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Lift. In all seriousness. Learn about dread. Improve your SMV and frame, then just start doing whatever you want to do with her. If you're getting knocked back, your SMV isn't high enough. You don't train her, you raise yourself and she will want to satisfy you.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 08:23 AM
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You need to get professional help. I'm not mocking you, you sound significantly depressed and should see someone who is paid to fix people in your situation. Next, see a doctor for a full physical. Be upfront, there is no point in hiding anything. They will likely identify areas of your health to improve. This should be a top priority for at least the next six months. Lastly and most importantly, go lift. Today. You indicated money isn't an immediate issue, so join a gym and hire a trainer. Who …
/r/askTRP16/10/17 09:02 AM
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You set it up so you survive and thrive, regardless of what she does. If she cheats, you'll never know. Have to accept that you'll never know, at least not at first. Good advice, and has been mentioned many times. Relevant to the OP, I think a key part of outcome independence as far as a LTR is concerned is establishing your frame around what you want out of it. If that has been met, then you should be satisfied with the investment of your time. So if, in the end, it blows up or she cheats, then…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 03:04 AM
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You're right. But we do understand. LTR is red pill on hard mode. Married Red Pill is the place to go if you're happy to stare into the abyss.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 02:47 AM
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If you're going to have threesomes in a LTR, make sure SHE makes it happen and picks the girl Correct. Though to be specific, that is how the night needs to go down in her head. You can and should pick the girl, but you need to set up the situation and let her hamster into the idea herself.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 12:44 AM
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I feel free and I feel good because I don't have to prove myself to anybody. Yet you're posting complaining about genetics and attraction. I was invisible to all sexy women for years but now I have become a high value target. No, you have become a "high value" provider. Which isn't really high value, but sufficient for a post-wall woman to settle with. The path is clear if you actually do want to improve your attractiveness to women (SMV not provider attributes). It is simple, but not easy. But …
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 06:11 AM
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Also not mentioned so far in the replies - SMV is different for women vs men. Men usually have a more logical approach. For women, you can't pick apart the features the way you did: it's all about the 'feelz', the experience they have.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 12:11 AM
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Exactly, OP is clueless. Years ago, entire Cosmo was full of articles of how to hook a rich man. One article was how to hook a dentist, dentists make a fair amount of money. I think you completely missed the point. Landing BB has been discussed to death. What do any of those Amazon titles have to do with high SMV men?
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 08:43 AM
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Looking forward to this. I don't think I agree but want to hear your theory. I think hypergamy will get you in the end, not necessarily a physical decline.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 06:36 AM
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Do I need to make new events happen Yes. Get busy and concentrate on high value activities. If you have time to spend hours in idle pursuits you're not pushing yourself. Lifting going well? Lift more. Try a new hobby. Rock climbing is great if you're having trouble sleeping Join an industry group related to your studies. Start a side business/contracting.
/r/askTRP07/03/17 05:51 AM
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Decent post. Don't understand the bandwagon moral policing in the comments. Also, in different phrasing: TLDR; Watch her actions not words. This is sidebar 101.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 06:46 AM
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Good comment. Some guys love to be the martyr, it absolves them of the ownership of their failures. This had been a personal failure of mine. I self-servingly confused martyrdom with stoicism. If you're fully plugged in the payoff for your ego is strong and the path out is long.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 12:38 AM
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What? There are three and a half billion women on the planet, the vast majority with healthy wombs. This is the definition of abundance. I think it is important to be clear that a dearth of women is not the problem. What has changed is that for many women, social access to higher value men is increasing. A man must be increasingly competitive to retain access to high caliber women.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 12:04 AM
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Definitely. Friends and I have used this as an opener for years, before I knew anything about RP. Great way to get them to drop frame. If you can spot a girl with an orbiter, and she's looking bored, just walk over, say hi and ask how long they have been dating. He will panic, she will backpedal, and you pull over and introduce your friend.. "I think you should meet X, he's a wildlife firefighter on holiday from Africa" or whatever you're running with that night.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 02:34 AM
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I played Dota 2, but also other games in general. I justified this to myself as 'unwinding' and 'zoning out'. It's not - it is an addiction, the same dopamine kick as gambling. Specific advice, from what helped me: You're not hitting the gym hard enough. Lift more. Change program, get a trainer. You should be so tired in the evenings that your eyes close when you sit at the computer. If you're not already, switch to gym in the mornings. This has been the #1 for me. Get up, Gym, then breakfast. Y…
/r/askTRP23/01/17 11:17 PM
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A simple way to look at this problem is just see whether her problem is reasonable or not. If it's reasonable then it's probably a comfort test, after all, shit tests are not reasonable or realistic. Thanks. This is a takeaway I missed in prior reading.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 09:47 PM
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How long is your LTR? I read a ratio of one month per year before you should expect results in a recent post, don't recall the title.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/16 06:49 AM
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TRP -> self-improvement strategies to boost SMV Except that is the wrong interpretation of TRP. Your comparison would work if that was correct. The most succinct summarization I have read was "TRP: we fix men". Improving yourself is the goal of the theory, higher SMV is a side effect. Now, many may be actively pursuing SMV, easy plates etc, but if they correctly follow the theory they are being taught to be better men. This is the end game. You don't need to and shouldn't need to progress.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 07:28 AM
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A slap and three punches then sort of throwing around until I hid in the bathroom (door). Leave. No excuses. You can't undo this.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 05:56 AM
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Nice work. How long have you been with her? You say you regret not taking the same action sooner - but perhaps your timing is just what it needed to be. I have often seen the "one month for every year" ratio quoted across MRP. This is my personal conflict at the moment (unplugging, two months in). Results are happening, but slowly. I catch myself thinking I should course correct and talk to her logically - when I need to STFU, read and keep at it, there is a long road ahead.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/16 10:09 PM
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