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This is awesome
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/24 12:05 AM
3

You’re fucking killing it. Keep dating multiple women and enjoy life
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/24 12:03 AM
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Nah man. I bet half those women you saw don't fuck their husbands or give them obligatory star fish sex once a month.
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/24 08:55 PM
3

Fuck yea
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/24 02:28 AM
2

Lol most likely this.
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/24 03:15 PM
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Knock out advice here. Worked for me.
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/24 07:24 PM
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Great way to say this
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/24 09:44 AM
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Bro. Fuck that bitch. You're about ready to get up and kick some fucking ass in your life. Don't feel sorry for yourself. Now go get it.
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/24 01:16 PM
19

Exactly this OP. Unless you want your lying bitch ex wife to force the sale of your mom's house and take half
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/24 01:22 PM
5

Bro I hate that you're feeling this way. Moving forward you absolutely have to know that you should NEVER be vulnerable with a woman ever again. Seeing a man being vulnerable for a woman disgusts their subconscious even though verbally they may say they want it. Your wife or girlfriend is NEVER your best friend. Anyone I have ever heard refer to their wife/girlfriend as best friend end up divorced or dumped.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/24 11:56 AM
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Bro. I feel for you. I really do. No man here is perfect. I say this respectfully. You have been fucking up big time. Women like to be led and secure and safe. Pushing and shoving and not keeping your cool, getting behind on rent, constant gambling, and lastly a stretch of unemployment in the hottest job market in 100 years. When a man loses his job or business it's an instant turn off for women. Women want to look up to the man they're with. Your woman couldn't look up to you because you don't …
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/24 02:26 AM
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Love hearing stories like this
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/24 03:35 PM
2

Lmao fucking classic. She posted a photo of herself younger and hotter
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/24 10:39 AM
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I've noticed it too. This used to be a place for guys to come to and vent and let out anger and emotion about what they're going through. Now you can't even call your cheating ex wife a bitch without getting flagged.
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/24 02:05 PM
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Bro. You're deep into the thick of it. Come to your senses. This woman becomes intoxicated and drives her children around in a 4,000 pound bullet. Thats not exactly mom of the year material.
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/24 11:21 PM
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The bitch asked you for a divorce. She's blowing up your family. Know the route she drives home after drinking. Call the police and report a drunk driver. You'll get primary custody.
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/24 10:52 PM
1

Congrats dude. You're killing it.
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/24 05:13 PM
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Fuck yea. I love stories like this. How much younger is the new GF? Also is the ex worse off?
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/24 07:05 AM
8

She's one of a million. NOT one in a million.
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/24 07:04 AM
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This is divorced men. Not divorce women. Why are you here? There's lots of spaces available for women.
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/24 04:04 PM
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Lmao!
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/24 10:14 AM
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I've had quite a bit of success with the red pill stuff. I've gotten into amazing physical shape. I'm more assertive now have been skyrocketing in my career. I get hit on constantly. Everyone from 18-40. RP is about being the best version of yourself. Understanding social biological evolution. No woman wants to clamor and be with a guy who makes HER the center of his world. You can argue this and say you like to make her feel special. Truth of the matter is they don't like that shit. Women don't…
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/24 02:18 PM
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Well said. Then they make Tik Toks and Instagram reels reinforcing all that shit so the combative woman has to be combative because she's right.
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/24 10:11 AM
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Fuck yea dude. Keep going. You gotta start somewhere. 1 year from now you'll look and feel totally different.
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/23 07:12 PM
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This OP. Why are you tolerating this.
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/23 11:19 AM
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I've noticed a trend. Whenever a man relocates for a woman. No matter what the reason. It always ends in a split of the relationship. Force the sale of the house. Do not allow this woman to live in her dream home in her home town. Getting to live in that home is the privilege of being with you. I don't care if youre worried about the kids or not. Force the sale of the house and the bitch can go live in a shitty apartment.
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/23 01:13 AM
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Anyone trying to marry you?
/r/Divorce_Men30/11/23 06:55 PM
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Yea when you're young. Try being 40 and over weight with wrinkles. Yea some poor ole sap will fuck her but won't want to date her.
/r/Divorce_Men30/11/23 06:53 PM
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Lmao!!! Love it. I bet it was a real blow to her because she's probably finding out her sexual market value isn't what she thought it was. Lol did she respond to the message
/r/Divorce_Men30/11/23 02:04 PM
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Bro. She filed a fucking restraining order against you and you're asking if there's anything to be saved. I'll say it again SHE FILED A FUCKING RESTRAINING ORDER AGAINST YOU. ITS OVER. THERE IS NOTHING TO SAVE.
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/23 02:46 AM
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I've never heard a woman be referred to as honorable.
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/23 02:52 AM
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Fucking hell man. Absolutely true. Sold a Disney fantasy.
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/23 02:36 AM
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Straight up tell that bitch NO. It's not your job to help her. You're not her husband anymore. It's also not permitted right now.
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/23 10:51 PM
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I second this
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/23 01:47 AM
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Good advice here OP
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/23 08:09 PM
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Damn good post. I went down the red pill rabbit hole myself. The shit does work. That said. I think you're right that guys get lost in the dunking on women and the statistics of women stacking odds against men. Red pill is about being the absolute best version of yourself regardless of what your wife or girlfriend think. The best version of yourself is for YOU and YOU only. I personally got into shape. Started handling all my shit. Stopped acting like a plow horse and castrated man(aka a woman) …
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/23 05:07 PM
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Bro,I say this with love, but what are you trying to say here? You admitted she was traumatized growing up. You confided she had an abusive mother. She has had real difficulties with these things you said. You have battled demons for 30 years with this woman you admitted. Then follow up with you can't believe you've been this off base. Brother. What did you think was going to happen with a bruised and damaged woman like this. You need to be happy you made it this far. Hit the gym. Ignore your ST…
/r/Divorce_Men11/11/23 03:02 AM
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Hey Man. I've been hundreds of women. I'm here to tell you that if you want to have intellectual conversations or discussions with a woman, you will never get it. Women do not operate on that level. They operate on attention and material things. Point blank. She will ramble on about her day and troubles daily and a "yea" or a "I get it" will due for her attention and problems. I'm sorry but this is the depth of women and how they're wired. They're not planners, or builders or creators. There are…
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/23 10:09 AM
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Yea pretty much this
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/23 09:32 AM
20

Yes exactly this. As a man. Planning your life around a woman is the worst possible thing you could do.
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/23 07:06 PM
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Completely awesome. She thought the grass was greener and it was gonna be rainbows and butterflies.
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/23 07:03 PM
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No no he needs to be doing these things for himself. There are concrete steps to live a better life.
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/23 11:55 AM
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Fuck yea. You're 49 years old. You're gonna be banging women in their 30s. Lift weights 3 to 4 times a week. Update your wardrobe to modern form fitting clothes. Keep your place neat and tidy. Find hobbies that are fucking cool that you enjoy to do. Women love older men. They always have. But they don't love skinny fucks or fat fucks who don't take care of themselves, and live like shit. Take care of yourself and be a man. Women like older men. No one likes older women. You're aging like wine. Y…
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/23 02:30 AM
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Bro. I'm gonna be honest with you here. I know you're hurting about the divorce. I hurt and most men here all hurt very similar to you. Your greatest problem is you mistakenly fucked up and tied your entire existence and identify to being a bitch to your wife and house. Are you telling me your entire point in life to serve a fucking woman? That's weak shit and it will leave you disappointed time and time again. Your existence should depend on only your happiness and no other outside influence. T…
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/23 01:50 AM
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She's gonna get smacked in the face with reality sooner rather then later. Do you really think a much younger fit athletic trainer is gonna wanna settle down and date and marry some washed up women with a couple kids from another dude? He's gonna cum and dump her.
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/23 10:18 AM
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Yup nailed it. Typical feminine narrative.
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/23 11:33 PM
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Nailed it
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/23 08:22 PM
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Bro. I say this from experience and most of the guys here will agree. DO NOT HELP HER DO ANYTHING. If this bitch wants to divorce and tear your family apart and claim to be a strong independent woman then you do not help her do anything at all. Communication now is for logistics only. Shes planning on filing a restraining order for fucks sake and you're doing her laundry and cooking her dinner. Stop that shit. You need to get a gym membership in the mean time and start lifting heavy weights 3 to…
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/23 02:13 PM
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Hell yeah. I think this happens a lot more than people think. Women go out and struggle to maintain the same lifestyle they had before.
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/23 03:18 PM
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Strip club with "degenerate friends" Lol yea pretty much. Everytime I've been to a strip club it was with my degenerate group of friends.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/23 12:54 AM
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Go the fuck after that bitch. You know damn well if roles were reversed she'd have already had that shit petitioned. Fuck her. If she wants other dick and to be some strong independent women. Let her but there's a price to pay for it. Being nice and understanding is a husband thing to do. You're not her husband anymore. She disrupted everyone's life. She needs to continue to pay the penalty for that. Go after the bitch.
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/23 02:47 PM
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33 male here. Two kids 5 and 3. 5'11 muscular build (work out regularly) I haven't found having kids to be a problem at all. I regularly pick up 21-25 year olds. I get a lot of attention from 28-38 year olds. For me dating has been awesome in my 30s. Way easier than in my 20s. Women like older men. Especially men in their 30s. Get in excellent shape and dress well. Download the big 3 dating apps. Along with the big 3 dating apps. I approach everything I find attractive in person. Do I get blown …
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/23 02:21 PM
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You have made her life too easy and she's bored.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/23 03:13 PM
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This Right Here OP
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/23 08:36 PM
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Bro you don't need to be telling her shit. Any thoughts and feelings you are having about her DO NOT TELL HER. Doing so will make her disgusted by you and push her further away. Lastly. Why aren't you out there trying to get some new ass? Are you hitting the gym? Are you dressing better? Are you pushing yourself for more financial gain? You're living in a scarcity mindset right now. Do the things I mentioned above and DO NOT TALK TO YOUR EX WIFE.
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/23 05:18 PM
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This sounds like my ole bitch. Is she out living her best life now?
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/23 08:57 PM
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I served my wife at work too. It's the ultimate "fuck you, I'm not simp" It'll honestly turn her on. Start working out. Start dressing better. You're no simp. You're a strong fucking man. Now is the time to take your fucking balls back. Good luck.
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/23 08:05 PM
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Fuck yea. I love hearing shit like this
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/23 04:53 PM
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She sounds like a real winner. She'll age out and die alone
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/23 12:56 PM
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Did the bitch find another man?
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/23 12:30 PM
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Right here op
/r/askMRP17/08/23 10:04 AM
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Bro. That bitch ex wife of yours did not break you. You're a strong fucking man. You're putting way too much value and worth of yourself into women. The value of a man is not related to a woman or a relationship at all. Go lift weights. Work on your career and create a kickass life that doesn't have relation to whether a woman likes you or not.
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/23 10:19 PM
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Lmao I feel you on that one. I've got two boys under 10 and my goal is to get them respectful now because when they become teenagers they're gonna be bigger than me. But combat sports and team sports is a great way to make sure they don't turn into pussy men.
/r/askMRP15/08/23 08:10 PM
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Yea I don't want my kid pushing the boundaries with a stranger and getting their teeth knocked the fuck in. Rather get an ass whipping from a parent then a stranger.
/r/askMRP15/08/23 07:31 PM
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Hey fuck you. Looks like a dumb bitch just showed up. I don't give a fuck how old she is. Theres innate biological differences between men and women/boys and girls.
/r/askMRP15/08/23 06:18 PM
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No you didn't need to burn your kid to teach them something gets hot but I bet they pushed the boundaries and touched something hot anyway and found out for themselves.
/r/askMRP15/08/23 06:15 PM
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Absolutely agree with you.
/r/askMRP15/08/23 04:53 PM
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I'm not a victim at all. I'm a man I realize no one gives a fuck about men. I'm on my own and I know that. Each circumstance is not fact dependent. Statistics exist for a reason. 80% initiated by women. Yes they are the ones tearing families apart. 80% of dudes are not liars. cheaters and woman beaters.
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/23 04:51 PM
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That if you act like a little bitch people aren't going to take it. It's better to learn that lesson from a parent than a stranger in public.
/r/askMRP15/08/23 04:07 PM
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1.) She's a woman. Attention is her currency. Remove attention and begin normal family functions without her when she's being a little bitch. 2.) Spanking. Spanking is the ultimate equalizer to kids and parenting. Kids respond to spanking extremely well. But you don't believe in spanking so refer back to 1.)
/r/askMRP15/08/23 03:24 PM
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Women initiate 80% of divorces. 90% if they're college educated. So yes the women do get blamed for it all because they're the ones tearing the families apart.
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/23 11:10 AM
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Good luck using a woman or your wife as your best friend. When she runs off and sucks another dudes cock let me know how good of a friend she is.
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/23 02:30 AM
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Your wife was your best friend? Bro come on. No woman should ever be a man's best friend. She wanted to go and live her best life. Let that bitch be lonely. She earned it. It would make her really wet if you said "nah Ive got plans"
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/23 10:59 PM
2

Exactly this OP
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/23 09:33 PM
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You don't need to apologize to post here for help or support. There is literally very few spaces for men exclusively to seek help or support and I've found this is one of them. Secondly. Your marriage may not have hope but YOU have hope. You're a fucking man. 1.) You're going to immediately get a gym membership. I'm going to assume you're a fat fuck or a skinny fuck. You'll begin lifting weights 3 to 4 days a week until exhaustion. 2.) You're going to begin updating your wardrobe to modern form …
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/23 02:49 AM
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Solid 5s are the best.
/r/Divorce_Men30/07/23 11:51 AM
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Lmao what a stupid fucking bitch. Mam' you're a dumb mother fucker
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/23 01:53 PM
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Yea therapy is based on feminine ideology. It's cancer and toxic to relationships and women's minds seeking help.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/23 08:20 PM
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Good advice. The kickass life and body you've built is for YOU. Not for the bitch ex wife.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/23 08:00 PM
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Fucking love your story man.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/23 06:38 PM
2

Nah dude you're good. 33 here. Reach out to your old buddies they'll be happier than hell to see and hear from you. Mine were. They'll greet you with open arms You'll find dating is significantly easier than your 20s in every way possible. Women love men in their 30s. My dating range is 22 to 38. Very hot women. I have a 16 year gap in my pool and there's a lot of hot women in that dating gap. I get 50 matches a week on bumble and I live in a rural area. You're all good man. The next 10 years of…
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/23 01:46 AM
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This is it right here OP
/r/askMRP17/07/23 06:33 PM
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Exactly how you should do it. If that bitch wanted to be a strong independent woman then fuck her and let her figure out her own problems. You're not her husband anymore so her problems are not your fucking problem anymore. Let her waller in her own poor decisions. Fuck her
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/23 02:19 AM
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Why in the fuck are you here? This is a men's only sub. A broken washing machine or a car part is not OPs fucking problem. Those are husband problems and he's no longer a husband to this bitch. Go spew your bullshit somewhere to a bunch of simps but that place is not here. No one here gives a fuck about you or what you have to say.
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/23 02:16 AM
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Fucking love this bro. You Won
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/23 12:59 AM
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Good Luck you tough son of a bitch!!!!
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/23 02:05 AM
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Yea I don't fuck with fat girls. I'm 33 and in great shape with a great smile. I'm doing minor alterations to photos not changing my facial features and shit.
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/23 02:06 PM
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Bro. My job is to get matches and fuck women. So I'm going to work a completely image based matching system to my full advantage.
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/23 01:58 PM
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Download the Facetune app and edit your photos to make them look better. The women do it and won't notice shit when you meet in person.
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/23 01:31 PM
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This is great advice OP and has served me well. You've gotta be in good shape and have a decent job. The attitude he's describing pretty much makes women wet. Also. You're in your late 30s. Youre in your prime. You don't need to be fucking around with single moms unless it's just to bang them. You can go and get single childless women in their 20s.
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/23 12:50 PM
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Bro. You need to read No More Mr Nice Guy by Robert Glover. You sound like the type of guy who catches himself on fire to keep others warm. A lot of us here were like that. Secondly. I haven't met a woman yet who hasn't claimed to have been SA or has had an abusive relationship in some form with their parents or past husband or boyfriend. I've been with hundreds of women to. Leave her where she belongs and thats not with you. She brain washed you into believing you fucked up the marriage and tha…
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/23 10:53 PM
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Glad you're back. You went MIA for a few months.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/23 05:26 AM
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I had mine served at work in front of 120 plus coworkers. Because why not? If the bitch wants a divorce then give her a divorce. Things need to happen on your terms. You're a strong man who can't possibly be phased by a woman.
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/23 08:17 PM
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Fuck what a story man.
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/23 08:14 PM
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Oh shit. Sorry man. I meant to reply to her. Not you. I'm in your corner.
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/23 04:09 PM
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Why in the flying fuck are you still here? No one gives a fuck about you here or cares what you have to say. This is a mens space.
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/23 02:55 PM
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You fucking nailed it man.
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/23 09:48 AM
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Read The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi to find out how you got to the nice guy stage. Good luck. You're getting to a kick ass place day by day. Keep killing it and pushing forward. YOU'RE NO BITCH.
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/23 03:37 AM
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Oh for sure man. Your situation is totally different. I was picturing a random step son for his case but I do not know all the details. But as a previous poster said. You can't save everyone on the way to a better life.
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/23 12:22 AM
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Very well said. Much more eloquently than I put it. Only the strong can lift up the weak.
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/23 12:20 AM
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This is gonna take a lot of heat. But bro why the fuck are you still taking care of another man's child? I hate to be crass here but he's not your problem anymore. That's your exes baggage and he needs to be with her using up her resources not YOURS. Secondly fuck your ex wife. If you fail this class or barely pass. That's your business and no one else's. I've failed collegiate classes also. She doesn't need to know shit that's going on in your life. You're absolutely whipping ass and you need t…
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/23 10:46 PM
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Lmao! you're exactly right
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/23 05:17 PM
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Why the fuck are you here? This is a men's only sub. There's plenty of other spaces for women like you to chime in your bull shit. No one here gives a fuck about you.
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/23 01:30 PM
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Yea bro. You're giving good advice here along with a lot of other guys. This guy just doesn't get it. He's got an excuse for everything.
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/23 02:41 AM
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Coming from the dude still living in his bitch ex wife's world and allowing her to dictate his time with his kids. Grow some fucking balls dude.
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/23 02:36 AM
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Lmao no I'm not that big of a hard ass on them but there are expectations. My job is to make sure they're not fuck ups.
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/23 12:33 AM
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I'm raising young men. Not boys. They're gonna know how to work hard. Maintain a clean and neat house and handle themselves appropriately. If they decide they hate me at 25 then fine but I sure as fuck know they're not gonna leave their clothes on the floor and live like slobs or white trash all while being a pussy feminine man.
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/23 12:30 AM
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I don't really give a fuck. I worry about myself and my own interests. Hey man. Keep letting your ex dictate your life and your relationship with your kids. You're being a fucking push over is what you're being.
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/23 09:47 PM
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Who gives a fuck if your son's hate you. Are you their friend or their father? I don't care if my kids hate me. I'm not their friend. I'm their father. My job is to make sure they're not fuck ups as adults.
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/23 09:42 PM
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No the question is what do YOU want. You need to be living YOUR life based on what's best for YOU. The kid needs to be with you if that's what you want. Why do you give a fuck what your bitch ex wife says or does? The other parents there will not give a shit if he's not there because it was his father's birthday.
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/23 09:02 PM
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What do you truly want to do?
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/23 08:55 PM
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Bro I wish I could call you right now. All of us men here have felt what you're feeling. This is the right place to come. Now for the hard part. If that bitch wants a divorce then give her a fucking divorce. DO NOT HELP HER IN ANY WAY. you're suffering from nice guy syndrome. You were a literal fucking plow horse for this women and did everything to make her life as easy as possible running your self ragged. Not to mention you let her off the hook for not keeping the house clean and tidy while y…
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/23 07:34 PM
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Fuck that bitch
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/23 03:01 AM
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Awesome read. Reminded me a lot of my own journey. The link to January 2023 wasn't available though? It just linked back to December
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/23 01:43 AM
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Similar to my situation months ago. You know what I did? I went and filed for divorce on my terms. If that bitch wants a divorce then give her a divorce. She created this mess and shit should not be on her terms.
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/23 02:53 PM
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Ive actually encountered the complete opposite. I was getting about 50 matches a week on bumble and literally none of the women cared I had kids. Im talking women from age 21 to 35 did not care at all. I'm 33 btw
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/23 04:12 PM
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Exactly right. I agree with you. Why would you go for a single mom when there's plenty of childless women out there? It stems from a scarcity mentality with women. These single moms want provisioning and a plow horse and they'll find a nice weak man to do it for her.
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/23 02:51 PM
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Single moms are for entertainment only. Why do I want to pay for another man's DNA? While having all the responsibility but none of the authority over the child? Lastly you will never be the priority. The kid is always gonna come first before you.
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/23 01:52 PM
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Lmao fucking hilarious. But you're right.
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/23 01:50 PM
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Take note. Almost EVERY woman who had previous relationships refers to the ex as abusive. She will claim you were abusive too if you go through with this. Just a heads up.
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/23 02:08 PM
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Exactly this. Fuck her
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/23 08:43 AM
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Bro. You're acting weird around him? What are you operating in your father in laws frame? Secondly. Why do you give a flying fuck what he's doing? Your wife doesn't need to know any of this shit unless you want to become a container of shit for her entire side of the family. Lastly what do you expect the man to do? Sit around at home in a sexless marriage with a bitch who won't fuck him? Keep your nose where it belongs and that's on yourself and handling YOUR shit. Not your father in laws shit.
/r/askMRP25/05/23 10:38 PM
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Sounds like a covert contract.
/r/askMRP25/05/23 09:19 PM
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Hey bitch. This is a sub for men only. No one here gives a fuck what you have to say.
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/23 07:20 PM
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It sounds like your leaps and bounds ahead of other guys I've talked with. If you're likely to be the next CEO of your company. Then you're a strong alpha male at work but the second you walk through that door at home you're a weak BETA bitch. Women hate being supplicated to and DO NOT want to be the center of a man's world. They think they do but I've never seen a woman respect it. You're suffering from a terrible scarcity mindset. I'm going to assume you've fucked 10 or less women in your life…
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/23 03:10 PM
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I'm going to be very honest with you here. Your wife's emotions are NOT your responsibility. How much value is this woman really adding to your life? It sounds like she walks around depressed and emotionless most of the time while you hold back and constantly cater to her so she doesn't go into a downward spiral. What kind of life is that to fucking live? And not to mention this fucking woman has the gall to have an emotional affair with Chad Thundercock at work while you've done nothing but wat…
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/23 02:44 PM
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I wouldn't tell her anything. Just keep doing what you're doing and see how it goes and where it ends up. You've been in a marriage for how ever many years. Date multiple women if you want. Keep your options open and just hang out and fuck this women. Women are the gatekeepers of sex. Men are the gatekeepers of relationships.
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/23 12:01 PM
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The Rational Male book series. All 3 books should be part of your required reading. Start with The Rational Male then other two books part of the series.
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/23 03:02 PM
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Was she hot?
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/23 11:31 AM
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Bro. Your buddy needs to file for divorce ASAP. Why is he letting this bitch control and manage his life? She's gonna owe him child support and alimony. The woman knows this too and it's why she hasn't filed herself. He needs to file and have her served at work. No More Mr. Nice Guy. He's getting cucked right in front of his own eyes and is cool with it? Fuck that.
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/23 12:31 PM
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Exactly right. Only way to be a man is to be as selfish as possible. Selfish doesn't always mean ruthless asshole but it means looking out for your needs first. Only the strong can lift up the weak.
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/23 01:55 AM
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You're absolutely right that stoicism as a man is a very key and valuable attribute. I like to refer to it as being an Oak. You can sway in a storm and move back and forth by heavy winds but you're still an oak and still standing strong. Tough day. I get it. You threw your hands up at work and said "fuck this" Leave your shit here today and do not bring it with you tomorrow. Wake up. Ready for work. Ready to be an Oak.
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/23 01:54 AM
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I knew she had some complications, Those are the red flags you said she didn't have. I know not all women are like this. Yes the majority of women ARE like this. Most guys in this sub can attest to that. You've got a lot of life left in you. You've just got to understand the nature of women.
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/23 03:16 PM
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That bitch isn't your life. She's one of a million. Not one in a million. You need to start developing a life outside of that cunt. The first step to that is joining a gym and lifting heavy things to exhaustion. Join a mixed martial arts gym next. Go be around other men. Doing masculine things. You act composed because you're a man and handle your emotions. Women are disgusted by weak men. You do not show weakness in front of this cheating bitch ever again. You wanted her in your life but you do…
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/23 01:14 PM
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Brother. I'm gonna hit you with some honest truths here that come from a place of love. I know and understand you're hurting right now, as all of us here have felt what you're feeling. But you need to start growing some balls right the fuck now. You're a man. You handle your shit. You had no business asking your soon to be ex wife in help finding someone. You're a man. You handle shit yourself. If you need to find a therapist you do it yourself. That's what men do. Secondly. Do not cry in front …
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/23 12:32 PM
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Lmao! “caretaking someone else’s failed abortions” The first time I've ever heard this and it's fucking hilarious.
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/23 10:33 AM
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I say this lovingly and respectfully. I know it's hard. But you need to get over your kids not being with you half the time. Your kids will grow up and spend MOST of their time away from you. Be super dad when they're with you and when they're not with you, live a great fucking life until they come back. A life to be proud of is what you're aiming for.
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/23 11:02 PM
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You need to read The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi. It will start to make sense to you.
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/23 08:27 PM
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This OP
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/23 03:35 PM
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You held frame and firm on the previous decision. You say you probably talked to much but sometimes getting your point across takes a verbal back and forth especially on a sensitive subject such as your SIL divorce. I also find it hilarious the BIL is "abusive" but yet sets up cameras in the home. What abuser would actually want his abuse recorded? Sounds the SIL is pushing her feminine imperative to leave the relationship. Whatever not my problem.
/r/askMRP11/05/23 11:26 AM
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I'm an amuse mastery man myself.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/23 02:06 AM
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Read When I Say No I Feel Guilty next then.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/23 01:49 AM
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Brother. Players gonna play. Don't worry about that tinder slut. She's one of a million not one in a million. Just like your wife. Hit the gym. Update your wardrobe Keep playing the game.
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/23 12:58 AM
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NO. You should not help pay for the septic system. Part of starting over fresh is you do not continue to help your ex wife maintain a house and property. Those are husband responsibilities and you are no longer her husband. You already stated that you would get absolutely zero benefit out of it. So why in the fuck are you even still considering it? You say you want to start over fresh but you are already having trouble setting boundaries on your ex wife. If the ex wife asks again about the septi…
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/23 12:31 PM
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This OP. Get a gym membership and start lifting weights 3 days a week. Read No More Mr. Nice guy as well.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/23 12:40 PM
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Why the fuck are you here too? This is a subreddit for men only.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/23 10:22 AM
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Risk what? What in the fuck are you talking about woman
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/23 06:19 PM
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Fuck yea brother! I love hearing these types of stories. You're in a really good place right now
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/23 03:58 AM
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This OP. Also you don't need to tell her where you're staying or what you're doing. That's also bowing down to her and women don't respect that.
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/23 10:48 PM
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Although things are very raw for you right now still. You're in a really healthy place mentally while you process this and hunker down to get through it. You're at the point of everything moving forward is just a matter of fact and it is what it is and you just want to get through it. Keep moving forward. Hit the gym. And your soon to be ex cunt will get dumped by her boyfriend sooner than later.
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/23 08:08 PM
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She still with the douche bag?
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/23 09:50 AM
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I just got the players handbook in the mail this week. I'll give models a read though. Never heard of it. And fuck yea. Keep pushing on your gym journey. You're not fucking finished.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/23 02:36 PM
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Lmao this is a kickass story.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/23 02:34 PM
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Stop making fucking excuses. If you have anxiety then when you're at the doctor getting your testosterone levels checked get on some anxiety medication as well. No one at the gym gives a fuck how fat you are or how skinny you are. Get your ass moving. Your bitch ex wife is one of a million not one in a million. Get your ass moving so you can get your next hot piece of ass. You're not finished unless you decide to be.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/23 02:23 PM
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My STBX is pretty hot too and only 28. I'm 33. You need to get into the gym and lift weights 4 days a week. You may also want to update your wardrobe so that you're wearing properly fitted modern clothes. Wear those clothes every time you leave the house. Watch your diet. Eat lean meat and vegetables 6 days a week. Get on GOA Skin Care and order whatever men's facial package you think suits you and use this daily. You should also have your testosterone levels checked by your doctor as well. At 4…
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/23 02:07 PM
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Bro. She's 40 and has never had an LTR longer than 9 months? You think all the men she picked were the problem? Good women get locked down.
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/23 10:12 PM
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Oh yea fuck her then. Not meeting your needs at all.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/23 06:20 PM
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Other than the emotional and physical abuse it wasn't a bad deal. You get to do what you want and she will even share you because you seem to be a high value man. She just needed to uphold her side of the bargain and not be a cunt.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/23 06:17 PM
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Dude you're killing it. Congrats man. What a dumb bitch to leave you.
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/23 11:23 AM
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Take this advice OP
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/23 12:34 AM
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Follow this advice OP
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/23 12:34 AM
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Fuck yea!!! No one is gonna want a 40 year old woman with 3 jobs and a room mate. All she had to do with be a caring, submissive, trustworthy wife and she would have been set for life. Fuck her. She gets what she deserves.
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/23 02:25 PM
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I 2nd this. I'm 33 and get 50 matches a week on bumble. Lots of good advice in her OP
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/23 04:42 PM
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This is the best advice your gonna get OP from a vet.
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/23 04:41 PM
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Unfortunately a lot of guys find themselves in the same position. They're happy to be married instead of happily married.
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/23 04:36 PM
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Lmao my man. Her claim to you is she's got all these men who want her? She's a 38 year old female with kids in tow. She's not desirable at all other than a pump and dump. She's gonna spend the next few years getting pumped and dumped and then she'll end up alone.
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/23 11:16 AM
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Lmao I like how she stated "I fell into another man's bed"
/r/Divorce_Men29/03/23 10:43 PM
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Yea she makes 9k a month and she'll be paying support to me
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/23 12:04 AM
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This my man is 2nd good advice
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/23 06:32 PM
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This my man is good advice
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/23 06:32 PM
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Thanks a lot for this. Great insight
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/23 09:10 PM
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Exactly my thinking right now. She literally has no plan. Did the relationship go back to normal during those 3 years? I figured there might be something similar out there
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/23 04:45 PM
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Lol why does it seem like the ex always wants to come back?
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/23 05:44 PM
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Hey man. Congrats on the 50/50 and I like where your mind is at post divorce. You need to start spinning 3-4 plates without the concern of an LTR in your mind. Some plates will hang around for 3-4 months. Some plates will have crazy monkey sex with you for a month and that's it. Some plates will fall off and break Some plates will never materialize into anything sexual. But after a year or two of spinning plates. There will be at least 1 who has hung around and wants to be in your frame and apar…
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/23 02:25 PM
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Congrats brother. Love hearing it. You're seeing light at the end of your tunnel. All our roads lead to that light.
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/23 11:19 PM
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When a woman says she needs "space" it means she wants room to go and fuck someone else. If she wasn't fucking someone else when she made that comment then she's out exploring what else is out there. Also marriage counseling is a waste of time You cannot negotiate desire. You think if you start doing more household chores she'll wanna fuck you more? Or if you tell the marriage counselor she needs to cook dinner more it's gonna make you both happy and desirable to each other? Your marriage is ove…
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/23 10:24 PM
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Yea my STBX is an entitled bitch who was given everything on her whim. Her brother is a fuck up too
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/23 09:15 PM
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Was OBS gonna leave her husband?
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/23 08:25 PM
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How did the talk go? What did she say?
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/23 02:04 AM
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Thanks a lot for your reply. How are you doing now?
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/23 01:53 AM
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That's good to know. My hours are flexible for the kids. I'm self employed and they spend a TON of time with me at work on the farm. I have 5 years of records for everyday they were with me at the farm. Because my wife was working, or traveling or partying.
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/23 01:44 AM
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Yea good point. I'm so pissed off about this. We agreed on 50/50 during the divorce talk and I wanted to play nice but after seeing her recordings im playing for keeps now
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/23 06:13 PM
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I thought about destroying it but she would definitely notice.
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/23 05:56 PM
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We've been together 8 years and married for 4 and the relationship has been great. She says I don't make enough money. Which has been partly by design to protect myself because threw a fit 2 years ago and it freaked me out so I wanted to protect myself in case of a divorce. She was making 140k with zero expenses. She's also a city girl who moved to the country.
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/23 05:56 PM
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Will that claim have any merit though considering I pull all the weight with the kids?
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/23 03:34 PM
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Ive got 5 years of records of everyday the kids have been with me at work. Marriage was only 4 years. How far ahead of me can she be when I'm already filing and she doesn't even have her divorce questionnaire filled out? It was stuffed in the folder of recorded work hours
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/23 03:01 PM
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I feel like this happens to a lot of women that get divorced.
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/23 10:59 AM
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Great to hear. Go as hard as you can at her. If she wants to blow up your family then make her fucking regret it.
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/23 02:23 AM
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If you want any relationship or future with your son. You're going to call up a family attorney first thing tomorrow morning as soon as their office opens. You will schedule a same day consultation. You will pay a retainer on a credit card your wife cannot see. You will receive a questionnaire and requested documents from that attorney via E-mail. You will complete those things within 2 days and send them back to the attorney. On day 4 or 5 you will go to the attorneys office and sign the affida…
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/23 02:04 AM
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My thoughts about my soon to be ex cunt and future parties.
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/23 09:47 PM
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3 days a month? That's awful man. I'm really sorry to hear that
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/23 10:38 AM
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Look up plate theory by Rollo Tomassi
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/23 12:40 PM
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Well said. How I'm doing dating.
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/23 12:39 PM
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Good fucking response. Love Rian Stone too.
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/23 07:21 PM
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Bro this is fucking gold. My STBX is pretty hot. She's 28 I'm 33. Other then being hot my STBX is shit and didn't really add a lot of value to my life. Yea she's fun but also a fucking slob and a shit mom. Thanks for this post. I'm ready to go nail some new ass.
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/23 03:36 AM
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Hey man. I understand you're going through some shit with your ex wife being a bitch. You're putting your entire adult identity into being a father firstly and secondly a husband or care taker of women. I say this respectfully but that's a shit way to live for two reasons. 1.) It's great you want to be a good father but you cannot sink your entire identity into it because as you're seeing in real time. Your kids can get taken away or you can be blocked from being involved in their lives. You nee…
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/23 06:36 PM
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Hey man. I'm sorry you feel like this. Going through a divorce myself right now and filing next week it's brutal emotionally. But you need to get your shit together first before you divorce your wife. You let her run rough shit all over you and your household Divorcing your bitch wife is the easy way out. You need to fix yourself first or in 1 year you'll be in the exact same position with a new woman. If you can't make the jump and you'd like to see things change with your wife. Read No More Mr…
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/23 07:18 PM
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Your responses in this were great. They helped me out. Thanks for that.
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/23 02:01 AM
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Shit dude. 5 years and still not finalized? That's torture.
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 03:45 AM
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Nailed it!
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/23 08:25 PM
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Just amazes me she still gets ton of attention with a resume like that. Maybe it's just me but that's a no go.
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/23 05:16 PM
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It's a shit test. Just ignore it.
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/23 05:15 PM
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Bro. Call a lawyer right now and do not let her know you're doing so. You got fucking used. You let her have a free ride while she got an advanced degree and enabled her to go and make more money than you and don't forget all while having a free ride. After getting her degree and being a white knight she's done with you Mr. Nice Guy. Stop simping. Fuck her. She doesn't deserve shit out of that house and she doesn't deserve any money paid back by you for the last 2 years she helped out. No more w…
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/23 03:20 PM
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Shit. I'm surprised she's still desirable enough in the sexual market place with a resume like that. Are these low value guys or what
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/23 02:36 PM
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Lol how old is your ex now?
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/23 01:54 PM
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Fuck yea. Good advice.
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/23 11:49 PM
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Lmao!!
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/23 06:12 PM
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Thanks a lot for this. I'm 33 and filing soon. This makes me feel a lot better.
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/23 06:07 PM
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The exact matrix my divorce is making me disconnect from.
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/23 03:49 AM
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Nailed it.
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/23 12:10 AM
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I'm going to do it in person. Do not talk to her about serious matters such as this or your relationship over text.
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/23 02:59 AM
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Some good answers and all are solid whether yes or no. I have everything ready to file as well. I'm going to ask her one last time if this is what she really wants. If she says yes. I'll just wait for her to get served.
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/23 02:51 AM
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Mines been checked out since October. Strange they don't just go and file themselves.
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/23 08:03 PM
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You're absolutely correct and good post. My lawyer has papers ready to file and I just can't pull the fucking trigger. I know its over but fuck it's hard.
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/23 06:51 PM
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Take whatever money is available and go get yourself an apartment. If she wants you gone then prove it
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/23 05:50 PM
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Shit. Any savings?
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/23 05:29 PM
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Whose house is it?
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/23 05:25 PM
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Good for you man. And great insight to share as well. Your story help put things into perspective for me.
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/23 06:29 PM
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Great Story. Thanks a lot for sharing. How old were you when you got married and then divorced? And also how old were you when you got remarried? Just thinking about my map. I'm 33 currently and filing this week.
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/23 05:57 PM
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Damn good advice
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/23 03:26 PM
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Nah you're in the right place. But you cannot control your wife's emotions or decisions. It sucks and it's hard I know. I'm filing this week. If you want any chance of saving it. Do not beg for her back. Do not ask her to stay. Just act normal give her space. And call a lawyer for a consult ASAP. I still think she's bluffing.
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/23 02:09 AM
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I doubt she's seriously gonna divorce you. But call her bluff. Tell her next time she's gonna threaten you with a divorce she better have papers in her hand. And if she wants out then she knows where the door is.
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/23 01:53 AM
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Already some good advice on here. Sounds like you've done a lot of things right. And by that I mean you didn't turn into a fat comfortable guy in a marriage. You continued to work out and have a social circle you did things with. You can either go see a lawyer now (DO NOT TELL HER YOURE DOING THIS) get everything drawn up and ready to serve. Or you live the way things are for your kids and the comfort without the hassle of untangling your lives. While you go out and fuck whatever you want. Your …
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/23 10:31 PM
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Did your wife really use the word "Finna"
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/23 07:12 PM
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Dude I checked out that sub you linked. Damn is it fucking miserable. Poor souls in there.
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/23 03:26 AM
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DO NOT mention divorce to her until you have divorce papers in your hand or the papers are at your lawyers office ready to be filed. If she's really that crazy she'll run off with the kids or try to accuse you of DV or rape or begin to make large irrational financial decisions. Having everything lined up and ready to be filed or filed gives you legal protections. Like keeping the kids in the home. Making it so that if she goes ape shit and racks up 30k in credit card debt it'll all be on her. Ac…
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/23 03:15 AM
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Good job. That's what it's gonna take. I understand the emotional toll you're going through. I'm going through it also. But I don't want to know what my STBX is up to. I'm focused on myself. As you should be as well.
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/23 02:21 AM
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Bro you're keeping that so you can keep tabs on your ex wife still. Be honest with your self. Unfriend her on that stuff ASAP. It's not healthy or necessary. She needs removed from your daily life so you can move on.
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/23 01:11 AM
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My wife and I are currently separated but still living together. I've banged 50 different women and have been with hundreds. I'm above average looks and in great physical shape. I downloaded tinder to try and get someone quick to bang. I just didn't have the emotional availability to even put in the minimal effort to bang someone. I'm right there with you. Don't know what it is but even the desire the masturbate isn't there. I'm 33 too.
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/23 07:28 PM
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Can confirm. Became pretty red pilled by my bitch wife who is blowing up the family.
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/23 04:34 AM
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Hey man. I'm sorry you feel like this. Going through a divorce myself right now and filing next week it's brutal emotionally. But you need to get your shit together first before you divorce your wife. You let her run rough shit all over you and your household Divorcing your bitch wife is the easy way out. You need to fix yourself first or in 1 year you'll be in the exact same position with a new woman. If you can't make the jump and you'd like to see things change with your wife. Read No More Mr…
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/23 09:24 PM
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I agree with you completely. Therapy is based on feminine ideology. It's trash and destroys marriages
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/23 01:32 PM
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I agree. My wife went to see a therapist and it made the marriage worse. It became a 30 minute bitch session about me while the therapist just ended up reinforcing my wife's feelings.
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/23 12:37 PM
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Finish the book. I didn't get a ton from it personally. I'm kind of a dick anymore but there's a ton of career betas out there that truly benefit from it. The best parts of it for me was where he talked about covert contracts. And also having sex for yourself and not trying to have sex for the woman to please her.
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/23 03:33 AM
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Yea the shit is fucking miserable. A bunch of bullshit myself and you don't want to deal with or handle. The woman you married is not the woman you're divorcing. Stay stern and work the legal process and do not give an inch. Stay involved with your kids and try to keep a normal routine as hard as it is. Read No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover Then read The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi. We're men. We need to fucking act like it. This shit sucks and is miserable. We will prosper one way or an…
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/23 01:47 AM
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Yea I'm 5'11 and physically fit and above average looks. Tinder has definitely gone down since the last time I was on it when I was 25.
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/23 01:41 AM
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Oh yea I know it will be. Just pretty raw right now as we haven't even filed yet. I hope I can get to that point sooner than later.
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/23 12:24 AM
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Have a strategy meeting with my lawyer tomorrow. Thanks for this.
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/23 12:22 AM
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Thanks a lot for this. It's looking like it's gonna be contentious divorce unfortunately.
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/23 11:49 PM
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Starting of the process of divorcing my wife currently. Two young boys involved. I've banged 50 different women. Have been with hundreds. When I met my wife I gamed her per usual and wow she was incredible and entered my frame quickly. She was what I was looking for and thought she was my soul mate. 8 years later and 4 years of marriage it's over. I tried getting on Tinder this week to find a random girl to fuck. I just don't have the emotional availability to even try and find someone to bang r…
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/23 11:44 PM
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I actually stopped watching porn this week. What other books did you read?
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/23 07:10 PM
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How long after reading The Rational Male until you started feeling better? I just ordered it today. I'm 33 by the way. Wife is 28. 2 kids
/r/Divorce_Men08/02/23 10:30 PM
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Great post. Loved reading it.
/r/Divorce_Men07/02/23 03:23 AM
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Well said. Red pill although is a great way to navigate women and will certainly position you better in a relationship but it is by no means a silver bullet. Women still have the ability to do what they want.
/r/Divorce_Men07/02/23 03:13 AM
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I'll give it a go. Yes
/r/Divorce_Men06/02/23 10:09 PM
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Bro. Divorcing your bitch wife is the easy way out. You need to fix yourself first or in 1 year you'll be in the exact same position with a new woman. If you can't make the jump and you'd like to see things change with your wife. Read No More Mr Nice Guy by Robert Glover Then read. When I Say No I Feel Guilty by Manuel Smith Then read Married Man Sex Life Primer by Athol Kay. You need to start going to the gym 3 to 4 days a week and lift weights. At your age you need to have your testosterone le…
/r/Divorce_Men06/02/23 03:49 PM
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Oh yea there's good women on there. Takes some time though the same as if you were approaching women in person.
/r/Divorce_Men05/02/23 09:22 PM
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I met my wife on Tinder when I was 25 and she was 21. We're getting divorced 8 years later. Honestly one of the best girls I've ever met and I've been with hundreds. But the relationship ran it's course and doesn't like the farming life style. She's one of a million not one in a million. Gonna heal and move onto the next one.
/r/Divorce_Men05/02/23 01:54 PM
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This is absolutely correct. You're a brand.
/r/Divorce_Men05/02/23 01:52 PM
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No I didn't get that far in the texts. Just got two confirming messages. Took photos with my phone then dropped her back where I found it.
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/23 03:42 AM
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Worse to get served than to serve her ?
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/23 12:04 AM
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Yup. You're exactly right. I've become extremely red pilled the last 4 months.
/r/Divorce_Men29/01/23 11:56 PM
1

I appreciate that. Lol funny to that we were in the same shoes. When did the sex stop for you?
/r/Divorce_Men29/01/23 11:52 PM
1

When did sex stop for you?
/r/Divorce_Men29/01/23 11:03 PM
9

Thanks a lot for this
/r/Divorce_Men29/01/23 08:19 PM
4

Thanks a lot for that. I was gonna get put on the LLC for the family farm a few years ago but the wife pulled some shit and scared me so I refused to be added yet to protect the assets. Turned out to be a great idea.
/r/Divorce_Men29/01/23 07:35 PM
17

Damn. Thanks for this.
/r/Divorce_Men29/01/23 06:00 PM
13

I'd like to get primary custody. I spend more time with the kids than anyone else. Take them to the baby sitter and preschool All laundry and dishes. Put them to bed and bath them. They even come to work with me when she works night shift. 3 to 4 days a week. I have 4 years of records of everyday they came to work with me for whatever reason.
/r/Divorce_Men29/01/23 06:00 PM
4

Yea I could see this getting nasty. She's not gonna want to only see the kids every other weekend.
/r/Divorce_Men29/01/23 05:46 PM
18

I'm starting to wonder if shes starting to emotionally cheat. No sex since January 1st
/r/Divorce_Men29/01/23 05:11 PM
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I'm in Ohio. And yea she would want to move to the city which is an hour away. Lawyer said on Friday I have a greater than 50% chance to get residential custody since I'm the primary care giver and the kids have only ever lived in my house.
/r/Divorce_Men29/01/23 05:10 PM
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Exactly right. Hop over to the married red pill sub reddit. Read the side bar and lift. And STFU with your wife until you read those books and the have the skills to handle her. High value men don't engage with verbal vomit with women.
/r/Divorce_Men29/01/23 01:00 AM
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If you can't make the jump and you'd like to see things change with your wife. Read No More Mr Nice Guy by Robert Glover Then read. When I Say No I Feel Guilty by Manuel Smith Then read Married Man Sex Life Primer by Athol Kay. You need to start going to the gym 3 to 4 days a week and lift weights. At your age you need to have your testosterone levels checked as well. You need to start developing a life outside of your wife. The gym is the first step to that. Join a martial arts gym next. Go hik…
/r/Divorce_Men29/01/23 12:12 AM
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I would have rathered of had sex but that hasn't happened since January 1st. I felt like the handjob offer was something to offer as a replacement for sex as if she wasn't going to do that anymore.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/23 11:15 AM
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I agree. I'm inbetween being angry. And STFU. I'm naturally talkative and upbeat. But STFU seems to be working better for me currently. If she engages with me I'm normal and talkative.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/23 08:25 PM
3

I cut my teeth in the mystery method from age 17-25 when I met my wife and gamed her. I don't have approach anxiety at all. It was a big ass covert contract on Saturday that left me sorely disappointed to not get a response.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/23 08:23 PM
2

OYS: 3 Basics: 5'11. 160 pounds. 32 years old. Wife 28 years old. 2 kids under 5. 14% BF Read: NMMG. TWOTSM. The Book of Pook. PFP. WISNIFG Reading: MMSLP Lifting: Bench 125 3x8 Mission: To grow my dairy farm to be the largest in the state. To lead my wife and kids in all areas . Career: Dairy farmer milking 200 cows. Im not gonna get my milk quality issues totally sorted out by the end of the month. The numbers are trending downwards but it's not enough to move the averages to avoid the 10k ded…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/23 01:07 PM
1

Tear into me. I'm here to own my shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/23 04:46 PM
1

OYS: 2 Basics: 5'11 160 pounds. 32 years old. Wife is 28 with 2 kids under 5. 14%BF Read: NMMNG, TWOTSM, The book of book, PFP Reading: WISNIFG- waiting on MMSLP to come in the mail. Lifting: Bench 125 8x24 Mission: To grow my dairy farm to be the largest in the state and to lead my wife and kids in all areas. Career: Dairy farmer milking 200 cows. Having milk quality issues right now. I've got one quality problem fixed. I'm now working on correcting the other 2 issues. If the problems are not f…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/23 03:22 PM
1

As someone whose 3 months into his MRP journey. I've gone full retard in that time span but have been reading and calibrating. Playing around with the tools to see what works and doesn't work for my situation. My biggest take away here that hit home for me is when you said "if I do X, then she'll do Y" I need to rid that mentality. Use the tools and fall into OI.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/23 06:31 PM
1

I wake up at 5 am. Take the youngest to the baby sitter by 5:45 am. Start work at 6 am. Leave work at 8:45 am to take oldest to preschool. Return to work by 9 am. Work until 2 pm. Drive to the gym. Lift for 1 hour until 3 pm. Pick kids up on the way home from the gym. Have them with me at work from 3:15 pm until 7:30-8:00 pm. Come home and immediately start picking up the house or doing laundry or dishes. I will do this until 10 pm. I then eat and read until 11 pm. Shower from 11:00-11:30 pm. Th…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/23 05:35 PM
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OYS: 1 Basics: 5'11 160 pounds 14% BF 33 years old married 4 years wife is 28 with 2 kids under 5 Read: NMMNG, PFP, TWOTSM, The Book of Pook Reading: WISNIFG Mission: Grow my dairy farm to become one of the largest in my state. To lead in all areas of my life. From work to my children and family. Career: I'm a dairy farmer with plans to expand the business in 2023. I work 12-14 hours a day 6-7 days a week. Finances: currently making 35k a year with a 300 dollar a month pay raise I'm giving mysel…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/23 03:28 PM
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