously much deeper than that. When losing weight, its not just about will-powering your way into shape (cause that never works), there's so many other mental barriers, hormones, habits and environmental factors which can make or break the effort. It's the same way with game/getting laid. At the e…
/r/seduction25/03/18 10:51 PM
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Soo true man! Small goals is the key to building the action taking habit. Even for approaches I'll set the tiniest goals just to get out of my head and start doing SOME action. Once you overcome that initial reluctance to do it the momentum starts rolling. Good Stuff!
/r/seduction31/08/17 02:24 PM
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lol, and I usually never go for girls with guy's but occasionally i'll chat up a friend with his girl or just some random couples who seem cool and notice this!
/r/seduction29/08/17 03:40 AM
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Ya fair enough! It makes sense, I just wanted to know if it was a sign of attraction felt that they wanted to disregard by showing love to their guy. Lesson learned!
/r/seduction29/08/17 03:38 AM
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Damn that was real. Great lesson, I've also learned that it is selfish to keep our desires and genuine comments to ourselves and not give them out to the world. You gotta just give with no expectations or needs from others, and it will come out much easier.
/r/seduction23/08/17 12:49 AM
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Hah I have the same story. Women in public/work will give looks and at least give me something to work with, but when it comes to online it seems like as a black guy I can't get ANYTHING of value smh.
/r/seduction13/08/17 12:38 AM
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Here's the hard and fast answer to sum it all up. In reality, is it easier for taller guys on average to get girls then short guys, yes. But does it really fking matter if your inner confidence is on point and you're a solid guy, NO! Appreciate that you get to play the pickup game on hard mode and still kill it :p From a fellow short boss!
/r/seduction07/08/17 09:15 PM
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All comes down to the vibe and way you present it. If you tell them all un-confident and ashamed of it they'll feel it coming off of you and may judge. But if you throw in some jokes and just say it with no hesitancy or judgement you'll probably get a whole nother reaction. Of course though you don't ever have to mention it to anybody because it's not something that comes up in conversation often, so keep it to yourself for the most part (especially for 1 night stands).
/r/seduction20/07/17 03:45 PM
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Honestly you don't even know how valuable taking that first step was! Even if you sucked don't even worry about it, you opened up a whole new world of possibility for cold approach and proved to yourself that IT IS POSSIBLE and YOU WON'T DIE. Nicely done!
/r/seduction14/07/17 11:51 PM
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Feel those emotions man, accept what happened. There are some really narrow-minded and shitty people out there, just realize that it says waaay more about them then you. You dodged (two) bullets. This is a part of the game though, don't let it affect you emotionally because it is in no way a reflection of your value, so don't let it be. You need to truly accept who and what you are as a person and then other people's shallow comments won't hurt, you'll learn to laugh at them!!
/r/seduction28/05/17 04:20 PM
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It all comes down to fear. You have to be ok with putting yourself out there and POTENTIALLY getting rejected and failing. The scariest thing also yields the biggest reward (getting the girl) and it never ends as badly as we think it does. Teach yourself how to be ok with things not working out, when you deal with this issue this problem melts away forever!
/r/seduction23/05/17 03:49 PM
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haha you're preaching to the choir man... Trust me I've let go of all of my blame towards my dad and moved on from the trauma. Although he really negatively affected me I don't blame him for anything, since I now know the problems he faced. I was simply asking because I don't plan on really having a relationship with my dad from this point on, and was hoping it wouldn't subconsciously affect me if I don't create a positive new relationship with him.
/r/seduction20/05/17 08:38 PM
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That's real stuff man! Any tips on fixing fatherly issues? I don't see myself ever really getting close with my dad, but I don't want to have to deal with subconscious resentment towards other men because of that. Do you think it's crucial to make amends with your father to fully overcome nice guy syndrome?
/r/seduction20/05/17 04:21 PM
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