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Right, I stilI disagree with that but let's assume it to be true for the sake of the argument. There is a lot of action happening, 20% is plenty of opportunities to get some. There is also 1% of the population having most of the wealth. The best to do it's to stop trying to find justice and fairness in a unfair world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:31 PM
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Lmao. Funny thing, I've met a "Chad" irl. Super cool dude, has his own insecurities and struggles, gave me lots of good advice, now we're friends. Grass status: touched, 10/10, would recommend.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:24 PM
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Therapy, meds, getting a job with a good paycheck, all of those helped. But manly is realizing that most of the shit about hypergamy, 80/20 etc don't matter. I don't believe anymore that women go for "Chads" only. Even if that was the case, it's completely outside of my control, I can only focus on taking care of my mind and body, obsessing about the macro dynamics of dating is a waste of time. Going out, talking to people and seeing the flaws and qualities of each individual, realizing how comp…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 04:37 PM
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Got a date, had sex for the first time. I think I did pretty good since she is eager for more. Everything seems to be going my way finally. Just posting this for other guys who are struggling with dating. It gets better, trust me. The closer I get to my 30s the better my life seems to get. Letting go of the woe is me mentality really helped. You would be amazed by what you can achieve once you truly believe in yourself, no bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 04:22 PM
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Nvm, she just ditched me again for a escape room with her coworkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 12:17 AM
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Being seductive it's like being confident for men. A woman who knows how to use it definitely looks more attractive, like a mind trick, I've experienced before. No surgical would be expensive skin care, hairdressers, and other cosmetic procedures. Lip filler and Botox could help but I think they're more useful to hide aging. Well, 7 it's pretty good, a 7 with a pleasant and compatible personality is like marriage tier imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:38 PM
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Last time it was a legit family emergency unless she lied.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:25 PM
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If a woman is skinny, has all teeth and takes care of herself she is automatically a 5. Being seductive adds another point. Gym and non surgical procedures could easily add 2 points. But again, I believe this is the average Joe's rating. A hot guy would have higher standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:22 PM
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She just suggested a date next saturday, if she bails again then I'm moving on. 5th time is the charm.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:18 PM
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It depends, a huge portion of women consider height a factor in rating so in that case it's actually impossible. Not for all women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:11 PM
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I think she is into me. She text things like: "I wish we we're cuddling right now." and "You still own me a kiss"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:10 PM
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I asked her out once and she couldn't go, no particular reason. Then four days of no texts initiated from my part, friday came up and she said: "I was gonna ask you out on a date tomorrow but my friend change his birthday party time". Then next saturday it was girls night out, then a trip, then a family problem (her step dad broke up with her mom, so she stayed home for emotional support). I just don't know if this date is going to happen. Everytime I asked had a date and time agreed upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:08 PM
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Absolute ratings don't exist. If we're talking social media 8, then I agree with you. But guys are way less harsh with their rating, I would argue that even less harsh than women rating other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:59 PM
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Yes but is very easy for a woman to become an 8. Most men will rate most women very highly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:52 PM
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I've matched with this girl on tinder 2.5 months ago. We've been texting and she seems very interested in me. I've asked her out 4 times since and she always says yes but something comes up. I even made some sexually suggestive texts and she has answered positively. I don't know, it just seems like she is keeping as a plan b in case something better doesn't show up. Should I move on?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:50 PM
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Food and drinks as a bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 04:13 PM
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I think you're jumping a few steps
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:14 PM
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I like your optimism
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:13 PM
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I just got a first date in 5 years, do you guys have any advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:03 PM
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But seriously.. what did you do in 5 years? You were so busy with work you didnt even have time to date? Well I had time, but I just wasn't having any luck. Looks and charisma aren't really my strongest qualities.
/r/seduction12/05/22 01:49 PM
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only thing to do is : DO NOT TELL HER ANYTHING ABOUT THIS 4-5 YEAR , let her think you constantly date & shit . I'm not planning on talking about it, but I'm afraid she will notice it.
/r/seduction12/05/22 12:51 PM
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Wow that seems very complicated but thanks for the in depth advice. I'll try to do my best. Nothing worst than a guy saying stuff like: “Sorry, i just don’t know what i’m supposed to do i’m this situation as i haven’t dated for a long time and i’m kinda rusty” Damn, I would totally have done that if you hadn't warned me. Thanks!
/r/seduction12/05/22 12:35 PM
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Data analyst here. I think this is a egg or chicken kind of question. Introverts usually go for stem and men usually shoe more interest in it. I wouldn't say it's my career that makes me socially awkward, but I'm in a career that doesn't really force you to interact with lots of people, specially women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 12:40 AM
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I'm sorry. I'm already like a brother to someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:43 AM
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I honestly would if she and the kids were nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:41 AM
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I'm still figuring out what style works for me. I've been wearing iron maiden tshirts, jeans and nikes basically since I was 15. Probably next year I can get paid vacation from work so I'm planning on a big fancy trip. I've tried with a hooker once and it was a disaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:40 AM
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Fate has smiled upon me and now I have a lot of disposable income. What should I spend it on? I'm already investing a good chunk every month and I still end up with like 1.5k after that. Maybe new clothes and a fancy haircut? I think maybe now is a good time to try dating again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 12:50 AM
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I leave reddit for a few months and FDS decides to fucking leave? Wtf, lol it seems like I've missed a lot. But I gotta say, getting offline for a while sure feels nice. I recommend.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 12:36 AM
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Why don't you go for a woman at your looks level ? Well, I do. But I haven't had much luck. I don't think I'm aiming out of my league, I just have a crippling low self esteem problem, which is a huge turn off for women. Eventually I just stopped approaching because I already know the outcome. I don't want to be wanted for my looks. You have no idea of what you're talking about. I have been complimented on my looks only once in my life. I'm still fond of that memory. You have no idea of how it is…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:39 PM
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I'm in the top 10% in my country. Still, I'm going to meet with an escort this week because it has been 4 years since I've kissed someone. Trust me, money is nice but can only buy things, you can't buy attraction or love. I don't even know how to get a date, money can't buy that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:29 PM
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Mechanical engineering and a master's in CS
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:18 PM
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Yes, I'm aware of that. Thanks for reminding me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 01:59 AM
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That seems about right
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 01:53 AM
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No thanks. There is a reason why my account is anonymous, I share things that are way too embarrassing to show my face here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 01:42 AM
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Kinda, 5'8
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 01:35 AM
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I think you're not aware of how difficult that is for some people. If it were that simple I would've done it already. I went clubbing several times, it always ends up with a drunk, sad and lonely Uber ride home. If you have any tips on what am I doing wrong, I'm all ears, but I don't think I'm the kind of guy women look for when they go clubbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 01:27 AM
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You can always work hard and get more money. My master's degree and disposable income are useless in terms of attraction. Wanna trade? I would, in a heartbeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 12:39 AM
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What's the alternative? I'm 27, it's too late to learn how to attract women now, you're supposed to learn that on your late teens. I'm not attractive or interesting, but I have a good job and some disposable income. I'm just tired. I'm really fucking tired of failing and getting rejected. It's been 4 years since I've kissed someone, I just want to feel that again, and it seems that paying for it is the only way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 12:31 AM
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Once again I'm considering meeting with an escort. My "dating life" ( or lack of thereof) is been a disaster lately. This week I've been feeling extra lonely and depressed. Will I regret paying for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:38 PM
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So much. I started therapy, got some pills that helped with the suicidal thoughts, my depression is practically gone. I got a job at another state, my boss is awesome and I'm living with some cool dudes as my roommates. Still stuck on my love life but it seems to have a smaller effect on my mental health. I even talk to women almost on a daily basis now(mostly at work). I don't think I'll get a girlfriend anytime soon but anyways, I'm happier than I have ever been in a long, long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 12:41 AM
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Sadly, not yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 12:20 AM
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I'm back at Reddit after four months offline, a lot has changed in my life. It's funny reading some things I wrote, almost like a different person. Stumbling across this sub remind me of how your views can drastically change in such a short period of time. Makes me wonder why I came back and if it would be better to leave for good.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 12:15 AM
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Just because something is on your best interest at a particular time doesn't mean it will lead to a happy life. Behaving like that will have people mistrusting you all of the time. Relationships should be built on trust and honesty, it's not about conning the other person to get your way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 12:08 AM
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All these posts about keeping a woman interested are so depressing. It's like you always have to put a cool exciting guy persona all of the time or else she will find a better guy and leave you on read. Is it too much to ask for a regular woman that enjoys doing normal shit and doesn't have to be fucking entertained or flirted with every second of her life?
/r/seduction29/06/21 12:45 PM
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That just sounds way too aggressive for me. I don't know if I could ever pull something like that off, just sounds cocky. I feel like I should give a reason why she should spend time with me first.
/r/seduction29/06/21 12:43 PM
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Will pornography ever be a "better deal" than going out and finding real partners? Considering how fast AI and virtual reality are developing, I don't think is a far stretch to think soon a lot of men will think the juice isn't worth the squeeze in regards to dating. If technology develops enough, the risk reward of porn will surpass that of actually dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 11:34 PM
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All of that you described are characteristics of mainstream studio porn. Those are the McDonalds of porn, it gets the job done but it's far from a good meal, and it's impossible to eat it every day without being repulsed by it at some point. There are studios/models who do different things. I'm particularly a fan of JOI since it is a simulation of intimacy and mutual pleasure. There are endless styles of pornography.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 11:29 PM
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Flair checks out lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 11:03 PM
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Think about it, the longer you stay in the app more money they make. There isn't an financial incentive to actually create new relationships. But if you're attractive and looking for hookups it's great.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 09:50 PM
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The laughing hurts way more than the rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 08:36 PM
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Let's bring 3 guys on national TV and laugh their heights. I wonder why they thought it was going to be a good idea. Those women were brutal, this video is very depressing. It makes me wonder if by being 5'8 I'm doomed like Stu
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 08:32 PM
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Extremely. When you don't have you shit together and everyone thinks you should be confident, charismatic and cool it makes you wonder what the fuck is wrong with you. I'm 140 and haven't been in a fight since 4th grade, how am I supposed to protect anybody?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 06:35 PM
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Are us singles supposed to dress up to do groceries?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 05:55 PM
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I don't think women in general are interested in unnatractive young guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 05:30 PM
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Why? I don't mind unless she is a heavy smoker that looks 65. Usually older women are quite confident and that's very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 05:26 PM
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Jesus Christ, did you step on a Lego today or something? Chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 05:05 PM
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Because in all likelihood they suck and you think it’s unfair that women prefer to spend their time with men who are interesting fun and can carry on a conversation. Ouch, what did I do to deserve that punch? I'm being nice here. I can carry on a conversation just fine. Just not with an attractive woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 04:49 PM
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What a lot of men do is, they’ll be like “I like I like this girl so I’m just gonna hang around her and play this friend/acquaintance game and hope over time she will see the light”. Like one night after 2 years of friendship you are on her couch and she just decides she’s gonna hop on your penis. I wasted 5 years of my life doing that. Don't recommend it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 04:48 PM
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I've heard somewhere that inexperienced young men should look into dating older (usually divorced) women. What do you think about this strategy? I've always thought older women would prefer older financially stable men not 20 years younger broke students. Are there really women who are attracted to male inexperience? I've heard about older women who date young hot guys, usually in a suggar mommy dynamic, but I never seen one dating an award guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 04:46 PM
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need social skills to be successful in ALL areas of life. I agree with that. I just think it's kinda unfair since women don't need the dating social skills usually. I feel like in the workplace things are much more equal and fair. Therefore I have no trouble at all in it. But in dating I'm the only one being judged by my dating skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 04:40 PM
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A socially awkward guy with a master's would lose the job to a Chad without a degree then?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 04:29 PM
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I never had any problem being social in the office, getting things done and dealing with conflicts, but it is a professional environment. My dating social skills are non-existent. I guess those two are very different sets of social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 04:27 PM
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Also, both communities claim they're focused on self improvement but in reality they spend 80% of their time hating on the other gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 04:19 PM
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The average man isn't working white collar jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 03:35 PM
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Rape is not common and normal for women, what world do you live in? Men are also a big chunk of rape victims. Rapists are horrible human beings and they will rape those more vulnerable, both men and women, it just happens that men on average are less vulnerable in most situations, which doesn't make a man rape proof. To say every woman deals with rape is to be completely disconnected from reality. Most victims of rape are women but most victims of violent crime are men. At least you can survive …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 03:21 PM
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Ok, so you don't like thinner penises, nothing wrong with that. If I was in your shoes, I would try to find a soulmate, if he happened to be too small for me I would buy toys or a penis sleeve. That's why I want an open mind. You can always buy a big penis for a man you like, rather than fuck lots of men trying to find a big one. But, as a man blessed in that department I don't really worry about my anatomy, that's why I said she would be shallow, in my case, not in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 11:02 AM
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That's why it's necessary to truly connect before the sex, and communicate before what your expectations are. In the case of having n=1 you can't afford mistakes. If she cares about my anatomy that much, she isn't the love of my life anyways. That's shallow and I'll rather be with a good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 10:54 AM
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If you feel something is missing, you talk to your partner and you figure out what's wrong. Sex is an act, everybody can get better at sex. That's why I want someone with a open mind, it's better to teach her how to please me and vice versa, explore new things together once I know she is the love of my life. I would much rather have a learning curve with someone I love than having sex with lots of women looking for someone sexually compatible. Compatibility can be learned.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 10:46 AM
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Why do women today feel like they're life is so hard? Are you comparing yourself to a rich white man? If that's the case then yes it will be harder. I doubt very much that your life is harder than that of a male equivalent of yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 10:40 AM
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In life, the men. He will have more obstacles. Higher incarceration rate and sentences, higher suicide rate, lower wages than taller men, more deaths at the workplace, higher chance of being homeless, expectations of strength and power, lower life expectancy, paternity fraud, divorce rape, unfair family courts. In dating for sex only, the man. Yeah he won’t be able to get easy sex like a woman. Also, the number of sexless men bellow the age of 30 is twice that of women. In dating for love and re…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 10:33 AM
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If you feel something is missing then you CAN tell the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 10:13 AM
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Who is gonna make the first move then?
/r/seduction12/06/21 10:53 PM
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Great comment. Boy I really want to see what OP has to say about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 10:44 PM
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I'm attracted to them. The real question is, are they attracted to me or just settling? That's the problem, you could never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 10:06 PM
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Ok, you gonna walk there and say hi. Go! Ok, still frozen, that's ok, that's ok. Let's go, on three. One, two, three, GO! Nothing? Sigh. Oh great, now she is talking to her friends, you missed the window, happy? She wouldn't talk to you any way, look at you. Who the fuck wears an iron maiden t shirt in a college party? What was your thought process behind this? There isn't a single metalhead in a 10 mile radius, what crowd were you planning on meeting here? Okay, okay, I agree it's dope as fuck,…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 10:02 PM
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Well, it's not like I excel in those areas either.
/r/seduction12/06/21 09:53 PM
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Like any other deal breaker is personal, I cannot explain rationally because attraction and love are not rational feelings. You probably like characteristics in a a woman that cannot be explained rationally, it's just a reflection of your personality and values.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 09:51 PM
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I haven't met a date in person since 2016. So it's not a urgent matter. But if you have any advice on how to not freeze I'll be happy to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 09:46 PM
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Let's focus on getting the rocket off the ground first, then we can think about landing on the moon.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 09:40 PM
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I've already explained why it matters. No, looking at someone isn't the same as having sex with them, why are you still trying to make this argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 09:33 PM
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Isn't kinda creepy to hit up women on deviantart? There are a lot of minors there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 09:30 PM
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Absolutely. There is a deeper connection and intimacy that happens in sexual intercourse that cannot happen just by looking at someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 09:28 PM
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59 There were some words in that quiz I haven't even seen before.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 09:26 PM
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Really? Do I really need to explain that acknowledging a man is attractive and having sex with that man are completely different things? I think Ewan McGregor is absolutely fucking hot, am I gay now?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 09:12 PM
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You've still probably jerked it to women who are better looking than her Having sex and watching porn are not even close to be the same thing. Finding other men attractive and being with a more attractive man are completely different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 09:03 PM
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Well I haven't got to that point yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 08:44 PM
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Same way the woman you end up with probably won't be the hottest or youngest woman you've ever been with. I'm a virgin so there is a big chance she will be the only woman I've been with. She may have been with someone who is aesthetically So you either find a virgin or a woman who has you as her #1. The chad she drunkenly blew at a party at 21 isn't someone she's going to be thinking about on her death bed. The plot of Titanic is literally about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 08:42 PM
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Could you stay with a woman if you knew the most mind-blowing hot sex she has ever had was a one night stand with some guy she just met? Would you be ok with that even though she made you wait and you did like a good boy? Would you be ok by being second or third on her list? I wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 08:03 PM
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I'm not saying you should sleep with them on the first date. I'm talking about you dating a guy and making him wait for months. Then you're not strangers anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 07:11 PM
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Unwanted sex is not a price I am willing to pay to make strangers feel loved. I'm talking about men who actually see a future with you and vice versa, not strangers. Apparently you were very comfortable having sex with strangers in the past. Those are the consequences, deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 07:09 PM
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Actions have consequences. You chose to have one night stands, the consequence of that choice is that, some men, would be hurt if you made them wait. They would think: a guy at a party had sex with her right away, but she made me wait months for it. Am I not as attractive as the other guy? If she loves me, why did she punished me by making me wait but had sex with a another guy right away? Was that guy really that hot? Is she settling for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 07:02 PM
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My friends never helped me get laid, I don't think they will start to do it now. Digital painting can net you plenty of pussy. Crazy pussy usually but still. How?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 06:58 PM
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My hobbies are PC gaming, digital painting and playing guitar. Those are all either done alone or heavily male dominated.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 06:55 PM
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Like I said the problem isn't highlight reel. Is the fact a woman would sleep right away with a guys she didn't see a future with but make a guy she did like wait. To a guy it seems like she was more attracted to the guy she sleep with right away.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 06:54 PM
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Dude, I'm 27. I don't have a social circle. You can't teach an old dog new tricks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 06:49 PM
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I'm too awkward to make IRL approaches, I get too nervous and freeze.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 06:41 PM
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Isn't 27 a bit late to work on my personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 06:37 PM
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get comfortable with approaching women in places like coffee shops Aren't women super creeped out by that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 06:29 PM
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Any advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 06:03 PM
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I haven't been on a date since 2016. So no.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 06:01 PM
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I haven't been on a date since 2016. So the idea of dating multiple people at the same time isn't part of my reality how are y’all dating? I try tinder but I can't get any matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 05:59 PM
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I made a online dating profile again. 3 weeks, no matches. I don't know why I keep trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 05:54 PM
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Cause he can get his sexual release elsewhere? An open relationship? I wasn't considering that was the case. I prefer monogamy though, so I have no idea if that would work.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 05:52 PM
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But don't you see how the hookup guy got more than the relationship guy though? The hookup guy was eating you out right away, the relationship guy had to wait like a good boy while you got your sexual release somewhere else. How is that fair?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 05:43 PM
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That's what happens though. They're young having fun and being adventurous with Chads, they will try new things and do anything to please them. Once they get tired they find a schmuck to have vanilla sex once a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 05:41 PM
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Cougars only want top attractive men within the 30%.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 05:34 PM
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Fair enough. My point is that, a guy is also allowed to rejected a woman if she displays your behavior. Because it seems quite idiotic to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 05:08 PM
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I can’t have sex with everyone who looks at me twice. I never said that. The problem isn't waiting or not waiting. You can wait as long as you think you should. The problem is making a guy you think is special wait while you have sex right away with a guy you don't see a future with. That's the kind of inconsistency I'm talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 05:06 PM
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But why if he isn't just for the sex? What if really loves you? You're punishing him and rewarding the guy who you don't see a future with. How does that make any sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 05:02 PM
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Personally I only wait a month or so for a guy I see real potential with But do you have sex with guys you don't see a future with right away? If you do, don't you see how that's punishing the guy you see a future with and how he might feel betrayed and emasculated?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 05:01 PM
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"You mean so much to me, so I'll make you wait months for sex while the other guy gets to fuck me right away because he means nothing to me" Do you honestly don't see how men would find this downright brutal and hurtful? You're basically punishing the guy you like more.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 04:56 PM
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"I love you a lot, so Chad gets sex right away, you have to wait" How women cannot see how guys think this is extremely hurtful and emasculating?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 04:54 PM
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well you idea of being “treated as less than” may be different than hers. in her eyes, she doesn’t believe she’s treating you worse. But she would be, regardless of what she thinks. My words can be rude to someone even if I don't mean it. and if consistency is what you want, would you not be upset if she treated you differently than others but the treatment was something you considered positive? because if so, then that’s not consistent either. I would be happy if that happened but it isn't some…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 04:46 PM
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They are wondering why the supposed love of woman's life gets less sexual attraction than some dude she had a summer fling with in college. This question went right above ops head. She hasn't yet understood the core problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 04:41 PM
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people on this sub act like nobody in the history of planet earth has ever changed over time, or act like a person can’t change in ways that aren’t premeditated and malicious People can change, but choices have consequences. If a woman chooses to have sex right away there are consequences for that, like men felling she is being deceitful if she changes her ways. All I want is consistency. Don't treat me like I'm less than other guys she dated, and I'll do the same. If I'm not getting her best, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 04:36 PM
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There is a huge difference between thinking a celebrity is hot and having sex with a guy because he is hot but making you wait for sex. Those are not equivalent at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 04:27 PM
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Either a woman will treat you like the best sexiest sex god or she is sexually dead to you No. The problem is if she treated other guys like sexiest sex gods, but not me. If she treats all the guys like normal human beings that's absolutely fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 04:23 PM
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It's either 0 or 100 for all intents and purposes. No man wants to hear: I'm not super attracted to you, but... From their girlfriend. There is no way to start a healthy relationship on that premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 04:18 PM
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Without attraction and sex all there is left is a friendship, which is great, but this post is about romantic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 04:14 PM
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Then why did you think she wanted it as much as you did I don't know. Like I said, she was my first kiss at 21 years old. I hadn't even held hands with a woman before her. It's not like I have a vast knowledge of women's sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 04:02 PM
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Very well said. I don't think OP will reply though. She is more interested in cherry picking arguments for her narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 03:50 PM
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Way bellow average.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 03:42 PM
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She wouldn't let me do any of those things, wandering hands were met with sighs and slaps on the wrist. She wouldn't let me even use tongue when kissing. She would only allow cuddling and hand holding.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 03:19 PM
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That's a strawman, most men don't think like that. Knows her place Lmao is this guy the villain of some feminist movie?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 03:17 PM
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Women's standards are higher than ever and increasing. The number of sexless men is also increasing. Women seem to prefer being single while having sex with top tier men while average men are just not capable of attracting women anymore. It's not so absurd to extrapolate that scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 03:01 PM
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The world is much bigger than California, my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 02:50 PM
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The guy that guided you to the dance floor did. Nobody would do that of you were a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 02:41 PM
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Most answers will be: I want a handsome charismatic guy with lots of options, but I want him just for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 02:34 PM
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You chose to ignore the relevant comments that gave a reason on men's preferences. I'll paste my comment here since it seems like you don't want to address it: The guys who are dating traditionally are going to feel like chumps if they have to wait a month to have sex; meanwhile another guy can just text her to come over and fuck. This. Guys need to remember that while she makes you wait months for sex, Chad gets to take her home on the first date. She is not going to treat you like Chad. That's…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 02:27 PM
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That's not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 02:09 PM
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27 cis man. 1) end goal at this point in your life Ideally marriage, but I would take any kind of relationship tbh, even one night stands. 2) your strategy to achieve that? Online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 02:07 PM
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This. Too bad I'm too ugly for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 02:04 PM
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You literally made a post to convince people being a father is worth it. I just showed to you it isn't. Men shouldn't fall into the trap called fatherhood. But I'll reply to your original post with a positive father history. My father is a very good man, blue collar, worked his ass off and put me through college, never once I saw him complaining about having to work hard. Now he is retired and living a happy life. I don't think being a father never was a good deal, it was in his time. It is mode…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 02:02 PM
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Nice strawman Statistically, those way more unlikely to happen compared to being cheated on and raising kids that aren't yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 01:52 PM
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Yes, those men would just remain single rather than share a woman with 5 other men. I'm a complete bitch in the face of struggle and I would never put up with sharing a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 01:28 PM
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mid-tier women with harems of low-tier men I think that's unlikely to happen because men have a competitive nature, those harems would never be stable, there would be too much fighting going on. Specially since men would be forced to do so. Women on the other hand already participate in Chad harems by their own choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 01:24 PM
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Do think something like the Islamic revolution could happen in the west?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 01:08 PM
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Democracy is an illusion. The senator was elected because the elites let it happen, that's the sad truth. We're poisoning our land and water, soon nobody will be able to grow a seed that isn't genetically modified to guarantee the monopoly of industrial farming. Life isn't better, we're just being fooled to believe it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 01:00 PM
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Just because you don't see a problem in your daily life doesn't mean it doesn't exist. I bet you didn't see any war or homeless guys in your dinner as well. Most men like me aren't going to the places you go to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 12:42 PM
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Not only that but men who hoard all women usually hoard capital as well. So in a eventual conflict they would just pay mercenaries to kill all the guys that very likely don't have military training. Chads would do anything in their power to maintain the status quo of their harem lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 12:05 PM
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The Joe collective. GIVE US THE COOCHIE, RESISTANCE IS FUTILE
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 12:01 PM
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On the other hand... when he cant.... Joe will start murderin Well, will he? I'm a Joe and not for once I had a violent desire in my life. I think most men in my situation are like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 11:51 AM
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Men work to pay bills so their families can survive. A wageslave life working just to pay bills leads to depression and suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 11:48 AM
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expect a "sudden" push for legalized polygamy I can see that happening. The future is going to be a dystopian society where most men will have a virtual girlfriend like blade runner's Joy while few powerful men have multiple wives and all the capital.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 11:47 AM
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I don't think the scenario of savagery is going to happen since most men do not have rape tendencies. Society is built in a way for the outliers to be marginalized and control, either through poverty and a prison system. If 70% of men were sexless they wouldn't rise up and take by force. The same way working class people don't rise up to kill billionaires.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 11:43 AM
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There is no upside in being a father. Imagine if you love your kids and raise them just to find out there not yours. "Just get a DNA when they're born" - and find out your wife cheated on you, which still sucks. Nothing is worth that risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 11:39 AM
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It's never going to be 70% for men. Didn't people used to say it was never going to be 30% in the past?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 11:29 AM
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But if the numbers of virgin men bellow 30 increases so does the number o men above 30. Is not like there is a magic switch that makes women like you when you turn 30. Not just that, but being emotionally stunted in your late 20s could definitely have serious impact for the resto of one's life. If a guy is a 30 year old virgin, what makes you think he will be good with women after 30? Maybe if a woman who had her fun through her 20s settles for him he could have a chance. But wouldn't the dispar…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 11:27 AM
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Wouldn't that Chad harem hoarding all the women result in seriously problems? Sure is great for Chads and women, but society needs the men who got left behind to work as well. What happen when those men are depressed and denied a chance to love someone and start a family? Is Chad going to father all the kids in the world? Maybe if automation got to a point where society could replace them, but that in itself would be another problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 11:18 AM
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You're in a club and you have approached an attractive chick. I'm gonna stop you right there. There is no scenario in wich she just stands up an walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 11:12 AM
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What will happen when the share of sexless men below the age of 30 hits 70% or more? Will the share of women in the same situation rise as well? How those statistics affect society?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 10:50 AM
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I think a lot of guys here would benefit from random fun vibey hobbies like that. I have no idea how to dance
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 10:41 AM
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But still. There are so many other physical qualities I woul rate as way more important than butt size, which is a the bottom of my list.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 11:54 PM
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Maybe then I would pick ass. But boobs wouldn't make a difference for me any size is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 11:47 PM
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I would pick the kinkiest regardless of breast size.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 11:43 PM
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Well, I can't speak for all men, but I really don't think small boobs and ass are a bad thing. There is much more that I take into consideration first.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 10:32 PM
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Any man who calls himself a Chad is no true Chad. For real now, I think much of the " Chadness" is also confidence and charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 09:45 PM
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This. Women want tall sons because they know themselves and other women treat short guys like radioactive garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 09:26 PM
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A lot of men don't care about big boobs and ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 09:24 PM
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Did you never make a move either? Well, I did with the bed thing. What else could I do? Ask if she wanted to have sex? I didn't want to come off as too thirsty or disrespectful. I wish you luck finding someone. It is possible, you just might have to get out of your comfort zone. Thank you, but after 5 years I just don't care anymore. I made my peace with being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:28 PM
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Saw you comment history. Not biting this bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:22 PM
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Ironic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:19 PM
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And what heigth do you prefer?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:18 PM
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We never talked about sex. I was hoping it would happen naturally, I thought she wanted as much as I did. Why become distant instead of talking about the issue? Or why not just break up with her if that's what you wanted? I'm not very good expressing how I feel. I don't do confrontations, if something bothers me I just avoid it. That was kind of a dick move from me though. I should've break up. For the longest time I stayed with her just because I didn't though I wouldn't be able to find someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 04:31 PM
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If she fucked a guy on the first date and made you wait, it means you're not getting her A-game. To her, you're not hot enough to have sex right away like the other guy was.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 03:00 PM
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I mean, it's not like feet are critical limbs, I guess being taller would compensate the lack of those in terms of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:52 PM
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Life is not fair. Women and men cannot have the same power over the fetus since it needs the women's womb to survive. That being said abortions should be legal because it's the only way to absolutely guarantee women's reproductive rights ( considering rape and accidents) Men should all get a vasectomy, reverse it whenever they want a kid( and get a paternity test at the hospital). That's the only way we can guarantee our reproductive rights and avoid paternity fraud.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:51 PM
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Would it? How about 2 inches?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:43 PM
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Fellas I gotta say, this is some really fucked up shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:32 PM
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I would do everything in my power to avoid such a situation. If I ever have kids, I'll get a paternity test as soon as they're born.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:30 PM
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Paternity tests should be mandatory at hospitals. I cannot believe some men go through their lives with kids without having one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:29 PM
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Well I don't think is unfair to feel somewhat like a idiot if you wait months for sex with a woman that had sex with a guy she just met because she didn't see a future with him and he was hot. Most men would feel betrayed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:24 PM
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I didn't mean to be disrespectful. Is just that "girthy" isn't very helpful since it's very subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:20 PM
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You could use an object as reference, like a coke can is 3 inches in diameter, the core of a tp roll is about 1.6 inches.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:16 PM
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Dude, I can't even put in eye drops without flinching, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:04 PM
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What do you consider girthy? Do you think most women can see the difference between 5.5 and 6 inches?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:00 PM
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I just had the most stupid but not so crazy thought. It's very absurd, but bear with me, I think it's not that crazy. Getting in a accident and losing both of my legs below the knees would actually have an overall positive impact in my life. Let me elaborate. 1 - In those kind of amputations, without nerve damage, the amputee usually recovers quite quickly. There is some trauma and pain, but the human body is quite good at adapting to such scenarios. 2 - It would make me more grateful for being …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:56 PM
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Noted.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 12:38 PM
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21 seems low, are you scrawny? Not really, that's pretty average where I live. How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 11:37 AM
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How many of those men will be cheated on, finding out their kids ain't theirs, get divorce raped? Yes most men can "get" a family, but the risk of having your life ruined is extremely high. There is no benefit for a man to fulfill his gender roles anymore, just risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 11:32 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/dkp0l4/make_him_wait_for_sex/?utm_source=reddit&utm_medium=usertext&utm_content=t1_grasibu&utm_name=PurplePillDebate Read this and see if you really don't have a problem with fds
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 10:47 AM
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I'm sorry, english is a second language. I was trying to say "blue balling"?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 10:17 AM
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I don't think she had any medical conditions that prevented sex. I waited as long as I could, but after a year I couldn't handle it anymore, just the thought of her gave me a boner. So I planed a romantic getaway on a nearby small colonial town. We had diner watched a movie and walked in the streets talking. I gave her a nice thoughtful gift saying how much I loved her and how I never felt that way before. We arrive at the hotel and I was like "oh no, there is just one bed. What are we gonna do …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 10:14 AM
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How would you feel If a guy took all his previous dates on nice places, treating them nicely, while taking you on the lowest effort of dates? Also, sex isn't the same as a gift.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 09:50 AM
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Found a example for you: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/dkp0l4/make_him_wait_for_sex/?utm_source=reddit&utm_medium=usertext&utm_content=t1_grasibu&utm_name=PurplePillDebate Op literally says to make a guy wait while having a FWBs. Check the comments and you will see women saying that this is ok, and you should lie to the man while fucking another guy behind his back.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:27 AM
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That post is just sad. Keeping a guy waiting while fucking another on the side. They're doing exactly what they say low value men do to them. I'm so glad I'm not their type. They seem like a nightmare to date, always making you think she will leave for another man, this is sociopathic behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:26 AM
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Fair enough. But I don't see a way for women to filter out the pump and dumpers without withholding sex. Like I said, too much could be detrimental.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 12:55 AM
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Is the average man really that fat? My BMI is 21 and most men I know are close to that number, maybe a bit higher. Also, what's wrong with 5'9, are you taller than that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 12:45 AM
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You know 95% of women is going say B but to choose A and try to change him into a B. So why bother to make this post?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 12:42 AM
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Withhold as much as you need to do your vetting, but not so much that he start to feel like a schmuck and loses interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 12:40 AM
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I'm not attracted to women who don't have a waist smaller than her hips and who has broad shoulders. But why in the hell would I waste so much time posting how much I hate them and how they're "ugly, useless and pathetic'? It's just insane. They hate lvms so much, yet they live rent free on FDS users heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 12:36 AM
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It's just a silly dream. An escape from this wageslave life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 12:33 AM
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I'm an engineer so no. But I have dairy making experience. I worked on a small dairy factory for six months during highschool and I loved it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 12:21 AM
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Women are the ones destroying men's motivation to pursue them. Porn isn't causing that problem, but the rise of sexless men is increasing the porn consumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 12:17 AM
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Honestly, I make myself that question at the end of every day I waste looking at an excel spreadsheet. I believe I don't have the money to do so. Not just that but also small farmers are being crushed by big cattle and soy, as a rookie farmer, I wouldn't last long.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 12:09 AM
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Sadly, the only way to get rid of those is to censor the internet and that's too far into dictatorship territory. If that happened there would be an economic collapse and people would turn to a more agrarian economy. But honestly, I would feel great. I would buy a plot of land on the countryside, become a beekeeper/farmer. Making and selling some good cheese and cachaça as well. Marry me a good virgin catholic girl who will never have a tinder or Instagram profile. Spoil the shit out of her and …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:32 PM
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Lmao, Alex Jones vibes. " Lvms are ruining your life, anyway here is some lvm repellent for only 9.99, free shipping with the code proudkween"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:26 PM
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Not hard to understand at all. That's why men should have self respect and leave the second she makes you wait and jump though hoops to get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:24 PM
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I actually lost 15lbs in this quarantine. Anxiety makes me forget to eat properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 10:08 PM
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Flair checks out, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 09:03 PM
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Having sex in relationships is not easy. That was my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:56 PM
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"Not hot" is ok, nobody is entitled to people's attraction. "Not a real man" it's just unnecessary, rude and bitter P.s what do you consider short?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 07:55 PM
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Again, good intentions but bad execution. Check the comments on the post and see for yourself the body shaming going on. Saying you like very large penises is totally ok. Saying a man is a loser and useless because he has small penis is not ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 06:36 PM
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We were both 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 06:31 PM
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The problem is that they focus too much on "lvms". Any community that focus too much on hating something is going to become a cesspool eventually. Really, what's the endgame i making a whole podcast about how much you hate small penises? How does that help women at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 06:21 PM
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That's what I meant in my comment, even if she makes you wait, she very likely had sex with a guy right away at some point in her life. How fair is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 06:08 PM
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A lot of women have a phase where they're "easy", fucking hot guys. Then when they get older they get "tired of the players" and start making beta guys wait. Those things are not necessarily happening at the same time, although there are women who do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 05:44 PM
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There's some good advice there but their misandry shows up from time to time. I saw with my own two eyes a FDS mod saying a 5'4 guy isn't a real man. How is that "maximizing female happiness"? Sure, women don't have to be attracted to short men, but why insult men who did nothing to deserve it? Just bitter and sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 05:14 PM
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If you can't tell de difference, does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 04:23 PM
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Well this is the ideal scenario to be honest. I don't want sex with lots of women, I would rather have lots of kinky sex with one good woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 04:20 PM
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"You're such a good guy. I see a future with you, so I'm gonna punish you by denying you sex, unlike I did with the ex which cheated on me. With him I was sucking dick on the way to the date lmao"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 04:18 PM
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That's a proper response. And I agree with you. No need to be passive aggressive calling me a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 03:52 PM
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Why the irony? I really loved her, and it sucks she wouldn't have sex with me. After a while you start to question if she thinks you're repulsive or something. Sex is a form of emotional validation. I wasn't in the relationship just for the sex, but being celibate wasn't in my plans either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 03:18 PM
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It's a small NGO and it's basically women that work there. That could be the case. I'll try look into a male psychiatrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 03:02 PM
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She works for a NGO so I have sessions for free. If I ought to change therapist I would have to pay. tell them that, that you feel like you can't let them know and need to hide your struggles Saying that out loud makes me feel like a pussy. I know feeling like that's part of the problem, but I can't help it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 02:32 PM
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even if you only have sex in relationships, you can easily reach 5+ by the age of 25. and if you’re only waiting a few dates, you’ll get there even faster. I'm 27 and my n count is zero. So I disagree with that, it's not easy at all. Your personal experience is not the same of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 01:47 PM
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I never asked, but I believe so. She was very religious, so I never saw her bellybutton nor anything above the knees even. I know, I'm a schmuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 01:32 PM
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i would wait at least 3-4 months. i was told that a “man with options” would never wait that long. A girl made me wait 1.5 years, she broke up with me without having sex. So I kinda agree with that. I would rather be single and alone for the rest of my life than going through that again. 4 months seems reasonable though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 01:11 PM
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The guys who are dating traditionally are going to feel like chumps if they have to wait a month to have sex; meanwhile another guy can just text her to come over and fuck. This. Guys need to remember that while she makes you wait months for sex, Chad gets to take her home on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 01:09 PM
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I used to think it was ok for women to hold off sex. Until I dated a girl who made me wait for 1.5 years and then broke up with me without having sex. I don't think you need to sleep with him on the second date, but eventually you will have to sleep with him or he will start to resent you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 01:03 PM
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But even by pretending she would still know I'm talking about me and that's the problem. A good analogy would be: It's like I live in a disgusting house, I don't wanna show it to anybody, I know I need help to clean it, but I can bare the thought of someone seeing how I actually live like. I can talk about it here, since nobody knows who I really am but I couldn't possibly show those ugly thoughts I have to someone I actually know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 12:54 PM
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I guess my problem is letting somebody know of my struggles. I can write about it here, since I'm anonymous, but I can't handle letting somebody know it in real life. It's like I have this really disgusting thing that I need to hide.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 12:48 PM
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Lmao. Amen to that!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 09:59 AM
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Have I invalidated anyone's experience in my comment? You seem to have a lot of assumptions about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 01:32 AM
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Why are you so aggressive? Take it easy on the pre workout, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 11:43 PM
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I had another therapy session today. I still can't open up. We keep talking about how I lack motivation to get things done and how the pandemic is making me upset. But I can't find the courage to say I hate my life and myself. It's like I'm physically incapable of saying that out loud to another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 11:41 PM
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It says a lot about how hard being a man is when so much men end up not believing that there is a God.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 11:36 PM
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There's never been a better time to be a man imo, it's incredibly easy to get women Your whole comment is basically. " I never had problems getting women, therefore it is easy." Saying it is incredibly easy to get women just make you sound like a douche imo. Don't invalidate people struggles, things you might find hard are easy for me and vice versa. Mocking guys for being virgin get us nowhere. P.s I don't see anything wrong with his picture? Is it the lack of smile?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 11:02 PM
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I disagree with the first part. I wouldn't mind if my girlfriend masturbated watching a shirtless Chris Evans or something like that. It's just pictures on a screen, as long as she still was sexually active with me of course. Masturbating is not the same as sex. I don't think I'm being unreasonable here, my n count is zero and ideally I would like to marry a similar woman. But unfortunately virgin women is an endangered species and most women are turned off by virgin men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:18 PM
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I don't care if she watches porn or masturbate. She can have her outlet. Masturbating is very different from having sex with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:56 PM
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My n count is zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:53 PM
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Just be careful with how long you make him wait. I dated a girl for over a year and a half and she didn't put out. It was her choice, wtf was I supposed to do other than wait? She broke up with me without ever having sex so if I ever get another chance to date someone I won't make the same mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:07 PM
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Lmao. I guess Chad doesn't give a fuck about pastry.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 11:57 AM
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No more than 1. Ideally 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:51 AM
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I look Indian but I'm Brazilian. I grew a beard but it only helps a little. I didn't socialized enough in my formative years, so now as a adult I'm very awkward. Somethings you can't learn as an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 01:33 AM
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3.5/10 Short 5'8, weak jaw/chin, crooked teeth, mouth breather complex, very weak and skinny (140lbs). I was told I resemble the guy from life of pi. Probably if he smoked a bunch of crack. I've seen men as ugly as me with women, but they're usually very extroverted and charismatic, my exact opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 01:24 AM
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Gold diggers are only after the money. They believe they're entitled to men's money because of sex or looks, they usually don't put in any work. In my comment I was talking about a hardworking woman who takes care of her family. If a woman puts effort into being a great traditional wife with a low n count and lots of household skills she should absolutely have the highest standards. Now, if she is a baby mama, with a history of one night stands, lots of debt and overweight, she shouldn't be surp…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 01:07 AM
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r/woosh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 01:00 AM
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Pairing up isn't easy, you know? I'm not single by choice. Again I'm not saying waiting is a good strategy, I'm saying it's the only fate for ugly men, there isn't much else to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 09:08 PM
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You can only have fun with with women if you're attractive. Average and bellow average man cannot participate in hookup culture. The whole point of my post is that men should not wait it is a terrible deal. I said men are expected to do that, not that they should do it. I'm only 26, dude. I don't think you understood my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 08:43 PM
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Absolutely. If a woman knows how to cook, clean, take care of the kids and stay thin, she is entitled to a man who makes 200k a year. The problem isn't the high standards, it is average women who can't even boil water demanding a 6ft man with high income.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 08:22 PM
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Can you please point out anything he has said in the video posted that doesn't make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 06:01 PM
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This is what the average FDS user is like. Remember guys, wake up early and work hard so you can bring 200k home to an obese wife that doesn't know how to cook. And people here have the audacity to say women don't have unrealistic standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:35 PM
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Low value according to whom? My value as a man does not depend on what women think. My value is not defined by what I can provide to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 12:22 PM
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Wait so men are supposed to wait in celibacy, not having any release while women have fun with several men until she hits 30 and decides to settle down? How is that fair? I'll cut the porn when I get the sex, until then, my body my rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:40 AM
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Well, at least you dumped him, good for you. His behavior is not the norm though. Most of us just watch it because we don't have girlfriends so it's better than nothing. But I guess most men won't have problems stoping once they can have actual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:23 AM
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Heterosexual men's natural state of existence is to chase women. We only stop doing so when women make it too difficult or when a successful chase leads to disappointment. This. "My wife is wearing nothing but thigh-highs and glasses begging for me to take her, but I prefer pornhub" - said no man ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 01:57 AM
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Women standards have increased since they don't need men for the traditional roles anymore. At the same time, men have to be taller, better looking, more charismatic and perform better in the bedroom without getting any of the traditional wife qualities in return. Basically women have raised the bar for men, while lowering their own. Therefore, most men don't have access to casual sex, since they don't have the qualities women demand. The best strategy is to work towards being successful and att…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 01:46 AM
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We keep telling yall this is what most men we meet are doing. If you're only meeting the absolute worst men you might want to consider if you're doing something wrong. Are we on the same side? Most women here think today's dating dynamics are not excluding a huge chunk of young men, while they themselves keep dating the same small pool of top tier looking men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:15 PM
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This argument is repeated ad nauseam. "Act with the confidence of a mediocre guy". A lot of guys have low self esteem as well, it is just that society doesn't pamper to us when we're feeling depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:10 PM
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Those cases are not the rule, I would risk to say they're not even statistically significant. I agree that the woman should leave in such cases but it is a leap to claim all men that have ever watched porn are addicted to it and wouldn't stop watching if they got in a relationship. Give me a study that shows what % of marriages end up because of porn. At least I wouldn't need it if I was in a relationship with sex being available. P.s. I'm still waiting for your answer on my other comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:40 PM
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who won’t have sex with them even when they are offering or even begging for it The world sure has been gone downhill. Some men don't know how lucky they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:44 PM
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Bullshit. What kind of man would do that? I use porn since I never had a girlfriend. But if I had one, why would I choose a screen over her? Maybe guys get tired of low libido partners refusing sex and seek porn instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:44 PM
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Choosing to string women along or lie in order to get sex is not an 'issue men are going through' men have self awareness and are responsible for the choices they make. Do you really believe most men engage in such behavior? Most of us can't even find dates, let alone be a player. Those are a handful of men that hoard all the dates and sex. When it comes to things like mental health I do care, but when men are choosing to do something, I'm not sure what kind of response you are expecting? People…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:33 PM
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My point is, you wrote down a bunch of problems men are going through, but you don't care about the problems at all, you just care about how it affects women. Very much like Hilary Clinton saying women are the primary victims of war since they lost husbands, fathers and sons. Depressed people cope by engaging in bad behaviors, videogames and porn are a few of them. Do you know men are also much more likely to commit suicide? Are you going to make a post about how male suicide is inconvenient to …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:11 PM
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Men are depressed, addicted, unemployed and poor. Women most affected.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:05 PM
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I believe it's not an active role, it's more of a byproduct of social media and feminism. Women today, have more freedom, money ad opportunities, that's great. But there is a shitty byproduct of that, women unlike men, are hypergamous. A successful man will marry an average woman that he is happy with. Women today consider offensive even to be approached by a man who isn't a the top of her tier list. Men love women for who they are, women love men from what they can give. An average man today ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:59 PM
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I don't get mad that the hot guys get the hot girls. That's a fact of life. I'm mad that average and below average women refuse to date anything other than top tier 6ft+
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:46 PM
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Why the passive aggressive comment? I'm just saying what I see in my personal experience. Most women have no problem finding dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:41 PM
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Instinct, lmao. I give up. Good luck trying to attack a shorter person with a gun, let's see how that goes. Funny how you're assuming I'm short for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:03 PM
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Again, that's why we need to change the laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:58 PM
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Yet it increases the frequency by which violence is afflicted among everyday people. Again, not my argument. The point is, stature matters in intimidation. No it doesn't if I have a big gun pointed to his head.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:43 PM
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I agree with you in a sense of casual relationships. But I don't see that escalating to poligamous marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:41 PM
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I never said guns are supposed to reduce violence. I said it takes the monopoly of violence from the big and strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:39 PM
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I'm not saying that he would oppress me, but a gun on my hand guarantees he won't. Then we're truly equal and can have a civilized conversation. Lol, and I live in a country with more murders in a year than the entire Iraq war casualties. Guns are absolutely necessary for personal protection. Violence is intrinsic to human nature with or without guns. A gun just guarantees that violence isn't a monopoly of the big and strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:37 PM
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In that case they would share Chad, but they would constantly try to be exclusive with him, by marriage or kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:30 PM
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You can’t open carry everywhere. Unfortunately I can't carry anywhere since my country doesn't have the second. That's why we're need to change the laws, so people like your ex don't use their size to oppress others. A gun is the great equalizer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:29 PM
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A guy would still be more inclined to attack you instead of him Not if I'm open carrying. And if he did, he would be dead regardless of his height. A big iron on your hip is preventative in nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:24 PM
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But social media is actively saying to women that being a virgin with no debt is oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:22 PM
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I could kill him with one hand. His size means nothing to me. He isn't bulletproof.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:20 PM
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I don't wanna be called sexist. But if I say I won't settle for anything other than a meek and petite 22 year old virgin with a big butt and no debt, that's what's gonna happen. Women's standards are considered "preferences" Men's standards are considered "toxic gender roles"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:00 PM
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Today's society is shit because people only do what they "want". Pure hedonism. Marriage is also sacrifice, not just pleasure. But I'm not condoning abuse though, people have to be taught to spot abusers and stay away from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:53 PM
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When men expect more of women society screams sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:51 PM
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No matter how poor you are, somethings are not for sale. I know that since I'm poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 02:23 PM
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I went outside once. It sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 02:15 PM
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Would do anything for money? No, neither would most women. Dignity is not for sale, if that was the case most women would be prostituting themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 02:14 PM
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Exception not the rule. Most women, just like most men, hate the idea of sharing their partner with others.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 02:11 PM
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Women don't want polyginy. They won't mind sharing a top tier man with others, but they want at least the illusion of monogamy. The classic ladies man who has tons of options but falls for the average Jane.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 02:08 PM
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I'm not in touch with my family. I also don't go outside, I'm talking about what I see in social media. Ugly women seem to be doing fine and have plenty of options. Ugly men seem to be miserable and alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 01:57 PM
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You guys are going on dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 01:54 PM
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That's not what I see online. It's either Chads dating hot, average and below average women and lonely men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 01:51 PM
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But they will rather be alone than date uglier men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 01:49 PM
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Too expensive. It's way better to bring some latões in a cooler.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 12:10 PM
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I have in fact gone to the beach with men I have known to varying degrees many times and then never bring anything. Men consistently show up empty handed at social events and let women clean up after them after group meals are over. What? Is that really the norm? I never showed up at an event empty handed. I can recall this one time I took two days to make puff pastry from scratch, just so I could bring croissants for a picnic with friends. They all loved it and seeing they eating it all made me…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 12:05 PM
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Does she makes Chad wait? Rules are made to be broken by men hotter than you. Don't be a schmuck, if she makes you wait, but not other guys, you need to get the F out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:07 AM
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Lmao, right? Protected from what? We're not caveman anymore. My 5'8 ass with a shotgun is going to protect you way more than height will. 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:50 AM
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If tomorrow every man became Chad, women would simply demand Giga Chads. This. 6ft men didn't even exist in the past but modern women are obsessed with them. The bar for women has been at an all time low, while the bar for men in a all time high.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:35 AM
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Like if you visit Latin America you'll see that their women are so much better than ours. A major reason for that is that they don't have a government that takes care of them, so they have to find a good man and keep him happy. You're wrong, government here literally pays poor women proportionally to the number of kids they have. Women also get six months of government paid maternity leave. Family courts are rigged against men even if there is no marriage contract. Men have been forced by courts…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:29 AM
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Enforced monogamy and slut shaming (for both genders) Hypergamy needs to be socially shamed and Chads need to be slut shamed. If people married young, there would be a way more equal distribution of sex, the epidemic of celibate men would drop exponentially. But that's a win just for celibate men. Women and chads would rather die than give up their hedonistic lifestyle. There is no consequence for a woman that decides to have casual sex forever and never settle. So, she rather remain single fore…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:01 AM
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Women could stop with the unrealistic standards for a start. They're part of why so much men are excluded from the dating market. But to actually solve the problem, we need social and legislative reform that promotes more equality, monogamy and security in relationships. Men are seen as less than women, expendable and only valued when providing something. That's also the reason men are more likely to blow their brains out. There needs to be financial and social benefits to marrying young. Also, …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 01:46 AM
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Why? Chances are she will laugh at my face. Better to focus on shorter women. Not because tall women aren't attractive to me, but it is a waste of time and energy to approach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 09:51 PM
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Is it men that are seeking less the company of women or women that became very picky with extremely high standards? I believe the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 09:45 PM
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Wow. Every day another piece o bad news. This world is going downhill. Very depressing. Even more depressing to know I'm part of the 43%.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 09:38 PM
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Fair enough. They might not be bombarded with messages, but they do have way more options than I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 10:05 AM
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I'm not picky at all when it comes to looks. I'm usually attracted to women that have a nerdy or hippie-ish vibe anywhere within the healthy BMI range.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 10:03 AM
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I would trade my above average pp for above average looks any time. If you don't pass the minimum threshold of attractiveness, you won't have a chance to use your penis anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 09:51 AM
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Of course there are women making that much, they're just not interested in me, why would they? Those women have tall, good looking men that make 10x as much on their DMs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 01:46 AM
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Do you really think I can afford any of that? I'm a third world shithole citizen making 3,50/h.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 01:40 AM
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My gf Of course you think I'm a defeatist. I don't wanna start a woe is me rant but, how could you possibly know what's is like ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 01:36 AM
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There is nothing more weird than an adult man with braces. He did, there are some injections you can take on the face that slightly change your features. Like chin and jaw for example. They're not surgical and the result is awesome. I think if I save to have some procedures done maybe I can live a normal life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 01:30 AM
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I know I don't have the social skills to fuck a random girl, even if I did, that's not what I want. I want to connect emotionally and actually experience love and also have lots of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 01:27 AM
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He fixed his teeth definitely. There is so subtle facial harmonization going on, it's very subtle so that's why you're not noticing it. Not all plastic surgery drastically changes the whole face. Chek out young Tom cruise. Anyway, he is rich famous and talented, it's not like he has to worry about his looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 01:23 AM
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If I'm fucking a woman that I'm not at all attracted to just because I'll fuck anything, is it fair to her? Not only that but that mentality will drive women away, they don't like guys like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 01:18 AM
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Yeah, I kinda look like him, but with a beard and browner lol. He looks nice now because he is a millionaire that can afford plastic surgery, just like Cristiano Ronaldo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 01:16 AM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 01:01 AM
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I would say I'm a 3.5/10. Crooked smile, weak jawline and no chin, mouth breather complex, patchy beard, small forehead, egg shaped head. My body is ok besides the fact that I'm short.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 12:52 AM
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I don't want to win, I just don't wanna be miserable while playing, maybe have fun even. But that's seem impossible with such a shitty hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 12:36 AM
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You were dealt a shitty hand and you just have to play with it. The problem is being dealt a shitty hand in a game you have no idea how to play, just to realize a bad first hand will fuck up all of your next hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 12:28 AM
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I just came across this comment. It resonated a lot with how I feel, giving me such a sinking feeling in my stomach. Is there any hope for guys like us? How to start climbing out of such a low and dark place?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 11:48 PM
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would you say you’re an awkward guy? Once I was going to an renaissance fair and took the bus in full cosplay. I guess I'm pretty weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 02:27 PM
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I'm not. I can understand social cues perfectly but just in friendly/professional conversations. Flirting just sounds like a alien language to me. I just assume every interaction to be friendly, I don't think I can create this sexual undertones. I don't think any woman has talked to me in that way ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 02:17 PM
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What do you mean with sexual undertones? Do you have any examples of that? How can one identify those subtle undertones? What's the difference between that and just being nice with compliments?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 02:10 PM
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You don’t have any friends and family currently? Not even to FaceTime? Just my parents and a couple of friends I have known for 10 years. Were you thinking of practicing on women at a bar? I don't know, I literally don't know what I'm supposed to do. Talking to old ladies seems like a good idea though I'll just wait for a vaccine to be available for me before engaging with people offline.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 01:59 PM
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I just don't interact with so many people on a daily basis, but I do know how to play bridge. I'll sure try that. Wouldn't be more efficient to practice with people my age though?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 01:51 PM
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you seem to think flirting is just compliments. that’s not what flirting is. I have no idea what flirting is and how it works then.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 01:44 PM
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Towards friends or strangers? I can do playful banter with friends, I not so sure with strangers. I don't have conversations with people I don't know. Last time I talked more than to sentences to a stranger was way before covid and I was drunk as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 01:43 PM
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I don't have experience in dating, it's just how things seem to be. I've seen plenty of socially awkward shy women having no problem in dating at all, the opposite isn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 01:40 PM
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Well, I just never seen a woman actively flirting. Since is the social norm that men have to be the ones actively pursuing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 01:24 PM
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How can I practice it? Any advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 01:22 PM
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Yes, I do get why banter is fun and useful. But is very different from flirting. You're not trying to date your clients.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 01:18 PM
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I'm sorry, I just can't relate at all. Since when talking to strangers is fun? It's not fun, it's stressful.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 01:16 PM
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Isn't the end game of flirting to date the person? Why just flirt for the sake of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 01:13 PM
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I don't like her makeup choice but she is a solid 7.8/10
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 12:38 PM
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He is delusional lmao. I'm a guy and I think those women are all very pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 12:36 PM
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I mean, she's rich, famous and good looking. It doesn't seem like a bad deal to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 12:32 PM
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Not at all, why would a video call be weird? It would be weird if they stayed to hear the conversation, that's just nosy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 12:30 PM
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If I'm not attracted to them, wouldn't I be leading them on? It just feels like this is kinda unfair to them. Why would I flirt with someone I don't plan on dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 12:16 PM
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Unfortunately it's not possible for most people to get off grid so easily. We're kinda trapped in this economic system. If you live in a developed country, then sure. But good luck trying to be a nomad in a third world shithole, you'll end up as a dead beggar. Most people are chained by debt and responsibilities. Maybe you could do anything you want, but just keep in mind most people in the world are struggling to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 12:08 PM
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Natural flow: The man guiding the conversation in a certain way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 11:55 AM
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Well, people tend to complicate things they don't fully understand. That's why I said being on the receiving end is probably way more fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 11:53 AM
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Because I didn't have any choice in it. How fair is it that, because of my gender, I'm expected to be something I'm not? I'm not confident, smooth, charismatic but those things are demanded of men, if you don't have those qualities your dating life is non existent. Women on the other hand can still be shy and awkward that a man still will take the lead and date them. How is that fair?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 09:40 AM
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Small talk isn't the same as flirting. There is no endgame in talking about the weather.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 09:34 AM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 09:33 AM
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Flirting is not fun if you're the one that's supposed to be actively doing it. I just saw a post talking about how flirting is the best skill a man can have. I never understood how flirting is considered fun, it's just stressful, hard and goes wrong most of the time. I get it must be fun if guys are approaching you to flirt with you, but the fun goes out of the window when you're the one expected to make the magic happen. Is it possible to learn how to flirt? Even if you hate the idea of doing i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 12:12 AM
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Why would someone say something so horrible? I get that people get emotional and personally attack others, but why the poor kitty?😢
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 12:08 AM
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I never understood why flirting is considered fun. It makes no sense, just a stupid game that I can't figure out how to play. Wouldn't it be better to be upfront and ask things directly?How the fuck does one flirt to begin with? The whole go with the flow and read the room is so fucking stressing and difficult. What's wrong with:" Hey, I like you, would you like to go on a date sometime? "Why does one need to play games?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 11:56 PM
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It's not just this ok cupid study. There is evidence of women's unrealistic standards everywhere, just take a look around. Like the rise on the % of sexless men bellow 30. You will never see it though, because you're on the side who benefits from hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 02:42 PM
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Everyone is thinking I'm accusing her. HER LIST IS FINE. it's reasonable and not unrealistic at all. All I did was give an example of what is unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 02:36 PM
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I'm talking about attraction not messaging. Men found most women on the app attractive, the opposite wasn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 02:28 PM
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That's a lot of mental gymnastics, you could just accept that women are much more harsh judging men that the other way around. Compare how many messages an average guy gets to an average woman. Even though the average woman gets less messages than the super attractive one, she still get way more messages than the average guy. Average guys are sending messages to every woman, including the supper attractive ones. Hot guys send messages only to the super attractive women, that's why they get so ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 02:05 PM
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She didn't. Her list is pretty reasonable. I'm just giving an example of what is unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 01:59 PM
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Some do. Not that it's all that matters but I'm yet to meet a woman who looks forward to marrying a man that has a small penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 01:22 PM
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I think her list is pretty reasonable actually. I don't fit in it, but it's mostly my fault anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 01:20 PM
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Top tier women get more messages because there are more men on the platforms. The important part is how men are much more reasonable rating women than the other way around. And messaging on a dating app has no real correlation to actually being in a happy relationship. while plenty of potentially charming, even cute, girls go unwritten. That is simply not true. Most women get bombarded with messages in online dating. Of course, good looking women will get more messages just like the good looking…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 01:10 PM
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It helps your narrative to insist that women with unrealistic standards are not the norm. She is an exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 12:56 PM
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Here is a small piece of evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 12:33 PM
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She might struggle with self esteem. Impostor syndrome is quite common among high achievers. It just seems like she picked really bad men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 12:26 PM
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Again with this argument. Most men aren't gay, the lack or abundance of women won't change that. I'm not complaining about lesbians am I?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 12:03 PM
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I see two possible options. She might be an exception or those dudes were very good looking and had very large penises.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 12:00 PM
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Like I said before, standards that can be reached through hard work are perfectly reasonable. I'm talking about things you can't learn, get or buy. Like being tall, big penis, strong jawline, looking like a aryan viking warrior etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 11:52 AM
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This is not how sexuality works. A guy won't become gay just because he can't find a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 11:40 AM
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It's not just their loss if this kind of mindset spreads too much. I would very much like to eventually marry and have kids, how am I supposed to do that if every woman demands a top tier man? She could settle for me, but that isn't a good foundation for a healthy relationship. It takes two to make a relationship so their loss is also my loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 11:32 AM
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The number of women with such standards increase everyday. Soon it won't be possible for an average guy to find a girlfriend anymore. There is no way to have a healthy relationship with someone who believes to have settled for you. Relationships work with equal attraction on both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 11:17 AM
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If a standard can be reached through hard work it isn't unreasonable. The problem is that a lot of women have standards that only the top 20% of men have, like height, penis size, jawline, being white with blue eyes etc. Those cannot be reached unless you win the genetic lottery. Online dating and social media made those top men much more accessible to women. The average Jane today believes it's not unreasonable for her to not settle for anything less than a top tier man. Meanwhile the epidemic …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 10:54 AM
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Of course, beauty is very subjective and personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 06:26 PM
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Felicity Jones is the absolute pinnacle of beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 06:23 PM
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Very important. Good sex can be learned so having a open mind is a must. There isn't a single man who would dump a girl just for being bad at sex, usually the break up happens because she refuses to practice and try new things.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 05:26 PM
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Ok, Mr Bateman. Will do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 11:02 AM
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This. I've tried to date and all I got was anxiety and depression. My advice is to give up dating and focus on being happy doing things you like. Life is too short to waste it trying to prove you're good enough to some random tinder date. Why should any man waste time on a rigged game where he is constantly judged for his height, paycheck, face, dick and confidence?I really don't think finding a gf is worth all of that trouble. Even if you find one, there is a 75% chance of divorce. What is in i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 10:36 AM
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I disagree with you. At least growing up I was taught that women were pure and valuable and even a lustful glance would be disrespectful. Yes, I was taught traditional gender roles but also that as a husband I should pamper to my wife's needs and wants and spoil her. Of course this led me to become a simp who gets taken advantage off while the bad boys got the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 07:03 PM
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I was raised very religious, went to church since I was born up to my early 20s. So I believe I was fairly religious since I have even memorized whole bible chapters in the past. I wasn't going to church just to find a date. I haven't stopped because of it either. But I gotta say, somethings do make you question your life style, like finding out the cute quiet church girl gave a blowjob to the school drug dealer. I'm just saying, sex taboos aren't good for anything and a lot religious people are…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 05:34 PM
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If you're looking for a healthy relationship, I recommend becoming seriously religious and going to a good church. Been there done that. It doesn't work. Most girls from the church I used to go to end up dating men who weren't religious at all while all the guys who were religious remained single. I guess religious guys weren't exciting and fun enough for them. Also, religious taboo on sex will guarantee a dead bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 05:03 PM
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Those are exceptions not the rule. Women will inevitably switch if a better option comes along. There are countless histories of women who download tinder "just for fun" and dump their husbands once they realize the attention they can get from better men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:14 PM
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Spending quality time with my mom makes me blue pilled. Other women in my life make me believe the red pill is the most accurate theory. Using tinder makes me 100% black pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 12:45 PM
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Give me a source that says most women only want men over 6ft. Give me a link to your paper, I would like to take a look at it. I know you won't, because it doesn't exist. You make wild claims, you gonna need some ground breaking evidence to back them up. A lot of women would chose the 5'5 guy. I know several who did it and are happily married. And I personally know guys who have been rejected for being too tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 12:48 PM
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First, there were no 6'4 men in hunter gatherer days. Modern humans are way taller. Second, we're called homo sapiens for a reason you know? The smarter/more social man would have way better chances of survival, regardless of height. We literally hunted mammals 10 times our size. We differ a lot from other apes, we have smart charismatic leaders who are good at strategy, this is how we kept the peace in small groups and survive together. But even if there was a 6'4 caveman, depending on what env…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 12:00 PM
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So, now you see how porn isn't as bad as you think it is? Of course porn can be bad if it affects your relationship, but if you don't have anything else, what's the harm in it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 10:30 AM
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I gave my answer, now give me a solution. I would totally stop watching porn if there was an alternative.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 10:23 AM
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I don't think she has one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 10:23 AM
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Have you gotten laid since quiting?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 11:20 PM
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I think the only thing stopping me from finding a girlfriend is my horrible face an short stature. I try to date every once in a while but I don't have much success. Real sex probably is way better than porn I assume, but porn is better than nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 11:02 PM
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I'm terribly unnatractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:33 PM
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Find a woman for girlfriend or FWB? Lmao, of course! How come I never thought about that! 🙄 Homeless? Just buy a house. Yes, but why would I use my imagination if porn is way better? It's not like I'm letting my girlfriend down, since I don't have one anyways. Not only that but I'm a virgin so if I use my imagination I would be just imagining porn anyways, since I don't know what the real thing feels like.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:30 PM
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Yeah, that makes sense. I guess in a relationship there is an alternative. But what about my case? There isn't much I can do to stop watching it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:11 PM
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No. Once she gets prettier she will get more attention from men and will be more likely to monkey branch. I would rather she fixed her shortcomings before we even met. If she picked me, even at her prime, that means she truly loves me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 09:15 PM
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So many =/= most. It's biology, survival of the fittest. Lmao, did you just threw a splash of eugenics/racehorse theory on your shitty opinion? That's gold. Do you have a nazi fetish too? For a second I was taking you seriously. Now you're just lashing out trying to hurt me. It won't work. Blocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 08:28 PM
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I thought she was being sincere but her last comment showed she just wants to body shame men under 6ft. Kinda pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 08:22 PM
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Well, I kinda need it. It's not like I can find a partner to fulfill my sexual needs. Breaking up is hard and messy, most people stay in unhappy relationships sadly. What alternatives to porn exists? Sex workers?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 08:21 PM
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I'm sure a MAJORITY of women like men to be above 6 feet That is such a ridiculous statement, do you even have a source for that? If that was the case, there wouldn't be enough men available. The majority of women is average and in relationships, it's not mathematically possible for all of them to be with men over 6 feet. I'm not kink shaming you, you have the right to like whatever you like, I'm just saying your fetish it's rooted in problematic things . Like I, for an example, don't date black…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 08:16 PM
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I would argue the opposite. Men who are unsatisfied with their sexual lives seek more pornography. Many men watch it because they can't find a partner or are in a relationship with a woman with a low sex drive. I watch a lot of porn, but if I had a girlfriend with a high sex drive I wouldn't need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 08:03 PM
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6'2 is mathematically abnormal, since it's more than a standard deviation from average which is 5'9. I claimed it's normal to want a man taller than you. To want the only top 10% of male height is just a fetish that is rooted on pedophilia and daddy issues. The average woman is 5'5. You are average. The section you shop has more to do with weight than height. Also a fetish doesn't require something to be abnormal, many men have a fetish for asian women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 07:51 PM
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You're not a small woman, you're average. Wanting a 6+ man is just your fetish, so be it. I'm just saying it's bullshit, but live your life as you damn well please. P.s. Nobody chooses to be short, but some women choose to be overweight single mothers. It was their decision, they may be subjected to criticism for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 07:41 PM
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Funny. Try being a guy and say you're not attracted to overweight single mothers, see what happens. Reddit will have a meltdown. I get being attracted to a man taller than you, it makes sense. What I don't get is the arbitrary 6ft minimum. It's not enough to be taller than most women, you need to be taller than most men. Most women would reject a guy that is taller than her for being too short. That makes absolutely no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 06:57 PM
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Just ask any woman what is their preferred physical attribute. Heigth is always #1 Are shorter guys automatically excluded as a potential partner? Not for the majority of women. The problem is that guys under 6ft need to compensate by being extremely attractive or wealthy. Guys over 6ft are attractive to women by default. I never said a woman would never settle for a guy under 6ft but that what it is, settling. Being super tall is such a stupid deal breaker that doesn't even make sense. "But I n…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 06:46 PM
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The men in this sub are the ones obsessed with height The men in this sub aren't rejecting women over heigth. There is literally thousands of histories where 5'4 women reject 5'8 men for being too short. Men don't give a shit about height.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 06:34 PM
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Over 6ft Ffs, everytime. When will women stop obsessing over 6ft?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 06:13 PM
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It does seem to be real. Why do you think it's fake?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 11:26 AM
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He was assexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:57 AM
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People can also go their whole lives without listening to music, seeing the sky, hugging loved ones, touching the grass, having a puppy lick their face, enjoying art, being in love etc. All of those things are non-essential. I could survive without those, but I want to live. A life without those things is not worth being lived, neither is a miserable sexless life of constant rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:17 AM
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OP is a gorgeous 23 year old living in a big city. Honestly, she is so out of touch with reality! You don't know how shitty life can be op, sorry. It's like seeing an elf from Rivendel saying life there isn't that great to someone living at Mordor. You think sex isn't a big deal because you're not a dysfunctional virgin adult. Classic lack of empathy. Go enjoy your perfect life, we don't need your mockery.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:12 AM
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Why are women like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:07 AM
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You clearly have never lived being sexually rejected by everyone. This comment show how you're incapable of empathy. I guess if you were a 27 year old virgin like me you would see how hurtful to be called pathetic is. You had men chasing and drooling over you since you were a teenager, of course you think is pathetic to seek female attraction. You are entitled and incapable of seeing life as anything other than your perfect sex filled paradise that is living as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:03 AM
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There is no way men can be vulnerable around each other, specially not around women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:00 AM
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The problem is, you're trying to argue that a rocking chair isn't a big of a deal for people that have to sleep in a cold mud puddle.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 09:56 AM
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I have plenty of money and honestly, I would give it all up for a woman to have sex with me willingly. Money is useless if you live a sexless life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 09:53 AM
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I was very religious myself once. Met those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 09:39 AM
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she can't refuse sex Bullshit Its all fun and games until she refuses to even kiss you until marriage and has sex with you once in your honeymoon and once to have a kid. Religious women are frigid and usually think sex is disgusting. Most of them just lay still on their wedding night waiting for it to be over. I would rather pick a post wall cc woman over that anytime.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 08:05 PM
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I think most men would love to have a wife that is open minded and sex positive. The problem is the promiscuity that usually comes with it. If a woman does certain things in the bedroom you're gonna wonder if she had a hoe phase getting gangbang by three dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 09:56 PM
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Maybe we should move to Sweden or something, I've read that gender roles are way less strict there. I guess it will help if you make sure your boyfriend feels manly, reassuring him. Maybe let him be dominant in small things, making sure he doesn't feel emasculated. I know it's silly but it's those small silly things that make a difference in the end. I guess it doesn't matter if people talk shit about you if your wife has your back emotionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 04:59 PM
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and how unaffected your ego is by this role reversal The problem is not just the ego, is how society mocks sahd. Unfortunately there would be lots of comments about not being a "real man". And how your wife is going to leave you for one. Taking care of a home is hard work, but a man doing that job would be seen as weak, lazy and not a "real man". I wish I could not care about what people say but deep down we all care. Society thinks women in high paying jobs are awesome but not men assuming trad…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 04:17 PM
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For the same reason women are upset that being sexy is considered an attractive feature. Because you wonder, when the money gets short, will she leave me?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 04:02 PM
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Seems like a dream life to me. Why work to make a rich old business owner even richer if I can work into building and taking care of a family that loves me? Sadly most women don't want a sahd, they all want a provider. Not even mentioning how society mocks and emasculates sahd.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 03:57 PM
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If I could find a wife that was pretty and rich, I would be a house husband on a heartbeat. Wouldn't even think twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 03:16 PM
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50/50 is fair. I think what op meant is, if a woman demand a traditionally masculine gender role for her partner she should be willing to also fit in her traditional gender role. Lots of women want tall, muscular, assertive rich men but they don't want to be meek, submissive housewives themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 01:02 AM
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You would never date a poorer, uglier less successful man. So you're scenario isn't valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 12:02 AM
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You forgot that hypergamy exists. Even if there is a ratio of 1.5 to 1, in a pool of 25 people, the 15 women would be willing to date only 2 of the 10 men available.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 12:00 AM
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I think is different than saying "I'm nice". Unless of course she says I don't do this and ends up doing, then I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 04:39 PM
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Maybe because she had bad experiences with guys pushing for sex and now she is happy one doesn't do that. Maybe she feels like she need to make clear sex isn't going to happen right away to check if you're compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 04:28 PM
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Or maybe, she just don't want to sleep right away. How is she supposed to find guys like her while also fucking every date? Doesn't make much sense to me. Not everyone is a con artist trying to trick people into relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 04:05 PM
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I love FDS hypocrisy. "Vaginas are meant for women's pleasure, our bodies are not sex toys for men to masturbate with" "The only purpose of a penis is to pleasure the woman, if one can't then it's useless and disgusting" They complain so much about selfish partners but they can even comprehend that a relationship is more than seeking your own pleasure and happiness. I don't think they understand the concept of reciprocity and mutual happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 03:54 PM
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I'm on the same boat, my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 12:23 PM
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Is 27 too late? This post just made me really anxious. I'm turning 27 this year, am I beyond help? Fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 10:26 AM
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Thank you for the motivational speech man. Fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 10:24 AM
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But they seek and express that in different ways. The endgame might be similar but it's like two different languages.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 04:39 PM
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I think both sides are extremely narcissistic and frustrated that the opposite gender isn't what they want them to be. That's why they're angrily posting on reddit about how the other gender sucks so much. Whenever they get hate is either "scrotes mad" or "roasties mad". This fuel them to post even more hate towards one another. The reality is that most people are not this bitter and perfectly able to find a relationships without obsessing over "small dick lvms" or "cheating gold diggers". Imagi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 02:10 PM
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Men and women want different things. This is why we can't empathize with each other most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 01:42 PM
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Fair enough. Men's value is their status and women's value is their looks. It's kinda fucked up, but that's how society seems to operate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 11:50 AM
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You know there is a difference between most and all, right? We can't use celebrities to analyze the behavior of all men. Also I can give several examples of famous rich men who date regular woman. Kate Middleton for example. But I'll agree that most celebrities date among themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 09:23 AM
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Is a joke with the Unabomber quote about how industrial revolution ruined society, in this case, social media ruined women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 05:15 PM
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Social media and it's consequences have been a disaster for the women race.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 03:23 PM
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She could've said: I'm flattered, but I just don't see you like that. The laugh and "fuck no" were just needlessly rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 01:13 PM
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The ideal woman for most men is the "girl next door". Not some millionaire supermodel that speaks 4 languages. Men, unlike women, can be perfectly happy with a regular woman that isn't "top tier".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 11:58 AM
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It doesn't matter what they say. It isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 11:34 AM
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Of course it's wrong. I never argued it wasn't. I'm just saying that liars are a fact of life, we need to protect ourselves by being less naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 11:11 AM
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Bad people lie to fulfill their own selfish desires. That's life. We can't do anything about them we just need to protect ourselves. Some people just like to play games. If they weren't hot and tall, why did you give them head them? Specially if they didn't reciprocate. It seems like you may be struggling with low self esteem. No selfish person is worth your time, hot or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 11:08 AM
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A good strategy is to wait for sex. Wait as much as you think is necessary to make sure he is good. Also, avoid popular guys who have tons of options. A Chad wont stick around for months if you don't give them what they want. A good guy is actually interested in you, so he won't mind waiting. Women choose to give all the sex in the world to the top 20% of men on demand and keep wondering why they keep getting lied to. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 11:00 AM
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He lied. You ignored the red flags because he was attractive. But you kept going after men like him and now you're saying it's my fault for being sexless when you're the one who gave sex on demand to the absolute worst possible men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 10:56 AM
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Men who have lots of options and women flocking to them usually won't be very concerned if every single on of them is satisfied. Is not just about being attractive but also being arrogant and entitled. Attractive people usually don't feel the need to reciprocate because they're think they're are a gift to the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 10:50 AM
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Was he lying though? Or you just did not the see the red flags because he was tall and hot? You have to understand that Chads don't really care about you at all. They will lie if it means getting head on demand. You were there, ready to please and asking nothing in return. There is a very simple solution for you: Stop dating Chads and giving them head on demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 10:45 AM
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I pick them bc they charm me Yes, you picked them. Because they're tall and hot. Guess what, those guys have lots of options. That was my point in the first comment. Why would he put any effort into you if he can just text another woman and get his dick sucked that same night? Those are the guys getting all the sex, and the rest of us at the bottom don't get shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 10:28 AM
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Well you're the one who keep picking this kind of men. And you kept picking them over and over 🤷‍♂️ Those are the top 20%, Chads are the ones recreationally moving through women. And you kept chosing them and giving them head on demand. How is that my fault? If I ever have the chance of being intimate with a woman I would definitely make sure she is happy and satisfied. But I'm not hot or tall, so women are too busy giving head for hot tall men who won't go down on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 10:24 AM
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Their options are girls who will please them without asking for anything in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 10:19 AM
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Because you're one of those options. And you gave head without asking for anything in return. The kind of low effort high reward situation Chads love. Worst case scenario you break it up with them, they still have 3 or 4 other girls on the side so it doesn't matter much.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 10:17 AM
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If you consider natural selection, it makes perfect sense for male orgasms to be easier an more common. Males who have problems achieving less frequent orgasms generated less offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 09:58 AM
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You're probably only dating super attractive men who think they're making you a favor by letting you suck them off. They do that because they have a lot of options, so you're not really worth the effort for them. No average man would let a woman go unsatisfied, since they don't get that chance very often, they need to make a good impression.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 09:53 AM
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Lol. They want only the top 20% but they forget Chads have lots of options. It's the equivalent of a guy that wants a virgin who fucks like a pornstar.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 09:58 PM
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The one linked in the post about the podcast about penis size https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/in5dh7/im_declaring_our_right_as_women_to_have_specific/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf Just read the disgusting body shaming comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 08:25 PM
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There aren't as many women asking men out since we don't live in a equal society and gender roles exist. Most women don't ask men out. Being asked out as a man only happens if you're good looking. A d my standards are not that high for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 08:23 PM
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This would make sense in a equal society. But today men are the ones expected to take the initiative to ask out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 06:53 PM
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Also. Have you checked the latest post on your beloved FDS sub? Nice body shaming going on there. How is that sub not banned because of hate yet? Here is a dating advice: Don't body shame the gender you're trying to date. If you keep saying men with perfectly normal average penises are useless and you need 8inches don't be surprised if no good man wants to plan a nice date for you. How would you feel if a man said your body is disgusting and trash? Not very nice is it? The problem with FDS users…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 06:43 PM
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Why should she interrupt her life as a single woman for a man that looks at taking effort on planning a good date as a chore? Why should I interrupt my life as a single man for a woman that looks at taking effort on planning a good date as a chore? All you premises are based on her time being more valuable than mine and her presence being a privilege for me. I don't wanna date someone who thinks I'm beneath her, I want to date an equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 06:24 PM
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she still has to block off time out of her day to meet you wherever she has to meet you. So have I. I'm also prioritizing time with a stranger. Is her time more valuable than mine? I'm just asking for her to meet me halfway, is that too much to ask? Also, why is it my job to plan a"real date" and romance her?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 05:51 PM
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The fact that you aren’t willing to compromise with a face time date, when it doesn’t cost you any money shows that you aren’t really interested in getting to know the person. Screens don't work for me, I need to meet in person. I REALLY don’t like this rhetoric of a person saying they have to show they deserve to be treated to the bare minimum first date effort. A coffee date is the minimum date effort. Not a fancy meal on a expensive restaurant. I would agree on a fancy diner for a second date…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 05:28 PM
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You can't connect with someone through a screen. I think is very reasonable to half ass a first date, at least until she shows she deserves my effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 03:05 PM
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Yes definitely. I would be extra careful to not get her pregnant though. But I would definitely be willing to beta bux and babysit her kid. Women underestimate how desperate some men are to experience what sex and intimacy feels like. I would totally be willing to get in a abusive relationship with a mean cheating woman if that meant getting sex daily. But I would get in this relationship with a exit plan ready to go. I don't think I would be able to take that kind of abuse for more than a year …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 12:42 PM
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My bet is that men who are single in their 30s have been single in their 20s too, so they just don't care anymore. Women in their 30s may see a decrease in their attractiveness so they might think that " the clock is running out". Women in their 30s may appear to be more desperate because they are not able to attract as many guys as they did before. Men see a constant rejection or slight increase so they don't express their wishes for marriage although they want to settle down as much as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 11:59 PM
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I'm too socially inept to ask any woman out, but theoretically yes, I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 09:54 AM
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Definitely. I would agree with a one night stand or a FWBs situation too, but ideally a LTR would be best.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 12:02 AM
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Nothing really. I believe my strongest qualities would be more interesting for ltrs. I can guarantee good sex, if I have time to learn which doesn't exist in a pump and dump situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 11:19 PM
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I blame my parents for giving me crap short genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 08:35 PM
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I hope so. The part about banging like bunnies filled me with a deep feeling of sadness and loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 07:09 PM
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Ok, I understand you now. This just hasn't been my experience so far. Women do seem interested in only the top 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 06:41 PM
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I’ve never seen a woman turn down a guy just because he wasn’t 6’. You literally just said your standard is 6'1 - 6'4.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 06:29 PM
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Expecting women to consistently maintain a BMI of 18 is pretty unrealistic More unrealistic than growing 7 inches ? I don't think so. And like a said, no man would turn down a date because her BMI is 22 rather than 18. But many women will turn down a guy that isn't at least 6ft. Women are much more obsessed with this ideal heigth than men with weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 06:18 PM
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I personally don't think a BMI of 18 is ideal but whatever. Anyone can have a BMI of 18. How am I supposed to grow 7 inches? How are women's standards not much more unrealistic than men? Do you honestly don't see how ridiculously unrealistic 6'3 is?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 06:06 PM
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Most men have an ideal BMI between 18 and 24, which is the healthy standard. Your IDEAL height is so unrealistic only 20% of can fit in it. More than 70% of women have a BMI between 18 and 24.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 05:58 PM
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You just said in your other comment, that men fetishize heigth more than women. Also, read my edit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 05:50 PM
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6' Lol everytime "Heigh and race are not that important it just happens than my bf is a 6ft white dude." Nobody argue that it just gets better the taller you are but also it gets worse the shorter you are. According to your bell curve, my 5'8 ass wouldn't be even in the standard deviation. Why is your bell curve unrealistically shifted to the top 20% of male height? Don't you see a problem with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 05:44 PM
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Not true. There is a research that showed women want taller men more than men want shorter women. Women desire a height difference much higher than the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 05:43 PM
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That's a possibility. It does make sense since most of them are dating tall good looking men. "Your height isn't what's holding you back from finding someone, most women don't care, it just happens that my boyfriend and all of my exes are taller than 6ft."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 05:37 PM
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Wouldn't you agree that is kinda odd? Two groups that are so different from one another interacting on a sub that discusses ideas like hypergamy and inceldom. I don't know I would've been here if I had a functional dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 05:19 PM
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Well, considering my brief interactions with them here, they seem to be happy. At least happier than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 05:12 PM
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It seems like this sub consists of lonely dysfunctional men and women in happy relationships. This is such a weird combination. What could be the reason for that? Why would functional women in happy relationships even post and comment here?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 05:02 PM
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If he is below average, I'm below zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 02:22 PM
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I almost spit out my drink. Dude looks like this and has the audacity to complain about dating. I'm happy that he finally got some action but he was delusional to think he wasn't top 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 01:49 PM
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Not having a giant penis = lacking in the penis department. This is the kind of bullshit I'm talking about. Men's bodies are judged according to what women can get through them. I'm perfectly average (above average in circumference even) thank you very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 11:58 AM
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Honest question, why are you here? This sub doesn't seem like the place happily married people would go.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 11:00 AM
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Funny how most women here omit they want a guy who is at least 6ft with a 7inch penis. We all now that is the physical attraction basic criteria for them. Why aren't they honest about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 10:34 AM
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I disagree. There are people who are naturally extroverted, regardless of how attractive is the person they're talking to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 12:23 AM
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" The audacity of scrotes" Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 12:38 PM
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I think it says more about my character the fact I refuse to invest too much in someone I haven't met in person yet. Ok, not drinks but coffee them. Or any other low pressure date. If you want a quality man, you shouldn't get those who put a tremendous amount of effort into women they haven't met yet. They're trying to impress women with flashy things. I would totally pay for an expensive date, but I have to connect with the woman first. You can't connect or check the chemistry through texting. …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 11:46 AM
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Yes the purpose is to date people I'm attracted to, but I think it should evolve to something serious. That is the purpose of dating to me. I think it should go like this. First date: low effort low pressure. The objective here is to stablish that there is minimum chemistry between us. And vet people with bad personality traits. Second date: something more elaborate like a diner date, oncert etc. Now the objective is to put effort into romance because now you know what the she is like. Ideally t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 11:27 AM
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Yes, I would totally put effort into planing a nice second date. But for that to happen I first need to be sure she is a pleasant person that I can connect with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 11:22 AM
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I just don't understand the logic. Why would a guy pay for dinner in the first date? Isn't the purpose of dating to vet bad people (gold diggers for example) ? How is a guy supposed to vet gold diggers but at the same time, pay for expensive first dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 10:50 AM
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What the hell is the problem with getting drinks? When my friends are in town we get drinks together, is a great bonding activity. Why would a pay 100$ to have a nice meal with someone I don't even know yet? Edit: FDS brigade is down voting me for refusing to invest heavily in someone I haven't met in person yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 10:29 AM
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If you don't even call the cops, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 10:24 AM
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It wasn't in america. Brazilian law is weird so that's why it happened. Here is a legal analysis of the situation. I'm sorry but it is in portuguese. If you watch a woman getting beaten by her husband and you don't act on it, you can be prosecuted. I was wrong, the guy didn't call the cops, my bad. Still is a fucked up situation though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 03:15 PM
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I remember I read a news story about a guy who was eating lunch when another guy started beating the shit of a woman right in front of him. He called the cops and continued to eat his lunch, watching the scene as the woman begged him to help her. The cops arrived am broke up the fight. The woman later sued the guy for not helping. An I think he was convicted. That's why I believe men's lives are considered expendable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 10:33 AM
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Honestly, if a woman is evil and crazy enough to abort a baby because it's a he, then she should. No kid deserves to be brought to existence just to be raised by such a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 11:28 PM
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Paternity tests should be mandatory at birth. It would prevent this kind of thing without the stigma of having to ask for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 10:31 PM
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I think that any guy that takes dating advice from his mother is already doomed to failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 03:20 PM
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I'm not saying you're wrong. But you're clearly over estimating how much a celebrity would be interested in your girl. If you don't live in a big city the chances of that happening are already minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 03:13 PM
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There's a viral story of a girl cheating on her guy who she was with for 8 years with Drake. Good riddance, it seems to me she is a garbage person and would eventually cheat anyways regardless if it was a celebrity or not. I'm not saying this is a fucked up situation, but, how common it actually is? Are you really concerned that Ben Affleck will steal you girl? She is a thot, he wanted to pump and dump. I don't think it affects my life in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 02:52 PM
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I mean, I'm not interested in hollywood stars, so I don't envy her at all. But I get it. It's really painful when you see the girl next door with an Chad. Because it really reminds you how awful hypergamy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 02:43 PM
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I've lived my life doing the exact opposite. Always assuming that there isn't attraction or consent. Maybe that's what I've been doing wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 02:24 PM
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Now, with covid going on, I would say rarely. But, in the normal life, I would say at least twice a week for the average woman. Everyday if you're above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 02:21 PM
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Our society don't value genuine niceness enough, regardless of your gender. People are selfish and nice people eventually get walked over. Blame culture, capitalism, whatever you want. People today are dopamine junkies seeking their own interests above all. That sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 01:13 PM
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It's just me who don't see what's the big deal with this chick? Those pumped up lips are such a turnoff. She looks like a cgi character with all that plastic surgery. Not just that but IG influencers have the personality of a tiktok ad. I'm sorry but I can't agree that she is top tier.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 12:44 PM
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so under your theory then no men under 6 feet with bad bone structure would ever be married, be in a relationship, or have sex? He could get all of those. What he could never get is being loved by a woman that is truly attracted to him. Women are not all gold diggers, I never said that. But he will never be truly desired, a woman might eventually settle for him, but she will dump him if a better, taller guy is available. Men over 6 feet with good bone structure make up a very small percentage of…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 04:02 PM
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It is easy for you to joke about struggles that you never had to live through .Women's average is 5'5 where I live. Those women who like short men are the exception, not the rule. Either that or they won't mind the height of the guy is attractive. In fact, most <5’5 women I have seen go for men who are around 5’8 because they find too much height discrepancy uncomfortable. Bs, I've seen women that are 5ft dreaming about 6'5 guys. here
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 03:26 PM
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You will see many women attracted to short guys That is simply not true. I'm assuming you're tall, you have no idea what's like.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 02:51 PM
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I doubt very much that a woman can be attracted to an conventionally unnatractive guy. All women talk about is height. Guys under 6ft have a disadvantage by default. If a guy is shorter than 6ft with bad facial bone structure chances are not a single woman will find him attractive enough for sex. Maybe some women will settle for him for validation and financial fulfillment, but attraction definitely won't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 02:48 PM
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I've spent time in the real world, but, as an ugly guy, my experience is very different from yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 01:41 PM
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Marine dudes were 5'6 and buff as heck, they got women for days trust me on that. Of course, they're buff marines. I'm not saying women all like the same men. They like all types of men as long as they're attractive. Some like guys with accents, some football players, some like artsy guys No woman will like a guy because just because he is artsy. Trust me, my drawings an paintings have not helped me get laid at all. Women like those examples that you gave if the guy is attractive. Otherwise it w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 01:39 PM
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Most men would pick both, the 10 and the 2. Most women would pick only the 10. The difference is that sometimes what a 10 is a women's book is not a man that is 6'0 with perfect bone structure. But there are women looking to date you you just need to find them Being 5'8 myself I see what the world is really like and that is bullshit. Men's standards are reasonable and feasible. Most men just want an average woman that isn't obese. Yet those women want a 6'2 Adonis. The whole point of this thread…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 12:26 PM
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I never said I want to convince women to lower their standards. I know that is not feasible or fair to ask. You said men are the ones to blame: But you have to realize on this page, that men never want to accept that the issue with women not wanting to have casual sex with them could actually be anything that they could change or actually about them. I disagree. Women are the ones who have impossible standards. I can't change my height. I don't want a woman to settle for me.I want to point out t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 12:05 PM
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You know height and bone structure are beyond control right? Those are the major things that make a guy hot. You keep blaming men for women's ridiculously high standards, but you wouldn't date a guy shorter that 5'9.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 11:18 AM
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You kidding me right? Airbags won't stop other people from getting hurt but not speeding will. That was my point. You're the one who seems mentally impaired. Just because you're safe it doesn't mean you're not harming others.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 10:25 PM
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Are you afraid of the microchips in them too?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 10:12 PM
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Rules are made to be broken by Chad. That is the sad reality. When a woman says she won't do something it means you're not hot enough to be allowed to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 10:03 PM
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Aren't airbags enough? Why stop speeding then?🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 09:44 PM
2

But how can you guarantee that you will never get it and pass it on?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 09:09 PM
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It's not just for you. If the virus mutates, vaccines might not work anymore. Everybody needs to take the vaccine not just those who are vulnerable to the disease.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 08:59 PM
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My country doesn't have enough shots for everybody and I'll probably only get mine after December. Of you don't want yours, mail it to me, I'll be more than happy to take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 08:52 PM
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Antivaxx people piss me off so much. My elderly father got his first dose last week. Mine won't be available until December. Meanwhile people in developed countries are refusing to get vaccinated. How can people be so dumb?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 08:51 PM
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r/woosh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 04:40 PM
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I like Magic Johnson, I don't know how tall he is tho. Brian Johnson would be a close second but he was way shorter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 04:38 PM
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I would. Although it hurts when people leave it beats never having physical affection. I'm 27. There is a reason why there is saying "I'd rather be alone than with people who make me feel I'm alone" People who say that, have never been truly alone for a long time. Either that or they voluntarily chose to be alone, it wasn't imposed on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 03:42 PM
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I honestly doubt it feel the same honestly. Feeling used must suck, don't get me wrong. But did you ever forget how hugging someone and smelling their hair feels like? Forgetting what physical affection feels like sucks, I would take being used over that any time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 03:33 PM
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Fair enough, I can't say how it feels because I've never been there. I know how zero sex and lots of rejection feels like though and I doubt any thing is worse than this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 03:21 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 03:19 PM
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Well, does it mean nothing though? Aren't you underestimating the effect that a positive sexual feedback can have on one's self esteem? Do you really think your life would be the same if you never heard a man say you're gorgeous and he would love to have sex with you? Even if you're not interested in casual sex, being attractive is something we all want.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 03:07 PM
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If a portion of what you want is just sex - why don't you go buy a prostitute for a night? Because I'm terrified of doing it. I never even kissed a woman, meeting an escort would be too nerve-wrecking for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 03:01 PM
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if what i want is commitment, wtf is the value of casual sex to me? It is at least a confirmation that the opposite sex finds you attractive. I'm sure it must suck having men objectifying you, but is it worse than if you spent your whole life without hearing from a man that he thinks you're attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 02:59 PM
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I want both a relationship and sex. I know I can't get both, and it pisses me off that women complain they can only get one. Not because women have to like casual sex, but because , as the op on the post said, they argue that both genders have it equally bad. Having the possibility of casual sex is way better than having nothing. Let's say I get a shitty gifts for my birthdays. Would it be fair for me to say I have equally bad as someone who never gets birthday gifts at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 02:45 PM
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Ok, but wouldn't you agree that there is a difference between choosing not to date and trying to date but receiving radio silence? I'm not saying women have to like casual sex. But having casual sex available to you is infinitely better than having nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 02:40 PM
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How can you feel unwanted if you can get sex on demand? There is literally a line of men wanting that woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 02:36 PM
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I would rather the scenario in wich I could feel the touch of a woman, at least for a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 12:08 PM
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No. When a ship is sinking, it's women and children first, not just young women first.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 10:53 AM
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We're also disposable. The moment you're not physically stronger or asertive you're thrown in the trash like garbage. Only women are considered Intrinsically valuable
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 10:45 AM
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What are de advantages of men? Really, I've been a man my whole life and I don't see what's so great about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 10:29 AM
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Honestly. For me is very hard, almost impossible to feel compassion for this woman. She is literally complaining about having sex with several men in a short spam of time. I would ask this for women though. Would rather be in the situation of that post or mine( dateless for 5 years and sexless my whole life). If you chose the post, why? To claim this women doesn't have a easier dating life than most men is nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 10:27 AM
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Are you virgin due to some beliefs or just can't find a woman? I'm very ugly so I haven't found a woman willing to have sex with me yet. I'm also shy and socially awkward. Yes an ugly woman can have sex easily but not an ugly man. I'm a virgin with high libido, I just want to find someone like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 09:27 PM
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That's the spirit. I must say that I envy him very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 09:03 PM
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Not really the question is more to know if looking for an escort in a time of need would be seen as a deal breaker. Like how some men wouldn't date a woman if she had one night stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 08:36 PM
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I had one-itis for about seven years. My life is a lot better now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 06:00 PM
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Yeah, I guess it's better just to lie about it. Being with a confident and experienced man is the end goal for women. They don't bother to know how the sausage is made.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 04:21 PM
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One gets nervous around women for the lack of exposure to them. Sex may help, but not sex alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 04:06 PM
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I don't think there is a sex worker that would be ok to not use a condom. They usually demand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 04:05 PM
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Condoms do exist, you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 04:02 PM
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And how is one supposed to fix that if not through therapy and experience (even paid ones)?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 04:02 PM
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I view it like this: I don't know how to dance and I'm to shy to ask women to dance with me. Then I pay a dance teacher for private lessons to get better at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 04:00 PM
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A dinner + drinks + concert date can easily be 300 bucks. If the guy has the money and is happy spending it, I don't see why not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 03:48 PM
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Sleeping with a woman after spending 300 bucks on her: fine Sleeping with the same woman then paying her 300 bucks : wrong It's very ironic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 03:27 PM
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A hooker is a "girlfriend that left you because she was only interested in money". That's technically true lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 03:00 PM
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I value honesty, don't really like the idea of lying by omission. If she asked how was my first time, I would like to answer truthfully. But it depends on how most women would react to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 02:23 PM
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Thanks man. Sending positive thoughts your way too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 02:15 PM
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There is a difference between liking your partner body and liking body parts for the sake of it. Would you hate if his dick was smaller than 6 inches though? Would you leave him because of it? Probably not. Neither would I leave a woman because she has A cups. That is what I meant with good women. Good people are not looking for body parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 02:09 PM
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How is he supposed to do that after an certain age? Also, I don’t really mind inexperience. All women say that until they see what an actual 27 year old virgin is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 01:45 PM
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My plan is not just the sex. I would pay to practice dates, flirting, kissing etc with her. The idea is to be comfortable around a woman. The sex is a part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 01:44 PM
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What is the guy supposed to do then? You want an experienced guy, but he can't be a player. You can't have your cake and eat it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 01:43 PM
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It's hard, you know? There are a lot of expectations put on men. What would you do in my place? I can't get dates because I have no experience. I have no experience because I can't get any dates. Is a viscous cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 01:40 PM
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It's not about having lots of casual sex. Like I said it was for the first experience. Men need to have experience in order to gain confidence. There aren't many women willing to date awkward virgin men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 01:37 PM
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Why would he regret it? Women don't want virgin men past a certain age, it's not like he has other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 01:35 PM
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Yes. But is way harder for rich people go broke than good looking people get rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 12:55 PM
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Women, how would you feel about dating a guy who have met an escort in the past? Let's say he met one to have his first sexual experience and gain confidence. Would you be bothered by that? Is there any difference between an ugly guy meeting an escort and a ugly woman having a one night stand to seek sexual release?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 12:50 PM
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Not just that, but beauty fades, money increases. If you're pretty you get to enjoy it only on your youth. If you're rich you're going to enjoy it your whole life, and so will your kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 12:29 PM
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Careful, FDS users are going to call you a pickmeisha for saying a man with a penis smaller than 6 inches isn't a useless scrote. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 12:26 PM
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Well I hope you find someone to share that experience with. I'm 27. Each day that passes the probability of that happening gets smaller. I have a backup plan to meet an escort before I become a 30 year old virgin though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 11:50 AM
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Good question. I'm still working on myself so I don't expect to attract a woman of such high quality yet. I'm 27 and when I'm 30 I'm planning on being able to offer: Financial stability (I'm working on my masters and hopefully a MBA after I find a job). Sexual satisfaction: I have no sexual experience, but I read and watch videos about how to please a woman. I know it's not enough but hopefully if she is patient I can learn how to be good in bed. I'm open to try anything. Companionship and intel…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 11:47 AM
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I wank 3 times a day. I'm very attracted to women and I'm constantly horny. I know I have high libido. I'm not willingly waiting for marriage. I'm just very ugly so no woman wanted to have sex with me yet. I wouldn't mind an experienced non virgin, but I would like to share my first time with someone, it would be nice. Also, non virgin women don't like virgin men so I think my chances are better with a virgin. Also, about the odds. I know couples who waited for marriage and have no problems in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 11:21 AM
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Good women don't like dicks bigger than 6 inches. The ones who do are mentally unstable and promiscuous. It's like saying men like big tits. The ones who care too much about it usually are not good people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 10:30 AM
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Pickme : someone who doesn't have a combative attitude 100% of the time. If she is going to treat the relationship like a power struggle? I don't want to be with her. I don't want an obedient submissive woman either. Just someone who doesn't think she has to compete with me every second to see who is in charge. It's very tiresome. Mommy: someone who is carrying and emotionally supportive. Like all partners should be. If she plays mommy, I'll play daddy and have each other's back. Bangmaid: about…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 10:28 AM
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Why is it hating big dicks a bad thing? You talk like women have the moral obligation of being size queens. Size queens usually are mentally unstable so it's good to stay away from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 10:16 AM
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This. I would rather date a girl with high libido who had two boyfriends in her life and fucked them constantly than one that saved herself for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 10:13 AM
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If you're truly a happy man, you wouldn't waste your time thinking about the demise of women you never dated.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 09:33 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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