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I think with some work you could be quite attractive. Fix your teeth, new haircut, hit the gym more, etc. All very fixable.
/r/seduction01/09/22 04:30 PM
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self amusement!
/r/seduction03/08/22 02:57 PM
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Great attitude!
/r/seduction29/07/22 05:10 PM
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The key in these situations is to accept it and show (and feel) no shame whatsoever. I usually just double down on foreplay, giving her more orgasms etc. Also for me, I can usually still jack myself off even when I can't really stay hard. So I'll usually just explain that and ask to cum all over them. Last time this happened to me I ended giving her countless orgasms and she said it was one of the best experiences she's had in the bedroom. Obviously she came back for more. I really believe embar…
/r/seduction29/07/22 05:03 PM
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Def. I don't do well on dating apps. But in person I can pull some surprisingly sexy women. Plenty of hot dudes who can't turn on self confidence/ interesting and playful conversations/ self amusement.
/r/seduction21/07/22 04:54 PM
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Believe it or not, it truly doesn't super matter how hot you are. Once you figure out that you can attract women, you can never go back. Once you have a few successes and you start to tune into that confidence of knowing you can do it, you'll be looking back at dozens of scenarios where you thought you couldn't attract a girl, and realize that if you had turned on that knowing confidence, you would have been successful.
/r/seduction21/07/22 01:00 PM
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¡MAMA MIA! THISA SPICY POST
/r/seduction10/07/22 09:49 PM
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Just remember she's an old friend, don't make it such a big deal. Have fun.
/r/seduction10/07/22 06:44 PM
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Learn to edge. You don't need a round two if you can last indefinitely.
/r/seduction05/07/22 03:13 AM
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Watch some YouTube channels. I recommend Honest Signalz, Charisma on Command, and Todd V Dating
/r/seduction16/05/22 08:25 PM
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Ok this is really subtle stuff, homie. Like not the easiest thing to convey over text. But here goes. I'd honestly just try to focus on being fun and playful, don't fixate on certain topics and don't jump right into talking about sex. It's good to flirt and tease, and if you can establish some man to woman context. Overall though don't come on too strong. It's good to establish yourself as a flirty person, but better to keep them guessing as to whether or not youre trying to get with them. So to…
/r/seduction16/05/22 08:18 PM
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YouTube
/r/seduction15/05/22 10:24 PM
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Three words. Doo Doo butter
/r/seduction12/05/22 03:31 PM
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Always round up. If you're not sure if she likes you, assume she does. If you're not sure if you should escalate, assume you should. Rejection is better than cowardice.
/r/seduction10/05/22 05:44 PM
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Don't be the guy who whips out a board game without consent.
/r/seduction09/05/22 01:56 AM
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Don't listen to the overly aggressive comments. I do think you need to consider what's best for everyone though. Being a side dish sexter isn't what you want. Tearing her family apart isn't what you want. It's certainly not what she wants. I get that attachments are complicated, and her forming a new life doesn't erase your love for each other. But you've really got to ask yourself what's the foundation of your love for her. Is it about getting something? Or is it about giving her the opportunit…
/r/seduction14/03/22 06:47 PM
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Maybe many women tho? Might be worth considering.
/r/seduction07/03/22 04:07 PM
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I find holding hands to be a little weird in casual dating. Just me?
/r/seduction07/03/22 04:09 AM
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I gave you three applicable and vital perspective shifts. What are you struggling with specifically? Not coming across as creepy? Being likeable?
/r/seduction23/02/22 06:32 PM
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It really comes down to working on yourself before working on your game. It's only near impossible if you do not have a good relationship with yourself. I'm being so serious when I say you must develop a relationship with yourself. Love your own company, support yourself, soothe yourself, dance with yourself. For real, if you lack this you cannot really hope to exude the energy I'm talking about. Another major thing: you need to work on your overall framework for yourself, your desires, and othe…
/r/seduction23/02/22 05:29 PM
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I want to give you more. I literally never offer compliments like that. To me, the subtext feels like "I'm a needy guy who thinks you're hot so I want to fuck". It just doesn't sit well. Like others are saying a good alternative is to offer a compliment about something genuine and wholesome that you've observed. Beyond this, I just try to be as fun as possible. I personally feel like my strategy is 'be a friend first' which I'll be honest, NEVER gets me friend zoned. I try to treat everyone like…
/r/seduction22/02/22 03:55 PM
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Listen to what others are saying. Moving forward I'd be totally be friendly, but maybe keep it passive for now. Like say hey and smile as you pass by. No need to stop and chat unless you feel invited.
/r/seduction22/02/22 03:21 PM
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I'm hanging out w someone right now who I'm kinda into but don't really want to date. I've told them this though. Could be a similar situation. He may be down for friends with benefits if you are. But obvi hold out for the relationship if that's what you really want.
/r/seduction13/02/22 12:02 AM
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Hard to say. How old are y'all? Sounds like maybe he's afraid and inexperienced. Or doesn't want to make a move for other reasons. I'd just ask him, personally. I'd hang out with him and basically ask what he wants romantically/intimately. Then share what you want. Maybe you won't like what he says, or maybe you'll both say the same thing. If you both say you want a relationship or friends with benefits etc, you could playfully suggest that you could help each other out there. All I know is this…
/r/seduction12/02/22 11:56 PM
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good idea, I concede
/r/seduction12/02/22 11:33 PM
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I think what you did is super cool tbh. As I've gotten older I find way more value in helping poor souls than fucking them. What difference does it make if y'all fuck? Maybe you said something she really needed to hear. On a separate note, people will say a lot of justifiers so they don't seem slutty.
/r/seduction12/02/22 10:57 PM
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caffeine constructs pupils too, other drugs medications as well some people have big pupils some people have small pupils if you can determine their baseline then maybe this line of thinking could be helpful
/r/seduction12/02/22 02:50 PM
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Don't tell her. The best advice I can give is that you obviously need to change your framework. You're currently operating from a stance that you're not worthy/ she is on a pedestal. That won't feel safe or comfortable for her. Try to do some meditative embodiment while socializing in lower risk scenarios. By that I mean: slow down, sink into your body, allow others to do whatever they do, don't feel the need to rush in and elevate the situation. You'd be surprised at how much it comes across to…
/r/seduction10/02/22 08:34 PM
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That's not a bad in, honestly. The best advice I can give is that you obviously need to change your framework. You're currently operating from a stance that you're not worthy/ she is on a pedestal. That won't feel safe or comfortable for her. Try to do some meditative embodiment while socializing in lower risk scenarios. By that I mean: slow down, sink into your body, allow others to do whatever they do, don't feel the need to rush in and elevate the situation. You'd be surprised at how much it …
/r/seduction10/02/22 07:14 PM
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Sure you do. How would you talk to a dude?
/r/seduction10/02/22 06:15 PM
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Decide if it's important to you or not. If it is, go up and talk to her. If it's important enough nothing could stop you. So what if her friend is there, you can engage her too.
/r/seduction10/02/22 05:44 PM
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Just initiate touch. Touch his arm.Touch his chest. Touch his leg. This should be all you have to do to give a clear sign of interest.
/r/seduction09/02/22 04:32 PM
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In some ways I feel you, in some ways I don't at all. I get that this is huge for you, but it doesn't have to be. I get that you want it. But just for the sake of experimentation, maybe just let it go for a bit? Start with letting it go for a week. Can you create space for what aspects and circumstances might fill you up alternatively? The fight youre creating inside yourself is sabatoging you. The bigger you make this the less you tap into the version of yourself who will be able to be at ease …
/r/seduction09/02/22 03:58 AM
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Then say jk let's actually meet up.
/r/seduction07/02/22 05:20 PM
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Honestly just ask yourself what would be hot for you to say? Don't try to act out a script. Be honest with yourself and explore what might feel sexy to say. You might be surprised how open women are.
/r/seduction07/02/22 03:18 AM
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What's your thing?
/r/seduction06/02/22 04:04 PM
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"You're the best first cousin ever."
/r/seduction05/02/22 03:57 AM
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At this point why not leave the money out of it? Just walk up to women and be respectful, but incredibly honest. Ask them if they'd like to go have sex with you. Honestly might end better.
/r/seduction04/02/22 04:55 AM
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Awesome, thanks so much!
/r/seduction03/02/22 03:45 AM
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It is whatever you say it is.
/r/seduction03/02/22 01:15 AM
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Don't fall victim to that mindset. Your best chance is to believe that you don't need that. Have fun with her. Let her look for a sugar daddy. If you want any chance, you have to feel like you're worth it.
/r/seduction03/02/22 01:14 AM
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two and three require granting of access
/r/seduction02/02/22 09:55 PM
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Are you two dating? Is this your partner or a prospect?
/r/seduction02/02/22 02:05 AM
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True. Or was about to walk away regardless.
/r/seduction31/01/22 02:39 AM
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Maybe a family members name. Or name of ex.
/r/seduction31/01/22 12:20 AM
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PUActice
/r/seduction28/01/22 04:24 PM
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I think the only relevant investigation is does it make you more efficient at achieving your goal? If your goal is to relax, introspect, be creative etc, the answer is probably yes. If your goal is to be bold, not in your head, assertive, confident, witty, etc, then maybe or maybe not. Depends on your personal chemistry and experience with the drug. These same investigations are useful for caffeine and alcohol. Alcohol for example helps most people be loose, bold, uninhibited, boisterous, and pl…
/r/seduction28/01/22 03:59 PM
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You are not your body. If you can accept what I just said your life will literally change forever. Your body is your spaceship. It's a meat suit that allows you to have experiences in this world. It is not who you are. Sure, everyone loves a beautiful form, but you cannot fall victim to identifying with it. You can take care of it, make it stronger, groom it, support it with accessories, but it's just your spaceship. Your body and looks will of course alter your experience; everyone loves a sexy…
/r/seduction21/01/22 03:07 PM
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I've never had a problem with this. Just be honest and own what you want. Say: "I'm not looking for a monogamous relationship." or "I'm looking for a friend with benefits or polyamory." I've also found it helpful to say something like "Most of my relationships in these past years have been open/ friends with benefits." It sets up a no big deal attitude around it and normalizes it showing: this is something that has worked for me and others. They'll then describe what they want. Maybe they'll be …
/r/seduction19/01/22 09:20 PM
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Why not just hangout and see how it goes? Currently you're just a stranger on the internet to her. Life happens. I don't find this that confusing.
/r/seduction18/01/22 10:59 PM
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Just remember, repeated looks from women is literally how they cue you in that they are interested. They are not going to cold approach you. Just relax, they're human. Take the hint and go say hi, see what happens.
/r/seduction16/01/22 07:18 PM
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sorry lol. Have you tried KISSING* HER?
/r/seduction16/01/22 03:28 PM
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Have you tried kidding her?
/r/seduction16/01/22 03:04 PM
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When a woman isn't feeling it, no level of flirting is going to make it happen. I'd work to fully accept the situation and just be yourself. Give up trying 100% and leave her alone. Chances are she will respect you more, and be more at ease. This won't make her want you, but it's good to practice this flow regardless. She doesn't exist in a vacuum. She talks to people, and people can see you. Become someone who can allow women to feel at ease and not invaded. This prob won't win her over but it'…
/r/seduction16/01/22 05:32 AM
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I know it's hard, but having no expectations goes a really long toward having better interactions.
/r/seduction16/01/22 01:01 AM
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Relatable story: Girl was over, we were feeling each other, light kisses, feeling great...but the second our tongues met and I tasted her spit, something in me was like NOPE. Sometimes your chemistry just commands you. 🤷
/r/seduction15/01/22 09:33 PM
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Maybe you taste/smell bad. Maybe something about your place turned her off. Maybe she felt it was escalating too quickly. Comfort is key.
/r/seduction15/01/22 05:00 PM
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Investigate whether this is literally 100% true or a convenient line you're holding on to.
/r/seduction14/01/22 05:25 AM
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Those are great insights. Your work now is to spend time softening those beliefs as you try a new way of feeling. Remember, you can get to a state where you feel confident in who you are and know that you're likeable. Don't treat yourself like a slithering snake doing something wrong. Women enjoy feeling light and having fun. Women want love and sex too. Women get anxious and self conscious too. You're not any different from them. Stop being a weirdo in your head. Start being a calm, playful, an…
/r/seduction02/01/22 04:27 AM
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This seems like it's not a problem with understanding how to seduce. It seems like you're afraid/ lacking a powerful self image. Ask yourself questions until you get to the root of your fear Fear makes you hesitate. Even if you were to push through the fear with a cold approach, you'd be too rigid. Flirting well is about being playful and confident which takes feeling at ease. So what are you afraid of? What makes you hesitate? What's lacking in your image of self that keeps you unworthy? If you…
/r/seduction02/01/22 02:43 AM
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