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| 1 | Do you sometimes worry about trying to be perceived as the 'Alpha' of a social event, class, school, company etc...?Yeah, I say that because I'm pretty guilty of it myself. I usually view people as cold and not open to wanting to meet people for some reason. People love talking to people, and people love meeting new people. I don't know why, but I never really view people in that way, but it's definitely true. I know this because I love talking to new people, and whenever I talk to someone new I'm always smiling. You might be surprised by the amount of positive responses you receive while meeting people, comp… | /r/askTRP | 10/01/17 10:07 AM |
| 1 | Do you sometimes worry about trying to be perceived as the 'Alpha' of a social event, class, school, company etc...?These people in your high school are people that you are going to be seeing on a regular basis, so get to know them now, while you still have an excuse that you are new to the school. Would you rather not get to know these people at all and then when you graduate wondering what it would have been like if you did? Make the most out of your time there. Try to get to know everyone's names, and try to make small connections here and there, and eventually you might meet their friends. It's okay to fe… | /r/askTRP | 10/01/17 09:43 AM |
| 1 | Do you sometimes worry about trying to be perceived as the 'Alpha' of a social event, class, school, company etc...?It just sounds like you are just really insecure about yourself in the first place. I think you really just need more experience socializing, and you need to try and find out how you want others to perceive you through trial and error. Think in your mind of someone you look up to, or think of qualities you like in other people, and slowly start becoming the person you want to be. If you want to be "alpha," then stop focusing all of your attention on yourself, it's unnecessary. Instead, focus on … | /r/askTRP | 10/01/17 09:17 AM |
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