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Rant/VentingAlexander_de_Laurent/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 12:28 AM
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Agreed, I just haven't really had the issue come up where a girl was dripping tomato juice and didnt offer up the beej.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 05:14 PM
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On the topic of cheating, there is the classic study that discusses one factor that, when isolated, actually predicts the likelihood of infidelity. I'm struggling with finding a link for your reference, but the (what I believe to be) university study found that each sexual partner increases risk of infidelity by .07 or so. I'm going to find the article so I don't have to feed you what might be incorrect information but the general idea is there.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 05:13 PM
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Well, yeah. I don't think it's okay to jizz in someone's food... what I'm saying is that when you deal with people that do things for you, be polite or expect to be fucked with.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 04:56 PM
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I usually try to be polite to anyone who is helping me, whether I pay him or not. If I belittle the guy at Burger King, he'll jizz in my soda. If I belittle tech support, you'll probably have me delete some crucial piece of software or some other funny shit that will piss me off.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 02:59 PM
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First, /u/bicepsblastingstud is on point with everything he said, so I won't repeat any of that. 1) A beta mistake is keeping girls around as friends because "other girls will think that I'm someone girls like." NO. When a girl sees a guy who only hangs around girls, she thinks A) Can this pussy really not get along with other men? B) If all of these girls are friendzoning him, there's probably nothing in him I would find appealing. It's the reverse logic (but absolutely on point reasoning) that…
/r/askTRP24/07/14 02:57 PM
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Yeah I have no idea what that text means. Not because I don't have a good answer, but because I have literally zero idea about what the hell that is. Did you write that or did she? How about you provide a few prior texts for context rather than telling us you're a muscular douchebag? Literally, do more.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 02:39 PM
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Both comments below are right, although one is a tad more blunt than the other. Trust me, when it comes to earning money, you do what it takes to get those duckets. Trust me, we all go through stupid client cunts. I work in law and I cannot tell you how many borderline retarded questions (and I'm not using that like slang, I actually mean that those questions border on the type that someone with a learning disability would ask) and irritated clients we get. Shit, sometimes the opponent's counsel…
/r/askTRP24/07/14 02:33 PM
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OR, watch Borat learn American humor. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qoethxOp5Kg
/r/askTRP24/07/14 02:26 PM
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Easiest way to fake funny is to imitate. Easiest thing to imitate in this world is movies. Go watch a bunch of popular comedies and start quoting funny one-liners. Most people will get the reference and think it's hilarious, e.g. "you're putting the pussy on a pedestal," or any judd apatow film, or literally anything from Anchorman because that hasn't been overquoted to fucktard-acy. But seriously, just find the humor in every day life. I literally look for things to poke fun at no matter where …
/r/askTRP24/07/14 02:25 PM
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If she's busted (not attractive), shrug your shoulders, give her a coy smile, and keep doing whatever you're doing. If she's a potential bang, follow /u/jamieoneal82 's advice.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 02:18 PM
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Why would you apologize for looking at her legs? Fuck is wrong with you boy? Had you taped her arms and legs together and sodomized her on the train, that would be something to feel sorry and apologize for. What kind of pill are you taking where it isn't okay to look at a woman's legs, especially in your scenario?
/r/askTRP24/07/14 02:17 PM
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It's only a shit test if you make it a shit test in which case you're the type of guy who's going to fail the shit test. As much as I personally don't do it, there is enough evidence to show women are actually in a higher state of sexual desire for the schlong during their periods. They're hornier. Throw some towels down or hit it in the shower and dip your weiner in her ketchup jar!
/r/askTRP24/07/14 02:06 PM
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Also, the drinking thing - YES. Pushing the boundaries of what we have been taught is implied consent.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 02:04 PM
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Actually, after looking back at it, you basically said that she should enjoy it as much as you do, which I must have misread at first, so yeah, I will redact my previous statement, you right doggie.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 09:31 AM
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Is sex really the only thing you have going for you in life? Maybe I'm the loner here on this side of the argument, but sex is a desire, not a need. Sure, I'd hope it doesn't happen to me nor would I take it lightly if I was in your predicament, but if you really cannot fix this issue, then you just have to accept that and shift your focus. Take for example athletes who suffered career ending injuries. Believe it or not, most of them were raised to believe their sport was life. They began playin…
/r/askTRP24/07/14 04:56 AM
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I'm of the school of thought that follows "every plant starts as a seed." Usually, by the time you even consider a girl as a potential LTR, you've had significant contact with her where you can gauge this. At this point, you should have ran the same game you ran on Sally SlipperyNipple, except this LTR girl has reacted less like a cum guzzling whore to your frame and gladly jumped through your hoops.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 04:52 AM
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Good for you troll. If this is serious, then who can blame you? Fuck, if I was a woman and I knew TRP was out there, I'd go on it and figure out what traits these betas have that I can manipulate. Not like we don't do the same thing to hamsters as men. However, you do realize that for every one of you, there are 1000 other hamsters out there ready to tell me "I don't usually do this on the first date" minutes before they do "this."
/r/askTRP24/07/14 04:47 AM
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I'm going to go against the other 5 commenters, not because I disagree (I work to get better at sex so I can get some personal return from knowing I'm improving myself in every facet of life), but because I believe that when you focus on your pleasure, you release from this stressful environment where you ask yourself every five seconds how she is enjoying it. When this happens, your instinct takes over and you become more sensual and passionate, what women read about in romance novels. And if y…
/r/askTRP24/07/14 04:44 AM
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Agreed. I had a LTR like this for a while prior to my unplugging. I kept pushing for communication and it never came. It never came. Neither did I (ba dum tss). But, once I realized I put my effort in and now it was just her lagging behind, it was time to dodge, dip, duck, dive, and dodge out of that relationship and bang some new poosy.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 04:40 AM
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http://therationalmale.com/2011/09/19/playing-friends/ Women have boyfriends and girlfriends. If you’re not fucking her, you’re her girlfriend. Did you read anything on here?
/r/askTRP24/07/14 04:36 AM
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You: Ever hear of Schrödinger's cat babe? Her: No… You: Well, until you reach into my pants and suck this pipe, you can consider it both hard and soft… Yeah, that should work.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 04:34 AM
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The reason is motivation, not a display of higher value. What? Motivation is the reason you engage in an action. That's like saying The grass is plant. Unless that was a typo, which I would forgive because I often make those when in a rush typing, I'm not sure what you mean. Also, physical force is the most basic display of higher value. How did cavemen establish who was the leader of the group? I don't think it was the guy with the coolest Ed Hardy jeans.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 04:28 AM
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Are you asking for pure pleasure with no struggle? Sadly, we will never reach a place where pleasure is handed to us. Men work for what we get, and we get what we deserve. Sometimes, we don't get what we are owed, but everything I have is something I have earned. Nothing falls in your lap. Or are you saying can we just find happiness in simply "being/existing?" Well, in a way, if being you makes you happy, that is a pleasure you find and if you want nothing else, you can have your pleasure. The …
/r/askTRP23/07/14 08:32 PM
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Of course not, it will spin those hamster wheels until the tires wear thin. 'Why isn't he accepting my nice gesture?... what a dick, fuck him... did i do somethign wrong?... maybe I should try to fix things... whatever, he's missing out, loser... baby? is everything okay?..." Trolling women is second only to banging them to humiliation for me.
/r/askTRP23/07/14 07:24 PM
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The fuck just happened? It... it started so innocent and BOOM, out of nowhere I get hit with "anal play with hairbrush video." And a video of her fingering herself in the shower? That's just not good practice, she could damage her phone if it got wet. You, my friend, could be a great author/screenwriter with your out-of-nowhere plot twists, kudos. Okay, now the serious part. Red flags: 1) She's on a dating site. Girls who are normal don't go on dating sites, all those girls are somehow damaged, …
/r/askTRP23/07/14 06:41 PM
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HAH, I've been threatened/accused with sexual harassment several times. Mostly, it was girls being girls and using buyer's remorse, so for me it was never something I regretted. 1) I do NOT condone forced sexual intercourse. 2) I do NOT think what you did was sexual assault, it was an attempt that ended up with a girl who was emotionally unstable and you became the bad guy because she felt the need to make a mountain our of a mole hill. Don't get down on yourself. Look at it this way. You wrote …
/r/askTRP23/07/14 06:36 PM
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You're getting one of two things with young girls: 1) Tight pussy. 2) A girl who just got this newfound feeling of "sexual liberation" as she moved out of her parents house and now wants to jump cock to cock to show how sexually free she is. I don't see the negatives with either of them.
/r/askTRP23/07/14 06:31 PM
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Too much effort. Regardless of if she makes you the bad guy or if she apologizes, she's seeking validation and closure. Don't give it to her. IGNORE. Or, if you want my personal dark route to respond to any text and you want to piss her off, the easiest way to spit in someone's face over text is to respond to her well thought out hamstering with "k."
/r/askTRP23/07/14 06:29 PM
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Sounds like you want to spin some plates on the side. Part 1: Why don't you consider spinning Stacy, don't fuck her, but keep her in your graces, in case Jane and you don't work, you have her right there, BOOM. Part 2, why don't you go and fuck girls Jane won't find out about?
/r/askTRP23/07/14 06:26 PM
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Flip it back on her. "And what do you do?" in a sarcastic and quasi-judging tone. Or, if you don't want to tell girls what you do, because most ask to gauge your SMV. Try something like "I'm a student of the universe and all that it encompasses" or "I study the world" Those will spark her interest, and then she will ask you what you mean, then say "Physics, it plays a role in how everything around us functions and that fascinates me." If she really thinks you're boring because of that, that cunt…
/r/askTRP23/07/14 06:23 PM
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The second I realize my girl isn't a LTR/Wife potential, I move on. Sure, you could get months or years of banging with her, but it's a waste if you can get that same thing elsewhere with small effort on your part. Girls dangle other guys hitting on them all the time, whether she's complaining or bragging. Like you said, it's best to ignore that hamster. If you really don't think she's worth the gray area of "what if" then just move on. If you pulled her, you know you can pull another girl of eq…
/r/askTRP23/07/14 06:19 PM
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Cafe, city stroll, park stroll. Anywhere you can 1) be isolated from outside distractions and 2) won't be engaging in an activity that limits your interactions (e.g. movie, dinner, tennis)
/r/askTRP23/07/14 06:16 PM
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A LDR is really a friendship. Also, you're 16, that means that this girl you're in love with is probably the first girl you felt that way about. Be careful of ONEitis and the myth of soulmates. If she's really that far away, what are you getting from the relationship? If she's really that perfect, I'd say table it and see where both of you are when you're closer to each other in distance and can actually have a functioning relationship.
/r/askTRP23/07/14 06:14 PM
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Marriage counseling is what society tells us fixes marriages but it is wrong and useless in and of itself. One of the iron rules is that YOU CANNOT NEGOTIATE DESIRE. Desire must happen naturally, and marriage counseling will tell you, like you said, ways that you can be a better couple, however the deep lack of desire will not improve. In agreement with you, I will say that doing chores will not increase desire, it will be a bandaid for a cancer. I hate being the blunt one, but counseling isn't …
/r/askTRP22/07/14 01:02 AM
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I see what you are trying to say. However, I think we are making two different assumptions. I would not agree that emotions are necessarily BP. Some emotions are BP, some are RP, and some go both or no ways. You will never be able to fully remove emotions from your reasoning or actions. You have to accept that they will always persist and influence you. No matter what someone on here will tell you about not feeling emotions, they are simply suppressing them at best or are oblivious to them at wo…
/r/askTRP22/07/14 12:57 AM
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http://i.giftrunk.com/ddbvm9.gif
/r/askTRP21/07/14 06:44 AM
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If you're looking for a trusted name in the community, McQueen has a bunch of material on his page. I saw that he put out a book specifically for texting, but I haven't read it yet. His other books haven't let me down so I'd give it a try. http://realchristianmcqueen.com/the-players-guide-to-text-game/
/r/askTRP21/07/14 06:39 AM
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look at the bright side… at least you know she puts out.
/r/askTRP21/07/14 06:25 AM
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Oh, I agree with you GG, it sounds like he could whip his dick out during a lunch break at work and she will milk it.
/r/askTRP21/07/14 12:46 AM
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You gotta balance your desire to fuck her with the woman's natural hypergamy. DREAD GAME. Always act indifferent. Always appear to have other things going on and that her stuff is not on your list of priorities. You essentially want to establish that you are independent and have your own goals and plans, and she is lucky to enter into your world, not the other way around.
/r/askTRP20/07/14 07:57 AM
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With the straightest face: "I just answered you." The best way to deal with nagging/complaining/rude behavior/shit tests is to give a brief but serious response that covertly sends her the message that you do not tolerate her behavior and will not entertain it. Once you do, the conversation is over and you guys continue life.
/r/askTRP20/07/14 07:05 AM
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Does google convert U.S. Dollars currency to pussy? What's the current exchange rate floating at? Rumor has it anal is skyrocketing in comparison to the old hand job.
/r/askTRP20/07/14 07:02 AM
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I was initially going to post a general comment response but then I scrolled down and saw you decided to add a volume 2 to what I am hoping is either a drunk post or a troll. Did you just tell us that you know she didn't cheat on you because she has an IUD? Please tell me those two sentences had nothing to do with each other, or I pray for the safety of the driver who's unlucky enough to have you wander in front of his car.
/r/askTRP20/07/14 07:01 AM
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I love a girl that has a sexual appetite. Now, I'm not saying she has to initiate it all the time, but when I bring it up, I like a girl on the same page as me. I think he doesn't bring it up because he "respects" you and your virginity as most virgin guys say they do, or whatever bullshit they've been fed. He probably is afraid that if he pushes the issue of sex, you will be turned off and will leave him or something. If I was a virgin dude and was dating a virgin girl, if she told me "I want t…
/r/askTRP20/07/14 06:54 AM
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This. This a million times. What the fuck are you even saying? From what I've managed to gather, you want to bang this girl, but you are afraid that she only wants to bang when she hasn't yet banged you? What?
/r/askTRP20/07/14 06:48 AM
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Until you know your enemy, you will never be able to truly strategize.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 04:27 AM
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I'm going to restrain myself from writing another novel, but to answer your question as simply as I could. Humans take action based on two things: logic and emotion. Remove emotion and logic will always give you the most ideal solution, however emotion comes in and confuses your reasoning leading to unfavorable consequences. The issue, which I found, is that while the community aims to reduce how much we allow emotion to manipulate our decision making, emotion will naturally overpower logic if i…
/r/askTRP20/07/14 04:24 AM
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I don't kill people, and all those negatives are really confusing me. HA HA. That's a joke!
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 05:26 AM
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I'll concur with Stew. The LTR that lead to me discovering our community was holding out with the poosy. Like a chump, I chased and asked for it and got less and less. The need dynamic was strong with me. Once desire overtook need, I was back on track.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 05:25 AM
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While in America, I've been a resident (self-defined as: established a long term headquarters) in two close but very different areas. The first, Northern New Jersey. The second, Philadelphia. NJ: The scene is jacked up, tan, guido guys and caked up, tan girls. Generally, I found the club scene as more preferred than the bar scene. Physical looks are important, and girls value the stereotype mentioned above. I do not fit that stereotype. More on me later. I had luck while in college in NJ as the …
/r/askTRP18/07/14 05:24 AM
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Nobody's fault. This is an open community and people use terms how the previous guy used them. I've seen too many posts about the DT used incorrectly. New readers will only see what is being used now. Somewhere along the way, some fucktard used it in place of asshole or douche and the community bandwagonned. I'm just here to filter the pure from the perceived.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 05:06 AM
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Start by getting invited to a house party. Meet people. Build a network. Have fun doing it and fun things will come to you naturally. Fake it 'til you make it has been a maxim for a long time, for a reason.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 05:04 AM
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You're getting warmer. When I was younger, as an immigrant and as someone who spent his childhood as a shy kid, I was hardly the natural poosy crusher I wanted to be. In high school, I played sports and had friends, but I was still what people would call a "loser." And what got me by was that bullshit about "wait until you get older and women will be falling all over you." Well, in high school, that is a shitty consolation prize. So, I hated those girls who fucked the guys I called assholes. In …
/r/askTRP18/07/14 05:02 AM
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This. I'm a huge fan of whenever I have a girl come over before a night out, when she enters and goes into my bedroom, I push her onto my bed and just take, take, take. Now, be careful with this. In my scenario, these are plates or girls whose interest level is already high enough where I can treat them like the sluts they are. It might shock some that if you invite a girl over for the first time and try this, she might cry rape… and, for once, she might be right.
/r/askTRP18/07/14 03:31 AM
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The Pill is hard enough to swallow when you are trying to do it. In my early days, I always tried to champion the Pill to my friends that needed it and I have yet to convert someone who just does not want to be converted. Sometimes people ask me advice and what they can do to change, and those are the people that want to be helped. Usually, I wait until they seem as though my direction guiding them to the Pill is the last thing to possibly save them, otherwise, they will take your advice, call y…
/r/askTRP18/07/14 03:27 AM
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has seriously done everything in her power to win me over: she does my dishes, pays for dinner, is constantly fawning over me, took it up the butt, etc. Hahaha, that went downhill fast. But, seriously, I'll take a stab at this one. You said this girl tops the list in all the categories you've mentioned as important to you. You then said you would be able to find other girls, but none that are significantly better than her in those categories. You want to see what else is out there but feel bad a…
/r/askTRP18/07/14 03:22 AM
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To add on to my other post in the comments, you went out of your way to ask the TRP community for advice. Out of the responses you've gotten, I'd say the vast majority tells you to do the same thing, help him. Yet, you keep replying to everyone telling them that it's his choice. If you don't give a fuck about what people here have to say, then for fuck's sake why are you even asking? Why don't you go reread the responses and consider the majority opinion. In the future, if you don't want to hear…
/r/askTRP18/07/14 03:11 AM
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You do realize that there are covert ways to ask for help? One need not get on his knees and beg for your intervention to seek help from you. If my friend says to me "You know, I feel like I'm just not having any luck with girls lately," he's not just saying that to break silence, he's subconsciously telling me that this is bothering him and that, as a friend, I should be acting. Think of your friend as my example on a much more serious level. You'd be a fucktard to say "well, it's your call, br…
/r/askTRP18/07/14 03:07 AM
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The "need vs. desire" dynamic is spot on here. Need shows a larger investment than the other party is putting in. For example, you need your boss because he pays you and he could replace you easier than you could find a similar job. You desire poosy but if Amanda won't give it up, Beth will, and if not her then Christine. I'll concur in this man's opinion.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 03:01 AM
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http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2009/06/02/the-love-test-a-routine/ Great one to use if you can pull it off as natural and unrehearsed.
/r/askTRP18/07/14 01:51 AM
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Don't take this the wrong way, or do - the whole point of this thread is not to be paying girls to like you. Up your SMV and you won't need to pay bitches to act like they're having fun around you. Game 'em.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 01:25 AM
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NEXT! Dude, she isn't even worth a plate. A plate should want to be with you more than you want her. NEVER invest more into it than she is willing to invest. He who invests least holds control - FACT. The sex can't be that good that you can't find another girl out there to stick your dick in.
/r/askTRP18/07/14 12:16 AM
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Well, then you have to build up that SMV... and asking "when are you free?" just lowers it in her eyes. If the girls won't follow the pattern I listed above, then they should be nexted. If you want to follow the red pill and be an alpha, you can't conform to their frame in hopes of being rewarded with a date or poosy. This is especially true when you're starting out. Nobody goes from AFC to Alpha in one night. When you start out, girls are going to still be able to notice what your SMV is, and t…
/r/askTRP17/07/14 11:56 PM
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Well, the good thing is that I'd estimate an outstanding percentage of TRPers have been where you are, and most probably still are. Fuck, I'll admit that I've been in that scenario several times in the past. I think if you really do struggle with the logic/emotion battle inside, you could read some of Rollo Tomassi at The Rational Male, he has some great Red Pill stuff that focuses more on the psychological aspects of our actions than on other more common TRP stuff.
/r/askTRP17/07/14 09:00 PM
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I take the train in to downtown of the city I am in. One way to boost your social game is to take difficult approaches when there is no win/lose pressure. What I do, is look for people, not necessarily poosy, that I can talk to and sit next to them on the train (it's usually crowded so spots are few and far between, obviously don't sit next to someone when it's just you and them in the train car). I start the conversation. Think of the social game as a snowball effect. It would be much easier to…
/r/askTRP17/07/14 08:57 PM
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I would say that this looks like a flowing abundance to scarcity mentality. When you are still spinning the girl, you have the mentality that if she falls, you'll have another onein no time. Once you begin to build a stronger, and naturally more emotional, connection, you lose that abundance view because your investment in her increases. Once your investment increases, you naturally invest more and more. When you see her aloof, your instinct tells you to put more in and work harder. This becomes…
/r/askTRP17/07/14 08:51 PM
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What are you trying to say here? What I got was "I was an AFC and then grew up, and now women notice me." It's called branch swinging son, even when a woman is with another man, she's still going to be looking out for that next branch that is higher, sturdier, and girthier. Hypergamy is real. Also, In the same sense that your LTR might use the "other guys flirt with me" gimmick to raise her DHV in your eyes, she's looking for validation from the other guys. Everything that happens in this dynami…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 08:47 PM
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We should note that there is a crucial difference between being an all out asshole for the sake of being an asshole and Dark Triad. Dark Triads exhibit an enormous amount of self-love, are apathetic to the general wellness of those around them, and are cunning manipulators at reaching their ends. As a rough example, a guy who walks down the street calling every girl a dumb cunt isn't a dark triad because of that, the guy who spits in a homeless guy's face isn't a dark triad, both of them are jus…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 08:38 PM
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Unless he was a red piller and trolling the shit out of that hamster.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 07:26 PM
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If by boring you mean every girl is "I'm looking for a funny and caring guy, I'm funny and educated so you better be too. I'm a hard worker and very career driven but I like to have fun. I have fun when I'm having fun, I has X Y and Z standards..." then yes, they are boring. Welcome to online dating where every girl is a unique princess that somehow has the same bio as the girl before and after her. Rule #1: Think of something yourself, then it will likely be original, and use that. If you see a…
/r/askTRP17/07/14 05:33 PM
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I'll concur in Monkey's opinion. I think he's referring to the SMV that Rollo has discussed ad nauseum. Men play into the woman's SMV by wifing her up at her peak, while they are at a natural low. At a professional prime, usually 30s, the SMV for males and females flips from where it was in the early 20s. Monkey is spot on.
/r/askTRP17/07/14 05:30 PM
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I respectfully dissent in part and concur in part with LS_D. Roosh is one that has discussed the topic of game and approach ad nauseum and his go to move is always to escalate with "I think we should hang out for a drink" or variation, upon her confirmation, you pull out your phone and "why don't you put your number in here." Getting her number puts the ball in your court, as opposed to having to gamble on her calling you. As to LS_D's point of checking to make sure it's a real number, he has an…
/r/askTRP17/07/14 05:24 PM
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I think it's best to cite to Bang by Roosh. Goals are always needed, how you list them is up to you. But the two big takeaways are one, that your goals should be set with a high bar, otherwise you risk easy goals that don't feel as satisfying. The second is that you should be wary of putting a due date on them. Everyone is different and what takes you one day could take me a week. Just work on them and you'll see results. No need to add pressure on yourself when you don't need it.
/r/askTRP17/07/14 05:19 PM
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You should check out Rollo at therationalmale.com, he's married and he's been one of my biggest influences in the community. His book, with the same title as his website, is on my must read for newbie pillers.
/r/askTRP17/07/14 05:17 PM
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I too experience sweaty palms, and even sweaty pits when in a perceived stressful scenario. My key has been awareness - If you have pit stains, don't flail your arms in the air. As for sweaty palms, try the casual wipe on your pant leg before establishing contact with her. But what Blooded said, just work on kino over clothed areas on her body. Either that or go bold and go directly for the fingerblast... should be just as moist if you're spitting that game right (don't actually do this, or do i…
/r/askTRP17/07/14 05:16 PM
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He put it in the title, so I'm assuming that yes, it was needed. Would you have had the same issue had he put a different, more polite adjective?
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 03:38 PM
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It's a fallacy for a reason; it implies that claims that fall under the fallacy are not based on a logical string of facts but require an assumption without backing. If you plug the term male or man into the fallacy, they are both still fallacies. I don't think that the distinction between males and men fall within this fallacy. Ex. Brett: No man would ever put his needs before his wife's. Adam: I am a man who puts my needs before my wife's. Brett: Well, then you must not be a man. Adam: Eat a d…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 03:29 PM
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I like response #2; response #1 doesn't really do it for me. How about: "I hide it well" or "I don't like playing favorites"
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 03:21 PM
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This guy probably pisses sitting down.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 02:46 PM
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WAIT WAIT WAIT. What line of work is she in where women get paid 25% of what men get paid??? Someone please tell me so I can get into it, hire four "qualified and educated" women for the price of one man and rake in the profits!!! Dear wage gap hamsters everywhere - if we could get away with paying you less for the same quality of work, nobody would be hiring men. That's freshman level economics.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 02:41 PM
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I'm a firm believer that FB has no value beyond recon. The sole reason mine is still active is because I can find shit about other people when I need to, hence I keep a large amount of friends to be able to locate new girls more easily. On the other hand, FB also allows me to control what I show about myself. There's a trend towards transparency on the internet (McQueen just put up about 2 dozen pics of himself, which was a bold and badass move). Everyone thinks that someone's FB tells a whole s…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 02:31 PM
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http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-37851.html Pulled it from McQueen's logic in this thread. Spinning that hamster wheel, acting aloof when other guys would get jealous/angry. It's usually my go to, and I do acknowledge that others might have their own magic techniques.
/r/askTRP17/07/14 01:50 PM
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If anything, anything at all, she's dangling this guy as a "look at the other guys who want me if you're not there" bait, but it looks to me as though everyone else commenting got it right, she just feels obligated to tell you that this is what fat cunt is doing and that she doesn't want any part of it. I think you're safe. I'll stick a yellow flag in fat friend though and keep an eye on her.
/r/askTRP16/07/14 11:13 PM
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This might come off as harsh, but you need to hear this as much as most of us did at some point. If she went out and did all of this to you in 2 days, and you are hurt and all that rationalizing you did, don't you think it's time to swallow the pill, my friend? You just hamstered her actions for her (she was drunk, we broke up for a day, I would have joined, etc.). I think it's great that she wants sex from you, but there are more red flags here than in 1988 Moscow. Maybe you should browse this …
/r/askTRP16/07/14 11:10 PM
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I agree with the guy below me that reading the material here will lead you to a lot of what you're looking for, but you can read all day for 10 years and if you don't go out there and do, it won't matter. I've seen guys read all about Game and PUArtistry, but never apply it and act shocked when the one girl they love doesn't fall for their sole attempt at mimicking what others have perfected. You should study what people have had success with, but in the end, you do what you know is best for you…
/r/askTRP16/07/14 11:05 PM
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First off, /u/Rollo-Tomassi , wanted to say that The Rational Male is one of my most recommended books when asked about the community. Now, my two cents: I've always related SMV and Personal Value as a loose tie in to the way we look at micro- and macroeconomics. And, of course, micro and macroecon are notably different and not perfect parallels to the Sexual Marketplace, but ties exist nonetheless. Personal Value (PV) is your perception of yourself and how you assume other perceive you. Now, pe…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 08:40 PM
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Nice Law of Power reference. Glad to hear you're actually retaining the info rather than shoveling through it like other kids I try to put on those books. Teenagers are "fucking dumb." Fact. That's why a lot of people your age find it difficult adjusting to whatever is the norm in your school, in your time. There's no bulletproof advice. This might sound obvious and perhaps beaten to death but /u/mudra311 is right, you have to be open and approachable. Most importantly, all you have to do is app…
/r/askTRP16/07/14 07:43 PM
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This is a suggestion, adapted from a Roosh thought on approach in social settings, e.g. bars. Roosh argued an approach for a group, whether it is all girls or there is a guy or two in the mix. You could approach the group but do not lead into the Alpha of the group or the girl you're going after. Open to an established member, that way it isn't overt that you're looking to break into that group. Make friends with one, and develop that relationship, that will lead to introductions, which will lea…
/r/askTRP16/07/14 07:12 PM
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Sounds like you have the foundation already established. I think what you have is already what you're looking for. May I suggest breaking the goals into daily, weekly, monthly, 3 months out, 6 months out, 1 year, 3 years, 5 years, etc. or any set of dates you feel are reasonable for yourself. Be aware, however, that setting goals with certain "due dates" should be done with caution. Everyone moves at their own pace, and you cannot try to achieve something that your bud did in a week in the same …
/r/askTRP16/07/14 05:44 PM
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Texting: "k" In person: pat her on the head and say "good job honey"
/r/askTRP16/07/14 05:37 PM
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Alright, let's break this bad boy down. 1) You were trying to neg, but actually it sounded like you were insulting. You were belittling her. You can read all of the TRP you want, but articles on here are 95% amateur. If you read proven authors, in this case Roosh, you'd know there is a flow scale of compliments to insults. On that scale, you were down right insulting her, and that's never an option to a girl you want to bang. 2) Why the hell were you telling her that she made you lose your preci…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 02:36 PM
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Maybe ask her if she wants to grab drinks at a bar and dance? As in, escalate by the next step that literally every blog in the manosphere tells you to do - bring her to a venue and game her in an isolated environment. But, I will agree with Mr. Reardon… you really don't have a question here, it's more like a short story, or a long fact.
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Rewards and punishments. You give a dog a treat when he does a trick, and you punish him when he shits in your shoe. That's how not only humans, but most animals with higher cognitive functions act. Thanks for the quasi-philosophical question, though. Usually you gotta give a guy a blunt before this comes out.
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Do the fucking work. Don't expect her to help because she's clearly inept. Generally, when a partner (intimate or at work) doesn't contribute as much or more than you, you should seek to take action, however in this case, you were assigned to partner with her so you're basically stuck. And this isn't some big work project or client that can hurt you or your company if you shoot and miss. There's no sense in bitching about how much you're doing compared to her, that's what women do. It just looks…
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Oh, don't get me wrong dear friend, I absolutely see the pattern you laid out on a daily basis. Trust me, when I escalate into the bedroom, the percentage of 7s+ that give me the "moving too fast" or whatever bullshit greatly outnumbers the percentage of 5s and 6s. It could be something about how the hot girls are actually more liberated and know they have this power to bang their pick of dudes and move on and not be judged. But these middle tier girls have this idea that they should be romanced…
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I see where you're going with this and, following the flow of logic, you make a valid argument. My issue with this is that this is based on assumptions, otherwise known as variables, and there are many here. It's okay to squeeze by on one or two assumed statements, but I think this is more a theory than something that's AWALT.* What I mean is, if you find empirical evidence of these behavioral patterns, your argument would be perfectly sound and good insight.
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I'll concur in points 1 and 3. I'll dissent in point 2, because coitus is supposed to be enjoyable for both parties. Often, I find that when you focus on enjoying yourself, you dive into a realm of pure passion that naturally allows you to channel that into her pleasure. Asking her "did you like it when I stuck my tongue in your shit box?" is going to get responses like "sort of" or "i guess" and you're better off being in the zone during the act and gauging her reactions in the moment.
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I agree with /u/deptii where he says frame is whatever you want. Frame isn't a checklist or a routine you run on girls. Frame is your world, it is your idea of what you want out of the person who enters your frame. If anyone on this subreddit tells you otherwise, they're missing it.
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Aggression when you are not threatened by aggression is not Alpha behavior, it is an action seeking validation, an action that (win or lose the fight) shows that he challenges and threatens you. Unless someone is attacking you, there is no reason to attack them. What are you trying to prove?
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Tricky. Generally, I follow the "Are you free on X-day?" If she says yes, you're good. If she says no, she will either offer an alternative or you can offer her one more option. I usually don't bother after two attempts unless she actually has legit plans (none of that "ummmm I was supposed to do something with my best friend's cousin's dog"). The shaky ground is "I'll get back to you." If she says that, she means "I might have plans that I value over potential plans with you, but you're my benc…
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