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| 1 | Need help starting a conversationUpdated my comment. Added a lot of examples. Feel free to ask any other questions. | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 11:42 PM |
| 2 | Need help starting a conversationWatch this: https://youtu.be/wvPAAydsOVw EDIT (some written advice): What's the purpose of you texting her? Do you want to get her on a date or be her texting buddy. For getting her on a date you're not supposed to text her for 20 days straight. It can be done with the minimum effort. The only reason I see is if you started dating that girl. Than you want to animate a conversation, to prevent it being stale. But then again, you should share things from your life (something happening on a daily b… | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 10:34 PM |
| 6 | going deep not wideYou have to make a rollercoaster of emotions, an adventure for only the two of you, an experience she'll remember when she talks about you with her friends. But how deep can a conversation be on the 1st, 2nd or 3rd date? You should have fun and enjoy a conversation. Also you should definitely escalate physically AND verbally simultaneously, not only verbally. In earlier stages of a date (interaction) you shouldn't compliment her a lot. It's better to instead use push-pulls and/or qualifications … | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Once I get the number, what do I do to be interesting in chat and avoid dry texts?No, I didn't say that. Read again. I presented that as a bad choice. | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Once I get the number, what do I do to be interesting in chat and avoid dry texts?Demonstration of higher value meaning you should present yourself as a cool person with an abundant life. This means you should show her things about yourself that will increase her attraction to you (of course, you shouldn't lie, brag or be tryhard about it). This is just choosing how you want to present yourself. For example: - you can tell her how you had an amazing gym session (meaning you care about your health and body), - or that your ex cheated on you and left you for another man (meanin… | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 08:55 AM |
| 20 | Once I get the number, what do I do to be interesting in chat and avoid dry texts?Dos and donts: - don't make your texts too long, - don't use to many emojis, - don't double text, - don't invest more than her, - do use statements rather than questions, - don't ask only about her, share parts of your life too (dhvs), - don't be her text buddy, instead escalate your messaging towards a date (follow formula below). Formula: - if she answers positively to your messaging, escalate towards a date, - if she answers neutrally, give more value to the conversation (dhv), - if she answe… | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 11:45 PM |
| 3 | What should I do lmaoAlso two more things: - instead of "I'll delete it after our date" better response would be "I guess we could discuss that on our date", - asking her for a date on a specific day (Saturday) instead of "what's your schedule like" (or something like that) leaves a lot of room for her to say "no, I'm not available". First figure out when is she available. | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Confidence has been completely drainedEven if you consider yourself better looking than her that doesn't mean she'll have chemistry with you on a date. Maybe she liked your looks or something from your profile/texting so she went on a date with you but then she just didn't feel the attraction. And again. Even if she's ugly by your standards that doesn't mean she's obligated to be attracted to you as somebody more attractive than her (again, by your standards). | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Better way to ask on a date?It's basically three lines instead of one. She'll ghost you if she's not interested and one or three messages will not make a difference. | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Better way to ask on a date?You definitely want to first feel the pulse and not to immediately out of the blue ask her out. Ask her first something more general (soft close) like "Do you like wine?" (or some other drink) and if she is positive or says she doesn't like it but likes beer for example, that's all great. Then say "We should split a bottle some time soon" or something similar. If she's reluctant after any of these messages you'll know that she's not ready but you didn't exactly ask her out so she didn't exactly … | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here seduced a girl after blowing it up with her the first time?Revenge I see. Therapy then seems appropriate. However, start here: https://youtu.be/foklURMu4Rg and go through this channel. You'll find all the advice you need and maybe learn that you should focus on improving yourself, not chasing girls that are not interested. | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 10:25 AM |
| 3 | Anyone here seduced a girl after blowing it up with her the first time?Many mistakes dude. First - don't apologize for not answering her text message in the morning. Second - the point of messaging is not to be her text buddy but to ask her out on a date. Third, don't congratulate her birthday please, you don't know her that well and she probably wouldn't congratulate yours even if you didn't mess up. Fourth, don't send her a poem, it seems nice but is actually desperate and pathetic. You can write her poems when you are in a relationship. To sum up, she was probab… | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 10:11 AM |
| 1 | Where do I go from here?I hope you know how important that job is to you if you're considering a date with a co-worker. With that being said who knows what is she thinking. Maybe she really doesn't want to ruin a friendship and make things weird at work, maybe she doesn't like you that way etc. | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 10:51 PM |
| 1 | I’m a male virgin in my early 20s who’s had no romantic experiences. I’m anxious, depressed, bitter, and resentful. What do I do?Some were luckier growing up and had some successes with women that reaffirmed their belief that they can get women. That's why they are confident with women. They had experiences. Do you really think they new how to do everything correctly at the begging? They sure didn't. None of us did. Now, that doesn't have anything to do with you. You have resentment and unprocessed emotions you need to deal with, get in a gym, get your grooming and style on point. Even if you are a virgin that doesn't aut… | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 10:06 PM |
| 7 | You’re on a date and having a good time but you can feel things getting a bit too platonic - what’s the best way to sexualise things?Some push pull or cold read about her to spice things up and see how receptive is she. For instance "I wasn't sure about you completely at first but you are not that bad so far" (playfully said). If she's into you she'll care what you think so she would probably get reactive a bit and start qualifying/investing/chasing etc. Then of course if you properly physically escalated from the beginning topic of conversation shouldn't matter that much. | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 08:36 PM |
| 1 | I hate my brother because of his successIf you act differently with others that doesn't mean you don't have the feelings you described in your post. | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 01:11 PM |
| 1 | I hate my brother because of his successYour brother was maybe luckier growing up and had some successes with women that reaffirmed his belief that he can get women. That's why he is confident with them. He has experience. Do you really think he new how to do everything correctly at the begging? He sure didn't. None of us did. Now, that doesn't have anything to do with you. You have resentment and complex unprocessed emotions you need to deal with. My sincere advise is to try therapy if you are able, to maybe move out but still have a… | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 01:05 PM |
| 2 | Field report: My sad story of being offered food on gold plate and I just didn't take the bait.It's preferable to kiss but only if it doesn't seem forced or unnatural. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 04:54 PM |
| 2 | Field report: My sad story of being offered food on gold plate and I just didn't take the bait.The first girl with a boyfriend is an idiot. I mean, who dances so intensly and makes you think she wants a kiss while having a boyfriend. Secondly, you don't have to buy a drink. Just tell her that you think you should split a drink together (then you buy a first round, she buys a second etc.). Also don't think to yourself that you should "make a move". Seduction is about progression. Small steps instead of a huge jump. So next time first try to touch her more seductively, be closer to her, tou… | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 10:45 PM |
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