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If you need extreme good looks to offset misogyny, doesn't that suggest that if you simply stop being misogynistic you will have much more luck with women? lmao Again, go outside. There are plenty of bald men in relationships with women. If the world worked like these incels thought, 90% of men would be single. It's just not reality, but creating this fatalistic worldview where they were biologically predetermined to fail is much more comfortable than admitting that their terrible attitudes and …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:32 PM
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You clearly haven't kept up with what incels are then lol. That was the whole point of this discussion - blackpilling it's a way for them to "scientifically" deduce that they are beyond help and can never improve themselves, so they should just give up. It's fatalistic. That is why they post pictures of themselves in these forums, only to have their fellow blackpilled incel peers reinforce their fatalistic worldview, that they are inherently, biologically flawed to such a degree that there's no …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 06:09 AM
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Idk why you incels react to this so pathetically. The point was that you guys sit in blackpill forums calling each other too hideous to ever be in a relationship and give up, and then when people point out that the vast majority of those guys AREN'T EVEN HIDEOUS, you say: "why won't women date them then???" Huh, I don't know, maybe because you refuse to take any accountability, have no interest in trying to improve your lives and your situation, and simply want to surrender because that is EASIE…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 09:08 PM
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Girls do go on dates with average men. They just don't go out on dates with incels that don't go outside or interact with women, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 06:55 PM
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MODS??? MODS??? Average isn't unappealing, and it certainly isn't hideous or warrants such blackpill responses from incel peers. Also, as I said in other comments from this thread from a month ago, plenty of these guys were actually above average in looks. I think you guys need to go outside and look at couples. There are plenty of men that are incredibly average looking (or below average) in relationships with women. Sure, maybe a very average guy won't be dating an incredibly attractive woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 02:36 PM
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cope
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 01:59 PM
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The VISIBLE tradwives all over social media aren't tradwives anyway. They're all social media influencers lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:59 PM
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you... you think we live in a pseudo-matriarchal society? lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:15 AM
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not true but good cope for why you're into teenage girls lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 06:16 AM
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A lot of that stuff is temporary but yeah. I'm not saying it's easy, but I think it's way more to do with the post-birth situation than pregnancy sapping your beauty or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 05:49 AM
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Being attracted to teenagers is very different than being attracted to tall guys The correct comparison would be "women are attracted to tall guys with dick dicks, men are attracted to thin women with big boobs" or some shit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 05:47 AM
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Most people seem to think that people look much younger today than they did in the past, though obviously a lot of that is because of shifting styles. But I think there's some truth in it - people are more likely to take care of their skin through skincare, treatments, and ESPECIALLY sun care. And people are smoking much less. And drinking less I think? All those things play a huge role in aging.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 02:20 AM
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I think it's less having the kid that makes you ugly and more raising the kid that does it. Being extremely sleep deprived for years, being too exhausted/busy to exercise, poor dieting because you're so burnt out... all very common, especially for (increasingly) working moms. Yet conversely, wealthy women that have access to childcare, not working the 9-5, cleaners, etc. often have an easier time "bouncing back" if they have more time to devote to themselves and their bodies, have beauty treatme…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 02:18 AM
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I'd say it's worse than a revenge fantasy tbh, adult men that think women hit a "wall" at 25 likely think that women are most attractive at like 20 and under. Yeesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 02:13 AM
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also a decent chance he's like 18
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 11:42 PM
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the only guys that think women hit the wall at 25-30 are teenagers
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 11:41 PM
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Because it's easier to do that and whine about a lack of success, rather than going out and meeting people in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 05:45 PM
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It's also a funny way where they still manage to (subtly) blame women for something. No, he didn't get more success with women because he's more confident and affable - it's actually because women like assholes. Like wtf? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 01:55 AM
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Are all the woman who respond positively to you under the impression that you are a fuckboy? Or are they just responding positively to a man that's approaching them with confidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 01:52 AM
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That is because women are socialized to fear men, both through how we are raised and through our experiences. Like most women experience the most street harassment when they are young teenagers from adult men. I don't see anything "natural" about that, unless you think it's natural for men to harass and threaten women I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 07:39 PM
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Let's be honest, these people don't actually care about feminists to critiquing annoying radfems/TERFs. They specifically want women to denounce feminists for hating men. Their feefees are hurt lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 09:33 PM
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Bro. These are blackpill incel forums, there are no women there other than the stray woman that looks at the car crash before leaving. And again, it's not that these men's APPEARANCES are repulsive, it's that their personalities are. Why the fuck would any woman be interested in a guy that has 0 confidence, hangs out in blackpill incel forums all day, and is also a misogynist?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:02 PM
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Again, we were specifically talking about blackpill incel forums. I think there's a definite spectrum when it comes to incels, but this is a group on the very extreme of the spectrum that are incredibly online and sit in these forums all day. They post their pictures and their peers rip them apart and tell them that they are so ugly that they could never possibly get a partner. Most of these dudes don't even try to find a woman, because they have embraced the blackpill. They don't try, so they c…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:46 PM
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Why would I be expected to sleep with every random man that I find attractive? The whole point of what I said is that these guys think they are doomed to never have a relationship specifically because of their APPEARANCE, but the ACTUAL reason why is because of their toxic personalities, lack of confidence, and a refusal to even try. I'm not saying that there aren't dudes that are beyond help because they are too ugly. I'm saying that a shockingly large percentage of these incels are average or …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:37 PM
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So many guys I met on apps said that they also wanted a serious relationship, yet were still pushing me to sleep with them on the first or second date. It's why I gave up on dating apps after a scary experience related to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:09 PM
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it's really shocking how many men still don't try to make their partners orgasm and then act shocked when women don't want to fuck them anymore lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:59 PM
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a lot of it is also choice paralysis - i remember in my early 20s on the apps i'd have literally dozens of guys messaging me every week, and i'd think like half of them may be an okay match but it's hard to tell which only want to hook up. So then it's like juggling conversations, different plans to meet up, making it feel like such a commitment and not a fun easy thing where only a couple guys message you that you like. then you start to feel guilty and may just run away In my case I did meet u…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:51 PM
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it's real but for women especially they may also mistakenly believe they are ace because of shame around sexual pleasure, sexual trauma, bad sex partners that didn't care about her pleasure, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:36 PM
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If they bring it up again just explain that you meant incel as in someone that was scared to talk to women and had negative self-image, and not a misogynist or involved in incel communities (even if you were those 2 things lol) Tbh I don't think it's necessarily a big deal since a lot of people understand incel as a pretty broad category and not a hyper niche movement anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:29 PM
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the overly tight shirt is a bit of a fuckboy red flag for a lot of women Also I think the baggy clothes thing is more so an overall trend in gen z fashion - like skinny jeans and tight pants are suuuuper out of fashion now
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:26 PM
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look in this post and you'll see plenty of men saying it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:17 AM
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What do you mean by western woman here?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:02 AM
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If you said "doesn't either own or want dogs or cats" I'd concede it's a bit difficult, but plenty of women don't want or cannot have dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:59 AM
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It sounds like you, like a lot of these men we're discussing, are desperately finding excuses to give up before you try. Plenty of people are dating in school or dating friends and coworkers - it's reflected in the statistics, even if it's not the majority anymore. I honestly think you do not go outside if you think that it's somehow shocking when I say that I see average looking men in relationships. I'm in my 30s but I'm back in school atm and have many friends and peers in their early and mid…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:23 AM
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First of all we weren't talking about dating apps, it was about dating and relationships in general. I know dating apps are where most people meet their partners, but there's still a sizeable percentage that meet people through work, friends, school, social events, etc. I see and know MANY men in relationships that are average or even less physically attractive than these incels we're discussing - and these men aren't rich either. The incels that hang out on these incel forums and tell each othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 05:36 AM
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Well, I'd say "just respect her" is a definite improvement. The issue is when the respect isn't genuine. It's not actual respect if it's contingent on being in a romantic/sexual relationship, that's just another iteration of the nice guy -> performative male feminist pipeline lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 11:05 PM
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You're basically describing the "nice guy phenomenon" which has been a thing for like...ever? A guy pretending to be nice to you so he can get close to you to try to date/fuck you, but secretly has 0 respect for you and no interest in a friendship despite feigning as such. I think it existed way before people started to tell men to respect women if they wanted to get into a relationship. But yes, I absolutely agree with you that men shouldn't feel like being nice is part of a transaction where t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 11:00 PM
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Yep, they're just baited by culture war bullshit to blame women instead of blaming capitalism and rampant inequality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 07:14 PM
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Yep, but then they only hear from their fellow incels that they're so ugly not even surgery can save them, and that they should just give up and get blackpilled. It's so sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:31 PM
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They just want to go back to a time where women were incredibly pressured to get married and would often settle for any dude. Oh, and many of them also want to get rid of no fault divorce so the woman is stuck in the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:29 PM
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It's pretty shocking going to incel forums and seeing them post pictures of themselves, only having their incel peers tell them that they're hideous and beyond hope. But when you as an outsider go and look at the pictures they're like... usually not even ugly, typically looking incredibly average and not unappealing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:19 PM
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To be fair, a lot of girls growing up also heard the "looks don't matter" rhetoric, it's just that girls usually learn very quickly that their looks do matter a lot to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:15 PM
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It also doesn't help that it's increasingly not economically viable. A lot of these men are definitely hypocrites and want a perfect housewife that also works fulltime, but I think a decent amount of them would accept a fulltime housewife if they could make enough money to support the whole family. It's just not economically viable for the vast majority of families anymore due to stagnant wages and rising cost of living.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:34 AM
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Part of it is social conditioning for girls is much different than it was in the past. In the past media encouraged girls to be boy-crazy, whereas now it's more about encouraging friendship - especially with other girls. There's less social conditioning telling girls that they are incomplete without a boyfriend. There's obviously other reasons, but I think this is one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:13 AM
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