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Dude if she starts talking about other dudes and dancing with other guys when shes on a date with YOU, then congratulations. You found yourself a hoe. Like, is she on a date with them or you? If I were you I would have told her to stop running her mouth about those other guys and comparing you to them, and if she doesn't cut it out, just get up and leave. Let her know you don't deserve to be disrespected like that. Remember; she may have all these options but hot chicks are a dime a dozen too, a…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 11:50 PM
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My mad mate. I didn't mean to make the assumption. I just thought you were a university guy since you mentioned roommates and such. Sorry about that. Anyways I hope this helps.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 11:06 PM
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You're lucky that you're in a dorm where there are so many beautiful young women. In the real world opportunity like that on comes when you hit up the club. When I was going to UC I lived off campus. But I did run day game and I got rejected by and flaked out on by all 20 chicks I hit on (yeah I kept track). The only one I fucked was one that I wasn't even using any of that stupid bullshit to begin with. She just saw me. She's like "I think you're cute", we go back to her place and we shag. My m…
/r/askTRP16/04/18 10:47 PM
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When I am talking to a girl and she is showing zero signs of interest is one. Some more obvious ones include short responses to questions, minimal eye contact, lack of smiling, body is turned away from me, she is rude to me, she doesn't laugh at any of my jokes, when she says she has a boyfriend, when I get her number and I text and call her and she never calls or texts back. These are some pretty obvious ones. Once you've been rejected by enough women you begin to see the patterns compared to w…
/r/askTRP16/04/18 10:09 PM
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Dude its not that complicated. Alot of men around here can't differentiate between token resistance and genuine disinterest. Trust me when I say that you'll know for certain if a girl finds you attractive. The more obvious signs include going out of her way to talk to you, laughing at jokes you're not even making, playing with her hair, blushing, being available ect. But if shes a shy type of girl shes not going to make it this obvious. Quickest way to find out if she likes you or if shes willin…
/r/askTRP16/04/18 10:00 PM
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You wanna get big and ripped? Hope you're willing to put the work in because its not just about working out. You can pack on mass eating like shit, but if you truly want to improve your shape, you're gonna need to watch your diet. There are alot of good workout routines out there. Look into Reg Parks beginner program if you're new to lifting weights. Thats a pretty good one to start with. Otherwise Starting Strength with added accessory exercises is also a good beginner routine. If you want some…
/r/askTRP16/04/18 09:52 PM
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If ya wanna pack on mass ya gotta eat a lot of good food and spend a great deal of time under the iron. If you want I can send you a training routine and a diet blueprint for optimal mass cultivation. In the time being i am off to bed. Thanks for the support mang. Goodluck to your fitness goals and endeavers.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 01:54 AM
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Yeah, that's a pretty good point. I think for men, we're just looking for fertile soil to plant our seed. So we're attracted to a variety of body types and faces. Women want the best of the best however. Which seems to be why they all gravitate towards the same "Chad" looking guy. Guess it's just the counterbalance to men being stronger and inventing tons of cool shit.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 01:49 AM
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Calisthenics is okay (great for building core, chest, and lats), but it's really not enough to develop a well rounded physique. For example, the posterior chain is completely neglected. If I were you I'd include some sort of hip hinge movement in your training, like power cleans. Otherwise pistol squats for quads is decent. You can only go so far without access to free weights. I'm about 5'11" 195 lbs. About 17% bodyfat. Planning on cutting to about 185 while packing on muscle doing full body wo…
/r/askTRP16/04/18 01:45 AM
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Hell yeah man. How long have you been lifting for?
/r/askTRP16/04/18 01:09 AM
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Could you elaborate some more?
/r/askTRP16/04/18 01:00 AM
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Ive gone for HB 8+'s before and its resulted in some of the most brutal rejections that i've ever faced. Majority of the times they have boyfriends already, and if they don't have boyfriends, its because they don't want one. Let me tell you something man. The interaction with the woman will only go as far as the ammunition that she gives you to act off of. Its very difficult to act confident and run game towards a girl that's giving you very short responses, does nothing to keep the conversation…
/r/askTRP16/04/18 12:39 AM
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it’s harder for them to actually get a high quality man to stay with them. From the looks of things, most women don't deserve a high quality man to stay with them because of the way they treat the rest of us. The Chads of the world who pump and dump don't upset me. I'm not mad at the next man for succeeding where I fail, I just don't want to hurt on the inside because of female nature.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 12:23 AM
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Ive heard the confidence advice a billion times and i'm telling you right now it doesn't work. So when I ask out a bunch of women and do exactly what TRP and PUA recommend and follow their guidelines and fail, the fault lies on me and not the material? Confidence doesn't result in success, it is the byproduct of success. The reason why attractive men get laid isn't because they're confident, they're confident because they get laid and because of all of the positive social validation that they ge…
/r/askTRP16/04/18 12:21 AM
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Have you ever tried to shoot a bulls-eye from 100 meters away and missed? Did your archery instructor just tell you you didn't shoot your bow confidently enough with a positive enough attitude. I know what the issue is. I'm not attractive enough. I just need a way to not let this despair consume me.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 12:17 AM
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I do lift. I'm probably stronger than most of the people here. I'm just high bodyfat (16-18% estimate). Trying to get cuts for the sluts at the moment.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 12:14 AM
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I don't want to be a 4. I want to be a 5 or 6 so I can get with 5s and 6s. Then you better get ready to climb to a 7 or a 8, because the only way you're going to fuck anything beyond a 2 or a 3 is if you're exceptionally attractive. Don't just lift; practice talking to women, and be ready to get rejected by like 100 of them before one finally says yes.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 11:28 PM
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This used to bother me as well. And from an objective standpoint; I agree, it is bullshit. But you have to remember; sexuality is not moral, it is not fair. Its about equipping a species with the best traits to survive in its environment. It is true that a woman can get sex easier than men. Id go as far as to say that they can get sex at just about any time; and a man cannot, because women see sex as a tool that they can use against men in attempt to chain them down in the long term and / or acq…
/r/askTRP03/12/17 09:09 PM
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Where do you open them? How do you close them? You don't. They either like you or they don't. You can work on yourself all you want and it will help improve your odds a bit, but at the end of the day, the best way to get women is to A: Be wealthy B: Be in a position of power or authority C: Fake A or B.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 09:59 PM
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First of all cut porn out. Ive done it in the past. Every time I go extended periods of time without watching porn or masturbating; after a couple weeks, I end up getting very sexually frustrated and irritable. Sure it may drive me to go out and approach more, but if i'm never getting a win; even when I am actively trying, all it will do is drive me up the fucking wall. Also, I am able to secure phone numbers, and it seems like I can get them to be receptive from time to time. I just can't seem …
/r/askTRP29/11/17 09:51 PM
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Might doesn't mean right man. Its one thing to not let people disrespect you, and you should certainty call people out on it if they're being a dick. But going around trying to intimidate everyone and make yourself look big only makes you look small to the wise. Also you might be tall, but that doesn't mean you can fight.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 09:45 PM
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I feel the same way as you do right now man. I'm just focused on working on myself; went from approach anxiety to approach apathy after working on cold approaching for a solid 6 months and getting absolutely nothing out of it. In time you begin to see the dating game for the waste of time that it is. Just do you and enjoy life man. Engage your hobbies, work on yourself, work on your career, take care of yourself and take care of your family. Just live for yourself. Women are only attracted to me…
/r/askTRP29/11/17 09:41 PM
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It suck that happened to her, but I don't think that necessarily makes her damaged goods. As long as you treat her right and she treats you right and you're both happy and she doesn't let that trauma keep her from being in a happy relationship with you then there shouldn't be a problem.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 09:15 PM
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Am i fucking stupid for believing this crap? Stupid? Not necessarily if you have a college level education. But naive? Yes. Very very naive. Guarantee you that shes fucking these guys 100%. That is what escorts do; and nobody is going to pay that kind of money unless they're getting nookie by the end of the night. Shes just stringing you along for the emotional support dude. Shes totally taking advantage of you and you gotta cut that shit off. In time your relationship will get toxic; I promise …
/r/askTRP29/11/17 09:13 PM
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shit test You answered your own question. That is exactly what it is. Its just a way that they test your masculinity. If you take it personal or react negatively; in their minds they will perceive you as weak and instantly be turned off by you.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 09:06 PM
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Thats actually not a bad idea. Sounds like a good gig to get into. Ill look into it.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 11:20 PM
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I know and im glad a handful of others like you realise it. I've heard the "mission" advice, I've heard the "just put yourself out there" and "be confident" and "you're too needy. It's bullshit. I have other goals, but having goals isn't helping me get laid. I've been putting myself out there and faking my confidence and fronting like more of a badass than I actually am for a while. It just seems like the only women that will hook up with me are women I wouldn't want to fuck in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 10:11 PM
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Except it’s obviously not something you’re just “doing on the side” otherwise you wouldn’t be so butthurt about not fucking the chicks you want to fuck. I can be frustrated about not succeeding at something that I am practicing to get good at without it being my primary goal in life. If you have ever spend extended periods of time working on a project of some kind, just for it to fall flat on its face, you would understand. You need help finding your mission? Fine. Are you studying for the sake …
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 01:12 AM
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are you aware how many losers, fat guys, stinky guys, guys with shitty personalities, guys without higyene, man bitches, guys with emotional health of 16 yo, insecure guys, guys who need validation...and so on..she have to deal with? Decent, by decent mean ok looking guy with job and emotional maturity of a man, who is also packing some charm, is rare as fucking diamond today. This isn't the majority of the male population though. Were talking about 15% of them on the bottom end of the totem-pol…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 12:42 AM
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Find your mission. This advice means nothing. I'm in school trying to make a career for myself so that I can move out and be a responsible adult without being a wage slave. Thats my mission. Ive learned to play 2 instruments, gotten in better shape, and put myself out there plenty in the last 5 years that I have been out of high school. Running game is just something I'm doing on the side because I was a sexless virgin the 1st 21 years of my life and I am trying to fix it.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 12:23 AM
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Mindless , no standards fucking is easy for anyone. The point is that women don't need money to fuck lots of guys. All they need to do is show up and be willing. As I layed out in my post (albeit its anecdotal), the girl i was with was 2 points below me in terms of physical attractiveness, and she was already able to pull someone within half the time it took me to approach several, and still fail to get any dates (not even talking sex, just a date) with any of them.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 12:21 AM
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what do you exactly want? An attractive girlfriend who will do stuff with me, have sex with me regularly, and will be a good partner to me. Do you feel like you need to fuck a lot of girls? Not exactly. Just a really pretty one from time to time when I want to. I don't care to have 100+ partners. Just however long it takes for me to find the right one.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 08:05 PM
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Not quite. Shes an ex-chunko. Still about 190 lbs. Shes not very visually appealing when the clothes came off. Lets just say that.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 07:00 PM
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Why are posts getting downvoted for?
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 06:58 PM
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So then they want sex; just not with 90% of the male population.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 06:33 PM
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Even if you are not wealthy, you can find a dependant woman and use your money as leverage to get sex. Asian women are usually open to arragements like that, and I can imagine it would work with drug addicts as well. You can of course pay for the sex directly as well. Ah I see. Good old prostitution. I have two problems with that solution. First; I am a broke college student with little money from the work I do get to pay for essentials. I live at home and don't get much more than 16 hours a wee…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 06:29 PM
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It’s unnatural for women to be thinkers, builders, warriors, leaders. You have absolutely no evidence to back this claim. Granted historically this hasn't been the trend; I would argue that has more to do with social roles and preconceived notions of masculinity and femininity. There is nothing physiologically holding women back from doing any of these things. Don’t hold women to the same standards you set for men. Fuck that. You're perpetuating the status quo and you don't even know it. "Just l…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 06:20 PM
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But the desire that men have for sex is 'artificially' enhanced by the fact that there's often sexual scarcity. Desire desires what is scarce. One reason why I think men need sexual options is exactly so they don't spend all their eros/energy on sexual longing. Then its a catch 22. I have a problem (lack of sex, a partner i am actually attracted to) that I am trying to solve, but I can't solve the problem unless I already have steady access (a partner I can regularly see) to the solution. The mo…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 05:43 PM
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The female creature is elusive. The second you make it about your interest in her vagina its over (usually). So you must hide your intentions in the beginning. Learn to flirt, tease, be playful, and tell good jokes. Don't talk about yourself; this will help you stay mysterious to her, plus a true bad ass never needs to flex nuts. Instead, talk about the atmosphere of the environment. Keep strong eye contact with her and a strong posture (chest out, shoulders back, stand up straight). Body langua…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 01:26 AM
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With that mindset; all you are doing is reinforcing this undesirable behavior in the opposite sex. The reason why they act on impulse and get away with it all the time is because society lets them. When women commit a crime or does something shitty, its not taken as seriously. I don't know man; I consider myself a classical feminist. Treat them with the equality they claim to want, which means when they behave in an aberrant fashion; don't make excuses for them just because they're female, hold …
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 02:05 AM
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Okay man I know theres alot of advice in this thread already, but your problems stem much deeper than you being a virgin. The reason why your so sad and feel so unwanted and unloved is because of your low self esteem and victim complex; which of course is reinforced by the douche bags who have bullied you during your life. But you have to understand that once you cross over that edge, once you have had sex for the first time, it really isn't that much different then before. It won't fix your sel…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 01:51 AM
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I don't know man. I think him being a 27 year old virgin is more of a bane than a help. Unless he gets with a girl who is willing to go easy on him and actively ignore all of his awkwardness (which he won't unless he finds someone equally as desperate); he will fail. His timidness and shyness will turn them off if being a 27 year old virgin wont.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 01:31 AM
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Look at your downvotes Lots of bitter men on this forum. You're in good company. You are a dumbass and obviously havent grasped the RP concept What concepts here am I not grasping? What part of the red pill 'rules' am I breaking? Is there something wrong with me taking a step back and thinking for myself and not just blindly following everything that people on this forum say? I come here to get advice on how to be more successful with women, read funny & interesting stories on game, and uplift/m…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 03:40 PM
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When I refer to cuckoldry, I was using the modern definition of it; i.e. cuckoldry as a fetish. I am not here to argue semantics. I wish to genuinely know what is wrong with being a surrogate father? Are you going to insult me or give me a good reason/argument?
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 08:09 PM
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Well that is one definition of it, or moreso the traditional definition of it. Why don't you just respond to my whole post instead of in several pieces?
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 08:05 PM
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Okay ill bite. Whats wrong with raising a kid that isn't your own? If you and the mother care about one another, and you don't mind helping her out with her child, and shes treating you right and you grow a bond with that kid, what is wrong with that?
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 08:02 PM
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Beta cucks are the future of western society and feminists. Conform and allow your self to be cheated on and raise children that aren’t yours. Lot of psychological projection and generalizations in that statement. Also there is nothing wrong with being a father of children that aren't your own if thats something that you are interested in personally. If anything its a good thing because it means those kids will be less likely to grow up fucked up. Beta cucks, we all have been one. your girl come…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 07:40 PM
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Exactly. Close friends and family will be there for you emotionally. Confide in them when you are down in the dumps. Never ever confide your emotions and or secrets in a female.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 06:46 PM
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I agree that you shouldn't make getting sex your primary thought in life and all, but to say its easy and not a skill is arguably wrong. This forum wouldn't exist if it were really that easy. There wouldn't be a huge market for self-help gurus and PUA coaches if this were the case. Prostitution wouldn't be a multi-million (possibly billion, don't quote me on this) dollar industry if this were so true. Truth is that tons of men struggle with this. Female sexuality is plastered all over our (at th…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 04:00 PM
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hired a hooker 5 weeks ago, she was ugly Why? The whole point of getting a prostitute is that you wan't to pay a hot chick to fuck you. Ease of access and such. Why pay an ugly chick for sex? You could pull an ugly one fairly easily, they don't get approached as often so they're usually prone to being more thirsty anyways.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 12:14 AM
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Stop caring about what other people think. That's the first step to being more confident. For now, you're playing a badass. When youre im a stocky sotuation, just think, what would Conan/Han Solo do? Take on their attitude. As for the girls. Can't say. Don't worry about them. There's plenty of others that you can hit on. It just takes practice. You'll learn.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/17 01:17 AM
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Yes. I had social anxiety for a good chunk of my life. It kept me from making friends, meeting women, and communicating with most people on any meaningful level. Its something that you must learn to overcome. Best thing you can do is to just practice talking to people. Join a group of some kind revolving around some of your hobbies. Say hello to people as you pass them when you walk down the street. Learn to smile more. Put yourself in social situations more often and try to find things in commo…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/17 01:06 AM
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Then don't talk about assignments. Like MattyAnon said, you have to lead the conversation where you want things to go with her. You can look up books about it on your own, but the important thing is that you put yourself out there and practice. The more you flirt and learn to chat up women, the better you get at it, it is a skill. The only biggest difference between the 80% of the 'beta male' population and the other 20% of 'alpha males' is that they are sure enough in themselves that they can d…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 06:10 PM
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The problem isn't being 'nice', its not escalating, or coming off as weak/needy, or hopelessly pursuing women that aren't interesting in you. You can have a respectful attitude and get laid, but its not about being nice or being a douche. The reason why 'ass holes' get more sex is because they are more confident and often times know how to talk to women and have had practice in doing so. Also, an ass hole knows hes the shit (know pun intended) and often times knows that dating is a numbers game …
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 05:16 PM
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Bro you got it all wrong. You don't have conversations with women. Thats what friends that you actually have things in common with are for. You flirt with women. You tease women. You make them laugh. And if she digging it, shes gonna smile, blush, play along, and give you all the ammunition you need to keep going. Also kino it up! Im not saying you instantly start touching her and turn into Pepe Le Pew out of nowhere, but you gotta physically escalate (slowly, of course). Start with small stuff …
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 04:38 PM
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Okay. Will do so. Thanks. Finishing my cut under 190 is only half the battle. Next the plan is to lean bulk to 210 - 215 over the next 2 years. I want that Conan the barbarian look. Do alot of guys around here lift?
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 07:06 PM
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Okay. I understand. Starting to chill out. I'm just sick of not getting anywhere with this one thing in my life everybody else seems to manage okay with. What are some good self help books I can pick up?
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 06:51 PM
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Probably not. But it would make me feel a little bit better. Get some revenge since I've put all this work into approaching just to get nothing out of it. I can't tell anybody i know how i feel since weakness is frowned upon, so I'm going to just let my inner rage out abit. Who knows i might end up pulling one with a really low self esteem.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 02:51 PM
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That's the reason why I'm here though. To get advice and support, and your advice sucks because if you actually read my post, you'd know I am putting alot of effort into this, probably too much because of the comments telling me to work on my neediness.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 02:12 PM
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Instead of approaching, introducing myself, talking to them flirting, checking to see if they're responsive, and then asking for the number; just walk up, give them a slap on the ass and tell them "bitch get in my car". Or when they tell me they have a boyfriend, tell em "who gives a shit? I'll fuck you and then he can go fuck himself. Sound good?" you guys keep saying that women don't deserve respect right? So I will stop treating them with it.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 02:10 PM
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Guess it's time to treat women like a thug would then. I really got nothing to lose at this point.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 01:35 PM
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I didn't know you guys had a side bar. I will check it out. Thanks for the support. No I play guitar and bass because I genuinely want to get better at them. I just threw that hobby out there because pathfinder, magic the gathering, and video games don't qualify as "girl approved hobbies" that make you a slayer.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 01:33 PM
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Thanks for the advice. I am 16% bodyfat so I am by no means overweight btw. I'm cutting down to 190 though.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 12:33 PM
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So I'm not allowed to be a decent human being to the opposite sex?
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 01:58 AM
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How in the world does it not count? Intercourse is taking place between two individuals. One way or another everyone has to pay for sex or put some work into it in order to get sex.
/r/seduction12/01/17 10:04 PM
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Having sex will definitely help you get over that initial bump. Before I give you a concise answer, let me tell you a little bit about my experience because I can relate to you on this. I was a virgin until I turned 21, and right around my 21st birthday I was considering hiring a prostitute. I was in the same boat as you were, socially awkward, watched porn and masturbated frequently, scared to approach women, didn't have alot of friends who go out alot and I still don't. After a period of time …
/r/seduction12/01/17 09:52 PM
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