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Rant/VentingAlfalfaStemlord/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 04:50 AM
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AlfalfaStemlord/r/askTRP15/01/15 04:46 AM
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the reason you guys aren't together is her fault, i.e. she hasn't inspired you yet that's harsher than needed. it's just me, but if a girl has been good to me, I see no reason for being mean to her. Direct, yes. Honest, yes. Mean, no. Your idea may "work", where by work I mean provide another week or two of drama-filled sex, but is it worth it? beating around the bush that's called being honest. both things I mentioned did happen, and both do shape my current not-wanting-a-girlfriend behavior em…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 07:47 AM
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To which I agreed Well played, sir. I haven't seen or heard from her in 2 weeks You will probably hear from her sometime in the future. In the form of her moaning in your bed most likely.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 07:41 AM
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As a man, I would define as feminine those traits of women that make me sexually attracted. It's really that simple for me. I do tend to find vulnerable and maternal women attractive, so, yes, definitely. I am making no moral or ethical call whatsoever. It's perfectly OK for a woman to not behave in feminine ways. She just won't be sexually attractive to me is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 05:41 AM
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If she has been a good plate for a while, I'd take her. But maybe I am more mellow than usual tonight, so take my advice with a grain of salt.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 05:38 AM
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a label for your dismissal That's an interesting perspective. I have experienced this kind of behavior before, so I know it's totally a thing. I would tend to say this is not an instance of that, because her demeanor was more sad than confrontational. better than you'd found her I like to think so, yes
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 05:38 AM
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Sounds good to me. I did engage in bondage a few times, but it's not like I need it to enjoy my sex. When are we starting?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 05:33 AM
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You know how you fuck a girl? You put your dick inside of her and move it back and forth. It's not hard. Well it's probably hard. But I mean it's not difficult. It's so not difficult that monkeys do it, and we have been doing it way before sex ed in schools was a thing. So you wanna fuck a girl. What do you do? You put your dick inside of her and move it back and forth. It's your job to escalate all the way to sex. If she is not comfortable with your escalation, you will hear about it. But you a…
/r/askTRP06/02/15 06:07 AM
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So this woman was your exclusive LTR, and she engaged in branch swinging - dumped you and moved on to some other guy. And you want to be exclusive with her exactly why? Because she shares a lot of my interests that's called "friends" and has her own interests like pretty much anyone She isnt a slut so she is also boring and useless in bed Wow. Such a precious snowflake this one!
/r/askTRP06/02/15 04:48 AM
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It seems like the sad rant of a loser beta who wants women to soothe the pain of his inferior betaness. Go lift, improve yourself, and women will approve of you, and allow your dick in their precious tight pussies, without the whining masked by activism.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/15 02:41 AM
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It's definitely a good thing. Anything that gives me as an individual more directly actionable choice is a good thing. It might also avoid a case or two of "but I thought you were on the pill.." But for the most part, I suspect that those smart enough to avoid making babies they don't want will keep avoiding it, and those stupid enough to not avoid it, will keep not avoiding it A Good Thing, but far from a revolution
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/15 02:37 AM
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You don't like period sex?
/r/askTRP26/01/15 02:26 AM
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Not at all. There is no data on the frequency of intercourse here, so all we can talk about is a majority of sex [partners]. Oh, and the Coolidge effect too. Just because.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/15 02:26 AM
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TRP techniques also only tend to work on girls who are already intrested in casual sex I will let you get away with this because you said "tend" :-) there's little hope in TRPers getting your 'madonna' Good thing I wouldn't touch one with a 10-foot pole. Been (in) there, done that. No thanks. kinda goes two ways IMO as in..? Not sure I understand what you mean by that..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/15 05:53 AM
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that it works you know what else works? Good game. Do you think good game is smart? Nope. It's pretty fucking easy. "Who lies more? Men or women?" "Which is cuter? Panda or koala?" "I see that you're a strong independent girl but you also need the comfort of being loved and cared for" Do you know how many bros that stupid shit got laid? Exactly, a lot. Are you also mad that the stupid shit people like me say and do to get laid works?
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 05:44 AM
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And what exactly are you angry about? No, seriously, if someone is to tell you how to fix your anger, it would help to know what exactly you're pissed off about all the fucking stupid shit bitches is hardly specific enough
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 05:27 AM
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"Slut-shaming" prioritizes the hypothesis that women are naturally unrestricted, but "stereotype threat" or social pressure causes them to act restrictedly. This could be true. When you become decent enough at sex (not good, barely decent enough) that you can actually give your partners multiple orgasms, and make them squirt, ..., well you wonder how they could be anything but natural-born sluts that are slut shamed into madonna behavior From the looks of it, getting fucked properly as a woman i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/15 05:25 AM
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For me, 3 dates is THE deadline. If by the end of date 3 my dick hasn't encountered her vagina from the inside, I drop. Hard. Maybe you did something wrong, and now you're in the nice guy bucket; maybe she is not a very sexual person plain and simple; maybe she has a boyfriend; maybe; maybe; maybe.. There's a million reasons why your dick is not in her vagina. Do they matter? Fuck. No. There's 3 and 1/2 billion women out there, and you're sitting here wondering how you should handle one who isn'…
/r/askTRP23/01/15 05:15 AM
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If I am reading this correctly (and assuming the data is correct, which for self reporting is only so acceptable of a premise..), it tells me a few things: a) a majority of both men and women are not promiscuous. That would seem to confirm the theory of beta males (those with few partners) vs alpha males (those with many partners). However, that is accompanied by a majority of Madonnas and a minority of whores. I wonder if this is an effect of slut shaming b) a majority of the sex is truly had b…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/15 05:04 AM
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You're not. Far from it. Let me explain. Not all men are egotistic, ugly, narcissistic, and all those other things you wrote. Of course not all of them are. Not all women are "like that". Of course not. It's literally impossible to know. The effing baby girl that just got out of her mom's vagina is most certainly NOT like that, and even if she was, she has no effing way to act on it, or communicate about it. So, not all women are like that. But you are totally right. AMALT. When you handle guns,…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/15 04:50 AM
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I am reading this after a week. Just wanted to say thanks. I see what you mean, and it's quite beautifully written. So, thanks.
/r/askTRP22/01/15 07:08 AM
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I think she is like all women And yet you think she is special enough that you want her back for the long haul I know how to better handle a similar situation if I find myself in it in the future Good I am (somewhat not slightly) discouraging you from pursuing the "getting back together" strategy. Why? I broke up with a woman one and a half years ago. Since then, I have been sleeping around and being a player. Deep inside, the ex is still there, a litmus test no other woman can pass. But I know …
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 07:04 AM
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I think some buyer's remorse was involved on her side.. and, yes, you did most likely fail a shit test or two
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 06:14 AM
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the consensus Well then quick disclaimer: my flair says "red", but I expect this to be an area where I don't exactly identify with the red hivemind
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/15 06:11 AM
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Ask yourself - and give yourself honest answers - why is your ex an ex? How are you going to make sure whatever it was won't happen again? If you have acceptable answers to those questions, and you really did sleep with a lot of other women, and still think your ex is somehow a unique snowflake, then consider giving it a second chance
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 06:08 AM
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I was reading an article about the European Union the other day. It was talking about things like "integrated cultures", "shared values", ... The people of Greece are dying without medications because the European Union has decided it's more important that they repay their loans to the government of Germany, rather than curing sick people and saving newborn's lives. All the talk about shared cultures and integrated values is "feel-good bullshit". I said it, and it sounded good while I was saying…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/15 05:53 AM
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How is a job application rejection any different from asking a woman on a date Different facets of my value are put on the line I may be very secure in my knowledge of technical skills required for the position of Fubar Administrative Director, but not quite as secure in my kino escalation ability. If I am rejected for Fubar Director I'll tend to think in terms of abundance mentality; if I am rejected by HB9 Samantha, I will tend to think in terms of "I fucked up my best shot ever" The fundament…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/15 05:47 AM
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Assuming this is not a troll thread... female masturbation is sexy.. and do I get to be in control of the vibrator? Shit is fun. Get her all worked up with the magic wand, and then instead of letting her cum, have her beg you to fuck her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/15 05:42 AM
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A man once told me, "it does not matter if you get told no once, ten times, a hundred times, a thousand times. All that matters is that one day someone, somewhere will tell you 'yes'" He was not talking about sex (in fact, he was talking about job applications) The way I see sexual rejection is that by the time my cock is buried deep in some nice warm pussy, I will not be thinking about any of the girls that rejected me. They simply won't matter. I am not sure how non-sexual rejection would help…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/15 05:39 AM
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In a few month Been 1.5 years for me - and apparently at least a year for this other dude mentioned in the thread. But, yeah, point taken on the learning experience it can be. welcome to your first breakup, OP Far from the first, but thanks :)
/r/askTRP15/01/15 07:03 AM
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A. doesn't put out at the drop of a hat With you B. surely won't put out with a boyfriend Sure thing Maybe, just maybe, there is a 1% chance this girl is this unique snowflake who has more substance and respect than putting out for a man with good game. I do not think that the very likely chance of becoming an orbiter with oneitis is worth the very unlikely prize of landing a virgin. I realize I run counter to the virgin-praising slut-shaming hive mind. I do that as a guy that actually once land…
/r/askTRP15/01/15 06:54 AM
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You are probably friendzoned by now, so it doesn't really matter. Unless you left things out, your report includes no mention of sex - hell, there's not even a kiss close in there. Of course, in the meanwhile, while your biology pines over her taste in music, her boyfriend is emptying his balls in her wet pussy Where do you go from here? Next time, You. Fucking. Escalate. Like. A. Man. Fuck first, get to know (maybe) second. That way, instead of enjoying spending time with her, you will enjoy sp…
/r/askTRP15/01/15 06:23 AM
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It's hard to disagree with that - given the sidebar definition of oneitis. When a guy has fallen in love with a woman in the same way a boy loves his mother. He obsesses about her, but she does not reciprocate However, the fix seems to be different. We tell betas to go fuck 10 women and then see if their special one is still special. In the alpha's case, time and knowledge
/r/askTRP15/01/15 06:10 AM
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I personally run a lot of online game. I am a busy professional, and most nights I don't feel like going to the bar after work just to see if I can get lucky and snatch some pussy at 2am. Online game fits in nicely with that. I can do it from home, send my 10 openers for the night, and wait for something to happen. Didn't work? Oh well, close the lid on my laptop and go to bed. Some girl took the bait? Game on. If you have canned openers, that you at most tweak ever so slightly for calibration, …
/r/askTRP15/01/15 05:52 AM
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It's pretty hard to pass judgment on people I don't know. From what you say, your friends are probably more alpha than you give them credit for, or at least naturals. I have a friend (yet another "friend" anecdote, I know...) who is a natural. He never read PUA material, didn't even know "game" existed as a formalized structured human activity until we became friends. I have seen him in the field. He runs Mystery Method. That's all he fucking does. Goes to the same bar multiple times to acquire …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/15 06:11 AM
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What's so red about it? Stop whining about shit you can't change and fix shit you can is red advice. It seems like pretty common advice that I've heard "Nah, man, just be yourself"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/15 05:48 AM
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People that you would call "betas" get laid all the time Do they? Or, even better, do they have a somewhat reliable access to good lust-driven sex? Even beta Neil Strauss recounts occasionally getting laid. Except that it was so rare for him that he would become super clingy and either enter bad relationships, or these women would remove him from their life, and bye pussy for months if not years. Me, I know I have a fairly reasonable access path to sex. As in, if I start from totally no sex, I k…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/15 05:47 AM
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Your question really stems from a combination of skill level and limiting belief. Or, rather, you have a limiting belief because of skill level. Let me elaborate. Game, like pretty much all human activities, has levels of ability. Beethoven played the piano. So does the 6 year old daughter of my friend. They both use (or rather, one of them did use..) a device with keys that emit sound when pressed. They don't obtain the same results. Beethoven was very very very skilled at playing the piano. Li…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/15 05:39 AM
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This is how I define words: deserve: be worthy of as a consequences of my actions have a right to: be worthy of regardless of my actions I don't have a right to getting laid. But my actions can make me worthy of it. how does it make you deserve to get laid? Alpha is sexually valuable. Beta is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/15 05:31 AM
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It doesn't mean giving up or stopping improving yourself Except that is not how I read OP: "You don't deserve to get laid. Really, you don't. Good news is, your happiness shouldn't depend on getting laid. Make peace with yourself." To me this reads as "you know what? some people get laid, some don't. if you don't, just suck it up, and tell yourself you are happy." That's weak and defeatist. The right attitude is "you know what? some people get laid, some don't. if you don't, man the fuck up, fix…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/15 05:19 AM
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You don't deserve to get laid. Actually, I do. Or at least I can be deserving. "I don't have a right to get laid" is what you're trying to say. That's true. It's not my god-given right to have my dick in a wet tight pussy. But I deserve it. Or I can make myself deserving of it. How? By being the best most-alpha version of myself. your happiness shouldn't depend on getting laid That's what you say. I get to define what makes me happy. Make peace with yourself. Such a beta defeatist attitude. Wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/15 04:39 AM
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I would throw someone off the bed if they pulled my hair I hear - or rather read - BP women say how they would freak out like crazy if X sexual thing was done to them. Except whenever I do X sexual thing to real women, I get very different kind of feedback. I must either have never met a BP woman, or if I met her, I filtered her out by virtue of her non propensity to early sexual escalation Either way, I think it's a win for me. And thanks for sharing your rational as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/15 04:02 AM
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just how you feel My personal opinion. I proclaim myself 'red' because my own personal beliefs align much more closely to 'red' than 'blue', not because I am the spokesperson for r/TRP, or any recognized manosphere authority. Anything I write is the personal opinion of an aspiring alpha male. guys trying to get laid as much as possible You can bet your ass I am found a way that worked Glad you agree that game works women naturally want to ride the cock carousel They do, totally want to ride that…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/15 03:40 AM
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Not dying or being homeless is still intrinsic motivation Well then anything is intrinsic. The word has no meaning anymore. Sorry word, you're meaningless boilerplate now. It literally means understanding what sex means to them before you have sex with them I don't believe that that is my responsibility. If somebody has personal sexual boundaries that I need to be disclosed on before engaging in sex, it is their duty to let me know about them. Not mine to investigate. I have once been told "I wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/15 08:51 AM
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I do not think they lead to robotic sex as that is impossible. I unfortunately have to disagree on that. One woman I slept with gave me the total dead starfish treatment. It was consensual, as in she voluntarily took her clothes off, spread her legs, and I am even inclined to believe she orgasmed. That was the only woman I slept with that I did not call the following day. ethically null sex when you are not honest with your partner is not possible You can have that sex by all means, but you have…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/15 08:35 AM
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emotionless, aimless, thoughtless robot What makes you think RP tools lead to such results? Have you tried them? Because I have, and my results differ significantly from that description. Sexual relationships are important to people I thought the only people that valued sex so deeply were those virgin neckbeard TRPers. I thought to "normals" it was something that was quite nice, but not much more than many other nice things. If you enter into sex via manipulation Which we all do, unless you walk…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/15 08:05 AM
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If you have one mental health professional in your ranks I would be stunned Let me tell you, it's quite likely that for a significant portion of your daily life you depend on expert work I do. With that said, I maintain my boss giving me praise in meetings/raises/company stock is a form of manipulation to prevent me from changing jobs. Is that also immoral? If not so, where is the immoral line? When it involves sex? Why? I thought it was evil TRPers that deemed sex "special"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/15 07:53 AM
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There's a very limited context when a knife is going to be morally good on a human Surgery? I mean, sure, it's not literally a kitchen knife, but cutting tools are common in a surgeon's toolbox, and I would argue their typical usage is quite on the positive side. Once you use this on people it's a moral issue I can agree with that. "The tools are amoral. It's how you use them that is moral/immoral". Glad we are on the same page there. And yes, you're using RP tools on people. That doesn't make t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/15 07:46 AM
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Have you ever considered that RP tools ONLY wound humans? I disagree with that statement. RP tools allow you to be the sexual, dominating, exciting ("alpha") man a woman craves in her life. You can use this for good or for bad. Just like a knife. You can take a woman for the ride of her life, and then part ways with mutual respect when/if the time is due. That's cutting cake, that's good. Or you can fuck her, cum in 30 seconds without caring about her pleasure, and then kicking her out of your h…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/15 07:31 AM
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"Because we aren't interested in fucking men"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/15 07:26 AM
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I am assuming option b implies monogamy ("marry 1 woman" =/= "sleep with only one woman" unless specified: open marriage, cheating, ...) I am also assuming in option b I have actively chosen the best possible option (aka my unicorn) instead of just picked some random post-wall bitch Lastly, you say "chosen field", so I will assume this means I actively pursued a life-long goal of excellence in this trade; not just won the lottery or happened to be the CEO's son. With all such caveats, clearly Op…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/15 04:13 AM
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I accept that women are naturally hypergamous. Cool men too have a sexual strategy and that is to spread their seed to as many women as possible Very true are men incapable of love because they are just looking for another vagina Yes, totally The problem with blaming the female version and not the male version is: a) TRP is for heterosexual men. I care to know if my woman/women are looking to upgrade and how to deal with it. So hypergamy. b) blaming hypergamy is required for slut shaming. My own…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/15 04:06 AM
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crazy person How's that insulting working for you? you can make someone love you by following these three weird tips Yes. And here's how to save money on your insurance. The tip that Geico hates. But, no, seriously. When I was first told about game I was just as skeptical as you are. I understand the knee-jerk reaction. someone falling in love is their bag - not yours. You cannot force someone or manipulate them into having a honest love response And that's pretty much what I said to my friend a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/15 04:03 AM
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Lie: You should be attentive, affectionate, caring and always emotionally available. That will make your girl love you. Truth: In a LTR you can exhibit some beta traits. Even better if you exhibit them as a reward. For the most part, you gotta keep your frame together. Be ready to walk. Always. This will make your girl love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/15 03:47 AM
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I see. So I assume that if I came up to you and told you "you know, my girlfriend dumped me. I cared so much about her, and yet, she dumped me" your answer would be "aha, that's your problem my friend. You cared so much. That's exactly the problem. Now, let me tell you about pussy pedestalization, abundance mentality, and dream game for next time"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/15 03:20 AM
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I will give you an example. And I am talking about a time when The Matrix was not even an old movie. I had had sex with a few ladies, had a couple girlfriends, made out and all that. No angry virgin dwelling in mom's basement, essentially. However, I started to see a pattern in my connections with the opposite sex. The less I cared, the more she did. The more I cared, the less she did. Mind you, it was not elaborate enough to be a theory. I am no Mystery, so I really didn't make a system or theo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/15 03:14 AM
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I thought feminism had been around for a while now. I was at a museum the other day, and it had an exhibit on suffragettes. So, you know, feminism is not the newest thing around the block. It's yesterday's news, mainstream, and yet, the dating market does not work like that. Not even the newest fad in dating, "online dating" (which definitely is newer than feminism, FWIW). So, yes, even though feminism has been around much longer than me, or even my parents, those poor betas are still stuck send…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/15 03:02 AM
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Doesn't feminism help men too? In what way, shape or form? Let's analyze your theories. Doesn't feminism enable women to do the approaching in the dating world? Yeah, except it doesn't quite work that way. Look at OkCupid stats, for example. I think it was like 9-to-1 skewed towards man opening. Oh, and make sure to send a "non sexual" opener "that mentions something about my profile" and make sure your message "includes the word cauliflower so I know you truly read ALL OF THE THINGS". The farth…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/15 12:33 AM
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