| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 35 | Preference to not date or marry victims of abuse | Debate | Alicyclobacillus | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/26 02:27 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| -1 | Preference to not date or marry victims of abuseWhat you desire and what you tolerate are two very different things I don't desire a woman with trauma baggage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/26 02:35 AM |
| 0 | Preference to not date or marry victims of abuse"Capacity to handle" Lmao No. It's something you don't "want". Has nothing to do with "capacity to handle" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/26 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Preference to not date or marry victims of abuseIf you hypothetically had to choose one of two girls, all else being equal, you wouldn't choose the one without the trauma baggage? I think you've virtue signaled the same way several others did here, but the argument you're making sounds incredulous. No one is going to brag about rejecting a rape victim, but they're still going to do it if they have better options Seems like this topic in modern culture is a good example of Sartre's "bad faith" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/26 11:36 PM |
| -3 | Preference to not date or marry victims of abuseI state at the bottom I find this socially acceptable So yeah, that's my agenda I would never think poorly of a guy who did the same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/26 05:03 PM |
| 0 | Preference to not date or marry victims of abuseNot the sex, it's the commitment part that becomes a problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/26 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Preference to not date or marry victims of abuse50/50 from the comments it seems | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/26 04:46 PM |
| -6 | Preference to not date or marry victims of abuseActually yes, I'm tall and rich (now) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/26 03:48 PM |
| 0 | Preference to not date or marry victims of abuseYour #2 is a lie I said it is a socially acceptable preference. I did not say they were undateable or had lesser value in any way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/26 03:46 PM |
| 11 | Preference to not date or marry victims of abuseI agree, my example was gendered but it applies equally to women judging men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/26 03:43 PM |
| 3 | Preference to not date or marry victims of abuseIt's not "condemning" them to choose not to date them And yes, we judge people all the time for things they didn't choose and was no fault of their own I laughed at your comment, sounded like trolling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/26 03:41 PM |
| 2 | Preference to not date or marry victims of abuseWhy not? That makes zero sense. Of course I can and do preach it to others Why would I advise people to do something I wouldn't? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/26 03:30 PM |
| 3 | Preference to not date or marry victims of abuseCar crash may make you irrationally afraid of cars Sexual abuse may make you... I think your analogy is off | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/26 03:27 PM |
| 8 | Preference to not date or marry victims of abuseAlready married | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/26 03:24 PM |
| -2 | Preference to not date or marry victims of abuseAlready married No history of being abused | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/26 02:42 PM |
| 16 | Common media constantly tries to conflate men as a group with their worst denominators to try to impose collective guilt.It is surreal, growing up in the 90s how the culture has changed I remember being taught in grade school not to stereotype. Any statements about a group in general were considered ignorant and bigoted Flash forward to today and it's become almost a mainstream virtue to stereotype and condemn men in general | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 11:55 AM |
| – | Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric.You can say that about anything you agree to as an adult though (car repairs, voting, etc.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Women Aren't Playing the Victim. Red Pill Men Don't Understand Consent.OP says: "Consent isn't just the absence of the word 'no'" This is factually incorrect. Tacit consent defines a host of human and corporate interactions. Silence has long been considered permissive. More broadly, the requirements for consent depends on the rights of BOTH parties. This notion is missed in much of feminist literature. It is unreasonable for one party (in this case the acting party) to be held to an agreement where the other party can change the meaning and terms of the agreement o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 12:56 PM |
| 4 | If you are sahm, it's your job to take the mental load.I wouldn't call them a "chef" lol But you see in OP's post the silly phrasing. It called "free" housing, health care, etc. It's not "free" though if you have household obligations. You work for it. Calling it "free" equates you to being a pet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 02:24 PM |
| – | Women aren't as innocent as the crime stats make you believeTo get philosophical, Women are empathized with, which it's why it's a "virtue" for them. They benefit more from it so it must be considered a good thing. You're right about the data that women receive lighter sentences (are held less accountable for their actions) than men, and also that we criminalize male behavior although many female vices are also detrimental to society (such as engaging in reputation demolition). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 05:04 PM |
| – | Women aren't as innocent as the crime stats make you believeTo get philosophical, Women are empathized with, which it's why it's a "virtue" for them. They benefit more from it so it must be considered a good thing. You're right about the data, and also that we criminalize male behavior although many female vices are also detrimental to society (such as engaging in reputation demolition). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 04:58 PM |
| 6 | Feminism gives a better explanation for female hypergamy than RedpillIt's all speculation Hate it when people, especially academic "researchers", treat speculation like this as fact | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Old people have no understanding of how dating works todayMillennial here Met my wife at work. I flirted with her on the job (gasp!) I've seen about a dozen young men fired because (1) a coworker they simply asked out on a date felt "uncomfortable" after rejecting the guy, (2) they dated a coworker for a while and the relationship ended and the girl felt "uncomfortable", (3) a coworker overheard them flirting with someone and felt "uncomfortable " I think we've become too accommodating to women who have mental issues at the expense of not just young me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 08:37 PM |
| 3 | In Defense of Gen Z MenI think 20 years ago men didn't care about pandering as much as they do now It looks as though every other group in America gets special attention that translates into institutional preferential treatment You can only do that for so long before decent guys and young guys start embracing identity politics too since everyone else is doing it | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/07/26 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Women are not more emotionally intelligent, Men just complain lessSimilar to the insight that women are not more empathetic than men, they're just better socialized/trained to fake it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 09:24 PM |
| – | Women are not more emotionally intelligent, Men just complain lessSimilar to the insight that women are not more empathetic than men, they're just better socialized/trained to fake it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 09:19 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Are there any critiques of feminism that you believe are valid from a woman’s perspective?Because neither side is talking about "rights" at all. They mean "privileges" and those are opposed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Red pill men have double standard about knowledgeRed pill is reactionary Not just gender but other issues too For a few decades the view that women, blacks, gays, etc., have some sort of epistemic privilege has been mainstreamed and used to justify diversity-based discrimination Men, whites, heterosexuals, etc., were told they need to empathize and understand the Other because they were blinded by their male, white, etc., lived experience. Red pill is just universalizing the post-modern leftist "epistemic privilege" concept, i.e., it's not a w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 03:02 PM |
| -5 | The stay at home wife is not traditional and is mostly a myth.You didn't contradict anything I said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 02:23 AM |
| -6 | The stay at home wife is not traditional and is mostly a myth.I don't disagree with this comment at all If you study women's history, diaries, etc., it is plain women preferred to do housework at their own home, raise their own children, tend to their own farm if they had one, rather than go work in a factory or some place outside the home It was considered a sacrifice men made that they had to leave their home to work elsewhere. A sacrifice men made to make their wife happy Crazy how feminists spin this history as if men were exploiting women when they we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 01:06 AM |
| -5 | The stay at home wife is not traditional and is mostly a myth.Women historically also preferred domestic labor It's a feminist lie that women were imprisoned in the home Women wanted to stay at home rather having to work in a factory or on a farm Another one, men historically were often caring fathers and husbands It's a feminist lie that fathers/husbands were commonly abusive and used their patriarchal power to exploit their wife and children | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 12:57 AM |
| 4 | Men will never go back to what they used to be for good reasonTo be fair, men don't need women's "emotional labor" That's something just made up by women to attribute value to themselves Men don't need it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 12:09 AM |
| -1 | Men will never go back to what they used to be for good reasonI don't think many are capable of happiness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 12:07 AM |
| 2 | For a man to get into a relationship, he has to harass womenI'd agree that to get into a relationship with a woman a man has to engage in conduct some women would find harassing. I think that's a very sensible take. There's a lot of anxiety out there right now because we've mainstreamed the standards of the subset of women who see harassment everywhere they look. So it's harder for guys to make that call. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 01:04 AM |
| – | The attractive=asshole strawman that people here are starting to parrot meme needs to dieThat's not a syllogism bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 12:56 AM |
| 29 | Women have ruined cold approachingMost people I know, myself included, met their spouse at work. You can learn a lot about someone by working with them. I'm a millenial. I feel like today office romance has been destroyed for gen z. The easiest way to ruin your career is to ask out a coworker, especially if there's any kind of power imbalance in the workplace which there almost always is. I've never seen cold approach work out well. It's literally based 100% on looks. You don't know each other at all. It's a total gamble. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 02:04 PM |
| – | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing them"Feminism" doesn't mean anything anymore They disagree about essentialism/anti-essentialism, they disagree on what "benefits" women, they disagree on what "woman" means, etc. Feminism is confused. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 01:35 PM |
| 6 | The manospheres biggest lieI've forgotten the source, but I remember reading a book in college about how historically, whenever there are large populations of single and unemployed men nations tend to go to war. It's a cynical take, more cynical even than saying the war was just for resources. Wars were fought to kill off these men because domestically they become a huge burden on society. I agree, I work with 20 year olds and they're freaking miserable because of how dating/relationships have changed. For all our glamoro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 03:36 PM |
| 20 | When a man say “not all men” he’s seen as complicit and dismissive. When a woman says it, she’s being nuancedThis always made me uncomfortable about feminism A lot of feminist arguments are eerily similar to what racists believe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/26 12:51 PM |
| – | The "Choose Better" debate always seems to devolve into defensive and/or deflecting off-topic discussionsAt work Coworkers You're not allowed to tell them you don't care | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/26 07:40 PM |
| – | The "Choose Better" debate always seems to devolve into defensive and/or deflecting off-topic discussionsI don't care if a woman chooses a crappy guy I get annoyed when she whines about it though Like, why should I care about your relationship failures/abuse when you obviously don't care enough to choose better? Don't go shoot yourself in the foot and then expect me to pity you for it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/26 07:22 PM |
| – | To say that a woman is traumatized and hurt from her past any time she brings up a legit criticism of men is evil.The issue is that men who suffer from past trauma aren't given the benefit of the doubt if they do something wrong later. Women however are allowed to use past trauma to literally get away with murder (i.e., battered woman syndrome). It's why men are less empathetic about past trauma, because they're held responsible for their actions irrespective of how past trauma influenced their decision making. Look up disparity in sentencing for crimes by gender. Men aren't given sympathy, women are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 10:18 PM |
| – | Men should never listen to womenI've noticed that too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 03:53 AM |
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