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Yeah, it’s difficult because ultimatums are never a good thing to give. I would think it’s likely that there could be something else there that’s an insecurity for him and it’s causing him to have commitment issues. I would definitely sit down and have a serious conversation with him. I would come with a plan/map for the two of you and discuss that with him and compromise with each other. Example, perhaps you keep working until you start having kids? Move in together after eloping (seriously elo…
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/24 05:25 AM
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Unless you’re living in SF, NYC, CHI etc. his income is absolutely enough to support both of you, with you at home. All I can see is he is either extremely tight with finances and that is an insecurity for him (maybe from growing up poor?) or using finances as a sacrificial lamb to cover a different insecurity he has that he’s unwilling to share with you. Like I said, there’s never a good time financially to have kids. You just do it, in your case though, those finances shouldn’t be an issue in …
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/24 05:13 AM
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Disregard my other comment asking for this info. If he makes that, he’s putting things off for some other reason. There’s no financial setback preventing him from giving you kids and you being a stay at home mom. He should also be making your goals his goals and you, his goals your goals. Why can’t he give you marriage and children, while you support him in his business and financial pursuits?
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/24 05:05 AM
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Just curious, what are your shared expenses in dollars that he would be taking over solely, (mortgage/rent) and his current salary? That would certainly help paint a picture of feasibility. Really at 3 kids, the second partner needs to be making over 90K gross in my experience to be able to afford daycare, while the other partner covers everything else.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/24 04:59 AM
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There’s never a good time to have children and you’re never actually ready. You just have to want it and do it. You figure it out as you go. If he has a number in his head, he needs to realize that will never actually be enough. My wife and I are pregnant with number 2 and I kind of want to die with how much daycare is going to cost for two kids. But, I know we’ll figure it out because it’s something that we want!
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/24 04:53 AM
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He should definitely get checked for sleep apnea, but as a quick temp aid breathe right strips do wonders for me. You could also look into custom molded ear plugs on your end.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/24 02:51 AM
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To further u/casuallyslow’s comment, how she treats you is how they will treat men that they will potentially marry, along with how they will look for a man to treat them how you treat your wife. Certainly sounds like a lose-lose situation, but with one of them significantly worse.
/r/askMRP07/07/23 12:12 AM
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My favorite phrase
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 01:26 PM
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You make it work if you want to. Are you able to give up a lunch break for 45 minutes once every two weeks to a month? Zoom is absolutely an option.
/r/askMRP07/08/21 03:43 PM
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Oh absolutely, I’m amazed she even wants to still have sex with him.
/r/askMRP18/06/21 03:05 PM
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Not hard to believe and not even embarrassing for you, it’s everything else and how you’re so unwilling to try to do anything about it.
/r/askMRP18/06/21 11:43 AM
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No way this guy is real…
/r/askMRP18/06/21 02:16 AM
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