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Alpha-Gator/r/askMRP20/03/16 11:43 PM
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Alpha-Gator/r/askMRP04/04/16 08:50 PM
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You're right; this will require some meditation and self-reflection on WHY I'm improving myself, but I think I already know the answer (HER). There's a lot to be fixed, but this time I'll know that i have the potential and I just need to understand the proper reason. I know I can improve myself, but now I have the benefit of my failure to learn on. Thanks for the reply. Gator
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/16 04:18 AM
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Get out, we don't need your trash here.
/r/MensRights10/09/16 11:54 PM
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I don't have anything the reading can't teach you. Get that shit in audiobook, then listen while you lift until your fucking legs don't work. When you can see your abs and speak like a man you won't be worrying about her anymore.
/r/askMRP09/09/16 11:01 PM
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She, she, she, her, her, her... What are you doing to fix yourself? Read my history; I've had ups and downs, I've made great strides and then fucked them up. I've had a wonderful wife one month and a screeching harpy the next. "The mantra has always been, 'it has always been my fault.'" I know why things get fucked up in my life, and I'm aware enough to know that it's my goddamn fault. Fix yourself, to hell with her issues. You don't even have the progress to know that her "issues" are the root …
/r/askMRP09/09/16 10:50 PM
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"Fuckward" I should start using that irl. "FUCKWARD, TO THE BAR!"
/r/AntiFeminists07/09/16 03:56 PM
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I'm getting better, but I've got a long hill to climb back up. Consider this just a written commitment to myself. I'd slid backwards since I made positive changes. I went back to smoking after several months of success, I was drinking too much, I let home improvements/repairs slide, literally every fuck-up I could come up with. The smoking is still there. This is a disgusting and unacceptable habit, and nothing close to the image of a self-controlling individual. I crumpled the pack in my pocket…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/16 10:30 PM
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I've been a worthless BP bitch cunt, and I deserve to sleep in the bed I've made thus far. Been on RP for ~14mos and made great strides - at first. I was lifting fairly heavy (275sq, 200bench, 6'1" 180lbs) and had everything under control. My wife followed my lead, my kids looked up to me as a great father, and my career was moving up fast. Then I got complacent and figured it was all "good enough." I let it slide back, and now I'm fighting up the same hill I fought that long ago. Let this be a …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/16 04:21 AM
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No don't bother, I'm mostly being an asshole. He made fair points, I don't want to sound like I'm bitching about that and losing everything else. I thought he was you until I actually checked.
/r/askMRP04/04/16 10:28 PM
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We went to high school together and we were together throughout my enlistment. Her father was a Marine, but other than that I suppose her "Navy Awareness" would be limited to what she was exposed to being a Navy wife (whatever the hell that means). And which basic mistakes are you referring to? Honest question, it wasn't discussed above.
/r/askMRP04/04/16 10:16 PM
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What was planned by you and followed through on by you, for this day? I'm not sure what the root question is. What awesome shit do I do to be an awesome guy? I work my ass off and have a mission, I have a wide circle of friends and networking connections that I can rely on for anything. I lift like the devil is behind me, and women have asked to feel my arms. I dress to the nines everyday, because it's goddamned fun to look good for no occasion whatsoever. I am the leader of my home and (general…
/r/askMRP04/04/16 10:14 PM
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Most weekdays I don't drink. This last weekend was heavier than usual intake with several pre-planned functions. Still, I am my own responsibility so I should probably keep an eye on it. When I do drink, I stick to light beer as a general rule.
/r/askMRP04/04/16 10:00 PM
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I agree that text messages are bad, but the only conversation had on text were logistics concerning the game and a sitter. Three messages, and then she started calling. In all honesty I would do the same if a similar conversation comes up. The bar is a neighborhood bar we've both been going to for almost two years. She recently transferred to work as a server there, taking a pay cut in return for being closer to home and giving her the ability to start going to school since I recently finished. …
/r/askMRP04/04/16 09:14 PM
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Then why the narrative that we are responsible for our first mate mutinying?
/r/askMRP22/03/16 02:19 AM
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Fair enough, but isn't the logic that if I were owning my shit the cheating wouldn't have happened? Granted, her decisions are her own, but I fueled her imperative by acting like a puss-cake
/r/askMRP22/03/16 12:08 AM
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The mantra has been, "it has always been my fault."
/r/askMRP21/03/16 08:57 PM
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I noticed about six months ago that in every phase of my life, if I was lifting I was happy. Since then the motivation to continue came easily, and it was no longer some kind of self-flagellation. New guys want to skimp on the lifting, but it is truly and literally the cornerstone of everything taught here.
/r/askMRP21/03/16 08:56 PM
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I actually will start using that add on, I have problems with formatting as well. As it were, I recently finished a rereading of both Art of War and Meditations after which it all finally clicked. It was at some point about a month ago, and it's bizarre that I can't quite put my finger on when the red pill finally went down. I see no sense in worrying about it since, as theultimatecad said, her cheating was my fault. In the meantime I keep my voice quiet and my plans even more so.
/r/askMRP21/03/16 08:53 PM
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Ultimately I think the big issue is that you believe that you need this traditional family unit to raise a good son. You don't, and hundreds of men on MRP can attest to that fact. I learned more from my parents' divorce than I could in 100 years on MRP. I believe you're doing a lot, I didn't mean to communicate otherwise. However, there is always room for improvement. You know where that is: wardrobe? hair? diet? dad time with your son? game? You see what I'm driving at.
/r/askMRP21/03/16 06:30 AM
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I don't like a goddamned bit of this. There's zero frame to be seen here. So according to her words, I have a month to become attractive enough to stimulate some tingles. In other words, you have one month to complete what most men can't in a year, because she wants you to. You want to do this, "not for her" as you say, but for the sake of the marriage. I say this: fighting for her to stay is the exact opposite of what will give tingles. And I ask this: why do you even want her to stay? she stil…
/r/askMRP21/03/16 05:55 AM
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You're both absolutely right. When I was deployed she was bitchy and overbearing, and I screwed around to make a point. I believe there are two times she may have cheated: once while I was screwing around although she never used it as ammo, and once while I was a blue pill bitch and I could never prove it. I'm not as forgiving in that life is short, but I agree that there's no point in digging into something. On the other hand, if evidence came to light I would act on that as well. She has no id…
/r/askMRP21/03/16 05:41 AM
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It just sounds like someone you meet at a Sun Festival or something. I don't care if a chick has tattoos, but I wouldn't consider them wife material for the most part. In your date's case, she saw her tattoos as rebellion and her only fucking sense of identity. Glad you rooted the crazy out though. On a side note, I don't think I've read your bio or whatever. Are you married?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/16 03:08 AM
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What the hell kind of insult is that in 2016? What kind of socialist are you dating?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/16 09:13 PM
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Lifting can't "fall off" your radar. None of this shit can. We are men, and our value is tangible rather than abstract. If you were a woman and could rely on your good looks or "great personality" then you'd be able to let this shit slide. Take pride in yourself, lift, read, produce. Go out to demonstrate your faith in yourself. Nothing we can comment is going to fix the problem you're already aware of.
/r/askMRP21/02/16 09:05 PM
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It's been said, you seem to have debilitating anxiety issues. Are they rooted in self esteem? How's your lifting going? I went through a similar period and had convinced myself that my social circle had caused the change, when really I had such cripplingly low self esteem that I retreated into my shell along with the Beta Bitch Goblin. Maybe an MD is necessary, but I'll let /u/irateMD deal with that. Without more info, I think it's still entirely possible you're not being honest with yourself, a…
/r/askMRP21/02/16 07:40 PM
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Perfect constant mindset at work and home alike.
/r/askMRP18/02/16 11:46 PM
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Then there's the question you haven't really answered. What do you do that makes her believe you add value to her life? If you give her no value then don't expect a rampant sex kitten just because you lift weights.
/r/askMRP17/02/16 03:16 PM
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I generally go with my gut so I couldn't tell you. If you flipped a coin and staying with her was heads, what would you hope for? I can't really tell you that. Are you getting attention from other women? Do you GAF? If you really don't care whether you stay, does she even add value to your life?
/r/askMRP17/02/16 02:08 AM
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You're not really giving us much other than weight loss and reading. Where are you at in dread? Are you dressing better? A life apart? Are you putting more effort into your marriage than the eight seconds it took you to type this? If it's not working, something is missing.
/r/askMRP17/02/16 01:40 AM
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