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alright thanks a lot!!
/r/seduction18/01/20 02:16 PM
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how do I post this properly? The link option has no body for my text
/r/seduction18/01/20 02:12 PM
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My man! Connected to everything - attached to nothing
/r/seduction18/01/20 01:11 PM
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Hey dudes, I created another video answering a reddit question. How to stop giving a girl unnecessary attention without having her becoming disinterested. As always enjoy :)
/r/seduction18/01/20 11:22 AM
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yep. we overthink like crazy!
/r/seduction15/01/20 03:28 PM
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Hey dudes - I answered a question that someone asked here a couple weeks back in video form - give me some feedback and other than that, enjoy :)
/r/seduction15/01/20 03:19 PM
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Maybe there is meaning or maybe not. Wondering about that is putting your attention on the wrong thing.
/r/seduction15/01/20 02:22 PM
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good point
/r/seduction10/01/20 03:22 PM
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i agree, like i said in your other post, i think it's a way better bet to be yourself come what may. and at the end of the day that leads you to better results and more happiness. just make the switch man
/r/seduction10/01/20 03:22 PM
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u got a dm
/r/seduction10/01/20 02:16 PM
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IMO that's the problem with pickup. It's easy to slip into the amateur mindset of doing instead of being. Bro I think there's a way to have your cake and eat it too. Forget "the game", you can be yourself and still keep all the benefits of doing game without having the negatives.
/r/seduction10/01/20 02:02 PM
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what's your goal dude? besides what you said at the end of your original post. what exactly do you want?
/r/seduction10/01/20 01:59 PM
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this.
/r/seduction10/01/20 01:58 PM
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I'm interested in 2 things mainly, high end venues cos that's where the hottest girls and hi value guys are - and to me that means super sharp social skills around me and i love that - and the other thing is almost underground places usually techno music and real people. no facades etc what i'm looking for is super hot girls, or real girls with a bunch of tattoos haha, cool dudes, hi end networking, business opportunities and new experiences of all sorts. ​ obviously what's good for me might not…
/r/seduction10/01/20 01:43 PM
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why?
/r/seduction10/01/20 01:23 PM
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I'm 33, just moved to a new city and creating a brand new social circle and it's going amazing so far. You just have to know what to do. ​ Mainly stay consistent, identify the venues and kind of people you would like to have around and thus relate to the best and easiest and then start offering value and linking people up. ​ That's what I'm helping people with in fact. Don't say this is "probably impossible" guys.
/r/seduction10/01/20 01:22 PM
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doing that forces her to make a decision on you based on what she's seen so far. it might not be in your best interest to do that but some times it works obviously. but there's a way to play more solid
/r/seduction10/01/20 01:17 PM
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a 180 degree change in your life is one decision away bro. go out and get it!!!
/r/seduction10/01/20 01:16 PM
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it might look like this but in my opinion social circles can work for anyone. it's just a matter of putting a couple of things in place first. did you have some kind of strategy when you tried last?
/r/seduction10/01/20 01:12 PM
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There's always gonna be the odd girl that has a problem with that but imo that's not the norm. Not to mention there's a way to have your cake and eat it too. When I was in college I utilized my environment to put in place for me the 3 things girls actually respond to, (which are status, good vibes and great logistics), and in the end not only did I have a bunch of awesome networks and friend groups, I was also able to capitalize and date awesome girls without social repercussions. But yea, on th…
/r/seduction10/01/20 01:08 PM
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Put the 2 girls together. Thank me later. and If she says i'm straight say so is spaghetti until it gets wet. You're probably thinking I'm playing but that's the fucking answer.
/r/seduction08/01/20 09:50 AM
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If a memory older than 18 months still hurts it's because you haven't processed it. Write down your break up in all its painful detail. That will help you. The next thing you'll do is start showing your brain that there's better girls out there (which you haven't yet, that's why you're still being tormented). You can do that by going out consistently and talking to girls you've never met before. If you need help hire a coach cos it'll accelerate everything.
/r/seduction08/01/20 09:48 AM
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Man I'm so sorry to read your post. I'm sorry cos I know how you're feeling right now. Ive been there myself. ​ You need to put yourself in a better situation. You don't have to forget this girl (even though, it doesn't sound like she's into you), but you definitely need to forget this idea of the right girl coming along and making you happy. This works in the movies but real life is VERY different. ​ Here's how I'd go about it: if you know you're meeting her in February, understand that the man…
/r/seduction24/12/19 02:47 PM
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lol I remember a high school buddy of mine telling me his evil plan about using subliminal music to seduce his 3rd cousin. This reminded me of that. ​ Jokes aside, the lack of wisdom here is under -9000. These people are never happy. Oh and if you think mind games work like that you probably fail to see the real psychological mechanics behind what's happening. Which always involve both parties. Just sayin. Check out the narcissist/codependent dynamic around the youtubes for further reference.
/r/seduction29/11/19 08:36 PM
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Namastay
/r/seduction23/11/19 08:53 AM
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We're all too harsh on ourselves brah. We should chill the fuck out lol. Now strike the iron while it's hot and get out and spread some more positive energy.
/r/seduction23/11/19 08:08 AM
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Going out to a bar alone is dope. I assume that's what you did and I would encourage it. Even the John Smith line might work cos it's never about the line, it's about the vibe behind it. We always feel the energy of someone approaching us. And it's not in the words. ​ Here's how you know that your vibes are right: you have complete absence of insecure thoughts as in second guessing what you can and cannot say. the responses you get are on average positive. That doesn't necessarily mean sexual bu…
/r/seduction23/11/19 07:59 AM
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Kudos for taking action man. Later you will see that buying a girl a drink can help you if you're coming from the right place.
/r/seduction23/11/19 07:11 AM
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usually during an intimate moment a girl might give you the triangle look alternating between looking at your left eye, right eye and lips. usually at close physical proximity
/r/seduction23/11/19 07:06 AM
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Aka real life? Lol What’s your question brother?
/r/seduction17/11/19 08:15 AM
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Bro I think you'll get how it works if you stay consistent. When you start going out 3-4 times a week for a couple of months you start seeing the patterns. And if you know what to look for, even better. What kind of venues do you like? Have you tried approaching girls during the daytime? ​ Couple of starters you might wanna look out for: solid eye contact clear vocal projection appropriate touching being social outside of your interaction with her leading (physically towards a different location…
/r/seduction06/11/19 11:17 PM
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Where you can improve depends on what you're looking for. Give me a goal and i'll tell you how to get there.
/r/seduction06/11/19 09:57 PM
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I'm with you, there's a time and a place for the "whole truth" and it's not now. And depression sucks bro, been there. If you're looking to make a long term change, shoot me an email at [[email protected]](mailto:[email protected]) I'll try and help any way I can.
/r/seduction25/10/19 06:13 PM
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You weren't born with a cialis deficiency. But whatever that's my take on this. Wanna hear something completely crazy? You should tell her what you wrote here. And I mean she probably doesn't need to hear the whole story of your life but bro, I bet she wants to get laid as much as you do. Probably more. Here's what's going thru her mind: "Man is a dick machine and usually 100% hard and if 99% or less there must be something wrong with me. I'm probably not hot" How about informing her that you mi…
/r/seduction23/10/19 08:28 AM
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Brother I disagree with you. Not only is there a way to learn what is expected of you in that situation, I would even argue that it's easy to do so. I agree that it might seem really hard to break out of the vicious cycle of lack of confidence that breeds lack of experience, especially since you're approaching 30, and it might feel like "bad habits" are becoming more engrained and harder to get out of. But you have 2 things going for you already: you're getting, and even recognizing the right si…
/r/seduction22/10/19 04:12 PM
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Dead :'D
/r/seduction23/08/19 09:53 AM
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First off, no it's not weird. A date could be literally ANY activity that 2 (or more lol) people do together. What's more important is the context. A girl will always unconsciously "listen" for that. Let me explain: ​ The conteNt of the date is putting together the furniture, however the conteXt is that this is a 2 person team and everyone in it will be assigned a role. If she's a feminine girl, and most girls are, she will respond well if she sees that you take on the role of the leader and lea…
/r/seduction23/08/19 09:38 AM
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