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Amount of approaches just decreases your self doubt. You stop caring about failure. You embrace it. When failures don't feel scary anymore success soon follows. Everything in life works this way. Approaching girls just seem much scarier because of the implications of social outcast that follows not finding a girl is very scary so therefore getting a girl is a MUST. Not being good at something you must be good at is horrifying. When you approach more and more you realize that "must be good at thi…
/r/seduction10/09/17 10:01 AM
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Nice! High five!
/r/seduction04/06/17 02:59 AM
22

Abs are made in the gym. They are revealed in the kitchen.
/r/seduction22/02/17 12:20 PM
6

Guys who can't get women generally do two things wrong. First of all they don't respect themselves well enough, they need to put themselves first. That includes stepping on others toes, women included. Secondly they treat women too well and act like getting a woman would increase their happiness and that it's some sort of answer to all their problems. I personally saw MAJOR success after I stopped taking Tinder seriously and started being kinda mean to tell girls and challenged them. The respons…
/r/seduction16/01/17 03:05 PM
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I'd rather be lonely and working on myself up to the point of attracting girls I'm myself attracted to. And merely fuck a few girls along the way for the experience. Which is pretty much exactly what I'm doing. Dating is a massive timesink. I wouldn't go through with it if I didn't enjoy it.
/r/seduction02/01/17 01:48 PM
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This seems like really obvious stuff to me. But then again I've studied body language for a while to get better at just these things.
/r/seduction10/12/16 09:46 PM
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Hah, you just missed my entire fucking point and then made it WORSE. God damn you're dumb. I find it even more amusing that you're throwing out "liberal" as an insult. I'm Swedish, your liberal is my conservative haha. Gotta be nice though to feel accomplished just because you fucked someone, no matter the quality of the lay. Ignorance is bliss and all that.
/r/seduction23/11/16 06:49 PM
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Oh damn son. SO edgy and cool with your newly looked up swear words. Transgender vegan, shitnut. Damn. It really helps to prove your point that when questioned you go full on defense and throw shit at the other person. Stop being pathetic...
/r/seduction23/11/16 06:39 PM
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It's tough to tutor. But use a lot of tongue. Research the anatomy of the vagina and vulva and use that to your advantage. Your tongue doesn't only lick. You suck, you swirl, you blow some air on her, breath on her and make her want it. Use your fingers slightly inside her but focus on her WHOLE body. When you go down on her you play with her skin. Tap your fingers on her legs. Swirl them around. Be playful. Then you can grab her thighs and just pull her toward you and just eat her pussy like it…
/r/seduction11/11/16 12:27 PM
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Work out, meditate, learn to spot approach invitations, be curious about her.
/r/seduction18/10/16 12:30 AM
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You should give a reason why it's so good. Right now you're just saying "this is good, because reasons".
/r/seduction07/06/16 10:17 PM
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The girl I lost my virginity to was no one special to me. And I discussed this with her, in kinder words of course. I never mentioned my inexperience or anything with her. I just went with the flow and did what I thought I should do. Put in practice what I've read and learned about to be a better... Lover or whatever. I had basically read about sex, techniques, body language, the lot. For about 7 years or so. I lost my virginity at 23. We ended up being fuck buddies for around 6 months. And we d…
/r/seduction05/06/16 01:18 PM
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Anything really. If she likes you she'll answer. Eventually. Just send her a message and wait. Maybe some simple conversation starter. But make sure to steer the conversation towards actually meeting her. So you can hug her when you see each other. And touch her if you guys share a laugh. Gotta act fast though. Girls have a little timer on them. If you Don act fast enough their self esteem will tell them that you aren't interested and they'll start to doubt their feelings. Same way you are scare…
/r/seduction05/04/16 01:39 PM
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Don't make her phone number your endgame. That way you'll only rack up a lot of numbers without any sort of connections with women. Her number, her facebook, her snapchat, her tinder all have one thing in common. They are gateways to meeting the girl and getting to know her. Getting her number doesn't make you special or stand out. Influencing her emotions (positively) on a date does. Also, don't be afraid of failing a lot of times in the beginning. That's how you learn new stuff, broaden your c…
/r/seduction04/04/16 08:52 PM
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Matched on Tinder. Talked a bit about her pictures or text. If no text I do "10 quick questions" that start with apples or oranges and end with sensual sex or hardcore Bondage fuck. Hehe. Honestly I've never moved past like 5 questions since I find a hook to converse more about, dogs for example. Then I get snapchat and/or FB. Fb to chit chat very little during the week. Snapchat to shoe casual pictures of me and some conversation starter. Then on fb I talk about my couch and having a "Cosy nigh…
/r/seduction20/02/16 12:53 AM
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Might be so. I just started with Tinder as it hasn't been common where I live (Sweden) so it's new to me. It was the first girl I fucked from Tinder.
/r/seduction19/02/16 07:59 PM
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My worst problem is probably knowing when a girl likes me. If I'm not sure if she likes me I'm not that pushy. I escalate slowly. BUT when I know the girl is interested I go all in. For example last weekend I had a girl from Tinder over. Watched a movie, ate some chips, drank some alcohol. I slowly just ramped up the touching. Kept my hadn on her leg, pushed our bodies together and then crossed legs and stuff. Then we started playing "I have never" or whatever it's called in English. And after a…
/r/seduction19/02/16 06:37 PM
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This completely disregards the (kino) escalation ladder and in man cases would probably result in creeped out looks if done to strangers rather than friends or acquaintances. You're 6'3" so you have an innate advantage. Girls probably want to hug you purely based on your height as a first judgement. "Ohh, he's tall I wonder what it'd be like hugging him. Ohhh snap he's actually gonna hug me?? scoore!" I doubt I could pull this of unless it's a friendly acquaintance or a friend of a friend I met …
/r/seduction15/02/16 12:37 AM
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This sub is about getting the opportunity to play with the G-spot. If I could get to that point with girls more often they would line up. I'm told that I'm really really good. But I'm really bad at getting to that point. Talking to girls is no problems. Flirting with girls, some problems. Getting interest shown from girls, problem. Spending time with the few that do to either just fuck or build a connection, near impossible. I literally had a girl from Tinder last week that just faded on me the …
/r/seduction10/02/16 02:24 PM
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The latter one. Women relate a lot to feelings. Just listen to women telling a story. They tell it as they felt it. Men just say the facts that happened. "You have such a warm smile, I can't help smiling too." tells her two things. She has a nice smile. She is making you joyful by just being her.
/r/seduction20/10/15 04:21 AM
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I hope your offline game is better than your online game haha.
/r/seduction18/10/15 09:33 PM
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Nice stories. Would be cool to be someone's hottest fuck and such. But there is not much to learn here in my opinion. I don't quite talk as much as the guys in your stories. I just do. I touch, I tease, I kiss, I kiss not only the mouth but the jawline and neck and behind the ear and such. But the thing about all this is I don't do this until I know a girl is interested in me. That's the by far hardest bit. When I have most success is just when I'm out at the club dancing and having fun and attr…
/r/seduction02/09/15 11:20 PM
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You're going to a bar? Nightclub? If so just have a regular night out basically. Since you are meeting up again both you and him know you are interested in each other. And you're a girl, you undoubtedly have a bit of an advantage in these kinds of situations. So start of with a drink for the both of you. Find a place to sit and chat a lil bit. Tease him, push him a bit when you do and get playful and smile/laugh. Touch him, his thighs are good, very good. Then after you've both finished the drin…
/r/seduction02/09/15 02:03 PM
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Use commas man, not fucking ellipses.
/r/seduction24/07/15 12:34 AM
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Don't like wine so fuck that. Not what I want.
/r/seduction08/07/15 03:29 PM
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This is aimed at women. Because it's only about showing off your body. As far as I've understood it's harder for men to take good pictures because it's not just about showing off your body. It's about showing off your status and well being. Selfies are bad because you look lonely and the surrounding in the picture is boring. Having a picture of you doing something is more important presumably. The picture should be alive with you in it. Animals or friends included is good as long as you can clea…
/r/seduction18/06/15 08:13 PM
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My cock is probably the biggest. But really. Isn't this sort of question the opposite reason behind this sub? Isn't this sub in summary a guidance toward "I'll work on being the best me I can be, despite the competition" rather than "I'll do my best to be better than the guy next to me". Isn't the first man an example of stronger inner game since he focuses on himself and discovering and improving what he finds out about himself. And the other guy focuses on other people and try to one up them o…
/r/seduction08/06/15 08:51 PM
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lol
/r/seduction07/06/15 11:54 AM
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Since the headline included "ultimate secret" I presume this is shit. Like every other seduction, diet or fitness article that uses that or a similar term. All of these subjects are fucking hard work, there are no secrets.
/r/seduction17/05/15 09:55 PM
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I'm a 23 year old virgin and I'm very unsatisfied with my sex life. But I'm actively working on it and myself to become more confident. I use some techniques I've picked up from here. I recognise shit tests a little and agree and amplify them. And I test the girls back. When I was 21 I got more attention from girls than the previous years combined. Nearly lost my virginity. But the girl flaked and ignored me for two weeks. The summer after that I hooked up with a girl at the club and made out wi…
/r/seduction12/04/15 12:11 AM
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Personally I find it hard to approach more because most of my encounters with women hasn't turned out too well. And I don't mean I didn't get laid. I mean that I found it boring and exhausting to talk with them. When the few approaches I do mostly end up with boring girls unwilling to talk and acting like I'm some weird stranger it loses its charm really quickly. I haven't really reached that level of just having a lot of fun with a girl. I did make out with one this summer and had loads of fun,…
/r/seduction24/12/14 07:22 PM
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We don't? I'm not good at approaching at the club or have not gotten laid because of it but when I approach a group to see how well I can get them to talk at the club I usually don't care of there is a guy or two there. As long as the majority is girls I guess. But then again I didn't approach to specifically pick up one girl of that group but rather to face my social/approach anxiety. It's not really that hard in my opinion. It's tougher keeping up the facade that I'm interested in people(I'm g…
/r/seduction07/12/14 12:10 AM
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Of course. But isn't the point in wingmanning kind of showing the other person that they can pull it off so they will be able to gain the confidence to do it themselves the next time? I know there's more to it than that. Like talk well about your friend to make him/her seem more high value and make sure he gets to speak with the girl while you make sure they get isolated from you and the girls friend(s) so that things will escalate for them. But isn't the core mechanic of wingmanning getting you…
/r/seduction06/12/14 11:52 PM
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Why wouldn't you be able to wing a woman? They don't need game nearly as much as guys but it helps. Explain to me why if hypothetically I'd ask my female friend whom she thought was the hottest guy at the club, grab her and introduce her to him, make sure to him she was attracted and wants to dance with him. Why wouldn't something like that or similar work? I'm curious.
/r/seduction06/12/14 07:15 PM
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I mumble and have huge confidence issues around people, esp. women. That's what he said
/r/seduction10/11/14 02:59 PM
1

Uncommon names are easier to remember because they stand out.
/r/seduction14/09/14 08:38 AM
2

It's quite easy to ask someone about themselves. But to get them to talk about themselves to a stranger is quite the deal. And to make them enthusiastic about it is hard.
/r/seduction09/08/14 11:21 AM
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That's not the problem. The problem is how you get them to start talking about themselves to you. You're just blowing warm air out of your mouth when you say "get them to talk about themselves"
/r/seduction09/08/14 10:56 AM
1

Yeah. As far as I've understood us Swedes don't really date. We meet at parties and then meet friends of friends and I guess we are drunk as fuck and hit on each other and then if something went well we try to get a hold of the other person to "hang out" and I guess it goes from there and from out of nowhere a new couple has appeared. Dinner dates or coffee dates seem to be the standard thing in America but here that's reserved for couples or friends, I think. I don't see guys going up to girls …
/r/seduction27/06/14 03:55 PM
2

To improve my own social self to be able to lose my virginity and get laid as much as I'd like to instead of having dark depressing thoughts about my insecurity about being inadequate. I mostly have just picked up basics and self improvement tips and what books to perhaps read. FRs or specific advice don't help much. Details explaining things and why are very helpful though. Like that recent guide on compliments and the different levels of them that exist and how to apply them. Mostly I've tried…
/r/seduction27/06/14 03:09 PM
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Conversation threading is a good tool to use as well right?
/r/seduction26/04/14 11:11 AM
2

Good point. Might try that out.
/r/seduction06/02/14 12:52 PM
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I generally don't have a problem talking with girls per se. My problem is more rooted in that girls rarely show interest in a way I can spot. So my subconscious has the attitude that girls just aren't interested in me and when I talk to them they usually don't seem that interested. I think that's mainly my problem with my AA and I don't know how to shake it off.
/r/seduction03/02/14 10:14 PM
56

And what did you do to change internally exactly? And how did you make that change happen?
/r/seduction03/02/14 09:55 PM
3

What?
/r/seduction12/01/14 07:07 PM
1

Being an introvert or extrovert is not black and white. It's a spectrum. You have introverted qualities and extroverted qualities. The more you lean to one side the more likely you are that kind. But you still posses qualities of the other kind. If you posses equally as much of either you are an ambivert. You have just explored your extroverted qualities and experienced that you enjoy them and are now a little more extroverted on the spectrum.
/r/seduction11/01/14 10:46 PM
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More of this would be welcomed. I'm one of those AA types of persons that is more afraid of not knowing what to do than the approach in itself, I believe, and how to progress. I snap things up here and there while lurking that enters my mind when out in the "field". I don't act on them just yet but these kind of basic advice are very nice to get the snowball rolling.
/r/seduction04/10/13 10:34 PM
6

Thanks, solid advice.
/r/seduction17/08/13 10:16 PM
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Just lurking here occasionally to find out about what IOI are and other stuff which might help me in that regard. Other than that I'm generally a introverted and shy person so most of the stuff on /r/seduction seems unnatural to me. I'm not actively trying to seduce, just trying picking up stuff here and there. I think gaming in Sweden is a bit different from the rest of the world taking how we treasure personal space more than other cultures which makes seducing here a bit different. However I …
/r/seduction28/07/13 08:11 PM
1

Hot average Babe. Why not?
/r/seduction30/12/12 09:56 PM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=it-aaUaeyzs That song was the first thing that came to my mind.
/r/seduction05/11/12 01:30 AM
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Yea, no shit. If you've had a sister for your whole life you know how to talk to women, you know how they act, you know how they can get, you know how to treat them. Kinda hard to get by that experience with a brother though.
/r/seduction30/10/12 07:18 PM
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