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I don't know. Just wondering. I know it's good for plates to be chasing, but not sure about an LTR. Surely she has to get fed up eventually. I figure I should throw her a bone every once in a while and ask her to come over. It's hard though because she usually asks me if she can come before I even have a second to wake up and say good morning.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 03:01 AM
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Thanks man
/r/askTRP11/03/20 06:23 AM
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What's the FBI penetration test? Does that mean you shouldnt use any shell smaller than a #4 buck for defense?
/r/askTRP09/03/20 04:21 AM
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Get a short barrel Mossberg 12ga pump shotgun. They are fairly cheap , less than or around $300. And load it with #8 shot or bird shot. It will kill any intruder and less chance of it going thru the walls and killing the neighbors.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 09:08 AM
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I probably would have said, "ok, well let me know when you get a chance to hang out" and left it at that. I would just message her and say something like , "alright well if you get a break and wanna hang out, let me know" and leave it at that.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 06:58 AM
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You are young and have time still, but be careful with that line of thinking or before you know it you will be 30 working as a security guard for the retail store while you try to get your life in order. Try to talk to lots of different people and ask them about their jobs, what they like and dislike. Go to those career fairs at school and talk to those people and all of that will help you figure out what you want to be.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 09:38 AM
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Good guess. New Orleans
/r/askTRP04/02/20 08:40 AM
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I've had good success where I live, but that's in a city known for drinking and partying. So most of the female tourists go there with the intention of partying and having sex. Not sure about a regular city.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 10:18 AM
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Great advice. Thanks
/r/askTRP02/02/20 12:45 PM
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I might not be explaining what I mean very well. Currently I'm in my first LTR after a long bluepill marriage followed by some plate spinning. Right now the sex is great, she's always trying to improve and please me better and is very into it. We have sex whenever I want. I assume we are still in the honeymoon phase though. So when that ends, should I still expect her to beg me for anal and suck me off without asking and generally act like a porn star, or would it be more like I have to tell her…
/r/askTRP02/02/20 08:52 AM
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Exactly. The first girl that I took virginity from, I ended up dating her and marrying her; together about 15 years. I was very alpha the first 6 or 7 years and I think being her first let me get away with a lot of bad behavior that a more experienced girl wouldn't have put up with. But once we got married and had kids and I decided to be more beta because bluepill society told me that was the right thing to do, the major shit tests started and she eventually started cheating. By that point, me …
/r/askTRP01/02/20 12:21 PM
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Also with the burner phone, you can install a voice activated recorder on it. As soon as she gets in her car and calls her boyfriend it will start recording.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 10:13 AM
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Sounds good to me.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 08:29 AM
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Dang that's a high quality comment right there. I truly appreciate how much time it took you to type all that. It makes a lot of sense. Thank you
/r/askTRP12/01/20 03:09 PM
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I guess I did something right. Last night she came over after I got home from work and brought me some food and started the shower for me and was being very submissive and apologized for acting up the day or two before. And later she was waiting on the bed in her bra and panties.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 11:33 AM
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Could you explain what you mean about giving her redpills and the truth and teaching her about actual life?
/r/askTRP11/01/20 11:30 AM
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Could it be anything else? Because for the couple days after that incident, she has sent naked pictures of herself to me and talked about how she wants to rip my clothes off and things like that. Of course she could have just got scared of being without me, and decided to act more attracted. It doesn't seem like she is losing attraction, but I'm not sure.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 02:06 AM
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I'm saying Europe as a whole is socialist , I don't know what Hungary is specifically.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 02:00 AM
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What is an online date? Or does it mean dates with girls you met online?
/r/askTRP16/12/19 09:30 PM
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I always wondered about that too, like why has is so expensive in Europe. I guess that's socialism for you. But it sounds like y'all have a good leader now, from what I hear.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 09:57 PM
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Yeah, of course, but what if you're trying to find out if a girl is the giving type or selfish?
/r/askTRP04/12/19 10:34 AM
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Tell her you love her and think she is the most amazing girl in the world. And call and text her constantly. After a day or two she will take out a restraining order against you.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 10:42 PM
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Whenever I go on a trip somewhere or a vacation, I have a lot more energy than usual and have much more of an excited, positive mood. I assume that is just because of getting away from my routine. Maybe it's the same.with you. While overseas you were out of your routine and things were exciting and your deep down male conquering spirit was awakened. Now you are back home in your regular old life.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 10:11 AM
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Look into becoming an Instrument Technician or Analyzer Technician at a chemical plant or refinery. They make good money where I live.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 07:07 AM
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I'm the same way. Glad to know I'm not the only one.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 07:04 AM
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You say she had huge admiration for you because she was always tweeting about you and your relationship, posting stories and pictures, etc. All of that stuff involves her posting on social media, and was probably more about the attention she got from it. My ex wife, even while she was in the middle of an affair, she still posted stuff about us on social media.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 02:49 AM
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My current LTR did the same thing on our second or third date. Just came out and told me her N count. I honestly didn't even want to know. I was thinking she was trying to bait me into divulging my count, but she never asked. She did ask at what age I lost my virginity though.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 03:21 AM
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I would be very careful . Could be setting you up so her boyfriend can Rob you or steal your rims while you are inside with her. Or she could be crazy. It's all kind of bad things that could be going on.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 08:01 PM
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The more you know.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 09:27 AM
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Ive experienced this in the past. Usually the girl would still have all the physical characteristics of an orgasm , like a pulsing feeling in the vagina for some girls or the tensing up of muscles and releasing. But they would still start to slack off with their interest in sex. But I think we are pretty much the same way. When first with a girl it is great and exciting. But eventually it gets kind of boring, even though we still orgasm each time. Also could be that you are showing too many beta…
/r/askTRP16/10/19 11:16 PM
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The past week or so she has been trying to pull back a little I think . I assume she is testing to see if I would chase her or not. But I've just been ignoring and waiting for her to contact me each time.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 03:45 AM
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What do you mean "reminds her what she agreed to"? What was the agreement?
/r/askTRP10/10/19 09:29 PM
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I think she wants to cheat. I wouldn't do that to my friend, but that's just me. I would probably tell him, but he will probably confront her and she will lie and say it was your idea and he will believe her over you.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 06:35 PM
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She has made subtle comments about wanting a baby and being a good wife. Im actually surprised she hasn't been shit testing me a ton. I'm naturally laid back and don't get bothered or upset by anything, but my frame still needs a lot of work. I think the main thing that has been helping me though, is that I'm in my thirties now and too old to settle with someone not meeting my needs and will walk away at any minute.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 09:36 AM
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If she feels she has no power, would that make her not shit test?
/r/askTRP07/10/19 08:18 AM
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Im pretty sure I'm not a natural. Could it be since my SMV is a good bit higher than hers, and also since I started the relationship off from the beginning using the red pill and setting my boundaries early? She has commented several times that she is scared she isn't pleasing me or nervous that I seem like I could walk away at any minute? Or maybe those comments were the shit tests?
/r/askTRP07/10/19 08:16 AM
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I've been in this situation before many years ago. I didn't want to seem insecure so I told her to go ahead and text the guy. Eventually they stopped texting, or so I thought. She just started hiding it as they got closer and closer. By the time I realized something was up, they had already fucked in every room in our house and in every hole on her body that I had never even been allowed to touch. And this was a girl who had never even kissed another guy except for me and had been with me for 15…
/r/askTRP06/10/19 07:30 AM
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Lots of girls say stuff like that. She may just be mad you dumped her and wants to hurt you. Also, she isn't basing the new guy off of everything you ever did for her, she is basing it on how you treated her the last month or two of your relationship. So of course the new guy seems better than you did with a girl you was thinking of dumping. And 2 months, she barely knows the guy. She hasn't seen any of his negative traits yet. In a few months when they are fighting, she will tell him you were w…
/r/askTRP06/10/19 04:32 AM
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Exactly this
/r/askTRP06/10/19 04:15 AM
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I'm struggling trying to figure the cardio out. I feel awesome if I jog for 30 minutes, but everyone says doing the HIIT is better. But HIIT doesn't give me the same mental boost as jogging. Which do you do?
/r/askTRP06/10/19 04:09 AM
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Thanks. I believe I did a good job setting boundaries early. I think I did a good job too of building a good foundation , where she is aware that I will walk away at any moment if a boundary is crossed. She has made comments several times that she is nervous that she is going to make a mistake and lose me, or something to that effect. The hardest part to me is maintaining the good foundation I've laid out, as I get more comfortable and the beta habits start trying to creep back up.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 10:54 AM
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Has a gay best friend, or several. Lots of previous LTR's of very short duration.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 09:35 AM
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Damn. I'm going to have to delete my whole post now.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 09:31 AM
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I was very similar in my early 20's. I worked out constantly and would get many compliments from girls on my body and also constantly told I was cute by girls and they all assumed I was constantly getting approached. Occasionally I did, but I was too dumb to realize at the time that girls were trying to fuck me when they approached and offered to help me study at their apartment. I ended up drinking constantly and experimenting with drugs and that helped approach girls , but ruined my grades and…
/r/askTRP03/10/19 11:27 PM
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I would play it the same wether religious or not. I went out with a very religious girl a while back and assumed I would get no action , but we ended up having sex in her car outside the restaraunt. She later texted whining about it being wrong. Then 2 days later she came to my house and we had sex again.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 07:35 PM
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I just focus more on doing what I want and get busy and the rest takes care of itself. She will usually start being more affectionate, or maybe she will try to ask if she did something wrong and I just make a joke and go about my business.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 12:23 AM
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She mentioned exes a little bit before, nothing bad. I haven't noticed her checking out another guy. She can hide it very well I guess. But I don't care unless she purposefully does it in a disrespectful way.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 09:29 PM
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What were the IOD's she showed, besides the pics to the ex?
/r/askTRP24/09/19 09:00 PM
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I am affectionate with her, but only when she is being affectionate first. And I never show more affection than her. I always show less. Usually when I feel like she is starting to get a little distant or being slightly less affectionate, I will back off and let the alpha out more. Plus, since the beginning, I framed the relationship to where she had to win me over and is constantly seeking my approval. I told her I'm not going to settle with anyone that doesn't meet all my sexual needs and she …
/r/askTRP24/09/19 08:56 PM
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I don't think she does, from.what I can piece together.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 03:00 PM
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Not sure if I have much advice to give. Probably my biggest advantage is that my SMV is much higher than hers. Other than that, I've just been trying to occasionally give her validation and the majority of the time I just do my own thing. I set my boundaries with her from the very beginning, just by us casually talking and me saying how I would never settle for anyone that wasn't completely sexually submissive and also someone that wasn't completely honest, etc. So I guess she took the hint. Als…
/r/askTRP24/09/19 02:59 PM
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Very. Does whatever I want and has done many things for the first time (so she says) with me.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 10:05 PM
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10 seconds of her saying that. I removed myself and after her pouting 10 minutes alone, she was back to normal. I wouldn't even have listened to 10 seconds of it though, if I was as awesome as you are.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 07:28 PM
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What is interesting though, is that during her affair she treated me worse than a dog and had no remorse and pretty much blamed me for all of it and pretty much said she never loved me and the sex was never good and everything else you can think of. And this is a girl that was a virgin and had never had a boyfriend or even a first kiss before she met me. And she was literally obsessed with me for the first 13 or 14 years. But when I found out, I left her and started exercising. For the next 2 ye…
/r/askTRP18/09/19 04:12 AM
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I found RP not long after, but it took about 2 years before I actually started to realize it's all real.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 03:58 AM
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I personally would try to keep her at FWB. She doesn't sound like LTR material.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 03:42 AM
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Thanks
/r/askTRP18/09/19 03:38 AM
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The old me would have been worried about embarassing the other couple or making it uncomfortable for them.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 03:37 AM
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That's very possible. My ex LTR of 15 years was never jealous of me until the last year when, unknown to me at the time, she had started cheating with a co-worker. At the time, I was wondering why she was being so jealous all of a sudden. At the time, I was kind of happy and thinking maybe she had finally realized how great I was and was afraid to lose me. Nope. She was guilty and projecting that guilt as jealousy.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 12:55 AM
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Suppose you constantly fail shit tests , can things turn around if she still has some attraction and has still remained loyal and faithful and you start passing shit tests?
/r/askTRP18/09/19 12:44 AM
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I am the first person my current LTR ever swallowed for (supposedly). My SMV is much higher than hers and I am definitely higher value in every category than any of her past boyfriend's. She said she never swallowed before, because she was always under the impression that swallowing was form of control or degrading. She said she had to get over that mindset and be able to trust me before she got comfortable doing that with me. So it feels like, even though I am the highest value man she ever had…
/r/askTRP18/09/19 12:11 AM
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I'm not 100 % sure about this, but you may want to check the SHBG or sex hormone binding globulin also. I have been told that if it is too high, even if your testosterone is in normal range, the SHBG can counteract it and cause low T symptoms.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 09:06 AM
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Ha. Thanks for the info
/r/askTRP12/09/19 09:29 PM
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Yeah but she mentions exes somewhat often, and I always laugh and ignore. But every other time it is a story that is relevant to whatever conversation we are having. This dream story was just out of the blue for no reason. That's what made me think it was something.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 08:04 PM
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Nothing like that. She just said she had a dream about an ex from a super long time ago that asked her for something and she flipped him the middle finger and waved her hands around in synch with some music. It was a pointless story to tell other than for a reason to mention an ex, at least that's how I interpreted it.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 08:02 PM
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Maybe so. It's aggravating because my first inclination was laugh it off. Then I thought to myself, "wait a minute. The old beta me in the past used to always ignore this type of stuff because I was afraid of appearing weak and insecure." She ended up messaging me later asking if I was upset with her, and I told her "no babe Im not upset. I Just don't want to spend our time talking about another guy you dated." Then I gave her a little comfort and everything is good, except for the attractivenes…
/r/askTRP12/09/19 07:56 PM
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I don't care about the dream itself, but it was out of the blue and made it feel like some sort of game or test. The dream had nothing to do with our conversation. And I did laugh it off and told her it was funny, but I followed that by saying next time don't tell me if you dream about an ex. Where do I draw the line though?
/r/askTRP12/09/19 05:03 PM
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Have you used any steroids or all natural? I used to be in great shape from lifting weights, but I never got much attention until I started juicing. That was years ago though. Now I'm trying to just get back to being in good shape naturally.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 08:40 AM
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Yeah I believe you are right about thinking it's too good to be true. I feel like I am going crazy though sometimes. I keep feeling the beta trying to creep up on me again, and then I remember AWALT. She makes it effortless to be dominant with her, but then I try to reward her with some validation and it's like the bluepill just grabs hold of me hard again. I sometimes wish I had never found the redpill. I don't remember the stages of grief, but I thought I had already went through the sadness p…
/r/askTRP09/09/19 07:21 AM
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Plus one is when someone goes to an event as someone's date. The guy she went to the wedding with, received an invitation inviting him + 1 guest to the wedding. So she went to the wedding as the guy's (+ 1).
/r/askTRP04/09/19 09:19 AM
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I feel like it's a different story if you are a single father and date a single mother. But there is no reason that a childless man should date a woman with kids.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 07:56 AM
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I don't know man. You sound exactly like me and my brother, except we came from a 2 parent home. Maybe it's more to do with having a brother and no sisters?
/r/askTRP31/08/19 10:48 AM
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When I first told my LTR I love her, I did it the way it's described in the Sex God Method. Earlier that morning, she had said she thinks she is falling for me. So while we were having sex, I was dirty talking and also asked what she meant about falling for me. She was trying to explain without actually saying it, but I kept stroking until she finally blurted out I Love You. As I felt she was pretty close to orgasm, I said it back to her and she had a strong orgasm. I was surprised it worked lik…
/r/askTRP30/08/19 03:40 AM
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