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| 3 | Q4M: What are your thoughts on childfree women and infertile women?I'm interesting in that I'm childfree AND infertile. I never wanted children and then found out I can't have them (or if I can it will be extremely difficult with a low chance of success) when I found out, the news was not earth-shattering or devastating it was more "huh, ok" because I had ZERO interest in being a mother and am open and candid about my infertility but I've found that if people ask and I say I'm childfree I get the "oh you'll change your mind" spiel HOWEVER if I mention infertili… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 08:15 PM |
| – | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you downvoted if you said it?Funny, tall women always say this but then if you ask a 5'10 woman if she'd like to be 5'5 instead NONE of them say "yes" whereas if you asked me if I'd like to be 5'10 I'd say yes in a heartbeat. I'm 5'6 but come from a family of very tall women who apart from me and one other cousin average about 5'9 in height, they gripe about being tall but NONE of them would choose to be sorter if given the option... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 02:31 PM |
| – | Would a woman working in a male dominated industry be a deal breaker?Eh, I'm a surgeon which is extremely male-dominated - I work three times as many hours as my SO, have zero flexibility and little semblance of a work-life balance - the kicker? he earns way more than I do. Honestly if our roles were reversed it'd probably be a dealbreaker lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 09:48 AM |
| – | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you downvoted if you said it?OMG, Imagine having such main character syndrome that you think paying taxes is some sort of plot by society to keep you down hahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 08:53 AM |
| – | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you downvoted if you said it?Yeah, another unpopular opinion of mine is that men react FAR more negatively to ugly women than women do to ugly men, as you said most women will sort of react passively to an ugly man unless he's a creep or intruding on her space but men seem to despise on a visceral level ugly and unattractive women, as if their mere existence is an insult to them - they will go out of their way to let an unattractive woman know that he thinks she's unattractive as if she a) doesn't already fucking know b) hi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 08:49 AM |
| – | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you downvoted if you said it?This was my unpopular opinion as well, it makes my blood boil and sort of makes me loose faith in my gender a lot of the stories I've been hearing from women IRL but also reading lately. I follow a social media page where women talk about dating woes etc and my god, every one is like... I'm a smart, successful, attractive woman in her 20s/30s who just wants to meet a nice guy and settle down - I met a guy on *insert dating app here* he showed up and was obviously four inches shorter than he'd cl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 08:36 AM |
| – | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you downvoted if you said it?Agree, my last BF was over a foot taller than me and I'm not short (5'6) and honestly I didn't enjoy it- I felt like a doll and it was an awkward reach.I've also noted that the shortest women are usually the one who go gaga over tall men, I've known waaay more women under 5'2 in the "must be six feet to apply" club than women I've known over 5'8... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 08:24 AM |
| – | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you downvoted if you said it?Women who have sex on the first date and then whine about a guy ghosting her or "not wanting to commit" and feeling used only have themselves to blame. If you want sex - go for it - but if you're dating specifically with the goal of entering into a relationship and jump into bed with a virtual stranger then your odds of being "pumped and dumped" are...much much higher... so don't complain about being "used". I know a lot of women will come back with "you can never be SURE" thats true, you could … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 08:20 AM |
| 2 | Women getting upset over the fact that Men like younger women is mainly irrationalGuy is obviously LARPing everything he's typing is pure fantasy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 10:00 AM |
| 3 | Men don’t see unattractive women as humanThey also don't exist - they refuse to believe that to many women there does NOT exist a man who is so irresistible that she'll drop her current partner for some casual sex. Apparently everyone in the world who's not Henry Cavil or Bella Hadid is "settling" and we're all just in denial about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 12:28 PM |
| 5 | Men don’t see unattractive women as humanEh, what I glean from it is that a lot of PPD men fall into a few categories a) severe anxiety or some other issue that makes the struggle with people in general b) Have insanely high standards despite being average/below average c) Are misogynistic assholes and or have deeply unpleasant and entitled attitudes that put women off (usually this overlaps with b) All these groups come to the conclusion that all women everywhere are the problem and they invent this fictional idealised man called a Ch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 12:01 PM |
| 4 | Men don’t see unattractive women as humanNah, no point arguing. These guys have such warped views of women and how the world works that it tips into absurdism - you see the response in this thread right "buut buut buut even a mouth breathing, drooling hunchback with three teeth and a lazy eye can bag a reasonably attractive dude but she's still going to go for King Chad" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 10:18 AM |
| 3 | Men don’t see unattractive women as humanIt's some flawed study done by OkCupid or some other dating site a few years back that PPD guys misinterpret and take as GOSPEL - that women only find the "top 20%" of guys attractive (what they always leave out is women tended to send messages across a wide range of "attractiveness levels" whereas men consistently ONLY messaged the top 20% attractive women) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 10:16 AM |
| 47 | Men don’t see unattractive women as humanall women play guys and get plenty of dates”. It’s so cringe because they are only talking about attractive women Ya because any woman not related to them who they don't deem fuckable is literally invisible so all they see are women (ie attractive ones) "getting plenty of dates" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 10:44 PM |
| 6 | Her friend wasn’t cockblocking, you just missed a signal or there was an agreement before they even leftWhy the fuck is she smiling if she wants to be left alone? Because if she didn't she'd just be a bitch and then possibly you'd be "justified" in harassing her because she was "mean"... the entailment is honestly insane, one guy on here pretty much said that it's the superficial and judgmental nature of "the look" that pisses guys off ...like not getting the sheer arrogance of assuming that a woman you find attractive owes you time and attention ... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/23 04:23 PM |
| 13 | Her friend wasn’t cockblocking, you just missed a signal or there was an agreement before they even leftThis post topic is very common on here and I always think the most hilarious one is all the guys, without fail, coming in with anecdotes of some fat chick cockblocking a girl who was ObViOuSlY into them...the whole crux of this discussion is that dudes can't pick up on signals between girlfriends and misconstrue disinterest and letting her friend be the bad guy as "cockblocking" ...yet not a single woman here has EVER, I mean EVER given an anecdote where she was cockblocked. Not once. No woman o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/23 12:03 PM |
| 12 | Her friend wasn’t cockblocking, you just missed a signal or there was an agreement before they even leftThis post topic is very common on here and I always think the most hilarious one is all the guys, without fail, coming in with anecdotes of some fat chick cockblocking a girl who was ObViOuSlY into them...yet not a single woman here has EVER, I mean EVER given an anecdote where she was cockblocked. Not once. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/23 11:59 AM |
| – | Most boys and girls were mostly raised by women who conditioned them to worship women, especially when it comes to dating.Not really. Humanity has always valued women to a greater degree than men, since long before single motherhood was commonplace. Hahahaha. Oh wow. Do you not know...all of human history? Since pretty much all of recorded history in most parts of the world women have been viewed as less than men and in some cultures barely even human, c'mon I know PPD guys have a chip on their shoulders the size of the Chicxulub crater but this is actually absurd to even pretend this. You are literally ignoring mi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 03:39 PM |
| 4 | Women can be borderline autistic, even mentally and socially retarded and they will still be able to get guys, have dating options, overall, still be able to get into a relationship, but not so much the other way around.I mean that's because PPD use a type of circular logic. The start and ultimately endpoint is "Sex = only attainable/worthwhile/most important goal" they take this stance and disregard everything outside of this so it will always... and I mean ALWAYS... boil down to "BuT wOmEn CaN gEt SeX aNyTiMe" so any other argument is a moot point because ultimately no matter what women have it easier because we can get sex easier (ignoring such trivial things as the fact that maybe women don't actually want … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 01:34 AM |
| 10 | Ironically, interacting more with girls is what got me redpilled, not Tate or whoeverYeah, but for PPD men that's the cardinal sin honey. They only value you in relation to your youth and sexual value to them - ya know, exactly like the slimy assholes we all learn to avoid as we gain more experience. The issue literally every one of these guys have on here is that you're not fucking them when you're young (and therefore "hot") they don't give a shit about women as people with agency or autonomy and refuse to forgive mistakes or the poor judgment of youth for which they are infin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 01:19 AM |
| – | Women Cannot Detect a Red Pilled Man If He Knows What He's DoingI'm 5'6 and weigh 125lbs and hit the gym a few times a week, that insanely chiselled, low body fat % look is only achieved by extreme work and maintenance (I used to have it, back when I was a college athlete training 7 days a week twice a day) and no one, anywhere, just "casually has one" I don't get the weird fucking hangups ya'll have with basic biological facts assuming I must be some fat American because I'm rightfully calling bullshit on someone with chiselled abs and zero body-fat who cla… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 05:49 PM |
| 11 | Women Cannot Detect a Red Pilled Man If He Knows What He's DoingIn my 30+ years on this planet there are exactly two types of men who have six packs, abs and 15% body fat Professional, semi-professional or competition-level athletes who are OBSESSED with their given sport which unless you are also into said sport is usually...boring... Guys who are absurdly smug and proud of themselves (I mean, congrats, it takes work to get a body like that but holy hell do they think they're better than everyone else) A guy who is not the former who claims to just be "real… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 12:32 AM |
| 2 | How do you treat unattractive people?The same as everyone else...I'm in general rather people-averse, I have a partner and don't want any more friends so I'll keep my interactions with everyone largely to an as-needed basis, how you look does not influence this at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 12:24 AM |
| 2 | Women Cannot Detect a Red Pilled Man If He Knows What He's DoingWomen who are active or also work out knows what it takes to attain a certain look and will also smell bullshit, depending on how in-shape a guy is it takes a LOT of effort, if this dude is 15% body fat and has 6-pack abs he's either obsessed or vain AF, no other way to get that kind of body, he's probably outing himself unintentionally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 12:21 AM |
| 2 | Women Cannot Detect a Red Pilled Man If He Knows What He's DoingIndeed, even at my absolute worst (and I was weird AF as a teen/early 20s) I would have never, and I mean never fallen for this RP bullshit. I have basic observational skills and halfway-decent instincts and have never been taken advantage of, "used for my body" or otherwise been "tricked" by these sorts of dudes and the women I knew growing up who were...well...they were traumatised, had baggage, serious issues or were just...dumb...normal, decently-adjusted women are not even on these guys rad… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 12:18 AM |
| 3 | Women Cannot Detect a Red Pilled Man If He Knows What He's DoingThe behaviour is always there under the surface, the push boundaries, slowly, ever so slowly to see what a woman will tolerate, but abusive men are predators and pick vulnerable women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 12:13 AM |
| 6 | Women Cannot Detect a Red Pilled Man If He Knows What He's DoingHonestly, guys who just want to score are not nearly and I mean this from the bottom of my heart, NOT EVEN CLOSE to being a subtle or as sly as they think they are, even a semi-discerning woman will be able to pick up on this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 12:12 AM |
| 27 | Women Cannot Detect a Red Pilled Man If He Knows What He's DoingYeah, my first thought after reading these "truths" is that this dude is not master manipulator he fancies himself to be... the thing about red pill dudes is that they have no respect for women as people and can't even comprehend that we could possibly even be approaching their level of intellect which leads them to believe nonsense like...well, this...that women are dumb and easily-manipulated empty-headed little things who think using our lizard brains and female hormones and couldn't possibly… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 12:05 AM |
| 1 | The real reason for forever girlfriend / f*ckzoned women"I'm sick of men being branded as dirtbags for stringing unsuspecting women along forever it's not fair on the poor guy to be labelled as such when the REAL reason they do this is because they think the woman is, in actual fact, a bitch who has let herself go...he only stays with her for sex and the girlfriend experience until a better option comes along! He's the real victim here! we should be blaming those fat old bitchy women who aren't spending enough time in the gym!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 08:49 AM |
| 0 | Any women out there that have a thing for tall guys but ended up with a shorter guy?My Fiancee is the shortest guy I've been in a serious relationship with at 5'9, my exes have all been over 6'2, I'm only 5'6 so my bar has always been "preferably taller than me" and I've dated men who are exactly my height as well, but I come from a family with very tall men so in my head anything less than about 5'11 was "short", my first thought when I met my SO was "he's a little short" but quickly forgot about that...Why I chose him? I never felt so connected to someone before, we clicked i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 08:20 AM |
| 13 | Theories on why Average and Underaverage women are harsher on men than actually Cute womenI love how every single man on PPD seems to dramatically miss this point again and again. Something women on here and literally everywhere constantly point out- they are much nicer, attentive and sweeter to attractive women and women they find unattractive are at best invisible and at worst a personal affront to them by virtue of daring to take up space. The difference in attitude, behaviour and basc respect a man will have for you if he's attracted to you (ie would fuck) versus not attracted to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 05:23 PM |
| 6 | Theories on why Average and Underaverage women are harsher on men than actually Cute womenYeah, it's always better to the the pretty girl with the jealous "fat whale of a friend" (that's always their go-to insult for bigger girls) cock-blocking her than the rude stuck up bitch who thinks she's too good for me...Maybe...I'll start to harass and intimidate her to "teach her a lesson" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 05:15 PM |
| 29 | Theories on why Average and Underaverage women are harsher on men than actually Cute womenFor a beautiful woman, talking with an average man is a charity. And when you do charity, you do it in a nice way. Being mean to the disabled, animals, children, the homeless, and generally people far below our social level is seen as particularly cruel because they have little to defend themselves. On the flip side average or below -average women will have fugly guys twice her age throwing themselves at her and acting like it's some huge favour. It's exactly as insulting as it sounds and it's a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 05:10 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Men aren't assholes for treating you different after a rejectionYou are of course not obliged to help anyone who you don't want to but the transactional way you see male-female relationships is...off-putting...ie; you'd only ever consider putting yourself out there and doing something nice for someone if there's a chance you can fuck them. This is why women are so cold towards strange men, because they view the world like this "Oh she smiled at me or made polite small talk, I must have a shot!", this chick seems like she was weird but in general if you don't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Women saying it's hard for them to find a man to 'commit' is pure hypocrisyBecause. Women. Have. Options. You think our grandmas wanted to be tied down to a man they had to wait on hand and foot? They literally couldn't even open fucking bank accounts, in my native country married women couldn't even have JOBS until the 1970s. My grandmother was one such woman, she was fiercely independent, highly intelligent and had boundless energy. She hated being married, she hated her husband, she hated being a mother and a wife, she didn't like spending time with her grandchildre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Women saying it's hard for them to find a man to 'commit' is pure hypocrisyprobably more often though Nope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Women saying it's hard for them to find a man to 'commit' is pure hypocrisyYes I forgot the blaming women for "picking assholes" these same women who aren't allowed to have standards. Men on here also seem to apply "inverse fairytale logic" to the world and equate male physical attractiveness (because female attractiveness is irrelevant - she's either hot - or invisible and thus beneath contempt) with vices like selfishness, lustfulness and cruelty and unattractiveness with virtues like loyalty, maturity and kindness and they call bullshit, delusional, liars or "bitter… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 02:02 PM |
| 3 | Women saying it's hard for them to find a man to 'commit' is pure hypocrisyIndeed. I could not maintain a relationship in my youth, at all, it was because I was weird as fuck, not even going to sugar coat it, the only reason any men dated me at all was because I was crazy hot when I was in my late teens/early 20s (my best friend admitted to me recently that when we were about 18 all her male friends referred to me as "Maggie's weird hot friend" and every relationship I had fell apart. Hilariously I used to blame MEN for my problems, basically exactly like the guys on h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Women saying it's hard for them to find a man to 'commit' is pure hypocrisyThank you sir, that's a refreshing level of introspection not usually found on here! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 05:51 PM |
| -1 | Women saying it's hard for them to find a man to 'commit' is pure hypocrisyMen on here seem to have the most skewed idea of female attractiveness - ask the average PPD man to give you an example of an average looking woman or a "5" and I can guarantee you she'll be at least a 7 and yet you all whine about women have unrealistic standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 05:51 PM |
| 7 | Women saying it's hard for them to find a man to 'commit' is pure hypocrisyIt's rich when any man on PPD calls out women for their "hypocrisy"... these guys fucking froth at the mouth at the mere thought of some evil, evil woman settling for a man she's not attracted to because he was the only viable option who would settle down with her- she's selfish, she's cruel, she's depriving the poor oblivious man of true love etc etc. - seen it on here ad nauseam, these same guys who are constantly complaining that no beautiful women will sleep with them and only "fat single mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Arguments against Paternity Test at Birth are WILDAgreed, I'm of the same mind, if my husband asked me for a paternity test after I'd just given birth to his child he'd be a single father. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 04:36 PM |
| 18 | Women don't get that its not men complaining they can’t find a 10, but they can’t find 6 or 5 eitherFor most women, attraction is a pass or fail. Pretty much sums it up and "hulking six chad millionaire" is not the only people we're attracted to by a long shot. Also does this women hate constantly bug you? like why the fuck can we not have standards? If we do we're seen as shallow, petty and vain because we DARE not date any old loser who makes a pass at us and these guys are then foaming at the mouth that only "fat single mothers" would deign to date them and bitch about hypergamy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 08:55 PM |
| 13 | Women don't get that its not men complaining they can’t find a 10, but they can’t find 6 or 5 eitherI 100% agree, very common theme here but ask guys on this forum for a picture of a 5 and she'll be at least a 7. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Your wife/husband doesn’t want to do certain sexual activities that they did with the ex with you. Your response.Jesus christ you guys need to get over yourselves, in what fucking world do you guys you think you have a "right" to a sexual act from a woman which she is not comfortable preforming because she did it with someone else in the past? Like do you not get how insane that sounds? Often you have to try something before you know you' don't like it. Let's say I tried venison in a restaurant on a date a few years ago, I fucking hated it, have no desire to try it again and yet this is going to be a dealb… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 11:19 PM |
| 2 | PPD Women Who Overly Criticize Men Who Travel Are Mostly Full of ShitMy country has plenty of problems but our men don’t insult their mothers and sisters. That's the problem with passport bros - they want to go to a country where they believe the women are poorer, have fewer options and thus they are in a perceived position of power over them where they can be the magnanimous providers for these poor, beautiful, traditional women. That's why you'll see so many men on here who despise feminism - it's because they perceive it as a form of oppression against men bec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 08:31 PM |
| 1 | PPD Women Who Overly Criticize Men Who Travel Are Mostly Full of ShitI'm not, but interesting that's all you managed to take away from my comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 03:22 PM |
| 1 | PPD Women Who Overly Criticize Men Who Travel Are Mostly Full of ShitI mean this is a thought exercise for me, I have no issues with the men in my life and not looking for a man. I come here when I'm bored..it's like a circus. I've never been unfortunate enough to meet guys like the ones who post on here IRL... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 11:23 AM |
| 1 | PPD Women Who Overly Criticize Men Who Travel Are Mostly Full of ShitStrawman? How? Virtue signalling? How? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 10:47 AM |
| 2 | PPD Women Who Overly Criticize Men Who Travel Are Mostly Full of ShitThe issue is that they have no respect for women period and view them as a series of holes with expiration dates and something they are entitled to by virtue of being western men (their absurdly colonial attitude and fantasies about foreign women throwing themselves at them should tell you all you need to know). So aren’t these men just creating the same country they wanted to escape all over the world? Wouldn’t it be better to fix and invest in your home country where your family is? Ultimately… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 09:30 AM |
| 2 | PPD Women Who Overly Criticize Men Who Travel Are Mostly Full of ShitLOl, that made me chuckle. All this passport bro stuff is hilarious because when you peel it back it's a bunch of but-hurt entitled dudes rage-quitting the...west...(very "and then those fat single mothers I have an irrational hatred of will be sorry *shakes fist* vibes) because they're not being given "their due" (sex with hot girls) and when people try to point out that you're not owed shit they trot out one of their favourite tenets...that women play life on easy mode because they have unlimi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 09:17 AM |
| 2 | PPD Women Who Overly Criticize Men Who Travel Are Mostly Full of ShitHoney, all the men on PPD are experts on how women think and feel (despite not actually seeming to know any IRL...I'd be willing to bet that the poster who responded to has no "female friend" who sends him videos mocking passport bros and venting about how these losers won't date decent western women lol). When actual women on here tell them what we think and feel in no uncertain terms we're wrong or "delusional" (they love that word) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 09:12 AM |
| 1 | PPD Women Who Overly Criticize Men Who Travel Are Mostly Full of ShitThey don't want them to leave to prey on vulnerable women - they are....and this seems to come as a shock to most PPD guys...capable of compassion and empathy for other people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 09:08 AM |
| 1 | PPD Women Who Overly Criticize Men Who Travel Are Mostly Full of ShitMake all the arguments you want about not preying on women with fewer options but thats what it boils down to or ultimately you'd find women in your own country. Guys who hold these ideas view women as livestock, commodities or prizes to be won and their "waaah I quit the west" attitude is born of entitlement that they're not getting their due...a human woman of acceptable attractiveness and "moral character" (basically hot, submissive and low-effort) Women who feel like this are not "full of sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 09:06 AM |
| 1 | What passes as 'creepy behavior' is entirely subjectiveNo, it's pretty straightforward. If you see a woman in public who is very obviously not doing something where you shouldn't walk up uninvited and interrupt her like chatting with a friend or working out then go shoot your shot, if she says "sorry not interested" shrug and walk away, no hard feelings. Also, not creepy....now this is the part guys struggle with...doing ANYTHING else if she says she's not interested is now "creepy" doubling down, trying to talk her round, attempting to keep the con… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Women's passivity and ease of dating makes it hard to feel sympathy for their dating struggleswomen are sea anemones difficult to have sympathy for a gender that mostly refuses to take matters into their own hands women have it quite easy Bad judgment on your part why should I care about what you have to complain about I'm not "creating an agenda". I'm simply working with the information you've presented - doesn't seem like you have much respect or fondness for 50% of the population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 12:23 PM |
| 4 | Women's passivity and ease of dating makes it hard to feel sympathy for their dating struggles100% true for some women — not all. And yet, there are men going after these chicks, only to turn around and whine when... (shocker!) these women don't want to reciprocate. THIS. I have been approached more times than I can count by men hitting on me/asking me out and I don't think I've ever been interested in dating ANY of them. Doesn't matter how hot you are being approached in public when I'm just going about y business is off-putting and annoying, when I'm interested in a guy I usually made … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 11:57 AM |
| 2 | Women's passivity and ease of dating makes it hard to feel sympathy for their dating strugglesWow. That's a LOT of words to say "I hate women" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Here are my dating hot takes. What are yours?when women say Cool, so you're an authority on what all women say and when they say something what the actually mean. Chad is a fictional entity made up by butthurt losers who'd rather blame everyone else for their problems and let's be honest just means "literally any man who can have a normal relationship with a woman" on here. The comment above me where another poster says that she's unattractive - are the awkward nerdy guys she dates just Chads who can read? Or is it only pretty women who ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Here are my dating hot takes. What are yours?So who is NOT a Chad then? Anyone who's not a sweaty-palmed neckbeard living in their mom's basement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 05:46 AM |
| 2 | The only reason the concept of the redpill is popular is because it actually gives tangible solutions.It helps you psuedo-rationalize your own failures and gives you an excuse to be angry, confrontational and pushy towards women. I always assumed that was it's purpose. That in a nutshell it's just... "No, you're perfect and don't need to put in any effort or work on yourself, it's every woman who is the real problem!" Masquerading as "logic" "cold-hard fact" and "objective truth" because men are LoGiCaL (aaand because that all sounds so much better than butthurt self-righteous indignation doesn'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 05:01 AM |
| 1 | The only reason the concept of the redpill is popular is because it actually gives tangible solutions.The reason RedPill is so popular is because it's reductive and mechanical and pretends to promise some sort of "formula" or pattern of behaviour that will guarantee success at dating (which in the RP world is "sex") for a bunch of people who would rather use pop psychology and evolutionary biology to try and dream up "hacks" to manipulate women rather than act like fucking human beings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 04:52 AM |
| 2 | Here are my dating hot takes. What are yours?Same, awkward nerds all the way! Sapiosexual for the win! I've dated a few big man on campus types in the past and them doing the rounds like a politician at every party and gathering is fucking exhausting. Give me the weirdo in the corner petting the cat by himself any day of the week (like the one I agreed to marry lol) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 04:41 AM |
| 2 | Here are my dating hot takes. What are yours?I agree with your first two points but after that I think you go off the rails a little... What hurts so bad about being friendzoned after a few dates is you two may have been objectively a very good match. She initially liked you and you had amazing convo chemistry. You just sucked at making moves and driving it in a sexual direction is all, and you blew your chance.Hard disagree. Seriously, guys, the friendzone is a myth and ya'll need to stop perpetuating it. if you have been told by a female… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Question for Women: What are things you consider dealbreakers or red flags in potential partners’ online profiles or behavior?As for the casual sex seeking .. you can’t say that. Women will swipe so fast on someone saying “casual only”. do you say something like "lone wolf" instead? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 09:36 PM |
| 3 | Question for Women: What are things you consider dealbreakers or red flags in potential partners’ online profiles or behavior?don't worry hon. It looks like most of the guys on here aren't even paying attention, they literally asked for our opinions and advice and still are somehow telling us we're wrong and arguing, not exactly master manipulators we're dealing with even if most of the women on here weren't actually partnered... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 09:34 PM |
| 0 | How do you explain successful men that end up marrying sluts?You didn't have one. Just a chip on your shoulder for some reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 09:23 PM |
| 3 | Question for Women: What are things you consider dealbreakers or red flags in potential partners’ online profiles or behavior?OP asked what red flags women will commonly avoid if on dating sites, we're giving them. It's not a debate...he asked for opinions he's getting them, not my fault if you don't like the answers. And before you try and call me out on "hypocrisy" Vegan, and no I never mentioned that in my profile back when I used dating apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 09:22 PM |
| 4 | So where exactly are these ugly women?You wouldn't see them because (unrelated) women men don't want to fuck are literally invisible to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 09:16 PM |
| 13 | Question for Women: What are things you consider dealbreakers or red flags in potential partners’ online profiles or behavior?Honestly it depends on what you're looking for, when I used to use apps I was looking for something serious...but I was on them for years in my early 20s and really, a lot of the phrases guys use are pretty much just "code" and huge red flags First up - Any passive aggressive whining like "does anyone ever talk on this thing" "6'X because apparently that matters" "not looking for a pen pal" (neither am I but without fail dudes who write this want to meet INSTANTLY as in, exchange three texts and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 05:57 PM |
| 0 | How do you explain successful men that end up marrying sluts?Yawn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 05:33 PM |
| 1 | How do you explain successful men that end up marrying sluts?OP literally used doctors as an example of "top tier men" without any additional information... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 12:50 AM |
| 3 | How do you explain successful men that end up marrying sluts?I'm a doctor. Am I a top-tier woman, or just "some slut" like the female doctor who married one her classmates (ie like 90% of med students...we don;t get out much). lolol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 06:38 PM |
| 3 | How important is a "high-status career" really when it comes to dating?I'm a surgeon and all I can say is outside of the US and Canada doctors are very poorly paid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Question 4 Women: Has PPD and TRP made you less trustful of men or dislike them?Agreed, my first thought when reading this question is it makes me appreciate the men in my life MORE but then I refrained from saying that because I refuse to set the bar so fucking low that "treating me like a human being" and "not seeing me as a series of holes with an expiration date and mileage" somehow rises above it. Men owe it to not just women but themselves to be better, third-wave feminists, me too and a rise in people eschewing traditional gender roles and toxic masculinity effective… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 01:31 PM |
| 2 | Question 4 Women: Has PPD and TRP made you less trustful of men or dislike them?I mean, how many men would choose a bitter wet blanket raging against the world? I wholly believe that mens bitterness and dissatisfaction is valid, toxic masculinity is beyond damaging and the world is fast becoming 1984 and a shitty borderline-dystopia for everyone, except the 1%. The rich get richer and nowhere is that more apparent than the male-to-female dating market. Nope. It's more apparent in, you know, the economy, distribution of resources (and no, women aren't resources), quality of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 01:00 PM |
| 3 | Question 4 Women: Has PPD and TRP made you less trustful of men or dislike them?and makes the men think they're purely logical beings while screeching about how they can't bag beautiful women I can't like this comment enough. It was some impressive mental gymnastics and fuckology that allowed men like this to rebrand anger and righteous indignation as "not emotions" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 12:49 PM |
| 3 | Question 4 Women: Has PPD and TRP made you less trustful of men or dislike them?I'm a medical doctor (well, surgeon) with a background in genetics, game theory, evolutionary genetics and statical modelling - I don't even bother trying to argue this stuff with men like him anymore, they ignore me, hold up shitty and flawed studies as "evidence" or make accusations of "bias", "straw man" "emotional" you name it (hilariously I have an account with an equally ambiguous name and a male avatar who gets listened to a lot more on here for saying...the same things...). I'll sum most… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 12:46 PM |
| 3 | Question 4 Women: Has PPD and TRP made you less trustful of men or dislike them?When you see men act like this it’s very hard to develop a good opinion of them.Agreed. I think I'm fortunate however that I haven't really met any men like this "in the wild" - I've heard the odd stories about some but never had the misfortune to meet them - assuming because they are all indoors hunched over a computer screen - their bizarre beliefs about human behaviour and apparent lack of real-world experience with women, their *literal* interpretation of everything they read and an inabilit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 12:20 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: What do you think when the less attractive friend prevents men from talking to you?t could be a girl’s night, where the group wanted to party without men and just enjoy each other’s company This. I was never a hook-up type of person and clubs are not where I'd meet guys I wanted to date. I usually just wanted to dance and circling dudes grinding against you was...annoying... Also men always use these types of anecdotes to discredit opinions like ours - but there have been times I've tried to shoo my friends away only for them to manhandle me and in the morning, more sober I wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 08:43 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: What do you think when the less attractive friend prevents men from talking to you?This used to happen to me constantly in my late teens/20s (back when I still went to clubs) I always had a couple of guys circling anytime I went to anything even moderately social (clubs, bars, gigs etc) and honestly - my friends intercepting was very much by design, when you go out with girlfriends you know each other so well you get very good at subtle signals that men don't seem to pick up on such as "help! get this creep away from me!" the inverse is also true - if they know you're genuinel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 09:32 PM |
| 7 | Change my View : Cheating as a Man and as a Woman isnt the same, its a big difference. I am really curious if someone can change my view from a logical standpointOh man, based on some of OPs comments it would be more along the lines of.. .I wanted a traditional, virginal - THIN - wife because that's the only kind of women I would ever even consider marrying but she won't have threesomes and so I cheated but it's really her fault and it's not even a big deal because I'm a guy why is she being so unreasonable. I miss my kids. Jk a dude like that wouldn't give AF about his kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 03:30 PM |
| 11 | Change my View : Cheating as a Man and as a Woman isnt the same, its a big difference. I am really curious if someone can change my view from a logical standpointBasically what you're saying is that women cheat if they is a deep lack of satisfaction with her partner and relationship and she cheats to seek what is missing emotionally, this is way worse than a man betraying his partner ...just because he can... fuck me. but i believe that cheating as a Woman is way worse, then the opposite Wow, good luck trying to explain this to your future wife when she kicks you out on your ass for cheating on her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 03:07 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Sexually desiring “innocence” and “purity” is hedonisticOn what plane of reality do you live on where women are encouraged to pursue their own hedonistic desires without recourse? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 02:58 PM |
| 1 | It’s in western men’s best interests to just go overseas versus trying to convince American women to change CMVIt's more his gross, entitled attitude and very obvious lack of respect for women that is off-putting and part of the reason a millionaire in his struggling to find "quality women" in the west. Also I don't care if men go abroad to find "subservient,supermodel teenaged-brides" or whatever floats their boats... it's the fact that guys who do this seem to delude themselves that they are somehow inherently more desirable to these women for anything other than their money (these women value "traditi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 12:16 PM |
| 0 | It’s in western men’s best interests to just go overseas versus trying to convince American women to change CMVWomen in the US don't like him for look, while women in Bangkok do. Lol, no they like him for the fact that he's a millionaire which I'm sure he's not shy about letting them know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 11:27 AM |
| 6 | It’s in western men’s best interests to just go overseas versus trying to convince American women to change CMVwomen overseas view western men as higher value than western women do They're poorer, have few options and view you as more useful, not valuable and they'll drop you as soon as someone more useful comes along or you're no longer useful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 11:26 AM |
| 1 | It’s in western men’s best interests to just go overseas versus trying to convince American women to change CMVWhen people write stuff like this it's obvious shorthand for "My ego is so fragile I can't possibly comprehend dating someone who disagrees with me or doesn't sooth said fragile ego and handle me with kid gloves" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 11:20 AM |
| 21 | It’s in western men’s best interests to just go overseas versus trying to convince American women to change CMVMy SO is south east asian - I see how his mother talks to her husband; (SO's father) "No more food for you. you're getting so fat. I don't want a fat husband" *snatches cigarettes out of his hands* "no, go outside" "are you playing mahjong with those stupid friends again?" For the record she's never worked and her husband is "has a wing of a university and a hospital named after him" rich...from what my SO has told me his grandmother (father's mother) was a weapon as well. For comparison I'm a "… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 11:16 AM |
| 10 | It’s in western men’s best interests to just go overseas versus trying to convince American women to change CMVIt's because he says shit like "quality women" he talks about them as if they're livestock unfortunately for him women aren't as stupid as fucking livestock, can spot men like this a mile off and don't appreciate it. Sure, an impoverished woman he preys on in a poor country might grin and bear it for a shot at a better life but she's looking for the exist from day one, why do you think there are so many stories of dudes like OP being left by their Thai/Eastern European etc wives as soon as she g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 11:07 AM |
| 8 | CMV: Pretty women don’t even understand the value of money or how much things costYeah, no contradiction - My cousin drives an 90K merc he's had to ask my uncle to make payments on multiple times lest it be repossessed because he can't afford it, my SO is a multimillionaire and his car is older than mine, funny enough he wanted to buy a Porsche and I convinced him not to. Also on that note I agree with u/northernlights190 my SO is rich and a 7-figure earner who also grew up rich and he literally has no concept of money in the way that I, a very much non-rich professional-care… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 10:25 PM |
| 7 | CMV: Pretty women don’t even understand the value of money or how much things costBecause to the average person, there's little practical difference to making that amount of money. This. Exactly. A person making a million a year can afford a nice car, can eat out regularly when it comes to the day to day life of an average person once you pass about 300k unless you're getting into private super yacht and panama papers territory the life of someone on 10mil vs 1mil looks pretty much identical from the outside. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Are women more content with being sexless?Honestly if me and my current SO broke up I probably wouldn't bother - sex with strangers or people you barely know is by and large underwhelming at best and just plain shitty at worst for an average woman. I need emotional connection and practice with a partner to enjoy the sex and honestly if I broke up with my current SO I wouldn't be bothered because I think I'd have little interest in long-term relationships again (too much work and I don't mind being single), casual sex is shit, and I have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 05:29 PM |
| 8 | Age gaps don't matter. Attraction does.I think the important question is what makes so many men on here believe that they are inherently entitled to a woman's youth and beauty? Women in their 20s are also "bumble-fucking their way through it" but when they start to get the grips with who they are and what they're doing they're "washed up old hags desperate to settle"..boys will be boys ...but f*ck those sluts who didn't grab a good *TM* 35 year old man when she was 19 I guess...she just deserves to be alone as she withers into obscur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 05:20 PM |
| 5 | Age gaps don't matter. Attraction does.Same. I'm a woman in my early 30s and routinely treat patients who are late teens/early 20s, meaning no offence but ya'll genuinely seem like children to me, as in...just so...young,...those few years make one hell of a difference no matter what bullshit PPDers spout on here...I currently have a 21 year old and a 19 year old patient on my list, both college students...and the idea of one of my 30+ year old colleagues dating them or thinking they'd be good girlfriend material would make my skin c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 05:14 PM |
| 7 | Do men really want traditionalism more than women?Have also never met a woman who does this None of them have - because she's mythical like the almighty, inhumanely irresistible Chad we'd all leave our husbands for if only given half the chance (but no one woman is good enough for the almighty Chad so alas...), but I'm sure I'll get inundated with fake anecdotes about that one slutty hot chick they knew in their 20s riding the cock carousel who won't let them play because they don't meet the height restrictions waaah... They also seem to truly … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 11:55 AM |
| 23 | Do men really want traditionalism more than women?This is literally what women do in this day and age. Have sex with a bunch of tall, dark and handsome Chads in their late-teens and 20s, sometimes even up to their early 30s. You guys on here keep saying this nonsense again and again as if it's an article of faith. I have literally never met a woman who does this or has done this. Literally in this day and age women usually have a steady boyfriend throughout college they break up and she spends her 20s and early 30s wading through a pool average… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Fewer women on apps because treated badly?All you have to do is have a quick peek at what a lot of guys on here fantasise about - getting rich and ripped and becoming a "Chad"...so that they can also have a harem of women to mistreat and manipulate, they're basically admitting that if they had any leverage over women at all they'd be total shitheads and then wonder why no one will date them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 02:13 PM |
| -1 | Fewer women on apps because treated badly?OMG thank you! I 100% agree with the time-wasting, I met my fiance through the apps in my mid-20s (we're both 30s now) but if we broke up I don't think I'd ever bother trying them again. There's this weird delusion by PPD redditors that a handful of super hot "chads" are getting all of the women and using them for sex which is driving them off the apps after they're "pumped and dumped" and it's complete and utter bullshit (tbh most of the guys who would meet "Chad" criteria I know IRL are marrie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 10:00 AM |
| 1 | Dating is just a waste of time and money these days.Yeah, about half my med school class were north american/US and they almost never dated locals as they found us to be too aloof and standoffish whereas we found them weirdly intense and superficial - so they'd date each other or other americans, get into explosive, super-intense relationships where they'd be moving in with each other and deciding how many kids they wanted after like 3 weeks only to break up spectacularly a few months/a year later and complain about how crazy the other one was th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 08:58 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about the lonely but successfull men who get a fwb with money instead of getting married?She's a tenant who pays him in sex, why the hell would anyone think this is a FWB? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 02:03 AM |
| 2 | What do you think about the lonely but successfull men who get a fwb with money instead of getting married?As a 1%er man - this is actually almost all I can find out on the market. Not even joking I'm assuming you're looking for 22 year old insta models, obvious golddiggers and wannabe sugar babies and then throw up your hands and lament the lack of "quality" women who know how to cook or clean up after themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 02:02 AM |
| 2 | What do you think about the lonely but successfull men who get a fwb with money instead of getting married?He's living with an escort, what you describe is prostitution not FWB and if the way he talks about his friends wives is any indication about how he views women there's a reason he has to pay someone to have sex with him and it's not his 5'7 height and "introvert" personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 01:56 AM |
| 2 | Are men happy to be in relationships with women around their age?the general idea in this sub is men are most attracted to 20yr old's at all ages.... Yeah, the same guys who are always complain about the "feminist agenda", quoting Andrew Tate and whining about their lack of sex with "Stacies" or whatever they call hot young women who won't touch them with a barge-pole. Not exactly the guys who probably date normally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Should we just raise the consenting age to 25?A guy who uses the "age of consent" excuse is like an employer who pays minimum wage - we know they'd go lower if they think they could get away with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Should we just raise the consenting age to 25?Ok so you're saying you're cool with cannibalism as a concept because you never plan on going anywhere where it's legal? Do you always think so literally or are you simply incapable of grasping a hypothetical? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 06:56 PM |
| 3 | Of the guys that you have been with, what percentage were Chads ?Bc I was hopelessly in love with someone else But was he a BIGGER Chad?? Please say yes or the natural order of fragile masculinity and delusion that keeps this sub afloat will implode. At least tell me he was above 6' and a millionaire *sobs* | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 06:49 PM |
| 0 | Of the guys that you have been with, what percentage were Chads ?I mean I've dated a couple guys who fit that description but they were nerds...as in "magic the gathering tournament" types, they just happened to be tall, good-looking and in good shape. But in general, not my type. I'm predominantly sapiosexual when it comes to mate selection so I think maybe Im the wrong demographic for this question... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Should we just raise the consenting age to 25?I mean he's a man pushing 50 who is currently dating a woman so young her schooling was interrupted by covid. I think at least in the past few years he has gone from "ladies man" to "sad creep" in the eyes of most people and that's a good thing. Also do you seriously not remember being 19? There's a difference between being psychically mature and grown. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 06:45 PM |
| 3 | Of the guys that you have been with, what percentage were Chads ?I never got this height obsession, like 6'4 is fucking huge compared to the average woman, as in way too tall. My ex prior to my current fiance was 6'3 and I'm 5'5 the reach was actually so awkward, my current SO is 5'8 and after my ex I actually much preferred the reach, I don't get these girls who are like 5 foot nothing gushing over 6'6 giants, all I can think is...christ the mechanics of that look awkward... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 06:38 PM |
| 3 | Of the guys that you have been with, what percentage were Chads ?Oh, so you didn't pine away for him after he ghosted you and then went off to settle with a beta? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Of the guys that you have been with, what percentage were Chads ?I've never even met a Chad? Is that a name people actually give their kids outside of 80s teen movies? I can't picture an old Chad, like a "Ryan"...no one is going to grandpa Ryans house for thanksgiving, Ryan died in a dirtbike accident at 42 the way god intended. I always imagined Chads' were the same... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Of the guys that you have been with, what percentage were Chads ?Nope. Extroverted, popular muscle-monsters have never been my type. Like at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 06:28 PM |
| 3 | What does agreeable mean to you?Remember about a year back when "glowing up" (gaining muscle mass, and/or levelling up in their career and taking fashion and dating advice from the Andrew Tate school for the braindead was all the rage? Now it seems to be going abroad to prey on impoverished women) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 06:22 PM |
| 2 | What does agreeable mean to you?Aaah yes dusting off the ol' LeArN tO uSe LoGiC chestnut you fellas LOVE and dismissing people who have an opinion you don't share as "idiots" when you're called out on your bullshit... "feminine", "traditional" and "agreeable" being used as code by PUAs, RPers and general tools online is a well-known and not at all a niche piece of information and is generally well known by anyone who has even a casual knowledge of OLD., now that being said... You really believe "he maybe took an intro to psych… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 06:17 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Telling unsuccesful men that the young women in impoverished countries only want them for their money is pointless, these men believe that women their age in their country are the same. And we can't blame them.Pretty much, yet time and time again on here you see guys convincing themselves that they'll get a feminine (re: "thin") and traditional (re; "subservient") Thai wife who will love them for them and they never seem to appreciate that women willing to whore themselves out for a green card are not the moral paragons they imagine or exactly rolling in other options... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 06:06 PM |
| 6 | What does agreeable mean to you?Please, please listen to literally every woman here; we've all used OLD, we've all met a guy like this. "agreeable" is not a psychological term in this instance, "agreeable" is shorthand for "I want a docile and submissive woman who won't balk when I trample all over her boundaries" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 09:48 PM |
| 5 | What does agreeable mean to you?Traditional/Traditional values Feminine Agreeable All 3 extremely commonly used phrases, all 3 mean the same thing in these circles "Thin and submissive", it still astonishes me that guys who say this crap are willing to do the most insane mental gymnastics to justify this bullshit and somehow making their desire to effectively have a living real doll as a partner a flaw of every woman on the planet and they sit here nd bitch about their lack of sex, believe life's biggest tragedy is that they w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 09:44 PM |
| 7 | What does agreeable mean to you?I love how all the women on here are pretty much stating why this is a red flag (because we have all dated a dude like this - but apparently the guys on here who are constantly complaining about the lack of sex they get with beautiful women and ranting about Chads are also authorities on dating men as well) and the men are doubling down on this absolutely absurd interpretation of it actually meaning they adhere to the agreeableness spectrum on the big 5 psychological personality types We all kno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 09:38 PM |
| 8 | What does agreeable mean to you?Oh come on, get a grip. You think that the more likely explanation for this guy putting something that is a very common term used by RPers in the manosphere on a dating app is because he's a Harvard educated psychologist who is using the literal interpretation of the term rather than the much, much more well known colloquial version of it that has permeated dating culture? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 09:34 PM |
| 6 | What does agreeable mean to you?It’s not that it necessarily has to mean being a doormat. It’s that if someone puts that in their dating profile, they’re looking for a doormat Couldn't say it better myself. That cock and bull about men meaning that they want someone who falls into the agreeableness category on the big 5 personality traits...if anyone believes that...well, they're probably gullible enough to date tools who say they want "agreeable" women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 09:28 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Telling unsuccesful men that the young women in impoverished countries only want them for their money is pointless, these men believe that women their age in their country are the same. And we can't blame them.Disagree - a 7 bedroom beachfront Malibu mansion is ruined... I mean, it looks fat and gross and run down, they don't make them like they used to...I'm off to SEA to buy a shack in buttfuck nowhere they value traditional manufacturing processes and are just so superior in every way... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 01:00 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Telling unsuccesful men that the young women in impoverished countries only want them for their money is pointless, these men believe that women their age in their country are the same. And we can't blame them.This entire concept is couched in absurd racism and presumptions about cultures these men know nothing about, it's also extremely predatory and yet these guys are so fucking up their own asses and wallowing in self-pity they literally compare preying on women living in abject poverty (because that's what they'll get, no gorgeous Thai socialite from a good family is marrying middle-america Bob who works in IT) to women...having standards...because by that metric they won't get easy and effortless… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 12:53 AM |
| 6 | What even makes a woman unattractive, really?I love some of the mental gymnastics guys do on here that they believe a poor, mentally ill woman with no friends living with her parents wouldn't somehow be an unattractive option for most men. Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys think there will be a "bachelor" Tax in the west at some point due to declining birth rates and men opting out and breaking the social contract?Yeaaah they have tax credits for married couples and people with children....single childless people of both genders are the most-taxed demographic relative to their income, contributions and what they actually get in return from the system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 04:54 AM |
| 3 | The Wingwoman is the KEY to landing dates.bizarre His strategy was insane to anyone over the age of about 15 - get his wingwoman to find a strange woman in a bar - somehow drag her back to OP, aggressively hit on OP in front of her to "get her interested" and then vanish....on what planet does this guy think any human woman who hasn't just escaped from an asylum would be receptive to this shit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 04:36 AM |
| 2 | The Wingwoman is the KEY to landing dates.Hahaha this is so lame "I call ubers for my female friends too drunk to stand because I'm SUCH a good guy...and in return it's only natural that they give up their whole night and follow a bizarre set of rules to trick a woman into thinking I'm not a creep so I can get laid" lolol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 04:29 AM |
| 29 | How were you treated differently when you got fit? (men and women)Woman here! I used to row at competition level and was a competitive swimmer in med school as well. I'm nowhere near that level of fit anymore but I've noticed when I picked up my old training routine during Covid and started to get a semblance of my old abs and muscle tone back I got a LOT more attention from men. I'm naturally slender and attractive so I usually get attention anyway but I definitely noticed a lot more men openly staring at me, tbh it sort of made me uncomfortable so I started … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 02:55 PM |
| 4 | Q4W: We always hear about 50/50 vs men paying 100% but what about 80/20?Yeah, agreed. I mean I can't blame them when they were like 19 and first got into these relationships not having marriage as a requirement but when they hit their mid and late 20s and made it apparent to their boyfriends this is what they now expected and got vague, bullshit answers instead of proposals they should've called it quits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 02:33 PM |
| 3 | According To A Study, Women Are Actually Happier With Less Attractive MenYet when doing casual you probably go for the hottest dudes. I don't understand why this is such a hard concept for men to grasp. Of course a woman who just wants sex is going to find the hottest man she can but when she's looking for a partner looks in the grand scheme of things matter way less. I mean I don't do casual sex, never have, never will just not my thing but if I were to start tomorrow then my "casual sex" checkbox and my "relationship" checkbox are different animals entirely. Also t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 11:50 AM |
| 5 | Q4W: We always hear about 50/50 vs men paying 100% but what about 80/20?Seriously? that's what you take from this? We keep our finances separate except for household bills and things like vacations where if he wants to go somewhere outside of my budget he makes up the difference, I'm fully capable of supporting myself quite comfortably so it's not like I'm sort of kept woman. I never understand this attitude people have, I mean, how did I do good? It's his money, I didn't earn it, I don't have access to it, I don't want access to it. It's such a bizarre concept to m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 11:41 AM |
| 2 | According To A Study, Women Are Actually Happier With Less Attractive MenHonestly. Cards on the table? I infinitely prefer being the "hot one" in a relationship, I would never go for a man I deem more physically attractive than me ...mostly because of the reasons you've listed - shallow and vain, yes, but I'm happy to admit I'd never feel comfortable and would always feel like I was being "settled" for because, let's face it, men place a far greater emphasis on physical looks than women do, such a dynamic would make me very insecure in a relationship. That's not to s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 11:28 AM |
| 18 | Q4W: We always hear about 50/50 vs men paying 100% but what about 80/20?The idea is to stop women getting in a situation where they are strung along by men who aren't serious, especially in the earlier stages of dating. Or by men who have no intention of marrying a woman when she wants marriage. This. The spectre of "forever girlfriends" is used quite a lot and tbh, I get that, SO many of my female friends have ended up in these scenarios where they have been with their boyfriend for years (sometimes 10+) and he dangles the possibility of marriage in front of her fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 11:22 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: We always hear about 50/50 vs men paying 100% but what about 80/20?Um it depends - I think in the early stages of dating it should be a 50/50 type scenario or whoever plans the date should pay for it (when I first was dating my BF we'd take turns planning dates after the first few which he planned) When you're living together/going on vacations/splitting household bills I think that it should be equitable rather than equal - for example my SO makes about twenty times what I do so if we were to split every bill and expense 50/50 what is pocket change for him wou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 11:19 AM |
| 1 | is it that impossible for women to believe that?The more and more time I spend on PPD the more I'm convinced a lot of men on here don't actually know any women in real life and are just having imaginary conversations in their heads with all these women they resent... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 11:06 AM |
| 14 | Women who go for hot men and get pumped dumped and average men who get rejected by most women are the sameWomen don't have casual sex you see, we act like sluts in the hopes that some Chad out of our league will deign to start a relationship with us, but our stupid little woman brains don't understand that this guy has options and thus would never settle for us so we're just silly entitled bitches for not screwing all the *nice guys* (TM) who don't look like supermodels who might, possibly consider being in a relationship with us despite apparently thinking we're all dumb sluts who are settling for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 11:03 AM |
| 15 | Women who go for hot men and get pumped dumped and average men who get rejected by most women are the samePPD in a nutshell; Sexually active single woman = being "pumped and dumped" by "Chads" In a relationship = settled for a "beta buxx" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 10:57 AM |
| 5 | is it that impossible for women to believe that?Ok your post is very long and rambly and nonsensical and I have no idea where you were going with it there in the middle so I tuned out but I think you're asking do women believe it's hard for men to date women? Well duh, obviously. Dating no matter what gender is hard full stop It's weird and awkward and stressful, it's basically an interview with a stranger who is vetting you on your suitability to be a around for any period of time, some stranger is low-key judging you in the most intimate wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 11:55 PM |
| 0 | If Eternal youth and aging reversal technology existed would older women be as desirable by men as chronologically young women?Probably moreso - they'd be just as gorgeous as they were in their prime, but able to relate to the man on his level...That's MOST MEN Because if I'm being honest I think a MAJOR component in the factor that makes certain men target girls young enough to be their daughters or barely out of their teens is because these women are easy to manipulate, the older man has a position of power over the younger woman and she tends to find him very interesting and worldy even if he's not actually that impr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 11:18 PM |
| 2 | Displaying kindness can be attractive as true benevolence often comes from a position of abundance and confidenceDark Triad traits are inherently attractive Wow, really? Talk about completely missing the point. The whole point is the dark triad is usually very superficially charming but utterly incapable of forming true bonds or any semblance of a long-term relationship (romantic or otherwise) and normal people tend to find them creepy and off-putting very quickly. I think red and blue pillers need to make up their minds - do they want love and companionship from an equal partner or do they want to be unfe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 11:16 PM |
| 11 | Women of PPD, would you rather looksmaxx to become a pretty woman or be a handsome man?This kind of BS men don't have to deal with, not being a constant target for insecure assholes just because you were born who you were born as. As a man I'd just have to deal with random assholes, not targeted ones. Agreed, I conceed that pretty privilege is indeed real but I'm an attractive woman (I've been told I'm an 8/10 on a bad day) and most of the time it's more trouble than it's worth...you get a lot of unwanted attention from the wrong kinds of people, others assume they have some sort … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 11:05 PM |
| 5 | A woman is never too busy to text back. If she doesn't, take the sign.For real, I was gonna simply reply to this with "As a surgeon I beg to differ." but I'm pretty confident someone on PPD will still find way to claim I'd never be "too busy" for my chad f**boys even when I'm elbows deep in someone's intestines... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 09:44 PM |
| 4 | Alpha F*cks/Beta Bucks SituationsI guess I can explain it from my perspective but most women I've talked to share it; There is loads of different types of attraction for a woman and most of them aren't related to outward physical attractiveness. Man on here seem to massively overestimate how far just being outwardly hot will get you, or how unattractive a man can start to appear to a woman if his personality and behaviour is off-putting to the point of a tall, ripped chiselled gym bro becoming outright repulsive Attraction espe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 02:03 AM |
| 3 | What are some popular opinions commonly held by people of your own gender here that you not share?wtf are you talking about? I don't think you understood my post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 12:21 AM |
| 12 | What are some popular opinions commonly held by people of your own gender here that you not share?I mean what exactly is a betabuxx? and why is dying alone preferable to being one from what I can glean PPDs definition of betabuxx is any man who is not a supermodel who is in a relationship and it’s weird. It’s like guys on here find it unacceptable to be with a woman who doesn’t think he’s the hottest man in the world but on the flip side would be on here complaining about their crazy girlfriend who broke up with them because he said she wasn’t hotter than Megan Fox like wtf Also agree with t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 06:27 PM |
| 0 | Alpha F*cks/Beta Bucks SituationsAnd what about women- the 23 year old virginal insta models are wife material and the chubby girls with the high N counts are for pump and dumps? - shouldn't they get the same treatment as well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 06:18 PM |
| 0 | Alpha F*cks/Beta Bucks Situationshahahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 06:12 PM |
| -5 | Alpha F*cks/Beta Bucks SituationsBut he is the most attractive man, just not the most physically attractive. What's so hard about this concept? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 06:11 PM |
| 3 | is making a woman laugh one of the most important qualities for a man ?Not the most important but very important. I used to work with a guy - scruffy, overweight, short and unkempt (maybe a 4.5-5 on his best days)- his girlfriend worked in the same building and I saw walk by sometimes - she was beautiful like a solid 8/8.5, slender, extremely well dressed, perfect make-up. When we first started working together...I didn't get it. At all. By the end of our time together I 100% got it, he was the funniest guy I've ever met, to this day. He was just so witty and serio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 06:04 PM |
| 5 | What are some popular opinions commonly held by people of your own gender here that you not share?Women who can't get commitments are trying to pull men out of their league Trust me, these men were not out of their league, looks-wise or in any other way. Learn market conditions and adapt, or come online and bitch I mean I have no horse in this race, I'm just saying that even average-ass low quality men are holding out for what? 23 year old instagram models aaand yet women are the delusional ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 05:57 PM |
| 0 | Alpha F*cks/Beta Bucks SituationsYep, once again the men on here whining about the unfairness of not getting instant gratification and effortless sex.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 05:54 PM |
| -6 | Alpha F*cks/Beta Bucks Situationsbut if I am not the most attractive man she can get then I am not interested in her Cool so you'd rather settle for a 4/10 because she can't do better than you than say a 8-9/10 who can but wants you? So weird *better i the looks department only | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 05:51 PM |
| 6 | What are some popular opinions commonly held by people of your own gender here that you not share?No I prefer some nerdy skinny guys like Paul Rudd or Joseph Gordon Lewitt Both of those men are in terrific shape. This is like the convo I had on here the other day where guys apparently think that Dakota Johnson is not attractive Women don't look at male celebrities with 10% body fat and then use that as our yardstick for men - we look at real men...I think the problem is so many men on here use Scarlett Johansen and Kate Upton as yardsticks and then compare them to normal women... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 05:46 PM |
| 2 | What are some popular opinions commonly held by people of your own gender here that you not share?trusting Because they are built like skinny 14 year old girls? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 05:22 PM |
| 4 | What are some popular opinions commonly held by people of your own gender here that you not share?My female friends don't get the same issues, more a different set eg players, creeps, guys that cheat Honestly the men in my family and social circles tend to get snapped up quickly because the bar is just not that high - they're genuine, they aren't emotional dumpster-fires are well- socialised and want to commit unlike my female friends and relatives who overwhelmingly struggle - most of my girlfriends and female cousins can only seem to find men who refuse to commit - oh they say they will be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 05:12 PM |
| 3 | What are some popular opinions commonly held by people of your own gender here that you not share?Definitely, women put in so much effort to enhance looks and dress with style compared to men. I think the problem is that a lot of the work women put into our looks is not only ubiquitous but also for "maintenance" (skincare routines, exercise and diet, expensive haircare) so that men seem to just naturally expect it from us - For example when most men say they like "natural" or they like a girl who "doesn't wear make-up" they'll then give examples of women who wear minimal make-up and are quit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 04:58 PM |
| 27 | What are some popular opinions commonly held by people of your own gender here that you not share?I think this is the most sensible thing I've ever read on here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 04:51 PM |
| 6 | What are some popular opinions commonly held by people of your own gender here that you not share?Women should be "spoiled" and men need to be "providers" (I will preface this by saying I think men need to be able to support themselves but I don't get women who think men should pay their way too) Height the if <6' need not apply bullshit. Like why, if you're a 5'11 woman I get it but like the average height for a woman in the US is 5'4 why do you need a guy to tower over you - it's also a really awkward reach and makes certain sexual positions sort of difficult or near impossible btw Men nee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 04:43 PM |
| -1 | Alpha F*cks/Beta Bucks Situationsbut I don't agree that women categorize men they might sleep with fast but don't want to be with longterm ss better than men they want to be with (and may or may not have sex with in the beginning). This is a man's interpretation and I can't not think that it stems from the belief that women are not great/fun to be around with without sex and that they're basically only good for sex - so, misogyny I guess that's why this whole AF/BB is so insulting tbh, women are really reduced to sex givers in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 04:21 PM |
| 5 | Alpha F*cks/Beta Bucks SituationsWell, that girl was a bitch. This is not representative of all women or even "most" women, you can't hand pick examples of the dumbest, easiest women out there who throw themselves at gym bros or rich guys and then claim that all women are like that... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 04:07 PM |
| -3 | Alpha F*cks/Beta Bucks SituationsYup, but try telling the men on here this - fact of the matter is I have never dated a man I didn't like, have never phoned it in during sex and have never dated anyone I thought was "beneath me" because I'm not a psychopath and no I wasn't only going for male models and millionaires, I have the same basic criteria in terms of temperament and compatibility a man must meet and no, sexy gym bros don't get a free pass. This whole sub is full of bitter men with crippling self-esteem issues who have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 04:02 PM |
| 0 | The One Standard That Fixes Modern DatingNah, I don't slut shame, I'm just giving an example of the toxic gross attitude a lot of men on here have, hell, me and nearly every other woman on here is a slut by PPD standards... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 01:01 PM |
| 0 | The One Standard That Fixes Modern DatingYou're looking at the wrong women then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 01:00 PM |
| 0 | The One Standard That Fixes Modern DatingHa no. Most of us are not probably 18 here. I mean no offence but you wouldn't know it from reading half of the comments these guys make - well, mentally trapped in high school is more what I was thinking. Because a lot of the advice you give each other to be successful in dating boils down to "have money" and "get hot" (ie go to the gym 24/7) with the implicit guarantee if you do this then women will throw themselves at you and you will get sex without even trying ...and this advice is guarante… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 11:40 AM |
| 4 | What are some shortcuts guys can use to get better results with women?Ya, celebrities are literally professional pretty people they have teams of people to keep them beautiful because that's what their worth is wrapped up in - and like, the average person basically never sees what they look like not done up and airbrushed, so like you can't compare celebrities to most people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 01:44 AM |
| 5 | What are some shortcuts guys can use to get better results with women?Kate Upton Ok cool, because if guys on here are seriously believing shit like "I'd settle for Dakota Johnson" they need a reality check that'd be like if women were saying, I guess I'd settle for the shortest Hemsworth brother.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 01:38 AM |
| 1 | What men usually say when they approach you?Depends on the setting tbh - if I'm in a bar it's most likely to be some sort of compliment sometimes a cheesy pickup line, the only time I've had strangers straight-up lead with creepy sexual stuff it's when I'm catcalled In settings like at the gym/park etc they're more likely to ask you a question "what's the time", "do you know how to get to X" etc and then when you answer will sort of hold you verbally hostage. Frequency? Happens every time I've ever gone to a bar or club. Happens semi-regu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 01:36 AM |
| 5 | What are some shortcuts guys can use to get better results with women?Dakota Johnson. And Dakota Johnson is supposed to be...unattractive...in this scenario? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 01:02 AM |
| 6 | What are some shortcuts guys can use to get better results with women?I'd take Moody over DiCaprio any day of the week and I'm talking looks not personality or money. Some of the guys on here have ridiculous standards that border on absurd. I remember one guy posted a picture of some male model with his girlfriend and used it as an example of a "male 10" who settled for a less attractive woman. She was stunning and definitely in his league and he...was very pretty in that genetic well-built white guy way. Like do these guys actually go out and meet humans or do th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 12:37 AM |
| 0 | The One Standard That Fixes Modern DatingAnd for a lot of women that's simply not true and they struggle with dating just like men do and just want to find a nice guy, but then you guys come along and think you're "nice" but in reality you're misogynistic jerks with a massive chip on your shoulders because you're convinced that you're some "Chads" leavings and nothing women can say will convince you otherwise it's sort of sad really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 12:21 AM |
| 2 | The One Standard That Fixes Modern DatingI'm just commenting on the irony - it's almost amusing that broke ass men think a real golddigger would have anything to do with them...and most financially independent women don't want a man to spoil them, I don't expect anyone to pay my way and honestly I don't like women who expect men to pick up every tab...what most women want is for someone they're dating to show some kind of interest and investment - if I'm dating a guy who after months of dating won't even spring for a beer for me when w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 11:50 PM |
| 3 | Where is the bar?!the guys here obsess that women only find 20 percent of the population attractive Yeah, they obsess over the top 10% of women who will only look at the top 20% of men. They're so superficial and shallow and yet rage at equally superficial and shallow women because they won't lower their standards to date them. and assume all women are like that because they place a disproportionate emphasis on physical looks in potential partners so assume we all do. If PPD guys saw me and my BF together I can g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Where is the bar?!Emily's buttons are going to be different than Sara's and those will be different from Kim. So true, despite looking so alike that people often think we're sisters - (slight, blonde, green and blue-eyed and "conventionally attractive") me and my best friend for the past 15 years have polar opposite tastes in men in terms of both looks and personality - as in I have never liked a guy she has been interested in and vice versa. It's a joke amongst our friends that I find a man attractive she'll fin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 10:14 PM |
| 2 | The One Standard That Fixes Modern Datingya, we know this - there's a reason I don't have any heterosexual male friends and don't want any - We get triggered because men continue to insert themselves in our lives whilst only seeing us as "pussy" and then you get legions of butthurt guys like the RPers come on here and whine that women want nothing to do with them because we don't like being treated as just "pussy" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 09:59 PM |
| 1 | The One Standard That Fixes Modern DatingI've dated multiple people that tall (and multiple people a lot shorter) and honestly it's an awkward reach - I prefer a guy closer to my own height but it's easier for the guys on here to convince themselves that something they can't do anything about is why women won't date them, it's a convenient excuse and reassuring alternative to 'they have shitty personalities or some sort of major social deficit" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 09:56 PM |
| 2 | The One Standard That Fixes Modern DatingCool, I still think you have a gross attitude tho. And honestly I don't think most of the guys on here are incels/virgins I think they're not getting as much sex as they think they're entitled to and therefore they believe that is a great tragedy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 09:54 PM |
| 1 | The One Standard That Fixes Modern DatingHahah nope. But keep telling yourself that... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 09:52 PM |
| 3 | How does your PPD persona differ from real life when it comes to relationships?I largely avoid or don't engage men in casual social settings like bars and clubs so that's true. When it comes to gender politics I usually don't engage - i don't have the time, energy or interest to argue with people in my life about this shit. If I met a PPD IRL who told me he believed that women with an N count >3 isn't a viable partner I'd probably just say something like "that's cool" and walk away. i don't care enough IRL to get into heated arguments day to day. I usually come on here in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 09:51 PM |
| 2 | The One Standard That Fixes Modern DatingDude I have no horse in this race - you don't need to keep telling me about all the sex you're *totally* having in real life, with ladies, real ones, in real life.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Where is the bar?!What determines if a girl is into you? Some magical soul compatibility? Nope, it's a "bar" a set of criteria we have for what makes a good partner and every woman's is different though there is probably some overlap | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 09:30 PM |
| 3 | The One Standard That Fixes Modern Datingschrodinger's fat lololol... fucking love this.... Also why do guys usually go straight for the "fat" insult? As in "you're not hot anyway you fat bitch" as in I'm obviously not fat and apparently I was hot and thin enough to fuck until I said "um, no thanks, I'm good" I'd be far more insulted someone insulted my dress sense tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 09:27 PM |
| 2 | The One Standard That Fixes Modern DatingCool, coz I'm not single anyway no fear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 09:21 PM |
| 5 | The One Standard That Fixes Modern DatingHahaha Like when you tell a random guy who approaches you you're not interested; You're not that hot anyway, get over yourself \sulky face** | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 09:21 PM |
| 3 | The One Standard That Fixes Modern DatingNo, I just thought you were gross. Now I think you're probably an incel. Thanks for the clarification. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 09:20 PM |
| 13 | The One Standard That Fixes Modern Datingthen Nah, what they want is to be Chads who have gross, slutty women they have no respect for fuck them and when they're done with screwing around to settle down with a nice, virginal 23 year old instagram model and yet women are the delusional ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 09:15 PM |
| 3 | The One Standard That Fixes Modern Datingshould They want it both ways - they want women be disposable sex toys who worship them and get themselves tied up in knots that we expect them to treat us like human beings and nope the fuck out when they won't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 09:12 PM |
| -1 | The One Standard That Fixes Modern Datingabout Nope, doesn't matter how hot you are if you're not pulling your own weight you're deadweight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 09:08 PM |
| 5 | The One Standard That Fixes Modern Datingtwo I'm a surgeon and the number of wannabe sugar baby fuckbois barely out of their teens who flock to me when they find out about this is absurd, it absolutely does work in reverse too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 09:05 PM |
| 14 | The One Standard That Fixes Modern DatingEver notice it's the guys who don't have two red cents to rub together who are terrified of finding "golddiggers" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 09:04 PM |
| 4 | The One Standard That Fixes Modern DatingYeah, guys on here are responding with why would we bother interacting with women if we don't get sex? and to get that sex it's perfectly ok to lie, cheat and manipulate them Women are responding that we know men do this shit and all our "crazy standards" and being "sex gatekeepers" is because of this fucking behaviour. Men are literally their own problem in this particular scenario | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 09:01 PM |
| 9 | The One Standard That Fixes Modern DatingLovebombing and futurefaking two things that modern women are very well accustomed to filtering out - it probably worked for five minutes back in like 2011 but now these behaviours are a massive red flag | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 08:59 PM |
| 9 | The One Standard That Fixes Modern DatingMen, if you want to fuck, fuck. Misrepresent your intentions, lie, do whatever as long as it's legal, Aaand women know men do this, call them on their bullshit, don't bite, become guarded and assume all men are up to this shit and then you guys come on here whining about women "making you wait" or having "ridiculous standards", you guys set the fucking bar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 08:58 PM |
| 4 | The One Standard That Fixes Modern Datingmost want children with active fathers. Aaand if they don't find any suitable candidates and still want children they go it alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 08:56 PM |
| 8 | The One Standard That Fixes Modern DatingIn the aggregate, men are acutely aware of how certain types of men (creeps, fuckboys, etc.) ruin women's perceptions about men. I was just thinking myself that it's shocking in my life that I'd say the vast majority of men who hit on me or befriended me fall under these categories, most women don't decide they dislike men, in general, based on one or two bad experiences this is an aggregate of empirical data compiled over our entire lives.... doesn't seem like it. every time we say something ab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 08:51 PM |
| 4 | The One Standard That Fixes Modern DatingNo we are well aware which is why we avoid and ignore most of you and then you come on here to rage about being "invisible" and despise women for not treating you as a human being...ironic eh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 08:45 PM |
| 4 | The One Standard That Fixes Modern DatingMen have to believe that women desperately want and need relationships and that we fear dying alone, it's already bad enough that women now have rights and independence which means we can be choosier and set our standards higher - scratch that - have standards at all because we don't have to worry about being homeless or shoved off to a convent if we disagree with men nowadays. It's a comfortable lie they tell themselves because the alternative - that they need to seriously step up their fucking… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 08:40 PM |
| 4 | The One Standard That Fixes Modern Datingwe are saying we would rather have no interactions with men then. This. FR. This kind of bullshit is why if me and my current boyfriend ever broke up I'd be done with men and dating, don't have the time, energy or interest for this crap anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 08:34 PM |
| 5 | Are men really bad at over/underestimating a woman's interest?Taking rejection in stride is flat out attractive This. For real, I will never think poorly of a guy for shooting his shot if he can calmly take rejection and women who mock or otherwise make men feel bad for doing so are straight-up bitches. Problem is a lot of guys can get defensive or even aggressive when they're rejected and that's the ones who can take no for an answer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: How do women fail to treat you “as people” or “as human” in dating?I don't get that tbh, some people are just dicks, there should NEVER be some sort of bar of attractiveness that someone needs to meet in order for other people to treat them like human beings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 03:55 PM |
| 4 | Are men really bad at over/underestimating a woman's interest?that women don't go to bars and clubs anymore to hook up with men or find guys to date Yep. This is largely true thank you for acknowledging this. If we all only went to clubs to get laid and hook up and be ogled by men then how would you explain the explosion in popularity amongst straight young women for "girls only" pop up nightclubs like the kinds that are occasionally held in NY or London - and also why so many heterosexual women frequent gay bars and clubs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Men aren't giving their "sexual best" to their girlfriends and wives eitherSexual compatibility is important, I wouldn't mask my predilections ever - well, maybe on a first date don't launch in with that but also don't hang around hoping that a new partner will be into it either. Chin up dude, you'll find that special gal to hog-tie you someday | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 03:40 PM |
| 5 | Are men really bad at over/underestimating a woman's interest?one something rapey like try to get me to drink or take a nap with him or something Jesus riiight? Like FR so many men have tried to pull this shit on me and it's a very common occurrence from talking to other women, like wtf are they hoping will happen? that the can rape their "friend" they're sooo smitten with and she'll just realise she was actually into him the whole time... PS ... I don’t crush on people who aren’t interested in me. I feel like this is not said on here, or by people in gene… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 03:29 PM |
| 4 | Are men really bad at over/underestimating a woman's interest?Unless the man and the woman find each other mildly repulsive in some way they can't be friends, not really and most men don't deem women they find sexually unattractive to be worth their time and effort. It's just another example of cognitive dissonance and a lot of frustration borne of men and women assuming the other gender thinks like they do- women are perfectly happy to befriend men the are not sexually attracted to at all, men on the other hand seldom can muster up the effort to even be c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 02:38 PM |
| 12 | Are men really bad at over/underestimating a woman's interest?Oh my god, I’ve never seen a man admit the “friendzone” is due to one-sided romantic interest. Yees! I'm impressed tbh, usually it's because women re manipulative and secretly like men fawning on them and she was intentionally stringing her friend along as a plan B. They invent this whole narrative in their heads where they were victims of an elaborate scheme by some unscrupulous person because that's apparently a more palatable alternative than "she was just never interested in him romantically… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 02:23 PM |
| 3 | Are men really bad at over/underestimating a woman's interest?If we interpret your friendliness as romantic interest, it makes sense that when we discover that this romantic interest exists only on our side, we would accuse you of manipulating us. And we in turn believe that this is an incredibly entitled attitude to take, that attention somehow translates to sexual favours and then we become super guarded around men we don't know and then suddenly it's women are cold and haughty bitches and most "nice guys" are invisible to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 02:21 PM |
| 16 | Are men really bad at over/underestimating a woman's interest?Honestly, we know that men, especially younger ones are terrible by and large at differentiating friendliness from attraction and that's not a problem to us. If when we say we're not interested we get a "sorry, my bad, misread the signals, lets' forget about this and move on" that is 100% cool, it can be a little embarrassing and awkward but like, such is life. Problem is we usually get a guy who sulks that he was friendzoned or hears "keep trying, keep aggressively hitting on me and eventually … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 11:00 AM |
| 8 | Are men really bad at over/underestimating a woman's interest?Once I just helped a guy to clean his place after his birthday because everyone else was gone and his parents were on the way home. Now I see that it wasn't a smart move, Hey recently me and my friend made the "not smart move" of going to a bar without a male chaperone - that was enough to attract the attention of a table of four guys all night, they kept coming up to us - about every 15mins - to ask us to join them - we said "no, we are not interested. we would like to be left alone" verbatim, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 10:56 AM |
| 8 | Are men really bad at over/underestimating a woman's interest?Honestly? Not sure. Based on my own experiences I'd wager that some men can genuinely pick up on cues and react accordingly, some can't. At all. aaaand some don't give a shit either way. It's why women often have resting bitch face in clubs and bars, huddle with our own groups and shut men who approach us down hard - we're not actually monsters like ya'll think it's that in my and many women's experience any attention or interaction, even fleeting eye contact will be misconstrued as attraction o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 10:48 AM |
| 5 | Q4W: What do women mean by a guy being emotionally mature/intelligent?Oh same. Some of it is genuinely bemusing, like the guys on here taking it as gospel that if only they were hotter they could get any woman they want coupled with the genuine confusion between whether they actually want one night stands with "sluts" they don't respect or girlfriends who they also don't like very much as these are women who think they're "too good" for them. Some of it is downright nasty like guys swearing up and down that coercion and sexual extortion aren't forms of rape and th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 10:36 AM |
| -1 | Dating isn't as numerically skewed against men as people think.What criticism? Coz all I saw was your petty little attempt at a dig that didn't quite land? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 10:32 AM |
| 4 | Q4W: What do women mean by a guy being emotionally mature/intelligent?Oh man, did you see the reply where one guy said I lacked empathy for men's plight of having not to sexually assault women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 10:31 AM |
| 2 | Dating isn't as numerically skewed against men as people think.Oh 100% sounds straight up uncomfortable...but try telling most men on here that. I think they get their ideas about what women want from TV and porn... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 10:29 AM |
| 6 | Why are some people content with sexlessness?Coz it's all about you eh? And yet women who use vibrators are selfish? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Dating isn't as numerically skewed against men as people think.Nope. I'm well aware of my shortcomings, my relationship history is littered with abysmal failures and heartbreak and not because I was only fucking "Chads" like you all are constantly insisting - and I've dealt with my demons - still am - that's how I know it's painful and hard work. These guys just sit around feeling sorry for themselves. PDD is largely a circle jerk for he-bitches to commiserate about being the worlds ultimate victims. My own personal growth and ability to overcome a lot of m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 01:53 AM |
| 14 | Q4W: What do women mean by a guy being emotionally mature/intelligent?Massive victim complexes Blaming others for their problems Whining that life is unfair (it is, get over it) Making up excuses so they don't have to better themselves (I'm not 6'5 with a monster dick so i might as well just give up and hate women forever) Refuse to listen to advice that doesn't support their own biases Just being generally entitled whiny bitches Seek female attention and/or sex for validation although they would swear up and down they don't Incapable of even contemplating an alte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 01:44 AM |
| 15 | Why are some people content with sexlessness?You strike me as the type of man who feels emasculated by lube and sex toys. Yikes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 01:27 AM |
| 3 | Why are some people content with sexlessness?Yup, somewhere down the page a woman notes how men often much older - make us feel uncomfortable in our own bodies and that the harassment, objectification, unwanted attention and sometimes straight up assault start when we're literal children. His response? Women need to have more empathy because men can't control the fact that they have such high libidos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 01:17 AM |
| 6 | Dating isn't as numerically skewed against men as people think.from a way a lot of women tell it, the bar set by other men isn’t all that necessarily hard to meet It's really not, but try telling men on here that and they'll launch into some nonsense about women only dating "Chad's" or straight-up accusing us of lying, it's easier to just blame women for being shallow or fate for not making you 6'5 with a 10 inch penis because sitting around whining is easier than trying to rise to meet that low bar most of us have set. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 01:05 AM |
| 16 | Q4W: What do women mean by a guy being emotionally mature/intelligent?Most of the men on here are perfect examples of what we don't mean. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 12:39 AM |
| 19 | Why are some people content with sexlessness?Women are just holes to most men. And those men want sympathy? THIS. SO MUCH THIS. And like you with me it started around 11/12 with every woman and girl I know. Men actually think we're flattered when strangers come up to us, grope us, give us unwanted attention, follow us, tell us to "smile" intimidate us when we don't give them what they want and wholeheartedly believe we feel validated by this shit instead of violated. And as you can see below - OP responds with "but it's really hard for men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 12:35 AM |
| 11 | Why are some people content with sexlessness?Oh man he's arguing with every woman on here - they give their personal opinions or anecdotes from their actual lives and he fires off with "you're wrong" then spouts some bullshit about women only wanting hot guys and being shallow or delusional or some shit like that even though this post was why do some people abstain from sex long term - he doesn't want to hear women's reasons he just wants to whine about how we have it so much easier because we could have sex at any time so our opinions don… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 12:22 AM |
| 7 | Why are some people content with sexlessness?Shhh.....you can't say that on PPD!!! - don't you know only Chad's ever get laid? Every man who's not a GQ model is a beta bux nice guy a woman is settling for. If you were used or abused by an ugly ex it's your fault for being a slut, or else you're just not as hot as you thought you were... A lot of cognitive dissonance on this page comes from the pathetic RP men on here unable to comprehend that most women aren't as superficial and shallow as they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 12:18 AM |
| 12 | Why are some people content with sexlessness?Jesus christ, this question was about why people choose to abstain from sex and they still somehow managed to shit all over women and make it about how they're all just terrible sluts who secretly fear ageing out of being hit on by strangers because that's apparently how we measure our self-worth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 12:10 AM |
| 1 | In your opinion, what is the difference between a One Night Stand, Friends With Benefits (or F-Buddy), and a Relationship?Cool story, you're making a lot of assumptions about my life based on nothing and your answer is sort of sad and pathetic tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 05:06 PM |
| 1 | In your opinion, what is the difference between a One Night Stand, Friends With Benefits (or F-Buddy), and a Relationship?If a women had sex 7 times in college and didn't get a relationship out of them but is ready to settle now with a guy. She would have never had casual sex with him or even noticed him, guys are supposed to just be greatful she's ready to settle with that him now? This is utter nonsense - People change. Did you want to settle down when you were 21? Most people don't. I sure as hell didn't. You honestly trying to tell me that I'm settling for some beta now because I'm at a point in my life where I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 04:14 PM |
| 1 | In your opinion, what is the difference between a One Night Stand, Friends With Benefits (or F-Buddy), and a Relationship?I sort of understand what you're trying to say but people aren't black and white and there are a multitude of reasons women might act differently with different men beyond one is a "chad" and the other is a "beta bux" shit you all seem to buy into. I know you're effectively trying to argue that relationships should be equitable but what it sounds like is a spoiled child going waaah it's not fair that he got something that I didn't waaaaah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 03:15 PM |
| 0 | We know gym can really fix fat/skinny guys into a more attractive version, what about the rest.This is a concept the repillers struggle with. Big time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Do Women Give Their "Sexual Best" To Their Boyfriends or Husbands?I'd assume 5 times is the most times he's ever gotten the same woman to sleep with him... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Do Women Give Their "Sexual Best" To Their Boyfriends or Husbands?Those things being women... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 01:23 PM |
| 9 | Men aren't giving their "sexual best" to their girlfriends and wives eitheryou guys speak of women giving their sexual best to their boyfriends and husbands, but it's really about being submissive enough to take it up the ass and gag on a dick like a pornstar Ahahahahahahahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 01:17 PM |
| 1 | In your opinion, what is the difference between a One Night Stand, Friends With Benefits (or F-Buddy), and a Relationship?Me and my current boyfriend both have reasonable N counts - his is higher than mine- we both waited (not too long but much longer than both us us normally would) because we felt what we thought was a genuine connection and were getting to know each other. I know he's had ONS, FWB and casual sex he knows about my sexual past (and doesn't care because he's a grow up and doesn't have a madonna/whore complex) - He doesn't feel like I was "taking advantage" of him because we didn't jump into bed on t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 12:16 PM |
| 1 | In your opinion, what is the difference between a One Night Stand, Friends With Benefits (or F-Buddy), and a Relationship?I like how "not having sex straight away" is "not investing" for you guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 12:07 PM |
| -2 | Do Women Give Their "Sexual Best" To Their Boyfriends or Husbands?Yeah but he's also talking shit - you learn quickly and sex doesn't require any particular skill just practice but the idea that you have to submit and "give in" to your partner and their wishes- suggest that that guy is a pig and bad in bed (he's gonna tell me about how every woman he ever fucked was orgasming all night now- just wait) it's a mutual effort and if you're with someone who only has an interest in getting you to do the shit he likes or tries to make you do things that you're not co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 12:03 PM |
| 6 | Do Women Give Their "Sexual Best" To Their Boyfriends or Husbands?but almost all also have guys in their history that they were more attracted to Thiiiis is the problem right here with PPDers - this shit - they don't get it. They seem to be under this weird impression that women value physical attractiveness above all else (because they do) and nothing we can tell them will convince them otherwise, so they come out with nonsense like this - if we were pissed off that our boyfriends and husbands didn't think we were the most beautiful woman on the planet and th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 11:59 AM |
| 6 | Do Women Give Their "Sexual Best" To Their Boyfriends or Husbands?Women A lot of PPDers seem to be the under the impression that every married couple where both aren't celebrity-tier gorgeous consist of a sad pathetic beta buxx desperate for some p**y and a bitter, resentful woman who thinks she "settled"...the shit they tell themselves is unbelievable sometimes, I think it's because they're fixated on sex and looks and yet project these feelings onto all women who are *really* the shallow ones apparently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 11:52 AM |
| 8 | Do Women Give Their "Sexual Best" To Their Boyfriends or Husbands?Coercion isn't consent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 11:42 AM |
| 2 | Do Women Give Their "Sexual Best" To Their Boyfriends or Husbands?Nope, the exact opposite is true for me, I'm pretty kinky and fond of...certain things...that could severely injure or hurt me if done wrong so I only ever go all out when I'm with someone I love and trust. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 11:40 AM |
| 3 | In your opinion, what is the difference between a One Night Stand, Friends With Benefits (or F-Buddy), and a Relationship?it's about men having a heuristic to avoid being fucked over by a woman who wants him for some reason other than who he is as a person Which. Is. Exactly. Why. Many. Women. Wait. We know most every man we date wants sex, we're trying to determine if he only wants sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 01:10 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: How do women fail to treat you “as people” or “as human” in dating?Them women are bitches not denying it - but I've seen it waaaaaay more commonly in men and it's sort of everywhere not just like a woman at a bar refusing to make eye contact with a man she has no interest in (because then he'll fucking come over) I've literally seen it in places like casual get-togethers or when I used to work in an office - guys would refuse to engage with the unattractive women or the women they weren't sexually interested in - as in not properly collaborate with them, not ke… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Medical technology is the best thing for the dating marketI think those men are fixated on a dream where women who have less to offer will through some miracle have less options then them and thus settle The problem is the fantasy revolves around the types of women who have all of the options - ie beautiful and young - "settling" for them - which is never going to happen. Sure an attractive 30-something year old woman who is tired of the dating game might "settle" for one of these guys if he gets his shit together but that rubs their ego up the wrong w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 10:18 PM |
| 5 | In your opinion, what is the difference between a One Night Stand, Friends With Benefits (or F-Buddy), and a Relationship?See? and that type of attitude is exactly why women often make men they're interested in wait, because this fucking concept of damaged goods. Why is a high N count in a man considered desirable but in a woman it's gross?Once again the ridiculous double standards you have are what's preventing you from getting what you want. You want a virgin? Court one, marry one, commit to one - don't fucking complain that you're not getting laid whilst simultaneously shitting all over women who have sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Medical technology is the best thing for the dating marketcommon RP advice to "date down" I still get the impression that most men on here are still aiming way too high without any expectation of putting in any work for self-improvement beyond "going to the gym" on their parts and seem pissed that beautiful women have options (but beautiful men are just living their best lives apparently) but yes, I have seen a few examples of the "dating down" ideology on here tbf, and those men are always still raging about how "inferior" women won't date them, ironi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 10:02 PM |
| 7 | Medical technology is the best thing for the dating marketThis sub is ridiculous Yuup. It's an echo chamber of guys insisting that only 6ft tall, blue-eyed, blonde-haired "Chads" get laid or ever successfully find women... and women saying - um, no actually we all have wildly different tastes and preferences and for christ sake go outside and see how many normal guys are in relationships and getting laid - they plug their ears and continue to scream that women's standards are "too high" and blame feminism or some shit. After being on here enough to rea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 08:34 PM |
| 5 | In your opinion, what is the difference between a One Night Stand, Friends With Benefits (or F-Buddy), and a Relationship?RPer guys on here seem to foam at the mouth at this concept - if I'm looking to get laid I'd sleep with someone much earlier because I don't give a shit what they think of me and I'm not afraid of being "pumped and dumped" as everyone on here is so fond of saying because I'm using the guy as much as he's using me, usually the guys I used to find for semi-casual sex I didn't particularly like, respect or have any interest in being around there was zero risk of them getting under my skin or breaki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 08:22 PM |
| 0 | Q4M What do you tell men who have been hurt by numerous women compared to what you tell women who have been hurt by numerous men?I'm starting to think that Chad is just a term you guys use for any man who has any semblance of success with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 08:05 PM |
| 6 | Q4M: How do women fail to treat you “as people” or “as human” in dating?I mean that’s what some of the dudes here act like that’s they expect, let’s be real and are convinced they would actually get if only they were better looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 03:14 PM |
| 8 | Q4M: How do women fail to treat you “as people” or “as human” in dating?I’ve always thought that average men’s complaints were more about being “invisible” to women Agreed, you see that on here constantly. I remember discussing it on another sub here and it's not just a male issue - men also treat women they're not attracted to as invisible so it goes both ways. Actually I'd argue in terms of severity women have it worse - men whine that women treat them as "invisible" when what they really mean is said woman doesn't see the man as a potential sexual partner, when w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 03:11 PM |
| 6 | Do men over 30 really get higher in sexual market value?Cool, so what I said was women in their 20s tend to favour men closer to their own age and I don't know what your definition of "serious" is so can't weigh in there. As for mental illness? You brought that up. Seems like you're projecting a tad.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 11:03 PM |
| 3 | Do men over 30 really get higher in sexual market value?What the fuck is with the labelling of those men as "beta types", nothing more beta than being an unemployed loser in your 30s no matter how swol you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 10:59 PM |
| 4 | What standards do women have that are “too high”?On another thread I mentioned that my single girlfriends are looking for "Clean? Gainfully employed? Personality isn't a dumpster fire?" And was told that they're all single because they're deluded and their standards are too high. So I guess any woman who has a standards that's not "literally any man" is putting on airs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Do men over 30 really get higher in sexual market value?Clean? Gainfully employed? Personality isn't a dumpster fire? wildly unreasonable obviously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 03:19 PM |
| 2 | When discussing dating, women do not consider the average men as people so they compare themselves to the top 10% which is why they think dating is harder for them.It's actually hilarious and I struggle to understand how they actually believe this - like do they never go outside. When they see average looking dudes in relationships do they instantly dismiss them with "he's probably a millionaire with a giant penis" or somesuch shit instead of accepting that maybe he's jut an OK dude? No, what I've come to realise from too much time on PPD is that these guys are aiming for like the top 5% of women, instagram model-calibre women who obviously they aren't goi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 03:01 PM |
| 0 | When discussing dating, women do not consider the average men as people so they compare themselves to the top 10% which is why they think dating is harder for them.Most people, average or not, date and it' really fucking weird that you have guys on here claiming otherwise. Like if only the top 10% of guys dated then everyone would be single ffs. What you're trying to say is that you, repillers, don't date and that's because if you genuinely believe half the shit you say on here I can't see women wanting to date you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 02:56 PM |
| 13 | When discussing dating, women do not consider the average men as people so they compare themselves to the top 10% which is why they think dating is harder for them.I'm waiting for someone down the thread to whip out PPDers favourite old chestnut that on that survey done on dating sites women only ranked the top 20% of men as "attractive" as proof that we're all horrible creatures with who are too deluded and narcissistic to even look at normal guys.... because they always conveniently forget the rest of the study which showed that women still messaged/swiped significantly more men across the scale apart from that 20% and average-looking actually men receiv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Q4M What do you tell men who have been hurt by numerous women compared to what you tell women who have been hurt by numerous men?Nah not just lonely guys - I could forgive a super lonely guy for latching onto a girl who was nice to them tbh - I had a male friend in college we were extremely close, he was super cute and did very well with women but he also made it clear he had a crush on me (after a fashion) I didn't reciprocate which he claimed he was totally cool with but he'd constantly cockblock me on night's out, chase away guys interested in me, make never ending shitty comments about any guy I dated or was intereste… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Q4M What do you tell men who have been hurt by numerous women compared to what you tell women who have been hurt by numerous men?he only girls i’ve known with exclusively male friends were very masculine or lesbian— OR, were so insecure that they needed to be around a bunch of men ( Thiiis - I posted it further up here but like you the ONLY women I've ever known who "only have guy friends hehe" are a) super butch, b) pathologically insecure, or c) such raging bitches that women don't want anything to do wth them (sometimes b and c can overlap tbh) Also 100% agree with your male friendships being too much work, I've never … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 02:30 PM |
| 0 | Q4M What do you tell men who have been hurt by numerous women compared to what you tell women who have been hurt by numerous men?Actually the vast majority of women have largely female friend groups and it's a potential red flag if a girl "only has guy friends" as in my experience it's usually because such women are a) exclusively male interests like being super into a particular sport (which is fine) b) wildly insecure and need constant attention and validation from men c) far more commonly - are insufferable bitches who are conniving, petty and thrive on drama - women want nothing to do with them so they hang around wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Q4M What do you tell men who have been hurt by numerous women compared to what you tell women who have been hurt by numerous men?Yeah, does this guy even know any women or is he basing his ideas about females and their friendships on 80s sitcoms? I currently have no heterosexual male friends - after the last time I was accused of "friend zoning" a guy I'd never expressed any interest in romantically I said screw it, male friendships are too much fucking effort as a woman, you can't so much as compliment their tie without them assuming you're a sexual option and it's exhausting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 02:19 PM |
| 2 | Q4M What do you tell men who have been hurt by numerous women compared to what you tell women who have been hurt by numerous men?personality Just look as good as possible and hit the gym, fuck working on personality, as long as you look good you have it all! FFS I HATE this advice. Like you I went to med school with a guy who is now a fellow surgeon - looks like a freaking model - gorgeous, mouth-watering body because he lives in the gym - been single for as long as I've known him because socially he's such an unbelievably creepy weirdo who never learned to talk to women and just assumed "Hot surgeon" would mean women wou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 01:56 PM |
| 0 | Q4M What do you tell men who have been hurt by numerous women compared to what you tell women who have been hurt by numerous men?wants For real, why bother arguing - guy literally fired back with "every woman on here is lying" because it's easier to believe that not being born 6'5 with a 10 inch dick (ouch btw! do they think women like getting our cervix pounded?) is the issue because that's out of their hands unlike their shitty personalities. Who the fuck started this rumour that we women all want to just date hot jerks? Or that we'd take a hot jerk over an average-looking nice guy? Or that we'd all jump into bed if som… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 01:34 PM |
| 3 | Q4M What do you tell men who have been hurt by numerous women compared to what you tell women who have been hurt by numerous men?early Nah, "demisexual" is often misunderstood as only personality which isn't precisely true, I'm demisexual and usually only develop sexual attraction after I know someone a while (I can instantly recognise someone who is physically attractive because I have eyes, I just don't particularly want to jump into bed with them) but I would also have to not find the man to be physically off-putting in oder to develop that sexual attraction, I definitely don't need or seek out those 6 foot + muscular … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 01:21 PM |
| 3 | Q4M What do you tell men who have been hurt by numerous women compared to what you tell women who have been hurt by numerous men?it's not like lowering your standards on the superficial stuff means you're getting someone that's better in regards to the important stuff I mentioned it on here once before but in my early 20s an older friend once said to me "don't date ugly boys, they'll break your heart just as easy as the hot ones" and she was 100% right based on my own experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Q4M What do you tell men who have been hurt by numerous women compared to what you tell women who have been hurt by numerous men?Most women just wanna date a nice guy who they find attractive Thank you! I feel like every woman on here keeps stressing this to the men on here and most of them plug their ears and bang on about giant dicks and 7 figure bank accounts as if we give a fuck about those things if the guy is so loathsome that we can't even have a conversation with him. Also the who they find attractive is very important - me and my friends have wildly different preferences when it comes to men (my best friend is ve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Do men over 30 really get higher in sexual market value?Nope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Do men over 30 really get higher in sexual market value?It's not really and also most women don't consider themselves prostitutes so even if they can be bought aren't gonna appreciate the lack of subtlety on someone who does something this weirds part - at best a guy who posts his income is going to attract the dumbest, trashiest gold-diggers out there more than likely he'll be scammed... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 09:43 AM |
| 2 | Do men over 30 really get higher in sexual market value?I'm at the age where me and my friends are in that second peak (first peak is usually freshman college/last years of high school aged) second is about 28-30 and 3rd seems to be 40s+, a lot of my older single relatives (widowed, divorced etc) are in that third peak and say similar things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 09:40 AM |
| 1 | Do men over 30 really get higher in sexual market value?You spelled millennial wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 09:39 AM |
| 0 | Women say that the bar low for men? Is this really true?What's the question? That women have low bars for getting into relationships for men or that men have low bars? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 01:55 AM |
| 4 | Do men over 30 really get higher in sexual market value?Libido does seem to peak in 30s for women and they're also at their most sexual - probably a combination of still being pretty fertile (but declining) and just being more experienced- ie at 30 you know what you like and aren't afraid to ask for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 01:10 AM |
| 2 | Do men over 30 really get higher in sexual market value?but also, like guys who do that know what they're doing - they look like they're outright trying to buy a woman...and as a result will only attract women who can be bought... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Do men over 30 really get higher in sexual market value?starts slipping out in the way you can spend large amounts of money without blinking an eye It's the small things more than the big things tbh like it's not like he's out buying new BMWs every other week it's more like day to day little things...I still do our grocery shop at the cheap place a farther drive out and give out to him if he goes to the much closer fancy place for "convenience" because he's just overpaying for the same stuff, he's not allowed buy the groceries now because he just was… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 01:07 AM |
| 8 | What is opinion about women who choose to get In Vitro Fertilization and an anonymous sperm.xonor to have children without a boyfriend/husband?Oh no, they were role models in a sense - they are a model of everything I don't want. They have ultimately taught me to accept absolutely zero bullshit from men and set my standards sky-high, they have taught me that despite what I was told growing up being in a relationship with someone like them is infinitely worse than being some "sad old spinster" they taught me independence, how to never fear going it alone because the alternative being saddled with a trash man is infinitely worse, they ta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 12:52 AM |
| 12 | What is opinion about women who choose to get In Vitro Fertilization and an anonymous sperm.xonor to have children without a boyfriend/husband?Cool, My father was an alcoholic who systematically crippled my self-esteem over my formative years and it took me years to rebuild it My cousins father was a physically, financially and emotionally abusive philanderer who made her life living hell Are you really fucking telling us that we're better off for having 2-parent families with "male role models"? The least selfish thing that my aunt ever did was dump her psycho husband, I wish my mother had been so brave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 12:41 AM |
| 8 | Do men over 30 really get higher in sexual market value?But you'll often find it's women from pretty privileged backgrounds themselves tend to be the only ones who notice I think you might be right tbh. I came from a family where we'd routinely play "energy bill roulette" and mom would raid our piggy banks to pay for groceries.I'm a surgeon now and make six-figures but am not "rich", my boyfriend makes more than six times what I do and comes from a family who have "fuck you" money, I think I was about 6 months into our relationship before I started t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 12:24 AM |
| 33 | Do men over 30 really get higher in sexual market value?If you're 35, good-looking, make a lot of money, most 23 year old women still won't consider you for a LTR. You might get hookups but that's about it. For a LTR, They will prefer a man who's around a handful of years older than her even if he's less good-looking THIS There's a brief window in your early thirties where a man's options open up but that's less to do with his increase of his Smv but more with the fact that around 30, some relationships fall apart and people enter the market again an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 11:54 PM |
| 6 | Do men over 30 really get higher in sexual market value?those dates will be with older age appropriate women. Not attractive early 20s women Then they go on to dismiss and ignore the age-appropriate women labelling them as "desperate" or "goldiggers" hoping to get their claws into a beta bux and the women in their early 20s who still won't look at them are shallow, delusional, mean girls just like they were when these RPers were in their early 20s themselves and couldn't get these 22 year old instagram models then either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 11:14 PM |
| 2 | Do men over 30 really get higher in sexual market value?Clean? Gainfully employed? Personality isn't a dumpster fire? This is legit what my single girlfriends are looking for (we're all in our late 20s/early 30s) the vast majority of them are very attractive, well put-together and in high-powered careers with their own assets (lawyers, doctors, finance etc), they are literally looking for the above and still struggling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 11:09 PM |
| 15 | Do men over 30 really get higher in sexual market value?realizing Usually if someone is still single (and actually wants a relationship) into their 30s there's a reason for it - it can be pure bad luck but often it's baggage or some other issue that has made them an unattractive potential partner - but I do think between about 28-32 there is a "second peak" for both men and women on the dating market consisting of those who are getting out of long term relationships (usually with a college or high school sweetheart) and are back on the market - these… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 10:44 PM |
| 5 | Do men over 30 really get higher in sexual market value?As someone pointed out however that is suicidally weird to like 99% of the female population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 10:09 PM |
| 2 | How difficult has dating been for YOU?What has been the most frustrating thing in dealing with men for you? As shitty as it sounds...just the amount of low-quality men who are out there and I'm not talking looks or height or not being in some high-flying six figure job. Just the amount of plain assholes out there, creeps, weirdoes and guys with massive chips on their shoulders. I'd be a demi/sapiosexual so connection and personality that meshes is very important to me, I'm also not a fan of casual sex and ONS (though honestly I don'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 09:49 PM |
| 3 | How difficult has dating been for YOU?the best parts about being taken is * not having to deal with women in the context of dating* I feel the exact same way about men when it comes to dating tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 02:41 PM |
| 4 | Strategic pluralism: the scientific name for "alpha fucks beta bucks"Evolution is a continuous process and will never stop because its a combination of selective pressures and genetic drift, even animals that exist today that have "not evolved" in millions of years ...are always "evolving". It's not directional but rather traits are selected at a point in time so to speak, we obviously are no longer optimised for our environment and to claim that our technology is unnatural or somehow outside the bounds of our own genetic and evolutionary capabilities is also not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Strategic pluralism: the scientific name for "alpha fucks beta bucks"Yeah, I'm not going to argue with you over wikipedia articles. I never used the phrase "all women". It was implied and the fact that you've lapsed into nit-picking about semantics is very telling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 07:18 PM |
| 4 | Strategic pluralism: the scientific name for "alpha fucks beta bucks"I mean I have to disagree...we are still evolving and will never stop and a lot of our behaviours are rooted in instinct but also human psychology has evolved beyond jungle herds and is enormously complex and nuanced and the reductive bullshit peddled by many of the men on here as justification as to why women won't touch their weiners is just an elaborate thought experiment to make themselves feel superior - after all they can't help it if women are just stupid animals can they? *pats themselve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Data on beta buxxing is skewed because there is an extended period where the beta buxxers bury their heads in the sandAnd men don't put women in mental buckets. Based on my observation it's usually Fuckable = be fake nice and get pissy if "friendzoned" Not-fuckable = invisible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 05:36 PM |
| 3 | Data on beta buxxing is skewed because there is an extended period where the beta buxxers bury their heads in the sandOk, for real - this type of shit is actually personally offensive and insulting as it should be to any woman reading it. You come on here and pontificate based on some abstract observation in the animal kingdom which you hamfistedly try to superimpose onto human behaviour and claim, like it's gospel that women act like this. What fucking woman on earth is believing she's settling for someone who is generous, enterprising and hard working over someone who is...handsome and aggressive?!... Jesus f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 05:35 PM |
| 5 | Data on beta buxxing is skewed because there is an extended period where the beta buxxers bury their heads in the sandMy aunt and uncle married at 20. By the time they divorced in their mid-40s they were both completely different people... He claimed he'd wasted his youth with her and that she'd sponged off him (she was a SAHM) used him for his money and now wanted to "bleed him dry" She swears that she wasted her best years with him and that she sacrificed so much and missed out on so many opportunities (getting a career, going to college) to raise his family and take care of his home. They both hate each othe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Data on beta buxxing is skewed because there is an extended period where the beta buxxers bury their heads in the sandThey never believe women on here and only believe men when it affirms their narrow worldview. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Data on beta buxxing is skewed because there is an extended period where the beta buxxers bury their heads in the sandI don’t know many people that would willingly pair up long term with a hot useless person who has to be carried through life Try telling PDDers this. I really wish we had a magic pill that would make all PDDers super gorgeous "Chads" for 24 hours - my money would be on them all still striking out by being creepy and weird, then they might get it, finally. Because they all claim they're not creepy and weird and thus come to the natural conclusion that it's all of womankinds fault for not wanting … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 05:17 PM |
| 5 | Data on beta buxxing is skewed because there is an extended period where the beta buxxers bury their heads in the sandThe reality is married men are not seen in a positive way in red pill circles because for a lot of those guys treating a woman as something higher than a fleshlight is seen as beta. for real, there's some weird fucking mental gymnastics on this sub around relationships. If you look like Henry Cavil and are married to Bella Hadid lookalike you're wasting your potential by saddling yourself to one p**y, *coughs* I mean "woman" If you look like Henry Cavil and are married to a less attractive woman… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Data on beta buxxing is skewed because there is an extended period where the beta buxxers bury their heads in the sandThere’s a level of lonely that cuts down to the soul I've seen this too many times, and it's chilling. Yeah I'm sure all those guys surrounded by their children and families are seething at the fact that they're "beta males" their wives "settled" for. Some of the perceptions guys on here have of relationships are so fucking weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 05:05 PM |
| 7 | Strategic pluralism: the scientific name for "alpha fucks beta bucks"hardcoded Or maybe she doesn't want a mate and offspring because she's not a fucking hyena. You guys come on here and talk about women and men like we're all living in herds on the serengeti and seem shocked that this isn't somehow applicable to modern dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 04:51 PM |
| 4 | The frustrations of young men are reduced when governments legalize prostitutionYou see the fact that women can and will say no to "wanna fuck?" from a stranger makes this needlessly complicated for him and now he's butthurt and insulting our intelligence and incorrectly accusing us of making straw man arguments despite apparently not knowing what those are, he also suggested I take a reading comprehension course which is also ironic considering that a few of those replying to him and pissing him off are comprehending his comments in context and not merely literally (you kn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 12:14 PM |
| 2 | The frustrations of young men are reduced when governments legalize prostitutionit's also not a straw man argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 12:08 PM |
| 1 | how does one "work on their personality" without frauding who they really are and creating a fake persona, if that's even possible. And what do people mean by "working on your personality"? Also why do the same people say "just be yourself" when it's contradictory?it's actually a spectrum. Few sociopaths feel nothing. The correct term now is "antisocial personality disorders" which include the sociopathy and psychopathy scales... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 12:07 PM |
| 1 | how does one "work on their personality" without frauding who they really are and creating a fake persona, if that's even possible. And what do people mean by "working on your personality"? Also why do the same people say "just be yourself" when it's contradictory?I’m interested in stuff like Social Darwinism, genetic determinism, nominalism my mask is patrick bateman tier lol, You really just sound like a 16 year old tbh. 99% chance you'll just grow out of it or else you actually are a sociopath but doubtful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 01:26 AM |
| 3 | how does one "work on their personality" without frauding who they really are and creating a fake persona, if that's even possible. And what do people mean by "working on your personality"? Also why do the same people say "just be yourself" when it's contradictory?For real, you're 16 - your personality hasn't solidified yet and you're still growing as a person and yeah, it sucks, I doubt there's an adult on here who'd trade places with you. "don't be a dick" is the best advice I can give you in terms of working on yourself... but you will be from time to time because you're 16 and also we all are, you don't need to overhaul your entire personality and pretend you like things you don't - you'll eventually learn to be more comfortable in your own skin becau… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 12:55 AM |
| 5 | Why are single women more likely to be happy being single then single men?Honestly? It's not worth the effort a lot of the time - there is a paucity of good men, or even acceptable men out there. I have no interest in being someone's maid or mother. Honestly if I broke up with my current boyfriend I probably would be very much done with dating - too much weirdness, dysfunction, baggage, desperation, games...it's exhausting and for a lot of women who are independent, self-sufficient and have a large and rich social life with friends and family outside of a romantic par… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 12:40 AM |
| 13 | The frustrations of young men are reduced when governments legalize prostitutionhowever most women don't even realize that's all they need to do To get sex? Of course we do. Most women could walk up to a random men at a bar, ask them to fuck and she'd definitely find one to agree by the end of the night... But sex isn't nearly as fun with some stranger for most women as it is for men - and can be straight up unsafe. It's not "complicated" to us, just common sense. Go fuck an escort or each other if you want a stranger who is receptive to "wanna have sex?" Also for real if y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 04:14 PM |
| 18 | The frustrations of young men are reduced when governments legalize prostitutionIt wasn't men who made sex complicated. Sex isn't complicated. Aside from hookups and ONS which the majority of people don't regularly engage in it simply goes - date someone, if you like them, fuck them It's not women's fault that the "be likeable" part is apparently so hard for a lot of men. And before you jump on here with your bullshit about men who aren't GQ cover models making six figures being invisible to women - most of my single girlfriends would settle for "nice and normal" the bar is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 03:58 PM |
| 3 | Women here constantly respond to every complaint by men with some variation of “women don’t owe you sex” or “sorry you can’t get your dick wet” and basically imply that sex is all that men want from women. This is obviously false and used to once again diminish our struggles.Interestingly in my younger years when I did something like this, the guy invariably would get offended. "get over yourself" "you're not that hot" "I didn't want to fuck you anyway, bitch" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 10:58 PM |
| 3 | CMV: If the man makes far more money in a "marriage", the female should do the vast majority of home labor/chores/taking care of childrenLower paying jobs can be just as, if not more, stressful and it was your own choice, not your partner's I was just thinking that - I'm a surgeon so I am that person who made all those "sacrifices" in my 20s to get to where I am I also work 80-100hr weeks (45hr/wk for s physician lololol), My BF earns roughly six times what I do and works a 9-5. By PPD logic if I quit my job and leech off him I'm a goldigger and exemplar of everything that's wrong with entitled women If I keep my job apparently i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 10:51 PM |
| 2 | money doesn't actually mean shit to most womenFR - "beautiful singles in your area" would start contacting him by the boatload.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/22 02:51 PM |
| 7 | money doesn't actually mean shit to most womenPutting your income on a dating app is suicidally weird, looks hugely insecure, looks like you’re trying to impress women to the point of trying to outright buy one a This needs to be the top comment. That's insane. Even flexing about your salary or the expensive shit you own on a first date or when meeting a woman is tacky and lame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/22 02:37 PM |
| 8 | Average/below-average women actually want to be asked out in publicA lot of dudes are just creepy about it. They want to approach total strangers... and they want the woman to commit on the spot yep, pretty much this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/22 12:39 PM |
| 7 | The trope that men only care about looks is a reflection of the gynocentric society we live inbut to many men, “You don’t even matter to me” definitely comes off as insulting, especially for the men who come on here because they are struggling. I think this also fuels a lot of their behavior towards women such as yourself. A Fits off - it's not a woman's job to be a strange man's emotional support animal or therapist. Secondly, this is entirely contextual and in the context of the type of men on PPD - a lot of the men I see on here are struggling but they aren't seeking honest advice or … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/22 06:58 PM |
| 28 | Women here constantly respond to every complaint by men with some variation of “women don’t owe you sex” or “sorry you can’t get your dick wet” and basically imply that sex is all that men want from women. This is obviously false and used to once again diminish our struggles.Your little dig in there at women is completely irrelevant to this question. This post is implying that women on here keep claiming that men on here only care about sex Women on here are pointing out that time and time again we are being told by the men on here that they only care about sex or things that make us sexual to them You come along and helpfully inform us that women care about height and money. Make it make sense? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/22 06:37 PM |
| 20 | Women here constantly respond to every complaint by men with some variation of “women don’t owe you sex” or “sorry you can’t get your dick wet” and basically imply that sex is all that men want from women. This is obviously false and used to once again diminish our struggles.An alarming percentage of men really do think this and it is wild. SO MANY. TOO MANY. So many even in my own life in fact that the only unrelated, straight man I will willingly spend prolonged time with now outside of a professional setting is the one I'm actually having sex with (my BF). I got so sick of being accused of friendzoning men I never had any romantic or sexual interest in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/22 06:12 PM |
| 110 | Women here constantly respond to every complaint by men with some variation of “women don’t owe you sex” or “sorry you can’t get your dick wet” and basically imply that sex is all that men want from women. This is obviously false and used to once again diminish our struggles.I mean, that's because over and over and OVER again on PPD women are told Men don't care about you as people, your dumb careers and personalities We only care about looks We only care about youth We only care about fertility What about this suggests to you that you view women as anything more than mere sexual objects? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/22 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Do women feel they are getting any benefit from average Joe's desperation?I take it you're a man, right? Only a man could post something like this unironically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/22 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Do women feel they are getting any benefit from average Joe's desperation?Like, what are you even physically attracted to? These weren't times where I was wearing particularly revealing outfits either. It's literally just based on being a lone young woman. FR - been hit on with masks, once I think I was wearing old jeans and a long green trench-coat, usually I'm just in yoga pants and a hoodie or jeans with no makeup because I don't dress up to go to the grocery store | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/22 06:01 PM |
| 9 | The trope that men only care about looks is a reflection of the gynocentric society we live inHave ya'll tried Saudi Arabia? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/22 05:57 PM |
| 12 | The trope that men only care about looks is a reflection of the gynocentric society we live incommit Someone on here made a very valid and probably 100% true post that men on here seem to be borderline delusional when it comes to their perception of what a real life woman actually looks like and believe an attractive woman (I mean the kind you pass on the street) look like instrgarm models. If you asked guys on PPD to send in pictures of women they thought were average looking I can guarantee you that these women would be solid 7s at the least. These are the same guys who are coming on h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/22 05:55 PM |
| 5 | The trope that men only care about looks is a reflection of the gynocentric society we live inSo you gonna support her then by being a "good capitalist worker bee" so she can stay at home and raise the kids? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/22 05:49 PM |
| 3 | The trope that men only care about looks is a reflection of the gynocentric society we live inSame, I'm a surgeon and have usually dated fellow doctors or men in engineering, STEM, tech and finance nearly all of them value independence and career and financial success in their women and nearly all of them are with women in good jobs with advanced degrees smart and successful men usually aren't intimidated by smart successful women, it's the ones who need to keep other on their knees to feel good about themselves that do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/22 05:47 PM |
| 10 | The trope that men only care about looks is a reflection of the gynocentric society we live inCool so you view female success through a male lens? - that the only metric by which she can be successful is in what she can give and get from men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/22 05:40 PM |
| 11 | The trope that men only care about looks is a reflection of the gynocentric society we live inpoor men that just want to love you These same men who only view beautiful women under 24 with a "low body count" as actual women worthy of being with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/22 05:37 PM |
| 8 | The trope that men only care about looks is a reflection of the gynocentric society we live inFrom what I've seen along with being homeowners, having masters, PhDs, MDs and interesting hobbies and skills a lot of them are also in relationships, myself included. We literally have no horse in the race...but a lot of single redpillers seem to have their entire personality hinge on their lack of success with women and come to some positively deranged conclusions as to what is wrong with women, not them, with every woman. A lot of women on here are trying to counter this weird roundabout logi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/22 05:36 PM |
| 15 | The trope that men only care about looks is a reflection of the gynocentric society we live inThe men here say that they don’t care about it, and mock women who think their personalities, interests, careers, accomplishments, etc, are an attractant I think I can give you about 3 separate examples of different men on here doing exactly this to me in the past 72hrs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/22 05:25 PM |
| 39 | The trope that men only care about looks is a reflection of the gynocentric society we live inFor real, I think we both weighed in on multiple threads over the past few days that were along the lines of "Men don't give a shit about a woman's personality or accomplishments in life, we only care about a hot young bod, pretty face and a reliable set of ovaries - re: young" and being called delusional because we were trynna point out that most men who aren't maladjusted manchildren actually do care about those things and want an equal not a dependent... but no apparently, we're delusional no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/22 05:22 PM |
| 6 | Do women feel they are getting any benefit from average Joe's desperation?It's worse on the street I think, more than a few times I've simply been followed and because I don't want these people to know where I live I basically have had to hang out in populated areas or go into a store and strike up a conversation with an employee until they got bored or I lost them. This is AFTER I told them I'm not interested and to leave me alone...some of them think it's fucking hilarious to "terrorise" a woman and some of them do it out of pure spite in the hopes of upsetting me b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/22 05:14 PM |
| 38 | Do women feel they are getting any benefit from average Joe's desperation?I don't fully understand your comments but I can only speak for myself I guess. I get approached by a lot of men and post-covid I've noticed it's definitely gotten worse - It's opportunistic cold-callers >90% of the time who approach me on the street, at the gym, in the park, grocery store, bars etc It's not flattering I don't feel pretty or desired I don't like the attention Mostly it's just annoying Sometimes it can be creepy or off-putting, sometimes it's downright fucking scary So no, I don'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/22 12:00 PM |
| 2 | Are men really as conversationally selfish as many women claim?Yeah, I also have never heard this claim about women saying men are conversationally selfish tbh. Like none of my friends really come back from dates or complain about their partners with "he only ever talks about himself" I mean I hear a lot of "he doesn't listen to me" but that's a different issue. Maybe in non-dating spheres, like I defo have been talked over at work when I'm with a bunch of guys etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/22 10:50 AM |
| 3 | Whats some legit benefit to a man for dating a woman that is 35+They definitely exaggerate the odds are absolutely in your favor Yeah, a guy on here called me a liar as in an outright liar the other day because I pointed out that 1.The chance of getting pregnant at 30 on your most fertile day is actually just under 40% (and at 25 it's just over 50% btw) and not "less than 20%" like he was insisting. The odds of conceiving within 3mo at 25 the magic age when all women are ultra fertile and more attractive apparently is actually less than 20% at that dreaded a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/22 10:48 AM |
| 2 | Whats some legit benefit to a man for dating a woman that is 35+facetious Means flippant, Sardonic is mocking and cynical - I'm both how can you not be on PPD? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/22 10:33 AM |
| 2 | Whats some legit benefit to a man for dating a woman that is 35+Oh yeah, I have a very specific type, always have, it's just looks don't really factor into it all that much once they meet a minimum standard of "not hideously repulsive to me" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/22 10:29 AM |
| 3 | Whats some legit benefit to a man for dating a woman that is 35+Actually it's just under 40%, at 25 it's about 50% and at 40 it's less than 30% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/22 12:19 AM |
| 2 | Most of the time when men react with frustration when women reject them it is because the woman is less attractive than them and has an inflated image, not because they are “entitled to sex.” Women react the same way when they don’t get what they feel they “deserve,” yet only one is shamed for it.Hahah I think we all watched too many teen movies.... But I was frikkin adorable when I was in HS but I lacked the self-awareness to realise this and even if I had...did not have the social skills to actually be receptive to any boy who might have been interested in me. And in hindsight I now recognise that a lot of boys actually were flirting with me in HS - I just thought they were being weird and wanted them to leave me alone (and said as much hahaha) Despite what we learned in the movies tee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Whats some legit benefit to a man for dating a woman that is 35+Most men just feel frustration because their higher brain says "Don't be a stupid creep. Lol at least they recognise it I guess. men of any age tell you that 19yo are physically hotter than older women they are telling you the truth Huh...weird and kinda gross tbh...because you see as a 30 year old woman when I see 19 year old boys they look like literal children to me, like for real the same way you would see a 12 year old girl? That's pretty much how I see a 19 year old boy. Absolutely no desi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 11:08 PM |
| 2 | Whats some legit benefit to a man for dating a woman that is 35+Physical attraction and sexual attraction are quite different for me as well tbh. Like I will admire a physically attractive man but that does not mean I'll be sexually attracted to him. At all. Obviously I can't find the guys I date physically repulsive but I don't have any specific "type", my current BF for example is very average looking (which he will freely admit), like when we first met I definitely wasn't thinking "now there's one attractive man!" but I am insanely sexually attracted to h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 11:01 PM |
| 6 | Whats some legit benefit to a man for dating a woman that is 35+it's because your cycle can go all whacky because the ovaries are winding down and you can ovulate a few types a month...haha and yes, I know many people who were that surprise baby with a 16+ year age gape between them and their siblings... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 10:48 PM |
| 5 | Whats some legit benefit to a man for dating a woman that is 35+They're drama machines because they don't know who they are yet for the most part. For real, when I was college aged I thought I knew everything, I can tell you now I was sooooo wrong and I see a lot of college me in most younger women, college aged men are also figuring themselves out so a calm, established and confident older woman can probably seem attractive to them - in the same way many young women are drawn to older men. I feel like I haven't made myself clear that I have no issue with ag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Whats some legit benefit to a man for dating a woman that is 35+I'm a liar about being a doctor? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Whats some legit benefit to a man for dating a woman that is 35+personally I'm very much a sapiosexual/demisexual type of person, so no matter how physically attractive you are if you can't hold my attention it's not happening. I'm assuming women who do this sort of thing have some serious issues (in the case of the teenagers) are mentally stuck in adolescence or just feel sexual attraction in a different way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Most of the time when men react with frustration when women reject them it is because the woman is less attractive than them and has an inflated image, not because they are “entitled to sex.” Women react the same way when they don’t get what they feel they “deserve,” yet only one is shamed for it.I thought of myself as somewhat of a misunderstood loner Hahaha saaaame. Like for real I was just awkward and had poor social skills, like I will totally own up to that, I was very much my own worst enemy in HS. But to this day I am still misjudged constantly - many people, girls and guys have told me they were shocked when they got to know me and saw my "real" personality Yep, we basically have the exact inverse problem. Literally everyone including my current BF have told me that the book very… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 09:12 PM |
| 5 | Men's worth should NOT be based on women's attractionI actually prefer the average guy as I often find the super model looking guys more shallow than the average guy Ya, they're often very high maintenance tbh Alright cool, I don't desperately need a man. most. women. don't. This is I think where a lot of cognitive dissonance on this page comes from, most of the men here seem to wholeheartedly believe that women as a group are desperate for relationships and male attention and that we base as much of our self-worth on our sex lives as the redpille… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 08:58 PM |
| 4 | Whats some legit benefit to a man for dating a woman that is 35+For real, a 23 year old was hitting on me about 2 weeks ago at a bar and I was thinking "you're a beautiful creature, but even if I was single not in a million years", hot AF but just dripping in that sort of arrogance and self-entitlement and unearned confidence in their own genius that only a 23 year old guy can have. 22 year old me would have eaten that shit up and 30 year old me just though he sounded like...sort of an idiot...if I'm being honest. I mean we've all been there, we've all thoug… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 08:28 PM |
| 24 | Are men really as conversationally selfish as many women claim?Honestly, not at all. Most of the dates I've been on that I enjoyed we talked about all kinds of things including ourselves - I can count on one hand the few dates I've been on where the guy could only talk about himself and he was either obviously super nervous and trying to "sell himself" or just a d-bag | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 08:02 PM |
| 5 | Whats some legit benefit to a man for dating a woman that is 35+What do you mean equally emotionally/socially/financially? Men aren’t attracted to that stuff. Women are and grown-up men with well developed social skills who aren't mentally stuck in high-school also tend to be. They're NOT attracted to men who want dependents, you think we're all jealous and getting bent out of shape that us ancient gals in our 30s (most of whom aren't even single from what I can tell) are now "excluded" from your dating pool when by targeting teenagers and girls in their ear… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 08:00 PM |
| 4 | Whats some legit benefit to a man for dating a woman that is 35+Men like to look after and protect their woman. This involves her body, emotions, mind, and spirituality Yeah, that sounds like you playing the role of big strong caveman to a subordinate woman.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 07:50 PM |
| 7 | Whats some legit benefit to a man for dating a woman that is 35+Older women aren't better than younger women. If a man is basing his dating pool simply on AGE he isn't looking for a partner he's looking for a subordinate This. You answered his question perfectly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 07:49 PM |
| 7 | Whats some legit benefit to a man for dating a woman that is 35+I usually just lurk here and don't comment, but jesus christ, this is probably the most bizarre pick-me post I've ever read If you think you're nothing more than a human incubator, then that's you, but don't put that shit on all women Do you not know what facetious means? EDIT- Sorry just had to add - not only did you completely misread the tone of my comment but are accusing me of disrespecting you - an internet strangers - family? - yeah, I'm the deranged one. LMFAO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Whats some legit benefit to a man for dating a woman that is 35+I'm a doctor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 05:38 PM |
| 8 | Men's worth should NOT be based on women's attractionIf you're not getting laid there must be something wrong with you; If you're single you must be a social retard autist and live in a basement; If you're single you probably haven't taken showers in a month and are a hopeless loser; If you're single your personality is shit; I agree that this is far too general to apply to the everyone unlucky in love and sex and I do not believe that people's self-worth should be based on their relationship status. But we're talking about this specific group/sub… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 05:16 PM |
| 4 | Men's worth should NOT be based on women's attractionFor instance, criminal behavior is intensely attractive to them. What sort of insane shit is that!? Do you seriously believe that women are sexually attracted to "criminal behaviour" what else are we sexually attracted to, Fire? Getting punched in the face? Please do tell, I'm learning all sorts of stuff about myself tonight... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 05:10 PM |
| 3 | Men's worth should NOT be based on women's attractionWomen came to this exact same conclusion about their self-worth and men years ago and yet it's mens belief that women base our self-worth on them and thus should be desperate for attention and therefore by extension if we poor desperate creatures rebuff men then there must be something wrong with you as men...oh my...you're your own worst problems it seems.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 05:04 PM |
| 4 | Whats some legit benefit to a man for dating a woman that is 35+And in medical terms "advanced paternal age" is ...also 35 or older... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 04:52 PM |
| 4 | Whats some legit benefit to a man for dating a woman that is 35+But what if you want more! At least tell me you have a 21 year old waiting in the wings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 04:51 PM |
| 6 | Whats some legit benefit to a man for dating a woman that is 35+Hahaha or hold off and have a little army of mutants...that could also be fun...Nah, it's cool, just most men on here seem to think that women's ovaries shrivel up and die at 35 and men stay perfectly fertile until the day they die. Fertility for both sexes drops quite a lot in the 30s and the quality of men's sperm rapidly declines, the rate of certain neurological disorders like autism is statically far more likely in children of older fathers (whereas disorders of cell division like trisomy (… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 04:50 PM |
| 10 | Whats some legit benefit to a man for dating a woman that is 35+They mostly just want to bang. Then they want to tell those same girls at 32 that they're damaged and broken for letting men like them bang them in their 20s. Too true. Ya, I dated a few older guys in my 20s- some were straight up RP revenge fantasy creeps and even dumb early 20s me was turned off by them (like I may have been a naive 21 year old but if all your exes are crazy, women your own age don't "get you" and I'm sooooo mature - I'm wasn't - then even I'll pick up on that giant red flag) … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 04:00 PM |
| 3 | Whats some legit benefit to a man for dating a woman that is 35+ The only part of that comment I believe is that you want children. And if you do that is absolutely your prerogative but what does that have to do with shitting on 35 year old women? A lot of 35 year old women want children, a lot don't and never will, most can have children, healthy children in fact, despite what you seem to believe - if you want to screw around with some girl and be her forever boyfriend before finally deciding to settle down and marry her to have all those kids you want whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 03:56 PM |
| 26 | Whats some legit benefit to a man for dating a woman that is 35+I think it's a certain type of man tbh, I find that most men I'd have a lot in common with and respect tend to prefer women their own age or close to it, the only men I know who date college-aged girls now are seen as sort of sad and weird tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 03:51 PM |
| 22 | Whats some legit benefit to a man for dating a woman that is 35+As I posted somewhere else on this thread - every woman has a "creepy guy I dated when I was in my early 20s and didn't know any better" story and these RPers are, at best, going to be her "creepy old guy story" and her "baggage" that apparently makes 30-somethings unattractive what she's not going to be is his trophy wife and mother of his legions of spawn that a woman of 35 is completely incapable of birthing as they all seem to believe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 03:45 PM |
| 6 | Whats some legit benefit to a man for dating a woman that is 35+In his 40s and ready for her to bear his 10 children! As God intended! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 03:40 PM |
| 11 | Whats some legit benefit to a man for dating a woman that is 35+It was probably posted to put us women in our place. Too many of us are labouring under the delusion that we have options in our 30s when we need to be reminded that our value as women is intrinsically tied to our ability to pop out babies for men who we are all apparently desperate to couple up with (once again this is from a poster who wildly overestimates many women's desires to actually be in relationships or rather massively overestimates out fear of "dying alone") and that we need to get o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 03:35 PM |
| 4 | Whats some legit benefit to a man for dating a woman that is 35+Unless she's 35 then she best hope her dusty ovaries can attract a fat midget. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 03:32 PM |
| 15 | Whats some legit benefit to a man for dating a woman that is 35+There are also plenty of younger people who have issues conceiving. This. My cousin married her husband at 22 - they're both 38 now and just had a baby last year after almost a decade and a half of IVF. My aunt married her second husband at 41 and got pregnant within a year. Statistically speaking fertility declines after 35, but men on here need to stop acting like women over the age of 35 who are pregnant are like unicorns - when I was doing my OBGYN rotations I'd say at least 40% of the pregn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 03:31 PM |
| 8 | Whats some legit benefit to a man for dating a woman that is 35+But what about all the children she can't give her new husband!!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 03:27 PM |
| 10 | Whats some legit benefit to a man for dating a woman that is 35+doesnt give a fuck if she cant provide you with children or not because she is entitled to a man and you're entitled to children? Jesus entitlement cuts both ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 03:26 PM |
| 5 | Whats some legit benefit to a man for dating a woman that is 35+Didn't you get the memo - you were supposed to trade her in for a younger model with a more reliable set of ovaries? Who is going to have those packs of children now? Not her old ass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 03:25 PM |
| 15 | Whats some legit benefit to a man for dating a woman that is 35+Ya, every girl I know (myself included) has a "that creepy old guy I dated when I was 22" story - we all thought he was cool and worldly, we all though we were "so mature" because why else would he have "picked" us? Aaaand we all grew out of it and I can look back now on what it really was - a manipulative creep who couldn't get women his own age to look at him so he preyed on girls too young to know any better and he genuinely believed that 22 year olds who literally had nothing in common with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 03:17 PM |
| 44 | Whats some legit benefit to a man for dating a woman that is 35+I'm 30 and even though I get plenty of attention from younger men (I look younger than I am) most men under 25 just seem like children to me, I couldn't imagine dating one, I'd feel like his mom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 03:11 PM |
| 32 | Whats some legit benefit to a man for dating a woman that is 35+That works both ways btw, if you're worried about risk of disability and "deformity" then as a man you should also be having your children before 35. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 03:07 PM |
| 37 | Whats some legit benefit to a man for dating a woman that is 35+Don't know why he automatically thinks younger = more attractive. I've seen some complete knockouts in their late 30s and 40s and some gross, skanky-ass 21 year olds. Beauty doesn't tend to fade overnight in people who take care of themselves. Also these hot young 22 year olds who apparently want to settle down and birth his legions of spawn aren't going to do it with a random 36 year old guy who couldn't get his shit together until he was pushing 40 - they have their pick of attractive, age-app… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 03:06 PM |
| 2 | Guys who do not have a stable life (income, social circle); should they even bother finding a long term romantic relationship?Yeah, if you're not stable, not in a good headspace and barely a functioning adult you shouldn't be in a relationship - this goes for everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 10:42 AM |
| 1 | Q4W - would you rather date a good looking guy who's very health conscious or a good looking guy that doesn't careI honestly would actually choose option A. Ok, fair enough. Buut would you then complain that she "let herself go" when she starts to balloon in her 30s, her skin starts to age terribly and her hair starts to grey? Either way, women are the selectors and men are the specimens/candidates. Yep, that's because reproduction is far more costly fro women from a biological point of view. that's why e've evolved to be choosy. Either that or a man is super smart/rich and can create an illusion of being g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 10:07 AM |
| 4 | Most of the time when men react with frustration when women reject them it is because the woman is less attractive than them and has an inflated image, not because they are “entitled to sex.” Women react the same way when they don’t get what they feel they “deserve,” yet only one is shamed for it.. If I wanted a 25 year old, I could get one tomorrow. Exactly, but what a lot of men who say things like "on the shelf" don't grasp is that the vast majority of women in their 30s don't see the appeal in that, at all. Another rally cry of these types of guys is "you can't deny biology" yeah, I'm not, no one is denying that women have a shorter reproductive life (but these guys also don't seem to understand male fertility much either tbh) but like you, and me, many women don't actually want chil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 09:56 AM |
| 1 | Q4W - would you rather date a good looking guy who's very health conscious or a good looking guy that doesn't carehey want a man who can maintain his looks with ease because it indicates that he's genetically robust That's so dumb. First off the only people who would choose guy 2 are those who are just as self-destructive. Also, doesn't matter how good your genes are looks will fade, the smoking and drinking and partying will prematurely age and weather you and then no matter how hot you started you'll just be another jaded washout with a beer gut and leathery skin by the time you hit 40 only you will never… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 09:19 AM |
| 1 | Most of the time when men react with frustration when women reject them it is because the woman is less attractive than them and has an inflated image, not because they are “entitled to sex.” Women react the same way when they don’t get what they feel they “deserve,” yet only one is shamed for it.Oh, and I hear you on the mansplaining Oh god, I get ya! With guys who are into what I am it's this weird protectiveness especially with someone who looks like me (because there was a period of time when the big bang theory first came out when being a nerd was "cool" so there were a lot of "fake nerd" accusations being thrown around) so I'd get "Oh you play X, well, if you're really a gamer then what happens on - insert some wildly obscure factoid or easter egg that only someone who has played t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 09:02 AM |
| 1 | Dating for men is not that hard as you make it seem to beI mean isn't that everyone? No one hits 17 and decides they want to settle down with their soul mate because they're getting on in years now... it's just people's relative success in actually dating and having casual sex varies wildly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 08:41 AM |
| 12 | Most of the time when men react with frustration when women reject them it is because the woman is less attractive than them and has an inflated image, not because they are “entitled to sex.” Women react the same way when they don’t get what they feel they “deserve,” yet only one is shamed for it.I'm 30, men have been telling me for the last couple of years leading up to the big 3-0 (and now) that my looks will fade and I'll be inherently less attractive and of less value...for real... when I was in my early 20s this was a real fear of mine (and most young women) and now I have matured to the point where I think A) it's hilarious that they believe I base my self-worth entirely on my looks and unwanted attention from strangers (who btw apparently didn't get the memo that I'm officially on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 08:35 AM |
| 1 | Most of the time when men react with frustration when women reject them it is because the woman is less attractive than them and has an inflated image, not because they are “entitled to sex.” Women react the same way when they don’t get what they feel they “deserve,” yet only one is shamed for it.Oh, same, I just recognised the name because he has the inverse problem of a lot of men on here - shallow beyotches (TM) won't look at most men on here because they're not hot enough whereas this guy is apparently too hot....it's nice to have a little variety from time to time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Most of the time when men react with frustration when women reject them it is because the woman is less attractive than them and has an inflated image, not because they are “entitled to sex.” Women react the same way when they don’t get what they feel they “deserve,” yet only one is shamed for it.Nah, I mean like when it's unrelated ...any posts pertaining to OPs views of women for example are fair game here... I'm talking about when it's just plain spiteful for no reason... like on a pervious account I got into a disagreement with a guy over a TV show or something stupid so he launches into petty stupid attacks about my...past struggle with anxiety...that I'd mentioned in a post about 9 months previously...don't have time for that kind of negative energy... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Most of the time when men react with frustration when women reject them it is because the woman is less attractive than them and has an inflated image, not because they are “entitled to sex.” Women react the same way when they don’t get what they feel they “deserve,” yet only one is shamed for it.Nah, my own fault - I was a shy, awkward and nerdy teenager with a lot of weird fringe interests (anything with "star" in the title, D&D, video games etc) I had few friends in high school because I never seemed to "fit" anywhere and naturally assumed when I got to college I'd get on well with my fellow nerdy outcasts - problem was I look like a "cheerleader type" - small, athletic, blonde, great bone structure haha - so these guys would project onto me and suddenly I was their avatar of every pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 11:00 PM |
| 3 | Most of the time when men react with frustration when women reject them it is because the woman is less attractive than them and has an inflated image, not because they are “entitled to sex.” Women react the same way when they don’t get what they feel they “deserve,” yet only one is shamed for it.Dayum I like your energy! Giving off a lotta girlboss vibes and I'm here for it ...and leagues are bullshit - mostly because they're multi-factorial and take into account more than just looks except for a very shallow and none too bright who are welcome to each other. And for real, a shitty man will be shitty to you no matter what you look like, being "ugly" is just an excuse they use, I was treated like shit in the past by a couple of guys and their excuse was that I was too pretty. (I shit you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Most of the time when men react with frustration when women reject them it is because the woman is less attractive than them and has an inflated image, not because they are “entitled to sex.” Women react the same way when they don’t get what they feel they “deserve,” yet only one is shamed for it.looks Yep, normally I'm not one for going back over post history because a lot of the time it's shitty and petty and used fro personal attacks but in OPs case he's like a broken record, I'm starting to suspect he's a troll because the lack of self-awarness is shocking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 10:29 PM |
| 4 | Most of the time when men react with frustration when women reject them it is because the woman is less attractive than them and has an inflated image, not because they are “entitled to sex.” Women react the same way when they don’t get what they feel they “deserve,” yet only one is shamed for it.Until then I’m going to enjoy my functional life that isn’t a dumpster fire. hahaha...Love it. Yeah, honestly I think it might be an ego thing, men with very little else going on in their lives beyond a pretty face (or average face) date less-attractive women to boost their own egos and make themselves feel good in the same way that one would do charity work and then get pissy when the tables get turned on them and that these sad, pathetic women who are basically subhuman for *not* being born pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 10:17 PM |
| 6 | Most of the time when men react with frustration when women reject them it is because the woman is less attractive than them and has an inflated image, not because they are “entitled to sex.” Women react the same way when they don’t get what they feel they “deserve,” yet only one is shamed for it.fellas Oh yeah, for sure! When I read these sorts of posts "I'm hot but have no luck getting a date" I assume it must be something else that's repelling people because I was there myself - I'm conventionally attractive but as a teen and in my early 20s I was extremely shy and awkward and thus had virtually no luck with men (even when I recognised what they were doing as flirting - yeah, I was that bad - I didn't know how to respond so would usually sort of bow out - eventually it got to the poin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 10:10 PM |
| 6 | Most of the time when men react with frustration when women reject them it is because the woman is less attractive than them and has an inflated image, not because they are “entitled to sex.” Women react the same way when they don’t get what they feel they “deserve,” yet only one is shamed for it.Oh yeah, nah I thought you were referencing the larger post - I don't get your "giddy song and dance" comment tho, like literally no woman without a legit mental illness will believe she's the most objectively beautiful person in the world, and any man who pretends otherwise while hitting on her is downright insincere, what we don't want is a guy leering at every pretty girl in the bar while laying it on with us, that's the difference.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 09:11 PM |
| 11 | Most of the time when men react with frustration when women reject them it is because the woman is less attractive than them and has an inflated image, not because they are “entitled to sex.” Women react the same way when they don’t get what they feel they “deserve,” yet only one is shamed for it.It’s entitled if youe were to get mad because in your mind she deserves “less” than you. But that is the cruz of this post no? Women are delusional because men who are more attractive than them deign to talk to them and they reject them? How else can this be interpreted except that OP thinks these women deserve less and are being "ungrateful" for not appreciating that a 7-8 deigns to hit on a 5-6? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 08:54 PM |
| 37 | Most of the time when men react with frustration when women reject them it is because the woman is less attractive than them and has an inflated image, not because they are “entitled to sex.” Women react the same way when they don’t get what they feel they “deserve,” yet only one is shamed for it.They vastly overestimate how valuable their slightly above average looks are and forget that they will not last What men fail to grasp is that most women are not, in fact, as desperate for relationships as pop culture, media and rapidly becoming outdated social norms have led many young men to believe and most women are happy being single, we also tend to be more selective in our sexual partners for a myriad of reasons beyond being "delusional" and all going around believing we are supermodels..… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 08:47 PM |
| 44 | Most of the time when men react with frustration when women reject them it is because the woman is less attractive than them and has an inflated image, not because they are “entitled to sex.” Women react the same way when they don’t get what they feel they “deserve,” yet only one is shamed for it.I've seen him on here a lot, he posts something along these lines every few days...Literally every one of his posts is about how he is attractive and it's unfair that unattractive or average women won't date him because they're delusional. Maybe it's not his looks or every woman on the planets delusion that's the problem here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 08:42 PM |
| 0 | Dating for men is not that hard as you make it seem to beDo people seriously view sex as a hobby? That's sort of weird and pathetic - don't model yourself off guys like that... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 08:36 PM |
| 2 | Why are most divorces initiated by women rather than the man?I work 80-100 hour weeks, my partner works 50-60 hour weeks. Which one of us should be doing more of the work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 03:47 PM |
| 3 | Why are most divorces initiated by women rather than the man?Multiple studies have shown that women do the bulk of the invisible and unpaid labour in a marriage (emotional, childcare, housework, budgeting etc) but you're not gonna find many men on here agreeing with that - at best you'll have a few of them rationalising it as women not being able to "communicate" (we shouldn't have to tell an adult man to clean up his plate or pick his socks up off the floor) because that doesn't fit with the general "women have it sooo much easier" narrative they live by… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 03:43 PM |
| 4 | Why are most divorces initiated by women rather than the man?It's worth pointing out that men who are monks live longer than other men I once walked through a graveyard for nuns...none of those women died before the age of 85...wild. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 03:29 PM |
| 5 | Why are most divorces initiated by women rather than the man?a lot of women divorce to just be alone This. Just this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 03:28 PM |
| 2 | Dating for men is not that hard as you make it seem to bepoint You completely missed the point of her comment, did you even read it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 03:15 PM |
| 2 | Dating for men is not that hard as you make it seem to beAnd most of the time the people I am sexually attracted to after getting to know them are not the people I thought were conventionally attractive. THIS. So much this! This point was brought up on another thread here recently about a woman asking other women about their definition of "sexual attraction" and by and large the vast majority of women said they could immediately pick out an attractive man but that most of the men they were sexually attracted to were ones they knew better or had compat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 03:12 PM |
| 2 | Dating for men is not that hard as you make it seem to beSo what's your definition of a fuckboy? Is it any man who is not married who's had sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 02:59 PM |
| 3 | Dating for men is not that hard as you make it seem to beMen are involuntarily virgins because they don’t know how to communicate, not they don’t know how to communicate because they’re virgins I feel like a lot of people on here don;t get that distinction and assume if they could only just get laid they'd magically develop those mysterious "social skills" that us women are lying to them about being important. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 02:58 PM |
| 0 | Study: Sexually Unsuccessful Men Retaliate By Endorsing Anti-Egalitarian Attitudes and Becoming Fiscally ConservativeWomen's standards haven't changed at all they now just have options, therein lies the difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Girls not wearing make-up should be normalised.True. They do all usually grow out of it though, or at least most of the women I know have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 07:23 PM |
| -1 | Study: Sexually Unsuccessful Men Retaliate By Endorsing Anti-Egalitarian Attitudes and Becoming Fiscally ConservativeNah, I think it's an appropriate description of someone who can't get laid for whatever reason and then blames the entire gender they are attracted to and plays the victim. But really, "foul mouthed lefty" tells me all I need to know about you. Peace. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Study: Sexually Unsuccessful Men Retaliate By Endorsing Anti-Egalitarian Attitudes and Becoming Fiscally ConservativeWhat? I don't understand half of that insane rant. You think clapping for people and giving them money is being civil? WTF? Do any of you people ever leave the house? Interact with other human beings? What I'm saying is don't be a dick. Dehumanising and treating someone badly because they won't sleep with you or in the posters case by automatically assuming they won't is being a dick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 07:19 PM |
| 4 | Study: Sexually Unsuccessful Men Retaliate By Endorsing Anti-Egalitarian Attitudes and Becoming Fiscally ConservativeThey suffer a hive belief that women desire any and all attention from men, and they overestimate their value to women who aren’t interested. Oh man, I wish I could explain this to men, but not all attention from the opposite sex is good attention, in fact a lot of it is completely unwanted, creep and off-putting, we're not grateful that some strange man has come up to us and made it clear he finds us fuckable - no matter how hot he is- (because men on here seem to think that if male models were… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 07:18 PM |
| 2 | Study: Sexually Unsuccessful Men Retaliate By Endorsing Anti-Egalitarian Attitudes and Becoming Fiscally Conservativeyet men refuse to date women they find unattractive while still demanding attention from women who fine them unattractive. Good good, it's like an echo chamber after a while isn't it? Women have impossible standards They're all sluts They only go for "Chad's" (still don't know wtf a Chad is tbh) They only care about money If you're not rich then you have to look like Henry Cavil or you'll die a virgin waaaaah Why won't these fat disgusting sluts date me? It's not like they're instagram models, w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 07:11 PM |
| 3 | Girls not wearing make-up should be normalised.You never specified an age group - do I not count as "women" am I too old? Too young? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 07:07 PM |
| 4 | Study: Sexually Unsuccessful Men Retaliate By Endorsing Anti-Egalitarian Attitudes and Becoming Fiscally ConservativeBased on the comment the poster seems to imply that women are "not treating him right" because they won't sleep with him so he in turn will not be nice to them. Like WTF? How is no-one seeing this as a problem? How do you NOT think that is fucked up? Also I got a few replies of "if people aren't nice to you why would you be nice to them?" and like, are you people not polite and cordial to those who regard you neutrally? Or do you only deign to interact with people who are "nice" to you (smile at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 07:04 PM |
| 9 | On a day to day basis, how many attractive women do you see?The no heels got me...why, is it harder for women to run away from this creep when they're in heels? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 06:01 PM |
| 5 | On a day to day basis, how many attractive women do you see?Many men on here think the majority of women out in the real world look like Instagram models. You can’t make this shit up Hmm...something I have suspected about this sub for a while... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 05:58 PM |
| 1 | On a day to day basis, how many attractive women do you see?I mean you could ask women who work corporate jobs this exact same question and the answer would be the same. I'm a surgeon so my field is extremely male-dominated, I find maybe one person I work with attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 05:55 PM |
| 6 | Girls not wearing make-up should be normalised.What? unless you're a celebrity it's completely normalised? I literally never wear make-up, no one has ever called me "brave" or commented on it at all...in fact a lot of women I know don't wear make-up. I'm 30 and grew out of my "warpaint" phase by about 25 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 05:54 PM |
| 0 | how would you women feel if men wore as much makeup as you?But seeing my man taking care of his nails, hair and skin would turn me on. Agreed - I have tutored my BF in a pretty extensive skincare routine because the one he had when we started dating was crap (it was "wash my face with water and sometimes wear moisturiser *shudders*) and he looks great! Also that beard comment cracked me up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 05:47 PM |
| 39 | how would you women feel if men wore as much makeup as you?You think make-up turns a 4 into a 9? Only a lot of whiskey can do that. Also wouldn't care, I never wear make-up, have at it boys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 05:44 PM |
| -3 | Study: Sexually Unsuccessful Men Retaliate By Endorsing Anti-Egalitarian Attitudes and Becoming Fiscally ConservativeWho are these women who are rewarding toxic masculinity? Very young women? Because EVERY woman I knew grew out of their "Chad" toxic-masculinity = hot phase by the time she hit 22/23 - is that too old and withered for most incels and redpillers? Do they want to fuck literal teenagers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 05:42 PM |
| 8 | Study: Sexually Unsuccessful Men Retaliate By Endorsing Anti-Egalitarian Attitudes and Becoming Fiscally Conservativebetter As a woman I can 100% say this would not work - I nor 99% of the women I know would suddenly decide to "settle" for any old socially inept dreg because all the good men(TM) are taken due to "forced monogamy" I'd just stay single. Literally most women would, in the 21st century in developed countries very few women "settle"... in order for us to do that you'd need to completely strip us of our independence and bodily autonomy and ohh.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Study: Sexually Unsuccessful Men Retaliate By Endorsing Anti-Egalitarian Attitudes and Becoming Fiscally ConservativeCool so we know that money isn't obviously the problem in your case, a lot of incels like to think that if they get to a certain income range they can literally buy a beautiful partner and then froth at the mouth at the unfairness of it all when they realise they can't and that actually yeah, women don't want to date shitty human beings who view them as warm holes (I can already guess what kind of rebuke you're going to give ...something about "if I was handsome"..in which case I can point you t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 05:35 PM |
| -3 | Study: Sexually Unsuccessful Men Retaliate By Endorsing Anti-Egalitarian Attitudes and Becoming Fiscally ConservativeCool so you're comparing actual poverty to not getting laid. Get some fucking perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 05:31 PM |
| 25 | Study: Sexually Unsuccessful Men Retaliate By Endorsing Anti-Egalitarian Attitudes and Becoming Fiscally Conservativewhy I should care about or treat correctly people who never cared about me and treated me badly This is chilling to read - this effectively is saying that your empathy towards your fellow man is reciprocal and thus if someone isn't "nice" to you then you not only don't care about them but wish them ill or won't treat them right. The implication that people (women) are "not treating you right" by not fucking you? So basically you have admitted you only give a shit about and are willing to treat w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 05:27 PM |
| 0 | Women how does your sexual attraction work?desire Don't bother arguing with him, this is a thread where women are literally being asked, point blank, what attracts them sexually and how it works for them personally - dozens of women have answered - and he's calling bullshit and accusing internet strangers of lying despite having literally nothing to gain from it because it doesn't fit into his narrow and misogynistic pity party | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Women how does your sexual attraction work?Similar to what a lot of the other women said on here it starts with interest - something that draws my attention be is humour or just that spark of personality - and if we have a good rapport and chemistry it moves onto sexual attraction. When it comes to physically attractive men I obviously instantly can recognise them as attractive or not but I admire them and appreciate them for what they are in an almost intellectual sort of way, in the same way I would a sunset or a painting- they're nice… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 11:43 PM |
| 7 | Women here constantly insist that “most men are getting laid and in relationships,” that only a tiny minority of us on PPD and other outcast communities are struggling and don’t represent the majority. This is patently false and seemingly used to once again redirect criticism and blame to us.OP posts something along these lines every few days - II usually don't do this but it's relevant to the topic at hand - f you go back through OPs old comments/posts he just reeks of entitlement - he considers himself physically attractive and is just seething that the hottest women won't fuck him even though he patently has zero respect for women or has ever actually interacted with one beyond cold calling her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 06:01 PM |
| 11 | Women here constantly insist that “most men are getting laid and in relationships,” that only a tiny minority of us on PPD and other outcast communities are struggling and don’t represent the majority. This is patently false and seemingly used to once again redirect criticism and blame to us.For real I gotta point out; For women casual sex is riskier - personal safety wise and/or pregnancy ONS tend to be shitty - men are pretty much guaranteed to orgasm, neither I, nor my girlfriends have EVER enjoyed a ONS - the sex is crap A lot of men are useless f**boys and deadweight who want to play games or not commit and a lot of them are of such low quality that it's better off to be alone Now, taking points 1-3 into account why on earth would a woman waste her time and put her physical and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 05:59 PM |
| 16 | Women here constantly insist that “most men are getting laid and in relationships,” that only a tiny minority of us on PPD and other outcast communities are struggling and don’t represent the majority. This is patently false and seemingly used to once again redirect criticism and blame to us.acting like women who have ever had causal sex in their life are oppressing the men they don’t want to have casual sex That's the crux of 90% of the posts on here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 05:54 PM |
| 5 | If you're fat, there's no point in complaining about not finding any thin girls to date.Be deceived and being reject are two very different things and Im confused why y’all think its the same thing. I'd wager that a lot of the guys on here think that straight up lying to women to get laid is acceptable behaviour. Of course they can't tell the difference. Also we need to remember that the idea that a woman *could* have sex with a gorgeous man but chooses not to because she doesn't think they're compatible is completely alien to a lot of men on here- even though most even halfway att… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 05:46 PM |
| 4 | If you're fat, there's no point in complaining about not finding any thin girls to date.women Christ on a cracker do these guys actually think before they type? It's boiling down to - that's what women get for having standards. You chose to date and sleep with someone who you found attractive/interesting so it's YOUR fault when you get treated like shit because you ignored men who would have deigned to sleep with you who you didn't want to date....wow, no wonder they can't get laid if this is their shitty entitled attitude towards women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 05:41 PM |
| 1 | If you're fat, there's no point in complaining about not finding any thin girls to date.Aaand yet so many of the posts on this sub are men whinging about how beautiful women won't jump into bed with them after bare minimum effort and when women rightly point out that many of us have personally experienced sneaky, manipulative and deceptive tactics from men and thus air on the side of caution we're accused of having unrealistic standards, playing games, being shallow, only caring about money or height or some other stupid shit...so basically "stop being easy" unless it's you, then w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 05:37 PM |
| 4 | If you're fat, there's no point in complaining about not finding any thin girls to date.Yeah, but you'd be surprised at how many men DO lie about this, string women along, future fake and then dump them after they've had sex, honesty is sadly lacking in a lot of men - I never have hard feelings towards men who are perfectly honest "I'm not looking for anything serious right now" - that;s cool, I might sleep with you, might not, depends on what I wanted at that point in time - instead of fucking lying and claiming they want something they don't in order to have sex, it happens const… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 05:30 PM |
| 3 | Scenerio: One of your close friends "My Husband is leaving! How could he do this?"They referred to a group of women as "the hen coup" so naturally I just disregard everything he's saying about women now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 05:08 PM |
| 8 | Scenerio: One of your close friends "My Husband is leaving! How could he do this?"cool story bro. The fact that you referred to a group of women as "the hen coup" tells me all I need to know, namely that you probably don't know any actual women and are certainly not friends with any. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 02:55 PM |
| 7 | Most men who don't have "success" with women are a-social. Lack of social skills is a far bigger hindrance than the aspect of looks.I'm very confused by this, do a lot of these posters just not have any real-life friends? Do they not observe social groups outside of TV shows about high school cliques? unless you're basing human social groups entirely on american movies or insta "influencers" pages then they should know that physical appearance varies WILDLY in social groups. Obviously if you're hanging out with your friends from the water polo team you're all gonna be ripped, but my high school friend circle ranges from jaw-… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 02:29 PM |
| 3 | Are Fat Woman Aware Of What They Are Doing To ThemselvesHave you ever found that extremely rich people think they're an authority on how the world works? As if their opinion is inherently more "right" because they have money, they also think that the world is more fair and equitable than it is because the thought that their obscene privilege was born of sheer dumb luck rather than merit is too much for many of them to reconcile...it's weird, I realised when I'd challenged them - because I can't help it lol- that they just aren't used to being challen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 10:54 AM |
| 1 | Are Fat Woman Aware Of What They Are Doing To ThemselvesYup, oh yeah, I don't stay trim for male attention - I just feel uncomfortable and unhealthy when I start to put on the pounds | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 10:46 AM |
| 14 | Scenerio: One of your close friends "My Husband is leaving! How could he do this?"This whole concept is bizarre, like a man dumping his wife because she gained weight. My female friends would never get in this situation because they aren't idiots nor are they so incredibly shallow that their entire relationships are based on looks - if you marry someone for looks/"providing" and you know they marry you for your looks (because men who do that ain't subtle) you only have yourself to blame when he dumps you. Many women I know who were gym bunnies gain loads of weight post-marria… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 10:44 AM |
| 3 | Are Fat Woman Aware Of What They Are Doing To ThemselvesI tried to picture myself with some of them and realized that is just not who I am. OMG yes! This, so much this!! My boyfriend has a pretty high-powered finance job and although he's just a normal guy...its weird, the last time I went with my boyfriend to his work christmas party there were multiple senators and a former head of state, TV personalities and well-known models and socialites, new money who owned everything and old money who were talking about their honest to goodness private island… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Are Fat Woman Aware Of What They Are Doing To Themselvesmillionaire I'm still fairly early on in my career tbh and have a long way to go before I get to where I want... I am financially independent but by no means do I have piles of disposable income (doctors get paid way less than people seem to think) and getting on the property ladder is turning out to be a struggle but I get ya. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 10:18 PM |
| 2 | Are Fat Woman Aware Of What They Are Doing To ThemselvesSomeone on here asked me how I've managed to date multiple millionaires - as I said, we run in the same circles, so maybe I'm a bit of an outlier because it doesn't really impress me that much - it was interesting when I lived in Australia for a few years in my early 20s - men would literally try to pick me up in Sydney by telling me about their yachts and planes and I'd shrug and be like "ok, you have nice things, good for you" they were so surprised it didn't work on me, which does in fairness… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Are Fat Woman Aware Of What They Are Doing To ThemselvesI'm a surgeon who went to an elite private university in my country (scholarship and rich extended family members paid my tuition) so we run in a lot of the same circles, three of my closest girlfriends come from obscene wealth, I'm easily one of the "poorest" people in my social circle being merely middle class rather than independently wealthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 10:08 PM |
| 7 | Are Fat Woman Aware Of What They Are Doing To ThemselvesI've legit dumped multimillionaires because they thought they could buy me (and one I just had nothing in common with and got bored and one wanted me to basically quit my job and be his pet) am I proof against this article of faith that women only want money on this sub? Doubtful. I'l probably get some hateful DM with men "calling bullshit" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 08:10 PM |
| 1 | What percentage of men even want that "High Value Male" lifestyle?No, no...sometimes we're shallow little dingbats who will open our legs for any muscle-bound hunk who looks our way...the rest of the time we only want money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 08:00 PM |
| 11 | Are Fat Woman Aware Of What They Are Doing To ThemselvesWhat does "high value" mean to you? Because lemme drop a bomb on you OP, women do not think High Value = High Earner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 07:31 PM |
| 18 | Are Fat Woman Aware Of What They Are Doing To ThemselvesLike I've told multiple men I've dated - I can have that pizza and beer with you or I can stay a size 4-6...I can't do both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 07:29 PM |
| 12 | Are Fat Woman Aware Of What They Are Doing To ThemselvesOf course fat women know they're fat - they have it shoved in their face on a daily basis. I'd ask OP why he just doesn't gain a shit-ton of muscle mass and become ripped like a Hemsworth but he's started that apparently women don't care about men being in shape (har-har) but we DO care about money, so I'll ask OP why he doesn't just go out and start earning 300K a year because doesn't he know what he's doing to himself and how he's ruining his own prospects by *not* making 300K a year? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 07:27 PM |
| 10 | Are Fat Woman Aware Of What They Are Doing To ThemselvesOnly a man would say without a trace of Irony, that women, deep down, prefer being harassed to being invisible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 07:25 PM |
| 3 | What percentage of men even want that "High Value Male" lifestyle?He doesn't get it. He firmly believes that higher paid partner = less household chores. And probably thinks being a stay at home parent is a walk in the park rather than a 24/7 job. My partner makes six times what I do - and I actually work longer hours - we split household chores 50/50 and if he decided tomorrow that based on his salary I had to be his fucking maid I'd drop him in a heartbeat. No woman wants that sort of shit being held over her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 07:21 PM |
| 5 | The beauty double standard?!You see, this is obviously bullshit. No one is "shaming men" for having standards. No one is shaming men, full stop. But there is a specific type of man who doesn't take care of himself at all - out of shape, pasty, no hobbies, no interests, really going nowhere in life and yet feels he's entitled to the hottest women the 9s and 10s and is repulsed by "ugly" women, hitting on him..that man is toxic, pathetic and has unrealistic standards. The idea that men are shamed for having realistic prefere… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 06:43 PM |
| 1 | What is an average guy?bottom 20% looks wise or just have really weird off-putting personalities especially the redpillers. For real. One of the most attractive men I ever met was in my undergrad class in college. He could have been a model, tall, brilliant green eyes, flawless skin, a jaw that could cut glass, lived in the gym so he was ripped. He could not get a date to save his life, he was so weird and off-putting that women weren't willing to overlook his personality for his looks after speaking with him for more… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 01:28 AM |
| 8 | How would you go about de-radicalizing a redpilled man who's now benefiting from said beliefs?Ya, agreed. Those redpill techniques only work on women with cripplingly low self-esteem, too naive to pick up on it, only after casual sex or have basically no standards (those three things are not mutually exclusive btw) If he wants any sort of relationship and genuine connection with a woman that redpill shit doesn't fly and will start to work against him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 01:12 AM |
| 2 | Nearly all women are incentivized to lie about what truly attracts them as it would make it harder to find the "natural"Also if I wanted cheap, meaningless sex I'm aiming for the most attractive man I can find - a real gym bunny type who usually bore the crap out of me if I actually have to *talk* to them If I want a relationship I have a laundry list of criteria and looks are pretty low down on it tbh. Don't know why men struggle with this concept when most of them are of the same mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 01:03 AM |
| 12 | Nearly all women are incentivized to lie about what truly attracts them as it would make it harder to find the "natural"Don't you love these posts? I do - OPs will make some dumb sweeping generalisation about "all women only care about X" when really it's just apparent he's pissed he can't get dates. He takes it as an article of faith that it's because he doesn't look like a GQ model and that's the ONLY type of man that half the population of the plant will deign to look at (except for one poster on here who won't stop going on and on and on about how good-looking he is and how women are dumb for not dating him..… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 12:50 AM |
| 2 | Women want to date someone on their level or higher because they are turned off by sharing their RessourcesThat's a very wordy way to say "I blame the victims" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Men are constantly reminded that “women are not a hive mind” yet they consistently demonstrate the exact opposite when it comes to mate selection - they are heavily influenced by their peers and base their opinions of men on what their friends and other women thinkhow If I straight-up shot every man who has harassed, groped, assaulted or made me feel unsafe since I was 11 I'd be a serial killer by now... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 11:24 AM |
| 5 | Men are constantly reminded that “women are not a hive mind” yet they consistently demonstrate the exact opposite when it comes to mate selection - they are heavily influenced by their peers and base their opinions of men on what their friends and other women thinktelling What really gets me is that OP declares that a woman will give an average-looking dude a look in if her trusted friends give him a seal of approval but ignore a hot guy who's cold-calling her (I mean DUH, obviously - why would we waste our time on a "hot guy" who turns out to be like OP when we can invest in a nice, normal guy who doesn't try to play fucking games with us, or worse) ...but apparently this is evidence that woman are a) shallow b) stupid little sheep. I laughed at that, oh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Men are constantly reminded that “women are not a hive mind” yet they consistently demonstrate the exact opposite when it comes to mate selection - they are heavily influenced by their peers and base their opinions of men on what their friends and other women thinkWow, every single post you have dude is a whiny "I'm *good looking*, why do women not date me waaaah" ...maybe it's your obvious lack of respect for women and your shitty entitled attitude. When you're the common denominator against half the population of the planet *they're* not the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 10:49 AM |
| 9 | Women hurt women as a group by lying or hiding their own ageYou think 30 is "middle aged"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 10:02 PM |
| 4 | Women want to date someone on their level or higher because they are turned off by sharing their RessourcesYes, they've done multiple studies on it A woman with a partner who earns significantly more is less likely to cheat A man with a partner who earns significantly more is more likely to cheat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 12:36 AM |
| 5 | Women want to date someone on their level or higher because they are turned off by sharing their Ressources70k Not if you're stuck doing all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, housekeeping, childcare while he comes home and sits on his ass playing video games all night. You're better off alone, that way you only have to take care of and clean up after the children you gave birth to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 12:33 AM |
| 5 | Women want to date someone on their level or higher because they are turned off by sharing their RessourcesGo onto some of the other subs parenting/relationships/twoxcrhomsomes etc and read about some of the shit some of those women put up with... a lot of the time a woman just ends up with an extra child when she gets married and starts a family. A completely useless dead weight who causes more problems than he fixes. A bad partner is worse than no partner. Hence why women are getting so "picky", gone are the days where an unhappy wife (and also maid/nanny/cook/housekeeper) had to shut up and take i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 12:31 AM |
| 25 | Women want to date someone on their level or higher because they are turned off by sharing their RessourcesYup. Men get a boost in social status from having a wife and children. The inverse is true for women and her career and finances take a pretty damn big hit. Why the HELL would she want to be with a guy who can barely support himself? So she can have the babies, take care of the house and be the breadwinner? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Men are just expected to accept that they not only cannot get someone as attractive as them, but that they will have to WORK for someone less attractive. If they question any of this they are called entitled or told they are overrating their own appearance despite confirmation from most.Um... I'm the "type of woman" who gets approached constantly by men. In the gym/park/street/bars/cafes...any public space really (and no, I don't like it). I don't wear makeup and outside of work I live in jeans and t-shirts. I run 20K+ a week, swim, do yoga, row, have barely touched fatty food or processed sugar since 2015, have had a murderously expensive skincare and haircare routine since I was about 16. I do have naturally pretty features and bone structure but I can also guarantee you that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 12:01 AM |
| 5 | Men are just expected to accept that they not only cannot get someone as attractive as them, but that they will have to WORK for someone less attractive. If they question any of this they are called entitled or told they are overrating their own appearance despite confirmation from most.that The manosphere is under the firm belief that because a man finds a woman attractive and/or wants to have sex with her she should reciprocate and if she has any criteria besides "he wants to" then she's shallow/unrealistic/has too high an opinion of herself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/22 11:47 PM |
| 2 | Men are just expected to accept that they not only cannot get someone as attractive as them, but that they will have to WORK for someone less attractive. If they question any of this they are called entitled or told they are overrating their own appearance despite confirmation from most.emotional NORMALCY. They want to know that a man approaches the world in a balanced, emotionally regulated manner This. This right here. My current boyfriend and the best relationship I've ever had is this. He's just so calm and centred - he can be intense, he has a high-pressure job and can be quite serious sometimes but is just...balanced and normal and has such a calming effect on me without enabling me - he knows when I need someone to hold my hand and tell me I'm perfect and he knows when I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/22 11:38 PM |
| 4 | Men are just expected to accept that they not only cannot get someone as attractive as them, but that they will have to WORK for someone less attractive. If they question any of this they are called entitled or told they are overrating their own appearance despite confirmation from most.someone’s “preferences,” is their way of explaining who they’re attracted to + compatible with jesus christ this! I think a lot of these posts come from butthurt men who've never been in a real relationship because they have nothing to bring to the table so assuming that all women are shallow and only the top like, 1% of guys (looks wise) get a look in. I have a list of things I need in a partner or else I simply will NOT find him attractive or a suitable mate - height and looks are actually rel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/22 11:21 PM |
| 13 | Men are just expected to accept that they not only cannot get someone as attractive as them, but that they will have to WORK for someone less attractive. If they question any of this they are called entitled or told they are overrating their own appearance despite confirmation from most.Aaand completely ignoring the countless women who tell them that it's not actually true for a lot of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/22 11:16 PM |
| 1 | FDS Users Are Mostly Low Social StatusYeah, we do but we wouldn't like *this* the fact that he's shitting all over his patients for being "lower social status" than him is gross, I give out about my patients all the time - when they're being whiny, or dumb, when they're being assholes to me etc all doctors do, but we never mock them for being poor or compare them to people we're dating. OPs post just reeks of smug elitism and he's the kind of dude I'd avoid in real life if he existed. I can't articulate this well enough to explain b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/22 03:15 PM |
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