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I would be interested to read such content. OP how do you think women should speak to you, as a man?
/r/MenSupportMen13/04/23 07:14 AM
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Pursuing a married man ? You mean the 22 yo trainee is the one who pursued the President of the united states ??? People of usa voted for a 49 yo man they trust (hey different times) and he's not able to keep his member in his pant when a 22 yo trainee is around? but the blame is to the trainee ? IDK but i would be afraid that a guy with such a low self-control is also the one who keep peace with country that own nuclear weapons... A BJ is a pretty unilateral sexual act, and she was not the one …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 10:11 AM
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Cheating is not always equal pregnancy. But it' s a risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 02:14 PM
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Cause we invented DNA tests, lol (I know we also invented BC but it's not 100%)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 01:59 PM
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Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 12:07 PM
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You're turning my argument in a wrong way for it to match your belief ''he's short SO his relationship is not genuine'' I had short friend back then when i was in school who dated a very popular and beautiful girl. so why does she dated him if it wasn't for love and/or attraction ? (he was in school too) I know i'll not make you change your mind. But these things happens, now you believe that you don't deserve love because you're short ? or that women are gold digger attracted by 6'2'' men ONLY …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 06:45 PM
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I agree. love is not build on people's stat like when you chose a class in a mmorpg right ? by example reddit : ''i'm 5'8'' for me it's over'' rl : shitload of shorter guys with a regular job and a family. reddit: i'm so ugly nobody want to date me irl : a lot of ugly people have a job and a family. you can believe you're ugly for a bunch of other reason, and you are probably single because of that (indirectly or directly) reddit : only old rich men can date, and they want only women below 25 ir…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 11:08 AM
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More? Yes, but we're definitely NOT equal to men. There is MORE présure than being a traditional housewife, because some of us are still expected to do the chores of a housewife, while working. White men is still the default citizen, for drug test, airbag, phone and every other stuff size, presented in course for future medicine. Women-only troubles are not much researched or taken seriously (even more true for women of color) 3 times on 4 we're the love interest in movie, not the main character…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 08:01 AM
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I disagree, wen arcade to be pregnant, right ? How many of reader here is, or was on pill? Including me. So only women have to beat nature for the comfort of everybody?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 07:05 AM
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Don't know... because you want to see him when you wake up each morning to spend the most time you can with somebody you love ? Honestly this sub can be interesting, but most of the posts seems to treat opposite gender as a good or object.. a resource at best , like ''well i don't want to settle to a small car when i want a big fat one'' people are... people. they are not an object, or a character with skill points in a mmorpg... and - i'm probably biaised because i spend too much time here lol …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 11:12 AM
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in absolute, somebody going on his own is not the problem, and nothing is wrong with them. (even if society will tell you otherwise because 'love' is a business) Incel/femcel mentality behind a loud part of the people that 'goes on their own, is'. I tell that because i lurked on some of these sub and it was full of hate, i was thinking ''no you're not going on your own, sir, you're just bitter against <other gender> because they don't want to be with you'' those are people who are not really 'go…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 07:03 PM
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Yes I heard about this one, i think it was an asian couple (don't remember the exact country)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:23 PM
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Yes and both. But what is considered lying? Makeup? Surgery? Telling you're looking for a relationship when you just want sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 03:24 PM
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They could just you know... like a character because she's badass... not in purpose because she's considered 'sexy'. (and it's sad but most movie/game women characters are made 'sexy'. look all these meme about 'men armor' who are like full plate, while 'women armor' are like a bathsuit) dude, imagine cosplaying batman or superman, do you consider it an invitation for creepy middle-age women, others boys or whoever to come and touch your ass or tell you nasty stuff or considering you like a peac…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 07:06 PM
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I hear you, but I have no other explanation to - by example - being angry at belle delphine for selling bath water, when men are the one who buy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 04:53 AM
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The difference between insta/only fan and porn is: who gain something(money or pleasure) from it. If it's them, men, the viewer or a pimp, that's OK for them. If it's the women they feel robbed of something(power) , and have to blame de body else for that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 04:56 PM
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if it were true, how could i know that when men speak about sexual stuff all day long it's ''fun'', but when a woman join them they are disgusted and think she's a hoe ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 11:08 AM
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Pretty sure dating a red pill Is the real disaster for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 05:51 AM
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Yes but if you're wise, you'll probably do your best to have a good life, that Include studying. But yes, this isn't an universal law and even peop'e that have are engineers or more, are not in fact, smart (let alone the emotional intelligence...)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 05:49 AM
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sir, you're dreaming about an idea that doesn't exist in real life. You have an ideal about how your teenage years should have been, regarding of song and movies, and that's not what the majority of teenager experiments. Also now you're 21, you'll never be the same than you were at 14, or 16. even if you do it with a virgin. You will not forget about school/work/debt because your GF is a virgin. You can not get this time back, and you cannot live the typical teenager years like we see in the mov…
/r/ExRedPill16/08/20 07:33 PM
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Yes, 'hotter' is maybe not the right word. But yes I definitely have more choice and success at 30 than at 18, and probably it's not only the body part.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 06:05 PM
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False. I was hotter at 30 than at 18. Now even if I'm older. If a day I have to look for a partner again, I can tell you that 'going for the hotter I can with this old body' isn't what I have in mind. It would be more 'if I did not find a guy who' s nice and balanced, I prefer to stay alone' shit. And if I could have a 18 yo hot surfer, I would not be interested if it's just for his body
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 05:02 PM
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Yes. but nobody claim it's empowering to take trash, rub the toilets or being yelled at when working with customers for a low salary
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 03:35 PM
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well, it's always more easy to blame others. add to that that when the relation is oven for one of the partner, but not the other, yet, the one for who it's already over, could, in fact, have an abusive behavior, because they have a resentment toward the others. (then the one who was not ready to be dumper, has a resentment toward the first one) so yes, it's more easy to tell ''oh this douchbag... idc'' than '' fuck i was blind and my unawareness causing me losing a great partner'' (not always t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 07:00 PM
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yes but he want a beautiful woman, that don't steal attention from him (not fun or interesting), but is a nice and cost-free accessorie when he go out with his pals. (in the extreme, this is what i understand)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 06:42 PM
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You're not targeting the right reason. Wome' doesn't have a check list, where the prize is '' in love'' once everything is checked. People (men and women) who cheat probably did it because they want something new, are not happy with their partner for whatever reasons but does not want to break their family, or maybe the midlife crisis and the need to feel attractive... There is a lot of reasons, and that is more true after 15-20 yo together, I guess. After years spent with the sale person, his b…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 08:22 AM
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I hope it's not the same people that are against condoms or abortion... That said it's not a contradiction if they think single mom shouldn't ' happens'. But when it 'happens' I would they can explain us what choice they wanted the women to do. Give up for adoption? (supposing that the father leave before the delivery) Work 3 jobs to pay daycare? What about the husband who leave when having 3 children already? Being homeless with their child?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 06:22 AM
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Yes but the paradox is that when you are more similar to men, they call you 'not a real girl' or make fun of you for being manly and friend zone you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 06:26 PM
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Kof kof, body count, Kof kof
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 12:56 PM
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You said what you think is damagefull for young boys, but, I would be interested to know what you wanted to hear from your mother instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 12:45 AM
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You suppose that everybody is taking themselves for how attractive they are. But a lot of people have a poor self esteem and think they are ugly when they aren't. And the chronically single tend to have a higher body count than those who are in LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 11:29 AM
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Do somebody here already had a LTR? Because well, being with someone attractive is great.. In the beginning. If you realise they are à total jerk/asshole/abusive... Well you'd be ready to trade them to have somebody nice. And, well idk, when I knew somebody for a long time, I just stop to give a fuck about their body, like, I see more how they behave, are they 'magneto' or 'Charles xavier' i' their way of thinking? Are they smiling? But well they grew old or gain weight? I don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 03:43 PM
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I think too much competition ruin everybody. It's not really a surprise if on these dating app you find a special category of people (who want sex/attention, who are lonely and/or don't want to settle, for most, i guess). So maybe these kind of app attract this special category of people. (i think it doesn't help, that's right, but apps doesn't create these people, it fullfill a need they already have) it's not representative of all people. it's like you complain because 'you're going to the chu…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 06:45 PM
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Well 1) I you've had a self destruction phase, cbd you're not in this anymore. It's not withdraw sex, it's having grow self respect. 2) you guys really expect that you will live the passion of novelty for 25 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 06:00 AM
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Caucasian from europa
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 06:29 AM
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i don't know if ''men do the first step'' is typically north-american, but when i was teen/young adult, i didn't knew it was a thing and did the first steps more than one time. it goes from '' i don't want to ruin our friendship '' (we were not really friend, but we were 15 so ok) , to the one who's not interested neither but ''give me a chance'' only to fuck me during 2-3 weeks then drop me (happens multiple time), to the one who wasn't interested but become FWB and do all kind of activities...…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 11:54 AM
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I don't think women have a classification for men like ''oh yes, hot alpha is dumb, so i'll fuck with him, then mary an ugly smart beta'' But I agree to tell that we become less superficial with years (maybe it's only me, i don't know) and are more interested by mental qualities like being nice with everyone (not just girls you want to bang, and not a mop neither), wise or open minded because it's more precious in everyday life than being a hot narcissist. (also we don't have tools to spot narci…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 11:27 PM
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OK so, some women should devote to satisfy them sexually, while others stay pure to marry them later ? Oo
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 11:03 PM
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What let me perplexe, is that the same category of people who think women must provide sex to them, seems to be also the people thinking a high body count is a no-go So we should 'taint' ourselves for them because? (without even talking about the fact that underage Natalie Portman is a 9/10 for them and everybody else is below, so there is a good chance that if regular women, actually wanted have sex or relationship with them, she will be rejeted because she's considered ugly)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 10:06 PM
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I did not had this problem, but I guess that game is like alcohol, in the way that you meet someone in a pub, catch feeling despite them being tipsy. Then you discover they are drinking daily, so it's a problem. If somebody game 8h daily, it's a problem, if they game 10-15 h à week end it's nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 01:27 PM
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Like when watching the beauty and the beast? I'll probably find him abusive and throw this shit away
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 01:26 PM
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We need to being honest, each time somebody disrespect the opposite gender, they indirectly make their own gender suffer. See a simplified example: 'women are weak' , is done to damage women. But implicitly it told that men are strong. Then men (and they are not wrong) suffer because everybody expect them to be strong. If you want people stop to expect that, stop to propagate the idea that women are weak. You can do the same example with 'women are emotional'
/r/ExRedPill11/06/20 11:26 AM
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Not sure if i understood you well, but, i don't think we should accept double -standards just because there is a reason behind (there is always a reason behind everything, so why the reason behind sleeping with a lot of guy is not accepted ? that's a mystery ;) ) the fact : men are insecure. they are allowed to be insecure. it's normal, it happens to everybody. what you said : men being insecure allow them to treat women that have a 'high' body count as sluts. no it didn't. nobody will force the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 04:35 PM
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i wished men were more open about their feelings and emotions, to other people. women or men. but i find it sad that we can be friend with someone for decade ,and in the end knowing so little about them, because it's almost always the same old jokes we told each others, about things,.. try to gather informations about their inner self by how they act, or things they tell, but actually, it's sad to not be able to have deeper connection with people. Also -thank reddit- it's not always easy for us,…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 01:21 PM
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if you snore, see a doctor... it's not really about physical attractiveness, but i would not even give a chance to a guy who snore before starting a relationship, and no i'll not take sleeping pills just because you don't want to see one lol have clean cloth... we prefer cloth where pets doesn't sleep on it and are full of hairs. Smell good : you don't need an expensive perfume, but some dudes are angry with the bathroom accessories... some others smoke in their car... not very attractive. wear …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 08:47 AM
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from experience, 1) But, i guess it's not because of these kind of parameters, but because of circumstances. and that both can happens, depending of the type of person you are dating. that matter more than the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 07:34 PM
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the real self-improvement is to grew a self-esteem and start liking yourself, then you can set boundaries, and don't take BS . Then you can care about and love others (loving others without a self-esteem or liking yourself is just being needy, most of the time, lol )
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 11:04 AM
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well actually xmen wasn't the best example because charles and eric are the teachers. I don't watch movie for a while, but, what was this movie with lady gaga and the old dude there ... a star is born ? the same old dude made a movie with lawrence. jumanjy, ah, yes, the rock and the young actress that play sansa in GoT. LotR: no women at all ... i can find movie where the co-star are the same ages(transformers?), but i can't find movie where the women is actually 45 while the man is 25...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 07:35 PM
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The problem is that 'society' value men that are like 40-55. See James bond, sir is like 50 while the girl is 27, most of the time, and most movie are like that. X-men, fassbender is like 43 while Lawrence was like 25. A 'normal' girl is under 30, while a 'normal' man is more than 40, so they are used to see old dudes, and thing it's normal, while dudes under 30 are seen as 'babies'
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 02:21 PM
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" I especially fear this is the case with ultra-feminist mothers who have such a dynamic where they’re raising a son and a daughter. " can you describe what a 'ultra-feminist' mean for you ? i'm afraid you think 'misandric mother' .. because i cannot share your impressions. i'm a bit older than the people you speak, but my brother, despite younger, was granted more rights because heh, otherwise he would have felt castreted by the fact he was younger and not able to do all the things i do ( no i …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 05:11 AM
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They don't, you just not recognize mysogyny, or you're not on teenagers, dankmeme unpopular opinions, thewall, mêmes, and others subs that are supposed to be for anyone but are just full of hate toward women, BTW this braincel sub take more time to become banned that antibraincel
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 03:17 PM
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Maybe it's not the girls that make the difference here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 05:14 AM
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Dana Skully
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 07:17 AM
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I'm sorry but I live in a first world country, and still have to hear '' to find a husband'' when I wanted a 2 bedrooms apartment. I' m not taking seriously when I'm mad, men went '' you have your periods'' or' you're hot when you're angry'' I' m was told to ignore my brother when he he tickle me '' until he 'll be bored of it and stops' ' (subtle way to learn to women to accept crap from men) and others stories like that So yes, our situation is far better than in others countries, but we did n…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:22 PM
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it could just be '' 25% of the time, when it's the shark week (of before, depending of the person) it's hell all around'' because PMS, pain, and so on
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 06:31 PM
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i'm glad i'm done with that (too old) because having a 56 yo who propose you sex, when you're 19 (and who is the FIL of your cousin...) or the stranger that that try to have sex with ''you're ugly, but i'm ok to fuck you tonight, but it's now or never'' honestly,... i'm glad age filter thoses POS.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 07:05 PM
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I'm sorry for the way your GF laughed at you about money, i'm sure you were doing your best already. But i have a question, why did you stay with her until you earn more ? because it look like you've got some advantage from her, that you think you wouldn't had without her, and then, that you can 'buy' from somebody else with money. So for you, the only worth of a women is ... his youngness ? worst, you would chose to stay alone above 'being with a 30 yo women (admiting you're 30 or more), becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 11:21 AM
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From what you said, you have some trauma to fuck all those broken girls, and you don't want to 'fix' them, fine. But you also tell 'fresh girl, fresh start' so i guess you hope a younger and less experimented girl to fix you, i can understand your choice, but it sound unfair to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 11:07 AM
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only men says women want tall men, a little bit like ''women like giant cock'' well.... not exactly, at least not true for everybody ! Because from our point of view (F) we see them like the guys who mix love and attraction. or is not able to get women his age because of his bullshit/redflag, or that can't share deep things with people his age because he's not in the same stage in his life (which could, or could not be a red flag)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:39 PM
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of course, but it's never 100% safe. just some stories from back then when we were teen. - my best friend had sex with a condom, still needed an abortion because she was pregnant. she swear the condom was not broken or what. - another friends had sex using condom, and AFTER,the guy told her 'oh just for you to know, i made a hole in the condom' like WTF ... but btw you answered only to the less interesting point here
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 08:57 PM
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1) " On days I feel really horny I masturbate up to five times per day. " who tell that girls masturbate less than that ? 2) well... we don't want to bring stranger to home or what... like, we are less strong physically so we don't really want to have trouble, being murdered or what. 3) don't forget that society always try to guilt-trip women who have a high body-count, while it's encouraged for men. Same thing to showing hornyness 4) one night stand are often... disapointing, i mean, the guy pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 08:44 PM
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"The only way 18 to 24 are her “best years” is if you want someone stupid enough to fuck you. " hello Léonardo DiCaprio ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 08:33 PM
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It's very hard (if not impossible) to find a subreddit to share idea about gender, that is not destroying the other gender. Most subreddit are mysogynistic, some, female specific are mysandric, and we don't have a damn place to be ourselves, without hating anybody, unless we want to be down vote to hell. That's sad because we could acknowledge each other, and try to be some better people, but no, We must fight everywhere...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 12:44 PM
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