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I just realized that "failing in life" and "falling in love" sound just about the same...
/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 07:10 PM
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Dunno how it is in America, but in Canada, the establishment could be quite liable for patrons leaving drunk on their motorcycles...
/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 07:09 PM
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A big part of TRP is that we don't talk about it outside of this circle. What would happen if we tried to! Shit won't go down well. But imagine we talked a very light version of it, kind of what JBP is doing. That's still tough for the general population to swallow, as we have seen. IMO, JBP knows all this stuff too, but he's making an easier sell by toning things down a lot. TL;DR don't conflate what JBP projects into the world with his more private knowledge and beliefs. Not that we know anyth…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 11:02 AM
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Uhh yes it does. When you know why it happens, then it's much easier to know what to do. For example, the stuff you get a pass on...you know why you get a pass on it? Because most good fucks/times they've had have been with guys who were also a bit sexist, bossy and selfish. The feelz and all that.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 10:54 AM
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Yeap. I'm saying is that it's not some mystical radar or smell kind of thing. They've just experienced it enough to know what to look for. Just like how a guy who has been exposed to enough IOIs and the theory behind them will recognize them more.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 10:46 AM
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They don’t as much smell those things on you. They’ve just experienced them enough times by the time they’ve met you that they know better
/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 08:39 AM
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Poetic license mixed with some self-delusion, most likely. You know when you get that sick pump at the gym and feel huge, but if you took a photo and looked at it another day, you'd look normal? This is the mental equivalent of the pump. I bet he FELT all those things, but if you and I were there, we wouldn't see it quite like he did. "I went monk mode, came back a monster and fucked everyone". I have friends like that who are the shit like OP, but when you dig in, you realize that it's hyperbol…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 01:08 PM
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Mistakes are fine and you are making them. The question is how many times are you going to make this mistake before you stop making it? For a lot of mistakes and for a lot of well-intentioned red-pillers, the answer is usually more than 1.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 06:29 PM
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The difference in the past was that you are treated as a man after the rite of passage. Where's that treatment when you win your magic participation trophies nowadays? Nowhere. You're right about discipline and commitment. True. It's not an either/or situation, is it? You could have both discipline and commitment, and rites of passage.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 09:56 PM
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A rite-of-passage would fix that problem. That's a symbolic solution, borderline mental masturbation. Say you send a 12yo into the wood to kill a wolf with a sharp stick. He manages to do so, so now what? - he's instantly the top dog able to wage war with other tribes, he instantly starts being treated like the seasoned hunter who managed to feed the tribe for the last decade? He instantly knows how to be a man b/c he did something outside his comfort zone once? That's not how a rite of passage …
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 09:36 PM
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Not enough "roughly speaking" and "slaying the dragon" though
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 09:17 PM
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Agree and amplify. Pressure flip. That king of thing. Here are some ideas “You’re too young” - you can be my sugar mama - you’re too old, yet here we are “We’re not sleeping together” - Yea, we’ll be wide awake - or simply “ok” with a smile, cuz she’d expect you to argue it “This is not a date” - yea, it’s a business meeting, let’s discuss the company merger
/r/askTRP15/07/18 09:36 PM
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She’ll likely tease you by telling you you’re too young, that she’s not sleeping with you, that it’s not a date...
/r/askTRP15/07/18 09:30 PM
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I expect that she'll give you a bunch of shit tests and probably LMR. It's probably better to prepare for a good battle. Better be prepared.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 01:31 AM
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Yourself? Tinder users hate him
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 08:36 PM
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TLDR: Phew this is rather long but worth the read if you've had sexual problems. Basically, you can jump start your sexuality by having a patient sexual partner and a couple of tricks up your sleeve. It works the fastest compared to any other method including nofap and lifting and so on. Hey man, take a step back and relax for a bit, will you? Breathe in and breathe out. It's going to be ok. You're in good hands. There have been some good comments here so far, but nothing that's quite the right …
/r/askTRP10/07/18 10:38 AM
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The active ingredient in Viagra and in Kamagra is Sildenafil Citrate...They are the same thing, just different quality (potentially). The important bit of your whole comment is You need to be actually aroused for these medications to work What OP has is not direct ED, but an arousal problem, which leads to ED. The pills won't help him one bit, unless he gets aroused and then hard, in which case the erection will remain strong for the time necessary for him to relax and maintain it. It's most lik…
/r/askTRP10/07/18 09:18 AM
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Mountains and No time for caution. But those are more goosebumps type songs. I’m talking more tearjerkers about heartbreak and so on.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/18 08:42 PM
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The big one fro me is crying. I have a whole playlist of crying songs that make the tears come up within minutes. If I feel particularly overwhelmed by something, I can hide in the nearest bathroom, cry it out quietly and get on with my day. Without the music though, it's much harder.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/18 08:37 PM
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From what you've written and from my own experience dealing with this kind of stuff, I can surmise that what you're experiencing is a psychologically-induced reduced sex drive. Stop thinking about your dick, about sex, about her, about performing well, and so on. Forget you have a dick. Forget about sex. Just stop thinking about the whole thing. This meta-sexuality of yours is overwhelming your actual sexuality. Stop expecting that you'll be rock hard all day. Just stop. Your hopes and expectati…
/r/askTRP09/07/18 10:26 AM
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A bit part of your misery is that now you perceive yourself as someone who SHOULD be more successful but is still not. Compound that with the fact that success with women is a lagging indicator of work done and you got a perfect storm. You consistently prove to yourself that you’re shit EVEN with your higher SMV and it’s a recipe for feeling very alone. Counterintuitively, it might actually help to lower your SMV a bit, at least in person. Dress down a bit. Have a slightly disheveled look. Tell …
/r/askTRP09/07/18 05:27 AM
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Dude, you’re great on paper, but inside you’re still that big ole far loser. It’s ok. It’ll take some time for your inner world to catch up to your outer world. Just think of how it takes a person YEARS to master a language or a musical instrument. It’s like that with mastering dating. You might be a gifted individual, but it’s only practice that will make you great. I had some of the worst “luck” with women when my SMV was at its highest. I looked really good. And yet, my vibe was so off! I bet…
/r/askTRP09/07/18 04:38 AM
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> I'm not really to big on sex > She said I was retarded Mhmm.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 11:52 PM
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You text her “let’s just be friends” and the do one word replies, and reply slower and slower until you take 3 days to respond. And then nothing.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 11:20 AM
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I'm 6'2", about 215 lbs. I always struggled building up the upper body but it's getting there. My favorite thing to do with smaller girls is to compare sizes of various body parts. I like comparing my wrist to her ankle (usually about the same size). And of course, forearms are as large or larger than her upper arm. My favorite is girls with a waist as small as my thigh (About 23 inches. Can't imagine what Arnold must have felt like with arms 22 inches around). That said, what are your lifts lik…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 08:30 PM
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Actually, big IQ is selected for, just not in the way you think. Your brain requires a lot of power to navigate a social world properly. The ability to think about the way someone thinks you think about them is a higher order thought pattern that is as difficult as any math or physics one may encounter. It's just of a different flavor. So this sort of "social intelligence" is selected for. I bet if you take one such socially intelligent person and start teaching them more and more advanced topic…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 08:55 AM
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There are a ton of things that affect your performance in bed, including porn, masturbation, diet, exercise, mental state, and so on. It'll be really hard to "diagnose" what's up with you, because likely, not much is up with you. Dicks can be inconsistent. It's part of life. You gotta accept that there will be some variation. Also, your sexual partners will change it too. With all else being equal, some girls will make you cum fast and others not. It depends on her geometry, tightness and wetnes…
/r/askTRP03/07/18 07:56 AM
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Come on man, he even put it in quotations. It's sarcasm.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 07:38 AM
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> but how does the constant awalt, women are sluts, don't marry, relationships only work if they are plates, etc. vibe fit into red pill being positive to a relationship. Solar radiation can and will kill you. But it's also what gives life to this whole entire planet, including you. So, what I'm saying is that you gotta understand the underlying mechanics of how men and women work on fundamental levels and THEN build relationships on top of that shaky foundation. Those relationships have much be…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 07:37 AM
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I suspect that one of the things that ails you is a perception problem. You expect bigger gains than what you are observing and it kills your motivation. Maybe you are plateauing in life and it kills the motivation, saps your energy and so on. Perhaps you’re not eating and sleeping enough. Try more protein?
/r/askTRP02/07/18 05:18 AM
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Being with Asperger’s is like having lower stats in some areas where it’s also somewhat harder to improve on those areas. Maybe your journey will be longer, but you can get there!
/r/seduction02/07/18 05:14 AM
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I suspect he cheated just because...and that the positive results were probably a surprise to him
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 05:10 AM
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It’s not red pill stuff. It’s health stuff. As in ask a doctor not some randos on reddit
/r/askTRP02/07/18 01:14 AM
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It’s an endocrine disorder. Could be cause by high E, low T, liver disease and/or drugs. Look it up. Educate yourself. Don’t come here for advice
/r/askTRP01/07/18 01:59 AM
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Hormones. It’s an endocrine disorder. Look at the wiki article
/r/askTRP01/07/18 01:57 AM
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I’m glad you’re mentioning that! Higher n-count correlates with the maximum attractiveness of a partner you’ve been with. And yes, I feel this effect. I used to be able to sleep with a 5, but not anymore. Now 7 is low/ok. BECAUSE I know how good it can be
/r/askTRP01/07/18 01:54 AM
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Fair enough, dude. In that case, all you really need to know is what times and places are better for sex. One of your places without roommates is best. Some washroom is worst, but it'll do sometimes. That said, the closer you are to a place where you can have sex, the easier it'll be to get there. That's all. Next up is the time of day. Night is easier than day. Women who don't have much to do the next day are easier to go to bed with. Women who are there alone are easier to bed than women with …
/r/seduction30/06/18 08:14 PM
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So you're basically coming here and complaining it's too difficult/complex and hoping we'd give you a free pass. There you go bud. You're free to go. Actually no, you're not. Think about it. There were 2-4 million year of evolution of hominids and maybe 10-20 thousand years of civilization. If anything, 90% of game is "cavemen" in its nature. Everything else is just layers upon layers of man-made complexity. Take anti-slut defense or last-minute resistance, for example. I highly highly doubt tho…
/r/seduction30/06/18 07:57 PM
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And try them more than once. Sometimes it takes 2-3 of a type to make you GET that type.
/r/seduction30/06/18 07:50 PM
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IIRC, this book is mainly meant for taking you from negative to somewhat neutral when it comes to dating. For what it's meant to be, this book is one of the best. But it doesn't get you from neutral to really good. When I read and re-read this book, it helped me a lot to get through some sticking points. It helped me learn that being vulnerable often means to say what you want and lead the way. My dating life certainly improved after reading this book. A good book to read after this is "The Alab…
/r/seduction30/06/18 07:48 PM
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Sounds exactly like a girl I know. It's been two months now though as she found some dude. Thankfully.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 08:40 AM
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Things like this happen, but they are exceedingly rare. I'm not talking about two people experiencing puppy love. I'm talking decades-long love that doesn't seem to lose steam. Case in point, my parents. But their story is so unique as to be useless to learn from.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 08:33 AM
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It’s time my dude. You’re lean. Start lifting heavier and heavier and eat a lot more. If you start getting fat, cut down a bit
/r/askTRP30/06/18 08:24 AM
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Do you weight train much? If so, what are you body stats (height weight) and lifts? Do you do them much now?
/r/askTRP30/06/18 06:09 AM
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It has a lot more with how you got there and how you maintain it than with the bodily state itself. You probably need to eat more.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 05:03 AM
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“New phone who dis?”
/r/askTRP30/06/18 05:02 AM
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Reminds me of the first time I was with a chick after employing asshole game! Later on when we talked about past experiences she thought I had been with 200+ girls or something like that. Little did she know it was barely 10% of that at the time.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 05:16 PM
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No don’t do monk mode. Just go into it and talk to girls. That’s the most important thing with respect to game right now.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 03:56 PM
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That’s what I mean. The strategy is to get on it ASAP and not wait or be concerned with gaming her further.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 03:54 PM
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Yea. Go solo. Shows more confidence. When asked why, say you’re there for the dance and to meet women, because all men there are for that haha
/r/askTRP29/06/18 03:53 PM
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A dance class is a very good test of confidence. Men’s natural impulse is to look down at their feet and be kind of shy. My advice is to go to the classes several times, get better, and once you know a bunch of steps and do them well, to go to the salsa socials. If you dance well with a girl, she’ll like you better. Everyone there is more physical in nature and that’s why they dance. In my experience, the more beautiful and better dancers tend to keep dancing. So a strategy is to catch them for …
/r/askTRP29/06/18 03:52 PM
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There's lots of space for you to grow. Get bigger arms and shoulders, chisel those abs, work some legs. You can easily put 10-15 lbs of muscle without looking big at all. For reference, at my best shape I was about 200lbs at 6'2". Now I'm a bit fatter at 220lbs.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 07:50 AM
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Think about it from a positive place - you never got the chance to be a beta orbiter and now you can start fresh with a more mature brain. You get to start fresh. That said, yes, please do lift. For an hour a day you can create something better out of your skinny body. Apart from that, find girls soon and start at least talking to them. For this, find places with girls. Find a dude or two who are into this thing as well, and go together. At least you'll make friends this way.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 07:47 AM
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Any activity that you're good at that is also frequented by women. In my case it's dancing. For example, I do some salsa sometimes and have picked up girls from there almost without trying. It just sort of happened.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 07:44 AM
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I'm pretty sure they just don't know themselves well enough. Maybe they've never been with a man like that. It could flip the other way around too. I like fit girls, but I had never been with a really fit girl before. After the first one like that, I was like, fuck I need more of these, and now I can't really deal with girls who are not fit.
/r/seduction29/06/18 07:02 AM
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Lean, muscular, good posture. Big arms, small waist, ripped abs, v-shape back.
/r/seduction29/06/18 06:13 AM
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Truuuue, but there are strategies to maximizing the chance of getting laid too. So might as well...
/r/askTRP29/06/18 03:15 AM
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Dude, how about we scale back and fix your previous mistake here, so that you don’t end up in this situation. Things were going super well for you there and you had escalation. The best thing to do at that point is to make plans for when to meet. Try for later in the same day. It’s way more likely she’ll feel the same as when she met you. If she’s busy later the same day, playfully tell her to change her plans and go out with you! She might say yes. If not, make plans for the next day or two. Th…
/r/askTRP29/06/18 03:13 AM
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Since I value my time and effort more than money, I usually try to get girls to come near my place and offer to cover the bill since she drive or took transit. I appreciate saving some time and improving our logistics 10x. She also appreciates being treated to something and feels more or less equal. You can also do a “You can take the next one” when you’re going on a date. This can set up a healthy dynamic for future dates with the same girl where you take turns covering the bill. If you insist …
/r/askTRP29/06/18 03:08 AM
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Disguise it as BDSM. Problem solved
/r/askTRP29/06/18 12:12 AM
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The longer you talk and the longer you try to explain, the worse it's going to get. She knows what she's doing, believe me. She's aware of the fact that she's disrespecting you. She's testing you real hard, whether she's conscious of it or not. A long formal talk is just going to worsen things. Keep it short and simple, because the less you say, the less she can twist around and make you out to be the bad guy.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 05:16 PM
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Lock him down more? HAHAHAH. They're married and have kids, my dude. What else can she do?
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 05:04 PM
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I am very curious to hear too.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 09:03 AM
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Yea. Your past experiences with a particular person influence your future experiences with that person. Unless you've made a lot of changes and grown a lot in-between, it's likely that you'd fall into the same patterns.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 09:07 PM
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He's definitely more of a womanizer than I am because he plays all the bullshit but it's fake, and I'm more attractive than he is. What's happening here is that he's getting results and you are butt hurt over it. You are envious. You play him down by saying he's fake. But guess what, if you want to be with girls, you'll need to go through a stage where you'll feel fake too. But I am who I am, and posting shit like that is just my personality. Maybe it totally drives girls away. But I refuse to b…
/r/askTRP27/06/18 08:51 AM
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If you think that's hurtful, my dude, it's time to start growing thicker skin. You'll need it. A lot. Especially in college where people give less fuck about you, because you only share that one class and so on.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 08:30 AM
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She feels awkward because she knows it'll be a date for you but she only sees you as a friend. You may have a little chance to change this if you start acting like a man she would like to date, but it's probably too late. You're way past your stop and it's a long way back should you choose to do that. A path I see for you that's not too bad is to meet her somewhere where you are all in a group of friends, for a party or something, and then work to isolate her away from the rest and escalate in t…
/r/askTRP27/06/18 08:28 AM
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I didn't say I didn't think of exes during sex. I said I didn't miss them. There's a difference. But obviously, in your case you miss her still. Are the girls you are fucking anything close to what you ex was like in terms of looks and sex?
/r/askTRP27/06/18 06:47 AM
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I keep maintaining that, for a man, heartbreak can be one of the toughest things they can endure. When my last LTR ended at 26 I was a huge mess for like 6 months. The whole not being able to sleep or eat. The works. It was excruciating. The days felt like centuries. Any small fleeting thought of the girl I lost...it felt like knives to the heart. I was incredibly stressed and lonely. The only thing that really helped was to be with other women. To get some intimacy. I had a friend, a girl, who …
/r/askTRP27/06/18 06:27 AM
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This is a learning opportunity for you OP! The big question is...will you let it happen again? You need to understand that when it’s going well with a girl, you can keep going. You don’t have to build some crazy sort of attraction. After the first time you flirted and it went well, you could have asked her to go somewhere with you after class. You could have had a date that day! Or the second time you saw her. Yes, she saw that you are not confident and lost interest. But it’s also possible that…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 06:13 AM
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I sometimes meet girls who I’ve spent time with earlier in my journey in game and I feel almost transported back in time to how I was back then. It’s so sneaky too.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 05:57 AM
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Depends on the nature of your relationship while you were with your exes. Did you constantly feel like walking on egg shells? Then you’d probably feel the echoes of that every time you meet in he future. If not, then that’s possibly why you don’t feel awkward.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 05:55 AM
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If you initiate and get it, that’s good. But you also gotta pay attention to her. If she’s consistently wet and into it, then she’s a willing and enthusiastic participant. If she’s not as wet or horny as before, then it’s possible that she’s doing it more to just please you, but it’s not doing as much for her.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 05:50 AM
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The last 5 girls I’ve been with are all in the “I don’t really mind” group when it comes to my career currently. They like me for who I am. They all take good care of their appearance. One of them is really fit. Even just 6 months ago I would have thought none of those girls would give me the light of day. 3 of them wanted to actually get into a relationship with me. I don’t have money or status, although I’m somewhat smart and in shape. And I’m good to them. Don’t shoot yourself down or believe…
/r/seduction27/06/18 05:47 AM
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Dude... What's with fucking on the side of the road? Why is that such a sticking point for you? Can we drop it? Let me break down what I noticed nice and simple... It's about the setting and the dynamics. No, it's not. It's about how attracted to each other are the people involved. The end. Higher attraction makes everything simpler. She's hired the guy to drive her, she sits in the back and is on her phone not talking to 'em Yes, but what if he were handsome? See? The setting changes when the g…
/r/seduction26/06/18 09:30 AM
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It appears we are in agreement about a bunch of this stuff, but here's something that I think you need to look at and reflect on. It's about the setting and the dynamics. She's hired the guy to drive her, she sits in the back and is on her phone not talking to 'em, there is a snowball's chance in hell she wants to flirt at 8am, much less pull over and bang a stranger right on the side of the road. It doesn't even matter who the guy is, the setting isn't conducive to that. I'm not speaking from j…
/r/seduction26/06/18 08:30 AM
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I agree that if you treat a girl the way you want to be treated, you are less likely to creep her out. But the problem with someone doing a creepy thing is that they usually haven't had the inverse experiences. All it takes is 1-2 creepy approaches by girls to turn the light on inside. The golden rule is kind of weird in that regard. Normal adjusted people will already be doing that kind of thing. Creepy weirdos won't really benefit from it since they don't have the reference experiences necessa…
/r/seduction26/06/18 07:31 AM
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I'm sorry, but number 1 is a great way to get into the friend zone. It's a great rule for making friends. If you want to seduce a woman, though, you need to be more adversarial than that. Not a lot, but some. There's a fundamental asymmetry in how women want to be treated and how they subconsciously desire to be treated. Those with more dating experience will be more aligned with their subconscious desires!
/r/seduction26/06/18 06:58 AM
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Depends on what you want to be doing and with who! My career seemed to be a big road block for me as far as women were concerned, and then I lost my fucking job. Unemployed. I've been with more girls during this time now than ever before. With the right girls, it will be easier!
/r/seduction26/06/18 06:44 AM
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