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| 1 | Is it me or the more you try to learn how to get women, the more difficult it gets?Find a woman you like. Show her that you like her. Ask her out. She'll either like you or she won't. You've done all you can, it's out of your hands. That's what I've learned so far and it seems pretty simple to me. | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Never had a girlfriend/never had sex. And it feels like I’m running out of time. Confidence is shotGlobal life expectancy is 72.6 years. You've got plenty of time. Unless you want kids, in which case perhaps you better get speed dating. | /r/seduction | 08/11/21 10:15 PM |
| 2 | What’s the fastest way to loose your virginityWhenever you go somewhere the first girl you make eye contact with, don't even hesitate and just speak to her. Do this everywhere you go until you get somewhere. And I mean everywhere. Pubs, clubs, supermarket, on the street, theatre, gym, cinema, toilet.... Okay maybe not the toilet. But you get the idea. | /r/seduction | 04/11/21 03:38 PM |
| 2 | Only dating girls below my league. How to date hot girls?Go and ask out hot girls. | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 02:25 PM |
| 0 | I wasted my teens and 20s focusing narrowly on savings money. I did not enjoy the process or experience much in life. I am socially a hermit and have never even flirted with a girl. How do I unscrew my situation?I did that too. I'm 24 and saved all my money. I intended on getting a house, I invested all my money and spent essentially none of it. It wasn't until COVID started that I realised that I was completely wasting my time. Even if I save my money, I still won't have enough money to do everything I want to do. So I've now come to accept that there is absolutely no way on this planet I could do even half of what I want to do and boy was it hard to accept that. Since COVID started I've decided to scr… | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 10:43 AM |
| 1 | Ugh. Girl curious about my size."Be prepared for an emotional rollercoaster" | /r/seduction | 30/06/21 12:42 PM |
| 10 | I think tonight I will ask out the girl I like from work.It'll only be awkward if you make it awkward. It's actually pretty easy to return things back to normal if you just act like normal. | /r/seduction | 27/06/21 08:55 PM |
| 1 | As a man are low body counts attractive to you?Well unless she used to be a child molestor or serial killer or something. In which case what happened before we met does matter. I'm not dating someone who's likely to murder me if I say the wrong thing. Normal women are already like that; increasing the chances of it happening is suicidal. | /r/seduction | 25/06/21 09:39 AM |
| 8 | As a man are low body counts attractive to you?It doesn't phase me at all. However I've noticed a trend that women who have lower body counts tend to have a lot more respect from themselves and get more respect from me. This isn't directly caused by their body count, but their attitude and personality. Like I've met women with high body counts that have had a lot of self-respect and visa versa. It's just a trend that people with lower body counts happen to have traits that make me respect them more. What I deem as having respect for themselv… | /r/seduction | 25/06/21 09:38 AM |
| 1 | How to “flip the script” with womenI can't believe I explained it previously and I still get this. | /r/seduction | 06/06/21 02:30 PM |
| 1 | How to “flip the script” with womenSorry I misinterpreted what you said since the question you actually asked had a very obvious answer so I assumed you meant something else. I'll answer the question you actually asked now. And why isn't she worth your time? Because she has a normal human libido and wants to be intimate with you? No. She isn't worth your time because the two of you want different things. If you spend time with someone that wants sex now and you want sex in 6 months, obviously it isn't going to work out and so s… | /r/seduction | 06/06/21 04:44 AM |
| 2 | How to “flip the script” with womenAnd why isn't she worth your time? Because she isn't respecting your boundaries. You aren't getting the big picture are you? Women don't care about the sex. They're willing to have sex, they are willing to have casual sex. Sex isn't the issue here. It's men's attitude and intentions. If you're going in to a relationship expecting sex but acting like you're not, she sees you as a manipulative liar. That's the real issue here that most people have and this post highlights that by stating that … | /r/seduction | 06/06/21 03:55 AM |
| 2 | How to “flip the script” with womenDo you need to explain yourself to anyone? If you've got a 6 month no-sex rule, then you've got it. You've got to stick by it or you're a liar. You don't need to bring it up, if she asks then be honest with her if you want to or don't tell her a thing. It's up to you. I mean virgins don't go around announcing they're virgins, people who've had the snip don't go around announcing that either, so why do you need to go around announcing you have a 6 month no-sex rule? She ain't cool with that? Well… | /r/seduction | 06/06/21 02:59 AM |
| 4 | How to “flip the script” with womenIKR. This is like the very basics of relationships. It's absolutely common sense to get to know someone before you have sex with them and these people are treating it like it's revolutionary! And now there's loads of people saying that they're going around pretending that they don't want to get laid in order to get laid. ffs. | /r/seduction | 06/06/21 12:10 AM |
| 4 | How to “flip the script” with womenSo in other words he's lying and manipulating them. Great to know. | /r/seduction | 06/06/21 12:07 AM |
| 2 | How to “flip the script” with womenDon't say it. Just prove it through action. | /r/seduction | 06/06/21 12:06 AM |
| 0 | How to “flip the script” with womenI don't understand this subreddit. Isn't this just common sense? | /r/seduction | 06/06/21 12:05 AM |
| 2 | Why does being direct with a woman with about what you want almost never work?End of the day, it gets dark. | /r/seduction | 13/05/21 11:03 PM |
| 7 | How to impress a guy on first date?Be a little bit straight forward and tell him that you're a bit awkward and apologise if you're not good at holding the conversation. It might help break the ice with him, but at the very least he won't think you're not interested just because the convo went dry. Nervous giggle is cute. So that's fine. Just be engaged. Think of questions to ask him about himself. Tell him about something you did recently that you found fun. Eye contact is important, I've been on countless dates where the woman s… | /r/seduction | 10/05/21 07:34 PM |
| 5 | How to Introduce Sex into a relationship!As for escalation, I'd recommend this post here. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/hlmra/dicarlo_escalation_ladder_concise_and_emphasized/ | /r/seduction | 10/05/21 03:42 AM |
| 23 | How to Introduce Sex into a relationship!And as for being a virgin, literally just don’t bring it up. It’s either gonna hurt your chances or it will not matter, but there’s no benefit in bringing it up. But be honest if she asks about your sexual history though and just tell her you're a virgin. No need to bring it up yourself, but always be honest if she asks. No need to make it a big deal or to make her think that it's a big deal. | /r/seduction | 10/05/21 03:38 AM |
| 13 | How to Introduce Sex into a relationship!To add onto what he’s saying, don’t hold the firecracker in your hand for too long unless u don’t like your fingers Hate it when that happens. | /r/seduction | 10/05/21 03:35 AM |
| 0 | Idk if she’s playing hard to get or rejecting me???Bring a condom, but don't expect anything. Put it out of your mind and just have a good time. Have fun and enjoy the moment. If it helps, think of it as more experience just chatting to girls. And never underestimate having a woman as a friend. Since it's the two of you alone in a hotel and there's food involved, if something happens then it happens that night. If nothing happens then you're just a friend. EDIT: Also mate. Are you staying the night? If you're sharing a bed and she doesn't expres… | /r/seduction | 08/05/21 10:11 AM |
| 1 | What you say when people ask you if you have a girlfriend?I don't care about what other people think of me, I care about what I think of myself. I haven't had a girlfriend for 2 years because I haven't tried. I've been working on my career and trying to change bits of me that I don't like (Unsuccessfully might I add). I'm not embarrassed by that. Even if I was trying to get a girlfriend for 2 years and failed, at least I was trying. Again, I can't be embarrassed by trying to get a girlfriend. However if I wanted a girlfriend and haven't even tried afte… | /r/seduction | 02/05/21 04:38 PM |
| 31 | What you say when people ask you if you have a girlfriend?I say I've not had one in 2 years, I get an "awww" and that's it. Why lie? Don't get in a habit of lying. It'll do you no good. You are who you are, be proud of it and people will respect you for it. And women will be attracted to that too. | /r/seduction | 02/05/21 12:30 PM |
| 1 | I definitely ruined two women’s nightWell you need to confirm age. That's an absolute MUST. But don't stay on the topic. | /r/seduction | 30/04/21 03:52 AM |
| 19 | I definitely ruined two women’s nightEven THAT would have given you more chances than "You look good for your age" | /r/seduction | 30/04/21 03:51 AM |
| 1 | 18 Reasons You Should LOVE RejectionsI love getting rejected because A) Talking to women is fun. B) I don't have to actually put effort into a relationship. C) I'm a liar, I hate it. It sucks. There's no sugar coating it, you like someone and they don't like you back. There isn't anything to like about that unless you're not emotionally invested. And I am absolutely emotionally invested or I wouldn't be asking her out. | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 09:33 AM |
| 1 | If there is one thing that would attract you the most about a woman, what would it be?Personality wise, making yourself approachable is a big one. Being generally friendly to people, smiling or waving at someone or something along those lines. Basically any signal to them that you acknowledge their existence. Doing that will get guys around you more. And if they try to talk to you, stick around and listen to them. My last girlfriend was so difficult to approach because every time I tried to talk to her she talked and walked off so I thought that she wasn't interested. Because of … | /r/seduction | 24/04/21 11:51 PM |
| 0 | Girls don't do things by accidentIf anything I feel super uncomfortable when women (strangers) breach my personal space like that. I always without fail move out of the way if this happens. When it happens all that's running through my mind is "Uhhh I'm standing here, how rude." "Does she want me to move? Does she not know she's brushing against me? Does she want me to put my arms around her? What do I do?" "I was here first, but she's going to accuse me of groping her, isn't she?" and so on. It's just a very uncomfortable feel… | /r/seduction | 18/04/21 06:01 PM |
| 58 | what are the worst IRL rejections/blowouts you've experienced?I've only had one bad rejection. I worked at a store and there was this Ukrainian woman that came in regularly. We chatted a lot when she came in and she was cool. Anyway one day she came in, I asked how she was doing, she said to me that she was going back to Ukraine since she was finishing uni. Then she followed that up by saying very loudly with a queue behind her that she wouldn't want to date me even if she was staying in the UK and left. So all of the customers in the queue afterwards gave… | /r/seduction | 06/04/21 11:41 AM |
| 2 | How to be good at sexThe most important part is to ask her what she wants and why. If you can understand her, you'll have an easier time satisfying her. So talk. Talk before sex, talk during sex and talk after sex. | /r/seduction | 06/04/21 11:35 AM |
| 6 | How are some ways to challenge a girl?Take your glove off, throw it at her feet and announce "I'll see you at dawn" and then storm off. | /r/seduction | 06/04/21 08:17 AM |
| 1 | How do you make dating and approaching women fun or at least less painful?Joke when you would normally joke. Escalate at a pace you feel comfortable with. Dress up and look presentable. I'm not saying you shouldnt put effort in, I'm saying that you have to be real about it. Don't do things because you feel like that'll get the best reaction out of her, do things because you want to. And yeah, don't give a damn. If she starts giving you shit, leave. You'll feel that much better for it and people will respect you a hell of a lot more for it. Don't settle for that kind o… | /r/seduction | 30/03/21 09:52 PM |
| 2 | How do you make dating and approaching women fun or at least less painful?I'm sorry if this sounds confrontational, I'm not trying to cause an argument. But in your reply to me just now, you stated multiple ways of which you change your behaviour in order to obtain sex from women. I can't stress enough that sincerity is the most important thing when it comes to women. You need to act how you usually act. Don't give a damn about what they think and don't pretend to. Also if you want sex and with dating too, you need to change the power dynamic. Make it her the one that… | /r/seduction | 30/03/21 06:20 PM |
| 3 | How do you make dating and approaching women fun or at least less painful?You are a chooser dude. You DESERVE to be happy, don't ever compromise on that. You pick the girl. She has to pick you too. And you keep moving on until you get a match. That's how dating works. If you're trying to impress a girl, it shows that you think she's above you. You can't think that way. She's a person just like you, who has feelings just like you and thinks just like you. What's so special about this person? Shes just one amongst the many. Besides, you're not doing yourself any favours… | /r/seduction | 30/03/21 08:58 AM |
| 11 | How do you make dating and approaching women fun or at least less painful?Remember dude, you're not supposed to win her over. You're supposed to find a lass that can win you over. If you find a girl that is worth your time, then go for it without a second thought. If she rejects you, well move on and find another girl. The world is a beautiful place and having fun is all up to you. Don't take dating so seriously, take it as meeting people and having a blast with them until you meet the right one | /r/seduction | 29/03/21 11:21 PM |
| 2 | How do I impress a girl over text?Why are you trying to impress her? You should already be good enough for her, there's no reason that you should go out of the way to impress her. If you're not good enough to impress her as you are, without doing anything special, then you need to work on yourself first. | /r/seduction | 26/03/21 10:57 PM |
| 0 | Does the right person come to you at the right time or am I being lazy and not trying hard enough?The second one | /r/seduction | 23/03/21 07:46 AM |
| 2 | How do you connect in conversation with someone who has a boring life?Spot on. Couldn't have phrased it any better. | /r/seduction | 21/03/21 11:04 PM |
| 3 | What are some hobbies that I can take up that would help me socialize with people while not being fixated at girls?You're right. Go out and do things and meet people and make friends. Stepping out of your comfort zone will make you into the person you want to be and the person people want to be around. As for how you discover these things, well for me when I first started stepping out of my comfort zone, I literally typed into google "Events near me" which gave me quite a list. Then I randomly picked something cheap and did it. Nowadays though I have a bit of a bucket list I'm trying to get through since I'v… | /r/seduction | 21/03/21 07:21 AM |
| 7 | What are some hobbies that I can take up that would help me socialize with people while not being fixated at girls?When COVID ends, just look for things to do every weekend. Get outside and socialise. That's what I did. Car shows, meet-ups, protests, live music in a pub, karaoke night, air show, reenactment shows, concerts, steam train ride, skydiving, hang-gliding, rally school, track day, go to the beach, picnic at the local park, star gazing you get the idea. Or sometimes if I'm broke, I'd just go for a walk or a drive and bring my camera with me and get completely lost, stop off somewhere, take pictures … | /r/seduction | 20/03/21 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Why does she behave like this?Doesn't matter. She gave the all clear, go and have fun | /r/seduction | 19/03/21 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Interested in me over her boyfriend or not?I'd been in the situation of a girl liking me while having a boyfriend quite a few times. Never once worked out. No matter how much she likes you, she is still with her boyfriend. If you want to get in there and sleep with her, by all means have your fun. But don't expect anything more from it. I also wouldn't spend any time on her either unless she breaks up with him. That's how I deal with this situation. | /r/seduction | 18/03/21 09:09 PM |
| 8 | What is the most basic skills of seduction everyone must know?Physical touch I'd say. Without that, you're going nowhere. | /r/seduction | 18/03/21 07:52 AM |
| 3 | Don't fear approaching girls that are in groups. It is actually WAY easier than when they are alone. You just have to approach them the following way...Women. | /r/seduction | 12/03/21 03:45 AM |
| 4 | Don't fear approaching girls that are in groups. It is actually WAY easier than when they are alone. You just have to approach them the following way...It hurts that you managed to find out why I have no friends so accurately. | /r/seduction | 11/03/21 11:50 PM |
| 4 | Don't fear approaching girls that are in groups. It is actually WAY easier than when they are alone. You just have to approach them the following way...Sounds great until you tell them you have no friends | /r/seduction | 11/03/21 10:55 PM |
| 3 | The right moment can change something that you'd never considered to be sexual into something incredibly hot and sensual.Sure mate. I had a fwb once that had me swap clothes with her and she dry humped me. Can't say I was comfortable during the process, but the fact that she was turned on reeeally turned me on. | /r/seduction | 10/03/21 07:08 AM |
| 1 | The right moment can change something that you'd never considered to be sexual into something incredibly hot and sensual.Sure mate. I had a fwb once that made me swap clothes with her and then she dry humped me. Can't say I was comfortable during the process, but the fact that it turned her on reeeeally turned me on. | /r/seduction | 10/03/21 07:06 AM |
| 14 | The right moment can change something that you'd never considered to be sexual into something incredibly hot and sensual.Now you just have to figure out whether you're turned on by your girlfriend dominating you or if you're turned on by the smell of farts. Keep us updated. | /r/seduction | 10/03/21 06:38 AM |
| 0 | As long as you are not self-conscious about it, then there is nothing weird about going out alone.I went out with my mates once and they all stayed in one place for the night. Honestly I was pretty bored there and I wasn't really that into the music. So me being me I wandered off somewhere else. At some point during that night I was faced with this question "Where are your friends?". When I explained to her that I'd wandered off and left them, her face went from "Yeah right, who's going to believe that?" into a smile and nod of sympathy. Not gonna lie I found her expressions pretty hilarious… | /r/seduction | 08/03/21 01:30 AM |
| 1 | My tinder date turned out to be taller than me.I wouldn't call it shallow. I mean I pass so many women on the street that I don't find attractive and don't even consider dating for various different reasons, does that make me a shallow person? Some people are just attracted to different things. Some people are attracted to people that are not compatible with each other. Some people are attracted to people but won't date them due to circumstances or red flags. There can be any number of reasons why someone won't consider you as a romantic par… | /r/seduction | 06/03/21 07:43 PM |
| 35 | My tinder date turned out to be taller than me.No I'm just surprised that 5"8 is considered short. I'd say most guys here in the UK are around that height. But I guess I'm wrong. I suppose I've never really paid attention to how tall people are really so guessing people's height isn't my strong suit. | /r/seduction | 06/03/21 02:13 PM |
| 156 | My tinder date turned out to be taller than me.5"8 is short? Isn't that like average or something? I'm 5"3 and I'd say I'm short. 5"8 ain't nothing. But I agree with the sentiment of your message, yes. | /r/seduction | 06/03/21 12:38 PM |
| 8 | Is there a difference between saying “love you” and “I love you”Yeah I'd say so. "love you" is kind of like what you say to your family and people you're close to when you say goodbye to them. But "I love you" is more of an intimate confession of your feelings. It reveals vulnerability. That's the way I see it at least. | /r/seduction | 24/02/21 06:36 PM |
| 4 | The number one thing that women are attracted to that no one talks about, and very little guys pay attention to.Are you a fellow Yesfam member? You sure sound like it | /r/seduction | 19/02/21 10:33 AM |
| 2 | Does this girl like me or my friend?Dude, you need to get a grip. How are you going to know if she likes you if you're not even trying. Talk to her, get to know her a bit, flirt with her to test the waters, get her number, chat some more and then ask her out. Your friend already has the head start on you because you've spent so much time wondering about irrelevant things like whether she likes you or not. At the end of the day you won't know whether she likes you or not until you ask her out. | /r/seduction | 19/02/21 02:42 AM |
| 0 | Do I sit in front or next to her on the first date?I'd sit next to her in almost all circumstances except for when there's food. If there's food, sit across from her unless the tables are HUGE and you'll be sitting too far away from her. The reason I say this is because sitting next to her allows easier breaking of that physical touch barrier, the close proximity creates tension, eye contact feels more impactful and you have a much easier time talking to each other. However when food comes into play, you're going to be looking down at your food … | /r/seduction | 18/02/21 11:21 AM |
| 6 | I wonder how many guys in the seduction community are actually high value vs how many of them are trying to create the illusion of high value.Yeah of course they are. I wouldn't say that those are defining features of someone that's high value though. Women aren't THAT materialistic unfortunately, otherwise us men would've figured them out a looong time ago. They seem to care more about this thing called "personality" (Whatever that is). So men often try to create the illusion that they have one of those. I can't say I've ever seen another dude pretend to have a good career, high social status or success. At least within my experience… | /r/seduction | 16/02/21 05:51 PM |
| 38 | I wonder how many guys in the seduction community are actually high value vs how many of them are trying to create the illusion of high value.Career? Relative Status? Success? If that's what you consider to be high value, then most people in the seduction community don't even pretend to be that. Most people in this community find value in other, less shallow, things and pretend to be that instead. | /r/seduction | 16/02/21 07:07 AM |
| 12 | The false time constraint works - First approachYeah I have. I don't like it because it's flat out lying to them, but each to their own. Because you've told them that you're going in a bit, they tolerate your presence since if they don't like you you'll be gone in a bit. And it also makes them feel like you're not trying to pick them up and you're just here to pay them a compliment and have a conversation before you leave. It also raises your own value because it makes you seem like a man that has more important things to do than talking to t… | /r/seduction | 15/02/21 08:43 PM |
| 11 | A once in a lifetime reminder: Confidence attracts beauty.Accept that you're all of those things and go for it anyway. Be brave. You're social awkward, ugly and poor? Own it. That's what confidence is. Know exactly who you are and what you want to be and you don't pretend to be anything else and don't let anyone else rule your life for you. Love yourself for who you are. That's attractive. | /r/seduction | 15/02/21 09:11 AM |
| 52 | How to flirt?I'm not sure how to explain it. It's kind of like you say things in a normal conversation that put sex in the mind without being direct about it. If you do it well enough then she might not even notice it. Like say she's cleaning something, say to her "calm down, stroke it gently". See? It could be quite suggestive but it could also be very innocent. Even if you're having another conversation entirely, she'll be thinking of sex when she's talking to you. You can also flirt with your expression a… | /r/seduction | 13/02/21 08:45 AM |
| 1 | If a girl says love you in a friendly manner, does this mean she’s not interested?I get you. Kinda flirted is good enough to ask her out if that's the path you want to go mate. If she doesn't have a boyfriend that is. I dunno if she likes you per se, but if she didn't brush off your flirting attempts then she's at the very least open to the idea. | /r/seduction | 13/02/21 06:31 AM |
| 2 | If a girl says love you in a friendly manner, does this mean she’s not interested?Sounds friend-zoney to me, but it's not like you can tell from that alone. I assume you like her, how does she react to subtle flirting? | /r/seduction | 13/02/21 12:02 AM |
| 2 | I am 17 and have never even kissed a girl.Yeah man, that's great. I'm trying to change something about myself too, so I know it can get hard, but you're on the right track from just being on here and asking. So keep up the hard work. | /r/seduction | 11/02/21 02:38 PM |
| 2 | I am 17 and have never even kissed a girl.Why is your conversation dry? People who can't converse are usually not confident and are too afraid to say what they want because they think other people will find it boring. Either that or they have nothing to talk about because they are boring. That's what it is usually, though I'm sure there are more possible reasons. If you can figure out why your conversation is dry, we can help come up with a solution to this problem. As far as not knowing what to do around hot girls goes, just treat … | /r/seduction | 11/02/21 12:48 PM |
| 15 | Most common sentences used by pickup artistsDon't ask her where she got them, she'll think you're gay. (Learned from experience) | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 10:15 AM |
| 1 | Dating when you can’t seem to connect with people?I see. Ive never actually felt like I'm worthless or anything like that, I'm quite a sanguine person so I'm quite happy and I'm comfortable with myself. I just think that I can be better and I'm holding myself back from enjoying life more. I'm working to change that but most of the things I'm trying to change I do unconsciously so becoming conscious of it to change it is a pain. | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 02:05 AM |
| 2 | Men who see women as human beings will find more success than men who see women as objects, and use them to impress others, or try to get a reputation as a 'player'. When you're humble about your skills, the game becomes a lot easier.Yeah but in treating them like human beings learning to get game becomes infinitely harder haha. | /r/seduction | 08/02/21 02:57 AM |
| 2 | How do men release their emotions?To be fair every 2 years or so I do end up feeling completely burnt out. I don't lash out, but I do get annoyed by every slightest thing for a week or so. Alright. I'll listen to you and try to be a bit more open about myself. I don't think it'll be easy to do it because this is basically apart of my personality at this point. I don't even intend on doing it, it just happens. But I'll try. Thanks for the care and kind words. | /r/seduction | 05/02/21 03:28 AM |
| 2 | How do men release their emotions?Ah it works for me. Im a pretty sanguine person so these things come rarely and go away pretty quickly. I also notice what's causing my issues and realise how petty they are so I'm pretty good at containing myself and keeping my mouth shut and avoiding people until I get over them. If I have a real problem that isn't petty, I avoid people until I calm down and then deal with the issue in a collected manner. It's just the way I deal with things. Better to do things this way rather than act upon m… | /r/seduction | 04/02/21 10:47 PM |
| 5 | How do men release their emotions?I don't usually. If I get in a bad mood, I'll box it in and keep it under control. If I have energy, I'll force a smile on my face and pretend like I'm as happy as always. If I don't have any energy, illavoid people to prevent myself from lashing out. After a day or two I'll get over it. | /r/seduction | 04/02/21 12:49 PM |
| 2 | Invited to her house twice but didn’t make a move? What to do?I'm with klutzy on this one. She got into her underwear for you, that's about as 'green light' as it gets. Just do it. Go in for a kiss, get into it, move your hands around and explore her body and then go from there. After that it's all up to you. If you're worried about something, don't be. I'm sure she's a strong woman otherwise you wouldn't be attracted to her. She can tell you if she doesn't like something and if you screw up then she'll help. Just go for it. You've got your opportunity so … | /r/seduction | 04/02/21 12:46 PM |
| 3 | Dating when you can’t seem to connect with people?I'm someone in exactly the same situation as the OP and what you said here is something Ive come to realise in myself and have been trying to work on (rather unsuccessfully might I add). So nice comment. I tend to keep myself to myself, don't reveal any weaknesses, hide any feelings or emotions, don't tell people about my life or anything. If I ever feel angry, hurt or sad I suppress that feeling and put a smile on for everyone. I avoid any kind of conflicts by immediately diffusing the situatio… | /r/seduction | 04/02/21 09:59 AM |
| 2 | Anybody else’s heart beat fast when in conversation with a pretty girl ?No not exactly. I've always been pretty calm around even the really pretty 10/10s. But when I'm attracted to them then it's a different story. My mind goes completely blank. There's a girl at work that I see every morning who I find absolutely breathtakingly beautiful. Objectively not the prettiest woman I've spoken to, but she's totally my type. I see her every morning and she seems to go out of her way to say hi to me every day which is nice, but me looking like an idiot can only manage a "goo… | /r/seduction | 04/02/21 09:47 AM |
| 2 | Girl is blowing up my texts after dateI feel the same. Took me a little time to realise that I had never told anyone when my birthday was, so that's probably what did it. | /r/seduction | 30/01/21 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Girl is blowing up my texts after dateI usually respond to texts quite quickly too. Don't feel pressured to respond quickly back, just do whatever you want to do and I'm sure she will do the same. | /r/seduction | 30/01/21 06:20 AM |
| 3 | How to have a “good vibes” aura?Don't take it as someone that's hyperactive and happy. I'm like that and I never get laid hahaha | /r/seduction | 28/01/21 11:19 AM |
| 3 | [Vital Lesson] Don't let your Friends know, ESPECIALLY your Female Friends, that You are learning Game and how to Approach."I suck at meeting women and relationships, so I'm learning ways to put myself forward and get better at it so I can meet someone special" - That will probably gain you loads of support from your female friends. "I'm learning how to seduce women so I can get laid on a regular basis" - Will probably get you some disgusted faces, but you might keep your friends and be seen as redeemable. "I'm going to say a specific set of lines to that girl to manipulate her into liking me" - Is probably what… | /r/seduction | 27/01/21 07:00 AM |
| 2 | No one is out of your leagueDamn straight. I'm gonna go and sweep Shakira off her feet. | /r/seduction | 22/01/21 09:26 PM |
| 1 | What are your favourite pet names?Cutie, Sweetie. If she's being spoilt I call her princess And I sometimes refer to her as a pretty flower. | /r/seduction | 22/01/21 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Is UK cold approach vastly different?In the UK, if you want to be friendly and talk to strangers, you're better off in towns instead of cities. Generally if it's in the middle of nowhere, people are more likely to be comfortable chatting to strangers. A new face is always met with curiosity and we love a good chat. I can't vouch for this, but I've heard the northerners are far more approachable. I've met some and they do seem more approachable, but I dunno if they were the rule or exception. | /r/seduction | 22/01/21 08:30 PM |
| 2 | Do you usually directly or indirectly approach?Ah it's worth mentioning that you have to tell them how it makes them look. Because if you just complement her clothes, she'll think you're gay. | /r/seduction | 22/01/21 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Do you usually directly or indirectly approach?Most of the time I usually just compliment something they're wearing and tell them how it makes them look. If that starts a conversation and things go well I'll ask for her number at the end. If it doesn't start a conversation, well at least I've made her day. Say for example she's wearing a yellow coat, I'd say "hi, I love your coat. You're like a ray of sunshine." and she'd either be giggling at how stupid that was, flattered because she took it as a compliment, or confused at what I meant. It… | /r/seduction | 22/01/21 08:20 PM |
| 1 | How do I become dominant without appearing bitter?First of all, don't change yourself because someone else told you to. If you want to change yourself, you have to do it because you want to change. That's not only life advice, that's also the first step to being dominant. You need to control your own life. Second step is to start getting confidence. Exercise helps a lot in this regard, step outside of your comfort zone and do things independently, those are things that will help build confidence. Next you need to learn to not care about what pe… | /r/seduction | 22/01/21 08:01 PM |
| 0 | What causes you to lose interest in a girl?The thing that causes me to lose interest is if I don't feel like I'm getting any interest back. I don't really have enough time to go chasing around women, if they aren't showing some interest in so much as carrying the conversation then I'll just leave it at that since I don't want to bother you and I don't want to waste my time going after something I won't get. | /r/seduction | 22/01/21 02:58 AM |
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