| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 230 | Brilliant Opener!! | AlphaAMOG | /r/seduction | 23/09/11 08:15 PM | |
| 0 | [FR] - First FR, #Closed at bar | AlphaAMOG | /r/seduction | 31/10/11 01:26 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Brilliant Opener!!Brilliant Opener is back up if you want to take a look at it, just do a search for it. | /r/seduction | 20/10/11 11:20 PM |
| 6 | "He, we still on for tonight?" "I'm moving right now:( so maybe". what's the appropriate response? seems kinda rude on her part.Do women ever make sense? lol | /r/seduction | 07/10/11 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Give a beginner a homework assignment for the night and maybe some tips?Good openers to use, just observe what's going on and say something about it to an attractive woman you'd like to talk to, 'look at the way this guy's dancing over there', or 'where do you think this guy bought that ridiculous shirt from?' things like that. | /r/seduction | 07/10/11 08:09 PM |
| 1 | am i reading into this or am i being let down easy?No, just don't do anymore and it'll be fine, while you're sitting there thinking 'oh man, should i text her?' She's sitting at home thinking 'oh wow, why isn't he texting me? Maybe he has a lot going on?' You're in her head which is always a good thing, she'll start chasing you. | /r/seduction | 05/10/11 02:13 PM |
| 1 | am i reading into this or am i being let down easy?Only text her prior to heading to see her, for example heading to meet her at the bar "be there in 10" etc. Or text her to cancel plans "too busy tonight, we'll reschedule" | /r/seduction | 04/10/11 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Help Getting a GirlIt's not so much asking her out as it is telling her, for example instead of saying 'would you like to go to dinner?' make it sound more casual, like 'hey, I'm heading for dinner you should come with.' | /r/seduction | 30/09/11 08:37 PM |
| 1 | The age old story: "Don't stick your dick in crazy"Nay, chances are you'll be doing a lot of damage control due to drama with other people if you get into something with her, she doesn't seem all that....stable, no offense. | /r/seduction | 30/09/11 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Help me truly understand the concept of one-itis.Another word for one-itis is obsession, you become completely enthralled in one woman and one woman alone, focus all your energy into trying to be with her and nothing will happen with her. They can sense how hard you're trying and it turns them off. Hope this helps clarify. | /r/seduction | 30/09/11 02:47 PM |
| 2 | First [FR] ever, First approach ever (sort of) and first # close ever.also don't say 'I'm just kidding' if she looks like she took things the wrong way, just let the comment hit home for a couple of seconds then be like 'you thought I was serious? You are so gullable.' | /r/seduction | 30/09/11 02:04 PM |
| 1 | First [FR] ever, First approach ever (sort of) and first # close ever.Nice work! Next time to initiate conversation try something like 'nice hair...it kind of reminds me of a birds nest' or 'wow, the salvation army has great selection these days!' She may glare at you at first, but when she realizes you're kidding it'll get her laughing then you're in ;). | /r/seduction | 30/09/11 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Who's in Waterloo, ON?I could go for a meetup in the Loo! Or perhaps London as well, or somewhere in between :) | /r/seduction | 27/09/11 07:51 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Abysmal failure at night game. 9 blowouts, and no close.I know you said you wanted to stay away from 'canned lines' but depending on how you deliver them they don't at all sound fake. Here's a couple that will get a reaction out of them when you're sarging....'Nice hair, sort of looks like a bird's nest' or 'those are nice shoes, do they come in women's sizes?' A personal favourite of mine is, 'Hey, I just saw another girl a few minutes ago wearing that exact same skirt!' That one especially gets them going, women HAVE to be wearing something unique … | /r/seduction | 27/09/11 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Who's in Waterloo, ON?I'm in London, send me a private message if you want to sarge sometime here or there! | /r/seduction | 27/09/11 02:47 PM |
| -1 | [FR] Failed subway game? Fizzle after good successful opening.You could have turned it around on her at that point, instead of saying "That's what I was telling him!" You could have busted her on something about her appearance, such as, "that's actually funny coming from a girl with shoes like that, do they come in women's sizes? I think you're being a little quick to judge." Something to that effect, depending on how you say it, it can either come off as edgy or mean spirited, if it's edgy she'd smack you on the arm or something...which of course would le… | /r/seduction | 26/09/11 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Dancing in circles in clubs . . .Mind you, it actually helps to also say 'what up' while you do it, but if the situation warrants it, such as on the dance floor, the head tilt will do. | /r/seduction | 26/09/11 01:18 PM |
| 2 | Dancing in circles in clubs . . .Tilt your head up and smile, it's the way of saying 'what up?' When it's too noisy to actually say it. | /r/seduction | 26/09/11 01:14 PM |
| 2 | Brilliant Opener!!Thanks for the advice, maybe I'll try it with your variation next time, I'll let you know how it works! | /r/seduction | 24/09/11 05:34 AM |
| 9 | Brilliant Opener!!hahahahaha! nice. | /r/seduction | 24/09/11 05:31 AM |
| 3 | Brilliant Opener!!Ah, gotcha. | /r/seduction | 24/09/11 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Brilliant Opener!!I didn't buy it for her, read it again! lol, it was my drink, I just made it look as if I bought it for her that's what made it unique, she thought she was getting a free drink but I told her she was just holding it :). | /r/seduction | 24/09/11 12:19 AM |
| -7 | Brilliant Opener!!That's still buying her in a way, I would let her pay her own end for breakfast in the morning lol. | /r/seduction | 23/09/11 11:44 PM |
| 22 | Brilliant Opener!!Correct. | /r/seduction | 23/09/11 11:04 PM |
| 6 | Brilliant Opener!!A watch that isn't a digital one :P. | /r/seduction | 23/09/11 11:04 PM |
| 2 | Brilliant Opener!!It had crossed my mind that she might run away with my drink but I thought I'd risk it anyways, had that been the case I would have just told her she owed me a drink if I saw her later that night. As for slipping something in, I haven't really heard of women doing that to men too often, it's usually the reverse, but a valid point nonetheless CurveBall. | /r/seduction | 23/09/11 11:01 PM |
| 27 | Brilliant Opener!!They untied themselves on my left shoe at some point during the night, it was like fate :P. Had I not used the shoelaces i would have checked my phone or started winding my watch while she was holding my drink. | /r/seduction | 23/09/11 10:29 PM |
| 3 | Brilliant Opener!!Yeah I wasn't by the bar for this one lol. | /r/seduction | 23/09/11 10:18 PM |
| 152 | Brilliant Opener!!Well when she was standing there with her mouth open I sarcastically said, 'that's actually a good look for you', she then started laughing and began throwing IoIs my way. | /r/seduction | 23/09/11 08:42 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First time going to a bar aloneGen, here's a little exercise I want you to do next time you go out alone to raise your comfort level with it... Stand in a high traffic area in the bar (if it's empty, it'll pick up as the night goes on, just wait it out) just stand in this area and observe the people around you, going by you etc. One thing you'll notice, noone cares if you're there by yourself, they don't see you as desperate they just see you as another face in the crowd at the bar having a good time, so have a good time! | /r/seduction | 23/09/11 07:51 PM |
| 1 | # Closed, it's been a few weeks and no escalationWhen she told you she had a boyfriend you should have said something along the lines of, "Well maybe it's time you got yourself a man friend." | /r/seduction | 20/09/11 05:20 PM |
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