AliasSomerset Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
71	My First Solo Night Out and What I Took From It.	AliasSomerset	/r/seduction	05/10/15 05:27 AM
19	Results Don't Matter, Surprising Yourself Does.	AliasSomerset	/r/seduction	24/03/16 11:52 PM
0	A Word of Tanks	AliasSomerset	/r/seduction	14/12/16 10:38 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
13	How do you determine if a "touchy girl" is just being herself or is flirting with you? Return the favor and flirt back. See how they react and take it from there.	/r/seduction	26/11/17 08:53 PM
1	Seddit, I need advice & examples for the beginning of conversations, first few minutes for when first meeting girls. I feel like I'm better at talking about deeper topics and stuff but I seem to struggle getting a spark in the beginning to get them really attracted to me and wanna talk again. There's no reason any of these interactions need to be boring. It sounds like you're just starting basic conversations and not showing much interest, which is an easy way to go nowhere. With these conversations, the best thing you can do is show interest. Ask her about her major, try and pull out what she enjoys in life and get her talking about her passions and steering the conversation from there. Then, ask her if she'd like to go out sometime.	/r/seduction	14/12/16 03:49 PM
1	How to Just Not Care? It's not about not caring per se, in the sense of being apathetic. But not being so worried about results, many times which are out of your control. Incompatibility just gets in the way sometimes. If things go wrong based on problems on your end, focus on changing those, but do not get worked up on things that you really have no control over.	/r/seduction	01/06/16 04:48 AM
1	How many of you stopped smoking weed, and how did it improve your game if at all? I agree with what was said about the lack of discipline. It affects everyone differently. I for one, was really helped in becoming more self aware when I tried smoking a few years ago. I can be social when I smoke and I don't really have bouts of paranoia. You need to look at yourself objectively, stop making excuses for yourself and make the changes you want to see in your life. It won't happen in a day, but if you gradually make these changes you will come out better for it.	/r/seduction	29/03/16 01:37 AM
1	Made the texting mistake While I agree that you should definitely be open to talking to new girls, I'd also say that you shouldn't get so hung up on her impression of you through texting. It could totally be in your head. What you should have done was ask her out when you got her number. Made your intentions clear if you didn't. If you like her, make sure you set up a date.	/r/seduction	25/03/16 12:01 AM
4	Where has this community gone from the beginning? I think, or I would hope, that a lot of the community browsing this sub would have learned, that gimmicks, tricks or set lines simply don't work in the long run. "Be the best most confident you." Is a really involved, constantly evolving process. You have to become really self aware and look at yourself objectively. Which can be really hard sometimes. So while yes, this community can offer, and I would welcome, psychological discussions on how to present the best you to attract friends and women…	/r/seduction	16/03/16 07:59 AM
4	Guys, BE CAREFUL. I think the biggest mistake was saying, "Why does that matter?" Like what was said about invalidating her position. She wasn't interested and there was little if anything you could do, and the reason she felt as threatened as she did has more to do with her own experiences, unfortunately, than with what you did. At the end of the day though, you're not going to get along with everyone. You'll be fine and don't worry about what other people say about you for approaching a cute girl at a gym. Oh, …	/r/seduction	14/03/16 05:41 PM
1	Freshman in College, Need Help Meeting Girls You got her number but don't know her well enough to hang out alone? That doesn't make sense. I'd say push yourself to be more social. The more people you talk to and friends you make, the more social gatherings you'll go to and the more opportunities to find girls there will be. Don't just focus on just attracting women, and if you get someone's number, there's nothing wrong with meeting up with her or asking her out.	/r/seduction	13/02/16 08:57 PM
2	Every girl I've asked out or was into was already dating someone No problem. And don't let it get you down. Just like anything it's something that you'll develop with time and effort. I know it can be frustrating and it can feel like you're spinning your wheels and not getting anywhere. What's the alternative? Give up and become a priest? You'll be just fine as long as you're reinventing yourself and learning to enjoy you. People will respond to that and things will work out. Trust me.	/r/seduction	28/01/16 06:49 AM
3	Second text after no reply? I like it. It is, but there's a lot of elements we don't know. It also depends on your personality OP. Saying you're beautiful from a macho bro type can be off putting, true. If you're flirty, easygoing and generally joke around with her, it can work better. That's generally my personality. If you want to joke woth her and think shed be responsive, I'd follow that text with, "I'll take that as a maybe." If she doesn't seem like the type to respond to that I'd say just be straightforward and if s…	/r/seduction	27/01/16 08:32 AM
2	Every girl I've asked out or was into was already dating someone I think you're looking at this the wrong way. First, I'd say you should be totally stoked at the progress you've made so far! You've been self aware enough to see changes you needed to make, and focused on fixing yourself by improving fitness among other things. Now, you shouldn't see going after girls your interested in solely as a means for hooking up, getting a girlfriend etc. You'll be attracted to women all the time. Socialize, use this as a way to make new friends, whether they have a boyf…	/r/seduction	27/01/16 08:17 AM
1	How to beat the "competition"? Really, pay them no mind. If you like the girl, go after her. You shouldn't be occupying you time and thought processes with what other guys are doing. If you already hooked up with her, what's the problem? Treat her like she's the only person in the room when your with her, she's obviously already shown interest.	/r/seduction	27/01/16 08:04 AM
2	Second text after no reply? Don't get too hung up about it. If I were you I would have made plans when you met her if possible. Doesn't have to be concrete. Just something like "Coffee next week?" Or any enjoyable date like plan. But anywho, I would just be direct with her. I wouldn't say "Hey you must've missed it" or acknowledge the first message. That can come off as slightly whiney or needy. That's just me though. Flat out ask her out on a date. Hell, maybe even call her. Show confidence and dont beat around the bush. …	/r/seduction	27/01/16 07:57 AM
2	Really struggling with insecurities about girls sexual past/experience. This. It reminds me of a time when a friend asked me how many people I've been with after our first time together. We'd known each other for a few months and she guessed somewhere around twice the number it really was. I laughed and played along with it but eventually told her the truth. She was super surprised. At the end of the day your experience really doesn't matter. Being open, responsive and in tune with your partner's needs are what matter. You can have a lot of experiences, sexual and o…	/r/seduction	26/01/16 07:38 PM
3	Girls I'm not interested in romantically want me, but the girls I'm interested in don't. Help a brother out Love stinks, yeah yeah.	/r/seduction	09/10/15 02:44 AM
1	Should I tell her I'm a virgin? I agree with the above. You say you're confident and assertive in your interactions with her and have been having deep conversations. Being a virgin because you haven't really had the right time or girl or whatever is really not as big a deal as you're making it out to be. I'd be honest with her, unashamed and confident. She'll be thrilled that you chose her.	/r/seduction	08/10/15 03:43 PM
2	What do YOU say immediatelly after being rejected? Immediately thought of this. But I'd have to laugh if someone did this to me as well. Some people are so rude it's hilarious.	/r/seduction	06/10/15 12:49 PM
1	Wanted to ask out a girl, failed badly Well that's it I suppose. You should just quit. There's no hope. Of course not. Cheer up, bud. In my experience some of my worst social blunders became some of my funniest memories and stories. You went for it. A lot of people never do that. Be proud of that fact. Now, for what to work on. What made you so uncomfortable? Self doubt? Fears that she'll think you're a weirdo, you won't know what to say? You need to shut that part of your brain up. Think about how you've made friends in the past and…	/r/seduction	06/10/15 12:08 PM
3	My First Solo Night Out and What I Took From It. I agree with /u/Fudgeworth. Just force yourself to initiate in social situations. Also, don't just socialize with girls. Make it a point to talk to more people all over and the easier it becomes. Being social is a skill, not just a trait, like learning an instrument. Some people are Mozart and just born with it. That doesn't mean you can't improve.	/r/seduction	06/10/15 12:12 AM
1	My First Solo Night Out and What I Took From It. Haha well I found that 2 or 3 drinks were good enough to relax while still being able to drive home a few hours later.	/r/seduction	06/10/15 12:01 AM
6	My First Solo Night Out and What I Took From It. Exactly. I've read a lot about not being concerned about results and just going for it in this sub and I think it's great advice. My younger self (though I'm only 23) would have been way more hung up on busting my ass on the dance floor or being told to back off by the bachelorette party girl. It's a lot easier to shrug that stuff off now.	/r/seduction	05/10/15 01:43 PM
2	My First Solo Night Out and What I Took From It. No problem, I'm glad my story helped somebody. It's too easy to get nestled where we're comfortable so breaking away from that every so often is a good thing.	/r/seduction	05/10/15 01:37 PM
1	Seddit, I really need your help You're lucky that you were able to get back together after 6 months. Granted that was time well spent and I'm not saying you shouldn't have done what you did, but a lot of people are apprehentious about getting back together after breakups. Trust me, I understand your desires and the dilemma you're in, but all of the courtship and pursuing people is done to hope to find that special girl. You've succeeded. You've said she's perfect for you. Be happy! This is really just a grass is greener mental…	/r/seduction	05/10/15 12:33 PM
1	Speaking into your camera can tell you things about your game. Up voting works. Haha I appreciate it though. I've recorded music and voice over work before so it's something I've had to get over.	/r/seduction	05/10/15 04:34 AM
7	Speaking into your camera can tell you things about your game. Be more worried about what you say, not how your voice sounds. Haha you're so used to hearing your own voice with vibrations coming through your skull which alters the sound. A lot of people experience that, so no worries, you're in good company.	/r/seduction	03/10/15 02:26 PM
1	What make a woman unattractive? What turns you off? Do you set standards for the women you date/have sex with? Finding a driven girl to be with is a huge step towards becoming more mature. I've found myself being very picky as I've grown older (I'm only 23) in terms of the women I pursue. Even now, if a girl doesn't have a passion and it's difficult to find a lot of common ground in terms of conversation, I'm less likely to pursue them in any way. The biggest turn off for me however, is being controlling and/or insecure in a relationship. I'm not dating anyone right now, so it's purely hypothetical, but …	/r/seduction	26/09/15 08:49 PM