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ResourcesAlphagreen_97/r/seduction21/07/24 03:56 PM
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I'm relatively short so that's one shit test I usually get " You're kinda short aren't ya? " You can respond by NOT taking it offensively and laughing about it and making it even a bigger joke. Usually exaggerating it makes you come of as relaxed and confident. You could say something like: Yeah, I like to keep things compact, only consisting of the best parts ;) Keep it lighthearted. Then there are tests where she checks if you tolerate bullshit. For example she comes too late to the date, to s…
/r/seduction14/10/24 05:17 PM
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I definitely test my women. If she acts like a irrational and impulsive child, then I won't bother dating her. Most men that have standards do that. Men do it with other men too, mostly in form of jokes to see if the guy is easy going and isn't easily offended so you can have a fun time together. The only men that judge women for that are men that don't know how to properly deal with those shit tests. Which shit tests are supposed to insult you and which ones are simply there to test your abilit…
/r/seduction14/10/24 01:49 PM
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Don't understand what you mean by that. It's a good thing a women is testing you, since that means she is interested. As long as you are a heterosexual man, you either decide to complete forfeit relationships and sex ( you could pay a hooker but not really fulfilling), Or simply accept women's nature and adapt. It's pretty easy to deal with them if you simply know how.
/r/seduction14/10/24 10:47 AM
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Grow up. There you are, the "Good man" doing nothing. While everyone else is accepting and adapting, here you are. At least when you grow old and still don't understand how women operate you can say that you sticked by your mindset. Congrats pal. One more time just to make sure you didn't misunderstood, women don't want to be treated like trash. They simply don't want to be treated like a celebrity for the mere fact they have tits. It's condescending, manipulative and pathetic to treat someone g…
/r/seduction07/10/24 09:12 PM
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You're pathetic. Grow up.
/r/seduction07/10/24 09:05 PM
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Exactly what I wanted to reply. OP, you're acting extremely different from how you would normally act. You act this way because deep down feel like you aren't attractive to her, so you compensate by acting extremely "friendly" then getting frustrated if you don't get any ass. It's pathetic. Act straightforward, tease her a little, invite her out, pay for the drink and have the balls to make the next step. Build physical contact, tell her to grab your hand and then put both her hands on your shou…
/r/seduction07/10/24 09:05 PM
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Because you're being friendly. A friend, rather than a lover. They want a lover. Tease them. Don't always be available. Don't always initiate contact. Be indifferent to their interest level. Make an offer to go drink something, if they decline, move on. Inform yourself regarding female shit tests. A shit test could be a verbal insult. A shit test could be them asking you for help changing their light bulb or something mundane like that. Inform yourself.
/r/seduction07/10/24 08:36 PM
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Has to do with your perceived self worth. Perhaps even abandonment issues, where you couldn't stand a women leaving you, so rather than taking that risk you leave her before she has the chance to do so. Perhaps your mom or dad weren't there physically or emotionally as a child? Im not going to pretent to be a psychologist but you should definitely talk to one if you get the chance. What I would recommend to you is to actually force rejection and abandonment so the negative emotion arises and you…
/r/seduction05/10/24 01:16 AM
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No. You can write her that you thought about it but that you don't want to be friends with her but to get to know her man to women. If she insists on remaining friends then tell her to send you a message if she changes her mind. Don't let these ladies play with you. She is using you for validation/entertainment and free drinks. You're better than that.
/r/seduction01/10/24 03:59 PM
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Good story. One thing I've learned is that it's apparently a useful skill to know how to mix drinks in night game. Well done, hope you guys share many more moons together
/r/seduction28/09/24 07:11 AM
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You do you. I never did. As a man my job is to greet the women I find attractive. I will never feel regret in having the guts to do what most men won't. Never apologize for being a man.
/r/seduction27/09/24 04:11 PM
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Sure. Your point?
/r/seduction27/09/24 04:04 PM
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Nope. Authenticity is. Holding your masculine frame is. When I was in a bad mood, I still approached and instantly told the girl that i was in a bad mood but found her attractive and still wanted to say hello. 99% of the time women will appreciate you for the balls it took to approach, and the compliment. You will always regret not approaching, but never have I said: Damn, I wish I hadn't approached her.
/r/seduction27/09/24 03:39 PM
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What a pathetic attitude. Find someone who knows how to date women and learn from him. It's not that women are assholes, it's just that you're acting like a needy child and you can't flirt for shit. Mentally healthy feminine women are a pleasure to be around with. Humble yourself and become better, stop complaining. We as men should never complain about things which we can change. We should rather find solutions.
/r/seduction25/09/24 10:27 AM
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I see more and more of these random ass questions. I'm not saying you shouldn't ask, but rather ask what books to read so you have all around know how.
/r/seduction25/09/24 05:27 AM
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You say that you want him to be head over heels, but you really don't. Women say that all the time, but the moment a man shows too much interest and spends too much time with her she becomes distant and passive. You may think otherwise but it is the truth, every guy in here knows what I'm talking about. The thing with the opinion, you may need to sit him down and say how you feel. That you feel unappreciated and you would like for him to listen to you. But how you described him it is unlikely he…
/r/seduction25/09/24 03:00 AM
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When I suffered from extreme social anxiety I started meditation. I did it for a year, started with 10 minutes and at some point I did 20-30 min. Literally saved and changed my life. You gotta do it consistently tho, 10-20 min. On YouTube you can find guided videos to see how it works, pretty simple. You will drift away with your thoughts, just return them camly back to your body, focusing on your breathing. That's it. Thanks for reminding us Op
/r/seduction24/09/24 03:46 PM
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Check my comment history, I've explained precisely how to approach correctly. Your approaches suck obviously, do better and the girls will actually write back.
/r/seduction22/09/24 04:38 PM
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Then continue doing what you're doing. I told you what works, there is nothing wrong with lying to her if you're already sleeping around. Both is anti social behavior at core. Your second point isn't true. You didn't say that youre looking for something serious specifically, you said you're looking for it if the occasion arrives and she proves her worth to you. Why shouldn't you sleep around atm? And women are attracted much more to guys with more options.
/r/seduction22/09/24 06:21 AM
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The vast majority of women want a man to commit to them. Not necessarily but the option needs to be there for them in case something happens, so they can feel safe. Next time, tell them you're not actively looking for a relationship but IF the right women comes along and she proves to be a good partner then you would consider it. This way, she needs to prove herself if she wants the relationship, otherwise everything stays casual.
/r/seduction22/09/24 05:58 AM
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I'm honestly not interested much in group dynamics. If a man acts hostile towards me because there are women present, he isn't the type of men I would want in my life anyway. Not everything needs solving. But thanks for confirming.
/r/seduction22/09/24 05:07 AM
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From what I've gathered from this post, I think it's supposed to be a man in a group which is considered the "Alpha" You then do these techniques so the women find you appealing and he respects you. Did i get that right?
/r/seduction22/09/24 04:59 AM
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Can someone explain Amog?
/r/seduction22/09/24 04:43 AM
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Exposure is a tool used in therapy. That's currently the chapter I find myself in with my therapist. You don't want to be afraid of something anymore? Get close to it. Obviously if going to the gym with a lot of people surrounding you is too much for your brain to handle, you might try something easier. Why shouldn't the gym be a place for talking and socializing? The best people I know I've met in the gym. A guy teaching me finances, a guy teaching me pick up and seduction, and a religious teac…
/r/seduction21/09/24 11:04 AM
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I always recommend going to the gym. You're in a social environment there and you're physically active which is proven to improve mood and self esteem. God hates laziness, not because he wants us to never relax but because being inactive is the root of illness. Be active. But also find time to rest.
/r/seduction21/09/24 09:42 AM
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You got social anxiety perhaps because you spend too much time inside. Talk to people more, every day.
/r/seduction21/09/24 08:22 AM
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Check my comment history, I've explained it.
/r/seduction19/09/24 09:18 PM
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Check my comment history, I've explained it there.
/r/seduction19/09/24 09:08 PM
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Check my comment history, I've explained it there.
/r/seduction19/09/24 09:08 PM
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I recommend to talk to her for another minute so she doesn't think you just wanted to get another number. That's how some women think.
/r/seduction18/09/24 05:45 PM
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How many women have your approached, how did you approach exactly? Explain it from beginning to end. How many of those approaches have you exchanged numbers with?
/r/seduction18/09/24 01:40 PM
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Don't use dating apps. Don't get me wrong, you definitely can have success on there but you're literally competing against hundreds if not thousands of other guys. Plus, many women on there are either just trying to get validation or wasting men's time because they got dumped by Chad and are bitter and resentful. Much better to just approach women, in my experience higher quality women and much better results simply because almost no men approaches correctly or at all. You will leave a much bett…
/r/seduction18/09/24 01:36 PM
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We need to distinguish here between men having tattoos and women having tattoos. 1/6th of the population having self esteem issues isn't crazy to believe. You do you tho. How many women have you dated? How many of them had tattoos? Tattoos are obv not the only indicator but they still are exactly that, an indicator.
/r/seduction17/09/24 09:39 AM
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We agree to disagree then, my experience over the years says completely otherwise. The study says, If I read it right, that tattooed participants are much more disagreeable. Being agreeable correlates with emotional intelligence. It is not too far fetched to say that people with almost no or less emotional intelligence tend to be people with antisocial personality disorder. Which confirms my point. I have probably understood wrong tho but, this study doesn't confirm anything. All men that I know…
/r/seduction17/09/24 08:25 AM
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If you can find a study only done with women who have tattoos/no tattoos that would be great.
/r/seduction17/09/24 08:08 AM
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I have approached 2018 and 2019 regularly at least 10 women a week. I've dated more than I care to remember and have concluded from my experience that women with tattoos/Piercings and colored hair have a higher tendency to be promiscuous and rather low self esteem. They usually tend to have mental health issues such as borderline. There is a German pick up artist with a YouTube channel which people consider to be the best, at least in Germany. He talked about it in his last video and made the sa…
/r/seduction17/09/24 08:00 AM
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You will be remembered brave soldier. Nah fr tho, get out of there. This is no joking matter. They will fuck up your psyche and life. Run. I mean it.
/r/seduction17/09/24 04:22 AM
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Run. Don't be deceived. Either that or suffer the consequences.
/r/seduction17/09/24 04:19 AM
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You did therapy with 15 different professionals? Therapy usually takes a couple years, didn't you say you're like 30 or som? No offense but that doesn't add up. Google a good reviewed therapist and go there for a couple years. If you're having suicide thoughts you can call suicide hotline, please do.
/r/seduction17/09/24 03:56 AM
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People with antisocial personality disorders tend to do that, it's called love bombing. They usually do it at the beginning a fuck ton. Keep dating her, inform yourself on narcissistic pers disorder and those types and see if you see something.
/r/seduction17/09/24 03:51 AM
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That's definitely not a healthy behavior, usually low self esteem women tend to act this way. There are physical indicators to determine if she is low self esteem: Tattoos, Piercings, colored hair and obviously scars on her arms and legs. Obesity is also not so great. I believe you can do better than dating her out of all the mentally fit women. They understand that you're busy. You know it, I know it.
/r/seduction17/09/24 03:36 AM
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There is no shame in seeking professional psychological help. I did and it helped me tremendously. Start with that. Ask yourself how will your life look like in 5 to 10 years if you don't change and remain the same. You owe it to yourself.
/r/seduction17/09/24 03:33 AM
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Pleasure will never make you feel truly good. It's like drinking salt water, it will hurt you even more. All the guys I've met that did pick up all said that it's making them depressed and anxious. I recently started getting to know Jesus Christ, since it's new to me I don't fully believe yet but in order to believe you need to read the book first to see what he has said and done. Since putting my trust in him I have felt a calm I have never felt in my life. Could it be placebo? Perhaps. Despite…
/r/seduction16/09/24 12:49 PM
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The problem is thinking too much and not taking enough action. You're afraid of something? Do it despite the fear. It will dissolve with time and the only thing left will be the best you. If you don't know how to approach properly, look at my comment history I've explained it from A to Z.
/r/seduction16/09/24 07:38 AM
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God bless you bro
/r/seduction15/09/24 10:07 AM
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Wait, I checked once more. You might actually be able to pull it off, if you make the upper lip stache very thin and keep the chin one the way it is. Try it out. Otherwise freshy shaved it is.
/r/seduction15/09/24 09:55 AM
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Yeah, go completely shaved. At least that looks like you're taking care of yourself. Get some white nice shoes, a watch and some nice tight shirts and fitting jeans. Go to the barbershop every 3 weeks and start approaching.
/r/seduction15/09/24 09:45 AM
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That's literally a pedophile stache, nobody looks good wearing that. You're young so you want to show off your moustache and I get it. Keep it freshly shaven or shave every 3 days and keep it at 0.4cm which is round about 0.2 inches I think. Like I said, only if you're also growing hair around your face not only upper lip.
/r/seduction15/09/24 09:27 AM
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Do what is necessary. First off, you have the balls to go for what you want. That is a commendable character trait. Most guys don't just approach. I would recommend to go to the next city and approach women. I have written how many times at this point, just check my history. You will get rejected, but you will also get dates if you do it the way i have described. It is okay to get rejected, the problem isn't always you. Don't take it personally therefore. Read my instruction and go for it. I bel…
/r/seduction15/09/24 09:05 AM
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There are plenty women looking to fuck. But when asked, don't limit yourself. Say, you're open to anything happens. Talk to some women younger to you. 21-26 years
/r/seduction14/09/24 06:29 PM
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Time to give her daughter a sister Jk just have fun
/r/seduction11/09/24 04:50 AM
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So as far as I have understood, you have sex on the first date? If yes, there you go. You had her. Second that isn't exciting because your ego is satisfied. Doesnt matter if she doesn't give you her ass after that, you know you were good enough to receive it. If you're truly looking for a long term relationship then you shouldn't look for girls that fuck on first dates anyway. And furthermore, sex shouldn't even be the most important thing. Become a man that would attract the type of girl that i…
/r/seduction11/09/24 03:05 AM
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Everyone is afraid doing cold approaches. Last time I did, I couldn't hold eye contact for the first 10 seconds. I literally stared at the ground, I felt like an idiot. But I didn't care, and since I didn't, she didn't. I became calm after that and we talked. Anyway, what I'm trying to say is it will never go away. You either have the guts to approach or you will walk past beautiful women you could date for the rest of your life. At some point you will be 40 and still walking past. What you need…
/r/seduction11/09/24 12:13 AM
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Good luck bud
/r/seduction10/09/24 11:08 PM
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Next time you see her you can strike up a convo. You could tell her you've noticed that she also hits up the gym, and that you find that always motivating to see people improving themselves. Add a couple questions and funny remarks here and there. Some guys would say you shouldn't tell her you find her attractive or som, in my opinion I recommend to do that regardless so she knows it's not a friendly exchange but that you tryna fuck her. If you find her attractive tell her that. And then after t…
/r/seduction10/09/24 09:54 PM
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That's generally something you can work on though. If a girl hasn't had that much experience but is willing to learn, it doesn't matter if she doesn't know how to suck properly at the beginning. The important part is, if she is willing to improve.
/r/seduction10/09/24 05:31 PM
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Depends on the girl. The way she was raised and how you as a man behave. If you act desperate, and let her walk all over you the chance is definitely higher that she might cheat or leave you altogether. Women simply have much more options than the average dude.
/r/seduction09/09/24 07:30 PM
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"If she doesn't like me the way I am she doesn't deserve me" That's also one I've heard multiple times. Or men that expect his women to be a virgin even tho he isnt following Christ ,and himself went to pay hookers multiple times. Improving ourselves is such a beautiful thing, it's part of what makes us men.
/r/seduction09/09/24 03:04 PM
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She is obviously very invested which is good. Write it back when you have time, but don't initiate. Let's keep it this way. Don't always write it back.
/r/seduction06/09/24 04:14 AM
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Literally not my point, but okay. "Asks for advice" "Gets advice" "Surprised Pikachu face, because her low self esteem ass can't handle criticism and recommendations" You shouldn't waste our time if you aren't able to deal with it. Essentially proving my advice right since in a long term relationship there will be arguments and criticism. Go to therapy, get better, get into long term experiences. I know you won't and rather waste my time here with useless comments since you feel Triggered.
/r/seduction05/09/24 11:30 AM
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I'm aware that you can't get rid of a personality disorder. Guy I used to call friend had narcissistic pd. But you can work on it, with a professional that is. Sometimes we need to stop dating in order to first focus on ourselves. It isn't only about you, but also other people. Good luck.
/r/seduction05/09/24 11:13 AM
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You said you never had a long term relationship, only short term stuff. I suppose you saying that means that you would like to have it one day. Your mental health issues are definitely a barrier regarding that. Sometimes we gotta put our priorities on getting better first rather than long term ass/dick. I'm in the same situation right now believe it or not.
/r/seduction05/09/24 11:07 AM
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Yeah you prob know why that is. Perhaps getting long term dick isn't what you should focus on, but rather therapy.
/r/seduction05/09/24 11:00 AM
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You got bpd, which will make things more difficult regardless if you're working on it. You shouldn't have problems finding guys over dating apps if you aren't getting approached on the street which rarely happens anyway. So yeah dating apps
/r/seduction05/09/24 10:17 AM
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There is a spiritual couch on YouTube, I think her name was something like Teal Swan or something. Anyway, her definition is essentially: Self love depends on the moment. Self love right now might mean eating that piece of cake even tho you're trying to lose weight. Or it might mean taking a rest day even tho you're trying to gain muscle. I personally believe Self love is essentially doing what's good for you LONG-TERM. BUT you should also find time simply enjoy yourself. Even more importantly, …
/r/seduction04/09/24 04:08 AM
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Here to serve, my liege.
/r/seduction04/09/24 04:00 AM
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You're 30. It is time to take action and stop with the excuses. If you don't want to remain a kissless virgin with 35, then you need to go outside and approach a women. Tell her Hi, say you find her attractive and introduce yourself with a handshake. Have a conversation with her, exchange information. Ask questions, and share something about yourself. After a couple minutes, Tell her you would like to continue this convo over a coffee or tea. If she accepts, Tell her to exchange numbers with you…
/r/seduction04/09/24 03:54 AM
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You definitely don't open with "Hey cutie" I honestly don't have much experience over social media approaches since I find it MOST important to not shy away from real life cold approaches. If you only talk to women over social media, it's because you don't have the balls to talk to them on the street. That's the only way to actually get good + it shows the women that you're a man with guts, even if you act nervous at the beginning. Women get dozens and dozens of messages over social media and da…
/r/seduction04/09/24 02:40 AM
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Why do you have hers but she doesn't have yours. Anyway, too late now. She didnt reply, only thing you can do now is sit back and wait. You obv have other options, so enjoy your time with them. If she reaches out cool, if she doesn't then go fuck other bitches
/r/seduction02/09/24 12:38 AM
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Should have waited for her to reach out for you. Cmon dude
/r/seduction02/09/24 12:18 AM
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Tell her to be more specific. That's a unreasonable demand if she can't specify it. She prob wants to be slapped and choked while you're fucking her, that's what these damaged women essentially all boil down to. Doesn't mean she is a women with issues, simply stating that's all you can do with em. Usually a women that makes these kind of demands is either dealing with mental health issues or you're acting too nice. Make fun of her in a fun and teasing way. Go almost too far, but if she is obviou…
/r/seduction01/09/24 09:06 PM
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I don't understand this question. Rather than trying to converse about it, why not just fuck? Fuck, and then some other time you can talk about fav positions or som like that.
/r/seduction31/08/24 09:52 PM
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You will only come off as a creep if you do things uncalibrated. For example, you're on the date for 5 minutes and without touching her at all you go for the kiss out of nowhere. First: Make her used to you by touching her. You can for example touch her shoulder with your backhand because you want her attention on something ( Touching her shoulder Hey, look! They got chocolate muffins on the menu.) Or when you're laughing you can grab her shoulder. Whatever feels natural in the moment is the mos…
/r/seduction30/08/24 09:53 AM
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What are you on about mate? Literally no need to act this childish. Get a grip, we are here to improve ourselves and this guy took the time of his day to share advice with us. All you did was running your mouth. And all the wankers that downvoted op comments, you're no better shame on you.
/r/seduction30/08/24 07:09 AM
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Start with something small, touch her shoulder with your backhand or hand when you're laughing, or perhaps want to show her something. Could be something on your phone, or some building or something. From there, after having a chat and waking around a bit extend your hand and tell her to grab up. That's about it.
/r/seduction29/08/24 12:36 AM
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You're 18. You don't have money, you don't have looks/style You have no social skills, or dating skills. You may not even go to the gym. You perhaps don't play any sports. Women typically are attracted to older guys. Check this subreddit and read the books guys recommend. Hit the gym or pick a sport. Now is time for work.
/r/seduction28/08/24 11:58 PM
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I don't get your point. Yes, women have much more options than the average male. Can you as a average looking guy still get dates? Of course. Only difference is that you need to put in work, alot of it. I honestly like the challenge. Beats living alone and watching corn/being pathetic every day.
/r/seduction28/08/24 11:41 PM
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She doesn't need to do anything, it's our job to calibrate the situation correctly. You will get a feeling for it eventually. The important steps are essentially: Talk with her, and even more importantly listen to her without interrupting. Go drink a coffee where you sit in front of each other and talk about whatever interests you and her interests. Ask questions and be attentive. After that I personally go for a walk through the park and build up her getting used to my touch. If I find somethin…
/r/seduction28/08/24 10:36 PM
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Happened to me too. What I changed essentially was me not overusing advice I got. For example in order for her to familiarize with you, you need to build some physical touch. I overdid it. Other than that it's a numbers game. Women get dozens and dozens of options. Approach more, date more.
/r/seduction28/08/24 10:15 PM
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Some people do it like this, some other people say do it like that. As you can see the opener isn't the key to get to know the girl, ACTUALLY having the balls to say Hi to her is the most important thing you do. If you would ask me i would recommend to be extremely direct when you approach a women on the street. Tell her why you approached her ( I saw you and just had to say hello because I find you very attractive, hey my name is... ) In the gym or club or whatever it's situational in my opinio…
/r/seduction28/08/24 07:25 PM
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Yeah, usually I congratulate every guy who has the guts to approach people. But in a situation like this where you will see the person regularly it doesn't make sense
/r/seduction27/08/24 07:17 AM
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This may sound crazy since our society is extremely open towards casual sex, but there is a good chance that it may not be good for us. I personally dont think we are made to constantly have sex with new people all the time. I think doing that may corrupt your view on the gender you're attracted to and the way you view relationships. You're essentially teaching yourself to live in the moment, and use the person for your personal gain. It is ( hopefully ) consensual but that doesn't change the fa…
/r/seduction27/08/24 06:02 AM
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There is NOTHING wrong with asking for advice, it is a great way to improve and to connect to people. The problem arises like with everything when it's taken to the extreme. When you ask for help ALL the time, that's when it becomes a problem. Ask for help, listen carefully, apply it.
/r/seduction26/08/24 08:52 PM
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You DEFINITELY DONT want to act silly with women. Making them laugh, sure. But don't act like a clown to entertain them.
/r/seduction26/08/24 05:21 PM
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IF she reaches out and asks for a date, ask her if she is willing to make it up to you for last time. If she says yes, then tell her to come to your place. Let her drive to your place and then she needs to suck a whoooolleee lot of D. Don't let bad behavior go unpunished. I'm NOT saying to beat her or abuse her in any way, but she gotta make it up for you. This will not happen if she doesn't give a shit about you. You will see.
/r/seduction26/08/24 03:00 AM
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Good luck
/r/seduction26/08/24 12:13 AM
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The fact that he wants to meet up with you is all the confirmation you need. There is a chance he may be somewhat inexperienced regarding taking the next step so uhh.. you might need to do it. Touching, kissing and so on.
/r/seduction25/08/24 11:53 PM
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Reasonable approach
/r/seduction25/08/24 05:37 PM
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They are not. You just like the comfort of acting like it is, so you don't need to accept the fact that you're a piece of shit for believing that.
/r/seduction25/08/24 01:54 AM
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I can already feel myself acting beta and allowing her to walk over me What are you on about? If she acts disrespectful, tell her to stop or you will go. Respect yourself ALWAYS no exceptions. Stop allowing bullshit. Regarding your question, no. Go to the festival but don't go there with her. If she wants to meet up, sure but not like this.
/r/seduction24/08/24 04:06 PM
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The question you should rather ask is, why would you want to deal with "strong" women? If she is a reasonable women who is interested in you, she will make it easy for you to seduce her. She will be calm, sweet and open to you making the next step. The only guys that deal with a women's or persons bullshit are guys that have no other options.
/r/seduction24/08/24 03:57 PM
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Send me a private message, that may work.
/r/seduction23/08/24 08:29 PM
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I still don't understand where you're trying to upload this ai thing. On reddit? How? Isn't a website or the appstore more plausible.
/r/seduction23/08/24 07:37 PM
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Where did you try to upload it?
/r/seduction23/08/24 06:46 PM
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The problem is not you running out of things to say, but having a problem with silence. If you shut up for a second, she will probably start feeling akward and invest herself. Let her invest. Always.
/r/seduction22/08/24 08:28 PM
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Doesn't matter what you do regarding pick up, it will get boring just as quick. Try having a healthy long-term relationship if you haven't gotten addicted and dependent on the validation and casual sex. Either that or get religion.
/r/seduction22/08/24 10:58 AM
1

Do as I have said. And THEN report back.
/r/seduction16/08/24 04:58 PM
2

I think your problem is simply not being direct. You're not telling them that you're interested in meeting them. You going for the insta without even telling them why you want their insta is off putting. What exactly do you hope by getting instagram? At the end of the day you want to meet those women, no? Once you hit them up on insta, you simply will be one of the other 80 guys messaging her. You will go under. Your approach will mean nothing. Next time you approach, do as I told you. Read my l…
/r/seduction16/08/24 04:55 PM
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Okay, so you go up to women and simply tell them to exchange insta? Did I understand this correctly? Because if that's the case then there is your problem. The women doesn't know you, even though you had the chance to get to know her. You essentially hit and run, because perhaps you don't know how to properly talk to her. So you ask for insta, and then go away. Which is stupid. Talk to the women, tell her why you're approaching her ( I find you attractive and wanted to get to know you, hi my nam…
/r/seduction16/08/24 04:43 PM
1

I don't understand these posts, how about you tell us how you approach women step by step so we can identify the problem.
/r/seduction16/08/24 11:23 AM
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Stop, and you will realize that you will feel better. It will hurt at the beginning but it will get better. You're addicted to the validation and your ego has gotten used to the boost. Generally man that have sex with alot of different women tend to be men with antisocial personalities. Usually those kind of personalities tend to be deeply insecure and are dependent on other people to make them feel good about themselves. You can do better than that.
/r/seduction15/08/24 11:35 PM
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Get in shape. Either that or stop being insecure about being fat. Since both would require a good amount of work, might as well get fit. Stop crying about it and do what needs to be done.
/r/seduction15/08/24 01:13 AM
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You can analyze all you want. Go talk to some women, not in a friendly way but a man women way. After you have, share the stories here and you may get some advice. Take action. That is masculine energy.
/r/seduction15/08/24 12:43 AM
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Read my explanation again. You don't let her call you so you can have her number, you let her type her number in your phone after telling her to exchange numbers after she accepted to go out with you when you are free. She types her number in your phone, you instantly call that number so you have exchanged successfully.
/r/seduction14/08/24 08:31 AM
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Your attitude is not confident at all. "Excuse me, can I talk to you real quick?" Don't excuse yourself for having the balls to talk to her, rather say Hey, don't worry I don't want to sell you anything, I was standing there and seeing you I just had to say hello because I find you very attractive, Hi my name is ( your name + give her your hand ) Most women will introduce themselves back and thank you for the compliment. Rather than asking questions, make assumptions. Rather than saying, how old…
/r/seduction14/08/24 07:48 AM
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We can't help you if you don't explain PRECISELY how you approach. From the beginning to the end, how do you do it. Simply state every sentence and action taken.
/r/seduction14/08/24 07:19 AM
11

Next time you see a women you find attractive or even not attractive say Hi to her. There is no way to sugercoat it, you are extremely inexperienced and you must start taking action if you want to get better at it. You will eat ALOT of dirt at the beginning, it will be humiliating but you will get better. Say Hi to a women, tell her you find her attractive. If you don't know what to say, say exactly that. Ask questions about her, and then ask her if she wants to go drink something sometime when …
/r/seduction14/08/24 04:22 AM
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A women that finds you somewhat attractive and is available will make it extremely easy for you to seduce her, as long you don't act like a needy inexperienced dog. Some guys believe it is not okay to approach women and ask them out on a date. Some social norms say so. Not giving a crap about it gives you an advantage.
/r/seduction13/08/24 10:42 PM
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Well fucking done dude. First off, regardless of the results, you're a bloody badass if you pull stuff like this. Not giving a crap about social norms and just going after things you want. THAT is truly the way. Essentially everything works as long you aren't too pushy and needy. I wanted to give advice, but for now I would simply tell you to keep it up the way you have been. Looking forward to more stories, well done King.
/r/seduction13/08/24 06:02 AM
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I honestly can't understand the positive side of having casual sex with strangers when you're 30+ years old. My family and cousins and so on all have a loving husband/wife and children. Some aunts and uncles of mine are single with 40+ years and look fucking miserable. At some point most people want to settle and have a family. I rather make that choice now when im younger with a women who shares the same mindset, rather than having that realization when I'm 30-40+ years and I'm forced to date t…
/r/seduction07/08/24 06:01 PM
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Good luck with that. There is nothing of value to be found in hedonism and short term gratification. The skill necessary to be able to approach and date women successfully definitely holds value. It is a challenge worth pursuing. Once it has been acquired, all that remains is temptation and lust. Rather use that skill to find a women that is loyal and nurturing. You can't use someone as a one night stand without also becoming a one night stand. It will have effects on your psyche and your emotio…
/r/seduction07/08/24 03:34 AM
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Your priorities have changed. I'm 27 and have the same mindset. Casual sex is not something worth pursuing once you have acquired the skill to make it happen. Long term relationship is where it's at imo. That and religion.
/r/seduction06/08/24 09:28 PM
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Well done. Her saying at the beginning that you need to make this fun for her already set the tone and gave you a free pathway to escalate. She was down to fuck from the beginning.
/r/seduction06/08/24 03:33 PM
6

"Be yourself" isn't good advice. Respectful yes, but don't throw yourself under the bus for her.
/r/seduction06/08/24 02:34 PM
11

Go talk to another girl.
/r/seduction03/08/24 08:44 PM
11

Go approach a new girl. That's how you get over every girl. The only reason why you're so upset is because you have no/not many other options. Go get more options.
/r/seduction03/08/24 08:43 PM
1

Both seems to work. I always stated my business directly, not to validate her but to make her known that I'm not there to be her friend. Her being approached by you is already validation. Might as well not talk to her at all to not give her any. There is nothing wrong with telling a women you find her attractive. The problem arises when you do it frequently, it will become worthless. I'm curious tho, how do you personally push and pull? Disqualify and qualify. Give me an example, thank you.
/r/seduction01/08/24 07:52 PM
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If you keep on asking for her hand or make out far too often then it loses the sexual tension it builds. Like I said tho, she prob dating another/multiple guys atm and you simply weren't the best option at the time.
/r/seduction01/08/24 06:07 PM
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Young women ALWAYS have multiple options. If you didn't act too needy on the date by being too touchy or pushy then she simply found a better option for her. That shouldn't concern you, go out and talk to the next girl.
/r/seduction01/08/24 05:48 PM
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You don't need to wait for her to make eye contact or any other signal from the gods. You go up to her ( Don't tap on her back or something like that ) Approach her from the front, if she is walking tell her to wait a second. Otherwise you simply state your business, you tell her that you noticed her and find her very attractive and just had to say hello. That's about it. You introduce yourself after that with a handshake and most people are conditioned to introduce themselves back to you. After…
/r/seduction31/07/24 07:13 PM
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Dude, with all due respect.. shut up. I approach women regularly, nobody gives a fuck. No culture to make me feel bad, even if she is with her friend it doesn't matter because the friend finds it extremely cool that a guy has the guts to approach them. You're making up excuses, because you rather give something out of your control the fault rather than accepting that you don't have the balls to tell a women you find attractive that you find her beautiful. With all this being said, I understand. …
/r/seduction31/07/24 06:36 PM
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You know what to do. You're old enough to know what women generally find attractive. Either you work on yourself and start talking to women or you will continue to make posts like these on reddit 5 years from now. But I'm hopeful you won't.
/r/seduction31/07/24 06:15 PM
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Do it when you feel like it. Don't overdo it though. Same as with touching her butt or making fun of her. I used to overdo it and it came off insincere and needy. Let her some room to breathe.
/r/seduction30/07/24 10:25 AM
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To see if you're looking at her. The most important asset a women has are her looks. They are extremely dependent on validation. That's why many women download dating apps but don't actually date. If you asked her out and she ghosted you, don't give her any attention. If she writes you again, try to set a date with her. If she makes up excuses block her ass. Some women will play with you because they are bored and twisted.
/r/seduction29/07/24 05:17 AM
3

Sit back, ask questions which you really want to ask. Things you're interested in. Listen to her and let her talk. Do the correct steps and take her home. Most importantly have fun.
/r/seduction29/07/24 01:28 AM
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There is your problem. You're asking for advice, people give you advice and you're like "Nah I'm good." Get some nice clothes, hit the gym and try again.
/r/seduction28/07/24 10:21 PM
12

You shouldn't approach women to get "Digits" Talk to them, if she is interested and responds well to your flirt ask her out. If she accepts then exchange numbers, only then. If she has a boyfriend keep it moving.
/r/seduction28/07/24 09:20 PM
1

Same with men. Most men don't have genuine high self esteem. Apparently it has to do alot with our childhoods. At the end of the day, it's important to not shy away from looking at our shortcomings and weaknesses but rather confront and try to change them. Don't forget boys, women aren't that important.
/r/seduction26/07/24 05:57 AM
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Well.. kinda. It depends what women you're dealing with. Women with a low self esteem tend to react positively to men not being all over them and being able to tell them to fuck off. It seems to be this way because there are much more women with a lower self esteem than high S.E. Women with high S.E don't need to be treated like objects, it is totally fine to tell them that you find them attractive and enjoy being around them. Most guys simply can't distinguish, that's the problem.
/r/seduction26/07/24 05:49 AM
1

Dope. Keep on doing what you been doing
/r/seduction22/07/24 08:48 PM
2

Good stuff. So, did anything happen?
/r/seduction22/07/24 08:14 PM
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