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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | How to prevent STDs & Stay Safe?The truth is, no matter how many precautions you take, you’re always going to be rolling the dice in some capacity. I think experience is your friend though. After being with enough women, you can kinda tell which girls are absurdly promiscuous through experience. I would avoid them all together. | /r/seduction | 29/06/24 03:57 PM |
| 6 | Bars and nightclubs are a huge waste of time. Thoughts?I think a very small amount of women go to these places for “adventures in the night”. I feel like it’s mainly groups of friends there just because of something fun for them to do. | /r/seduction | 15/06/24 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Guys who kiss/get laid on first dates, how do you physicaly escalate?Your personality is all you need to “seduce” and you don’t need to be a flirty person if that’s not who you are. Women do not care about getting some alpha male who’s going to fuck them like a pornstar. | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 02:18 AM |
| 0 | Guys who kiss/get laid on first dates, how do you physicaly escalate?Owning your insecurities is the first step to getting over them. Bashing your head against the wall on the other hand is just a waste of time. | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 01:54 AM |
| -1 | Guys who kiss/get laid on first dates, how do you physicaly escalate?Admitting your insecurities and being vulnerable will get you further than pretending to be something you’re not 100% of the time. But you believe what you want. | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 01:46 AM |
| -12 | Guys who kiss/get laid on first dates, how do you physicaly escalate?If you’re not that guy, you’re not that guy. You’re talking to me about “light touches” and “escalation”. To be honest you could just tell her it’s hard for you to get comfortable with someone you don’t know too well and she’ll understand. If she likes you enough you’re getting laid one way or another. | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Question for women: how often do you get approached by men in public?Do you consider yourself unattractive, average, or attractive? I ask because another running dialogue about this is that the more attractive you are, the less likely you are to be approached due to the intimidation factor. (Though it might not make sense as you’d be more “desirable” so to speak) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Question for women: how often do you get approached by men in public?What do you mean by cracking laugh in this case? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 12:38 AM |
| 8 | Question for women: how often do you get approached by men in public?Keep your head up queen! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/24 11:51 PM |
| 23 | Some men's obsession with deflowering a virgin is stupid but the argument made against it are even stupider.So, I completely agree with you. The argument is stupid. Someone who has had 100+ sexual partners because they seek validation through sex could actually be a worse lay than a woman who values commitment because they haven’t taken the time to explore what they like. You really can’t achieve this if you’re constantly jumping from partner to partner as you’ll likely not get comfortable enough to be at that level of vulnerability and voice your preferences. The only thing I’ll add is 99.9% of non-v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/24 11:48 PM |
| 3 | How do you get over just feeling super awkward if you go out by yourself? Especially if you don't have friends and aren't super talkative?So, here’s the deal. If you’re going out with the intention of talking to strangers and forcing yourself to talk to people, you will always be an awkward/anxious mess because that sounds horrible! You have to tell yourself, for example “Oh I’d love to go to this bar, because I love their food and I am hungry.” Is there anything wrong with a guy going out to grab something to eat? No. You’ll be there, you won’t be as nervous. Then, either someone will chat you up occasionally OR you can strike up… | /r/seduction | 03/06/24 04:29 PM |
| 2 | Any of you guys on here deal with sexual performance anxiety ?If so what has your experience with it been like over the years ?Doesn’t matter if it’s an fwb or a relationship. If you have sexual performance anxiety, you should share that with whoever you’re having sex with. 95% of the time they’ll be completely understanding as women have sexual insecurities of their own. Get this idea out of your head that you gotta stop being a “puss” and “fuck the shit out of her”. Sex in real life is a lot different from porn. | /r/seduction | 01/06/24 01:33 AM |
| 10 | Too busy to dateSo many people here are caught up on this idea that the date lasted 4 hours. If there was chemistry, then 4 hours is no big deal. If I have enough chemistry with someone I could easily talk to them for 4 hours. Not to mention, it’s not like she was there against her will. She would have made it perfectly apparent that she wanted to leave if it was lasting too long. Like some of the other people said, tell her you’re cool with keeping it casual. Maybe you could indeed get an fwb out of it! | /r/seduction | 01/06/24 01:29 AM |
| 7 | I'm stuck with a girlHello stranger on the internet. I will tell you that I did the exact same thing as you when I was younger. I thought sex would be this ultra mind blowing experience and it got to the point where I was willing to sleep with anyone. Well…I did, and it turns out the sex got old very quickly and soon I was stuck with a girl I was not attracted to and had a horrible personality. If I were you, I would just tell her a version of the truth. Tell her, at the beginning you thought you were a match and it… | /r/seduction | 31/05/24 11:15 PM |
| 0 | Any tips to attract women as a rising seniorTo be honest, if you haven’t been getting girls this whole time in high school, I wouldn’t have any crazy expectations for your last year…just being honest. Maybe make an effort to be more involved….join a sport or a club during your last year. If you don’t meet anybody new, at least you’ll have something to slap on your yearbook. I’m not sure if you’re going to college, but if you are….I promise you better days are ahead. College is a goldmine for dating and it’ll be the easiest it will get. | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Daygame Statistics - My first 1000 ApproachesAt this point, you’re just banging your head against the wall dude. It’s either your giving these girls a bad vibe, your approach sucks, or you’re just not a very appealing person. | /r/seduction | 22/05/24 03:56 PM |
| 4 | When will you be done with pickup/active dating?The truth is, this is a vice just like drugs and alcohol. There’s a thrill to it. Probably when I find a deeper purpose in life I’ll move on lol. | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 12:01 AM |
| 9 | How many people have a hard time dealing with AA?In my experience, approach anxiety is the result of having a bad mentality about this whole thing. If you're leaving the house with the thought of forcing yourself to talk to women and getting prepared for rejections....of course you're going to feel anxiety. Who wouldn't? | /r/seduction | 05/05/24 06:09 PM |
| -7 | I think the cure for inceldom for most incels is a purely sexual casual encounter.I’m not sure why you’re getting downvoted, I think you’re 100% right. When you get to the point of “inceldom” or the “black pill” you’re in too deep. You aren’t going to reason yourself into having higher self esteem. It sucks, but honestly at that point just get on a dating app and sleep with anybody. You’ll get that validation that yes, somebody out there think you’re worth a damn, and you’ll also realize that sex and relationships are highly complex things and variable experiences. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/04/24 02:39 AM |
| 12 | Red pill is the truthIt’s your life dude, if you want to believe that…go ahead. See how far that gets you. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/24 12:13 AM |
| 22 | Red pill is the truthFor the redpill to be true, you have to assume people are animals. If you’ve ever wanted to kill somebody, but didn’t, you’ve already proven to yourself that you are a human being, not an animal. You do not act on instinct alone…you think about consequences and emotions. The redpill is a load of crap, get real. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/24 12:09 AM |
| 2 | So how many men are actually having casual sex?I used to live in this apartment complex that was nothing but other mid-20s and it had PAPER-THIN walls. If someone were to walk down the steps, watch tv, take a shower, use the bathroom, I would know about it because I could hear it. I lived there for a little over a year, and not once did I hear anybody having sex. The only person I heard having sex….was me! How many men are actually having casual sex? Who knows… I mean here you’re going to get more than most because we’re all exredpill. We al… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/24 09:59 PM |
| 17 | The "Liberal Andrew Tate"I don’t mean to rain on your parade, but if you think you’re going to be some sort of new messiah in the manosphere…. you won’t. There’s a reason toxic advice becomes so popular. People in general are lazy, and prefer the path of least resistance. If you have a poor attitude, boring life, and struggle with women, you tend to feel a lot better just blaming women, society, feminism, etc… A more “wholesome” andrew tate is just your average average guy that takes care of themselves and has a healthy… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/24 09:49 PM |
| 14 | What pisses me off the most about redpillersThat’s gotta be hard to deal with. People will just look on the surface level instead of wondering “hey, he must make her really happy!” I’m not sure if this is the same over where you’re from, but it could just be a bubble that you’re in. It just so happens that all the people you are surrounded by are on the shallow side…and maybe there are people in your country that are more level headed. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/24 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Do you think dating around is conducive to finding a healthy long term relationship?I see what you’re saying, but I feel like if you are a sound, secure man that knows what they are looking for…it’s better to stick with one girl at a time as a way of appropriately vetting them. Date one girl, 3-4 dates….not really feeling anything…you break it off and THEN onto the next one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 10:50 PM |
| 8 | Hitting women should not be controversialWomen are not instigators of domestic abuse because they “feel they can get away with it.” They are instigators because those specific women are damaged people that learned this is an appropriate response to emotions at home. I don’t know who you are, but there’s this “they’re out to get me” mentality I’m picking up on from you. Forgive me if I am wrong. Another thing is, yes, women generally are smaller and weaker and I do believe that’s a sound reason for this whole thing. Say a woman slaps yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 10:45 PM |
| 33 | Hitting women should not be controversialOther than true self defense, there is absolutely no excuse to be hitting ANYBODY. “Equal rights, equal fights” was only ever spoken by children, or the most insecure men you could imagine. If there is physical violence in a relationship, that relationship is OVER. If you are perpetrating physical violence in a relationship (man or woman), you have a serious problem. If you are a man, and use physical violence as a means of intimidation and control, you are not a man. You are a coward with no em… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Do you think dating around is conducive to finding a healthy long term relationship?What’s your opinion on this… So I believe if you are in an impoverished nation, or basically anywhere where there’s a serious struggle, “loving marriages” are kind of a luxury. I feel like the arranged marriage in this instance will be more prevalent because it serves as a division of labor in the household. The goal is simply to survive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Do you think dating around is conducive to finding a healthy long term relationship?I’m saying dating several women at the same time for example. For another extreme example…take the show the Bachelor. Scripted or not, just consider that situation. Even if a potential wife was in the crowd of 30 women…how could the man every develop any real connection if he’s focusing his attention on all these other women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 09:14 PM |
| 5 | Do you think dating around is conducive to finding a healthy long term relationship?Oh I agree with this 100%, but many believe very strongly in this. I have had many friends from both India and Southeast Asia, and their parents swear “It Works!” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 09:12 PM |
| 55 | That's the deal with using "Female"Well, long story short…it’s a way of dehumanizing women. When you dehumanize them to hypergamous animals with no self control or preferences…it’s a lot easier to treat them like shit! | /r/ExRedPill | 11/04/24 11:08 PM |
| 9 | How "good" do I have to be to find a girlfriend?I think your focus should be to get rid of this mentality. This “I just want someone….anyone PLEASE” kind of mentality. You need to accept who you are, and get to the point where you want a girlfriend that is good for YOU. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/04/24 12:32 AM |
| 32 | Lost all respect for Fresh and Fit today.I’m just another person here to say that anybody that is using the fresh and fit podcast as a guide for morality….relationships….general life advice is completely fucking lost. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/04/24 05:58 AM |
| – | Are passports bros horrible people ?Incorrect. I am a former redpill guy. Everything I learned about the passport bro lifestyle has been from redpill men, and this is the reasoning that THEY gave me. This ranges from personal friends to forums to youtube channels. I’m also getting a butthurt tone from your response, I think you should work on that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Are passports bros horrible people ?I think you’d match the first personality. See the second one implies you’re doing it for nefarious reasons. If you admire the city life more and feel you belong in the city, nothing wrong with that! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 02:12 AM |
| 6 | Are passports bros horrible people ?I have always been put off by the passport bro thing. Consider this… Here’s a man from the west that has always been fascinated by say… Columbian culture, attracted by Columbian women, and felt living there would be a net positive. He decides to move to Columbia and meets his wife there and settles down. Nothing wrong with that. Now lets say you’re a neurotic guy from the west. You struggle with women and think “hey I hear Columbian women are raised “traditionally” and will respect me authority … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 01:38 AM |
| 1 | What are characteristics of a good girlfriend? What are some red flags that I should watch out for?This is a question that is way too loaded. What might be a good girlfriend to some, may be a nightmare to others. In general, a good girlfriend is one you are comfortable being yourself around. One where you do not have to walk on eggshells and one that respects your boundaries. Red flags? This is also loaded….to be honest you’re much better off going off of gut feelings than any arbitrary “rules”. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/04/24 02:01 AM |
| 10 | Checkmate, RedpillersI mean sure, most people love to root for the underdog because everyone can relate to that feeling of being not good enough on some level. I think a bigger issue here is that redpill dumbs human beings down to animals. It doesn’t really aligns with concepts like “person preference” “morals” or “self-control.” | /r/ExRedPill | 01/04/24 10:33 PM |
| 0 | How has the redpill ideology negatively affected your life?Care to share? | /r/ExRedPill | 01/04/24 07:01 AM |
| 3 | I can’t be vulnerable around people, especially womenWell, the first thing I'd like to say is it's a good thing that you have this level of self-awareness AND that you know the importance of vulnerability in relationships with women and anybody for that matter. The thing about vulnerability is that it is something you will not be comfortable with until you are comfortable with yourself. This is why you feel "weird and gross" after you share something personal (be it an emotion, a thought, and experience, etc...) You have to come to terms with who … | /r/ExRedPill | 01/04/24 05:32 AM |
| 4 | Is it a conflict of interest to be learning about "female nature" from other men?“Surveys are not reliable, women will lie down, men lie up.” I would agree with you if it was a conversation between friends. I just cannot understand why someone would lie on an anonymous surveys not connected to them whatsoever… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 05:06 PM |
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