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I am genuinely curious what people’s issue with the Manosphere documentary is. I did find Louis Theroux a bit insufferable but I felt like the documentary did a decent job of letting these men fall on their swords to show us all how unhinged they are. I actually do find it interesting how these guys think because it seems to be an ethos that has snaked its way into politics and the gender wars at large. It’s an understandable course correction that unfortunately goes way past “quit punishing men…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/04/26 03:19 AM
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It’s crazy how my first reaction to this is a sort of visceral, subconscious denial of what I’m reading. We’re just talking about reaching at risk young men here but just reading anything that says “we want to help raise up men” instinctively gets my hackles up because I’ve been sort of trained to feel that way by my political party. It’s really weird. It sucks that things have gotten that bad because it really is true that we have to address these issues but it feels like any sort of pro-male m…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/03/25 11:19 PM
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“If he was the typical male feminist, who only uphold male gender roles. He would be loved by Feminists or liberals. And use as the face of ‘healthy masculinity’” 100%. I think every single person in this sub needs to read Rejection by Tony Tulathimutte, and more specifically his short story The Feminist. The premise is this: the protagonist is the absolute epitome of a male feminist and follows academic principles of feminism to a tee. And what happens in the story, without giving spoilers away…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/03/25 11:49 PM
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Yeah that’s an exactly the problem. And under this mentality strong=bad weak=good, and what better target than men and masculinity? We are seeing an erosion not just of men’s mental health but of what might be called masculine qualities overall (strength, grit, leadership, toughness, resilience, etc). The thing is, the world is a tough fucking place, and everyone could do well to tap into some of these masculine qualities to better handle adversity. The right knows this and has incorporated this…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/03/25 09:58 PM
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In my mind it’s about feeling good and confident. That’s a tough thing to fake/act, and I think you gotta orient yourself in the right direction first. Clean up your act, get to the gym, buy clothes that fit you well, be around people who make you feel great, get used to talking to strangers, laugh more, be tunnel visioned about staying in a good mood. You need to surround yourself with good shit. When you believe (I mean truly, truly believe) that you’re fucking awesome, and you’re having a goo…
/r/seduction28/09/18 07:34 PM
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Here’s where I need some work. Personally I don’t care that much about rejection, it’s part of the game man. But I do care about other people, and the last thing I want to do is make some girl’s day worse because I came up and hit on her. Granted every time I’ve done it the girl has said “you made my day!” But I have this built-in belief that I’m doing some kind of harm by interrupting their day. Kind of like how you feel when some one tries to sell you something in the street and you’re just fu…
/r/seduction02/09/18 04:25 PM
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This all or nothing logic is not healthy. You are not either a nice guy or a bad boy with no in between. Go ahead and embody all these traits and see how far it gets you in life—you’ll either come across as insincere and fake because you’re violating your own values in trying to be such a bad boy, or you’ll repel people because you’re a grade A asshole. Where these traits come in handy is if you can add a little of the essence of them to what is already a decent personality. You should aim to be…
/r/seduction19/08/18 07:37 PM
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Man watching that video I could feel my inner christian child just going nuts. That fundamentalist shit is hard to shake as an adult. Even though I know that's what women want, my programming says no, that it's creepy and rapey. But the whole nice guy routine just doesn't work... Looks like me and you gotta get out there and try something different.
/r/seduction20/12/16 04:20 AM
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Google rejection therapy, I think the goal is to desensitize yourself to rejection by experiencing it every day.
/r/seduction22/04/16 06:57 PM
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I think that having a purpose and striving for something greater than you is great, but at the end of the day sexuality is a human need. Am I just supposed to stay celibate until I find my purpose and deny myself as a man?
/r/seduction20/04/16 02:29 PM
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Working on inner game and I'm stuck on the "accept yourself for who you are" part. The way I see it, acceptance seems like resignation, and I know that's not the right mindset to adopt. For example, if I'm fat and lazy and depressed, and that's getting in the way of me getting girls, then how do I "accept myself for who I am" and move on? How do you simultaneously accept yourself and decide to change yourself? Thanks.
/r/seduction17/03/16 10:40 PM
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Thanks for that. Let's us know how it goes.
/r/seduction12/03/16 12:45 AM
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Yeah wtf is all this "establish dominance" bs, just be a normal person. I don't compete for chicks like that.
/r/seduction11/03/16 09:40 PM
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Well said.
/r/seduction23/10/14 06:03 AM
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Yeah after thinking about it I came to the same conclusion as what you wrote. I think my mind is trying to justify my lack of self-esteem by shielding it with bs. Thanks.
/r/seduction23/10/14 06:00 AM
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Eye contact. Every time you go out, wherever it is, make eye contact with girls you find attractive (albeit not in a creepy way) and if they hold your gaze, smile and go talk to them. Sometimes opening with a "did we just have a moment there?" helps break the ice.
/r/seduction30/08/14 02:26 AM
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Oh gotcha. I pictured a big roided out frat guy the first time I read that. Keep up the enthusiasm man.
/r/seduction03/08/14 06:24 AM
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I dig your success man. But I gotta tell you, as an introverted, artsy dude this is about a million miles away from being applicable to my seduction game. I get the importance of taking charge of a situation and making things happen. I'm just a little put off by the AMOG bro vibe and, to be honest, I'd rather it didn't bug me so much. Maybe one of you guys can give me a hand here.
/r/seduction03/08/14 06:01 AM
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"We kissed" or "And later we had sex" F-close and K-close sounds like you executed a program or won a prize at the fair.
/r/seduction01/05/14 04:15 PM
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why do people on /r/seduction say things like k-close and f-close? it sounds ridiculous.
/r/seduction01/05/14 04:05 PM
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