AlienElyssa29 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	What are your thoughts on men who don't care for marriage? Depends.. I think there is more to marriage than kids. I really made the decision to be child free while we've been together.. he is more of a fence sitter. I've basically laid my cards on the table and said, this is a you thing that you need to figure out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/22 06:50 AM
0	What are your thoughts on men who don't care for marriage? Wow.. that kind of hits what I am going through right now. I'm a woman, in a monogamous relationship. We live together, I am the breadwinner (I have been the entirety of our 2.5 year relationship). I'm realizing that we are at a cross road. I'm 31 F, he is 35 M. I've been married and divorced, I am also childfree. I don't ever want kids, and I've recently had a surgery too remove my fallopian tubes. For me, it's not the security of marriage, it's about building a life together of longevity. I wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/22 07:23 PM
1	Women of PPD what group or identity do you belong to? I'm going to say normie I was emo/nerdy girl in highschool. Joined the army, thought I wasnt like all the other girls at 17. Got out at 21. Realized there doesn't have to be a divide. Usually rocking dark clothing, with colors that pop. Still very nerdy though, play way too many video games.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/22 10:27 PM
2	Q4All: Do you need to get with someone else to get over an ex, or is mentally moving past them first an essential step? Definitely work on mentally moving past them first. You have to work on yourself. Always and first.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/22 06:32 AM
13	What Standards that the Opposite Sex has do you Consider Acceptable/ Encouragable? As a woman, acceptable standards for men to want in a partner- Emotionally available Working Plans for the future Weight - it's a preference. Goal oriented Have hobbies of their own A car - depending on local transportation Their own place - depending on situation	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/21 01:16 AM
9	Since I've seen that u like him... here is another one. Not him. However, my boyfriend is very similar	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/01/21 03:29 AM
13	Since I've seen that u like him... here is another one. This is my boyfriend 😅😅	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/01/21 03:28 AM
39	How do you feel about this? as a 21 year old I am so grateful for finding this sub! Magic wand.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/10/20 09:50 PM
3	Booked an appointment to take my IUD out. However,the only gynecologist available for this month is a man. I plan to wait longer for a woman because I'm not comfortable with the idea of man removing it. Am I the only one that questions why a man would want to be a gynecologist in the 1st place? My PCP, is a male. Also, he worked in a small family clinic and has done numerous paps in the past. He is probably mid 30s. Very professional listens to everything I say, takes me seriously. Knows more about my vagina and how my body works, than I do. The VA sent him to all these extra classes, so he can be a doctor for just the women veteran. I may not feel 100% comfortable with a male pap smear, but I trust him. He'll, I dont like anyone in my vagina personally 😅.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/10/20 04:46 AM
8	Don’t do it sis. Very thoughtful. I appreciate your insight	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/09/20 01:42 AM
54	Don’t do it sis. I recently did. Its turned out well, he does most of the cleaning and all of that. Don't feel like his maid.. at all.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/09/20 11:01 PM
1	FDS While Being Married to an LVM Do what you need to do to be comfortable with the process. It will literally smack you in the face when you are ready. I will say, it is expensive as hell to live on your own, so start making sure you have independent savings away from him. Even 50$ a month for two years, is 1200. Be prepared in the best way for you. Financially was the absolute hardest for me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/07/20 03:47 PM
4	FDS While Being Married to an LVM I was with my ex LVM for 7ish years. It took me 3 years of day dreaming to leave him. Like what would it be like, could I handle it, could I really do it on my own. I woke up one day and was done. Planned my exit. Walked away from our mortgage. Sometimes you just have to dream to make it a reality.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/07/20 04:43 AM
7	I gained weight, he checked out, I blocked his ass. Listen up, ladies! Holy shit. I'll be honest, I am in a relationship with a HVM, in less than 2 weeks its out 1 year anniversary. I've gained like 35 pounds since we've been together. He still finds me just as attractive. There are numerous reasons for the weight gain, he is going to help me lose it, because I want to. Hes willing to do this with me as a team. The person you are with should understand your circumstances. At some point, he will gain weight himself.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/06/20 06:06 PM