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Loooove it!!!
/r/seduction19/05/26 03:36 PM
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And fake boobs are gross.
/r/seduction11/05/26 04:08 PM
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Sex with strangers is generally awful, or mediocre at best. I sort of recommend at least going through it a bit just to make sure you’re not missing out on anything years down the road. But not necessary. It’s pretty simple. Sex with someone you love is better, and it gets better as you get to know what each other likes. Be happy with what you have.
/r/seduction06/06/24 09:13 PM
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Stop trying and focus on having an amazing life. From having great friends to a great career and hobbies and adventures. Women are naturally drawn to those things, obviously. Would you date yourself? Be the person you’d want to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 03:00 PM
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You remind me of a friend from high school. He was a geek. The biggest loser in school. He had some weird flaws that just got him to be made fun of. But he was smart and we got along so we were friends. The girls he went after boggled my mind. He only went after the hottest most popular girls. Not only would they never go out with him, they were totally valid morons that completely wrong for him. Luckily I knew better and went for girls that were different. I agree that many women are like that.…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:45 PM
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I’ve been to Vegas and everyone there was a literal troll. Men and women. Maybe there was some secret room with hot people but I didn’t see it.
/r/seduction10/05/23 10:36 AM
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It was a joke for staters, but since you went there, you’re response is extremely American centric. Yet you used the term “world”. So you’re aware that there is a world outside the US, but you… forgot it exists?? It’s an Italian word and now used in many countries to describe poor areas made up of a multitude of ethnicities. Originally Jewish but now used in countries like Slovenia and Romania with similar versions of the word in German, French, Yiddish and others. The US as well and while the U…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 02:07 AM
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Found the time traveller! In 2023, “ghetto” refers to poor areas of which we have many. It is no longer tied to any particular ethnicity. Enjoy the rest of your stay in the future. Try not to sleep with your great granddaughter!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 08:22 PM
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I don’t hold women to a lower standard. But I do hold men to a higher standard if that makes sense. I ultimately accept everyone as they are, male or female. I just have less patience for men that are lazy, dim witted, overly emotional or irrational, or whiny. I expect men to sort themselves out, but know when to ask for help and not be overly prideful.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 12:05 PM
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I think this whole thing has / will backfire. All the gentlemen will obey the current rule of women not wanting to be approached and just not approach women. Which mean, only assholes will continue to approach women. Women will start to think that all guys that approach them are assholes. They will complain even more that they’re getting harassed by shitty men. Thus ensuring that ONLY the very worst men will approach women. The only way for women to meet good men is though friend circles. The ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 05:25 PM
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You’d think so. But it’s just a normal Canadian suburb. Low crime. No ghettos. Middle to upper class. Just guys being assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 05:05 PM
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Not sure if you’re being sarcastic or not, but when I was growing up in a sleepy suburb, I remember always thinking when I was walking home late at night that I wished I was a woman cuz I’d feel safer. Guys would cold call our female friends, but usually nothing came of it. Not the same with guys. You’re pretty much just a dude walking by that they can practice fighting with. Guys were always getting jumped. I hated fighting but was forced to learn to fight and forced into many fights. Once in f…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 02:21 PM
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How is that working out? It may have worked in your case, but I know many women that married the hot guy and it ended horribly. Then married a second hot guy. Got divorced again. Now happily married to a 5 foot tall chubby dude. Not that NOT marrying a hot guy will guarantee a better life. I think it’s more that women just choose poorly when they’re younger. Some of them anyways. Either they don’t know what they want, choose based on looks, ignore red flags, think they can change the man. Men DO…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:07 PM
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Even worse is that they incentivize black mothers to be “married to the state” and raise children without fathers to collect money. Black people really need to stop voting democrat. Or at least get wise to the scam and fight back.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:00 PM
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No offence taken! Marriage is work! I never wanted to take my marriage for granted and just assume my wife has to stay attracted / interested just because we’re married. I like to see how others handle seduction and keep things spicy in their marriage / relationships.
/r/seduction18/11/21 12:40 AM
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This!
/r/seduction18/11/21 12:35 AM
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It’s not disgusting. People have crushes. It doesn’t make the person a lunatic. I’d the person is into you on the end, it doesn’t matter what you did to get their attention. Despite what people say in 2021, there ARE NO RULES in love. If you don’t play the game, be prepared for someone else to end up with your crush. Before I started dating my wife I would find reasons to come into her work. Now we’re happily married for 15 years. No regrets. If you want someone, go get em! Or someone else will.…
/r/seduction17/11/21 09:17 PM
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Here’s how you approach: Find a girl sitting down. Sit down next to her. Say “Hi, you’ve got 30 seconds to impress me”. If she says something interesting, say “great, love it. Wanna buy me a drink?” Why let them make you sell yourself. You’re an amazing, interesting, brilliant, powerful man. Make her work for YOUR attention. If she’s not into it, move on. Here’s another approach: Sit down and say “Hi, I met a beautiful girl last week and I have a date with her in a few hours. Tell me why I shoul…
/r/seduction26/10/21 02:38 PM
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Yes, but it’s usually subtle. I’ve had women stand next to me and inch closer until they’re touching me. I’ve had a girl dance in front of me and keep backing up until her ass was rubbing against my crotch. My second long term relationship was the bar tender of a bar flat out ask me out. I was passed out drunk one night at a bar I frequented. When I came to she asked me out. We’re still friends to this day. Went to each other’s weddings. That was a funny one. I said “Really? You just saw me be p…
/r/seduction23/10/21 08:36 PM
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Forms of communication that don’t use words: miming music art silent films sign language body language (no contact / visual) body language (contact / sensual) iconography / symbology “vibes” (tough one to explain. I guess it’s a combination of a lot of things. Could include body language, scent, LACK of words spoken, subtext between words, visual cues like clothing or actions - for example taking a shower mid day when she never takes a shower. That’s subtext for shove your face in my crotch ha h…
/r/seduction22/10/21 03:27 PM
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10 sleepovers isn’t vetting. She’s stringing him along. Having sex IS part of “vetting”. I’ve heard too many horror stories of people waiting too long. Also, life is too short. You can bang while you decide if you like each other. Unless the sex is bad. But then you know it’s not going to work even if you get along. Better to get it over with.
/r/seduction21/10/21 02:42 AM
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No need to ask. She wants to have sex. She just has to pretend she doesn’t so she doesn’t seem slutty. It’s better not to ask and just get on with it so they get to have sex without feeling guilty or seeming slutty. Win-win. If we’re talking about adults here.
/r/seduction21/10/21 02:28 AM
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Next time she sleeps over, tell her she can stay, but she has to sleep in another room because you have a girl coming over for a booty call later that night. She’ll be undressed in like 5 seconds. Or just be honest: tell her relationships include sex. It’s kind of the point. You want intimacy and you and her can be friends but if she’s not interested in you sexually, you need to move on. But don’t be mean or petty or pouty. Be honest, warm but firm. Women don’t like indecisive men. Another appro…
/r/seduction21/10/21 02:20 AM
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Fair? How is dating not fair?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 10:10 AM
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Study biology, evolution, natural selection, watch nature programs (with the understanding that humans come from nature - ignore that God created bullshit - and are intelligent animals), study psychology, anthropology, sociology, and the history of early human tribes and you’ll get your answer. There’s no shame in not knowing the answer to your question. But it saddens me that in 2020 - with unfettered access to ALL accumulated human knowledge - it’s being asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 12:14 AM
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Read my comment above. I play them too. They should be played in moderation. And yes, I would say a guy that sleeps around is being a man child. It depends though. If it makes you happy and you’re doing it honestly. Meaning, are you being honest with the women that you’re not into long term relationships. If you’re lying to women to get off then, we’ll, that’s just being an asshole. I slept around when I was younger. It’s hard to do without hurting women’s feelings. Though I didn’t have Tinder t…
/r/seduction17/05/20 03:58 PM
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You’re right in a way. I wouldn’t take what I wrote as the only way to live your life. I believe anyone can live their life however they want if it’s not destructive and it’s what you want. But it kind of goes without saying that the majority of people want a partner to share their life with. It’s just that I’ve seen what happens when guys try and go their own way and just “do whatever”. It’s fun for a while. But eventually can have disastrous consequences. Life is long. And the second half of y…
/r/seduction17/05/20 03:24 PM
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For sure. I agree with everything you said. Leave her be, and focus on yourself. Though having experienced heartbreak many years ago I know how hard that can be. I fought to get her back a bit. But once it was clear it was over I just focused on my career path. I mean, what else can you do? Eventually she ended up going to the same college and I’d see her from time to time. That was years later. Then I ended up working with her closely at the same job. We eventually just became friends and I met…
/r/seduction16/05/20 04:30 PM
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This is all great if you’re a man that has value. But there are some guys where I’m just like “dude, you’re lucky you found someone willing to put up with your shit, and actually let you put your dick in her.” If you’re a guy like that. Take this time to fix yourself. Would you date yourself? If the answer is no, you’ve got work to do. In order to find someone that will “want to be with you”, and continue to want to be with after getting to know you, you need to have something to offer. I realiz…
/r/seduction16/05/20 01:48 PM
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Unless you consider the first time he put it in her butt and time slowed down and while he had an explosive orgasm he had his eureka moment that black holes warp time. So you gotta give the woman SOME credit.
/r/MensRights14/05/20 07:44 PM
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It’s true. Like the saying “behind every great man is a great woman”. And in Einstein’s case, his wife was a brilliant physicist as well and it’s possible she helped him? But I’m not sure. Either way, it doesn’t matter. Men and women have worked together to build this world. This whole debate is nonsense. I’ve done some amazing things and my wife’s support was really important. We’re a team. My success is her success and hers is mine. Davinci was gay though. He gets full credit.
/r/MensRights14/05/20 02:28 PM
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Oh, is it like a, become a pastor in prison in order to have a better chance of getting out earlier thing? That’s 100% what I would do if I went to prison. Even if I didn’t believe.
/r/seduction13/05/20 09:32 PM
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Ha ha ha ha! Wait, is this real? Please tell me this actually happened.
/r/seduction12/05/20 11:20 PM
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I second this. I’m a musician. Years ago I played a small gig. I wasn’t even signed yet, and I kissed a girl after a gig in the parking lot and she almost fainted. Reverse the situation. You’re at a concert, or a sporting event, or some other display of women doing something amazing. Afterwards the star athlete, or lead singer or whatever comes up to and wants to sleep with you. You would shit yourself. If you can pull that off, you don’t need to go to the gym. Be in shape, don’t be slob, dress …
/r/seduction12/05/20 10:37 PM
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Did it make him happy and fulfilled? That’s the first question you should ask. I lost my virginity at 14. Then a bunch of one night stands for the next few years. But as I got older, I just couldn’t sleep with random women. I could have. But I didn’t want to deal with the hurt feelings, drama, sleeping with someone you barely know. And I’m really picky. Most women put me off. Once they speak that is. They’re all great but I just couldn’t relate to most women. I finally met my wife at 28 and I’m …
/r/seduction12/05/20 10:13 PM
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Just set up an account then. You don’t have to use it much. If you’re super anti social go with instagram and don’t post any pictures of you. Just post pics of like, leaves and plastic bags stuck in trees. Then you will get hella laid.
/r/seduction29/04/20 12:05 PM
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With the 3 competing males, yes she chooses. But you can push her over the edge. If you step back and let her choose, you lose!
/r/seduction17/03/20 09:55 PM
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You’re not wrong. But you’re not right either. First of all, saying you can’t use pick up artist techniques isn’t true. Women fall for that shit unfortunately. Also, a lot of what you said IS part of PUA theory. Step one is literally to focus on yourself. Become a high value male. On that note, if you ARE a high value male, then no, it’s not the woman that has all the power. What there is a high value female, with 3 high value males wooing her? Do they just let her decide? If you just chill back…
/r/seduction17/03/20 05:33 PM
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They weren’t anti depressants. Part of it was that I started two companies this year and was just crazy busy and stressed. I just didn’t want to write a novel. I’m doing it so we can afford a house and have kids next year and houses in my city start at 1.5 million so I need major dollars. She’s super into what I’m doing. But now that the companies are set up we can get back into the bone zone.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/20 08:54 PM
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Thanks. A date night would for sure help. I think also don’t compliment her enough and she’s still very hot. I didn’t want to get too deep into it, but as sexy as she is - and works out daily and sexier than ever - she has body image issues. So a date night and some reassurance would help a lot. Question: we’ve never been a lingerie couple. She bought some once and wore it a few times. Is it usually women buying it for themselves, or should I get her some more? I guess we never bother because it…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/20 08:51 PM
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Why am I lazy? Or a faggot? What a fucking retarded response. Also, there’s literally no chance in hell my wife would fuck you or anyone else in this group. For one, she hates guys that lift weights, and there’s way too much of that shit in this group. She doesn’t respond at all to that alpha male bullshit. Not that she likes losers. She’s just more into creative types and musicians. I only came here for some basic sex lift advice and not to talk about my life, but I’m a signed musician and I ow…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/20 08:42 PM
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That sounds just like me except for the having mostly female friends part. But I do get along with women really well. I think there just weren’t enough girls I could be friends with when I was younger. Now, let’s say at a work function or at work day to day, I’ll end up hanging out with the gals quite a bit. I’m a graphic designer and more feminine so I gel well with them. But I can also be really guy-ish. Sometimes even the most guy-ish among guys if that makes sense. I can go to both extremes.…
/r/seduction01/11/19 08:51 PM
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It's kind of depressing when it gets broken down like that. This isn't news to me at all, but when you see it laid out in an article like that it's so... clinical? Unromantic? Every single freaking thing we do in life is about reproducing. I'm a musician because I love music, but men ultimately become artists and musicians because it increases their chances of finding a high quality female. Which is exactly what I did. My wife never had a lot of female friends, which is super common obviously, b…
/r/seduction01/11/19 04:00 PM
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It it amateur hour in here? What do you expect women to do? Men’s value increases with age. Women’s decreased rapidly. They don’t have time to wait around for your sweaty ass tuna cock. If they’re moving on quickly after you, you need to increase your value. And I don’t mean by hitting the gym. Be in shape sure, but mind, body, spirit and career need to be levelled up if you want Mary Jane rotten crotch to sitting around pining for you. Otherwise they’re going to move on right away and lock in t…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/19 06:26 PM
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Well said. I agree. I mean, obviously I agree with you agreeing with me ha ha. But I like the way you put it. Glad I’m not the only one. I might have bought into it more when I was single and some of these tactics would have been useful because I was shy. Well, not shy really. I’m quite comfortable with men and women. I’m a strong beta I guess. Or somewhere between beta and alpha. More so I was just terrified of the cold approach. But finding the right woman gives me a different perspective. I’v…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/19 06:09 PM
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So, I’m reading through all these comments, and wow. Where the fuck are you finding these bitches? I have my complaints with women. And a few minor things with my wife. But she’s my best friend. My team mate. I can cry my fucking heart out in front of her. I can’t go being a weak bitch all the time, that would get old to literally anyone, woman or man. But there is a difference between being vulnerable, and throwing a pity party. Anyways, stop dating these shit bitches. Generally, super hot chic…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/19 03:33 AM
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Dude, sex is hollow pleasure. You’re lucky enough to have found someone you really like. If you’re still really young I get that you’re not ready to settle down. But sleeping with randoms gets old. Sex in general gets old. If you’re still banging sluts into your 30’s you’re kind of a sad loser.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/19 12:33 PM
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I didn’t mean not show up at the funeral. I meant like, the hospital when they’re dying or dead. That’s for close family. Is the OP saying his friends didn’t come to the funeral? That’s kind of fucked if that’s the case. That said, in general no, my friends don’t really know my parents that well. My parents don’t come out partying with me and my bros. That’s not how we roll. Lastly, I don’t like crying in public. I’m not macho at all. I’m very in touch with my feminine side and there’s no shame …
/r/TheRedPill11/06/19 02:01 PM
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To be fair, as a male, I’d be horrified if my guy friends showed up after one of my parents passed away. I prefer to suffer in private. They would just make me uncomfortable.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/19 11:41 AM
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