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| 0 | Where is the PUA community now? HelpNeil Strauss actually quit and admitted that the PUA community was toxic and sexist. What are you even talking about? | /r/seduction | 15/07/20 12:49 AM |
| 1 | First date ever at 28 and got rejected next dayLol fuck that. A girl faking her outlooks to test me can fuck off. I’ve luckily never dated these girls and have been successful enough, | /r/seduction | 14/07/20 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Lonely Wolf - Day 6 - instadate to instaflakeManipulating a woman into doing something she could in hindsight deeply regret for my own personal gain is not the game I play. | /r/seduction | 14/07/20 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Lonely Wolf - Day 6 - instadate to instaflakeYeah, all candy and unicorns to be a sex positive guy and more power to you, but you don’t get to decide that for someone else. What works for you doesn’t necessarily work for everybody. | /r/seduction | 14/07/20 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Lonely Wolf - Day 6 - instadate to instaflakeIt’s not funny and comes across as insecure. You’re saying you’re this gift of God to women. But think, in her shoes, a religious woman obviously cares more about sex than it just being good sex. Don’t you think you’d it’d be kinda fucked up if you ruined that for her? | /r/seduction | 14/07/20 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Lonely Wolf - Day 6 - instadate to instaflakeIs this the cocky funny attitude you read about in books? Because I got news for you, bud... | /r/seduction | 14/07/20 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone benefited from Quitting Pessismism?Reported for harassment. | /r/seduction | 14/07/20 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone benefited from Quitting Pessismism?LEAVE ME ALONE. | /r/seduction | 14/07/20 03:02 PM |
| 4 | First date ever at 28 and got rejected next dayDuh, because then you’re just shallow yourself. Don’t get me wrong, not only long term relationships have depth. It’s possible to create a long lasting memory with a one night stand, but if your only goal is to stick a dick in someone, regardless of her personality, then yeah, you’re just shallow. If I have a one night stand with someone, I at least want everything leading up to the sex to be fun and exciting, and not just some robotic interaction so I can put my peepee in her as fast as possibl… | /r/seduction | 14/07/20 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone benefited from Quitting Pessismism?I didn’t start a sentence with that; I ended a sentence with it. I also don’t understand what having a deep mind has to do with it. Please, leave me alone. | /r/seduction | 14/07/20 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone benefited from Quitting Pessismism?If you don’t like people swearing, maybe don’t swear yourself. You just lowered yourself to my position. You’re not better. | /r/seduction | 14/07/20 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone benefited from Quitting Pessismism?Oh, you mean a small dick syndrome. Get it now. You’re right that I insulted you. I’m glad you stayed closed to yourself and took the high ground by not insulting me back. Kind of funny that you called me an idiot in the exact same sentence in which you complain how some people swear too much. It’s almost poetry. | /r/seduction | 14/07/20 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Use This TimeAgain, I’m not saying the world revolves around me. This is the second time you’ve assumed my motivation. If this post works for people, I invite them to express that and I’m happy for them that it meant something. I also invite people to offer critique and share why it didn’t work for them or offer counter-arguments. That’s how we improve. I’m voicing my opinion and other people can voice theirs and the majority will be catered to. It’s a perfect little democracy. | /r/seduction | 14/07/20 02:02 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone benefited from Quitting Pessismism?Do you mean ‘big dick complex’, as in ‘god complex’? Why would anyone have a small dick complex? You can have an opinion, but by saying you’re a realist you’re pretending as if your opinion is real while other people are just pessimistic or optimistic if they don’t agree with you. Asshole. | /r/seduction | 14/07/20 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Use This TimeI’m not looking for anything. I’m in a long term relationship and my ‘wild’ years before that were great and I’m happy with those memories. You don’t have to change the system, but you can at least try to go more in-depth instead of constantly spouting the same generic platitudes. Everyone knows that working out, having hobbies and being confident will make you more successful and happier. Writing long posts and only saying that is just a waste of everyone’s time. At least tell people how, or tr… | /r/seduction | 14/07/20 01:48 PM |
| 1 | First date ever at 28 and got rejected next daySend me a pm if you ever want to vent. | /r/seduction | 14/07/20 12:50 PM |
| 1 | First date ever at 28 and got rejected next dayHappy belated birthday. Hope you feel better. | /r/seduction | 14/07/20 12:47 PM |
| 2 | First date ever at 28 and got rejected next dayYes, imagine dating a guy only to find out he has lied about everything, just to get in your panties. What if OP actually falls in love and then later has to explain to her he lied about his social life because some gurus online told him to ‘raise his value’. Pathetic. | /r/seduction | 14/07/20 12:39 PM |
| 32 | First date ever at 28 and got rejected next dayThe best way to go at it is to try and talk about things without actually mentioning the word itself. “Let’s talk about sex now” is not very exciting at all. A different commenter gave some nice examples but even he said that’s it more of a in the moment kind of thing. Try to make it a challenge to say something sexual without using sexual words. Sexuality is about tension, fun and excitement. | /r/seduction | 14/07/20 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Needyness killers [Question]Then you’re not truly going with the flow. Going with the flow means to not force any control over a situation. Being needy is the exact opposite of that. That’s like saying: “I’m trying not to burn my food when I cook it, but it’s bound to happen when I cook it too long.” Then just don’t cook it too long. | /r/seduction | 14/07/20 09:44 AM |
| 21 | First date ever at 28 and got rejected next dayIt’s disgusting what people are saying. If you need to lie to a woman to make her like you, are you sure you even like her? If a woman told me she thinks guys without friends are terrible, I would not for a second consider lying about it. I’d tell her to fuck off. | /r/seduction | 14/07/20 09:36 AM |
| 23 | First date ever at 28 and got rejected next dayIt’s absolutely ridiculous how many people here are motivating OP to lie about himself. OP, work on being confident and not giving a shit. A girl won’t care if you have friends as long as you don’t care. Confidence is key. And if she does care, fuck her, go find someone less shallow and moronic. | /r/seduction | 14/07/20 09:25 AM |
| 10 | First date ever at 28 and got rejected next dayNo, shit person. If a girl is going to ‘test’ me by saying shit like that, she can fuck off. I don’t want to date women with outlooks like that. | /r/seduction | 14/07/20 09:23 AM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 46 Progress ReportTotally. It just doesn’t seem like he has a lot going for himself atm, which could be the reason his chats with the women are going nowhere. | /r/seduction | 14/07/20 08:11 AM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 46 Progress ReportThat’s not my point. I understand that it’s necessary to put yourself in situations where you can approach, but OP comes across as if he’s spending all his days just wandering around, throwing premeditated lines at women like a social robot. By “live your life”, I mean he should maybe do other things besides this, so he won’t get too hung up on getting results. | /r/seduction | 14/07/20 07:28 AM |
| 1 | Lonely Wolf - Day 6 - instadate to instaflakeYou have no idea how cringey you come across. Maybe throw The Game in the trash bin and talk to some real life women. I know you envision yourself as a Hank Moody but you’re more like the gamer dude from South Park. Trust me, it’s not a good look. | /r/seduction | 14/07/20 07:22 AM |
| 0 | Where is the PUA community now? HelpPickup Artists. Not your typical lost boys who would like to become confident and improve his chances with the fairer sex, but instead guys who base their entire lives around seducing women, mainly by using premeditated lines and insulting them (negging), opposed to genuinely building themselves up and becoming more confident. They don’t view women as human beings, more as statistics, numbers, empty vassals to fill up their empty souls. | /r/seduction | 13/07/20 10:31 PM |
| 2 | Use This TimeWay to deflect criticism. “You’re so unhappy,” when someone tells you why your post isn’t good. Grow up. | /r/seduction | 13/07/20 10:19 PM |
| 4 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 46 Progress ReportYeah, I agree. He seems to be lacking a bit in humor, character and spontaneity. That’s just my assessment based on his very matter-of-fact field reports. It seems as if he’s engaging in a very premeditated manner, which would probably make the girl feel like a number or simply bored. You want chemistry; a spark. A chubby Indian guy would definitely be hard mode. I have the following to say about that: Women love confidence. You know when it’s easy to be confident? When you’re good looking. If y… | /r/seduction | 13/07/20 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Use This Time“Work out. Read. Get a hobby.” Great advice. Every other post is like this. The most obvious, cliché advice when it comes to self-improvement. And you’re wasting so much words on it like some Tony Robbins-seminar. Every sentence is dull. One open door after another. “Everyone’s life’s incomplete” “nobody’s perfect” “work out!” “Find a hobby!” “Read!” “Stop wasting time!” “Cut out shit that’s bad for you!” And just goes on and on and on. At least make an effort to bring something original to the … | /r/seduction | 13/07/20 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Where is the PUA community now? HelpIf I find another tribe of sex offensive man children, I’ll make sure to forward the ad. In the mean time, try loving women like you love your mother. | /r/seduction | 13/07/20 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Needyness killers [Question]That’s the point. The flow is unpredictable and fluid, so following it means letting go of expectations. | /r/seduction | 13/07/20 08:54 PM |
| 0 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 46 Progress ReportI agree that it’s definitely a combination of both, although I think it’s more worthwhile to work on your mentality because it will automatically improve physical attractiveness as well and just make you overall happier. What did you take from this report? I personally thought OP came across very unnatural, almost like a robot, as if he’s just roaming the streets all day looking for pretty women. I miss some personality and character. Intrigued to know your opinion, let me know | /r/seduction | 13/07/20 08:40 PM |
| 3 | Lonely Wolf - Day 6 - instadate to instaflakeAre you fucking retarded? She’s a human being. Nothing wrong with seeking sexual adventures, but you’re in over your head if you want to deflower a religious girl just to blow smoke up your own ass. If she is still a virgin despite being engaged, then sex is obviously a big deal to her. You’re not funny, cool or as suave as you think, you fucking moron. Have some respect and maybe you’ll have more succes in the boudoir. You sound like a dude with zero experience trying to look slick. | /r/seduction | 13/07/20 08:36 PM |
| 0 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 46 Progress ReportThen why do you want to discuss his physical attractiveness when it is mentioned nowhere? | /r/seduction | 13/07/20 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Use This TimeEveryone’s a fucking guru on here, repackaging the same platitudes in different terms, spouting the same vapid, word vomit as if it’s revolutionary. Are you really trying to teach something or are you presenting your horn to be tooted? | /r/seduction | 13/07/20 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Mystery BootcampHe’s a narcissistic, sexist, delusional, manipulative, stunted manchild and a conman, preying on lonely, insecure men to whom he can preach his own misogynistic bullshit and turn them into social robots, bend on winning over the hearts of women without any true connection, fun or memories. | /r/seduction | 13/07/20 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone benefited from Quitting Pessismism?Oh for fucks sake. Everyone is ‘realist’. Everyone has their own subjective reality. And the thing you just said is incredibly pessimistic, by the way. I’d expect a neutral observation from a true realist such as yourself. By calling yourself a pessimist or optimist you are at least acknowledging that your reality is just as subjective as others. By calling yourself a realist you are pretending you see things as they really are, which you are not, you bitter arrogant twat. | /r/seduction | 13/07/20 08:08 PM |
| 0 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 46 Progress ReportYeah, because an interesting personality doesn’t mean anything. It’s all about physical attractiveness. /s | /r/seduction | 13/07/20 08:05 PM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 46 Progress ReportIt seems as if you’re just walking around chatting up girls. Just live your life, man. | /r/seduction | 13/07/20 08:04 PM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 46 Progress ReportEveryone in this sub is a guru. | /r/seduction | 13/07/20 08:03 PM |
| 1 | One small step for me...one giant leap for my confidenceYeah, I bet. You seem to handle critique really well. | /r/seduction | 12/07/20 07:35 PM |
| 3 | One small step for me...one giant leap for my confidenceYou not seeing someone again is not an excuse to make them uncomfortable. It’s not about how she thinks of you, it’s about how you treat people. She’s an employee and she gets paid to be nice to you. If you make a sexual remark she can’t easily back out. Very cool of you to not give a shit about how others feel, but maybe you should not get so defensive when commenters in this thread give you honest critique. It’s not a good look. Try and be better. | /r/seduction | 12/07/20 07:28 PM |
| 2 | One small step for me...one giant leap for my confidenceCongrats but please don’t make sexual comments to store employees. | /r/seduction | 12/07/20 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Even as an attractive guy Tinder is a waste of timeTriggered? Lmao I just said r/ihavesex because the dude said whatever he said in a douchey way. I’m not gonna take your bait to discuss semantics. Good day, man hahaha | /r/seduction | 07/12/19 10:30 AM |
| 1 | Even as an attractive guy Tinder is a waste of timeDude, stop paraphrasing stuff to make it fit your narrative. That is not the words that were said. How do you even think that trick is going to work when I can just scroll up and see what was actually said? | /r/seduction | 07/12/19 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Even as an attractive guy Tinder is a waste of timeI don’t care about numbers. If you lower your standards as far as possible, most people can get laid a couple of times a week. Who cares about that? It’s lame to brag about. | /r/seduction | 06/12/19 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Even as an attractive guy Tinder is a waste of timeIs that what he said? I thought he said he literally gets laid every single day. | /r/seduction | 06/12/19 08:00 PM |
| 2 | Even as an attractive guy Tinder is a waste of timeTo brag about your conquests like we’re in high school? I thought it was about giving and getting advice. My bad. | /r/seduction | 06/12/19 07:44 AM |
| 1 | Go ahead, downvote thisI always feel like a lot of posters here are just normal everyday guys who are not that successful with women. Yet they wish they were perceived as such and so they act like masters of seduction on Reddit. It’s really comical when there’s a comment section full of guys one-upping each other’s advice. | /r/seduction | 05/12/19 11:16 PM |
| 18 | Even as an attractive guy Tinder is a waste of timer/ihavesex | /r/seduction | 05/12/19 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Today i tries my first attempt at day game. It met this girl at the gym, and we just started talking. Even though it failed, i think this goes to show, that it's all about being confident and having great interactions. Not getting laid..Which can apparently only be achieved by behaving like an insecure man child! Oh no, what if she thinks I’m boring?! This girl I’ve never spoken to before must not think I’m boring!!! Quickly, think of something to appear interesting and carefree. “yOu SeEm sAne, We’rE goNnA hAvE a dRiNk nExT wEek.” Yeah, I totally showed her how cool I am. If I ever said this to a girl and she would accept that, I wouldn’t even wanna go out with her. | /r/seduction | 19/11/19 09:31 AM |
| 1 | Today i tries my first attempt at day game. It met this girl at the gym, and we just started talking. Even though it failed, i think this goes to show, that it's all about being confident and having great interactions. Not getting laid..Are... those the only two options? Do you know what ‘at least’ means? | /r/seduction | 19/11/19 07:57 AM |
| 2 | Today i tries my first attempt at day game. It met this girl at the gym, and we just started talking. Even though it failed, i think this goes to show, that it's all about being confident and having great interactions. Not getting laid..I don’t think we’re talking about the same thing. Because I agree with one aspect of what you’re saying: assertiveness does work. I think women in general are attracted to confidence. My point is that lines such as ‘you’re sane, were gonna have a drink,’ aren’t confident at all. It shows the exact opposite. It makes the person look try-hard. By using such pre-meditated lines you’re assuming the woman is dumb enough to not understand what you’re trying to do. That’s not only disrespectful but won… | /r/seduction | 19/11/19 07:56 AM |
| 1 | Today i tries my first attempt at day game. It met this girl at the gym, and we just started talking. Even though it failed, i think this goes to show, that it's all about being confident and having great interactions. Not getting laid..Lmao you’re so desperate. | /r/seduction | 18/11/19 10:08 PM |
| 3 | Today i tries my first attempt at day game. It met this girl at the gym, and we just started talking. Even though it failed, i think this goes to show, that it's all about being confident and having great interactions. Not getting laid..You don’t have to be an immature douchebag to ‘prove’ that you’re not needy. How about just not being needy? Any girl with at least a little self-respect will think you’re desperate as hell when you say juvenile shit like that. It’s not clever, it’s not tactical, it’s not cool, it’s not whatever it appears to be in your head. If you ever get laid while saying that shit, it’s despite of it, not because of it. And I really don’t care how many girls you approached, man. I’m just a stranger on the i… | /r/seduction | 18/11/19 09:04 PM |
| 5 | Today i tries my first attempt at day game. It met this girl at the gym, and we just started talking. Even though it failed, i think this goes to show, that it's all about being confident and having great interactions. Not getting laid..True. I just cringe at the thought someone would say that in real life. It’s like high school humour. When I was 14, I used to think it was cool to act tough and cool too. I cannot think of any situation in which a woman would fall for that line. Do guys really think a woman is thinking, “oh my god he’s so dominant and doesn’t care at all, I need him!” Any girl over the age of 16 will immediately know you’re overcompensating for your lack of self-confidence by using premeditated lines you found … | /r/seduction | 18/11/19 03:34 PM |
| 2 | Today i tries my first attempt at day game. It met this girl at the gym, and we just started talking. Even though it failed, i think this goes to show, that it's all about being confident and having great interactions. Not getting laid..I’m loving this comment and the responses to it. So many people on this sub constantly trying to be the ‘alpha male’. | /r/seduction | 18/11/19 07:52 AM |
| 4 | Today i tries my first attempt at day game. It met this girl at the gym, and we just started talking. Even though it failed, i think this goes to show, that it's all about being confident and having great interactions. Not getting laid..Yeah, you should not respect women. You should be the strong, cool alpha male that doesn’t give a fuck and commands women to go on a date with him. /s Go back to fantasising about your Casanova life in your mom’s basement. Maybe read some more books on how you’re a strong, confident alpha male. | /r/seduction | 18/11/19 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Today i tries my first attempt at day game. It met this girl at the gym, and we just started talking. Even though it failed, i think this goes to show, that it's all about being confident and having great interactions. Not getting laid..Dude, this sub is filled with people that like to pretend to know it all. Look how many people here are overly confident in their replies. Everyone here pictures themselves as the ‘alpha male’. It’s ridiculous. Yes, it would’ve been better if OP had a little back and forth first, but people here need to fuck off with their superiority. This whole “don’t ask her out, TELL HER YOURE GOING ON A DATE,” is just weird. | /r/seduction | 18/11/19 07:46 AM |
| 35 | Today i tries my first attempt at day game. It met this girl at the gym, and we just started talking. Even though it failed, i think this goes to show, that it's all about being confident and having great interactions. Not getting laid..“You seem sane, we’re going to get a drink next week,” is just an insane and childish way to talk to someone. I love how all these basement dwellers here are giving advice to people. “YOU DONT ASK GIRLS, YOU TELL THEM!!!” Dude just stfu and go outside for a change and talk to girls like they’re actually people. | /r/seduction | 18/11/19 07:42 AM |
| 1 | Women Are Insanely Attracted To Mental And Emotional StrengthBut... you said the exact same thing in your post. It literally says, ‘what women are not attracted to: weak men’. | /r/seduction | 16/11/19 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Women Are Insanely Attracted To Mental And Emotional StrengthYou say you don’t agree but then say women are not attracted to weak men. Make up your mind. | /r/seduction | 15/11/19 05:11 PM |
| 4 | How to train youself to act/respond/make a desicion quicky?Same applies. Your dating life isn't something that exists separately from your day to day life. The context may be different, but you act from the same place. Thoughts are tools, don't let it be the other way around and have you become a slave of your thoughts. Sometimes, just stop thinking too much and start doing. There is time to meditate on the fear after or before those moments. | /r/seduction | 31/01/18 09:35 PM |
| 15 | How to train youself to act/respond/make a desicion quicky?You're looking for a magic answer that will workaround your fear. It doesn't exist. Just do it. | /r/seduction | 31/01/18 08:38 PM |
| 3 | Wearing ring as pre selection proofWhy are you stilling trying to argue against RSD when I've never mentioned them, apart from saying I don't care about them. And if you're so against them, why did you post a video of their tour 2 weeks ago? After a quick glance at your post history, you seem to be really struggling with women for someone that is so confident that the mystery method is a bullet proof format . I'm seeing oneitis and confusion on your part when women lose interest in you. Lose that book, dude, start becoming someon… | /r/seduction | 19/12/17 05:31 PM |
| 5 | Wearing ring as pre selection proofWomen aren't cars nor games you have to figure out. How about you start actually interacting with people as human beings, instead of trying to figure out what 'game plan' will get them naked as soon as possible. I got a possible good strategy for you, go to a brothel and spend some money there instead of on drinks at a club and a... pre selection ring? 100% success rate. I don't give a shit about RSD, either, but Natural works for people with actual character. The mystery method is a formula to … | /r/seduction | 19/12/17 10:53 AM |
| 9 | Wearing ring as pre selection proofJesus Christ, are guys still using methods created by those misogynistic idiots from what... 10 years ago? Just walk up to her and say what you have to say. Stop playing games. | /r/seduction | 18/12/17 08:35 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Seducing A Calendar Model from Hinge. Full Lay Report with Screen Shots from Start to FinishDude, you put so much effort into this and no one is buying it. Must be painful. I really do hope it's actually fake, because it would be really bad if this is actually how you view women and talk to them. "You look like you have a great pussy to eat." Any woman that falls for that opener must be an idiot, because if that works, it means she'll basically spread her legs for anything with one ball and half a cock. The worst thing is, is that actual guys with low esteem, dying to be with a woman, … | /r/seduction | 04/12/17 05:35 PM |
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