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| 29 | Some advice for the noobs | Beginner Advice | AlmostForever | /r/seduction | 11/05/13 09:20 AM |
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| 5 | The Last Daygame Post You Will Ever NeedDude the post says that indirect is fine for noobs getting over AA. Personally I'd rather be the man who is honest/upfront in his intentions rather than some "PUA" who relies on opinion openers and shit like "The Cube". Everyone is so quick to dismiss Mystery Method, Speed Seduction/NLP stuff as being beta, but guess what, without those stepping stones | /r/seduction | 14/01/13 07:25 AM |
| 1 | What are some great simple openers and what do you say next to get you into the convoAssume attraction. Also realize that it's more about what you subcommunicate through body language, tonality, etc then the content of what you're saying. Anyways I'm still a noob so I shouldn't be doling out advice. Just realize that there are two completely different schools of thought. Most people here on seddit give "classical" old-school sort of advice (IOIs, push/pull, DHV, disqualify yourself, routines, etc). On the other hand, RSD advocates a completely different perspective of how to att… | /r/seduction | 12/01/13 11:12 PM |
| 12 | What are some great simple openers and what do you say next to get you into the convoI think your problem is your frame of mind. You're viewing the interaction from the perspective of "what can I say to entertain/attract this girl?" Instead, your perspective should be more along the lines of "who is she? is she cool?" Imagine you're talking to a fat/unattractive girl. Are you thinking "when am I supposed to transition from the opener to conversation?" No, you just say whatever the fuck you want. Also I disagree with the whole "disqualify yourself" shit. If you're at a bar/club a… | /r/seduction | 12/01/13 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Naturals or "Pros" at pick-up, how often should I suspect to be "successful" when going out?I agree, I don't see any problem with genuine opinion openers. I just think it's lame when you completely make something up and ask it in a way that makes it obvious to the girl(s) that you're attempting to covertly hit on her/them but are too pussy to be upfront. For example, I think this is horrible game. | /r/seduction | 11/01/13 07:00 PM |
| 2 | If a reasonably attractive girl approached me and told me she was great at giving head, I'd respond positively. Why aren't girls the same way?I think it mostly has to do with social conditioning. Girls are supposed to act disgusted at a statement like that because otherwise society deems them as easy, slutty, and low value. For whatever reason society regards a statement like that as being disrespectful to the girl when in reality there's no logical reason it should be. | /r/seduction | 11/01/13 07:09 AM |
| -1 | I've recognized the problem but I honestly don't know how to act. Zero confidence is plaguing my life.If you have confidence issues, then I really recommend you check out some of RSD's stuff on inner game like The Blueprint Decoded. They've also got really informative free videos on Youtube like this. If you don't even like yourself, then why would a girl like you? Work on that. | /r/seduction | 11/01/13 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Naturals or "Pros" at pick-up, how often should I suspect to be "successful" when going out?why does everybody on here love to comment and dish out advice without answering OP's original question? do you guys need attention? unfortunately I don't know the answer to this question but I'm also curious. on a side note I think opinion openers are lame as fuck (unless you're a beginner trying to get over approach anxiety), but that's a story for another thread... | /r/seduction | 10/01/13 10:50 PM |
| 2 | The Easiest Way To DEFINITELY Get a Girl’s Numberthat's got to be the worst way to ask for a number I've ever heard. and your follow up only made it 10x douchier. | /r/seduction | 10/01/13 11:11 AM |
| 1 | The Easiest Way To DEFINITELY Get a Girl’s NumberBig difference between doing this during the day and at night at a bar. | /r/seduction | 10/01/13 11:05 AM |
| 11 | My kino habits are landing me in crazy situations. Please advise.Was it the "Big Shot" that had a problem with your kino or your friends? That should answer your question. | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 06:43 AM |
| 1 | How did you guys begin to improve and change yourselves? What did you stop or start doing?Work on inner game. Without the right mentality, you'll never be successful. | /r/seduction | 28/12/12 03:26 PM |
| 2 | A tip on picking up girls in a foreign country/with language barrierI'm not doubting that it works or claiming that I have experience picking up girls in foreign countries. I'm just saying that if I was a girl and some Norwegian dude hit on me while making no effort to speak to me in my own language in my own country, I'd think that this guy is arrogant. | /r/seduction | 27/12/12 06:10 PM |
| 1 | A tip on picking up girls in a foreign country/with language barrierRight. I'm going to have to start hitting on American girls in French. That way I'm asserting my dominance and having them clamoring to appease me. | /r/seduction | 27/12/12 06:05 PM |
| -3 | A tip on picking up girls in a foreign country/with language barrierSo when hitting on girls in a foreign country, talk to them in your own language? Maybe that works, but that sounds douchey as fuck. | /r/seduction | 27/12/12 04:23 AM |
| 5 | The club scene seems pointless to me but it has the hottest chicks. Solution?http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-unuqF4uklE | /r/seduction | 22/12/12 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Some little things that changed in my life which resulted in a lot more girls flirting with me.Man it sucks for me. I used to have ~100 pictures from back in college when I was good friends with this group of girls. Basically just tons of pictures of me doing goofy-ass shit with girls around me making me look like a baus (exactly like the OP). Problem is, 99% of the pics were taken by one girl. First she took half of the pics off b/c she was applying for jobs, then she cheated on one of the girls' boyfriends and got in a huge fight with them. As a result she removed all the photos. Now mo… | /r/seduction | 22/12/12 12:10 AM |
| 1 | How about just saying "kiss" instead of "kiss-close"?say it in the real world and people will burst out laughing. if you're getting mad pussy it's one thing. otherwise you just look like a try-hard loser. | /r/seduction | 21/12/12 08:13 PM |
| 2 | How about just saying "kiss" instead of "kiss-close"?Exactly. Nobody says "hot babe" anymore. It honestly turns me off a little to the whole PUA thing. In the real world, we just say "she's really hot" or "she's a 9". | /r/seduction | 21/12/12 07:56 PM |
| 2 | How about just saying "kiss" instead of "kiss-close"?If you've already kissed her before, then there's probably no reason to be writing about it. And 99% of the time it's implicit in the writing whether or not it's a first kiss or not. If it's not, then it can easily be clarified (say, with parenthesis). There's no reason to need to say K-Close. But again, if saying K-Close, sarging, and HB9 make you feel cool (which I personally can't even begin to comprehend how anyone could feel cool saying that), then go for it. Personally I refuse to ever use… | /r/seduction | 21/12/12 07:53 PM |
| 1 | How about just saying "kiss" instead of "kiss-close"?I say I'm "hitting on girls" or "picking up chicks". That way normal people understand what I mean rather than just nerds who read pickup artist material on the internet. | /r/seduction | 21/12/12 07:47 PM |
| 40 | How about just saying "kiss" instead of "kiss-close"?I agree. A lot of the terminology on here is really stupid and unnecessary. | /r/seduction | 21/12/12 07:00 AM |
| 4 | Met a girl on OKCupid. She wants to skype before we meet.guyzzzzz this girl I met online wants to talk to me over the phone before we meet what should I do? really? just fucking skype her | /r/seduction | 17/12/12 05:13 AM |
| 17 | What was your big breakthrough moment?this is hilarious | /r/seduction | 15/12/12 05:45 PM |
| 1 | How do I let a girls know I want to be more then just a friend?I think it's more about body language. Strong eye contact, flirting, etc. can make it pretty obvious. The great part is that if she's totally not interested, she can reject you through her body language and you have plausible deniability. But if she's into it, then she'll recipricate. | /r/seduction | 15/12/12 04:55 PM |
| 9 | Hey seddit guys. If a girl is so attracted to you that she immediately ends up sleeping with you, do you lose respect for her?No. I don't believe in the whole "slut-shaming" nonsense. Fuck anybody who does. | /r/seduction | 15/12/12 04:50 PM |
| 0 | meeting menI read your post. So you're saying to just wait to get messaged? Yea that works if you're willing to lower your standards or you just get lucky. Personally I don't fit into either category. | /r/seduction | 15/12/12 01:17 AM |
| 1 | meeting menwomen have it so easy in some regards... | /r/seduction | 15/12/12 12:51 AM |
| 1 | meeting menI am female and would like to know how to meet men. I am an above average looking girl Step 1: Go to bar Step 2: Get approached If you're a girl who isn't hideous, you don't even need to try. Anyone who's approaching you is probably already interested. It's just a matter of not fucking it up. | /r/seduction | 15/12/12 12:48 AM |
| 0 | meeting menyou're paranoid. shut up. | /r/seduction | 15/12/12 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Observations from Another Guy's Failed Approachso what's the lesson here? | /r/seduction | 13/12/12 12:16 AM |
| 13 | [Quotes] "When women love us, they forgive us everything, even our crimes. When they do not love us, they forgive us nothing, Not even our virtues." - Honré de BalzacI've heard this quote before and it might sound cool but it's stupid and there's absolutely no truth to it. I'm a man and I forgive just as much as women, if not moreso. | /r/seduction | 12/12/12 11:23 PM |
| 2 | Around many women, I am great. But the minute I find one actually attractive I shut down and loose all my game. Help?abundance mentality | /r/seduction | 09/12/12 09:05 AM |
| 1 | How do you begin to have a game mindset to pickup and talk to girls if you don't know what you want to do with your life?Just be honest. Say it with confidence rather than in a "I know I'm not that impressive...do you still accept me?" frame of mind. As long as you give off an impression of having your shit together despite maybe not knowing what exactly you want to do career-wise (and let's face it, 99% of us don't really know), you'll be fine. When a girl asks me want I want to do, I often just make up something ridiculous to dodge the question. If she presses further, then I tell her the truth. The fact that yo… | /r/seduction | 09/12/12 08:59 AM |
| 4 | I use women as my only source of happiness. How do I end this cycle?shit man welcome to my life. too bad I'm a grad student and can't join a frat anymore. it really is the easiest way to meet tons of slutty open-minded girls | /r/seduction | 02/12/12 05:59 AM |
| -2 | [FR] 3 f closes in a single calendar day; a perfect example of how to build/use social valuefuck, I wish I had joined a frat in college | /r/seduction | 30/11/12 08:59 AM |
| 3 | Pick Up Line Insanity, on r/videos right now. Skip to 2:23 for something awesome.YES | /r/seduction | 30/11/12 08:40 AM |
| 5 | The only way from AFC to F-Closing a HB10: Practice. A short story.Appreciate the thread, but the impression I get is that you're handsome to the point where you don't really even have to try. | /r/seduction | 28/11/12 05:56 PM |
| 10 | Why You Should Resist Online DatingWoa dude what's with the hostility? Next you've proven that you know nothing about pickup because if you think being successful depends on being 6'5" with model looks you have a tremendous amount of learning to do. For the record I'm neither 6'5" nor have model good looks. I'm probably smarter than average which does help though. I was talking about online game, not real life pickup. I called bullshit because the results you claim are extremely higher than anything I've experienced or heard of. … | /r/seduction | 27/11/12 03:51 AM |
| -2 | I've convinced myself that living at home, at age 24, to save money and complete my degree is enough of an excuse to not date since girls don't like guys in my situation. Should I continue with this mindset or change my attitude?this question is so pathetic that it's not even worthy of an answer | /r/seduction | 27/11/12 02:08 AM |
| 19 | Why You Should Resist Online DatingI'm batting high on OKC, >35% #-close all HB8/9/10 I'm calling bullshit on this. There are very few HB8/9/10s on OkCupid, and any moderately attractive chick on there gets 100 messages per day. Unless you're a 6'5" model, I highly doubt that you're getting such a high response rate. But in case you're not bullshitting, how the hell do you do it? | /r/seduction | 27/11/12 01:57 AM |
| 2 | To college students, or those with poor funds, how do you live an exciting life?I disagree and kind of hate people like this. Nobody likes a tease. It comes off as though you just need attention and validation. Not to mention you're just leading people on. | /r/seduction | 26/11/12 07:38 PM |
| 7 | The best thing you've done to improve your attractiveness? Any other quicktips from you pros that's not game related?Wear clothes that fit. This makes a HUGE difference, especially for skinny guys like me. It took me until halfway through college to learn this. Don't take things too seriously. If someone teases you, go along with it. Don't laugh at your own jokes Confidence is everything | /r/seduction | 26/11/12 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Game On [Part 2]: An Amputee's Seduction Experiences and Failuresinspiring stuff. keep up the good work. | /r/seduction | 26/11/12 05:59 AM |
| 8 | Scientific proof showing cold showers REDUCES testosterone.anytime I tried going a while without fapping, I just become so outcome fucking dependent and nervous when approaching. Same problem here. I don't think that not fapping helps my game at all. | /r/seduction | 26/11/12 05:01 AM |
| -3 | Your friends will hold you back.you're former friends are lame as fuck, and I'm glad you ditched them. you don't need them holding you back in your life. I mean I can understand them being awkward around a pretty girl, but to accuse you of "ruining their night" and calling that girl a bitch? you've got to be fucking kidding me, that's absolutely pathetic. They ought to castrate themselves and run off to a desert to die alone. | /r/seduction | 24/11/12 10:05 AM |
| 1 | The defensive attitude women have when out is starting to wear so thin on me...no, if you don't want to get hit on then don't dress up all nicely and go to a club. I mean sure, go ahead and do it, but expect to get hit on. (I'm not saying you have to give every man who hits on you your attention.) | /r/seduction | 24/11/12 06:38 AM |
| -1 | The defensive attitude women have when out is starting to wear so thin on me...If you don't want to get hit on, don't go to a club. Guys don't dress up, drive to the club, wait in line for 30 minutes, pay $40 cover, and be forced to pay $10 for beers because they want to go "dancing with the boys". If you're all dressed up and at a club, I'm going to assume that you understand what the atmosphere of a club entails. OP: Girl was a bitch with excessive negative energy and obviously not worth your time. Move on. | /r/seduction | 24/11/12 06:11 AM |
| -5 | Reddit, here's the story of your least typical college grad who's 55% along the way to being a 40 year old virgin...holy wall of text | /r/seduction | 24/11/12 05:49 AM |
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