AliceA Archive

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1	If a girl w/boyfriend flirts with me, is it worth my time? There are a lot of people in this world who are looking for "the next one" and I've always stayed away from them. If they are complaining to me about their boyfriend/girlfriend they overstepped the boundaries of a workplace relationship in the first place and are likely looking for a soft landing of being with another person before they leap. They do it once they'll do it again and I don't need to be a stepping stone. I think if you move in you are only setting yourself up for failure.	/r/seduction	14/10/16 12:15 PM
0	The Fundamental Characteristics Of The Attractive Man – And The Only One That Matters (AKA I interviewed dozens of women, and here's what they said, and here's why it sucks) Five guys could use the same "line" and my reactions to each would be dependent upon a number of factors, including what mood I am in at the time. I might find one totally repulsive, two or three lame and phony and one might be totally charming. Having said that if I am in a "wrong for the moment mood" Mr. Charming could be fantastic and he'd appear to be really irritating. Twenty minutes later I could perceive him as Mr. Wonderful again...sorry for that! Now if Mr. Wonderful saw that I was non …	/r/seduction	16/05/16 02:30 PM
1	What does it mean if a girl says she has to date someone several times to develop feelings but is happy to keep having dates? Yeah she doesn't fancy to fall into bed with anyone she doesn't like and that takes a bit of knowing.	/r/seduction	04/07/15 05:15 PM
22	Some girls passing me by are looking at me and turn away when I look at them?? Whats it mean Probably means you are worth looking at but it got embarrassing to be caught!	/r/seduction	26/06/15 02:57 PM
1	Ex gf wants to hang out randomly, any ideas why? She is using you. Avoid at all costs.	/r/seduction	07/05/15 05:17 PM
1	Everyone (including me) find drunk me more fun, outgoing, charismatic, and awesome. How can I make drunk me into real me? Self hypnosis should do it and not have you become an alcoholic.	/r/seduction	04/05/15 03:17 PM
2	I am 5'5" short, bald, and at best have an average looking baby face. I get pushed out of promotional photos in bars and shit. I get told by some girls I approach that they want taller, prettier men. I do not know how to accept this. They are not attractive. At best 7/10 (with an occasional 8/10). So you are holding out for high paid models? Gees you really sound like you are not appreciating what you do have.	/r/seduction	10/03/15 02:10 PM
1	Does overconfident/self depreciating humor work with girls? I think this is the best, so yes!	/r/seduction	14/02/15 02:54 AM
2	[Question] Why is it that touching the back of my lady-friend's arm turns her on, hella? It is both intimate and caring and something you can do acceptably in public to show the world you love her.	/r/seduction	05/02/15 02:17 AM
1	So how do i know if a girl find me attractive or is 'checking me out'? Just assume both.	/r/seduction	02/10/14 01:18 PM
2	Going to court to fight for custody tomorrow. I urgently need some advice. As people yes, men also have it hard.	/r/MensRights	19/08/14 05:52 PM
2	Going to court to fight for custody tomorrow. I urgently need some advice. I have no advice for you other than to do what you can respect yourself for doing. AND do not expect ANY truth in a courtroom, let alone justice. Having said that sometimes the good guys win! Good luck to you.	/r/MensRights	19/08/14 02:21 PM
1	"Even when I'm myself around girls they still dont like me" Well this is part of life eh? You learn all the rules as children so you can learn which of those rules are significant in your life as an adult. By the way I really really really hate to hear belches...I vote you don't go that far!	/r/seduction	08/08/14 01:40 AM
4	I asked a girl to pay for herself on a first date. I didn't feel good about it, but felt I had to stand my ground. If she had any desires to see you when she comes back you probably blew it. Before you get angry I agree with you that she should have reimbursed you and even should have asked if you wanted something...but still the only thing to take away with her is that you are probably a tight wad.	/r/seduction	05/06/14 01:22 AM
0	I can't convince myself that it's ok to talk to strange women Think of women as people instead of women. They are not to be feared and are hit on many times a day so by you treating them kindly it will be a great change. Opening doors, talking about the weather, where you got your best bagel or anything will do. If they like sports talk that. Stop thinking EVERY girl you talk to you have to conquer. You do not and you will not. Take that pressure on you off the table. You are a man and both you and women are human beings and have far more in common than di…	/r/seduction	31/03/14 03:39 PM
1	How does escalating look like for more quiet, low-energy, intellectual guys? When it hits you this is what you are doing...just stop. Look at her and admit you got to excited about your conversation and some times that happens to you. She will hopefully think that is adorable.	/r/seduction	31/03/14 03:22 PM
0	Do you think smaller/shorter guys have to be more aggressive when approaching, or that they can get away with being more aggressive than most guys? I hate aggressive! Nothing will turn me away faster than someone who is "determined"!	/r/seduction	30/03/14 11:58 AM
0	How to deal with someone who is looking at their cell phone while talking to me? (applies to friends too) I'd tell them: "Please don't distract yourself from our conversation by using your phone. I only get a short amount of time with you and I really want to enjoy it be knowing you." When they ignore you the next time, get up and walk away. Drop them. If they don't make amends to you and change their habits, how much are you really missing? Of course you may need to enjoy being alone but at least you will not be irritated all the time.	/r/seduction	14/02/14 12:20 PM
0	I get a lot of girls who just straight up tell me I'm weird. Any ideas? Tell them that's part of your charm!	/r/seduction	09/02/14 01:17 AM
1	Tired of having to do crazy adrenaline provoking shit to meet women? Try starting casual conversations everywhere you go. No, really. Totally agree! With people of both sexes and all ages. Just get comfortable in your own skin.	/r/seduction	09/02/14 12:57 AM
2	Ever get that feeling during conversations that people don't really want to be talking to you? What you say is true as almost everyone wants to be understood and appreciated...on the other hand the more you inspire them to talk about themselves the more they will like you and be friendly to you and cheer your life up as well...odd how that works.	/r/seduction	31/01/14 03:25 PM
0	How to make the transition from talking on the couch to kissing You could always look at her and tell her you've been thinking about kissing her all night, may I?	/r/seduction	20/01/14 01:17 AM
1	Does a dude with a stutter have any chance at all? I think using terms as "pussy out" when you are talking to a group od women is more likely to be frowned upon. Why exactly is something thought of as feminine a negative? To answer your question there is almost nothing that is a deal breaker when it comes to attraction. If you are a good person and kind that will shine through and sooner or later the right person is going to see that and scoop you up!	/r/seduction	31/12/13 12:54 AM
1	Social life based completely on drinking. How to quit? I went through this. What I did was I quit. I left ALL my social life behind and sat at home wondering what do people who don't drink do? It was difficult BUT I had put myself through such pain coming to the decision that I NEVER relapsed and it has been many years and some real life trials where you'd think I'd go back to it but no, I never thought of it! Many people need different things but I just berated myself and hated it so much that when I walked away I was able to give up everything. Sl…	/r/seduction	27/12/13 04:20 PM
1	I'm feeling like a god, thank you seddit! Great feeling and you deserve it!	/r/seduction	23/12/13 04:51 AM
2	When I'm with a group of people, usually people that I don't know too well, I have a hard time contributing to the conversation and often end up saying nothing at all. I feel like a buzz kill, what should I do? Every sit down dinner I've been to there has been a broad conversation and many little side conversations. That was my thought to help participate as much as you can without being in the spotlight with the broader conversation.	/r/seduction	12/12/13 06:56 PM
7	When I'm with a group of people, usually people that I don't know too well, I have a hard time contributing to the conversation and often end up saying nothing at all. I feel like a buzz kill, what should I do? All I can suggest is to engage a person next to you in a one on one for a bit and then you are participating and friendship may ensue.	/r/seduction	12/12/13 01:22 PM
1	As a guy who has had trouble understanding women, this was extremely helpful. Hopefully it'll help you too! This has been up for 22 hours with no responses? Seriously every man should have read this by now it would really help them (and the women they desire) out a great deal.	/r/seduction	06/12/13 03:35 AM
1	Is this normal approaching everyone does or is this the wrong way? What catches my eye? I guess looks-don't have to be handsome as I just register that first and while someone at ease is comfortable if you are nervous I can certainly understand that too, most of us are. What really makes me more interested is a smile, a sincere happy to be here smile. Well that opening doesn't leave much room to roam. I'd suggest you say something like "Do you like this group? Have you seen them before?" Or "This is a pretty nice place are there others around here you like to g…	/r/seduction	18/11/13 12:14 PM
1	Is this normal approaching everyone does or is this the wrong way? As a female I hate to be approached when I know it has nothing to do with who I am. I need to feel like there is/can be an attraction there and phony stinks.	/r/seduction	17/11/13 04:17 PM
1	Three words: "Free Hugs" sign. I agree.	/r/seduction	16/11/13 05:25 PM
2	When a girl accepts to go out with you, does it necesarily means that she's interested? No, but it means she is willing to be with you, get to know you and see if there is something there that could go further as a couple or perhaps at least find a good friend.	/r/seduction	27/10/13 12:56 AM
1	A week of radio silence due to a family emergency, let her know what's going on or just ignore it? Either way is okay in my book.	/r/seduction	12/10/13 04:32 PM
1	I've had terrible luck with women for most of my life and just yesterday, found out why. What now? Can't relate to OKCupid so you are on your own! I was thinking in face to face encounters just assume they are approachable and somewhat interested. Maybe your personal responses are too personal and come across as clingy or needy? Just throwing that out there.	/r/seduction	09/10/13 09:31 PM
1	I've had terrible luck with women for most of my life and just yesterday, found out why. What now? Oh gotcha! Well if you do not catch those signs why not just assume they are there and act accordingly? If they aren't interested you will know! If they are? Lucky you!	/r/seduction	09/10/13 09:17 PM
1	I've had terrible luck with women for most of my life and just yesterday, found out why. What now? Instead of being the guy who talks to people after the show to be friendly you could push it into getting phone numbers or taking them out fo coffee after to get to know them better.In other words make it go from a professional situation to a personal one.	/r/seduction	09/10/13 09:09 PM
1	I've had terrible luck with women for most of my life and just yesterday, found out why. What now? I suck at getting women on OkCupid and I'm kinda shy when it comes to strange women out in public. Which is weird since I do improv and can talk to anyone after the show, maybe has to do something with comfort. I think under those circumstances you are "on" and being someone else perhaps? Kind of hiding who you think the real you is so you only take it so far when if you pushed it a bit you could get numbers and dates from all that! I don't know about boundaries other than to not allow people to…	/r/seduction	09/10/13 07:59 PM
7	I've had terrible luck with women for most of my life and just yesterday, found out why. What now? Being a nice guy is NEVER the problem. Being so desperate you have no set boundaries of behavior is a problem. More so lousy selections of girls is a bigger problem.	/r/seduction	09/10/13 03:46 PM
13	Just had an extremely frustrating conversation with my mother about being a father It is times like these that all you can do is just be glad you're you!	/r/MensRights	17/08/13 06:11 PM
2	[FR] Overcoming AA by walking around the city and high-fiving as many people as I can. Number close on two women. You did really really well! Look how much fun people had with you!	/r/seduction	11/08/13 01:23 PM
1	Can you share your best advice that helped you become a better man? Smart on your part.	/r/seduction	28/07/13 08:00 PM
1	Can you share your best advice that helped you become a better man? I like your style but stay unemotional! Also if she knows you are doing this she may withhold from experience just to be stubborn!	/r/seduction	28/07/13 07:54 PM
1	Can you share your best advice that helped you become a better man? Sounds like she's still living in her head instead of reality and this could all change with experience.	/r/seduction	28/07/13 07:46 PM
1	Can you share your best advice that helped you become a better man? She may not know herself well enough (or have enough experience) to know what she really wants...life is a process and what you believe early on is likely to change sometimes drastically with experience.	/r/seduction	28/07/13 07:40 PM
2	My girlfriend's mom is a psycho cunt and she's trying to have me arrested for rape. Help would be greatly appreciated Crying is both normal and understandable...trust no one find out what the laws actually are and keep out of trouble over this as you WILL be labeled a sex offender ALL of your life if you do not watch your self. My very best thoughts are with you in this...you take care.	/r/MensRights	30/05/13 07:27 PM
9	My girlfriend's mom is a psycho cunt and she's trying to have me arrested for rape. Help would be greatly appreciated Watch your back and have no sex of any kind with this gal until she is legal...you are dealing with crazy and you will lose (likely ) in a court of law...or help her get emancipated as the police have said. The wait isn't that long and will give you time to get organized for what you want to do (move in together?) when she is legal.	/r/MensRights	30/05/13 05:39 PM
2	slapping butts? Oh hell NO!	/r/seduction	12/05/13 07:16 PM
2	Girls look down at their feet when they walk by me? Correction: we KNOW you're hot!	/r/seduction	10/05/13 08:51 PM
1	Girls look down at their feet when they walk by me? Now you know all our secrets.	/r/seduction	10/05/13 08:37 PM
3	Girls look down at their feet when they walk by me? As a girl/woman who has done/does do this allow me to say that there may be a sexual attraction to you...or just plain old shyness! If you are ignored you do not have to be dealt with at all and it may be they lack social skills to deal with the reality of you. Most likely is nothing at all negative about you.	/r/seduction	10/05/13 07:20 PM
1	How should i go about calling a girl out on her texting while with me? "Please don't be on your phone while we are together."	/r/seduction	10/05/13 07:11 PM
1	Advice to all of you from a bi guy I thought your advice was spot on but everyone put their own prejudices to it instead of take it as the nugget it is.	/r/seduction	11/04/13 02:22 PM
2	Advice to all of you from a bi guy I'm not quite sure people aren't understanding what you are saying. As a woman who has gone through this (don't believe I was ever a 9-10) I understand exactly. It can be flattering to get the attention on the one hand but mostly it is nerve racking as I'm there with my friends and don't believe anyone is after me for anything other than a quick hookup (parental training took hold) and not likely to want to do anything with anyone I haven't learned something about. A good evening of conversation…	/r/seduction	11/04/13 02:00 AM
1	F* everything about this. This was on the message board of a church I walked past today. I am very insulted. As a woman I am also offended at this remark and cannot believe how the father is marginalizd in our media.	/r/MensRights	17/06/12 02:59 PM
1	Reddit: Tonight I hit a woman. A good reason to give up drinking is when you cannot determine your own behaviour while under the influence. I like that you immediately take responsibility but this will nag at your pride forever...time to change.	/r/MensRights	31/10/10 11:52 AM
11	Allowing a rapist to go free is never as wrong as punishing a man for a rape he didn't commit Thank you for this reminder but I actually am a feminist on many levels. I do try to be sensible, will that count?	/r/MensRights	14/09/10 05:26 PM
9	Allowing a rapist to go free is never as wrong as punishing a man for a rape he didn't commit This is correct.	/r/MensRights	14/09/10 03:51 PM
1	Hospital Circumcises Baby After Parents Repeatedly Tell Them Not To..Lawsuit filed. Good for the parents..I trust people will lose their jobs!	/r/MensRights	14/09/10 03:35 PM
27	Need some help, I dodged the marriage bullet, but worried that I may have thrown my happiness away. As a female I find this heart breaking. She loves you, she stays. If marriage means more to her than you do it is about power and money. You have been true to yourself and will not regret it. Feel free to mourn your loss but always be true to yourself. I have seen far too many women wear a man down to get their way. Don't be that doormat.	/r/MensRights	13/09/10 05:28 PM
2	"Don't give an honest man a chance to go wrong." What are your thoughts on this saying? Years ago there was an ad on tv which showed someone testing car doors as they walked by with the voiceover:"Lock your cars, help keep a good kid good" that seeed to me the turning point when our society became so punitive and over protective regulating what each of us can do rather than to punish the transgressors. This is the same thing and I find them both quite offensive...good people do NOT need supervision for their moralitybehaviour as they CHOOSE to behave in a moral/good way.	/r/MensRights	23/02/10 03:13 PM