| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 6 | Master list of custody terms to include in settlement request | All-Rounder21 | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/25 01:50 PM | |
| 2 | Recs for strong Cinci/NKY attorney for Fathers | All-Rounder21 | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/08/24 08:27 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 12 | Had a nice little surprise yesterdayKeep it up, King! | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/06/26 09:15 PM |
| 10 | Everytime I get my daughter (3) she tells me about ex wife’s new bfI share your pain in this, I hear it from my boy(4). It kills me too. Sometimes I want to say snarky shit about it, I try to just smile and move past it. Let’s agree to keep eyes on the prize of being true fathers to our kids and maximizing the quality of our time together. -KY Dad | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/05/26 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else going through divorce or heartbreak and feel like you’ve kind of lost yourself?Hang in there bro I’m with you. Do something fun for yourself this weekend. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/08/25 09:59 PM |
| 4 | Was served today, I am fumingI’m sorry man, I too lived this exactly 1 year ago this weekend. I got 50/50 just recently, you will too. Try to keep cool. Run or lift to exhaustion rather than lash out, bide your time and protect perception. I was accused of the same things you are being accused of. I was dumb, but you will be smarter. Every communication will be used in court. I would consider very short courteous emails every 2-3 days simply requesting parenting time. Then let the lawyer take over in 8 days. You will get th… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/07/25 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Any Dads/dudes in DFW Struggling Post-Separation? Let’s Link UpI wish you were in Cincinnati! Same boat. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/25 02:58 PM |
| 2 | STBXW boyfriend confirmedSame boat with ya man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/25 02:06 AM |
| 12 | My son’s mother is trying to ruin me.I hear and see you brother. I’m fighting for my rights to be with my 3yo son as well. 11-months and $55K down, but we cannot ever give in to the selfish evil of our stbx’s. It will be worth it in the end, our boys need their fathers. “As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another” we must keep going. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/25 09:51 AM |
| 8 | Oh gentlemen, how I hate my lifeI’m sorry man, it sucks. I have a 3yo too. I’m 8-months in and still fighting for equality. Take some solace from me on this: Your ex is handing you 50/50 on a silver platter with her behavior and drinking. Keep cool at all times now, secure equality now, secure the bag, start to build a new branch on the tree of life. I’ll do the same. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/03/25 02:07 PM |
| 3 | This Has Been Absolute Hell, But I Secured 50/50 CustodyCongratulations brother! I hope to achieve equality in a couple months too. 35k to fight off lies with zero evidence, but money is nothing compared to time with our children. My 3yo son is my world. You earned it, now enjoy a little extra time together while you job hunt. The world is taking more turns right now than the Hotwheels track running all through my house, that will also create opportunities for a determined resourceful person like yourself. Peace. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/02/25 04:13 AM |
| 3 | Life does get better (I did not believe it)Well done mate keep it up | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/01/25 07:52 PM |
| 8 | Losing everythingThings will improve, remember that. I walk the same path. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/01/25 02:02 AM |
| 2 | She lied so much in her court filingsMine put me on soberlink alcohol testing while I climb towards 50/50. No evidence presented, only her “feelings” of concern was enough. Be careful out there and keep fighting | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/01/25 01:46 AM |
| 3 | Almost made it 1 year in post-divorce relationshipYou have a forward path which is better than a lot of guys I’m happy for you man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/01/25 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Almost made it 1 year in post-divorce relationshipCan you elaborate on this? I have a 3yo, joint custody, but having to defend myself to great length to achieve 50/50. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/01/25 07:43 PM |
| 2 | How many of you are still friends w your ex wife?Exact same here man. It’s like her mom feels more entitled to be a parent to my son than I am as his father. Ex and MIL drop my son off together and it’s like letting father and son be together is a nuisance to them. She was a homebody before, now chatty with all divorced trashy chicks. My natural instinct is peace and friendship, I have to remind myself every day she will use any potential window of opportunity to destroy me and take my son. A 15-year nightmare. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/12/24 12:02 PM |
| 1 | It got better, way better. (I know you’re tired of hearing this)Me too. 5 months. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/11/24 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Ok to go through life as a single dad?MGOTW? | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/09/24 06:00 PM |
| 6 | Went looking for answers..Rock bottom.I’m with you man, one day at a time now. I will do it with you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/09/24 10:03 PM |
| 6 | Check in - 2 years and countingThank you for this OP. I wish you the best, your spirit and perspective is an inspiration to me. 2-months in with a 2yo son. Please pray for me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/08/24 07:40 PM |
| 3 | Today’s my bday.Happy Birthday mate! | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/08/24 11:04 PM |
| 2 | Surviving the cost of divorce with two young kids. How did you do it guys?This re-energized me thank you | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/08/24 10:44 AM |
| 5 | Surviving the cost of divorce with two young kids. How did you do it guys?Good points thank you kind sir. If you get a chance, any advice on my early road to achieve 50/50? Wife currently won’t let my young son stay with me. She stays at her parents nearby and allows me 4-630p 3-weekdays and 930-630p 1-weekend day. I’m playing along to not provoke a fight until we start either collaborate divorce or court. It’s been 6 weeks of this so far and my relationship with my son is good but slowly degrading I feel due to so little time together. Lawyers are speaking but being … | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/08/24 02:12 AM |
| 2 | Turning a corner.I’m just 2-weeks post finding out wife filed. I have a long road and am still using the honey charm. The few times we’ve spoken, I can see in her eyes that the woman I know is no longer there. I am coming to terms with her decision, and am trying to keep the fear down until I know how hard she’s gonna come after me. I have a 2yo son, we had a great morning at the zoo, and was doom reading a bit this afternoon, but about to wake him up from nap and hit the pool. May I ask how you feel about / rea… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/07/24 08:26 PM |
| 5 | Turning a corner.Commenting to save, thanks man I needed this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/07/24 07:54 PM |
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