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| 7 | I’m really effing tired of the ‘give a short man a chance’ propaganda.This will be buried but wanted to relate some personal experience. I'm average height for the country I live in 164cm/5'4". I'm not tall, nor am I particularly short. At university my then boyfriend (now husband) used to walk me to class to help carry things for me (I have a physical disability and need some extra help - long story) He's 195cm tall which is about 6'4"/6'5" and he's a total gentle giant. After he helped me into class one day, one of the tall girls (about 6ft tall) quite loudly sa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 02:18 PM |
| 10 | Almost allowed others to convince me to approach him but I found FDSProud you've set boundaries for yourself and know what you want from a relationship! I have a question about your working relationship, is he in a position of power where you work and would it be a HR issue if you were to date whilst you worked there? I'm curious about the power dynamics as OP sounds like she has a really good head on her shoulders and I wouldn't want this to have any career impact for her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 07:10 PM |
| 1 | “Build with him”Great assessment, would love to see you do a full post on this (I nearly missed it down in the comments). Feels like you have a lot of wisdom to share | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 09:28 AM |
| 7 | "You can't let one bad experience color your perception of all men!" "Actually, most men I've met treated me/women badly" "If every man you've dated was a jerk, there is probably something wrong with you, you're the common denominator"I totally agree OP, it's not you thats the common denominator. It's society as a system. Maybe it's just my experience from my country but cultural misogyny hurts all of us. Its hurts women in all the ways that women on this forum have identified, every single day. No wonder it's hard to find good men when the system is set up to pretty much prevent them from existing. I think cultural misogyny also hurts men because it provides a terrible framework for their behaviour and leads to them often be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 09:03 AM |
| 11 | Men do not form meaningful friendships with other men. It is not your job as a woman to fill in that void.Totally agree, the ability to form and maintain healthy social relationships speaks a lot to someone's character | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 12:31 PM |
| 5 | Men do not form meaningful friendships with other men. It is not your job as a woman to fill in that void.100% agree it is never a woman's job to fill any kind of void in a man's life, friendship, validation, whatever it is - the woman is not responsible for their void. However, in my personal experience (not saying it's true across the board), I know men that have great, meaningful friendships with other men where they provide eachother emotional support. My brother-in-law's cancer treatment/cancer survival support group are a fantastic example of this. They look after eachother, raise money for ca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 12:29 PM |
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