AllThatJack Archive

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1	Bad news: Didn't get the number. Good new: I had the balls to approach. Great step forward and this is why, you should talk to ALL of them. It get’s easier. Also, instead of going for the digits at that point I’d of said, “I gotta get back to this so I’m not here all day, you’re fun, let’s grab a smoothie after and hangout a bit”.... Then, proceed with the digits after that get together Nevertheless, good encounter, keep it up.	/r/seduction	12/01/20 07:55 PM
1	Are people here going for girls/guys that they don’t find that attractive? It makes no sense! Cheers to you and happy holidays! I believe your parents are correct. I also believe our society has lost it’s mind. You, and your perfect mate are perfectly healthy and sane to see someone else and go “Damn, she’s beautiful, or damn dude is handsome”. Beautiful is beautiful but that doesn’t mean anything when it comes to someone truly lighting you up inside and out.	/r/seduction	25/12/19 11:53 PM
1	Are people here going for girls/guys that they don’t find that attractive? It makes no sense! Noted, my bad, and good point. I’d offer one guess on that. The people they find attractive they believe to be out of their league which in many ways, solidifies this. Or, they are hyper focussed on features and attraction levels that are, simply bs. Yeah, agreed, it’s weird and it’s self defeating to connect with someone you aren’t attracted to.	/r/seduction	25/12/19 11:38 PM
2	All of a sudden she stops texting Stop, just stop. IF she was attracted, there would be ZERO barriers to her availability. She’d cancel plans to be with you. The moment she said she wasn’t looking for dates was the moment to bail. Cease contact, move on. This is what it is, not a big deal, a million others out there. Do NOT waste time with women that aren’t in to you. They’ll respect you for that and she’ll respect you for it. If she changes her mind? She’ll contact you, period. I wish I’d of learned this at your age. There is s…	/r/seduction	25/12/19 11:29 PM
2	Are people here going for girls/guys that they don’t find that attractive? It makes no sense! The moral of the story is what are you basing your number system on? Cover girl? Bikini Model? Can you actually enjoy TALKING to this woman after you’ve slept together? Are you simply trying desperately to raise your status in life based upon what you look like standing next to her? The numbers are skewed in favor of the beautiful ones, alway’s. However, the math never works. If you like her, who gives a shit what anyone else thinks? It’s like finding a hot woman with an average looking dude. Sh…	/r/seduction	25/12/19 11:23 PM
2	Approaching is a lot easier than it seems, but i feel like there is something i am still missing Also I’d’ note, be more of a rifle instead of a shotgun. Nothing screams desperate more than approaching every woman. Look around, use those openers to have conversations. Ask them about theirselves. You may find 6 out of 10 you Aren’t really that excited about spending time with. It’s completely ok to actually “like” the one(s) you get numbers from. Saves a lot of wasted time going out on dates With women that you realize in the first ten minutes that you don’t want to be around. Being picky fo…	/r/seduction	25/12/19 11:03 PM
2	I have a girl over to watch movies on my bed. What's my next move? Agreed and? Just to clarify, I have no idea how old you/her are. If your in Middle School, High School, whatever Please use your brains. If you live at home with your parents? I don’t recommend sleeping with this girl While your dad is watching the evening news ok? I’m not a pig, or any version of the above but I learned long ago many many lessons firsthand. Brass tax, this girl/woman wants to be there with you and is coming over again. By getting this out of the way immediately? You know where …	/r/seduction	25/12/19 10:42 PM
3	I have a girl over to watch movies on my bed. What's my next move? Ok, I have to jump in here. When she knocks on the door, open it, grab her hand, lead her in. Close the door, grab her other hand, but both above her head, back her against the door and FOR CHRISTS SAKE KISS HER GOOD. THIS IS WHY SHE CAME THERE IN THE FIRST DAMN PLACE. Ya’ll are nuts. I’ve never EVER had a woman show up to my place that I didn’t SLEEP WITH. Wait, there were two out of a hundred. On there way over, I decided I DIDN”T WANT TO. THEY ANNOYED ME... Seriously, apologize for the caps, …	/r/seduction	25/12/19 10:16 PM
12	Why Intellect Only Gets You So Far Badass my man, badass. Crashing, perfect read before bed time. The authentic self is made up of so many nuances, nooks and crannies. The message here is cater to thyself, indulge in your narcissism to build an existence that is far above the base reality of everyday life. Do this, and she will be yours, hell the universe will. I just sat and played Like a Stone by Cornell on my Epiphone. I’ve played it a thousand times it seems. Now and then, tonight was one, it sent shivers down my spine. The z…	/r/TheRedPill	16/08/19 01:40 AM
39	The meek inherit nothing. THIS I cannot over emphasize the relevance of this post. I built a career out of thin air and experienced much that people around me didn’t. Witnessed many colleagues in the middle of raising their young ones, going back to school because their careers were stalled. I worked, harder on my personality, speaking/presentation skills, communications, than any area of my skill sets next to my technical knowledge. It paid off. I took advantage of every opportunity around me and was able to move far be…	/r/TheRedPill	12/08/19 01:43 AM
5	To The Young Virgin Red Pillers: Give It Time When you’ve realized the journey your on is about a quality life you’ve arrived. The rest will fall in place.	/r/TheRedPill	29/07/19 03:42 PM
2	The Number 1 Turn Off I Keep Hearing From Women Agreed wholeheartedly. It’s not about being a prick, lol. I think overanalyzing any of this is a disorder many of us fall prey to. It’s a generalization and it works well. I believe the point is, on the whole, they love for us to lead. However, there are plenty of times they’ll jump in and take part. Great point and re Alpha trait? Sure I’m certain having a plan in most/all situations is. I think that word is highly overused as well. But, my point is, it can’t be understated that women love it w…	/r/TheRedPill	27/07/19 10:53 PM
3	The Number 1 Turn Off I Keep Hearing From Women And yeah, agreed. I’m not referring to gluttony but being open to new experiences. Definitely.	/r/TheRedPill	26/07/19 12:41 AM
18	The Number 1 Turn Off I Keep Hearing From Women This is just enormous. I’ve dated sooo many women and have been told consistently “You’re the man”. Simply because I have one question when it comes time for dinner (either in or out). Do you have any food allergies? Next, Do you like to dance? Never ask a woman what she’d like to do, where she’d like to go, any of it. It’s simply not necessary. She wants you to manage it all. Do it well and you will get laid every time. Do it poorly and yes, she’ll find another man. Blew my mind when I made thi…	/r/TheRedPill	25/07/19 12:01 AM
3	If you want to know what chicks want, what they really really want, just listen to them: "I guess you didn’t like guys who were—Dependable." The best trait to exhibit is not giving two fucks. Why? Well if you are on your mission, attending to your greatness, going after a life that is full and worthy you won’t have much time on your hands to chase tail or give two fucks. It’s simple, women want a man who have a life. When you make them that life the magic is gone.	/r/TheRedPill	02/05/19 03:32 AM
2	“Man is not on this earth to be happy or honest. He is here to realize his powers and take what he wants, to obtain and destroy all obstacles and surpass the stagnation in which the existence of almos I seek balance in all that I am and all that I do	/r/TheRedPill	22/03/19 01:27 AM
2	Post mortem of a LTR with high-value woman, 10 lessons learned. Thanks man, yes, agreed wholeheartedly. Also? Both sides of the coin fuck up. If you draw a line and cross it yourself does it mean you are without redemption? Hell no, at least I don’t believe so. People fuck up, recognize it and move on. Want someone to consider you high value and worth investing in? Behave as such and hold yourself to higher standards. I grew up in the era that all contracts were broken. The men in my family? Were largely drunks and abusive. There are two sides to every coin.…	/r/TheRedPill	11/03/19 12:05 AM
6	Beta dude thought he was in a relationship, not according to his girlfriend tho Also, nothing addicts a guy like commitment to the idea of sex visa vie the promise of the almighty unicorn. In a twisted sense of nature, nothing addicts a woman like straight up, right out of the gate smashed against the wall hot sticky sex. So bizarre, took me forever to learn this. Damn red pill wasn’t around back then. I look back at all the tail I left on the table because of my moronic “divorced mother absent father” upbringing. Do your job and she’ll be at your door, doing your laundry, …	/r/TheRedPill	10/03/19 09:06 PM
14	Post mortem of a LTR with high-value woman, 10 lessons learned. I have to add here you are correct and with all the data OP supplied she was just the kind of woman you’d want to pursue for a LTR. The fact that she shared it with her parents in the first place indicate a solid individual with a good head on her shoulders. I feel bad the OP lost this relationship however he held to his standards. A man has to stand his ground and draw the line with his woman and his world. The OP has a high status life and makes big change, he’s interesting and has filled in a…	/r/TheRedPill	09/03/19 05:52 PM
2	The Reason Beta Males Pedestalize Women - "Beta males are rarely in a position to witness the worst of women." Yup, I’ve read it, know it. Good post, and valid. All I’m saying is at the end of the day a man chooses to rise above or be a victim of the things around us. I’ve been a victim myself and as such learned how to navigate. My second wife, and last, got the boot when she failed my expectations, and didn’t do her job. I took things into my own hands and ever since have navigated well.	/r/TheRedPill	06/03/19 05:55 AM
16	The Reason Beta Males Pedestalize Women - "Beta males are rarely in a position to witness the worst of women." And it’s spot on from the view point that hypergamy is in direct answer to OUR natures. Most men with options, will fuck those options whenever given the chance. A woman will behave how you lead her to behave. The post earlier about the “nice guy” who gave his relationship four years? Women want us to fuck them, period, they are here for the same reason as us but societal judgement, etc... prevents them from making the move and most “good girls” will alway’s push back. They want us to push throu…	/r/TheRedPill	05/03/19 11:07 PM
11	Beachbloke's notes on what girls want from alphas Great post, this and the OP. I’d like to add the beauty in this is by behaving in such a manner we find ourselves becoming the man that is not only desired by the female species, but more importantly, by ourselves. It’s been said time and time again, the journey is where the beauty is. We set goals, achieve them, set new goals. We grow stronger inside and out by tending the garden, protecting those close to us and become a person people want to spend time with. This is amazingly powerful stuff. …	/r/TheRedPill	01/03/19 01:20 PM
11	Why I Love Hypergamy As a man, that’s reached that place I agree. After 2 marriages (don’t even, I know, stupid) and being single 16 years I know that emotion. Also, I was an accidental Alpha for many of the last 15 years for a few base reasons. One, the last two years of my marriage were brutal, as a result, I decided to get in a gym, and started cycling. Now keep in mind, none of this was for preparing for the market, it was for my own sanity. I was a father of kids nearly teenaged, and I didn’t drink or anything …	/r/TheRedPill	24/02/19 12:00 AM
1	Shit test - wife suggested I go elsewhere for blowjobs I also have to add here. Many great comments but the first one that struck me? She’s just not into head. Aka, I learned to spot em a long time ago. Any guy who’s had a woman that likes giving head vs a woman who’s doing her duty? Two completely separate women. Just as I’ve heard women bitch their man didn’t go down on them. Me? I can’t NOT. I see it and my mouth waters and I have to eat it. Despite the picture porn paints not everyone is orally fixated. Nothing is better than a woman who likes t…	/r/TheRedPill	20/02/19 04:33 AM
3	Blue pill Atlantic espouses redpill theory: “Women, more than men, tend to feel stultified by long-term exclusivity—despite having been taught that they were designed for it.” Ok, so, tonight it happened. Digest this.... A woman I had a brief fling with, eight years ago, and I reconnected just recently. She’s fifteen years younger than me, I’m 53 she’s 38, petite, dead sexy. She’s going through a divorce, and is full on ready to drive here (about an hour) to spend the weekend soon. From the moment I first met her I pulled no punches and went after her full throttle, it absolutely rocked. We didn’t really break up, just got distracted, etc... So Valentine’s Day comes a…	/r/TheRedPill	16/02/19 03:33 AM
2	Blue pill Atlantic espouses redpill theory: “Women, more than men, tend to feel stultified by long-term exclusivity—despite having been taught that they were designed for it.” Yeah, I was that guy a time or two when younger. If RedPill existed then I would’ve saved myself the embarrassment. Women will beg for you to spill your guts, it drives them. Don’t, does’nt mean you have to be a “closed book” but no matter what they ask, don’t spill. Women want a sensitive “man” which is far from a woman. Marcus Aurelius, meditations, stoicism as a way of life. Yes, they will ALWAYS PUSH for you to be “that guy”, DON”T. And hey, don’t take my word for this stuff, read through th…	/r/TheRedPill	16/02/19 12:12 AM
2	Blue pill Atlantic espouses redpill theory: “Women, more than men, tend to feel stultified by long-term exclusivity—despite having been taught that they were designed for it.” Recommending to go up to them in person, cautioning you against becoming “that guy” by invading marriages and hell even BF/GF. Rise above, don’t be the dick everyone hates. We all make mistakes, but we don’t have to make every mistake. Go after the single women.	/r/TheRedPill	15/02/19 11:57 PM
5	Blue pill Atlantic espouses redpill theory: “Women, more than men, tend to feel stultified by long-term exclusivity—despite having been taught that they were designed for it.” THIS! Ill tell you another thing, I am a hard core foodie who has been cooking since I was young. I don’t take them out at all. I love to “entertain” and they loooove it. Hey, come over Friday night, I picked out a great wine and I’m putting something tasty on to go with it. Game over, so easy and most of them will say “that’s awesome I hate going out”, even if they are lying (who cares?). I lose nothing, I was going to eat and drink a little red anyway, now I got someone to share it with and se…	/r/TheRedPill	15/02/19 07:41 PM
0	Blue pill Atlantic espouses redpill theory: “Women, more than men, tend to feel stultified by long-term exclusivity—despite having been taught that they were designed for it.” Dude, seriously? You didn’t just ask that. Everywhere. Jesus nowadays they got websites for it. I’m old, I meet women the old way, face to face, Hi, I’m Jack, you are? This shit ain’t tough by any means. However, I’d caution you, that’s not a pursuit I’d recommend. It’s dishonorable in so many way’s and you just might find a gun to your head as a result. There are tons of single women, all ages, you don’t have to put yourself in that situation.	/r/TheRedPill	15/02/19 07:29 PM
4	Blue pill Atlantic espouses redpill theory: “Women, more than men, tend to feel stultified by long-term exclusivity—despite having been taught that they were designed for it.” Young man, I’d recommend you read between the lines here, and gather the best of red pill and put it to good use. We all read and digest things differently but for me it’s this. Work on yourself, become the best version of YOU. You can choose at any time to join in the quest to sleep with as many women as possible (seems to be a thing) and ignore your urges to cultivate any form of ltr however, I’d say, none of that in the end is going to contribute to your personal happiness like building the k…	/r/TheRedPill	15/02/19 07:26 PM
20	Blue pill Atlantic espouses redpill theory: “Women, more than men, tend to feel stultified by long-term exclusivity—despite having been taught that they were designed for it.” Well good for them for finally publishing the truth. As everyone has long been aware, monogamy and marriage are a construct of society that benefits it in many way’s. Not the least being economics. Anyone that has had any kind of sex life understands women are no more or less monogamous than men. If your not convinced, go sleep with married women. I did it (not proud, in fact stopped) when I was divorced the second time around and though it’s been a long time ago I’m still amazed to this day. Al…	/r/TheRedPill	14/02/19 06:43 PM
1	How To Pass A Girl’s Emasculation Test \| ...She pulled a stunt as we passed a group of dudes that I’ll never forget... “Hey you’ll always be my best friend!!” This and take a moment to analyze why you were here in the first place. If you wasn’t banging her, you simply shouldn’t have been there. I’ve seen it, lived it, it’s a hard cold lesson that should let you know “waiting” in any way is a bullshit proposition.	/r/TheRedPill	08/02/19 12:49 AM
34	[25m] my girlfriend[24f] told me she had only slept with 3 guys, her best friend[24f] blurted out that they slept with a guy every city in Europe they visited Agreed and I have to say there’s a ton of truth on this site. I’d enjoyed it immensely. Also, as an old school guy (53) who’s learned a few realities on my own over the years (experience is golden) whenever this subject comes up with women, the worst thing a man can do is put her ON THE PEDESTAL. Now, by fawning over her you virtually created the LIE. I’ve learned early on how to get a woman to TALK OPENLY IN BED and admit right out of the gate reality. SHE IS A SEXUAL CREATURE LIKE YOU. Truly e…	/r/TheRedPill	08/02/19 12:35 AM
1	Hypergamy doesn't care - University edition Read the sidebar, digest the material, pay attention to what’s happening around you. Sure there are a lot of angry guys here, men who were stripped of their well being and left with nothing from horrifying divorce proceedings. There’s so much information it can be overwhelming. Read between the lines, find out where you want to be and go there. I’m not going to detail the porn story it’s not my style. Suffice it to say if you want a woman for a bit or awhile you have to be “The Man”. Even then! …	/r/TheRedPill	23/01/19 02:31 AM
5	Hypergamy doesn't care - University edition Sex God Method, hands down. The funny thing is I hadn’t read it. What I did have, was one unique interaction with a very submissive woman and in a word, after 20 years of romanticism on my part (yeah, ashamed, I was “that” guy), I unloaded on her. Something struck a chord in me, and I went apeshit. This was prior to the publication of “Shades of Grey” and to this day I’m still not certain what “broke” in me but by the end of that evening she was on her knees calling me “Master”, and “Your Majest…	/r/TheRedPill	22/01/19 11:02 PM
16	Hypergamy doesn't care - University edition Yeah my only comment here is Jeff just beat her to the punch. Her Hypergamy was bound to kick in sooner or later and women rarely get caught cheating as well. Often the branch swing is to someone they’ve been banging for quite some time. One can’t overthink this shit. After two divorces, raising my own kids (yeah I beat the system 30 yrs ago on that shit) and hitting the dating market at my best, I learned many things. The biggest was married women love cheating and have absolutely ZERO conscien…	/r/TheRedPill	22/01/19 04:08 AM
1	Consider the bottom 80% - Your competition is pathetic This..... DGAF IM 53, 5’8” avg... well dressed but not peacocking, per the op, nice pad, clean, etc... love to cook, skydive, travel, I have my own life and it’s INTERESTING. Not setting any records nor do I care to but if the urge strikes me, getting laid is easy, has been ever since the day I realized I DGAF. Women sense this and it drives them apeshit. It’s easy to keep frame when you DGAF. Age doesn’t matter nor much else. Per other posters, I don’t go for top tier, I’ve had em and largely I…	/r/TheRedPill	29/08/18 04:48 PM