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Yep classic projection from her. She even noted that " everyone seems to be in recruitment " , eluding to when she was on apps 18months ago....
/r/askTRP16/03/21 09:24 PM
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Disqualify via hard next or communicate? AWALT man.....
/r/askTRP16/03/21 09:06 PM
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Fair point .
/r/askTRP16/03/21 08:55 PM
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No I have moved back now . Been dating her for a few months , a plate I am vetting for LTR.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 08:47 PM
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These 7 stone hoes going to pull and lay cable on the underground/subway/tube all night every night ? They going to work on the nightly road crews ? They going to drive 18 wheelers across the country delivering their amazon shit ? Nah , they want to sit at a desk at 10am writing some bullshit blog .
/r/MGTOW215/03/21 07:18 AM
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Bottom line is if she was healthy she would be actively looking for someone better than you . Empathy is normal and if she is a friend than of course support her! You have done no wrong by the sounds of it you enriched her life but don't forget the bigger picture. Thousands of men have taken their own lives due to women punishing the shit out of their BP ways. Don't turn your back on the truth now.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 04:10 PM
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Kept repeating the process of Meeting a girl that I wasn't overly fussed about , just wanted to bang a few times and chill with . She would be putty in my hands for the first few months when I didn't give a shit , said what I wanted , offended her , flaked and didn't think twice about any interaction with her. Now after this period I would usually start to catch " feelings " . Put in more " effort " , be more romantic etc , ask her to be my girlfriend etc etc. I would also fear losing her. Then …
/r/askTRP01/03/21 03:39 PM
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Oneitis alert.....
/r/askTRP01/03/21 03:32 PM
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If you are running constant passive dread , if you have never FULLY validated her and you are keeping on top of your shit , she will only be interested in you .
/r/askTRP27/02/21 01:41 PM
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Women sense this shit . They know when it's a game . They know when you truly don't give a fuck , that's why the girls you don't care about and don't stress about response times with are the ones who keep hitting you up. You need to just reply when it's convenient while looking for better pussy.
/r/askTRP27/02/21 04:55 AM
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I guarantee you lost frame in multiple other ways you haven't mentioned. Either that or she is BPD. Either way man , I feel for you , I have been there .
/r/TheRedPill23/02/21 07:01 AM
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My last two LTR's would both tell me the intimate secrets of their best female friends. Out of about 10 of these friends, 7 were married the rest were in LTR's. Every single one of these women were "talking" to other men , had their eye on other men and were planning ( quite literally) on leaving their partners over the course of me hearing these stories. 2 or 3 did leave their men , heartbroken as fuck and took the kids aswell. The other lot just cheated , emotionally several times over instagr…
/r/askTRP23/02/21 06:48 AM
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No worries bro. You got this . Take her off that pedestal , she is history to you.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 04:59 AM
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Your "insecurities" can never be correct. You should never be insecure over a fucking female. You are the prize. Girls will be looking for the bigger better deal, and if they find it , your turn is over . It's the game . Keep your SMV as high as possible, maintain frame, stick to your purpose; that's your end of the bargain ; if she wants to be a hoe at this point then so be it . That's why you move on to the next one , and the next one . Abundance . Abundance . Abundance.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 04:57 AM
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You are already SUFFERING . That much is clear. Oneitis related anxiety that will take over your life and make every day a rollercoaster of you waiting to hear from her , hoping she is showing IOI and second guessing all of your interactions with her. No life that . Nip this in the bud right now. Dump her . She is a basket case and you are in her frame. You need to read the sidebar and get the basics down . Hard next this one though, she is BPD so by default not LTR material. Dumping her ass is …
/r/askTRP20/02/21 04:50 AM
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All part of being a "rational male" - knowing the cold hard truth and accepting it .
/r/askTRP16/02/21 04:13 AM
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Lack of interest in women is fine . If you are not interested , have no desire at the moment , then what is the problem? You're not missing out or negatively affected by it because you don't want it. An ideal opportunity to get your head down monk mode and increase your SMV for the future.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 03:49 AM
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You set a boundary , she crosses it , and you try and change the boundary to excuse/rationalise/accomodate her behaviour because you have a case of oneitis? She's a complete liar who should be hard nexted and in your rear view . Fucking get a grip bro. Enjoy living in her frame !
/r/askTRP14/02/21 03:45 AM
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You sound better off as a serial plate spinner my friend . LTR's aren't for you.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 03:19 AM
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Fair point. I will stick to one word answers for the texts and dodging the calls .
/r/askTRP12/02/21 02:20 AM
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You have LTR'd her. Validated her , she has you . The sex has now become transactional. Dread game time and stop making her your priority .
/r/askTRP12/02/21 02:08 AM
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no biggie either way. She can either hamster spin her way into my bed more often or disappear completely.
/r/askTRP12/02/21 01:45 AM
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Have you vetted her for potential LTR? If she's not LTR material then just hard next her and wait for time to heal the oneitis if it's that bad, all the while spinning your other plates and sticking to your grind. But remember , hard next is a hard next. She is dead to you. It isn't a tactic or a variation of dread game . She no longer exists , move forward.
/r/askTRP12/02/21 01:19 AM
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Her turn with you is over. AWALT, hypergamy , hoes being hoes. She is an irrelevance to you from this point on .
/r/askTRP12/02/21 01:04 AM
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Brad Pitt was famous at his college campus for being next level handsome and charming ( true story ) . Play to your strengths. Find yours.
/r/askTRP12/02/21 12:58 AM
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Thanks for the reply. I have absolutely allowed and rewarded it - and to be honest it wouldn't be that big a problem if I was fucking her slightly more , the juice is worth the squeeze but the fact it is STOPPING me from getting that extra lay per week is annoying. Going to stop picking up her calls and instead text her saying i'm working out/about to watch a movie etc and hope she has a nice night . Basically shut everything down that isn't her making a plan to meet.
/r/askTRP12/02/21 12:54 AM
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The most common conversation I remember hearing and having as a male back in the day (18-25) was one that went like " Why is it the girls I don't care about are the ones that are really into me, and the ones I try with are harder to get....or why was she more in to me when we first got together but once I developed feelings she pulled away?" The answer was always because guys prioritise and pedestal these girls , which turns them off massively and leads to rejection . When a girl is unsure about…
/r/seduction10/02/21 10:49 PM
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Hard next. Red flags galore. My ex LTR started posting her selfies to her story rather than just her profile in order to get reactions ( essentially DM's ) as oppose to just likes....this was 100% her way of inviting men to DM her, as the timing coincided perfectly with me losing frame . The fact she also removed you from being able to see it tells you everything you need to know. Hypergamy .
/r/askTRP10/02/21 10:17 PM
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Some of the OP's lately making this place feel like a mainstream dating sub for blue pillers. Fucking sidebar.......
/r/askTRP08/02/21 02:48 PM
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Let them text you . You want her to initiate communication 90% of the time. If she is interested she will text you.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 02:47 PM
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Depends on your SMV . If it is very high a girl will view your inaction as you having so much abundance that you don't need to pursue her and the assumption is that you are getting other , hotter girls. Can make her more attracted.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/21 01:17 PM
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The mainstream left has brainwashed you in to feeling victimised. Snap out of it .
/r/askTRP05/02/21 11:37 AM
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Maybe they were in 2002 . But now now.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 10:16 AM
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You slowly but surely lost frame to the point you were a needy , oneitis ridden jealous mess living in her frame . She lost respect and attraction for you as a result , and , because she is a female , pulled away and started lying to you as to why " not comfortable with pre-marital sex" even though it was sex toys and outfits back when she was living in your frame. All this shit about her leaving because of what you did in the past is bullshit - she loved that guy - she fucked that guy on the re…
/r/askTRP02/02/21 05:59 PM
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OP will be thinking he's found another unicorn before you know it .......
/r/askTRP01/02/21 11:33 AM
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Snap is where they hypergamy their little tush's off.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 11:14 AM
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Realise LTR's are not for you and don't lose another 2 years of your life to oneitis .
/r/askTRP01/02/21 11:04 AM
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It's their fault for being ignorant about the nature of women when the truth is out there and can be learned. Anyone that doesn't realise AWALT are going to end up heartbroken .
/r/askTRP01/02/21 09:12 AM
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Did you set a clear boundary about her not having unprotected sex with coworkers ??? If not sidebar and lift homie .
/r/askTRP31/01/21 07:34 PM
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The point about fuck them then wait for them to contact you is so simple but effective . It's akin to assuming every girl is a soft next and it fucking works.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/21 07:08 PM
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Manchester isn't a sprawl like London , has one city centre , and a couple of big roads that lead to the city centre so its fairly simple to navigate . Chorlton might be the ideal place for you it is a fairly gentrified black area so you have a mix of people there , plenty of black barbers , cultural food etc and its 10 minute tram ( their tube) to the city centre . Full of birds aswell , lived there for a year was awesome. Not sure how much more expensive it is compared to Leeds but I have hear…
/r/askTRP31/01/21 04:00 PM
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Im 31 now Londoner but spend 6 years in MCR (20-26) - I couldn't recommend it highly enough . You will discover new music , new people, new tastes , styles , and the city just has a magic to it . Very friendly and absolutely full of pussy , my god. 100,000 students live there . 8s 9s and 10s absolutely everywhere. Do it. There is a large black community in the city aswell , not too different from London in that respect. Massive Asian/muslim population also but they live in their own areas and ke…
/r/askTRP31/01/21 08:54 AM
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Female friends destroy relationships. Their input is never good. They meddle , interfere and never have good intentions , they want their friends to be single. This is no exception - they have got inside her head and planned this ultimatum . Team effort. You told her you needed more time , explained your position and essentially set a boundary . She goes against it 24 hours later, and then sets an ultimatum and acts pissy with you when she doesn't instantly get her way . The only course of actio…
/r/askTRP29/01/21 02:06 PM
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Downgrade to plate and treat with complete indifference, like any other plate. She's not LTR worthy.
/r/askTRP29/01/21 06:02 AM
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Getting laid by chicks you don't know or care about is easy. It's spinning regular plates and even more so managing LTR's where trp will make all the difference.Random chicks will bang you pretty easily as you are by default a stranger so are mysterious , she hasn't beta'd you yet and you haven't fully validated her. You are also new and shiny as oppose to her partner or ex. Hard to fuck up at that point.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/21 05:36 AM
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Tell her she's scoring some brownie points ( you're the prize ) , compliment but not too hard ie " wouldn't kick that out of bed ".
/r/askTRP28/01/21 01:14 AM
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These bitches think they can upgrade to chad thundercock just because some of her HB6 girl friends have matched and fucked chads on tinder . She branch swings because she wants some of the hot alpha action her friends are telling her about. She dumps you and she gives it a go , matches , gets fucked , strung along , and ghosted by 2 or 3 chads and then realises that just because you can fuck 10/10 dudes doesn't mean you can LTR them. This realisation hits them and they come back to their former …
/r/askTRP28/01/21 12:50 AM
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She is feeling a form of rejection as you have blocked her and disappeared. Do not meet up with her. She has built you up in her head as some mythical God like creature ( nostalgia, rose tinted specs and your lack of availability have done wonders for her perception of you ) . Let her keep that vision , and let it hurt her. If you meet up with her , you will instantly relieve the feeling of rejection she has - you will probably end up fucking her at which point she will have successfully re-vali…
/r/askTRP28/01/21 12:39 AM
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Girls can't rationalise why they fuck/want to fuck certain dudes, most of the reasons they come up with are just regurgitated cliche bullshit. Don't judge them by their words, but by their actions . These will be the same chicks that say they want a Dad bod gent who will hold the door open .
/r/seduction27/01/21 02:58 PM
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Ah the classic " why do you want to be seen as a man so badly? " - other hits include " A strong , secure man wouldn't mind me hanging around with male friends "
/r/askTRP27/01/21 04:41 AM
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75% of the plates I have spun in the last 12 years have been in LTR's. All my LTR's cheated on me, when i was blue pill and red pill. AWALT. Most of the chicks my boys are dealing with or chatting to seem to have men . My last LTR had a close circle of 3 or 4 friends and they were all cheating/planning to leave/monkey branching throughout their relationships, heard all the gossip first hand. They cheat emotionally . They cheat physically , far far more. They are cold as ice and have level 99DGAF…
/r/askTRP27/01/21 01:03 AM
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"Stings" to be called a 7 does it ? Did you reassure him that you think of him as more than a 5.5? Or is his self esteem/feelings secondary to you getting your validation fix from strangers online?
/r/askTRP27/01/21 12:58 AM
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Flake if you can have a believable excuse would be ideal, but meeting and friendzoning will still be effective imo.
/r/seduction19/01/21 07:08 AM
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Spot on . Stick with us OP.
/r/seduction19/01/21 05:10 AM
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Just tell her no , you're pretty swamped at the moment , but hope she's doing well. The most powerful word you can say is no. Attraction will increase massively. She's only looking to re-validate herself because she hasn't seen you in a while and wonders if she can still have you. As soon as you show you are ready and waiting she will fuck you off again . If you want to get and keep this girl in any capacity , you have to say no , let her chase. Once she asks 2-3 times , sure meet up. But make s…
/r/seduction19/01/21 04:15 AM
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Worked in one of the biggest student nightclubs in Manchester back in the day , 5 nights a week, me and my best mate worked and lived together . Fucked 2-3 different women a week. They would wait outside drunk as skunks in the cold for half an hour while we clean down etc then it was back to ours. Boyfriend's back in their hometown a good 50% of the time. Another time I fucked this woman , alot older than me at the time early 30s but sexy as fuck, was on a hen night. Found her on Facebook - happ…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/21 12:54 AM
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This is absolutely better than losing frame , becoming Beta and being nice. However , with most plates this will need to be dialled in slightly, and with LTR's obviously dialled in a fair bit more. Principles are right though , girls will fuck for these reasons.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/21 12:44 AM
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inb4 just be yourself , stop playing games and the universe will send you the right person xoxo
/r/seduction17/01/21 03:55 PM
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Kindness and respect are not even on the list of attractive qualities, especially when it comes to initial attraction , sexual attraction and this is particularly true for women in their 20s. Judge women on their actions , not their words. What they claim to want and what they actively pursue are entirely different. They may try and rationalise why they are attracted to someone , but that will likely not be the fundamental reason. A woman will be attracted to/pursue a man because of the followin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 02:43 AM
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And this is a 30 year old divorcee.......Don't even get me started om the 23 year olds. They are all selfish and out for themselves. They don't love. They love validation , they love attention and they love what you can do for them . They don't give a fuck about sensitivity , or your feelings. Treat them the same . Don't take it to heart. Short guys get a hard time but eventually so does everyone else that invests/cares. Leave them to it, they are the inferior gender. Fuck them , fuck with their…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/21 06:51 PM
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Lift some weights, grow your hair out a bit . You need better style, but you have alot of potential my friend.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 11:39 PM
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If I was 21 I wouldnt give a fuck. Absolutely no rush . Just focus on one thing at a time. If I was you I would start gym/lifting to a seriously committed level. Do an extreme amount of research . Get on all the supps/gear you can . Become an adonis . In a year you could be in a whole different place as long as you don't have absolute dog shit genetics. You'll get more respect and more pussy and it will teach you about progress and patience. One day you are going to wish to fuck you could turn b…
/r/askTRP17/12/20 11:58 AM
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OP got oneitis for a single mum plate.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 11:59 PM
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Just text him saying you done him a favour , AWALT.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 01:04 AM
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Without context I will give you the basic framework on how to act. Tell her calmly what she did that crossed your boundaries , and tell her that if she does it again , you will walk away . If she doesnt accept this or tries to start another argument , do not engage , do not get emotional, simply walk away , and put her on ice for a week. Then resume normal relationship. Punish her by removing attention . If she insists on re opening the argument or causing more drama , you walk away for good. Se…
/r/askTRP09/12/20 08:41 AM
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