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Yep. I work in finance and men always complain about their wives spending too much when in reality 90% of what she spends is necessary for the house to function, like kids having proper shoes and clothes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 03:30 AM
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I haven't listened to podcasts in about a year (since I quit commuting) so I might be outdated, but some of my favorites at the time included Don't Keep Your Day Job by Kathy Heller and Afford Anything by Paula Pant. Super helpful if you're getting burnt out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 07:28 AM
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I'll never forget the OnlyFans post on here a few weeks ago. "I support women! I jerk off to them all the time!" And then he reports his old classmate as "unsuitable for the position" so his bro can get the job. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 10:17 PM
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I went on an (awful) first date with a guy I met on a dating app last weekend. One of the many fucked up things he said was that all the women he came across on the app were "boring". I said, "only boring people find everyone else boring. Exciting people find something to learn from everyone." Dude was FURIOUS and said, "No. See, you're just as boring as them."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 09:50 PM
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Right? Like, "My wife is such an idiot, I wish I didn't marry for looks..." Sounds like you're the idiot huh, fam.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 09:22 PM
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On this episode of "dump his ass".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 11:49 PM
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It took me several months after that relationship ended to realize how abusive that behavior actually is. It's insidious because as the woman you're expected to "cOmMuNiCaTe" and put in as much effort as possible, so even if you recognize it as abuse in the back of your mind you feel like it's the kind of harm you can "manage". And not just CAN but SHOULD. Society says that it's YOUR job to regulate HIS emotions, even when he's emotionally pummelling you. All I can say is that I'm seriously payi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 02:19 AM
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That's exactly how I feel honestly. And then I hear men say, "but it's no different from keeping your father's name!". But it is different. Because one was chosen for me / given to me as a matter of practicality, just like everything else when I was born. And one is specifically because some stupid guy will lose his shit if he can't get his way with me. Groooossssss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 12:24 AM
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That's because men don't care who they nut in. They already assumed she didn't have a brain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 03:54 AM
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The most redpilled, "pro life" (literally called pro choice women "murderers" nonstop) man I ever met fucking stealthed me when I wasn't even on birth control. When I confronted him about it and said if I got pregnant I would be getting an abortion, which kind of goes against his whole creed, he said, "Yes, I'd be an accessory to murder. I've made my peace with that." These men are DISGUSTING. There is absolutely NO benefit, ALL suffering for trying to "compromise" or "consider their perspective…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 09:00 PM
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Just looked up some old dates and couldn't find anything (whew), but someone with MY name is wreaking havock in Arkansas! Lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 06:54 PM
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It freaks me out that my generation was the first to have high def porn accessible literally in the palm of their hand by the time they were 13. People who say it's okay are fooling themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 06:44 PM
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I have a similar acquaintance. The other day he was telling me allllll about how it's "normal" for a guy to jerk off to his friends IG posts. I said, "What if you don't post sexy pics? Like me, I only post my face for this very reason." And he was like, "I still have done it. I'm sure other guys have, too." I'm disgusted and I keep him at arms length, but, like your friend, it's also been educational.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 02:48 PM
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When I called things off with the last guy I dated for various reasons, he said that it worked out because he was moving to Indonesia in a few weeks anyway (yeah, his landlord knew before I did). That gave me major 🚩🚩🚩because during the time I knew him I found out he was a major manwhore. Literally slept with 150 people in the last 6 years, according to him anyway. And it came across like he was running out of women in our city. I checked his followers a little bit after that and it confirmed my…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 02:05 PM
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Yeah, got in an argument in those comments with some massive scrotes and won't ever get those minutes of my life back. People arguing, "But what did she do to deserve it? OP didn't say that she hit him which is suspicious and means she probably hit him! No man just beats a woman over laundry, that's ridiculous!" Bunch of wannabe philosophy nerds who need to go back to school and think long and hard about how the fuck beating your gf is ever "self defense". EVER.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 02:04 AM
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Oh my god. This reminds me of when I was with my ex and did ALL of the housework. All of it. Dishes, laundry, grocery shopping, cooking. There were a couple of times that I pretty much lost my mind and said that I wanted to only do MY stuff and he could take care of his. My ex would freak out and say "that's not what teams do! Teams do things together and I want to be a team with you 🤡." I think I felt stuck between doing everything myself or having a 3 hour long argument where I "communicate my…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 04:39 PM
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"My man treats me like shit so I should work even harder."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 02:40 AM
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I think they do know. There's no way they overhear rape jokes and their friends talking about "fucking bitches" and think all of that is just in fantasy land.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 03:24 PM
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She's not lost, she's in denial 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 08:25 AM
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Personally, I think you have better chances anywhere than the online catalogues where you have to "out-sexy" the next woman before his grubby thumb swipes left. Meeting people pretty much anywhere in real life sets a different precedent right off the bat. I wouldn't say I've met anyone I'd want to pursue anything with yet (so idk if they're high value), but I've met men at restaurants, bars, professional conferences, other online activities (like my grad school cohort), and even just getting my …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 04:33 PM
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I deleted mine in December. In the few months I was on Bumble, a good 3/4 of men: complained that I didn't have enough "body pics" so I "must be fat". Then, complained that I didn't have enough face pics so I "must be ugly". asked me where I lived. When I told them the city, "haha no I meant like what cross streets" Also, same as you, men were the biggest Catfishes. Every single guy I dated had a few pictures on that were 5-10 plus years old. One guy probably weighed an extra 40 pounds. Yet by r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 05:17 PM
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I wonder if asking him how he feels about adoption or being a foster parent would help discern what his real motives are? I mean, there's nothing wrong with preferring to just have your own biological kids at all, but maybe he'll blurt something out that will tell you more about him. "I'd consider it, I love kids" is completely different than, "Could I change their name to John Doe II?" or much worse, "I'd rather die than raise another man's kids."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 04:55 PM
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He was checking your SM while on a date with someone else and YOU'RE the problem?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 01:35 PM
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Second guy is like, "don't want to get labelled a sex offender now that I'm a sex offender." 💁🏻‍♂️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 09:12 PM
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I take screenshots of anything even questionable because nobody gaslights themselves harder than a woman in a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 04:50 AM
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I get what you mean by not forgiving yourself, but just remember that you judged them by kinder standards because you were a kinder person yourself- and that's nothing to be ashamed of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 04:00 AM
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Dude did this to me. Begged me to go out again with him and I finally agreed. He canceled the day of saying he had Covid (!!!), and when I pressed him on it he said actually he had met someone else THAT DAY that he "wanted to pursue exclusivity with" and also, "don't ask to be friends". It was kind of funny and dumb because he was playing this elaborate game for a girl who never felt anything for him anyway and couldn't care less, except that I don't like setting aside time for canceled plans, o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 03:58 AM
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I dated a guy a few years ago who blamed everything he did that was just plain rude and inconsiderate on his ADHD. The same ADHD that prompted him to text other women when he was with me also kept him from texting me for days when we were apart, LOL. Obviously this was before I found this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 05:14 PM
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Yes!!! It's the pretentiousness of it all. Men who are like this will go to some moderately safe (for them) area and plan everything out specifically to look good to their imaginary harem on social media. A woman in his situation would be in a relatively dangerous situation if she were to do that, and he'd call her uncool for avoiding it. Then on the other hand there are men who actually DO travel and visit more dangerous places for reasons OTHER than clout. And those are the ones who will total…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 05:27 AM
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I agree with you completely. There's also something about what I (as a Gen Z-er) would call the Millennial Escapist Dream. The idea of running off to some far away country and having zero responsibilities is rampant on Instagram, and everything that's THAT popular on Instagram really is just for the aesthetics. I think it annoys me because it's credit-stealing and posturing. Like, they're fabricating an interesting story without actually accomplishing anything??? This is timely for me because th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 05:22 AM
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Laziness and lack of consideration also leads to people being stupid in general, though. So if your man's like this... it could be both. I never really broke anything or had accidents and my ex would all the time. I wound up buying a set of plastic dishes because he would literally break a new dish every week. But I think me paying the consequences and him not led to him being even WORSE about that kind of stuff (because he wasn't even apologetic or considerate about it). Wish I would've Venmo r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 07:11 PM
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It's important to keep in mind that men who are negging you are usually outright LYING, too. I think I used to believe that when a man criticized me for something, there must be some element of truth to it. Otherwise he wouldn't have said it, right? No. More often than not, they're actually paying close attention to what YOU might be insecure about, regardless of the truth. That's why abusive men will specifically tell a woman with an eating disorder that she "looks fat" or pinch her thigh. Or t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 02:23 AM
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