| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 113 | Can I just say I love you guys. | AlienAstronaut | /r/seduction | 13/08/15 03:40 AM | |
| 6 | Any lessons on retaining a healthy relationship? | AlienAstronaut | /r/seduction | 23/04/20 06:35 AM | |
| 1 | Has anyone else experienced situations where it seems taken, or married women overtly flirt more than single ladies do, especially when you know their SO? Any idea what causes this? | AlienAstronaut | /r/seduction | 11/12/16 07:35 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | What actually makes a guy instantly attractive?haha I love him! Just the an obvious choice for awkward mannerisms in the puppet tent | /r/seduction | 17/04/26 12:45 AM |
| 6 | What actually makes a guy instantly attractive?Ser Dunk | /r/seduction | 16/04/26 07:38 PM |
| 1 | I’m invited to a party and a girl who rejected me is going to be there what should I do?if it’s at her house, she knows your invited and coming, and clearly doesn’t hate you. It’s ok if someone just isn’t in to you, just enjoy your life and be friendly, but don’t chase her | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 12:59 AM |
| 2 | Is it possible to be dominant without conflict?are you confusing challenges with conflict | /r/seduction | 03/04/21 11:13 AM |
| 1 | Things you need to stop doing if you become obsessed with every woman you start casually datingi’m in this photo and I don’t like it. jokes aside i’ve done many of these and self awareness can hurt but boy, it’s good. | /r/seduction | 07/01/21 04:19 PM |
| 12 | A good way to combat neediness and need for approvalWhat is crazy to try, for me at least, is sometimes I have this tension or grip in that area I can feel if I focus on it, and I can literally make it "let go" like a hand releasing tension, if I focus on actually feeling it and relaxing. Not only does that tension leave, background anxiety leaves with it. It's wild what you can do by being present with how you feel. | /r/seduction | 29/12/20 03:28 PM |
| 2 | A example of reframing a rejection while on a date and making it work in your favourI really can't tell if you're kidding but it's making me laugh | /r/seduction | 13/11/20 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Do Girls at the Gym Care About Your Physique?Realistically if you’re confident and friendly then I can’t imagine something bad will happen, everyone is in the gym to get better, and I see hotties with lesser good looking guys all the time | /r/seduction | 13/11/20 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Do Girls at the Gym Care About Your Physique?Shoot your shot then | /r/seduction | 13/11/20 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Do Girls at the Gym Care About Your Physique?I typically don't approach in the gym, because if it gets weird, y'all both gotta keep seeing each other. | /r/seduction | 13/11/20 12:03 AM |
| 1 | I've been approaching women since 2009 and have yet to have any kind of success, hundreds of approaches later. I feel immense self-hate and need someone to talk to.Highly recommend some magic mushrooms to help deal with a lot of that internalized trauma. Good luck brother | /r/seduction | 05/11/20 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Any lessons on retaining a healthy relationship?That is one of the best things I’ve read in a while. Thank you for that. What’s crazy to me is I look to my parents as my example. Quite different, don’t fight, don’t seem to understand how they work but do. I totally feel what you’re saying, and you’re right. I’m not even in a rush to “find” it. I just don’t get how it works sometimes, and sometimes not, but just enjoying every moment seems to be key. Who cares? We’re all going to be dirt one day, just love as best we can. Thanks for that. | /r/seduction | 25/04/20 01:30 AM |
| 1 | My first experience ever getting laid from a cold approach in a nightclubThis was just really well written from start to finish. I can empathize with a lot in it, kudos! | /r/seduction | 11/07/19 10:48 PM |
| 3 | Found this gem comment on AskRedditYou’re making some assumptions about what I’m saying, that lead down a path of thinking I’m pointing out “incel” stuff or whatever. But after continued reading, this is really an echo chamber for negative thoughts, in a downward spiral of “us vs them” thinking, when life simply isn’t that. | /r/MGTOW | 13/08/18 12:11 AM |
| -2 | Found this gem comment on AskRedditThis sub popped up on my top feed and, while I empathize with what many of you are feeling as a guy who used to have trouble, I can’t help but wonder if what you are looking for in the world isn’t caused by these outside sources. You can be nice, and also assertive and get what you want. The asshole dudes you complain about are just dudes that stir emotion in women that may also happen to be assholes. Being nice doesn’t equal doing things for a hope of return, that’s manipulation my dudes. You c… | /r/MGTOW | 12/08/18 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Squrting orgasms for a month then stopped?Try r/sex honestly for the best or better answers | /r/seduction | 05/03/17 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Best stock openers?Sometimes I've found using an innocuous question makes it super easy. It also depends on the situation, if you're already right next to them it could be as simple as "Is this place always so busy/dead?" From there you could talk about the bar, whether they come often, lead to where they're from, what they do, about their hobbys etc etc. If they're across the way and aren't in conversation but have made some positive body language, you could buy yourself a drink and simply say hey. Strangely, I'v… | /r/seduction | 30/12/16 07:29 AM |
| 4 | How to get banned from r/FeminismNo, check the sidebar, I too thought that in the beginning | /r/MensRights | 18/12/16 10:27 PM |
| 3 | Guys, is it possible for a girl to get out of the friend zone? If it is, how should a girl express interest without scaring the guy off?Besides the standard response of being healthy and good hygiene and dressing appropriately, I would avoid the whole "being one of the guys" persona. Act congruent to being a "traditional" woman, not In the sense of Victorian values, but making an effort in appearance, not burping, joking like the guys, talking smack like the guys etc, or overall making your presence in the group as just "another" member. All of those things are completely fine for anyone to do regardless of identity or gender, b… | /r/seduction | 11/12/16 07:28 AM |
| 4 | Women are attracted to you more than you may realize, here's how to know for certain.I had to hear it again because it's so funny, but here's the link to him saying it. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kZvv30zHD5g | /r/seduction | 14/10/16 09:01 PM |
| 1 | My 99% fail proof intro for opening a set of girls 2 or moreProbably because I used the phrase shitfaced hammered | /r/seduction | 18/08/16 11:43 AM |
| 3 | My 99% fail proof intro for opening a set of girls 2 or moreJust do a fun cold read vs something really targeted, it's win win. | /r/seduction | 18/08/16 03:39 AM |
| 28 | My 99% fail proof intro for opening a set of girls 2 or moreI heard it here a long time ago, and not sure if i got it 100% right so forgive me, but an opener ive used for sets is "wow, it seems like y'all have a really good vibe going on, are yall best friends?" it either a is true and they are like wow, or B, they say no but ask why you thought that. The day I read that I got shitfaced hammered and proceeded to use that on maybe 10-13 groups of women with no negative repercussions, except for the fact I got so hammered that I ended up leaving and not ev… | /r/seduction | 17/08/16 08:13 PM |
| 2 | Online surveys show that the overwhelming majority of public knows that Amber Heard's false accusations have the goal of grabbing Johnny Depp's moneyHow is this relevant to anyone's life here. A famous super rich actor married a girl 22 years younger than him and some TMZ poll is somehow relevant to us during their breakup? Come on. Life's so much better than paying attention to celebrity trash. | /r/becomeaman | 06/06/16 09:25 PM |
| 1 | [Kino] Love Aura: Place the palm of your hand as close as possible to your partner’s palm without actually touching. Do this for several minutes, during which you will feel not only heat but also, sometimes, eerie kinds of sparks.Yeah everyone knows it's bullshit but chicks dig it and easy way for semi intimate kino. If you're with a chick for the first time and are testing a "love aura" she could interpret that as super clingy. I'm not saying it hasn't worked for you, but... This is just my experience bro, I don't foresee it working very well. | /r/seduction | 06/06/16 12:10 AM |
| 1 | [Kino] Love Aura: Place the palm of your hand as close as possible to your partner’s palm without actually touching. Do this for several minutes, during which you will feel not only heat but also, sometimes, eerie kinds of sparks.Read their palm instead this is something you do when you're maybe already in a relationship. | /r/seduction | 05/06/16 09:49 PM |
| 3 | Hooked with co-workerHow old are you? Honestly man if you want something either go walk up to her and go grab coffee or lunch that day and chill. Just go for it, if you wait another month she could be interested in someone new. | /r/seduction | 11/11/15 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Online Dating? Here's a few tips I've learned in the past couple days.I feel your pain, what platforms are you using? And what's your typical message? | /r/seduction | 07/11/15 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Sex Begins with Voice -- communicate your intent the right wayMust be sleeping in until he fixes | /r/seduction | 20/09/15 08:27 PM |
| 5 | Eye contact is literally everything.With other dudes it's smile, eye contact, head nod, look away. Both parties win! | /r/seduction | 18/09/15 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Can I just say I love you guys.Certainly is! Occasionally I'll come across something that's a little more red pill than I enjoy, and while I think it's something that's not right, I like to believe those people are still learning. I think when men have faced failure early on and often, it can create bitterness and hate, and reduce women/men to a piece of meat. When instead through honesty and true self love you can enjoy new people and enjoy the new relationships/ fun times it brings. | /r/seduction | 14/08/15 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Can I just say I love you guys.Such good vibes! | /r/seduction | 14/08/15 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Can I just say I love you guys.Maybe so! When I said that I was feeling more along the lines of "being the prize" or simply that your value shines and people take note. Obviously, craving attention for the sake of attention is a no no, but like you said, being important is a great feeling. | /r/seduction | 14/08/15 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Can I just say I love you guys.Chumbawumba baby | /r/seduction | 14/08/15 12:43 AM |
| 4 | Can I just say I love you guys.I'm with you on that, it's not a permanent state of mind nor was I implying it's something everyone has all of the time. | /r/seduction | 13/08/15 11:56 AM |
| 11 | What objects or furniture at your home are surprisingly effective at helping you close?A well maintained seat, like my face. Kidding aside, we have a kegerator in the kitchen chicks tend to dig, and our leather couches electrically recline which for whatever reason tends to blow minds. We have some nice artwork and other than that keeping the house spick and span cleanliness wise I think does wonders. | /r/seduction | 12/08/15 10:32 PM |
| 5 | Anyone tried using Linkedin to score a date?I've thought about it, but partially it's their job to be hot. | /r/seduction | 28/07/15 07:04 PM |
| 10 | Man asks woman to take his virginity for his birthday, adds $100 offer, and girl explodes -- breaking down how to identify bad informationGood write up. The one thing about this subreddit that I love is when people like you have quality content like this. There really is a good group of people on here who want to help others. | /r/seduction | 26/07/15 08:25 PM |
| 6 | how to get angryI find anger to be incredibly motivating at the right times. The key is to use it as a tool and not let it control you. | /r/becomeaman | 15/06/15 07:24 PM |
| 1 | So You Think You're Ugly. You're The Only Onethe green man | /r/seduction | 10/06/15 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Birthday Card!!Have fun, remember it's your birthday anyways so even if you don't get laid you're having fun on your birthday. | /r/seduction | 03/06/15 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Any tips to get into 'best-self' mode?Adderal is a good substitute | /r/seduction | 02/06/15 10:26 AM |
| 40 | What does the word "fuckboy" (fuckboi) mean and how is someone a "fuckboy"?Looked this up the other day and basically it's someone whose "basic" or a loser. As far as I'm aware it's not about fucking or sex at all. | /r/seduction | 30/04/15 11:20 PM |
| 2 | [x-post from r/yoga] Great way to be detached from the outcomeFyi since this was posted from yoga I figured I might say that practicing yoga has been incredibly effective for my anxiety, depression, and energy levels. From an outcome standpoint, it has made me much more chill towards them, highly recommended. | /r/seduction | 28/04/15 01:02 AM |
| 1 | By Making A Game Out Of Rejection, A Man Conquers FearActually, that makes a lot of damn sense. I agree whole heartedly with your sentiment. Deep down though, I just have a problem with "betterness" even though when I think about it logically I know I'm better than hitler because it's so far removed, I have a hard time thinking I'm better than chad. But, I'll reflect on what that really means. Maybe I'm comparing worth as a human being versus the content they've put in this world but hell, i honestly can't disagree with your statement. | /r/seduction | 17/01/15 05:55 AM |
| 1 | By Making A Game Out Of Rejection, A Man Conquers FearMaybe you're right in that I see it that way. Honestly. I still don't see quality as superiority though. But hey, we all have our own lenses of the world though. Personally my quality of life is pretty amazing, but I still see the homeless person and the playboy as worthy of my attention. But maybe we're just on different pages and I'm not understanding what you're saying. | /r/seduction | 17/01/15 04:44 AM |
| 1 | By Making A Game Out Of Rejection, A Man Conquers FearNever said I did, overconfidence is not something I have an issue with. I don't resent arrogance or confidence in and of itself. My experience and people I've known my entire life has just led me to see that simply believing one is "superior" to another as asinine and not worth anything as like I said before, we fucking die and have what to show for it? "This guy thought they were better?" But what of that? Just enjoy life, get out of your comfort zone, and do what's right without catering to ot… | /r/seduction | 17/01/15 04:13 AM |
| 1 | By Making A Game Out Of Rejection, A Man Conquers FearI can see that, on the same hand though, if people perceive that you believe that (which is very obvious in some people) it could definitely lower their wanting to interact with you. Just my 2 cents, your experience is your own and if it's working for you then who am I to argue ya dig? | /r/seduction | 16/01/15 08:58 PM |
| 8 | By Making A Game Out Of Rejection, A Man Conquers FearYou're just a person and we all get a coffin one day, believing you're truly a superior person will only lessen your relations with others. "Everyone is my superior in that I may learn from them". | /r/seduction | 16/01/15 08:21 PM |
| 62 | "I'm thinking about all the conquests you've had in this bed."Making an assumption that you're getting asked this because the girl thinks you're smooth as fuck and if you're this smooth with her it could be anyone else. I thinks it's just about her own insecurities, which isn't your fault, but don't play on them either. | /r/seduction | 04/10/14 05:58 PM |
| 1 | What should I expect from a Tinder 'date?' Also, what do you guys set up, coffee? Drink? Invite them over?It's just the name of the product, not sure why it's called that other than it's a cold dessert. | /r/seduction | 15/06/14 06:33 PM |
| 5 | What should I expect from a Tinder 'date?' Also, what do you guys set up, coffee? Drink? Invite them over?Not sure if kidding but frozen yogurt has the consistency of soft serve ice cream and is amazing. | /r/seduction | 15/06/14 05:38 PM |
| 8 | Community college student with no job and no car. FAQ's are awesome but hard to apply to my situation. Advice on improving it?You can work 30 hours a week and do school full time if you schedule your time right. With said job, put a large down payment on a used car or buy a clunker. You literally have many paths to where you want to go, but fucking ask yourself, are you willing to do it? In order to get where you want to be, it will be difficult. Are you willing to do the difficult? Many people say they want things and do nothing to achieve what they "want" because it's hard. First, manage your time and see where your … | /r/seduction | 02/12/13 04:56 AM |
| 1 | How to respond to "Will you miss me?"People are down voting you on how you feel about something which is silly. You can't force yourself to miss someone or feel that way. However, it's not the most natural thing to not miss people so saying that could simply come off as insulting. Be careful about saying that around people who care for you, as it could hurt them. | /r/seduction | 02/12/13 04:44 AM |
| 5 | I'm asking a girl out for the first time in my life tomorrow.Know that if she says no, you're back to exactly where you started, except you know she said no instead of regretting never asking. So even if she says no, you're still better off. | /r/seduction | 01/12/13 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Good first date, second tonight, just found out not interested.If you don't want to waste your time you could just cancel plans then never worry about her again. Or just go have some fun and have a new friend and or wing woman. | /r/seduction | 18/11/13 03:46 AM |
| 2 | Approaching women at the swimming poolI'll add a joke disclaimer. | /r/seduction | 17/11/13 06:12 PM |
| -1 | Approaching women at the swimming poolFirst step, assert dominance in the pool. She must know you are the badass that you are. Swim in the lane next to her, but no matter what you must swim faster. She has to know you're better. If you see her take a break, maintain strong eye contact while doing the butterfly. This maintains that not only can you focus on swimming, but on her at the same time. A man that can multitask is hot. Edit: Disclaimer: To be taken lightly Tl;Dr: Honestly, just say something like "so how long have you been s… | /r/seduction | 17/11/13 05:40 PM |
| 3 | What's the one thing you changed that you feel has had the biggest effect on your game?Not sure why you received down votes for this, if you can find a good hobby with these benefits, why not? | /r/seduction | 02/07/13 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Need some help with higher clientele, pornstars, and modelsJust coming back from SB recently myself, I know what you mean when you talk about the cold vibes you were getting. Miami... for some reason the American girls down there were really rude to everybody! Even the girls the in our group who were just trying to make acquaintances. However the foreigners that were traveling Miami might have been the sweetest and easiest ladies to get to meet down there, some easily 8.5-9.0s. Miami is just an area devoted to cold hard cash, and It's gotta be definitel… | /r/seduction | 09/06/13 02:08 PM |
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