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AlphaXpipubs/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 03:47 PM
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Most of the top self made men never went to college... a job is a slow death. Trying to create can be death, or a huge success.... college blows as hard as sensitivity training.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/15 02:56 AM
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You were kinder than I would have been... New York in Flames... Missiles headed to Moscow, I'm not wearing pants, film at 11.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/15 02:49 AM
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The easy way is to obey the 2nd amendment. The Airman shot 7 times without his gun trying to rescue the others would agree.... And I go no where without my gun. The only time a Beta feels brave is when he feels he has the upper hand. The completely unarmed (on a gun free zone) Alpha was shot 7 times. I say, arm everyone. The weak will shut up.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/15 02:40 AM
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AKA typical fat feminist.... and the really hot feminine girls wont.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/15 02:38 AM
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They mean the Alpha's they want wont even notice them, then, when they are knocked up and fat, the men that use to beg don't want to raise some other mans kid to fuck a fat, unhappy, feminist wife. If a hot, young college chick says it, she means all the metro's are so easy she can't remember the last time a guy was a challenge and said no.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/15 02:36 AM
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So men make 25% more for doing the same job. I read till this... you are so missing the elements of this. In the exact same role, with the same experience women make more. The underwater female welder will make at least 10%, maybe 25% more. Here is the thing... only 1 in 10,000,000 million will learn this skill, and maybe 1 in 1,000,000 million will do it. The job is paid a lot because it really is dangerous. As a previous rescue diver and instructor, it is insanely dangerous. http://www.allprou…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/15 02:32 AM
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Fuck that. I make my girl act out porn. If that's what really turns us men on why tried to hide it? So girls like us if we are nice? i am really this way, so I truly disagree. I use to play hard to get... Now I play hard to want... And more hot women want me than ever in my life.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 04:02 AM
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You beat me to it... Romance? Make her feel hot and she will bang you will her her new husband is mowing the lawn.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 03:34 AM
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Let me add... that same value you is average COMPANY value too.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 03:32 AM
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Yes they are.... when your building is burning do you want your average male friend or average female friend to pull you out? When we have to attack the enemy, do you want that fastest, most crack shot team, or the team that cant hump average. Same human value... yes. All women have equal life value to men. Same functional value. No... If it is war, no woman will ever hang (on average - for the sensitive). The same with an average life conflict.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 03:30 AM
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"with a person whom he cannot trust".... Your an idiot that hasn't done it. So allow me to school you. What you feel about them is not just them. Its what the government will allow. See, it's not what you think, its what that judge will think. And when she is mad, you are screwed... Write about a topic you walked, and let the rest of us write about the higher levels.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 03:08 AM
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You just don't control... you enjoy. She is with you or she isn't. Her choice... not yours. All you can do is be a man she wants. http://www.pipubs.com/how-to-handle-other-men-around-your-girl/
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 03:20 AM
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That has nothing to do with connecting. I have a very hot girlfriend I fucked the first date. I just qualify more than you do.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 03:16 AM
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"she should not rule your bedroom like a wife" My issue right there... no one should rule your bed room... He was a successful beta, I would rather die Alpha.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 03:13 AM
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"There is this myth that good looking men sleep with as many women as they can" False premise.... men desire looks, women desire dominant. Good looking guys are shot down all the time while guys that understand female sexual nature are rewarded. Seriously, don't project what you like to what women like. You like hot, they like masculine. Your looks are a distant second.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 03:09 AM
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I was going to say it, but their it is. Well done.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 03:03 AM
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Yeah... and you are writing why? Oh yeah, you do care. Do you bang the chicks you want.... no.....? Thats why.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 05:07 AM
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I am sorry man. Robbin Williams is the biggest name I know that did that. Not my site: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6X6q5QqQ3VU
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 03:47 AM
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That was all free. Yet you keep acting like the masses.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 03:07 AM
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That is exactly right. I couldn't have said it better.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 02:29 AM
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If equal sure.. but thats not how it goes. Pick the best, then don't give a shit about looks if you did the hiring. Work is not where you create your harem. It is where you get shit done and make money.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 12:41 AM
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"to always always pick the ugly girl over the hot girl when hiringto always always pick the ugly girl over the hot girl when hiring" No, just pick the best employee... http://www.pipubs.com/how-to-get-the-girl-that-works-for-you/
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 12:37 AM
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I had to read that, then go look it up - Well done!
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 12:18 AM
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No, I am questioning your intentions - like why the hell you are even thinking about it.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 11:43 PM
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I really like what you wrote. Do that, but in a charming way (to her)... don't call her out on slutty behavior, tell her to pick up hot girls for both of you. If you do that, they may chuckle... a large portion of them will.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 11:25 PM
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Vengefully, when are we doing lunch and picking up chicks? This is probably the shortest, but most true, comment ever.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 11:14 PM
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I started learning "Red Pill" before the movie Matrix existed. And my sister didn't talk to me for 10 years. Guess what now - after 5 kinds and being married to a really cool but beta $500,000 a year an executive she tells me I was right. BTW - 17 is legal in Texas, don't know where you are. Next time, if our BS legal system doesn't cockblock you, go..... don't worry about sis.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 11:10 PM
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Not, trying to save your ass. Been there. In retrospect - let me clarify. If you are wise to women, if you make a girl feel sexual attraction and sexual tension she will fuck you. If you "call a girl out on her slutty" behavior of course she is going to be hurt and not like you. What do you want? A perfect snow flake - very, very rare. To get laid? That's easy, stop worrying about a girls slutty behavior and use it.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 10:59 PM
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It was always an investment. Marriage licenses are filed the same place as business licenses. Don't believe me, look it up.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 10:56 PM
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Manly doesn't come from what you drink - that is moronic. If you are man enough to drink it, and still walk straight up to women and ask if she is bisexual you can do whatever you want. http://www.pipubs.com/what-does-it-mean-to-dominate-a-girl/
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 10:55 PM
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You are young, I forgive you. http://www.pipubs.com/saved-by-alpha/ i thought that too.... then I got really hurt. Like spinal hurt. I just dont agree. The energy and millions I built in my 20's are not the same as trying to learn to walk again in my 40's. Nice thought, but time matters as much to men as women. They may hit the wall and loose there looks, but I am 44 with spinal damage (still stronger than most of men) and no where near as energetic. Things I know how to do are harder. So no, ti…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 10:51 PM
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No, they really care about what you are doing. Like in the moment. http://www.pipubs.com/why-women-love-evil-men/
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 10:44 PM
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"V: People get the govn they deserve. I think blaming it entirely on the Govn isn't the right way to go about it. I think some blame lies on people of Greece as well." Really, a few of us, myself included know the USA is quashing 1st, 2nd and 4th amendment - I bet you arent doing shit about that.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 10:43 PM
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Are you bisexual is the correct question. Let the white knights and lurker feminist down vote me. If you are automatically thinking her beauty puts her above you are already loosing. http://www.pipubs.com/she-is-not-your-equal-and-she-doesnt-want-to-be/
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 10:41 PM
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OK I am the guy you hate, cause that happens all the time. Seriously, why are you not building your own harem? I married the same chick twice - why don't you learn from others mistakes. http://www.pipubs.com/my-story/
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 10:36 PM
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"I have seen men fired for sexual harassment charges because they slept with someone in the office, and when the relationship was over, the woman retaliated. And let’s be honest – almost anything 2 people will do in a sexual relationship is considered sexual harassment if the woman changes how she feels about the man. The same touch that made her shiver for you could have her screaming assault if she has lost feelings for you or wants to get even with you." "Our government takes sexual harassmen…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 03:17 PM
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Yeah, here it goes. Put yourself first. This may be the hottest chick you have ever seen, but stop worrying. See yourself for your value. Become mentally strong. And when you do this, she will like you. Not because you did it, but because you finally act different than everyone else. It is you that matters. Your energy is the key. Its not popular but it is the truth.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 12:39 AM
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For me, as soon as I sleep with them 99% want more and a relationship. Just my experience.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 01:54 AM
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Dove in a shallow pool, split my skull, shattered nose, crushed the T-4 & T-5 vertebrae. My 14 year old son saved my life. http://www.pipubs.com/saved-by-alpha/
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 03:11 PM
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A big build can equal respect. More test in your body can mean more hard dick. But as a guy that has been a bodybuilder and a cripple (yeah, it sucked) the harder and leaner you are the easier a pickup can be. But as a guy that got F*up... had to walk with a walker.... that went from benching 375 to 125... no kidding... your attitude matters more. I was so embarrassed walking with a walker. And what I found is when my body was taken away, my character carried they day. Nothing changed but my vie…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 04:09 AM
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That is a self limiting belief. What you believe, others will believe, it is all about the energy we bring to the interaction. Look, some guys say because they are short they will never have hot girls - but some very short guys do great. I have dated many women taller. And this works for any limiting belief you can think of - wealth, hair, scars, handicaps, etc. The only thing it doesn't work on is your inner beliefs. The energy you bring means more than anything, and if you belief you never wil…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 11:40 PM
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Every example you gave about kip Moore is the wrong frame. I could care less what she wants if there was something I wanted. If she wants to eat out, and I want to eat in, I eat in. She can get as mad as she likes. Now that energy will keep your sexual market place value high. Sure, sometimes, when you don't care one way or another, then eat out. But when you really want to eat in, eat in. I don't even worry about her leaving - as I have always said, my dick will be wet before she even calms dow…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 09:43 PM
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That is called being a challenge. It works every time.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 11:45 PM
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Sexual market place value is perceived. What she FEELS your value is compared to yours. She see you as high value, bang away. Low value, she wont accept a drink from you. The hottest girls I have met are the most self conscious and do not think the are beautiful - mainly because mostly betas that do not excite them awkwardly interact with them. http://www.pipubs.com/she-is-not-your-equal-and-she-doesnt-want-to-be/
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 11:27 PM
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Be alpha without sexual tension or attraction. Women still respect strong, just remove the "Sue me" part. http://www.pipubs.com/how-to-get-the-girl-that-works-for-you/
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 11:22 PM
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Dave Chappelle predicted this long ago... alpha fucks, beta bucks... I have been the beta paying for shit. 2 decades ago.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 11:17 PM
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"A man's "oneitis" is usually based on logic" I call bullshit. A man with oneitis thinks emotionally that this is the best he can do. This is why they cry, stalk, fight, etc. An Alpha thinks logically... Law of 10,000 http://www.pipubs.com/alpha-laws/
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 11:16 PM
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Actually, he would never marry because his ideas and science were more important. His life spoke Alpha - he staid free and banged what he wanted. The Marquis de Sade also said some sweet shit to get him laid.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 11:13 PM
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Attitude is everything. You may get it from your dad, a comic book, or neighborhood friend. Nothing replaces what you believe.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 11:11 PM
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To women like this I simply remind them I can't wash my eyes with soap.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 02:12 AM
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Thankfully, men don't hit the wall http://www.pipubs.com/reframing-with-younger-women/
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 01:38 AM
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You fucked up giving the back rub and trying to escalate. Whatever happened to "no rub mine"? Maybe you would have lost her faster, or maybe she would have rubbed your back and fucked you. Either way, you would have been better off.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 04:09 AM
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I tell my 14 year old son I love him several times a day. And he tells me. I tell my best friends I love them too. I think the only restrictions placed on males is in there own minds. But I do, the less Alpha a man is, the more likely he is to feel showing male affection makes him look weak.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 06:35 PM
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Even a Dark Triad male is still susceptible to being taken advatage of by a woman. He may be a Dark Triad male, but he has very limited options based on his being in jail for 40+ years.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 07:41 PM
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If you read the report they define it much tighter than the "feminist" surveys: The CSA definition of rape and sexual assault includes unwanted sexual contact due to force and due to incapacitation, but excludes unwanted sexual contact due to verbal or emotional coercion. So if you held her down and kissed her and she was saying no -that is sexual assault. But if you bang her by whispering sweet nothings in her ear then she changes her mind, that is not SA or rape.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 02:21 PM
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From the Bureau of Justice Statistics, a division within DOJ, - Rather than one in five female college students becoming victims of sexual assault, the actual rate is 6.1 per 1,000 students, or 0.61 percent (instead of 1-in-5, the real number is 0.03-in-5). For non-students, the rate of sexual assault is 7.6 per 1,000 people. 0.76% http://www.bjs.gov/content/pub/pdf/rsavcaf9513.pdf Corrected to move the decimal point as alanalanson1 pointed out.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 10:19 AM
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" Fucking a hot woman does not increase your value." "Successfully reciting pick-up artistry like Casanova does not increase your value."* "Social proof does not increase your VALUE."* I get the jest of what you are trying to say, but in the social market place, value is perceived. Really nice, good looking guys that, as you said, are "getting ripped, starting your own business, building that muscle car you always wanted", but haven't/cant -Fuck the hot girl -charm a girl (all the PUA routines a…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 10:14 AM
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You are not creating any tension. No tension, no attraction. Create tension, release the tension at the right time and maintain your frame. This is the secret to creating those tingles in a girl. http://www.pipubs.com/how-to-impress-a-girl/
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 10:50 PM
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Not true.... I have done it with just attitude. I am 44, and my hot girls is 22. And I am broke. It is all in your view. This is us. http://www.pipubs.com/about-us/ Most guys have your limiting belief, which is why we have this thread.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 07:14 AM
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That is not true... your SMV is perceived. The rich, great lead singer may be a little bitch as seen by all the news articles of his divorce to his hot wife. The whole point of game is dating above what you think your SMV is.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 07:00 AM
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To me it is pride. If you can buy it, I can fuck it for free.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 04:49 AM
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I always get pictures of her sucking my cock, riding me, or whatever. Hard to say rape while she is enjoying yourself. That or get the mutual consent for signed. Just make sure you do it in a cocky & funny manner. You can download the form here: http://www.pipubs.com/affirmative-consent-form-protection-from-false-rape-allegations/
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 10:31 PM
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Of the several hundred girls I have slept with over 70% had a "boyfriend" or man they were seeing, so you might want to get over this self imposed morality.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 08:24 PM
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"I meet a new woman and I am Alpha as fuck, not a front, but a true Alpha" "and yet I have trouble holding frame caving into my old Nice Guy frame" Many guys experience this as they learn Alpha - the problem is you haven't learned to keep your self first. Biggest comment I read was "I suffer from depression." So stop. Seriously, even the way you wrote it as if it is a crutch. My advice - subliminal programming. Literally retrain your mind to not strengthen your mind.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 03:08 PM
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Good story, and conclusion. I am not sure this is a "pussy pass" as it is just her sense of entitlement. The "pussy pass" typically refers to a woman that commits a crime and then doesn't receive the same punishment as a man would for the same crime. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/09/11/men-women-prison-sentence-length-gender-gap_n_1874742.html
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 03:01 PM
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"that's because "high quality" men are so rare" The point most men miss is "high quality" man. What is a high quality man to a woman? It's not money, clothes, cars or any of these attributes. A high quality man is a man that can create tension and attraction in a woman. But men have been taught to believe it is the car, home, cash, etc. so we spend a ton of time acquiring these only to find out it doesn't attract or keep the girl. http://www.pipubs.com/how-to-impress-a-girl/
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 02:52 PM
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Honestly? That went bankrupt. I then clawed up the corporate latter to hate that as well. And if you read all of it I got really hurt - I was rocking the world before crushing my spine. Like had to relearn to walk - like I fucked up everything I could do - like type, run, lift, jump, etc. Now I am with a start-up. It has great potential. Its not the final spot, it is your attitude on the journey. I am just short of 6 figures working from my recliner. And I am doing my best to make more. It has a…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 03:57 AM
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"I want to know if there is an appropriate/non-creepy way to message her (either direct message on instagram or facebook maybe)" No - a message from a guy she doesn't know is always seen as weak. Why not have the balls to go up and say, "Hey, are you a good cook?" Then tease her about cooking you dinner and challenge her that her abilities may not be up to par for you. http://www.pipubs.com/how-to-impress-a-girl/
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 07:15 PM
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Life can be amazing!!! I was divorced at 31 with custody of a 1 year old. I spent several years learning NLP & game. I also spent a lot of time lifting. I am now 44, extremely hot, 22 yr old bisexual girlfriend and I have been with hundreds of girls. No need to "get permission" to go on my bike, or skiing, or to the beach. The weekend roles around and I have so many options. A much better life than marriage was. http://www.pipubs.com/about-us/
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 07:11 PM
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Great question. I don't think about her as arm candy, however I am very aware of how people will judge her. Personally, when I see an normal guy dating a larger woman I can't help but make a mental note that the guy doesn't value himself. It is also a clear indicator that we aren't going to be friends. When I see a man dating 1-2 notches above his perceived value I see a man that has likely spent a lot of time learning game. I know girls do not date their equal, they always date above their self…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 07:06 PM
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I've already told you: the only way to a woman's heart is along the path of torment. I know none other as sure. Marquis de Sade
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 08:13 PM
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I am 44, my girl is 22 and wants kids. I do have one child that I have had custody since he was 1 - he is 14. My advice - wait. Keep playing the field. Your sexual market value won't peak for another 10-15 years. The higher your value, the better your options.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 11:32 PM
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Paying for your kid is one thing, but she is a taken care of woman. I was a millionaire by 30 - and went thru an $8 million dollar bankruptcy while getting custody of my 1 year old son. I have given up a lot of potential to raise him to 14 - turning down opportunities that would require I move. the difference is, I don't pay women for anything. My girl is 22 years younger, and I don't pay her to stay. I don't pay the ex. I do only date bisexuals, and I don't pay for that either. Not trying to pi…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 04:56 PM
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"Now to be clear, I also fund her lifestyle with a fraction of my salary, and she doesn't work." You have a prostitute that you don't care about. You are paying for the ability to put her in her place. You are right saying that you have to declare the rules, but you have power over her that changes the dynamic. Now do that without paying for shit....now you are Alpha.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 07:51 AM
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Find new friends. Dude, it is not your job to change your loved ones. Be an example.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 07:41 AM
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to sell ticket to women, 70% of all fiscal spending. Dude, everything is aimed at selling women.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 07:39 AM
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The key is to see yourself above all women.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 07:37 AM
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Some good cocky and funny responses... I would be like 'sure, it's 20 bucks a touch... any more and and the terms change."
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 07:35 AM
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Great you are a unicorn. And just shouting this out proves it. Let me be the ass. Your mom still thinks of banging your dad, and has learned to put everything else aside. You are trying to use this one story to justify being overly nice to some chick you want to bang or hold on to some belief that women are " perfect ". It is normal, but you are missing the point of the thread. We are all evil hairless monkeys, with the capability of higher interactions. Some women are incredible, and so are som…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 07:32 AM
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The problem is "nice guy" traits are supplicate and give compliments. You just gave an option for badboy or Alpha, depending on how you do it. That's not "nice" as you put yourself first. It is what you should do.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 07:23 AM
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Yeah, and I drove a Viper. It's not the clothes, or the car, or the cash you have. It is your attitude. Are you enough by yourself... and I have lived it. Just be who you want.... a suit may get you laid, but it will never keep the girl.http://www.pipubs.com/what-value-do-you-bring/
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 05:36 AM
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Wow, chicks don't know what they are fighting for... The average feminist is just a girl pissed she doesn't have the perceived sexual value of an Alpha male (not the average man)... not a women put down or used. It's no wonder they use "cheap labor"... equality is not the end game.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 04:20 AM
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I did that math... the whore is cheaper. But thats not really the point. The point is how we feel as men. I won't pay a girl a dime. I won't even buy a drink if I think it is buying her. To me, it is more about pride. Who am I.... and what am I worth. If I can buy her, then I know the game.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 04:17 AM
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First, I wouldn't have text that. I teach girls I am fucking, not that I want to fuck. But, for your recovery, text "where is the beer/movie, etc" Brush past it and ignore it. As you learn all of this you don't try to prove you are right to girls, you just trigger attraction, fuck them, and go on with your life.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 02:31 AM
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Text back "who is this" and just have fun. A chick blowing you off will not respond or text. http://www.pipubs.com/what-to-do-if-she-flakes/
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 02:28 AM
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It depends... is she ranked above you? Does she have company authority above you? Do you love her? Do you want her to display her ownership of you. Are you trying to fuck other girls. Seriously, if you are looking Alpha, then she is trying to protect hee turf. If you are having issues she is trying to piss on her territory and make you look weak. It really is about how she is being at home, not work. http://www.pipubs.com/she-is-not-your-equal-and-she-doesnt-want-to-be/
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 02:20 AM
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It is time for men, you and me, to become masters of our own life. That is why I have given up my toys and worked to not have to have a job. I would rather be free.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 02:12 AM
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Embrace it. When it is thrown in your face simple smile. Women SWOON over unshakeable confidence. Enjoy it.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 03:15 AM
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And I would go rush a sorority... then sue the college when I wasn't accepted. Fight fire with fire.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 03:47 AM
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Do you know how bad it can get? http://www.pipubs.com/saved-by-alpha/ Learn from what these smart men say then live your life to enrich those around you. It saved my life... not my emotional life, my life.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 03:25 AM
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separate her from the group. engage everyone... be fun an charming, and go make her sit alone. let her play on her phone, make remarks, whatever.... just smile, look at her and tell her she can join the group when she is wants too. don't put her down. she will fight more. let the group feeling do the work for you.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 03:21 AM
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A cake? Like that matters. Is she hot? Do you get hard for her? Do you like fucking her? Not trying to put you down, but if you are trying to be TRP then you fuck what you like and tell the rest you are not interested.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 03:08 AM
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Just sat there smiling? Tell him to get lost. Tell her to go bang him. Do anything but just sit there smiling.... that is a wait and see attitude, not a take what I want attitude.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 03:03 AM
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Never... The more you lower your standards the more you demonstrate low value. I have watched Springer as well... some loser banging 3 200 pound chicks. You can have them.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 03:00 AM
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Could be a component, but I have a different theory. When a man is nice to a girl, he is subconsciously communicate that he places high value on her. When a man is an asshole to a women he subconsciously communicates he has higher value than her. If he combines asshole behavior with charm and attraction, he communicates he is a high status male. A very attractive trait to women.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 06:10 PM
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Hasn't been my experience at all - most younger people assume the older generation don't know what they are talking about.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 01:33 PM
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That has nothing to do with the advice of older men - that is the advice of beta men, regardless if they are 15 or 50.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 12:38 PM
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Confident Charming Able to tease, flirt and challenge women while building attraction. Ability to say no Ability to maintain frame with amused mastery and mirth to her shit test Has more than one girl in his harem It is all about how you make a girl feel. Physical traits like height or wealth can make her feel - but not as much as emotional traits.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 11:53 PM
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You are demonstrating you have the "ability to walk away" which is the opposite of needy. When a man has this attitude he is demonstrating higher value which is making her question the attitude she had of you. That it turns makes her worried that your value is going up compared to her, so all these text are searching for validation. You matter more right now than you did the day before she broke up with you. If you want to turn her into a plate, after one of those text about "I wish you would ha…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 02:05 PM
1

And I am out checking our rules... dude, I wrote it for you. Not the guys judging us. Not the comments about what we should do, just what helps us. I want you to have your male dignity and honor, and I want you to know your attitude will change your life. I really know it sounds hard, but it is a choice. We may never be sex models, but we can have what we want. I mean that with all the bs I went thru.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 05:13 AM
1

Simply not true. That is one of those limiting beliefs I was talking about. Before I learned all of this I wasn't even average with girls. I am far from average now. If we can't improve our situation, why study? Why learn, and share the lessons we learn about women? The same guy acting confident, charismatic and charming is going to pull 1000% more girls than that same guy being shy, meek and timid.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 12:21 AM
1

Went right over my head. - That is funny!
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 12:20 AM
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LOL no. I am here to learn and share what I have learned. I do teach, but I am not trying to sell anyone here. Just trying to help. My writing style is to encourage hope - so men can overcome there limiting beliefs.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 04:55 PM
3

Great question - I got really mad at the situation and slob I had become and I decided to learn everything I could on human behavior. I studied NLP, specifically limiting beliefs and reframes, I studied calibration (as in being able to read people) and I read every damn dating book I could find, including those for women. I then went into the world and practiced. I tried different scenarios of approach, eye contact, body language, etc. and I documented the responses. I also shaved my balding hea…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 04:53 PM
1

Thank you - I should have mentioned I was 5'2 @ 105 lbs till I was 17. My son is 14 and the 2nd smallest kid in his grade - we are late bloomers and I had this conversation with him last night.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 04:20 PM
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"you can be who you want to be, whether you’re a man, a woman, a boy, a girl, whatever. " That is not the definition of a feminist - however, if those are the rules, I am going to define myself as a.... VIKING.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 02:40 PM
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Great analogy and you are right on about the mental development and challenges/qualifiers the Alpha uses and how it is a cue to women. I do want to point out one thing - If you are "Bob", you can learn Alpha. Learning game, alpha traits, etc. and then forcing yourself to consciously watch the reactions of the females and you can develop those traits. The most empowering thing a man can do is tell a woman "no" - not in a mean way, but in a "no, i would rather do x."
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 02:36 PM
1

What do you mean deal breaker? Are you planning on marrying her - if so, you have already lost even if she doesn't gain weight. As a masculine man, you enjoy those you want to enjoy - until they don't please you anymore. The only deal breaker is if you decide something about her isn't worth your effort.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 02:02 PM
2

"22-year-old criminology student named Krista who has a three-year-old child" So a basic single mom-child who likely couldn't keep her man, and studies crime wants to eradicated most of the male species? I wonder if her child is a son? As for my balls Krista - Molon Labe!
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 10:19 PM
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“Something nice about me.” My standard line for anything along these lines... "On a scale of 1 to 10 you are... fuckable." and just watch as she tries to figure out if that is a compliment of not...
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 06:25 PM
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There is a difference between NEED & WANT. I have been the CEO/President of 4 companies between 8 - 36 million in revenue. Just out of college (while still learning skills) I started entry level engineer. And I spent nights and weekends (on my own time, non-paid) learning more about the business. After time, I knew the skills I needed and now I only go for executive jobs. I only apply for the hard and rewarding roles. - I WANT the responsibility and I demand the salary. And I contact companies t…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 02:11 PM
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What qualities trigger AF? 1) Ability to always walk away. 2) Always have a sexual vibe - don't try to hide you want to fuck her, but you don't have to say it either. 3) Always misconstrue things she says as her wanting you for sex or is trying to get you to settle down. 4) Flirt with other girls in front of her 5) Be too busy to respond to every text or phone call & my favorite 6) be dating multiple women.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 02:01 PM
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"Perhaps it would be even more honest to say that they don't want to be yoked to anyone any more." "Maybe the men got too nice and the women a little too challenging." "The women I have treated who have left their husbands for more "masculine" men believed that their new relationships would be able to both excite and nurture them." This women is trying to describe why women want Alpha. Most women will say they want a "nice, sweet & caring guy" - because this makes him controllable. Which means s…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 01:56 PM
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Yes, that is exactly what I did. And then I let them dig through all the crap to get it back.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 11:12 PM
150

I had similar problems with girls leaving things at my house. After losing a plate over some panties in my linen closet (how did those get there?) I decided: 1) I am just going to be very open that I am with other women 2) I created a lost and found box. Put a bunch of sex toys, jewelry and female stuff in it. Anytime some girl left something at my house it went into the Lost N Found box, and I would let them know where it was. Never lost a plate over that crap again.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 09:55 PM
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It wasn't written by a woman, it was written by Gerald Rogers. In reading through his site he is just a beta buying into the "if we are all just a little nicer women will love us" meme. http://geraldrogers.com/marriage-advice-i-wish-i-would-have-had/ Right after my divorce, I could have written it - now, it makes me cringe.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 03:57 PM
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Girls typically will only send racy pics of themselves to guys they like. Girls may like more than 1 man at a time. If you are in a serious relationship, you are likely the only guy that has them - if you are not, several guys have likely seen them. If she didn't just take them odds are others have seen them.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 02:09 PM
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All men would - you included - assuming she was attractive. The average couple has sex 3 to 5 times per week. Let's use 4. 1000 / 4 = 250 weeks of sex. 250 / 52 = 4.8 years. So the average girl that has been in a relationship 4.8 years is going to have had sex 1000 times.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 02:03 PM
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Actually both of her parents love me - and my parents like her.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 10:20 PM
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Yes, I am truthful about my age (after teasing her that I am much older) Here - this is me and her. http://www.pipubs.com/about-us/ Been dating since she was 19. Our pictures are at the bottom of the page.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 08:05 PM
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It doesn't say if he has the ability to pay - but vaginamony is wealth redistribution. I would not go quietly into that good night either.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 06:21 PM
16

It goes past 30's - I am 44 and have not slept with a girl older than 30 in 10 years. My current girl is 22 and hot. She is also bi, which helps feed this wonderful single mans adventure I am on.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 06:17 PM
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LOL I have fully understood not only the consequences of not learning frame and Alpha, but the true measure of my value. These lessons I have been teaching my son, who is already more Alpha than I ever was in school.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 06:14 PM
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Well, when men were incentivized to get married and have a family, they had a deep motivation to work and earn to support the little lady. But as we learn about how hard we get screwed in divorce court, as we learn that women are incredibly easy if you only learn a few Alpha and game traits, as we learn the government likes to tax the hell out of the middle and give it to others who don't want to work, we decide we don't need this shit. For a long time I thought the car I drove mattered - it doe…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 04:52 PM
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I liked Robin, and he may have become RP after his divorces and ass rapes - which likely fueled his death. "Though Williams had one of Hollywood’s most enduring careers, divorce — from first wife Valerie Velardi in 1988, and from second wife, Marsha Garces in 2008 — had gutted his bank account. “Divorce is expensive,” he recently said. “I used to joke they were going to call it ‘all the money’, but they changed it to ‘alimony’. It’s ripping your heart out through your wallet.”" http://radaronlin…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 04:46 PM
2

The equalizer is attitude and beliefs. We all need to truly understand men and women have different sexual traits that attract each other. Men tend to choose attractive, thin women, regardless of her occupation, wealth, attitude, education, etc. Women tend to choose men who have an attitude of unshakable confidence that also demonstrates social mastery (the ability to enter into a social setting and rank very highly among the strangers simply by your attitude and charm). Everything else for a gu…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 02:42 PM
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And I will be shoulder to shoulder with you.... seems there are more of us every day.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 04:16 AM
2

I couldn't even read it. As Alpha and RP as I am, There is so much .001% it makes me mad. I am usually calm and cool. Life is so easy for America, we pick shit that is a low probability and make it a victim wet dream. My aunt was really raped.. guy came in with a knife... beat her, took her.... and she has never really recovered. Not really the same to the drunk couple that screwed and the girl felt "raped". Or the girl that has a guy looking at her in a way she doesn't like. Most of the men I k…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 04:05 AM
5

Yes, and he said that was his biggest regret.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 03:52 AM
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I wanted to just click red pill... but I am AR-15, water filters, and engineering books. Honestly, I think it will be confiscation and dictator before the fall. As for me, I am old school - I love my country, you can have my gun from my cold dead fingers.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 03:35 AM
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As a man that has had 1 to 30 - It doesn't matter. What matters is if you feel in control and happy. That is the goal. Just unshackle the chains and live your life. You are a winner.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 03:31 AM
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Dude, there are no rules on exactly when you bang a girl. If she feels attraction and you keep moving forward with her, you are fine. You get rid of plates when they stop being fun for you.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 04:31 PM
3

Sure, you do what all men do. You take that high IQ, and you learn some social skills.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 02:34 PM
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Why do you feel the need to tell a girl anything? Just keep moving forward... no reason to say a damn thing.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 02:09 PM
2

I wouldn't have said it so hard... but you are right. The moment I started having incredibly high standards I had more girls. No man will ever understand till they are there, but I challenge every man to say "No, I want..." whatever they want and watch the girls try to prove they are worthy. You want RP... you now have the golden egg.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 06:25 AM
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That is my opening line... "Excuse me, are you bisexual?" And they are not rare. Something like 43% of women have had a bisexual experience. I just use it as a qualifier. And trust me, if you are with a hot girl and flirt with another girl to pick her up she will be flattered, and may try it even if she isn't bi. Preselection is king in showing high value.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 05:09 PM
5

That is a great rebuttal question!
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 03:21 PM
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I have/am in this situation. Now, I must caveat what I say. She knew when she first met me I only dated bisexual girls, and we have met women for play. She also knew that I had a horrible divorce, have studied for 15 years on the seduction/male-female sexual strategies and that I write and teach men to be more successful with women. With that, we had an open & honest discussion about what benefits VS drawbacks there are. One of my favorite lines is "Outside of sex, what benefits do you bring to …
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 02:51 PM
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"If you take a girl out and show her you’re more than some douche looking to just get in her pants, odds are, you’re going to get a second date, at least." Why would you want a second date unless you are interested in getting in her pants? That logic is so flawed. By this logic, if you never bang her you can keep dating her...
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 03:20 PM
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As a man who has been raising his son alone since he was 1 (14 now) most girls do not put the child first. They put their wishes first, and everyone else be damned. It is better for children to have both parents - Science 40% of children are now born to single women - statistics 70% of all divorces are filed by women - statistics 83% of the women get custody - statistics The average woman slap (or smacks) her child 3 times a day - statistics To the average man at the bottom, it may seem like she…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 02:32 PM
2

"I guess what I want to know is what I can get out of the red pill" You get the truth about society and human behavior - and that truth shall set you free. You can choose to be whatever you want, feel whatever you want and do whatever you want - but your chances of having a happy and fun life increase dramatically when you master social dynamics, mating strategy and human communication/behavior. Read the side bar, then go interact with people in social settings and watch. See if real life doesn'…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 09:49 PM
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Online dating is low risk-low reward. If you don't look like a model, and you have a picture of you with a hot ex-grilfriend, use that for your profile. I do, and it helps - preselection is a wonderful thing.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 09:10 PM
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"told him straight up that she's playing him" I am all for personal power and not putting the girl on a pedestal. One issue is that of implied sex. This tends to confuse so many guys. I never expect sex, I also don't invest resources into girls I am not sleeping with. "I tell him that she either fucks him the next night or he kicks her out on the street." To me, that is the wrong advice. He already offered and invested in a girl that was there - any pressure by him and he technically could be ac…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 06:37 PM
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With Pleasure: http://pageformen.com/editorial/the-war-on-men-continues-with-oboma-care/ http://www.forbes.com/sites/theapothecary/2013/09/25/double-down-obamacare-will-increase-avg-individual-market-insurance-premiums-by-99-for-men-62-for-women/ http://www.americanthinker.com/blog/2013/11/pay_41_more_and_get_less_from_obamacare.html Get that? 99% increase for men, 62% increase for women. Less benefits for men too.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 04:25 PM
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The easiest way to loose a fight with a woman is fight her directly. The easiest way to win is to simply ignore the stupidity, don't spend your money in places that support feminist and be the man hot girls want.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 04:19 PM
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It will get worse as you learn more. You will see misandry everywhere. You will see how every commercial is that of a strong woman saving a doofus guy. You will see women stepping up to be the masculine (physical) hero in movies where they save the men. You will notice the contempt women tend to hold men in (except the Alpha they feel sexual too). You will see how laws are designed to protect females from you, but don't protect you from them, or that makes you produce wealth to be shared with th…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 02:28 PM
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It's been a long time since I read one of his books, but I don't remembering feeling any power in his works so this is just my view. I think a much more powerful model is the Dark Triad - narcissism, Machiavellianism and psychopathy. Reading on these subjects and learning to remove your limiting beliefs about them will give you personal power. It will help you understand female and male human nature. But I get where you are coming from.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 09:13 PM
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I have read several of his works - as well as the bible, the koran, tao te ching, budahism, zen, etc. I believe in learning all we can about human nature, specifically true motivations of men and women so that we can better our own life. However, with all of my years of study, I don't believe in a "god" or "devil". I do believe whatever we believe is true will operate as if it's true in our own mind. "If you think you can do a thing or think you can't do a thing, you're right." - Henry Ford
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 08:50 PM
2

This is an easy one - first, keep adding as many plates as possible. Hone your abilities to seduce girls - as many as you can. As you are adding plates mentally note how many have boyfriends, husbands, fiances, etc. Note how many will sleep with you on a first date, and then tell her girlfriends (right in front of your face) she would never do that. If you pay attention to most peoples actions (and not what you mentally wish), you will gain self control and won't ever have this "I'm falling in l…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 06:33 PM
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To clarify: Your girlfriend went to the beach with a male friend. Both your girlfriend and her male friend (your friend too) lied about it? I would confront her and give her the opportunity to explain. If her reasoning is "we were planning your surprise bday party" then I would let it slide. But, if it as I suspect, she will deny, then try to justify the lie because "I knew you would be mad" - this is very typical answer - I would demote her. My belief is if you half to lie to me to spend time w…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 05:17 PM
1

"So perhaps I should show how loving and caring I am and how good of a dad I would be and that she will lose it, if she won't be with me? Isn't that a seemingly good prize?" Not at all. Take a look around you at society. I know a lot of girls leaving (or not even giving a chance to) men that are loving, caring and a great dad. You thing "loving, caring and a great dad" is a prize because those are the traits you want from her. The prize is the man she can't control, who generates sexual tension …
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 02:38 PM
1

Great question. A woman never dates her equal, so some form of her wants you to dominate her. My view, a real Alpha does what he thinks is in his best interest - and usually that benefits the others, but that is not his focus. Not a popular view, but mine and it really works for my life. If i had to pick out of the dark triad, it would be the Narcissistic Personality. Basically a belief you are the prize. I get what you are saying, and I don't try to "manipulate" girls, but understand, every for…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 11:14 PM
18

If it flies, floats, or fucks, it is cheaper to rent it. These are what we call "depreciating assets".
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 03:03 PM
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That is a great way to look at it. 15 years ago, when I first started my journey, I had an ex break my heart. Had to see her for the kid exchange, and it always ripped my guts out. After a couple of years of learning seduction and RP (though we didn't have that term then) I was living an incredibly fun life. I only dated bisexual girls and had my mini harem. One night me and two extremely hot girlfriends ran into the ex at a local bar. She was with her girlfriends - she saw me, saw the younger g…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 03:00 PM
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Machiavellianism is characterized: Manipulates others to get their own way Very cunning and calculative Very intelligent Highly observant Very aware of situations and surroundings A females primary role of influence is manipulation. If a man has the above traits he can out compete her (dominate her) in her most solid frame. Don't confuse lying with manipulation and stop looking at it like a white knight. If I tell her to call me master and not cum without my permission, I am manipulating her. Bu…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 02:53 PM
2

you text her: "drinks at X place at y time" Don't ask her, tell her. Go have a couple of drinks (seriously only 2 or so) Invite her back to your place for a glass of wine. (Or ask if she has any good wide at her place) Seriously, this isn't hard - you just have to give her plausible deniability - to her it has to feel like "it just happened"
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 07:40 PM
3

Actually Dr. - most beautiful women want to be seen as a sex object. The only girls that don't are the ones who aren't. You don't think the push-up bra's, high heel shoes, short skirts, lip stick, blush, foundation, eye shadow, eye lash extensions, botox, plastic surgery, breast augmentations, shaved legs and pits, waxed eyebrows and upper lip with plunging necklines accentuated with shiny metal necklaces that match the ears is just because she wants to do you?
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 07:09 PM
1

As for the no strings hook up, just put it out there. After I went through my divorce (like many of us) I would tease and flirt with my ex. I always made sexual references and would tell her straight up "I don't want you back, but when you feel the itch, swing by - I will introduce you to some new girls". It took a few months, but she became a regular girl coming over 1-2 a month just for sex.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 02:24 PM
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This is a classic shit test... My standard response: "Yes, you do." and just smirk. No reason to fight this with logic, or try to convince or or be sneaky. Most girls say they won't get physical fast, and all of them will in the right situation with the right feelings.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 06:43 PM
1

Every time one of these lawsuits sues for a physical fitness test that is considered standard (and one men have done for 100 years or more) it just goes to prove that feminist are right - men and women are not equal. Can you guess which side is better? And which side is more protected?
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 02:19 PM
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It's not right. But then again, life isn't fair. Men and women are not equal - women tend to have a more protected status. If Ronda punches her boyfriend, she will not share the same consequences that a man like Ray will experience. It is based on the cultural view that men are more violent and do more damage. My experience is men are stronger and can do more damage, but women are more violent. I have seen many more women slap and hit men, and mothers hit children, than I have ever even heard of…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 02:12 PM
1

What you just said is NAWALT - Not all women are like that - yet generally true is good enough to be rich, famous and Alpha.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 12:20 AM
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A badboy is someone who doesn't do what women say they want - sometimes they are criminals, sometimes they are executives. This is a great example of a man that lost personal power to another man. This also perfectly display how women in previous civilizations acted when conquered. Men fought and died, women fucked (and became wives of) the conquers.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 09:29 PM
2

Required for the FEMINIST mindset and justify why she is even talking about needing a man - and an Alpha man at that. "Nothing lights me up like having my husband around" is what most women want to feel, and when they don't have it due to their own personal (i.e fat, bitchy poor choices) issues, a feminist justifies it with "I don't need a man" to pass the blame. Women always need men - don't believe me, go back through history and see what happens at natural disasters, the end of wars, during s…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 09:20 PM
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1) When socializing and talking, he often talks in a way that puts other people down. Wrong - it depends on the energy and why he does it and it's impact on how sexually charge the women in the group gets. 2) Other women don’t pay attention, and aren’t interested in listening to him when he speaks. Wrong - it depends why they don't want to talk to the Alpha. Did he put them in there place while they are acting emotional? Good - remember, a girl doesn't have to like you to fuck you. 3) He seeks a…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 09:09 PM
4

Old girlfriends that reach out are still testing the water to see if you have become more Alpha, or stayed the same or gotten worse. I have been with many ex's - they always want to come back, and only one actually became a second relationship - that still crashed and burned. If you want this girl, stop talking about old times and start being fun - when she text you use cocky & funny responses, mistake things she said for her wanting dirty sex with you and only text her 2 times for every 3 she t…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 06:04 PM
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Couple of the commentators are right - dread game requires frame control and Alpha behavior. Basically, he can't be apologizing, trying to make her see the logic of having this client, justifying his business/existence or anything else. Dread game only works when you really believe if she doesn't fall in line, you are gone. It is an "I can do better" attitude, then demonstrating these characteristics to her in a way that makes her sense the power in the relationship has shifted from her to you -…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 03:52 PM
1

Isn't that where the "world is your urinal" quote originated?
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 01:53 PM
1

They secret is THEY (drug dealers, losers, etc) believe THEY are higher value than the girls. They make they girls FEEL positive emotions - it is not logical. I am all for working to be the CEO and a muscled in shape guy - been that myself. But that isn't exactly what attracts women (or keeps them - I know lots of wealthy, high value men whose wife left them - been that myself too). The secret is having the confidence to take action, to place value on yourself above her, then learn to flirt, bui…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 01:51 PM
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You don't shit test women - men and women are attracted to different things. To attract a girl you display confidence and higher value. To demonstrate confidence be fearless, to demonstrate higher value you compliance test her and treat as if she just isn't that valuable - all while flirting and building sexual tension. Women don't date their equals - they always date above - so act like a man above her.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 10:13 PM
4

It does have several benefits. If you are good in bed, and blow her mind, she will talk about it with other girls. Preselection is one of the strongest seduction tools, and I have have been laid many times because girls talk. Secondly, if you blow her mind she will come back more often. Personally, I believe your masculine energy and how much attraction and sexual tension you build in her are more important than knowing exactly how to touch her. With that, being in shape, being able to last, bei…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 09:20 PM
2

"she won't give until she gets a solid answer" - seriously, you aren't holding a fun and strong frame. Just smirk at her, lock eyes with her, and don't say a word. You don't have to fill the silence with an answer. "take it slow" - personally I don't "try" to get a girl to do things. I am simply as attractive as possible and allow things to happen naturally. You need to learn to calibrate her better so you can steer her a little more effortlessly.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 02:04 PM
10

You can care as much or as little as you want. You can feel whatever you want about these chicks... But do not ever act weak or let them control you. Your values, your frame, your desires first. If they confront you about not bending to their will, you must be able to walk away. Alpha Laws #8, #9, #10, #11, #17 EDIT: To directly answer your question - you start reframing in your mind. When you start thinking that you should elevate them above yourself or that they have more value than you or eve…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 02:27 PM
1

She grabs your cock while you smirk and say is that it?
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 12:24 AM
3

We are all here to learn and grow, so don't take this as a put down. You need to completely reframe your view of the interaction with women. There was no "I have high value" or "I am the prize/alpha" vibe in your text. Your first text "I am going out for a drink tomorrow wanna join me?" should be "meet me at x at TIME... first drink is on you" Her: "Thanks, but no thanks I got plans for tomorrow." - the but no thanks literally sounds like you are in the friendzone and she isn't into you. Time to…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 09:05 PM
7

It's science - however I know girls that lift free weights have more testosterone and like more masculine men, even if they are on birth control. They also look better than the average girl.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 08:33 PM
11

I had similar experiences after my divorce at 32. This is the conclusion I decided on - I never dated a girl over 30 again. Girls in there 20's are more willing to ride and be free - less drama and expectations. How long can you do this? I am 43 and have been dating a very hot bi girl for a couple of years. She is 22 and worried I will trade her in later, so she hits the gym all the time. Just stop dating older girls. Girls that are 30 are for men in their mid 50's.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 08:28 PM
12

My dick doesn't get hard I don't date... Guess I'm just not a nice guy.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 03:23 AM
1

Yes however 29 was the wrong age to start for me. I think, when you have the career you want, with excess income (kids are expensive) and you have completely learned to handle women, you are safe to explore this. If I were doing it over, it would have probably picked around 38-42 with a surrogate overseas mother.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 11:00 PM
2

A lot of private eyes have a few hot ladies to do this exact same thing to see if a husband can/is cheating. It is usually when the girl wants a divorce, and they set the guy up (as much as possible). As far as concept - not a bad ideal. The biggest issue would be getting men to even think of this service before they are divorce raped. If more men even suspected their snowflake or understood hypergamy they wouldn't even be getting married. So marketing would have to be incredible. If you have th…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 10:23 PM
3

I am AlphaX via pipubs and ROK - I got custody of my son when he was 18 months old. Kids add a whole new dynamic to a relationship with a woman. They remove some of your perceived market value, and for any of us basically good guys they add a layer of stress that we must make sure the kids and wife are taken care of. As a single dad, some girls would ohhhh and awwwe over the kid - and I did get one girl that was attractive that chased me because she had a son at the same age. I also lost hundred…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 10:15 PM
7

All this proves is people lie on self reported surveys. Anyone can look around and see the true nature of what men and women like. You just have to be willing to see what is really happening, not what you wish was happening.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 01:48 PM
1

Pre-selection is incredibly powerful. But pre-selection has nothing to do with "being friends" with a girl. It is about creating attraction and sexual tension in girls so that many want your manly seed, not your sweet conversation. If you are talking to a girl in a non work situation you had better be flirting.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 01:46 PM
1

That's how you "win friends and influence people" not "Bang the hottest girls".
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 02:08 PM
2

Yes... I use it a lot after a very sexiest comment... Anytime I say something and the girl gets the "You are an asshole, I can't believe you said that" I smirk my ass off as I look her in the eye and say "Yeah, I said it." Fortune favors the bold. Once you know you have a stronger frame (energy) you can do and say whatever you want and be the charming asshole.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 02:07 PM
13

Some interesting fun facts. I have a bit of a different view on why people react to some Alpha/Beta traits - energy. If you are smiling in a situation trying to gain acceptance from another person, your energy will be felt as weak. If you smile because you are in a positive state, your energy will be felt as fun. If you smile to intentionally create tension, your energy will be felt as powerful or threatening. It is the intent and energy, not the smile.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 09:08 PM
4

Attraction is not a choice. For girls it is primarily based on actions/characteristics. In a class of students, you may have one male that understands "game" and knows how to communicate with a women. Build attraction and sexual tension in a girl, she will do anything for you. This is why you also hear of the female police officer or lawyer breaking a criminal out of jail. Demonstrating high value s not always about what you have, but what you believe. As logical men, we think "marrying up" woul…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 06:59 PM
6

If he doesn't have kids, and they aren't fighting over stuff, then just get with her decide what to split asset wise and go on. However, if they have kids, it is a whole different ball game. I wrote an article on my divorce and battle to get custody of my son. It is a detailed, step by step of what I did and how I won. "Fathers Rights – How Can a Father Get Custody of a Child" - just google that and it should pop up. Basically: Do not agree to leave the house - this tells the court he is not a p…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 05:34 PM
2

You have some great points, but I would frame the question differently: "I am going to a friends wedding next week... want to help me pick up girls?" And yes, that is exactly how I would ask. Her not knowing anyone is moot - no matter where I take her she likely isn't going to know anyone.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 03:59 PM
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Doing whatever you feel like doing is the appropriate response. With that, the best times I have ever had at weddings I went alone. My advice, go pick up the single girls at the wedding - fish in a barrel my friend.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 03:45 PM
5

I believe that would be a better description of Cocky & Funny. Agree and amplify would be more like: Her: "You never take me out to dinner ever..." Alpha: "I would have you know, but now you brought it up I have to make you wait another year." Either of them work rather well.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 06:47 PM
0

I will be not liked for this and I am late to the game... don't invest. Don't care. Do what you are going to do. Pick your path, be that man. Decide who you want to be as a man. If a girl sticks through years of dating and limbo that is a good indication, if she follows your lead, she may be worth keeping. As a man that has had custody of his kid since he was 18 months old, with no family in the area, and still being a six figure executive, my threshold is so high, most girls will never achieve …
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 03:42 AM
2

I am 43. My girl is 22. I have dated her since she was 19. She is bisexual. The only issue is that which you think is an issue. Seriously. I wouldn't date any women who didn't attracted me. Most that do are young because of their looks and how my dick reacts. I have seen 50 year olds I would bang... but that is 1 in 1,000,000 not 1 in 100. It's just what we like... not what we are told to like.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 03:31 AM
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Build attraction to the point she can't stand it. You don't need alcohol or durgs and keep her sober while you attract her (yes it takes balls, which is why it works so well). All you have to do is realize that flirting, cocky & funny and directing the frame will make her chase you. I.E Most guys make a sexual move at 15 minutes... the average girl needs 25 minutes.... if you keep flirting and building sexual tension for 35 minutes she will chase you for 10. Really, that is all it takes. Frame c…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 03:26 AM
2

Always... but it is not the build.. it is the confidence and attitude. The build is just like wearing a wild shirt... it is an outlet. It gives them plausible deniability. It allows them to compliment you without just being direct... the exact opposite of what most men do.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 03:18 AM
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"And yet women still scare me." Confidence is a feedback loop -> Conscious change -> Action -> acceptance -> positive reinforcement -> subconscious change -> more confidence -> Conscious change -> etc. It is about both mental and physical changes. It's great you changed your body, but now you need some social interactions to understand and subconsciously change that scared mentality. Go study cocky & funny and how to challenge women, then start implementing small pieces of it. As you see women r…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 09:41 PM
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Depends what you want. If you at least want sex, I would text back (in about 4 days): "My place, 8 tonight. Bring movies."
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 02:06 PM
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