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Yeah if anything, get mad about Amazon's exploitative business practices
/r/MensRights22/10/20 12:41 PM
30

No I'm pretty sure that men can and do commit suicide regardless of their relationship with their mother.
/r/MensRights20/12/19 02:04 PM
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Yeah she's still got a promising business opportunity right there.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/11/19 03:58 PM
37

And not being an unsanitary idiot
/r/MensRights02/11/19 04:18 PM
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Wow you're basically a woman
/r/MGTOW29/10/19 01:22 PM
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I mean I see both sides to this. Long term relationships can still have rape in them, even if the couple has had sex hundreds of times already. I think the point is that you have to look at the accusation as a single instance because that's what it is. It doesn't matter how many times prior you've consented because that one time that you don't, and they have sex with you anyway, that is rape. But then on the other hand, what else do you even use as evidence to protect yourself in a rape accusati…
/r/MensRights24/09/19 05:53 PM
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Are you serious? It's like you aren't even reading my post, you're just trying to sweep it out of your mind. Do you have a source for this? In my years, I've never known a man to say, "I beat my wife to prove my manhood." Control issues exist in relationships and are seen from both men and women. This is not a gendered issue. This is not toxic masculinity. This is simply bad behavior. No, a person likely won't say "yeah I feel manly when I beat my woman into submission" but are you saying that t…
/r/MensRights20/08/19 05:33 PM
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Unfortunately, yes it does exist. People do bad things in the name of masculinity all the time. People hurt their wives physically or emotionally because they're the man and they have to be in control. People get into physical altercations to prove their machismo. People suffer through mental health problems because it's "unmanly" to ask for help. Toxic masculinity can hurt a lot of people. All for the simple cause of gender identification. That's not to say that women can't also do these things…
/r/MensRights20/08/19 02:05 PM
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I dont think so, no. But as long as people are going to do so, I'll continue to reframe that perception. I never said viewing behavior through a gender lens is a good idea, I only said that it's what people are already doing anyway. If people want to try to define masculinity then so be it. It's only natural to do so. If you want to define it further and say "these aspects are good, these are not" then I completely understand. But ideally we wouldn't frame any behavior by the gender of the perpe…
/r/MensRights20/08/19 12:45 PM
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I think we're saying the same thing here really. No, there is no specific behavior that one gender exclusively performs that I can think of. That's why it's ridiculous to associate gender with behavior, or anything for that matter. Gender is pointless. So no, I don't believe that we should have different mental interpretations of various behaviors based on which gender executed that action. But regardless of whether or not we should form biases like this, I'm saying that we do it anyway. Like yo…
/r/MensRights20/08/19 12:10 PM
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Is it? Why even have the words masculine and feminine at all if we don't use them to categorize behavior, whether that be good or bad behavior?
/r/MensRights20/08/19 10:39 AM
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You may not realize it, but it already gets applied automatically. Humans are bias machines, we process this data and form stereotypes based on gender all the time.
/r/MensRights20/08/19 09:48 AM
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I'm just saying it how it is. It's not ideal obviously, but that's just how the brain categorizes it.
/r/MensRights19/08/19 11:44 PM
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I never said anything about feminism. I firmly believe that both genders have traits that are largely associated with their own gender rather than both or neither. For example, a woman who hits a man because she's a woman and knows the guy won't fight back is an example of toxic femininity. Playing the victim to manipulate the real victim... But likewise, toxic masculinity exists as well. For example, a man who feels the need to defend his masculinity by acts of aggression and dominance because …
/r/MensRights19/08/19 08:34 PM
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Daily reminder that "toxic masculinity" does not mean "all masculinity is toxic."
/r/MensRights19/08/19 07:43 PM
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Well autism is very different than downs.... And I don't think you can detect it in the womb like you can with downs syndrome.
/r/MensRights20/07/19 05:27 PM
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You've got a point. You put it very harshly, but you do have a point.
/r/MensRights20/07/19 04:20 PM
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People have been throwing around "toxic femininity" ever since "toxic masculinity" became a buzzword, but nobody has ever had a clear example of what that meant. I now appreciate exactly what that would mean. This is a great example
/r/MensRights03/07/19 02:06 PM
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Because both are relevant to the conversation...?
/r/MensRights18/06/19 09:06 PM
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Sure, I would agree that some men handle it in a less "toxic" manner, not hiding behind machismo but actually fearing the same things that a woman would fear, but it's certainly a factor. Why is everyone ignoring the fact that they said social stigma is also to blame? It's like you want to be offended or something
/r/MensRights18/06/19 07:50 PM
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I disagree, what they said is “....This is due to toxic masculinity and the stigma surrounding sexual violence against men” Sounds to me like that's a social problem perpetuated across the board.
/r/MensRights18/06/19 07:17 PM
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I know you're saying this to mock this logic, but it's true. Women don't report because they're afraid they'll go unheard, that they'll end up causing more trouble to themselves than help, or because they feel powerless in the face of the situation, etc. Men, on the other hand, tend towards more ideals such as "I don't want to look weak," or "I'm a man, I can't let people know I'm hurting." It's a different dynamic entirely. Sure, I would agree that some men handle it in a less "toxic" manner, n…
/r/MensRights18/06/19 06:35 PM
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I think that would fall under the social stigma category which they mentioned. Toxic masculinity is the idea of "I have to hide my emotions because it's unmanly to feel bad after being assaulted." Whereas a female acting with toxicity would be as a result of social stigma and peer pressure. "You can't have been assaulted, you got hard, didn't you?" Is not a gendered phrase per se, but is possibly associated with a female response to male assault. Kind of an internal vs external dynamic. Only a m…
/r/MensRights18/06/19 06:29 PM
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I mean they're not wrong. That is exactly why men don't report their assault.
/r/MensRights18/06/19 05:12 PM
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Yeah, and that's the problem.
/r/MensRights13/03/19 07:44 PM
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That's fair. I just think one of the major downfalls of feminism was the idea that "a fellow feminist can do no wrong, because she does it for feminism" paired with the "if you aren't with us, you're against us" mentality. Sometimes a little self-analysis is a good thing
/r/MensRights13/03/19 05:54 PM
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This post fails to do either effectively
/r/MensRights13/03/19 05:15 PM
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I'm just saying, it's easy to ignore the men's rights movement if this kind of thing is what makes the top or your charts. It's not about convincing feminists that they're wrong... That's not likely to happen. It's about convincing the rest of the world, the neutral parties, that men need advocating as well. Pointing out flaws with feminists isnt going to gain nearly as much ground as you would get if you point out the actual problems which men face in society.
/r/MensRights13/03/19 04:48 PM
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I agree, many feminist topics miss the mark by far. But what action can be taken against an oppressive government? Especially if you aren't a citizen of that government, you're pretty powerless to evoke any change whatsoever.
/r/MensRights13/03/19 04:12 PM
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That's fair, but what are we going to do, ship all American feminists off to third world eastern countries? Ignoring problems on one side of the world because problems on the other side of the world are worse doesn't make any sense. I don't think there's necessarily a "rape culture" in the west, but according to a quick Google search, 15-20% of women in America will experience rape in their lifetime. That's a pretty high number, regardless. Even if you assume half of those are false allegations,…
/r/MensRights13/03/19 03:18 PM
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Boiling down all of feminism to just one point really doesn't help the Men's Rights cause... Both of these movements are extremely complex, and we can't just say "there are no marry your rapist laws in the west, so feminism is bs." That only serves as justification for them to blow off the men's rights movement as being narrow-minded
/r/MensRights13/03/19 02:11 PM
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As if calling it gender based prejudice makes it any better
/r/MensRights11/01/19 03:07 PM
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I'll be honest, that list did have a lot of good things that I wasn't expecting. The energy section was an absolute shitshow for the environment... But like I said, I'm decently surprised. Anyway. Do you have a source for your stats on male vs female tax contribution and male vs female welfare usage? I've been searching to try to find a solid answer and I can't find much of anything about who uses welfare. The only thing I could find was pretty dates (about 10 years old) and it showed relatively…
/r/MensRights09/01/19 09:29 PM
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You really think that at this point the government would allow itself to shrink? I don't care who men vote into office, they aren't doing anything to decrease their own power. If taxes need to be lowered, then they lower taxes and just add the difference to the national debt. I mean look at Trump... Men voted for him under the assumption that good things would happen. Draining the swamp, cutting taxes (for more than just the wealthy elite), replacing Obamacare with his own better plan, building …
/r/MensRights09/01/19 08:11 PM
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What woman hurt you? You seem to have a personal vendetta against them. I get what you're saying about decreased federal government to decrease the desire of the rich to buy them. That makes sense. I'd be fine with transferring more of the power down to the state level, but I don't see that happening either with or without women voting. So, then we get to women being the ones who vote for higher taxes without contributing their share. Again, this is largely due to the fact that fewer women are h…
/r/MensRights09/01/19 06:36 PM
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I thought it was the other way around?
/r/MensRights09/01/19 05:44 PM
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It's not the right answer because, whether or not the result has been positive, they still have that right to express their own opinions and beliefs through voting. And as far as I know, there isn't any change in tax percentages based on gender. Maybe men earn more overall and therefore contribute more taxes. I would think more men would own land and property, or at least have them in his name if it's for his family, so there's another source of taxes coming from men. But how is that a woman's f…
/r/MensRights09/01/19 04:56 PM
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So what then? Are you saying women should never have been allowed to vote? Because that's obviously not the right answer here.
/r/MensRights09/01/19 01:14 PM
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Are you really just blaming all of America's bullshit on the fact that women can vote? I'm just going to glance over that because obviously everyone is entitled to their vote and I'm not even going to bother arguing that. Anyway... I don't mind big government like we have now, if it in fact worked like it should and our representatives actually represented the people's best interest. And regardless, what would happen if we had no government interaction? Completely free market. The same bullshit …
/r/MensRights09/01/19 02:48 AM
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Thanks for taking the time. I'm curious to hear first hand experiences from someone who has truly been negatively impacted by mainstream feminism. I've always considered feminism to be a positive for the longest time. Only recently I've started seeing that mainstream feminism isn't what I've always considered to be feminism.
/r/MensRights09/01/19 12:39 AM
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Yes, I must be seeking socialism to run my life for me. It can't possibly be the fact that capitalism is a broken system that only continues to allow the elite to manipulate and control every aspect of the country that they care about. Our politicians are bought, and our president thinks the country as his own personal business. It's absolutely ridiculous the level of influence that the rich have over the entire rest of the world.
/r/MensRights08/01/19 11:36 PM
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That's a fair point. I would argue that a lot of the time the "bad boy" type isn't what a girl wants, but the bad boy does have a lot of positive masculine traits. The confidence, the power/influence, and then also risk taking behaviors trigger your adrenaline, which gets misattributed to attraction. I do think that there is good in the bad. But then also look at all the examples of love stories where the bad boy turned out to be an abusive dick and the girl does go after the kind, caring guy. A…
/r/MensRights08/01/19 11:28 PM
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There's that word. Surprised it took this long for someone to call me a cuck. The ultimate insult, though, right? How can I possibly recover when I don't even know how to run my own life?
/r/MensRights08/01/19 10:31 PM
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You're completely missing the mark on the crying thing. Nobody is telling men that they have to cry to be able to handle emotions. It's pretty apparent that society has shaped men to think that displays of emotion are feminine and therefore should be avoided. People are trying to combat that view and reshape society so that men feel comfortable with displays of emotion. Nobody is forcing you to cry in public if you don't want to. I mean think about it. Society says men should suck it up and trud…
/r/MensRights08/01/19 08:36 PM
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I don't know if I'd call them representatives since they hardly ever act in the citizens best interest.... Call them what you want, you're just arguing semantics
/r/MensRights08/01/19 08:28 PM
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Well that's certainly possible. Just more proof that socialism isn't the root problem here
/r/MensRights08/01/19 07:24 PM
1

Alright maybe poor phrasing. I meant more the hate that OP is getting for feminism as a whole. You can't deny that most people on here hate feminists. I'm not necessarily saying that they hate OP.
/r/MensRights08/01/19 05:22 PM
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Not really though... Plenty of countries have had socialistic leaders that somehow have managed not to destroy the country and starve all of its citizens. And then on the other hand, you have capitalistic societies, and naturally their leaders aren't corrupt at all, right?
/r/MensRights08/01/19 05:18 PM
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I would agree with most of what you said. I would say yes, for sure get rid of A and B, but C isn't inherently bad... Toxic masculinity =/= all masculinity. You know, machoism which causes negative effects down the line such as "I'm a tough guy so there's no way I could have depression! But even if I do, I'm so tough that I can handle it all on my own" and then he becomes a part of the sad reality that is the male suicide statistic. Of course, toxic masculinity is the buzz word/phrase being used…
/r/MensRights08/01/19 04:39 PM
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Genuine reaching out? Maybe one single commenter actually put in an ounce of effort towards reaching out and actually creating a common ground. Everyone else was absolutely vicious. And what comedy exactly? And no, it's not ironic. In this instance I use the "we" in a very general sense as in feminists and men's rights activists as whole groups. I personally don't see anyone as my enemy, and I am in fact in favor of true equality.
/r/MensRights08/01/19 03:09 PM
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How has feminism treated you?
/r/MensRights08/01/19 03:06 PM
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Oh so you do understand then? Because what's going on in Venezuela is just about the worst case of socialism in the world. But that's not because of socialism inherently, it's because the leaders corrupted it and ruined it for everybody. Same thing happening with the feminist movement, just not quite as much suffering is involved.
/r/MensRights08/01/19 03:04 PM
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Seems like hatred of feminism is the only thing that you all know how to talk about... Let's break it down into simple terms that you can't misconstrue here. Group A: Women who seek to empower women by any means necessary (could result in negative outcomes for men) Group B: Women who openly hate men and don't really care about empowering women, as long as they get to call men pigs and shit on them as much as they want (obviously anti men) Group C: Women who seek to end or reduce toxic masculinit…
/r/MensRights08/01/19 02:05 PM
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I don't think that's what the comment is trying to do at all. Nobody's attacking men's rights here. They're offering an explanation on how exactly these issues come about, and how we can work together to change that.
/r/MensRights08/01/19 12:48 PM
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I'm not at all surprised by the level of hate you're getting, but I am disappointed. So far in the comments all I have seen is people berating you for using the word feminism, calling you out for being "illogical," and all around being extremely hateful. Apparently everyone on this sub would rather sit in a circle and shout at each other about how much they hate feminism, instead of working with people like you to reach a middle ground and attempt to influence the movement as a whole. No single …
/r/MensRights08/01/19 12:43 PM
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Gee, it's almost like feminism is such a broad umbrella term that not every single person that falls under the umbrella thinks the same exact way.
/r/MensRights08/01/19 12:17 PM
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Because sharing your opinion on the internet and spreading the word about what you would like to see a movement turn into is always a waste if time right? Might as well hop off this sub then
/r/MensRights08/01/19 11:42 AM
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If any part if your religion harms or negatively impact another person's life, whether that's your child or a stranger, that aspect of the religion should not be free to practice.
/r/MensRights29/12/18 02:26 PM
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I understand that you don't agree with her list here, but insulting her physical appearance is exactly what they expect you to do rather than having a serious discussion. Don't sink down to their level.
/r/MensRights18/12/18 08:28 PM
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Do you have another link to the article? It isn't working for me
/r/MensRights14/11/18 09:15 PM
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Did he draw a weapon on them? Did the police attempt to use non-lethal methods of subduing him before shooting him?
/r/MensRights02/11/18 12:54 PM
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The ideology of feminism is equality by supporting women. I support women. Some people may do this in the wrong ways, but that does not mean the movement as a whole is wrong. I am not a terrorist. I'd rather not do this all say. Nothing will change because people would rather call feminists terrorists than acknowledge that they are doing what they can to improve women's lives in search of equality.
/r/MensRights31/10/18 07:51 PM
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What's there to talk about? He was killed because he was a suspect? Since when is being a suspect grounds to shoot and kill a person?
/r/MensRights31/10/18 07:47 PM
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I would argue that anyone in a gang is generally carrying out the gang's will rather than their own. Especially in vulnerable communities, gangs can "recruit" unwilling members and force them to do terrible things. In other cases, it's people that have become so ingrained in the gang that they have a hard time not complying with the will of their leaders. Edit: I'd really like to emphasize that we are not involved in gang activity, so we really don't know exactly what goes on, but in many cases,…
/r/MensRights31/10/18 07:46 PM
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Like I said I don't have exact statistics. You make a good point in saying that, and you're right that we shouldn't ignore the small scale crimes.
/r/MensRights31/10/18 07:44 PM
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fem·i·nism /ˈfeməˌnizəm/ noun the advocacy of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes. Again, by definition you would be wrong. Whether major icons think of feminism as pro-women or anti-men, the word and ideology itself is still the same.
/r/MensRights31/10/18 05:44 PM
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Klans·man /ˈklanzmən/ noun a member of the Ku Klux Klan. Sorry, but that's just not true.
/r/MensRights31/10/18 05:38 PM
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Still not quite the same concept. These rapes are largely from gang activity, not individuals acting on their own interests. I do see your point though.
/r/MensRights31/10/18 05:38 PM
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Feminism as an ideology has absolutely nothing to do with terrorism. Individuals who say that they are feminists and then harm others in the name of that ideology could be considered terrorists depending on their actions. This is like saying anybody that is Muslim must be a terrorist simply because ISIS commits acts of terror in the name of Islam.
/r/MensRights31/10/18 05:19 PM
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By definition, if you advocate for women you are a feminist whether you like it or not.
/r/MensRights31/10/18 05:16 PM
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I support women, that makes me a feminist. I do not support attacks on men, whether other feminists choose to do so or not
/r/MensRights31/10/18 03:33 PM
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Wow take a chill pill my dude. I'm not going to stop calling myself a feminist because there are genuine inequalities in society that need to be addressed. That doesn't mean I'm going to attack any man that I see on the street.
/r/MensRights31/10/18 02:32 PM
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Alright I'm not going to pretend that I read every single example given there. But it seems like the argument boils down to "people use feminism to oppose men rather than to promote women," and that's more or less what I had already said. There are obviously going to be these people in a movement, but that doesn't mean that's what the movement as a whole is about.
/r/MensRights31/10/18 02:00 PM
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But is there actually a larger proportion of Mexican rapists, or is this just an example of inciting hate? Most rapists are friends/family of their victims, not random Mexicans off the street
/r/MensRights31/10/18 01:32 PM
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Real feminism is about equality, not supremacy. There may be those out there that wish for female supremacy but they would be considered extremists just as much as a male who seeks male supremacy.
/r/MensRights31/10/18 01:05 PM
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I don't have exact statistics to go off here, but I would bet that the acts of terror committed by black people and other minorities aren't proportional to their numbers in terms of population.
/r/MensRights31/10/18 01:00 PM
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So therefore they must commit acts of terror?
/r/MensRights31/10/18 12:27 PM
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Nobody ever said "all white men are terrorists," it simply stated that it was an issue we need to discuss, which I agree with. Too often a white male commits an act of terror and lives to tell about it, but meanwhile a black man can be completely innocent of any wrongdoing and be gunned down in the street. That's something that should get attention. But yes, I do think that every demographic has it's positive and negative traits.
/r/MensRights31/10/18 12:26 PM
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If it was a valid opinion, then it would still be taken into consideration. Saying there are too many Muslim terrorists is an accurate statement (not in the US, but in the world in general). White men are most commonly the ones who commit mass acts of terror in our country, so they labelled their article as such
/r/MensRights31/10/18 11:47 AM
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This is true for all people, not just women or just men
/r/MensRights04/08/18 03:15 AM
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Smile if you love men's prostates
/r/MensRights01/08/18 03:20 AM
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When was the last time that you got hired for a job without having an interview, or at the least submitting a resume that contained information regarding your sex and race? At the very least, your name gives some indication. Maybe in Australia that's becoming the norm, but I can tell you in my experience in the US that it would be difficult to find a company that would blindly hire you. However, if the hiring process is blind, but favoring non-whites, you can't call that discriminating against w…
/r/MensRights24/10/17 04:00 PM
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What would you have people do instead of diversity hires? Like I've said, a white man is more likely to be hired by a black man when no diversity hiring processes are implemented. That's due to the simple fact that people are inherently biased. How would you eliminate that bias when many people refuse to even see that it exists?
/r/MensRights24/10/17 02:41 PM
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I never once said anything about discriminating against white males as a solution to societal problems. I was only pointing out your faulty logic that privilege doesn't exist in regards to black vs white homeless people.
/r/MensRights24/10/17 02:27 PM
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I'd just like to point out that being black or white while homeless can have a huge impact on your ability to find a job. Studies show that white men will get hired more often than black men, even when their resumes are identical besides their names. Other studies show that even with a black man having the better resume of the two, the odds still favor the white man. To say that privilege doesn't exist just because it doesn't work in exactly the same way for every person is just showing how litt…
/r/MensRights24/10/17 12:18 PM
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What made you feel like this has anything to do with men's rights?
/r/MensRights23/10/17 06:54 PM
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The article very clearly states that this isn't just a random man off the street. The guy is a fire fighter. Of course he risked his life to save the dog. Nowhere in the article is he berated for being a man or having toxic masculinity. It's just a well-meaning article about a heroic person. And you've misconstrued it in order to feel like a victim. Tell me again who the special snowflakes are.
/r/MensRights12/09/17 08:25 PM
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