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| 1 | The perfect wife enables men to replace herI mean, if you look at the divorce statistics the overwhelming percentage of them are filed by women so that means it's very unlikely to happen to you. About the replacing her; even without consequences of losing the shirt off his back in divorce court most men really do love their wives and don't mind her aging so long as she remains nice and sweet. Middle aged man has more on his mind than just sex and banging young women. Even if he did want to "upgrade" you have to ask yourself, if there's a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/12/21 06:08 PM |
| 8 | The perfect wife enables men to replace herIt's unbelievable how well you understand men and how we operate. Everything you wrote is 100% true. This needs to be it's own post. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/12/21 12:43 AM |
| 6 | The perfect wife enables men to replace herThat's what the marriage contract is for. Bare bones it's essentially a contract where the man get's the woman during her golden years and then when those years end and the man enters his golden years of peak income and hopefully staying in good shape, he sticks around fulfilling his end of the deal and she gets to enjoy being taken care of by his newfound wealth. That's just my opinion tho. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/12/21 12:39 AM |
| 13 | The perfect wife enables men to replace herSpot on, regular men's RP sells this delusion of redemption that men will magically increase in SMV with age. That's rarely the case, men age, their testosterones levels lower and thus their physiques deteriorate over time, hairlines recede, skin wrinkles etc. The only thing that's likely to get better with age is their income but even then that doesn't just magically happen. Most men live and die average, very few ascend into these 45 year old multimillionaire rock stars with the body of a 25 y… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/12/21 12:36 AM |
| 3 | I'm getting married in 2 weeks, super excited but also nervous how do I adress my worriesFalse, he married you quickly because of who you are. He's High Value so you know he is not with you out of scarcity, that should be reassuring. Best of luck. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/12/21 06:54 PM |
| 4 | I'm getting married in 2 weeks, super excited but also nervous how do I adress my worries" I know sex is extremely important to him and I also worry that part of the reason he proposed so early was as he wanted to have sex." -This is false, he married you quickly because as men we know HVW are equally as rare as HVM. At that age he has met many women and knows what he wants, you ticked all the boxes that's why he snatched you off the market and put a ring on it so quickly. I would do the same if I found a HVW. "he will not be fulfilled by it and it won't compare to what he's imagine… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/12/21 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Is this an overreaction?I feel stupid for asking but do most women actually like "a quick slam"? | /r/RedPillWives | 13/12/21 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Do men really want to get married?Yes many of us do, it just takes tons of work to find the right woman to marry. It's the biggest and highest risk decision a man will ever make in his life, it takes tremendous amount of vetting to make sure she's the one. To add, yes, there are many guys happy with playing house without ever getting married. Some do this intentionally and don't care about wasting the girl's time and some just genuinely don't know if they've met the right person yet and also don't feel enough need to take that b… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/21 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Further convinced that being a good woman to your man is unstated social clout for them.Ya of course. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/21 10:08 PM |
| 3 | How is it that my traditional, conservative husband seems to be way lest "sexist" than the majority of femnist's husbands I knowThere are definitely guys like that. They study all the Red Pill stuff like its their religion but never do any form of self improvement, so once its time to actually interact with women they continue to simp because they're still in the lower percentile of men. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/21 01:31 AM |
| 10 | Lawmakers drop proposal to add women to the draftSomeone please pin this man's comment. | /r/MensRights | 07/12/21 09:34 AM |
| 10 | Lawmakers drop proposal to add women to the draftI'd argue they're even enemies of MRAs. Conservative macho guys tend to be the first ones to tell you to man up, take abuse, pride yourself on the amount of suffering you can endure etc. | /r/MensRights | 07/12/21 09:32 AM |
| 1 | Just got into contact with my dad- i have daddy issues.Sounds good get on it asap, best of luck. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/12/21 01:16 AM |
| 5 | Just got into contact with my dad- i have daddy issues.Shit, that's tough. There's online therapy where you can video chat with therapists around the world? | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/12/21 01:13 AM |
| 7 | Just got into contact with my dad- i have daddy issues.Therapy, I know it sounds like a generic dismissive answer but I think Therapy is at a minimum, worth trying. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/21 11:57 PM |
| 2 | How do you cope with the mindset that RP men have? (Sincere question)"I disagree that "spinning plates" is about finding a relationship to RP men. It's not "dating" either, just call it what is it. A man would never spend money on a plate or text or ask her to do anything except for a booty call. Maybe some eventually do turn into a relationship after months of the woman asking about exclusivity and the man showing he doesn't care about her during that time while he's banging other girls. A high-quality woman would never let herself become a plate." -This is part… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/21 10:00 PM |
| 1 | How do you cope with the mindset that RP men have? (Sincere question)Honest question, do you think it's wrong to try to get laid on the first date? Do you think it's wrong to get "plates"? Plates are just another way of dating multiple women simultaneously and choosing the best one to be monogamous with. Women spin plates too, dating and talking to multiple men simultaneously. I think it's perfectly just and natural for women to want to weed out guys just looking for sex but remember there are women out there who want just that, casual sex and I don't see the har… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/21 08:02 PM |
| 1 | How do you cope with the mindset that RP men have? (Sincere question)I'm glad to hear, most men don't like mind games either. I agree overtly demonstrating you can replace a woman and using that as a covert threat is wrong and toxic;however, I want to ask you wouldn't you want some sort of confirmation that other women want your man? Like say you catch other women checking him out on public or cashier's being a bit too friendly here and there? If things like that never happened would you not have any doubts? Honest question not trying to argue generally want an h… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/21 07:57 PM |
| 2 | How do you cope with the mindset that RP men have? (Sincere question)That's fair, thank you for the example. But I would like to reply to both: For Dread: I understand how this is unpleasant but I would like to ask what do you suggest a man do then, to demonstrate that he has other options and thus satisfy the woman's need to know that her man is wanted by other women? The reason RP teaches men to do this is because #1 women need reassurance that the man is desired by other woman and #2 it keeps the woman from getting lazy in the relationship. Majority of men don… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/21 08:01 AM |
| 1 | How do you cope with the mindset that RP men have? (Sincere question)Could you give me an example of the games they play? Maybe we're reading/watching different RP content, but the vast majority of the RP I see is how to play the woman's game(s) and not get your time wasted/get friendzoned etc. Basically most of TRP is teaching guys to be on the look out for the woman's tests and how to avoid wasting time, and what the rules of the 2021 game actually are vs teaching men how to be the one doing the tricking. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/21 05:01 AM |
| 9 | How do you cope with the mindset that RP men have? (Sincere question)Good question, I'd say being burned is for severe stuff like being cheated on, paternity fraud, bad divorce etc. Being played is like having a chick use you for free drinks at a club, using you as an emotional tampon, having you waste time and attention on her when she has no intentions of dating and or sleeping with you etc. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/21 02:39 AM |
| 1 | How do you cope with the mindset that RP men have? (Sincere question)I misread the last part, I thought you said they only pursue casual sex. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/21 02:36 AM |
| 7 | How do you cope with the mindset that RP men have? (Sincere question)Nah MGTOWS are incels in denial. If a man truly wanted to avoid women and live without them he wouldn't ever be on a forum discussing women, he'd be reading something else. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/12/21 09:47 PM |
| 46 | How do you cope with the mindset that RP men have? (Sincere question)Listen to me, men don't find the red pill when they're doing well with women/dating. They find if after either been burned, been played, or cannot get laid. There's a lot of anger and hurt in there and is often toxic. A lot of guys are just afraid of being hurt again or getting played. There's no point for a woman to read men's RP. Those are the men women aren't even attracted to and that's why they're there trying to learn. Just focus on building yourself so you can snag a HVM. Good luck. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/12/21 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Need help to not end in a sexless marriageMy bad I didn't catch that part. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/12/21 09:29 PM |
| 17 | I [28F] grew out my hair and am literally beating men off with sticksNice 👍 ya in general men love long hair, it's mesmerizing. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/12/21 12:54 AM |
| 1 | A trans woman seeks your helpThis is an interesting scenario. If you guys have kids do you want to adopt? Also excuse my question because I know nothing about trans people and the surgery, will you still be able to make sperm after your transition or is that plumbing gone? | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/12/21 12:50 AM |
| 2 | Homemaking for Dummies?HVM= high value man | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/12/21 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Need help to not end in a sexless marriageAh I see, ya I tend to do that too. If someone does something nice for me I'll thank them directly but the praise and appreciation is shown by describing how their favor benefited me. The way I see it, your husband is showing you how your action was successful and made him happy etc. We're men, we're bad with showing emotions, as sad as it is it sometimes feels difficult for me to flat out say thank you for cooking dinner for me, if was delicious and I appreciate the effort vs oh man that was de… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/21 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Need help to not end in a sexless marriageCan you elaborate on what feels odd about it? I don't understand how feeling good and being cheerful after sex/good night's sleep/good meal is odd? | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/21 07:36 PM |
| 11 | Need help to not end in a sexless marriageI'm going to disagree here..I've been a 23M and had friends that same age....men definitely want sex period, but they also want romantic sex as well. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/21 07:26 PM |
| 13 | What Makes A Woman High Value?Late 20's Male: my definition of a HVW: -Attractive, definitely doesn't have to be a smokeshow but decently attractive and in healthy shape. -Down to earth, not stuck up but not a doormat either. -Is sweet. -Adventurous, likes to go out and have fun, travel and try new things. -Is fun and pleasant to be around. -Financially responsible, I don't care how much she makes...at all, just that she doesn't have crazy shopping debt and has financial planning for the future. - Doesn't play mind games, is… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/21 08:53 PM |
| 4 | Homemaking for Dummies?It's not that complicated trust, I taught myself how to cook years ago with just YouTube and good old fashioned trial and error... Get a crockpot, I make a killer cilantro lime chicken in there with minimal effort. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/21 08:20 PM |
| 6 | Homemaking for Dummies?For what it's worth, me and almost every guy I know (especially the more dominant hvm) would put cooking skills as the absolute second highest home making skill...(taking care of kids is #1) HVM can usually afford to pay someone to clean the house also cleaning doesn't envoke the same enjoyment and feeling of love that comes from a good home cooked meal. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/21 09:05 AM |
| 2 | The Chris Pratt debacleShit, $4 in Arizona?!? Never thought I'd see that day. $15 for 5lb drumsticks? That's brutal, you used to get chicken breast out here for that price, smh. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/21 08:54 AM |
| 3 | The Chris Pratt debacleTell me about it, who gives a shit about celebrities. Gas is $5 a gallon and grocery prices are getting out of hand...this is the stuff we should focus on. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/12/21 07:25 PM |
| 6 | Further convinced that being a good woman to your man is unstated social clout for them.Glad I could help, your man is a lucky guy. Keep up the good work, if he's the right guy he will value the hell out of you for this kind of stuff. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/21 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Quality time love language tips?This woman gets it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/21 10:51 PM |
| 48 | Further convinced that being a good woman to your man is unstated social clout for them.I wish more women knew how much of a social boost their men get when their friends/family/coworkers/clients see them with a good woman treating him respectfully. It's one of the ultimate status symbols and earns us tremendous respect from all of the other men in our life: boss, coworkers, family, friends etc..... This is especially true in today's western culture where wives/gfs all make stupid jabs and jokes about their men and the guys have to just sit there and laugh it off while dying inside… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/21 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Tea TimeThere is no reforming MGTOW, MGTOWS are just incels in denial, hell at least incels have the balls to admit they can't get laid vs MGTOWS acting like it was their decision. Any guy who was truly going his own way wouldn't even know the term MGTOW because that would require watching RP content and if you watch RP content that means you still care about dating/getting laid and thus you are not "leaving the plantation". | /r/RedPillWives | 29/11/21 07:48 AM |
| 5 | Tea TimeWhat do you mean? Mgtows are supposedly "leaving the plantation" and going their own way away from women and relationships? When would you interact with them? | /r/RedPillWives | 27/11/21 11:35 PM |
| 2 | What is a weakness or bad trait you want to work on in December?Admirable. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/11/21 11:14 PM |
| 4 | Marriage: good strategy or bad strategy for women? A look at two perspectivesI feel it, they need to revise marriage laws to be more reasonable for both genders. The way it's set up now is just a dangerous mess. Thing is, the institution of marriage is absolutely essential for everyone on a personal level and society as a whole. We need to make it a less risky contract so people will be more inclined to get married. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/11/21 07:41 AM |
| 29 | How is it that my traditional, conservative husband seems to be way lest "sexist" than the majority of femnist's husbands I knowThis is the most simple answer: it's nicknamed the "sneaky fucker" strategy for beta men trying to get laid. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/11/21 05:58 AM |
| 2 | Marriage: good strategy or bad strategy for women? A look at two perspectivesI'll be honest here; I spend more time on regular men's RP so I only hear of the ways men get screwed in divorce, never actually knew there were realistic scenarios where the woman gets screwed or loses tons of money. I'm open to hearing any stories of women being the one losing with divorce, I'm genuinely curious. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/11/21 05:52 AM |
| 8 | Marriage: good strategy or bad strategy for women? A look at two perspectivesI don't understand how marriage in western countries is harmful to women, it literally protects them from being left in poverty if the man leaves and insures they will be financially taken care of. Maybe the woman is referring to third world countries there the women get treated like shit in marriages and have no alternative, but in first world countries I don't see why women would want to give it up? | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/11/21 05:39 AM |
| 9 | On sense and sensibility: How to achieve a balanced view on male nature?If it makes you feel any better; most men that I know from all different races and economic backgrounds are very romantic and many are what you call hopeless romantics. Also I can understand the worry a woman has about losing her looks with age, but know that most guys really do love their gf especially wives and don't mind the inevitable dip in looks. Also it's not like guys don't age either; this whole men age like wine thing is an overplayed cope; how many men make it to 50 without aged skin,… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/11/21 11:02 PM |
| 9 | On sense and sensibility: How to achieve a balanced view on male nature?One of these days you gotta write up a post/story of what you did with your current relationship; what works vs what didn't work in the past, what you currently do etc. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/11/21 10:51 PM |
| 2 | Hubby hates my spendingShit that's probably true, in this case the sex issue is the #1 issue. Is there any chance of getting him a therapist to talk to? Sounds like he might be having stress or other mental health issues. Also if he's over 35 there's a chance it's a testasterone levels issue; they have kits where you can test it at home and send out the test to a lab without having to go to a doctor's office. Personally I think it's more a stress and psychological issue but I'm no doctor so I can't say. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/11/21 08:38 PM |
| 46 | Hubby hates my spendingI think you two need to worry and work on the sex issue before the money issue. Mismatched libidos are a recipe for disaster/divorce that and now a money issue is just sealing the deal. I think the money issue can be sorted by outlining financial savings goals and agreeing on how much to save per month and allow for spending if the saving quota is met. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/11/21 04:58 AM |
| 2 | The truth comes out…Ya it's terrible, you're literally handing off your kids to be molded into whatever the state wants. "Don't send your kids to Cesar and be surprised when they come back Romans" I'm not even religious and I would still only consider sending my kids to Christian school if home school is not an option. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/11/21 04:55 AM |
| 3 | The truth comes out…Damn right, sending kids to the public school system is like putting a sheep in a lions den. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/11/21 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Engaged and married women, how did you get aligned on timeline for marriage?I love this, these are the unromantic but crucial conversations everyone should have as early as possible. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/11/21 10:08 PM |
| 3 | I am a bit scared of older menThis is a tough one, the way I see it, because men peak in their 30s they're either trying to use their peak smv years to go and sleep with women they might have not been able to get back when they were younger or they're established and matured and are genuinely interested in settling down with their best option which would be a young woman in her mid 20s . Deciphering between the two is tough. "I am fairly average in looks (like a 7.5 daily, 8.5 dolled up) 5’3 and 115 lbs, but I make up with a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/11/21 06:31 AM |
| 6 | Honey or Vinegar?This is false, I am a man, and I can tell you we do not like mean women or bitchy behavior, that's just bullshit men lie about liking in order to save face toward the fact that they can't get a woman to act right around them. When have you ever seen a top shelf man date a mean woman? Maybe he'll stick around long enough to sleep with her a couple times but not enter into an actual committed loving relationship. Second, when you say they fall in love with mean women, is it because they're mean or… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/11/21 02:40 AM |
| 14 | If he never comes to you with his problems, how can you still be a soft place to land?Male here; Most cultures teach men form a young age, to keep their problems to themselves. RP teaches men specifically not to vent or show weakness/incompetence to their gf/wives. RP has countless testimonies of men who opened up about a problem(s) or fear or bad event from the past and it resulted in either the girl leaving them shortly after or having it be thrown back in their face as an insult during an argument. Some men are more comfortable sharing than others but most have learned to keep… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/21 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Young mom feeling a bit socially isolated, would love to chat to others in a similar positionAre you looking for women friends in general or specifically other young mothers to befriend? | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/21 06:25 AM |
| 1 | What should I know before going to live with him for a month?Nice! Also don't be afraid to ask him to go somewhere you want to go but he may not like, relationships are about compromise so don't just avoid going somewhere/ doing something just because he isn't into it. Enjoy your trip, keep us posted. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/11/21 06:05 PM |
| 6 | What should I know before going to live with him for a month?You hit the nail on the head, this is everything I would want if I had a gf visiting me. I want to add make sure to go have fun together. Men bond with women when we're doing some sort of fun activity together. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/11/21 01:25 AM |
| 3 | Insecure with my bodyI am a man and I am telling you, he does not care, men don't notice even 10% of the minor flaws women notice in themselves we go by the bigger picture.Second he's probably very happy to be getting laid and not be in a stereotypical dead bedroom marriage. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/11/21 04:14 AM |
| 2 | How often do you have sex with your boyfriend/husband?That is simply awesome. I bet that man hasn't had a bad day in years. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/11/21 04:16 PM |
| 5 | How often do you have sex with your boyfriend/husband?Very true, it's sad that couples not having a burning desire for the other, seems to be the norm. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/11/21 04:12 PM |
| 21 | How often do you have sex with your boyfriend/husband?God damn, 1-3 times a day!? How? This is on work days too? | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/11/21 09:03 PM |
| 21 | Hypergamy is monogamy: breaking up over hypergamy is doing him a favor?Leave, you'll never be truly happy with him and he deserves to not have his time wasted with someone who will never have genuine desire for him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/11/21 03:59 PM |
| 2 | Do you think the "bad boy"(good looking but cruel, selfish etc) argument goes both ways?"because he noticed getting sex without having to fight for it, going to sleep knowing that he's the only man I've slept with and will ever sleep with, having a tidy house and eating a warm meal three times a day is a better lifestyle." Holy shit that sounds like the ultimate blue pill fantasy come true. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/10/21 07:50 AM |
| 2 | Scared to get back into the kitchenLet me tell you something, us men would all still consider it an absolute win to have a gf/wife who made a couple bad dishes. No one remembers the bad dishes, you'll still be considered the cool wife that cooks good food not the one who made 3 bad dishes. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/10/21 07:38 AM |
| 4 | What can I bring on the table other than sex?Awesome | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/10/21 04:13 PM |
| 6 | What can I bring on the table other than sex?Guy here: a good woman brings much more than just sex and cooking. -emotional connection -good and hopefully some deep conversations. - a companion to do things with,.bonus is having her around for company while running errands. -source of feminine energy, men love women especially when they're feminine,.it's like a drug. -someone to offer support. -someone who does little things to make life nicer, little things that only women think of and not your male friends haha. -best is going out and doi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/10/21 04:12 PM |
| 8 | My bf is always tired?!Finally someone who agrees that 7-8 hours isn't enough sleep, 9 is the magic number IMO | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/10/21 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Is there a male equivalent to Suzanne Venker?Honestly there's not many, most of the red pill stuff for men is about how to get laid and avoid being burnt,used, cheated on by women, not to get married how to spin plates etc. There's a guy called bulldog mindset on YouTube, imo he has some good stuff and actually teaches you how to be a man in a healthy relationship and how to lead it vs just scare tactics about hypergamy and Infidilety. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/21 11:43 PM |
| 2 | Hypergamy at action - an exampleI read the one about the jab and fertility issues. That one is sad as well but at least it's the guy leaving before he got married over a reasonable concern vs a woman ditching a perfectly good man and ruining the family just for an upgrade in social status. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/21 11:40 PM |
| 19 | Hypergamy at action - an exampleThank you for this post/story. Stuff like this tho true, is just depressing. Imagine that poor guy working his ass off only to be dumped because of social status? Disgusting... | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/21 06:23 PM |
| 2 | Hypergamy and post-committment woes...Honestly leave, it's not fair to him and you will never be satisfied with him. The fact that you're trying to list logical reasons to like him is already proof it's over. If you were truly into him you wouldn't be questioning it. Not trying to bash you just dropping bitter truths. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/10/21 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Do you think their is a double standard regarding men and women's weight, or is it that just the way it is?What do you mean? Like standards men put on other men? | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/10/21 03:09 AM |
| 4 | I can't get over Redpill's (especially TRP's) treatment and attitiude towards ugly women.Exactly man. If anything guys usually only make fun of fat chicks but even then it's never actual women they know or see it's just hypothetical ones, majority of men are not evil enough to do that. I don't think I've actually heard guys call a girl ugly it would just be too mean. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/10/21 09:48 PM |
| 19 | I can't get over Redpill's (especially TRP's) treatment and attitiude towards ugly women.Hello, I'm a man and I can tell you neither me nor my male friends hate ugly women. I understand how reading that TRP can make a woman feel like they do but please remember majority of men on those subs are angry and frustrated and thus take out their frustration with women in general and project it onto hating "ugly" women. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/10/21 04:19 PM |
| 5 | Best day everHell ya congrats! The fact that you're on this sub means you're gonna be a great wife! | /r/RedPillWives | 27/09/21 03:41 PM |
| 14 | Back to Basics September: Dread for Women" Attractive girls are a dime a dozen. An attractive girl who cares for her partner and treats him with respect and kindness, however, is a girl worth cherishing. Be that girl." This....THIS..... This is spot on. This whole post is completely accurate; dread does not work on us men, if anything it just makes us men pissed and makes us question whether the girl is worth putting up with all this extra trouble. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/09/21 09:36 PM |
| 3 | Do most straight men ogle at other women and/or watch porn?Spot on. It's an uncomfortable truth but we will always look and we will always notice an attractive woman even in a crowd of people. It doesn't mean that we don't love our girlfriends/wives or that we don't find them attractive its just that men love even the sight of pretty women, I can't explain it, it just makes you feel good. Its not right to disrespect your partner and make it blatantly obvious that you're looking but just know we always notice and we always try to look. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/09/21 12:43 AM |
| 3 | Please tell me if I am fat or not.Don't worry about numbers, focus on living a healthy lifestyle and the numbers will follow. Healthy looks good on everyone, every race every gender every age etc. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/21 03:42 PM |
| 2 | What advice would you share with someone getting married soon? + a few more questionsExcellent advice, especially the part about never weaponizing it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/21 03:49 AM |
| 3 | Back to Basics September: I love him but...Lol most guys on trp are there because they couldn't even get one woman. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/21 03:42 AM |
| 3 | Would love your insights - best strategy for 23yr old girl who loves science but wants a HVM?The good news is me and many of the HVM in my circle value intelligence in a woman so this is a plus not a negative. Just make sure to stay feminine and you're more than good to go. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/21 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Back to Basics September: The Wife Tests [Part 2]Good on both of you. Loyalty is damn near impossible to find, that and the regular RP forums/channels/testimonials have made me even more distrusting. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/09/21 02:58 AM |
| 3 | Back to Basics September: The Wife Tests [Part 2]Here's the thing, If she doesn't meet the looks/weight minimum I wouldn't date her. Ya it's a bitter truth but unfortunately looks really do matter. Wish they didn't matter for either gender but hey that's what it is.... | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/09/21 03:19 PM |
| 4 | Does my boyfriend need to go?To be honest, a 24 year old man needs to be dedicated to his career and self improvement at this age, he should be working on advancing in his career before he gets into a serious relationship that requires significant time spent with his girl. At the same time, from a man's view what he has rn is great, he has consistent sex and a gf doing some nice things for him while he works vs wasting time playing the field. I'd say tough it out if this is just a temporary rough patch in his career but if … | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/21 11:03 PM |
| 12 | Back to Basics September: The Wife Tests [Part 2]Goddamn the loyalty part was so fucking spot on. The loyalty during bad times is priceless it comes before sex imo. I couldn't get married without a wife that proved her loyalty. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/21 10:59 PM |
| 28 | Back to Basics September: Male Attraction v Female AttractionThe sooner people learn and or stop denying these harsh truths the sooner we can all get closer to obtaining what we want. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/09/21 08:16 PM |
| 1 | I can't go back to a world without WFHWell put. It's mostly the older employees who refuse to adapt to the changing times and insist on everyone showing up at the office. Then they turn around and have meetings wondering why people keep leaving their company. Literally they have software that monitors your computer activities so employers can just use that if they think their employees might slack off. Imagine how much more productivity you will get when you have employees who slept and extra hour or two because they didn't have to … | /r/RedPillWives | 10/09/21 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Why do we control (or feel the need to control)?We do, its just that we care WAY WAY more about their physical safety. If I had a wife and kids I am going to be more concerned about the house being locked up at night, security cameras, closed windows, etc. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/09/21 05:45 AM |
| 2 | Why do we control (or feel the need to control)?"So many spend most of their life reacting to stimuli and living by a “take risks, then deal with the consequences later” mentality." This is so true; I am like this. I don't like over-planning, I like to take action, make a decision and if it ends up being the wrong decision I just work on making it workout. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/09/21 04:09 AM |
| 4 | What is the appeal of casual sex?Ya its true. I'd be thrilled if I found a woman with only an N3 count. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/09/21 04:03 AM |
| 2 | I can't go back to a world without WFHI genuinely hope this Covid situation will spark a unity amongst office employees that we demand to be able to Work From Home 100% of the time. Not Commuting, not buying lunch, not spending money on gas, not adding miles to your car and not wasting time in traffic is just too logical to not keep doing. It was so amazing being able to clock off work and be in my own home as well as make a fresh lunch daily. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/09/21 03:11 AM |
| 3 | Other women never antagonize me for wanting to be a SAHW, no matter their own career aspirations. The people who do are always men. Why?I feel you. I like independent women too but I wouldn't want to start a family with one. I don't want my kid growing up in day care and eating fast food because their mom had to work late. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/09/21 05:01 AM |
| 4 | Other women never antagonize me for wanting to be a SAHW, no matter their own career aspirations. The people who do are always men. Why?Think long term, who is more likely to give up their career and focus on raising kids and taking care of a family? A woman who is invested in her high profile career or a woman working a whatever job? Second: a woman who has a high level career is going to want a man of an equal or preferably an even higher status career. So unless you are just hot af you are going to have to be equally high status in terms of career. Third: majority of women don't share their money. (Not bashing women just stat… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/09/21 03:39 AM |
| 5 | Other women never antagonize me for wanting to be a SAHW, no matter their own career aspirations. The people who do are always men. Why?Bro what are you talking about? What man have you ever met that cares about a woman's career and finances as much as he does her looks/youth/bodycount etc? You know damn well 99.99% of men will pick a beautiful minimum wage cashier over a fat 6 figure lawyer any day. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/09/21 02:35 AM |
| 2 | Looks like my relationship with my first HVM is going to end…Not to be a dick but it being a tradition doesn't change anything. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/09/21 06:22 AM |
| 18 | Other women never antagonize me for wanting to be a SAHW, no matter their own career aspirations. The people who do are always men. Why?Spot on. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/09/21 06:21 AM |
| 2 | Looks like my relationship with my first HVM is going to end…I agree friendships are important, but honestly, is it unreasonable for a man not to want his gf to go 1 on 1 with another man? | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/09/21 01:31 AM |
| 3 | Looks like my relationship with my first HVM is going to end…Hey, everything comes with a price. Most HVM wouldn't put up with their gf hanging out with guy friends but all average to low value men would. What's more important to you, male friends or dating a HVM vs average to below average man? | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/09/21 01:16 AM |
| 2 | Looks like my relationship with my first HVM is going to end…That's your opinion and you're entitled to it, But many men, especially HVM don't want their gf going out with other guys even if they're friends. The guy is not her friend, guy friends are guys who will settle for a platonic friendship but will gladly sleep with the girl if given the chance. Also it just looks bad having your gf go out with another guy, like what chump would put up with that? | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/09/21 01:12 AM |
| 12 | Looks like my relationship with my first HVM is going to end…I don't blame your BF whatsoever. What high value man is going to put up with his gf going out to concerns and events with another man? | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/09/21 12:02 AM |
| 34 | What is the importance of a stay at home mom in sociality as a whole?They raise children into well functioning, emotionally stable, well nourished, healthy, respectable, well educated and well rounded adults who contribute to society as a whole. They also make their husband's life more comfortable and enjoyable thus sending out a well rested and well fed man back into the world everyday. A Stay at home mom can raise the future doctor that saves your life one day. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/21 11:59 PM |
| 16 | Extreme sex positivityEven if you trust the other person you can't trust technology. Once you take a photo that thing is on the internet for life i.e. cloud storage, potential phone hacks, many apps on your phone have permission to use your photos etc. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/21 05:01 PM |
| 4 | Hypergamy and relationshipsSo are you saying if I get a gf/wife I have to constantly keep climbing and building till my last breath? What is the point in this? This basically means if I finally achieve my goals and retire my wife will leave because I'm content with my success and don't want to keep going out there and battling? | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/08/21 07:51 PM |
| 1 | How to get over the fact that your guy has casually hooked up with other people before you?I didn't accuse you of cheating. I am making a comparison that the actions some men take to fulfill the need for variety, in this case cheating are similar to the actions some women take to fulfill their hypergamous desires which would be leaving a perfectly good man/family to get a slightly better man. Basically I'm demonstrating that both genders can do wrong when acting upon their nature. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/08/21 05:31 PM |
| 2 | How to get over the fact that your guy has casually hooked up with other people before you?You can make this same argument for women who monkey branch and leave a perfectly good relationship, man and even family just to upgrade to a slightly better man. Human nature is brutal what can I say? | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/08/21 03:36 AM |
| 3 | How to get over the fact that your guy has casually hooked up with other people before you?Here's the thing you're not going to like hearing; Many men who are monogamous are monogamous because they cannot get multiple women. Almost all men want to sleep with several women throughout their life. Truthfully, it only means something if a HVM is monogamous because he has to option to sleep around but chooses not to. Many monogamous "betas", "nice-guys", "Male feminists" secretly want to sleep around but they cannot so they have to trade monogamy for sex. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/08/21 03:34 AM |
| 4 | Healthy eating and portions when cooking for a manI am a man same age, height and build as your boyfriend, We eat a lot, also as guys who workout we eat different portions of food categories vs the average person. Extra protein extra carbs and fat. It's not uncommon to eat a pound of meat per day. Most important thing is to include plenty of protein in each meal and also leafy green veggies so he doesn't destroy his colon from all the meat he probably eats. Lastly, I wanted to add, its unbelievably nice to see the comment section filled with … | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/08/21 02:16 AM |
| 2 | My partner doesn't acknowledge how hard I'm tryingOff topic but isn't yard work and AC maintenance more of a man's chore? | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/08/21 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Female relationships in the workplaceI have to ask all the women here: In general do you prefer to work in a male or female dominated (or neutral) workplace? | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/08/21 03:11 AM |
| 2 | How much should I (24F, single) prioritize finding a partner?Btw idk how the font got so large in my reply, that wasn't on purpose. | /r/RedPillWives | 20/08/21 11:24 PM |
| 1 | How much should I (24F, single) prioritize finding a partner?Good question, 1 nice neighborhood 2 not a college bar 3 maybe a bar inside an upscale hotel or steakhouse? Basically places where mature men with good careers would go to. 4 meet up groups are cool, maybe hiking, kayaking or some sort of outdoor activity? What type of men are you interested in? I'm a man so I can give you a good idea of where to find based on your type. | /r/RedPillWives | 20/08/21 11:24 PM |
| 3 | I absolutely despise texting...how do I make this more fun for myself when dating?Great anology. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/21 06:55 PM |
| 2 | I absolutely despise texting...how do I make this more fun for myself when dating?For real bro! Talking on the phone is infinitely better than texting! | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/21 03:04 PM |
| 4 | I absolutely despise texting...how do I make this more fun for myself when dating?We should work to normalize not texting in-between in person meet ups. Texting is boring and no replacement for real in person interaction. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/21 03:02 PM |
| 1 | How much should I (24F, single) prioritize finding a partner?I'd say pick just 1 day per week where you go socialize somewhere like a meet up group/religious institution/ upscale bar etc and work on meeting people. Also online dating sucks but I'm sure there's success stories, just know it sucks for both genders so don't get discouraged if you have a bad time on it. | /r/RedPillWives | 20/08/21 03:00 PM |
| 5 | Husband extremely stressed and tired from work. How can I help him?Man here: You're doing great by taking care of home tasks so that he doesn't have to stress about them. Is this crazy schedule temporary or is this how it's going to be permanent because that's two completely different problems and answers. Aso: When men get stressed we tend to withdraw and get cold so don't take it personally. Just be pleasant and a soft place to land that's really the best thing. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/08/21 11:19 PM |
| 14 | Bothered watching red pill YouTubeWonderfully put, why should rp men give a shit when no one cares about their time, money and efforts being wasted??? | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/21 06:29 PM |
| 6 | Bothered watching red pill YouTubeTo be fair plenty of women have no shame in wasting a man's time, money and effort so why should they care? | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/21 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Whatcha cookin’ these days?You're the MVP | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/08/21 01:07 AM |
| 3 | How do I serve my bf best?Man here: this is a great plan but I'd like to add, men bond with their gf/wife when doing activities he enjoys, with her. Even if she doesn't really like the thing I'm interested In it still counts a lot and it definitely bonds me to her. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/08/21 11:17 PM |
| – | Feelings towards splitting 50/50, going dutch?I'd like to ask, you expect him to invest financially to "show he wants to commit and possibly grow towards something more long term", what do you plan to invest more of to prove commitment on your end? | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/08/21 11:45 PM |
| – | Feelings towards splitting 50/50, going dutch?Fucking bingo! | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/08/21 11:43 PM |
| 2 | Would you share him?This is a solid response. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/08/21 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Would you share him?I would be to, but with most interesting topics people are not likely to give an honest answer if it makes them look bad so we're kinda stuck without any empirical evidence here. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/08/21 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Would you share him?I like the idea of what you wrote but I have some disagreements; " Dropping diversity and compromising by being monogamous comes with an advantage for men: having sex on demand, being certain about paternity, founding a family and lasting companionship." 1:how many men in relationships actually get "sex on demand" let alone enough sex in a relationship? 2: You can never be certain of paternity unless you take a DNA test, again how many women would ever forgive their man if he asked for a paterni… | /r/RedPillWives | 05/08/21 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Would you share him?I disagree, I respect all the women in this sub who said they wouldn't put up with it but that doesn't change the fact that there are women out there who will put up with it if he's high value enough. Also you said "should" share him, No one on even the regular Men's RP said women SHOULD share, they say that many are WILLING to share a HVM vs have their own beta. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/08/21 03:25 AM |
| 4 | Do you have to have amazing qualifications and a high paying job to get a HVM??Awesome, best of luck. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/08/21 08:50 PM |
| -4 | Would you share him?For real, 16 down votes for stating a harsh truth, this is the kinda thing I'd expect from a generic dating forum not a redpill one lol. I never condoned cheating I just simply stated an unpleasant reality. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/08/21 08:40 PM |
| 3 | Do you have to have amazing qualifications and a high paying job to get a HVM??We don't care about how much money she earns, we care about her financial spending and saving habits and debt. Also, working jobs like helping autistic children and animal shelters demonstrate extremely valuable character traits and skills that make for a great mother/wife. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/08/21 06:40 PM |
| 6 | Would you share him?Glad to hear, thank you for your answer. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/08/21 03:12 AM |
| 3 | RPW/RPGF Soft Skills: Other than being an all around Domestic Goddess, what are some small things, overlooked things or “soft skills” you think more women should learn or utilize?I understand and I agree your partner should be the primary place to discuss issues with, but what I am saying is that is the ideal scenario which every man knows will not happen 100% of the time. There's a difference between coming home (most days) to a cheerful and happy gf/wife and a good dinner ready and then after some down time you come and tell him about your issues vs coming in the door to a gf/wife in a terrible mood who just begins the long rant before the man can even change out of hi… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/08/21 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Would you share him?I would like to twist this question into an even more difficult one: What if you're a normal woman on the SMV scale and you married a whatever guy, makes ok money, isn't very dominant, like 40lbs over weight. But....over the course of a few years, he transforms himself into an overall HVM Loses weight and becomes attractive, good height, great physique, built a business and is making like $300,000 annually. Now during this you're still average, would you then consider putting up with it since … | /r/RedPillWives | 04/08/21 01:40 AM |
| -14 | Would you share him?I'm going to disagree here, as a man I can tell you the urge for variety never goes away same way hypergamy never disappears, its just a shitty part of human nature we all have to deal with. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/08/21 01:35 AM |
| 3 | RP and Cheating During MarriageI want to stir the pot here; I'm RP myself but I will tell you a lot of this stuff is just preying on delusions and fantasies of angry men who found themselves on the short end of the SMV and dating stick. Its almost like a rubber band effect where guys want to make up for years of little to no sex in their lives to having a one way monogamous marriage where they can fuck other women. Most HVM who didn't start low on the SMV scale know that you can't expect a HVW to put up with infidelity. Sec… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/08/21 04:10 AM |
| 0 | Guy asks to be fwbI'm surprised then, usually only desperate guys (sub 6) try to turn a 2 year friendship into a FWB. Not to stress you out or make you self conscious but over the course of those 2 years did you demonstrate any non-classy behaviors or tell him about your sex life? Things like that might give a guy the impression that there's a chance of him hooking up with you. In general what type of person are you? I need more details. Source: I am a man mid 20s | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/08/21 03:46 AM |
| -5 | Guy asks to be fwbWhat wouls rate him on the 1-10 scale? That answer will help me answer your question | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/08/21 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Admiring your husband… ideas? examples? suggestions?You're welcome, form what I read you're doing a great job, that man is beyond lucky. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/07/21 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Admiring your husband… ideas? examples? suggestions?Holy shit this is amazing, literally this is what all of us Men would love to hear. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/07/21 06:24 PM |
| 5 | RPW/RPGF Soft Skills: Other than being an all around Domestic Goddess, what are some small things, overlooked things or “soft skills” you think more women should learn or utilize?Great question: For me it means NOT coming home to a gf/wife that's nagging, bitching about her day, venting without seeking solutions at the end, passive aggressiveness, dirty house and sink full of dishes, having to decode any covert communication from her then dealing with her getting pissed when I don't get the hint. Basically not coming home to more bullshit after a long day of work. What it DOES mean is: coming home to a gf/wife who's in a good mood, (preferably wearing something nice), ha… | /r/RedPillWives | 31/07/21 06:18 PM |
| 9 | RPW/RPGF Soft Skills: Other than being an all around Domestic Goddess, what are some small things, overlooked things or “soft skills” you think more women should learn or utilize?You're welcome, glad I can help, also glad my perspective/participation is welcome here. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/07/21 01:17 AM |
| 5 | RPW/RPGF Soft Skills: Other than being an all around Domestic Goddess, what are some small things, overlooked things or “soft skills” you think more women should learn or utilize?THIS....THIS! | /r/RedPillWives | 31/07/21 01:02 AM |
| 18 | RPW/RPGF Soft Skills: Other than being an all around Domestic Goddess, what are some small things, overlooked things or “soft skills” you think more women should learn or utilize?Man here: I definitely appreciate a soft place to land as well as earned non ass-kissing genuine compliments. Also just having someone pleasant to be around is important. IMO these are much more important than cooking and cleaning. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/07/21 07:53 PM |
| 1 | RedPill in France?Reading this kind of common sense is so therapeutic, bravo. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/07/21 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Did I just encounter a redpilled man in the wild?I disagree, I'd much prefer bumble where the women choose me vs me shifting through endless profiles swiping left and right. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/07/21 06:28 PM |
| 4 | Social mediaYa I don't like IG either but you're right it's a useful tool even though it's a nuisance. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/07/21 04:09 PM |
| 9 | Men Are KindSame | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/07/21 11:14 PM |
| 7 | What are some nice things you ladies have done for your men lately?Don't get the tattoo DONT! | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/07/21 08:16 PM |
| 20 | Men Are KindFor real bro, reading these responses on my lunch break is making my day better. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/07/21 08:12 PM |
| 1 | When you're at different stages of the relationship" I've been with a man who lives in his own frame and it's wonderful but also kind of anxiety inducing lol" Please elaborate for me what you mean by this, preferably with examples. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/07/21 03:29 AM |
| 26 | Besides sex - HOW do men need women?Please listen to me; Those channels are basically just scammers giving garbage circular advice to men who just want to get laid. Kevin Samuels deals primarily with hopeless delusional women, Fresh and Fit are two nobodies who started a channel. Second; the reason the advice is contradicting is because often what's best for women and best for men in the dating world is adverse, so these channels are just giving the best advice to whoever their audience consists of..... Ya its best for a man to no… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/07/21 06:20 AM |
| 4 | Hey y'all I'm new to this lifestyle but I tried making simple food for my boyfriend and it was so rewardingThis is so encouraging to read; now the question I have is what type of man inspires a woman to "crawl over broken glass to be able to nurture him, give him a home and food, and be his soft place to land"???? | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/07/21 03:15 AM |
| 4 | Hey y'all I'm new to this lifestyle but I tried making simple food for my boyfriend and it was so rewardingThis is awesome, most women really have no idea how special it feels when a woman cooks for us. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/07/21 03:13 AM |
| 2 | I’m 23 and afraid I won’t make itDon't rush, don't settle, keep focusing on yourself and trust God's timing. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/07/21 03:58 AM |
| 31 | Whats your idea of a HVM and HVW?To me: a HVW; Is loyal even when times are tough like say husband loses his job. Doesn't shit test or act passive aggressive. Is intelligent and cultured, can hold up a higher level conversation without seeming pompous. Also educated to where she can teach her kids. Is in good shape. Dresses feminine and classy like Audrey Hepburn or something like that. Has maternal instincts and can cook. Doesn't disrespect her man. Never uses sex as a weapon/bargaining chip. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/06/21 10:39 PM |
| 3 | Where can I meet traditional, successful men?Can confirm, I'd swipe right on a profile like this. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/06/21 06:14 PM |
| 3 | How to gain the energy to care again?You are 23, if you take care of your health and avoid the drugs/booze you will have a way later wall trust me I'm a man I know. The wall is mostly infected by bad lifestyles not some magic age number; I've seen bombshells @30 and train wrecks before 25. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/06/21 06:11 PM |
| 5 | Believing in my feminine powers 💕This man or woman is spot on. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/06/21 06:09 PM |
| 7 | Alpha widowed/reformed gold digger problemsNot to attack you but I think you need to work on viewing relationships as emotional and on deeper connection rather than transactional. Years of being a sugar baby probably warped your view on relationships as being just an exchange of goods for sex. I'm not shaming you just trying to help. Try going on a date just looking for a good time and possibly a deeper connection and work form there to help repair. Best of luck, keep me posted. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/06/21 05:10 AM |
| 2 | I’m attracting rude men. Wtf!For real spot on bro, it's depressing having to be a cold ass rather than nice but hey that's the way the game works 🤷 | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/21 08:31 PM |
| 5 | Having Career/Degree is Important to MenThank you for proving my point. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/21 08:30 PM |
| 5 | Having Career/Degree is Important to MenI know many HVM, I have never seen one marry a bimbo. About your last paragraph, that's her own problem if she insists on dating a man who makes more/ has an equally or higher status career. Don't hold your self back from getting an education/career because you can't control your dating preferences. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/21 08:29 PM |
| 4 | Having Career/Degree is Important to MenBingo! | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/21 08:28 PM |
| 3 | Having Career/Degree is Important to MenI prefer this over a career woman who inevitably has to adopt masculine traits in order to succeed in her career. Being caring and nurturing are infinitely more important than a high status career. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/21 08:26 PM |
| 1 | What the f*ck has happened to men these days?You dropped this King 👑 Same bro I'm working my way up as well, can't wait to be drowning in options and spinning plates. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/21 08:17 PM |
| 9 | Need your opinion ladiesThe fact that you're leading someone on for business help is so fucking shitty. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/21 01:19 AM |
| 3 | What the f*ck has happened to men these days?Facts brother facts. Not hating but most women have no idea about the sexual and romantic struggles of millennial men. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/21 01:17 AM |
| 47 | Having Career/Degree is Important to MenWe care if a woman is intelligent and if she can support herself financially. The degree and prestige of a degree isn't really important it's moreso having an intellectual equal and having some reassurance she's not just with us for a free meal ticket. Smart men want smart women, this sub often protrays the idea that a doctor will marry a bimbo just because she's hot. Who men fuck vs who they marry are very very different. We'll fuck a girl who's hot and works minimum wage but we're not marrying… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/06/21 10:56 PM |
| 32 | I’m attracting rude men. Wtf!1: most men in our generation have inadequate social skills. 2: most men learn early on that being sweet and affectionate gets us a one way ticket to the friendzone. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/06/21 08:21 PM |
| 3 | Anyone recover from a couple years of drinking, not good sleep, sun exposure, and rough lifestyle? Anyone have a turn around?There's turmeric pills as a supplement but obviously eating it is healthier. Personally I enjoy making my rice and pasta with turmeric. For pasta I use those new ones made from chickpeas rather than regular noodles,I put turmeric, minced garlic, sea salt, black pepper and like a teaspoon of butter then I boil that in the water and cook the noodles in that, after I drain I throw in a giant amount of chopped basil then dump a jar of pasta sauce in there, crank the heat mix for a bit then serve. Co… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/06/21 08:19 PM |
| 12 | What the f*ck has happened to men these days?I'm not excusing anyone treating another person badly. Yes men are in fact a victim of the cultural changes in the last decade or so. Go search online and you'll see a plethora of posts about men struggling romantically and sexually it's across the nation. Yes I'm glad you make 6 figures but not everyone is going to make 6 figures. Yes men absolutely need hobbies preferably ones of culture and ones that are physically active. Why would a HVM settle down when he has an abundance of options that w… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/06/21 01:36 AM |
| 8 | Anyone recover from a couple years of drinking, not good sleep, sun exposure, and rough lifestyle? Anyone have a turn around?Healthy diet, plenty of water throughout the day I've noticed when I incorporate turmeric into my diet my skin clears up. Also face wash. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/06/21 10:38 PM |
| 2 | What updo hairstyles do men like on women?We like anything except short hair, the end. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/21 06:55 PM |
| 4 | There's no sense in following this strategy if you're not hot.I'm not trying to invalidate your frustrations but you do realize the average man in the US cannot get a date even with a 4/10 woman? This is literally the best time in dating history for women, they all can date so much higher out of their leave than ever before, be grateful. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/06/21 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Boyfriend more attracted to my weight gain?Spot on, were attracted to a wider variety of features than women are.... | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/06/21 11:13 PM |
| 1 | How to enjoy the finer things in life without the risk of turning materialistic?Yes absolutely prioritize financial goals and investing but if you still have left over don't live like a scrooge, go out to nice restaurants, take vacations live life! | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/06/21 05:52 PM |
| -2 | How far can healthy habits improve the sex drive of women?I'm not a woman but I know for me eating very healthy nutritious foods and working out regularly really helps with sex drive and performance etc. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/06/21 05:44 PM |
| 60 | "You're the first woman that makes me feel like a man"We're at the hardware store 🤣on weekends. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/06/21 05:48 AM |
| 35 | Apparently we're not welcome in r/offmychestDon't you just love tolerance and acceptance of different beliefs? | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/06/21 05:44 AM |
| 11 | How to enjoy the finer things in life without the risk of turning materialistic?I don't see the problem, I've never understood people who work hard to make good money but then turn around and continue to live their poor lifestyle. I don't see anything wrong with making good money and thus reasonably upgrading your lifestyle. Side note always use money to invest in your health, maybe upgrade to organic groceries, buy fun experiences etc. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/06/21 03:30 PM |
| 2 | Get away from lonelinessInteresting, because I remember vaguely reading an article somewhere that in a french poll the majority answered that cheating can be forgiven and then I read elsewhere that having mistresses is common. I don't know if any of it is true tho. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/21 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Get away from lonelinessAs an American man I want to ask, what is the typical french woman early to mid 20s like? All I've heard about the French is that apparently cheating is more tolerated there and stuff like that. Is this true? | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/21 03:29 PM |
| 1 | I need someone to talk to..What is bumble bff ? | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/05/21 05:25 AM |
| 5 | I'm an invisible woman and I hate it.Please stop reading that TRP shit, majority of it is exaggerated and it's also coming from bitter men who can't get laid, they say all this shit about women being useless past 25 because these guys never had a dating life in their 20s so they want revenge seeing those girls that never gave them the time of day, miserable in their late 20s. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/05/21 05:56 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys keep up with laundry?That breakfast sounds amazing,bravo *slow clap. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/05/21 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Knowing about past healthy for a relationship ?Interesting, I never knew this was a thing. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/05/21 10:17 PM |
| 2 | Knowing about past healthy for a relationship ?What do you mean by not give the same passion in sex with their wives? | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/05/21 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else hate being told " you're such a strong woman" as a compliment??Ya exactly that's what I thought. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/05/21 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else hate being told " you're such a strong woman" as a compliment??I love the brutal honesty in the first paragraph. Tbh no one likes unattractive people hitting on them, I've had it happen to me in the club a couple times, it's insulting tbh, idc how mean that sounds lol. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/05/21 03:35 PM |
| 4 | Anyone else hate being told " you're such a strong woman" as a compliment??Why is this a better compliment to give to a man than a lady? I always figured women were tired of compliments solely related to their appearance? | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/05/21 05:36 AM |
| 18 | Advice for 23 year old25 is not hitting the wall, the wall doesn't have a set age, a lot of women hit the wall early because they eat like shit, drink, do drugs, bad sleep no exercise etc, things that make even men hit the wall. Prioritize your health, eat clean, minimal drinking, no smoking no drugs , exercise, no riding the cock carousel etc. Lastly don't let this red pill stuff scare you into marrying the first marriage minded man you run into, cast a wide net, vet well learn yourself etc. Source: I'm a guy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/05/21 10:43 PM |
| 17 | For the men on here: If a woman doesn't have biological kids with a man, is she mostly only good for her looks and likely to be discarded after the wall?Relax, in the real world us men don't go through these ridiculous theories, you have valid reasons for not wanting to get pregnant, no man will have a problem with it besides men who want biological children of their own, there won't be any redpill guys going through theories that you don't truly want him etc, that's just shit you read on TRP. Not wanting kids isn't uncommon at all, especially in our generation. There's plenty of men out there who want a child free life and also a life partner t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/05/21 08:41 PM |
| 82 | For the men on here: If a woman doesn't have biological kids with a man, is she mostly only good for her looks and likely to be discarded after the wall?Millennial man here: Don't let this red pill stuff make you paranoid, majority of men don't leave their wives when they get older, also men have a looks wall as well so I doubt he's gonna have options beyond maybe being a sugar daddy when he's in his 50s. Also, there's plenty of men who do not want children period, but finding a man who wants to adopt over having his own kids will be a bit challenging to find but not impossible. Like I said earlier don't let this red pill stuff make you jaded, m… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/05/21 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Is social media necessary to find a network/relationship in this day and age?Youre not missing out on anything, it's all bullshit and causes mental illnesses and makes you feel inadequate. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/05/21 01:31 AM |
| 17 | What kinds of compliments do men appreciate most?Realest comment in here 💯 | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/21 07:47 PM |
| 12 | What kinds of compliments do men appreciate most?This woman gets it.... | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/21 07:46 PM |
| 1 | My ultimate guide to RPW online datingThanks! Glad you like my comments lol. To answer your question, rn I want plates, in the future I'd like an LTR tho. How would you suggest I go about writing my bio? | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/21 02:30 AM |
| 2 | My ultimate guide to RPW online datingA lot of guys lie because on tinder you're basically guaranteed almost no matches if you're under 5'10 even being under 6'0 is a problem. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/21 07:39 PM |
| 22 | My ultimate guide to RPW online datingWow this is a really damn good list and should be followed carefully. You should write one for us men to follow, personally I have trouble with the bio like wtf do you even put in there if you don't like stupid cheesy generic lines and stuff? Last question: what's wrong with a guy putting his height in the bio? We all know majority of women prefer taller men so if a man is a good height why not capitalize on that blessing/advantage? | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/21 03:32 PM |
| 2 | Tips for online dating?Hahahahahaha awesome reply. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/21 02:50 AM |
| 4 | Tips for online dating?Thank you but as a man who doesn't like going to church I don't think I need to read this lol. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/05/21 07:21 PM |
| 15 | Tips for online dating?Nothing is impossible but I don't think dating apps are your best bet for finding traditional men. Cast a wide net of course but don't bet too much on dating apps. Again it's possible but I think you're better off mingling at churches, conservative groups, or other social activities. To clarify what exactly do you mean by traditional? | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/05/21 02:31 PM |
| 8 | Feeling unsure about a prospective partnerTake it from a man who's around the same age as him; having a job you dislike and also trying to find something new and build from there is no simple task, as men work is a huge part of our identity and life, if we hate our field/job it's gonna affect every other area of life. It is very admirable that you would be willing to support a man switching careers and or building....., but I'd reccomend finding someone either already established or is on a solid upward path of career growth. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/05/21 03:28 PM |
| 2 | went on a social media cleanse and feel mentally better than ever.Good work! | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/05/21 03:08 AM |
| 2 | How to support my husband and his business without drianing him!?!?!?This is amazing. If I had a chick cook for me like this I'd buy her 2 wedding rings. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/05/21 08:33 PM |
| 1 | How to support my husband and his business without drianing him!?!?!?Bro I feel you! I feel like most of them are just drive-thru queens now smh. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/05/21 08:29 PM |
| 2 | How to support my husband and his business without drianing him!?!?!?Bruh, most millennial women don't cook, if I had a gf and she made me chicken with hard boiled eggs and a salad I'd gladly eat it. " Which is a far cry from what I normally make. " I want to know what do you normally make that chicken and eggs and a salad is considered a punishment meal??? | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/05/21 03:49 AM |
| 8 | How to support my husband and his business without drianing him!?!?!?Are we all gonna ignore the fact that she still cooked and served him dinner after being stood up? | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/05/21 08:40 PM |
| 3 | Tall women and DatingIt's true, statistically in America only 20% of men hit the 6 foot mark. Also if you live in SoCal it's more like 10% tbh. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/05/21 05:58 PM |
| 9 | Tall women and DatingPlease listen to me. -Do not slouch ever, don't try to make yourself shorter. -Most men are less insecure about a woman being tall than you think. -men don't view women your height as masculine, 5'9.5 isn't that tall. There's nothing wrong with preferring a man equal height or taller, it's a perfectly natural preference. Lastly, don't believe any of those bullshit memes you read about tall men preferring shorter women, it's nonsense. All my friends who are 6'0 and taller prefer women who are tal… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/05/21 04:47 PM |
| 7 | Is there a place like RPW for men? I don't mean the plate spinning one, I mean a wholesome RPMI understand the legal risks of marriage in the west. What I don't like about regular RP is it went from solid advice to basically being an instruction manual on how to get laid and deal with low value women and spin plates. There's little to nothing in regular RP for guys who do want to take the risk and either get married or have a healthy LTR with one of the rare quality women out there. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/05/21 05:50 AM |
| 6 | Is there a place like RPW for men? I don't mean the plate spinning one, I mean a wholesome RPMBro I feel the same way, regular RP is just miserable and depressing...I feel like it's 80% just for dealing with low value women but useless for the select good few. Also RP tends to forget not all of us hvm want to spin plates and bang hoes forever...some of us want to become husband's and father's you know? | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/05/21 02:16 AM |
| 1 | When couples don’t know which convention takes precedenceFACTS! It's true, most people are mediocre at best. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/05/21 11:49 PM |
| 1 | When couples don’t know which convention takes precedenceI want to add to this, no one EVER discusses why those 50% failed, maybe there's some simple fixes that could significantly drop down that percentage? They should make an exit survey for couples who divorce, I bet we could learn so much. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/05/21 06:03 PM |
| 1 | What Sex Means To A ManWhy do you think it's a Mountain out of a molehill? | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/05/21 01:12 AM |
| 2 | What Sex Means To A ManI'm busy rn but I have a lot to say in response to this, I'll get back to you in about 4 hours. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/05/21 07:55 PM |
| 3 | What Sex Means To A ManI believe this article was writing about what sex means to a man in a relationship not just in general. We men can go both ways, I can bang a girl casually and feel nothing but enjoy it and I can also have a lovely and emotional bonding experience having sex with a girlfriend. Just because we can enjoy casual sex without emotions doesn't mean sex with a girlfriend or wife isn't an emotional and bonding experience that meets both our sexual and emotional needs. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/05/21 02:41 PM |
| 10 | What Sex Means To A ManIt's both valuable and casual, with a gf or wife it's extremely validating and makes you feel super loved and accepted, it's the ultimate binding experience sharing such a beautiful, enjoyable, bonding and exclusive experience. With a hook up or casual encounter, it's validating but also it feels damn good to get some pussy and fuck but it's not emotional, it's fun but not bonding. Ethics aside, it's the same way a man can fuck his secretary with no feelings of attachment but then go home and ma… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/05/21 06:53 AM |
| 20 | What Sex Means To A ManIt's both, casual sex is still fun but with a partner its incredibly bonding and the ultimate validation. Source: I'm a guy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/05/21 03:35 AM |
| 9 | What Sex Means To A ManIt's the ultimate validation | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/05/21 03:34 AM |
| 2 | WIVES OF HVM - how’d you do it?The second to last paragraph deserves a spot in the bible.... | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/21 08:55 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when your spouse is unhappy but doesn't take steps toward change?About the physical aches and pains, that's not your fault it's just age doing it's thing and naturally he's feeling down because he's forced to watch himself lose his former physical "glory". I'm in my mid 20s so I can't relate but I know damn well innevitably losing my physique in my older age will definitely screw with my self esteem and make me feel bad when that time comes. Also the beers and deserts are his fault too, its him putting himself into a cycle of gaining weight because he's eatin… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/21 08:42 PM |
| 1 | WIVES OF HVM - how’d you do it?Damn, I'm really happy with the responses here focusing on character and other things... Other pages rip men apart as basically "scrubs" if they make a penny under 6 figures or are below 6'0. I wish all of you the best 👌👍 | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/21 03:29 PM |
| 3 | Late bloomer -- how do I start? Or is it too late?Slow cooker recipes will be your best friend trust. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/21 01:20 AM |
| 4 | Late bloomer -- how do I start? Or is it too late?Dude major props for taking control over your life like this 💪. Don't worry about lack of experience if anything you saved yourself plenty of mental wear and tear by not dating all these years. For the weight loss I've tried a fasting diet where I only eat once per day, so far I love it and have stuck with it for 4 months now and don't plan on going back. Also, have you thought of freezing your eggs? | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/21 01:18 AM |
| 3 | High Earning WomenI respect it 👌 | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/04/21 08:24 PM |
| 2 | High Earning WomenJust being nosey here; are you planning on combining finances when you get married? | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/04/21 08:09 PM |
| 2 | Revisiting Fascinating Womanhood Ch7 Masculine and Feminine RolesThis needs to be taught in some women's bible retreat honestly. Ya I agree I don't let my emotions control me nor am I some 2021 overly emotional guy beta feminist offspring but I am a man who does have some emotion you know? Like I don't want to worry about her questioning my competence if I ever slip up or show vulnerability. Now the problem is where do you find these types of women and if you do how do you even vet her? | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/04/21 05:26 AM |
| 4 | Dating QuestionAs a white man who's also in SoCal, I think it's just the novelty factor, for starters we don't put white women on a pedastool like many other ethnic men do. Second I think many of us are kinda checking out ethnic chicks and seeing how we do there (were in socal and there's a huge variety of hot women of color) and I'm guessing many W.M. just assume we're gonna end up marrying a W.W. anyway so why bother looking rn when it's time to explore? Just a guess. Also I see in your profile you go to SDS… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/04/21 03:39 AM |
| 2 | Revisiting Fascinating Womanhood Ch7 Masculine and Feminine RolesThis is actually even more surprising coming from a Brazilian, I figured that's a machismo culture where it would REALLY be bad for a man to show emotions in front of his girlfriend or wife, I assumed you were white tbh. That last paragraph is so true, but in general for non rp women I can't help but think it's just biologically ingrained to reject a man's vulnerability or weakness? | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/04/21 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Revisiting Fascinating Womanhood Ch7 Masculine and Feminine RolesDamn that's awesome, he's lucky most girls deep down hate seeing their man cry....at least that's what RP and RP testimonies teach... If you had to guess what percentage of women do you think feel the same you do about their man crying or having a moment of weakness vulnerability? | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/04/21 02:10 AM |
| 2 | Revisiting Fascinating Womanhood Ch7 Masculine and Feminine RolesIt's interesting you say this because this goes against what the mens RP teaches. If you don't mind answering, please be honest: do you ever feel yourself losing respect and or attraction for your husband when he shows vulnerability or admits he is unsure when faced with a challenge? All the RP testimonies of men saying their girlfriend either dumped them or started disrespecting them after they opened up or showed any vulnerability or God forbid cried, have me worrying I'm gonna have to hide a … | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/04/21 01:17 AM |
| 5 | Revisiting Fascinating Womanhood Ch7 Masculine and Feminine RolesNature really is perfect 👌 So on the female side I'm assuming the equivalent is enjoying being asked to help your man out with say analyzing a social situation that happened or taking about something that bothered him at work? Is this true? Lol and ya I've noticed women never get annoyed if their man asks them for a hug or any kind of affection. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/04/21 08:16 PM |
| 18 | Revisiting Fascinating Womanhood Ch7 Masculine and Feminine Roles"he needs to feel needed the same way you need to feel loved" Holy shit this whole post is so unbelievably spot on. It's true, nothing feels better than when a girlfriend needs my help, I successfully help with the task/issue and am appreciated for it. Oh man especially if it's with something I'm interested in like car repairs, that's like the ultimate lol. Literally being useful to women is so ingrained in our DNA and nature that RP men has to teach us not to act on it except under certain circ… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/04/21 06:11 PM |
| 1 | What distinctions can be made between platonic male friends, and orbiters? What behavioral differences are important to note?Earlier I didn't see the last part of this reply. When you say he isn't funny, do you mean he tries to be funny and fails at it or just has no sense of humor? This has nothing to do with how to get rid of the orbiter but I'm kinda curious now. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/04/21 03:43 AM |
| 1 | *Please be kind* - How do I stop worrying about this?FACTS! | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/04/21 03:15 AM |
| 1 | What distinctions can be made between platonic male friends, and orbiters? What behavioral differences are important to note?You probably have more beta orbiters than you realize. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/04/21 03:00 AM |
| 8 | What distinctions can be made between platonic male friends, and orbiters? What behavioral differences are important to note?Nah that won't work, you have to tell him that you are not attracted to him and never will be. There's really no smooth easy way to do this, he's gonna be butt hurt no matter what. It's shitty but is just slowly ghost him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/04/21 01:09 AM |
| 3 | What distinctions can be made between platonic male friends, and orbiters? What behavioral differences are important to note?There's orbiters with a creepy and unhealthy infatuation and the second more common type is just beta men hoping to get laid. See my previous comment. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/04/21 01:08 AM |
| 4 | What distinctions can be made between platonic male friends, and orbiters? What behavioral differences are important to note?Hahaha ty, keep me posted on how this goes. Lmk if you need any more advice 👍 | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/21 08:18 PM |
| 17 | What distinctions can be made between platonic male friends, and orbiters? What behavioral differences are important to note?Not your problem, most beta orbiters don't care about your feelings either, they just want sex. Sounds like the guy who is listening to you and your friends guy troubles is playing the classic one day you "see the light, and notice how good of a guy he is as opposed to the attractive and masculine men you are currently interested in" (basically a movie fantasy that never happens in real life). Now to cut them off you are gonna have to be explicitly clear that you are not attracted to him and the… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/21 08:13 PM |
| 38 | What distinctions can be made between platonic male friends, and orbiters? What behavioral differences are important to note?Orbiters are more eager to do favors and win points like listening to your problems, doing favors being overly nice, basically trying to earn sex. Truly Platonic male friends hardly exist, they're the guys who do enjoy your company and are friends with you but if given the chance will most likely sleep with you (assuming your not ugly or fat), though they're not waiting around like a vulture like the orbiter is. *Source: I'm a guy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/21 08:03 PM |
| 4 | Freaking OutIt's true, we look for good qualities that will benefit in the long term when marrying, it's not all appearance, I don't expect my wife to be a bombshell at 60 but we both owe to to each other to do our best. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/21 07:56 PM |
| 12 | Freaking OutI am a man so take it from me: a man who has an attractive, loving wife who cooks, cleans,submits and bring home 6 figures is probably more afraid of losing you than you are of losing him. The only thing that would be a concern is if he was broke and or unattractive most of his life and has now glown up, then there's a chance it might get to his head and he makes a mistake cheating. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/21 05:37 PM |
| 1 | *Please be kind* - How do I stop worrying about this?I'm not saying this doesn't happen but it's rare. Also with brutal divorce laws and alimony most men wouldn't risk it. Haven't you heard the phrase "it's cheaper to keep her"? | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/21 02:20 PM |
| 2 | Help me help him be the man he is insideTo be fair, dealing with a filthy rat in the house isn't exactly a feminine duty... | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/21 02:22 AM |
| 2 | When to give him my "second virginity"?Don't beat yourself up over it. " but once you do it it feels like you cannot undo it and simply remove it from your sex life repertoire." Yes this is true, but like I said in my original reply, YOU DO NOT OWE ANYONE ANY SEX OR ANY TYPE OF SEX, doesn't matter if it was given before or to anyone else etc. Look, I get where you're coming from and these issues about not wanting it to be seen as a bargaining chip and getting him to stop nagging. Tell him you don't like doing anal because it hurts an… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/21 01:20 AM |
| 2 | *Please be kind* - How do I stop worrying about this?Definitely. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/21 12:57 AM |
| 3 | *Please be kind* - How do I stop worrying about this?How did I show this fear? Where in my posts did I say I would cheat on my hypothetical future wife? Where did I ever invalidate her fear? I made a comparison to hypergamy, stating both were permanent things the opposite gender is burdened with worrying about and then said that it's best to not overthink it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/21 12:56 AM |
| 1 | *Please be kind* - How do I stop worrying about this?No I would not leave or cheat on my menopausal wife for a hotter girl if I could. The only reason I would cheat is if she started withholding sex or using it as a weapon. What I am saying is the desire and attraction to young women in their early to mid 20s never goes away the same way a woman never stops being hypergamous. Whether men and women act on these biological desires is up to them. Most men don't actually put a lot of thought into marriage, its just something they do because their pare… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/21 12:54 AM |
| 5 | Struggling to meet an Alpha.Idk what state you're in but even here out in liberal california there's still some churches disobeying the orders and opening, also we have the services outdoors so people can congregate in person. How are you not worthy of a righteous man? That's ridiculous, also if he stumbles it's his own fault, not your job your job is to keep yourself aligned with your morals/beliefs. You have way too much RMV to be worrying like this, trust all you have to do is mingle with men looking for future wives ak… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/04/21 08:22 PM |
| 7 | Struggling to meet an Alpha.You need to go hangout at a conservative church in an affluent neighborhood or even a middle class neighborhood. You sound like every conservative Christian man's dream wife I kid you not. You're young, want to be a good wife and have a 6 figure second income to bring to the table, this is unheard of, why are you even worrying lol you sound like a godsend. I'm a guy btw. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/04/21 03:20 PM |
| 3 | For RPW who value themselves and are in a LTR, what are ways you try to show some effort in the relationship (small things) & how do you know it’s being valued or appreciated?This is perfect, you get my male stamp of approval lol. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/04/21 04:59 AM |
| 29 | *Please be kind* - How do I stop worrying about this?The same way Hypergamy never goes away with a woman's age, a man's attraction to and desire for younger women (early to mid 20s) never goes away either. " and it makes me feel like i cant trust men. Even though I’ve met many many sweet happily married male patients as well. Maybe because I feel like its so hard to know who is going to be faithful and who is not? Some of the crude male patients I’ve had, i was shocked.. because I never expected them to say such things or look at me in such a way.… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/04/21 03:25 AM |
| 3 | When to give him my "second virginity"?Thank you for the kind words, feel's good to be appreciated lol. I'm not against women doing kinky things for their bf or even husband, I just don't like the idea of women doing these things not knowing how it will come back to bite them in the future. I don't know if women realize how doing x,y,z with a man in the past sets the standard for judging how much we think she likes us, how she views us, whether we are not first choice etc. As a man if I had a LTR or even worse, a wife, and I found ou… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/21 11:12 PM |
| 10 | When to give him my "second virginity"?#1: Don't do anal period. The anus is not designed for penetration, it will cause damage. #2: If you do decide to do anal, wait until you're married. Let me explain why. Explanation: You need to understand something about men, I know you think this guy might be "the one" but until there is a ring on your finger and a marriage certificate signed, he is not the one. If you do anal with this guy every other guy you get with is going to know its been on the table and will try to get it. Say you try … | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/21 04:56 PM |
| 9 | Feminine EtiquetteYour true self is your desires, if you desire to be feminine then that means deep down your true feminine self is trying to break free of the current shell you have. You are already there! Don't worry about it not feeling natural and friends objecting to it, you determine who you are not others, you need zero validation for your new self, if they don't like it they can leave. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/04/21 03:28 PM |
| 1 | HELP! my partner can’t last more than 2 minutes and I don’t know what to do anymore.LMAO! | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/04/21 02:53 AM |
| 1 | He used to have a preferenceOn the contrary the fact that you're different from his preferences shows that he likes you for who you are not your features/ appearance. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/21 08:20 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with HVM on dating apps wanting “ambitious” “overachieving” women who “excel in what they do” etc?It is basically a way to help filter out gold diggers, unintelligent women, freeloaders etc. Most HVM don't actually care about a woman's career, we just don't want to get flooded with women looking for a man to be their financial plan or a lazy woman with no goals or interests. TBH It's tough to display traditional values on an online dating site, I mean best you can do is post feminine pics wearing dresses and doing feminine things. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/21 04:38 PM |
| 13 | HELP! my partner can’t last more than 2 minutes and I don’t know what to do anymore.Maybe he should try masturbating 30 min before sex so he can last longer? | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/21 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Positive update: Switching to part time workYour husband is living in paradise, clean house, frequent sex, home cooked food, good vibes from a woman...what else can a man ask for?? | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/21 04:29 PM |
| 7 | How important is physical attraction in a relationship?Unfortunately it is necessary, it's a burden nature puts upon us but yes it does matter. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/21 03:25 AM |
| 5 | Positive update: Switching to part time workThis is awesome, I hope to get this one day. Also having sex throughout the day is fucking awesome, don't stop with that energy your man will drown in love and infatuation for you with that lol. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/04/21 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Just found out my boyfriend is using steroids. How do I put my foot down without losing him?Listen, I am a male gym rat, make sure he knows the risks or steroid use. Is he buying the steroids some shady dealer at the gym? Does he get regular blood work done extra often to make sure his levels are ok? Does he know that he can permanently screw up his hormones for the rest of his life? Lastly gym guys like myself are more insecure than fat guys are about their bodies so he's going to forever feel "small" if he doesn't take steroids even tho he's probably bigger than 95% of the population… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/04/21 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Where can I find tinder conversations that worked ?Thank you for your honesty about the time wasting and validation, very refreshing. Yes it's true, my and most other men's photos are absolute garbage. But, a good haircut and a low body fat percentage with decent conversation skills will take you very very far... | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/21 03:34 AM |
| 1 | How can I follow the red pill women lifestyle and date without being exploited for my kind nature??Yes this is true but there's trash in every gender, it's just a shitty reality for men and women that you gotta deal with trash before you meet the right person. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/21 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Where can I find tinder conversations that worked ?Man to man: look at their profile and photos, ask them a good question about something they're clearly interested in like what they're doing in the photo, a hobby they mentioned in their bio.... That alone seperates you from 90% of the guys in her inbox.... Most guys send the generic hey, ask for sex/nudes, ask to go over etc, play 21 questions etc. Also don't waste too much time with conversation over tinder, try to set the date as soon as you reasonably can. You don't want to give her too much… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/21 02:35 AM |
| 15 | How can I follow the red pill women lifestyle and date without being exploited for my kind nature??Well first off I'd reccomend the no sex before commitment rule. BUT when the time does come when he tries to initiate sexually, make sure to overtly tell him that even though you are sexually attracted to him and want to sleep with him you have to decline because of your rule/personal boundary..this way the guy doesn't take it as a regular rejection. Second, the previous rule will filter out many but not all, men who just want sex. Also just like I tell men, don't do favors, gestures, behaviors … | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/21 02:25 AM |
| 7 | How can I follow the red pill women lifestyle and date without being exploited for my kind nature??What do you mean by exploited for your kind nature? Examples please... | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/21 01:44 AM |
| 3 | Feeling inadequateAmen to that, or even 2k on an absolutely killer 3 day vacation, hell you can buy a car for 2k... Lol ya I know you/they are out there but man it's tough to find out which ones genuinely will be ethical with their man's money and who aren't... | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/04/21 07:39 PM |
| 4 | Feeling inadequateFor starters, I'm mid 20s unmarried. If I get a wife in the future: I'd like to pay all the bills once we start a family, have her stay home or maybe work a day or two per week just to get out of the house and socialize (more so for mental health than any extra money), before that I'd like to have her contribute whatever she makes to us as a team overall. I'd just have a shared credit card that she/we use for groceries, gas you name it. I wouldn't mind paying for extras like nails and hair appoi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/04/21 04:44 PM |
| 13 | Feeling inadequateYou're welcome. No he is not disappointed, no "alpha"/HVM would trade his kids being nurtured and educated by their mother, a clean house, healthy fresh cooked meals and a loving home for 37K which probably ends up being low 20s after all the goddamn taxes. What is 20k? A killer vacation you three would never have taken anyway because you have a newborn lol Also I forgot to add, good quality daycare would probably cost close to 37k so you even on paper you really aren't losing more than a couple… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/21 09:53 PM |
| 39 | Feeling inadequateListen to me, the type of guy who has the personality and drive to work in a field that makes enough money to provide for a family on one income does not mind or view you as less because you're not bringing in much income if any. I am confident he is much happier knowing his future child is at home safe being taken care of by his wife and not a day care worker. Me and guys like this don't look to our gf/wife for financial support (unless times are bad), we look for women who provide a nice home,… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/21 07:55 PM |
| 0 | Soooo, who’s getting the vaccine?Because I feel it's unnecessary, I'm not taking a rushed vaccine with god knows what in it to keep me safe from a virus that I am 99.9999%likely to survive. Literally I'm more likely to die driving to get the vaccine then from Covid. I'm young and super healthy/fit so this virus is a joke for me. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/21 05:50 PM |
| 7 | Soooo, who’s getting the vaccine?Hell no, I am not getting the vaccine. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/21 05:43 AM |
| 26 | I'm getting married in exactly 30 days!Yes exactly, be loyal, be supportive, add as little stress to his life as possible, be appreciative of his efforts and sacrifices, be fun, give him frequent and good sex. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/04/21 10:39 PM |
| 16 | How Do You Women Vet?So basically you can't handle a shit test but you have no problem dishing them out? You said you want to figure out a man's personality, behavior and character before trusting and respecting him why can't you handle being tested for loyalty or other important things before a man takes it to the next step with you? | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/04/21 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever left a relationship with a good man because there are things that were lacking? If so, can you talk to me about the experience? I’ll also describe my story in the body and if I could have your views, I’d be grateful.Holy shit man this is so spot on, it's so true it's like going to a restaurant and bragging about paying for free bread. Men feel terrible when they meet one of their girl's flings because it makes him feel like a chump, "why am I here giving her commitment, resources, time, energy, exclusivity, wining and dining her when some man got the prize for free no strings attached? What does he have that I don't? And I a back up/ plan B?" | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/04/21 06:18 PM |
| 1 | To look good or to earn good?No I drink plenty of black coffee throughout the day, tea is ok as well, I just prefer coffee and find it better at repressing appetite. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/04/21 03:26 PM |
| 17 | Grateful for good men!Thank you for posting this, its nice to be appreciated. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/04/21 12:38 AM |
| 2 | Quarantine recipes?https://youtu.be/DC1n75LXxc4 Cilantro lime chicken in the crock pot. I can cook up to 4lbs at once although 2 is better especially for 2 people. Easy, simple and stays fresh longer than when I grill chicken for whatever reason. Use chicken thigh, cheaper and tastier. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/04/21 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Learning to cook - tips?You're welcome, glad to hear, keep me posted on the cooking progress. Yes crock pot saves lives and time and it doesn't require your attention while it cooks. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/04/21 07:36 PM |
| 2 | To look good or to earn good?Listen to me, try eating one meal per day. I dropped down from 180ish to 175 in a matter of weeks when I switched to eating just 1 monster meal per day and fasting the remaining 23 hours. My strength in the gym has not dropped and my life is easier. When you eat once per day you don't have to be a strict with what you eat and you only have to worry about cooking and eating once which makes it much easier to stay on track. I'm a guy, idk if it matters for this but just saying.... | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/04/21 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Learning to cook - tips?Hell ya I love it, stuff like this is why I enjoy lurking this sub. If my gf/wife cooked for me I'd shower her with love and appreciation..., And then brag about it to my friends. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/04/21 05:11 PM |
| 21 | Learning to cook - tips?" I am excited to cook for my future family, but SO scared to let down a future husband with my cooking! " I promise you, as a Western Millennial man, I am telling you; the fact that you are willing to cook for your man is already putting you ahead of 90% of women out there. "Where can I learn? How did you all learn to cook? " I learned a lot of recipes from YouTube, believe me good food and cooking is not as hard as it looks. Also learn to utilize the slow cooker/ crock pot and cook in bulk, ma… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/04/21 04:00 AM |
| 5 | In defense of femininity. I’m really tired of seeing ultrafeminine habits get dismissed as “basic” (vent)For real, there's this weird obsession with shaming women for liking feminine stuff. I'm a guy and I get the same problems when people find out I like cars, gym, cooking/grilling, fixing stuff, tools, and other stereotypically male interests... Like why is it wrong for a woman to like make up, clothes, baking, decorating and other stuff? Why this weird obsession with having them like "guy" things? There's nothing wrong with a woman liking make up and not liking sports same way it's fine for me t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/21 06:25 AM |
| 1 | BJ on the 3rd date?Ya ball is in his court now/ next few days is when we find out. Not trying to stress you out, don't worry too much focus on yourself and meeting new men, never put your eggs in one basket. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/21 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Women can't be red pill.Yes they can. Redpill is reality, either gender can accept true reality and work accordingly to get most of what they want. I'm a guy btw | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/21 11:35 PM |
| 1 | BJ on the 3rd date?1: Depends on the guy, some will some won't and unfortunately you can't tell until it's too late. 2: ya you might be putting too much pressure/ spooking but its MUCH better to be overt and clear about this boundary ahead of time rather than in the heat of the moment. Lastly about this part, you're gonna find out if he views this boundary as a challenge to overcome, a deal breaker, or hopefully he gains more respect for you and views you more highly for not giving sex quickly. There's no definite… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/21 07:07 PM |
| 24 | A break up ahead. The end of 3 years with my best friend and life partner. The only man I've truly known.Dude these days a body count of 3 is basically a virgin don't even stress about that part. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/21 07:12 PM |
| 4 | Where do you draw the line between girlfriend and wife duties?Exactly, don't listen too closely to these bitter mgtows and redpillers who say they only want women for sex, it's a cope and a lie...if it were true no one would get married and there would be a brothel on every corner like there is a McDonald's on every corner. Men want and crave love and affection, loyalty and company from women just as much as women do from men.. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/21 06:37 PM |
| -1 | Do the same techniques work on men and women? Does love bombing and dread work the same way on men as well?Bingo | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/21 04:52 PM |
| 5 | Do the same techniques work on men and women? Does love bombing and dread work the same way on men as well?Dread does not work, we know when a girl is trying to make us jealous and that shit makes is furious and makes us dislike the girl. We know 99% of men want to sleep with our gf/wife so our girl flirting with other guys or strategically setting up situations to get male attention does not work in making us jealous or value her more. It just looks needy and feels super disrespectful. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/21 04:51 PM |
| 0 | Where do you draw the line between girlfriend and wife duties?It's true, HVM know the risks of marriage.... As nice as a woman doing domestic chores and cooking is, it's definitely not going to make us marry you and withholding those nice things is also not going to make a HVM get married. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/21 04:45 PM |
| 3 | Struggling with love because he lacks Captain qualities?Ty, you're welcome. Ya what you did there was the man version of passive dread lol. Basically what you're doing by taking about the Christian guy being working hard and stuff, is making your boyfriend realize there is another man out there who is succeeding in an area(s) that he is messing up on and it is taken as a threat....Kinda like how women feel threatened when other women hit on their man or check him out.. I'm glad you're not taking on that responsibility, also its really dope that you'r… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/03/21 05:20 AM |
| 14 | Struggling with love because he lacks Captain qualities?Here's a tip, anytime he does some sort of behavior you like, such as leading or decision making or whatever, make a big deal out of it and clearly and overtly tell him you like it when he does x,y,z. If that doesn't work bring up or even make up some story of a guy exhibiting the type of behavior you like and talk about how it made you feel x,y,z positive feeling...that kind thing makes us guys think oh shit I better do x,y,z before some other guys does it. Lastly if he's unambitious and doesn'… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/21 11:49 PM |
| 7 | Work-out tips for beginners?Go for daily leisurely walks, if you can do it in the morning on an empty stomach that is the most ideal for losing weight. Daily walks are scientifically proven to do wonders for your mental and physical health. Also, please dont' neglect stretching, its so damn important. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/21 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Not feeling validated by my manDude this is so spot on, I don't think RPW understand that most women view any sort of verbal expressions of love or any act like buying flowers as either weakness or being needy and they get turned off. Its depressing tbh because most of us guys would love to be able to not be so closed off. Women seem to be obsessed with mystery and don't like consistency so anything giving away your feelings just ends the game... | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/21 07:35 PM |
| 13 | Why should I be bothered to put in the effort to look prettier?I'm a guy who would probably feel the same way if I had a gf rn but I can tell you that even when I'm just at home or running errands I just feel better and carry myself better when I get a clean shave, keep up with my haircuts, gel my hair and dress with good clothes vs when I go with a hat and joggers.... Subconsciously when you put in effort into your appearance you basically tell yourself you are worth putting in effort for and deserve to be seen in a good light. Also people treat you better… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/21 07:29 PM |
| 2 | Im getting full responsibility for cooking and buying food. Help!!No Problem! https://youtu.be/6132TTPwCmc (@3:20 mark is where I got the recipe for the pork rub) https://youtu.be/BVBKHI2xqZY Chicken kebab recipe https://youtu.be/DC1n75LXxc4 Super damn good chicken in the crock pot, holy shit its good and I can double the recipe and make 4lbs in one batch....it stays fresh in the fridge really long as well. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/21 03:02 AM |
| 2 | Im getting full responsibility for cooking and buying food. Help!!This needs to be pinned to the side bar 🤣👍👌 | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/21 10:09 PM |
| 4 | Im getting full responsibility for cooking and buying food. Help!!Congrats on the news! As someone who works out and likes/needs to cook let me give you some tips: 1:the slow cooker/ crock pot is your friend. 2: cooking for 2+ is easier than cooking for 1. Also with the ability to buy in bulk it also becomes cheaper ironically... 3: about the protein... Chicken kebab is your friend, I'll drop a recipe link below when I get the time. Trust me it's the best way to make chicken breast taste delicious. Hard boiled eggs... Easy, can be made in bulk and it tastes gr… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/21 10:04 PM |
| 20 | I want to have a kid, I'm 23 already, but how can you be a young mother nowadays?Don't stress too hard, focus on self improvement and socialize in places with HVM if you want to find a good future husband. I'd recommend dating men in their late 20s if you want something serious and kids in the near future, most men around your age either want to mess around or have no career and ability to provide. Also don't give up your career, its always good to have it as a back up. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/03/21 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Married women, did your effort to look attractive decrease once you got married?That's Awesome team work right there. Ya it's true when it comes to keeping up appearances men get off easier. If I had a wife I'd try to keep up with staying in shape, can't expect her to want to sleep with a fat husband lol. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/21 06:04 PM |
| 8 | Married women, did your effort to look attractive decrease once you got married?That's bull, everyone knows women are visual that's just a cope guys with dad bods use to justify a bad physique. (I am a man who used to have a dad-bod) | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/21 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Married women, did your effort to look attractive decrease once you got married?You're the real mvp | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/21 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Solipsism from a woman’s perspective: Women read the roads. Men read the maps.You're welcome. Spot on, I absolutely set a course and try to stick with it. Obviously as any good leader does, I will alter it if it is not working or there is a much better way but I really hate having to alter a perfectly good plan lol. Wait hold up, so you're telling me if I just immediately ask for directions vs trying to do it myself multiple times my girlfriend would view me as more competent vs vice versa? Wouldn't that make me look like a quitter or incompetent not trying to do it mysel… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/21 05:25 AM |
| 3 | Solipsism from a woman’s perspective: Women read the roads. Men read the maps.Personally, I (a Man) don't like asking for directions because it makes me look incompetent as if I can't figure out how to find a simple destination, second I always feel like I'm almost about to find out the route and asking would just kill my train of thought, Lastly I feel like giving up and asking for directions after too few tries of figuring it out on my own is kind of weak and again incompetent. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/21 02:57 AM |
| 4 | Women aren’t accountable because men don’t careThis is a stretch, when have you seen a Doctor marry a hot dumbass? | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/03/21 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Feminist menFACTS! | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/21 05:30 PM |
| 1 | How not to be fat.That's definitely true, there's really no magic fix all diet without being in a caloric defecit. Still tho, fasting has benefits and many testimonies online help prove it's validity... I guess my point is if you're already dieting might as well take it a step further and fast for added benefits and increased weight loss | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/21 05:06 PM |
| 2 | How not to be fat.Ah ya I think you're right, from the videos I watched I heard it starts increasing at hour 23. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/21 05:03 PM |
| 2 | How not to be fat.Could be, but there's also plenty of studies out there showing the benefits of fasting aka IF. For me, one meal a day has been working wonders, I'm dropping fat but my muscles and strength are still there, I love it, its the first diet/eating style I've done that isn't miserable. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/21 05:11 AM |
| 8 | I successfully identified a Red Pill man in the wild!That's cool, I've been hoping to run into a RPW in real life lol. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/21 04:47 AM |
| 3 | How not to be fat.I understand the main thing for losing weight is being in a caloric deficit but fasting itself has added benefits that greatly aid in weight loss, hell its great even for maintaining weight. There are added health benefits to fasting such as insulin released less frequently and boosted HGH (human growth hormone)..... the last one is probably mostly a benefit for guys because that helps preserve muscles even while in a caloric deficit. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/21 04:45 AM |
| 21 | I'm trying to improve myself and need some advice on achieving that.Conservative men are hard to find, I'm a guy and even I have trouble finding men who are manly enough to hang out with. Church is a good spot to find a conservative guy, or maybe some conservative club in college? Also I'm sure in law school you will find dominant men due to the nature of the field. Lastly, good job not budging on the promiscuity, smart choice. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/21 02:22 AM |
| 8 | How not to be fat.Calorie in vs calories out is true but it's not the whole picture. Yes you can lose weight eating garbage in a caloric defecit but you will look and feel like shit, there is no cheating a healthy diet. Second, fasting works. For about 5 weeks now I have been eating 1 big meal per day, results? I dropped from ~181 down to 174/175 @ 6'0 tall, I've hit a couple PRs in the gym and have maintained all of my strength if not gotten stronger. Look up videos on the one meal per day (OMAD)/ intermittent f… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/21 02:13 AM |
| 3 | How not to be fat.Have you tried eating more calorie dense foods? Like higher fat beef, chicken thigh instead of chicken breast? Adding olive oil to stuff maybe eating more peanut butter? Keep me posted, I like offering diet advice to people. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/21 02:09 AM |
| 1 | A Posture ProblemWow, You really did crack the man code, bravo. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/21 10:48 PM |
| 1 | How do you feel about girls night out at a club??? When in a long term relationship?Search redpill videos on youtube on this topic and you'll see why men are against it . | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/03/21 02:03 AM |
| 21 | International women’s day - challenging the narratives that devalue femininityThis is interesting, never thought of it this way..ya I feel bad for feminine women, their traits are always dismissed as inferior when in reality they're super valuable for nurturing children, taking care of a family etc. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/03/21 01:18 AM |
| 9 | Got married at 22 thanks to RPW: a painfully honest sharingThis is awesome congratulations 👍 | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/21 06:46 PM |
| 11 | Learning about the male protective instinct from my brotherThis post is spot on, we naturally want and take pride in protecting women, being appreciated for it is awesome. Also yes us men do not like being called cute, it's immasculating and makes us feel like we're an endearing kind of incapable which feels terrible. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/21 06:35 PM |
| 8 | Learning about the male protective instinct from my brotherIt's true, we don't hate other men, we just want to be top dog by nature so we're always competing. Kind of how women always shit test their man men shit test each other to make sure the pecking order hasn't changed or as an attempt to climb up the pecking order. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/21 06:32 PM |
| 16 | Learning about the male protective instinct from my brotherSpot on bro, as much as mgtows and redpillers like to deny it we are wired by nature to take pride and satisfaction in being useful. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/21 06:30 PM |
| 22 | Is MGTOW a problem for us and why men judge us all by the worst women they've met?Man thank you for this, never thought I'd hear a female sympathize with the men who got traumatized in the past. The description of AWALT and just assuming because of no certainty is spot on..of course NAWALT but unfortunately it's just too damn difficult to tell. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/03/21 10:39 PM |
| 1 | How to not let inexperience get in the a way from a relationship?Please elaborate on "respects himself", what counts as a man respecting himself vs not respecting himself? | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/03/21 05:54 PM |
| 1 | How to not let inexperience get in the a way from a relationship?Yes; however, we all know women usually care less about a man sleeping around in his past than vice versa....its just one of the many inequalities in nature. Also there's a difference between a guy who had some fun and slept around a bit vs a cocaine sniffing party addict who now wants some virtuous woman. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/03/21 06:28 AM |
| 1 | I(20f) often feel down about not having a boyfriendThere's always exceptions to the rule, but in general if a guy is high value in university chances are he's going to be playing the field and living it up. Contrary to what you may think, most men in college don't actually get laid or date much, it's really only about 20% who have enough options to not commit. There's plenty of guys who would be willing to commit but I have a feeling you might not find them high enough value to date. Bright side tho, the guys who are players in college get it ou… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/03/21 12:11 AM |
| 7 | What is the point in this sub?Ya it's true, red pill is supposed to teach men how intersexual dynamics actually work and to use that knowledge to not get burned etc, then PUA and other toxic shit jumped on the movement and basically started teaching men to never commit, be banging multiple women and all this other stuff. From what I've seen lurking this RPW sub it seems the women here genuinely want to be good wives and girlfriends with redpill knowledge of what men actually want/like/behave/think/male nature vs the lies the… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/03/21 06:45 PM |
| 4 | I(20f) often feel down about not having a boyfriendWe want respect, loyalty, cooperation, trust in our abilities (assuming we have earned it) and a good attitude. Obviously men want sex too but honestly I strongly recommend you wait until you're married to do that, there's plenty of research out there revealing the dangers of having multiple sex partners and long term pair bonding and marital satisfaction. Lastly, not to discourage but at your age especially in University the vast majority of guys with options (basically the men I assume you are… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/02/21 06:49 PM |
| 17 | Field report: being nice/complementary to your manThis is awesome, you've hit the sweet spot. Us men crave compliments/admiration for things we do the way women crave being adored. You're doing an A+ job here. *Thumbs up emoji | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/02/21 06:38 PM |
| 14 | How to not let inexperience get in the a way from a relationship?Listen to me, men only prefer experienced girls when they want a girl to have wild sex with not to commit to. Also no man actually looking for a relationship is going to care if you're inexperienced you're 19 that's still very young. Also there are plenty of men who want a good girl to commit to and have a future with. DO NOT feel pressured to have sex with a guy to get him to like you or to "get experience", sleeping with a guy does not him like the girl that's just a lie they tell. Also you're… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/02/21 05:38 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, how do you initiate sex while still remaining in your feminine role?So to clarify, is the issue him not initiating and you being turned off by having to initiate or is it him having little to no libido? | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/02/21 11:25 PM |
| 1 | I’m really heavy and need to figure out how to lose weight as quickly as possible. Tips?I second this, going for a nice hour long walk in the morning on an empty stomach is fantastic for health and weight loss. Because walking is low impact and more long term you end up burning fat as opposed to sugars and carbs like you would with running. Second, walking doesn't trigger hunger like running does which is great. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/02/21 06:00 PM |
| 9 | How can I get out of this selfish mindset?" On one hand, serving those you care for is how you show others how much you love them, especially since I feel men are constantly disrespected. But at the same time, part of me feels disgusted over 'serving a man'. " First of all, thank you for recognizing and giving a shit that us men are constantly disrespected. Second, " I know this is a toxic trait to have, but I sometimes find it hard to respect men. As part of my upbringing, male-bashing goes against traditional values, but I can't help … | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/02/21 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Why we should learn 'good' cookingExactly! Trust once you learn your taste buds and your way around the kitchen you're really only going to be tempted by good quality restaurant food vs junk food or fast food. To answer your question about my favorite recipes, I'm gonna link YouTube tutorials to them. Chicken Thigh Kebab: https://youtu.be/-d45_a6WGhU Carne Asada: https://youtu.be/YhW7nSvLJ9Y Cilantro Lime Chicken (crockpot/slow cooker) https://youtu.be/DC1n75LXxc4 Breakfast bonus: Get a slice of pita bread, spread some hummus … | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/02/21 10:48 PM |
| 3 | Are my boyfriend and I red pill?Sounds redpill to me. On a side note the fact you cook and do other stuff for him to show appreciation for him paying for stuff is fucking awesome, I'd kill to find a girl that did that instead of one that just wants to order food or eat out everytime. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/02/21 10:26 PM |
| 4 | What is the downside of over-giving? Sharing personal thoughts ...Damn I needed this ty | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/02/21 06:34 PM |
| 7 | Asking for advice.If you're on meds I assume you're already in therapy so that part is handled. I suggest you focus on finding activities to do that involve socializing with people and building from there. Second if your body is worn out try some self care and also try eating healthier and going for walks daily that will work wonders. Also please don't morph yourself into what each guy wants, I'm a guy trying to stop doing the same when going after women so I know where you're coming from no judgement from me. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/02/21 08:04 AM |
| 1 | Feminine vs Masculine energyhaha ty had to stay true with the username. About your questions, I do think there are some benefits to the feminine-energy shift such as finally placing some importance on mental health even though its still a taboo us men are benefiting from at least having stuff available now that I doubt would have been available had it still been a purely masculine environment. Now for the question about whether it holds me back, I think it does in the sense that as a man when I work with other men, 90% of … | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/02/21 02:12 AM |
| 18 | Feminine vs Masculine energyVery interesting, but I have to disagree a bit, I feel that were moving more towards the feminine way of doing things especially in work culture, like I have to be more sensitive to people feelings, more emphasis on inclusivity and prioritizing safety and security over freedom and mobility? I've worked in a male dominated field that was ~90% male and have worked corporate with about a 45/55 split and there's major differences. (I'm a guy btw). | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/02/21 10:01 PM |
| 4 | How to get better at cooking (24f)Step 1: buy a spice rack at Costco or Amazon for ~$30 with all the spices already filled. Step 2: start small, slow cookers/crock pots are your best friend for work days and bulk cooking. Step 3: easy recipes, no need to make a 3 course feast when you are just starting start with the basics. Step 4: Jamie Oliver's "perfect steak" video on youtube. Best of luck, you got this! | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/02/21 05:42 PM |
| 8 | Why we should learn 'good' cookingSame here, whenever my friends ask me for weight loss advice I tell them don't even bother dieting until you have learned to cook a handful of healthy meals you actually enjoy, otherwise it's just gonna be binge eating on the weekly cheat days and essentially going nowhere. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/02/21 01:07 AM |
| 2 | A genuine question (no offense intended)No we're here, most of us just give advice on stuff we know about. Personally, 90% of the time I'm just here to lurk...., This page is oddly therapeutic and I'm a red pill man.. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/02/21 06:46 PM |
| 6 | Feeling insecure about my looks due to lack of male attentionWhen you say no attention are you saying legit no one looks at you or no one wants to commit? | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/02/21 05:39 PM |
| 26 | What Does the Feminist Re-Writing of Women’s and Men’s Sexuality CauseBasically they're trying to make the genders as repulsive to each other as possible by claiming any behavior we naturally find attractive in the opposite sex as somehow unnatural and a product of upbringing rather than behaviors influenced by brain differences, Testasterone vs estrogen etc. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/02/21 09:30 PM |
| 3 | How can I support my stoic partner?I'd also like to add, to the women here, if your man does ever reveal any weakness/ stress do not let it affect how you treat him afterwards, one sign of distrust in his competence and he will feel betrayed and will never ever share again. Most important if he shares a secret with you and you either tell someone or worse use it to hurt him in an argument, that relationship is over right on the spot. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/02/21 02:29 AM |
| 1 | How can I support my stoic partner?This is an excellent point, I never thought of this to the extent of how she will react if you have kids. I am going to use these observations of how she reacts when other people show weakness, in my future relationships/dates. Thank you for the insight! | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/02/21 11:11 PM |
| 2 | How can I support my stoic partner?Excellent analysis, I don't hold a grudge against women for feeling this way, its just biology to hold your partner to a different standard since you depend on them for so much more and much more important things. In return, I expect some understanding from women when they find their man is not sharing struggles/being vulnerable. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/02/21 11:10 PM |
| 4 | How can I support my stoic partner?I get where he's coming from, I wouldn't want to share the severity of the stress either because I don't want to risk coming off as weak or have my gf/wife question my competence nor would I want my gf/wife unnecessarily stressing out as well. Best thing you can do is tell him you're impressed with how well he is handling X,Y,Z and thank him for doing it for the sake of you and any kids you may have. Also ask him if there's anything you can do to help. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/02/21 07:07 PM |
| 2 | How can I support my stoic partner?Thank you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/02/21 06:44 PM |
| 3 | How can I support my stoic partner?Yes this is true, but again, most of the time the relief of sharing these problems is not worth the trade off of losing frame/respect/having our competence questioned in the future etc. What you wrote shows how thin of a line you walk when you share and hope to maintain frame, most of us would rather just keep to our selves/ share with close friends. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/02/21 06:40 PM |
| 16 | How can I support my stoic partner?TY. Yes I would absolutely love if I could be vulnerable with a girlfriend/wife; however, after enough redpill testimonies of men discussing their relationship going absolutely downhill after being vulnerable, i.e. crying in front of their girlfriend/wife or admitting to any sort of weakness and or insecurity or sharing a super deep secret and having it later used against them in an argument or finding out she told a bunch of people...., I wouldn't want to risk it and would just keep it to mysel… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/02/21 05:40 AM |
| 16 | How can I support my stoic partner?This is really nice in theory but in reality for most of us men, the relief that comes with "venting" or admitting stress is not worth the risk of coming off/being viewed as incompetent and or weak. Many of us men including myself, would rather just hold it in or better yet talk to a close friend. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/02/21 04:08 AM |
| 27 | How can I support my stoic partner?Thing is as men we don't want our girlfriends/wives to think we can't handle whatever problem(s) and stresses are on our plate. We don't want to be seen as weak and incompetent and thus be respected less (major male fear). Also if he is redpilled he will know that weakness or any sign of incompetency will trigger a girl's hypergamy which will just add on a much bigger problem to his list. If I was in his shoes, the best thing my girl could do is tell me how and why she respects me for handling t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/02/21 04:03 AM |
| 6 | A first step in a return to traditional values — maybe making marriage culture less cringe.Holy shit this articulated everything I've thought about current marriages. I feel that people seek marriage as a way to lockdown a partner and stop playing the romance game. The idea of having my hypothetical wife letting herself go and having little to no interest in sex because she has me "locked down" is terrifying. Vice versa I'm sure women fear having their man stop romancing them since they're married and it's "mission accomplished". | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/02/21 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Tips on not feeling bad about “hitting the wall”I 100% agree. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/01/21 06:38 AM |
| 8 | Tips on not feeling bad about “hitting the wall”Ya dude exactly, any man who is smart enough to work a career that permits him HVM status is not going to expect his wife to be a smokeshow forever. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/21 05:55 PM |
| 19 | He found out I had a secret savings account and he's really hurtYou do realize 99% of the time women keep majority of the money in a divorce, especially if she wasn't working? If anything her fiancé needs the secret account. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/01/21 04:17 AM |
| 17 | PSA: men care a lot more about your body than your faceThis is true, I like a smoke-show IG model as much as the next guy but in real life if a girl is a healthy bodyweight she's already easily beat 70% of the competition I shit you not, add in a cute face and you're already in the top 20%. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/01/21 01:12 AM |
| 7 | Overwhelmed by taking care of my appearanceIf you want a guys perspective, unless we're taking a girl out for an expensive night out on the town we don't expect the full package everyday. Also most of us prefer the "natural look" (yes I know that look uses makeup). | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/01/21 01:07 AM |
| 11 | Difficulty making female friendsTry meet up groups with activities you like, it's an organic way to meet people and there's already a little extra layer of trust that comes from having a mutual interest, that you don't normally start out with when meeting people in random situation like work etc. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/01/21 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Showing vulnerability or need as a self sufficient womanYes this is true, nothing feels better than when a feminine woman accepts my help and doesn't see it as some sort of weakness or me trying to earn points for sex. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/01/21 05:49 PM |
| 1 | I found these links earlier and they apply to promiscuous guys as well. Guys and girls with large “body counts” apparently don’t make for good long term partnersTo be fair, most christians even practicing ones usually give in and fornicate at some point or another... Yes there are some practicing Christians who have managed to abstain and probably want a fellow practicing one; however, I have found that women in general tend to be more forgiving of men fornicating than vice versa so I'm not worried. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/01/21 05:27 AM |
| 1 | I found these links earlier and they apply to promiscuous guys as well. Guys and girls with large “body counts” apparently don’t make for good long term partnersI'm Christian but not really practicing. Yes I have, not a high number tho. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/01/21 04:22 AM |
| 1 | I found these links earlier and they apply to promiscuous guys as well. Guys and girls with large “body counts” apparently don’t make for good long term partnersThat's just evil to pressure a virgin waiting for marriage to give it up before marriage. "Good luck finding an atheist virgin" lol true true, good thing I'm not atheist... | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/01/21 10:45 PM |
| 2 | I found these links earlier and they apply to promiscuous guys as well. Guys and girls with large “body counts” apparently don’t make for good long term partnersThat's fine with me, if I knew with a high enough level of certainty that she had an N-count of zero I would tough it out and wait until the wedding night, well worth the trade off. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/01/21 09:34 PM |
| 1 | I found these links earlier and they apply to promiscuous guys as well. Guys and girls with large “body counts” apparently don’t make for good long term partnersNo, sleeping with a couple guys in a LTR does NOT make a woman a whore; however, I still would not like it since the science shows women pair bond with any man she sleeps with, whether it be a hook up or in an LTR. About the hypocritical part, yes it is hypocritical but the science listed in the post proves that N-counts do not affect men nearly as much as it does women, just one of the inequalities in biology. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/01/21 09:17 PM |
| 2 | I found these links earlier and they apply to promiscuous guys as well. Guys and girls with large “body counts” apparently don’t make for good long term partnersHoly shit this is so terrifying. Next time someone grills me for wanting to marry a woman with a body count if zero I am going to send them this link. Thank you for sharing by the way. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/01/21 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Dog walking date as a first dateYou are over thinking it. If I took a girl on a dog walking date and I saw her pick up her dog's shit I would view it as a sign she's a responsible and down to earth person who doesn't think she's above picking up her dog's shit just because she's a girl. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/20 06:19 PM |
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