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who are you speaking to? the redpill men reading this? I'm guessing yes. He's not engaging in debate, he's being his own PR man. This scene from Thank You For Smoking fits perfectly for this kind of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 12:37 AM
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Social media just makes the existing crazy bitches more obvious. Praise be to social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 12:31 AM
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A life where your only focus is on being a wage slave is a very miserable life by my standards. I would not want career to be my focus in life. Like I said, I care more about being able to enjoy the money I earn, than working stupid hours just so I can brag to strangers on Reddit about how cool I am. You enjoy wasting your life making the people above you rich. I will enjoy my life clocking out asap so I can spend time with my friends having fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 12:26 AM
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What's wrong living with friends? Aside from the stigma you're making up against it to feel better about yourself, that is. It is very practical as it allows for lower living costs and it makes for a chilled fun living situation. Sounds like you're just hating because people who haven't wasted half their life on overpriced degrees and having no free time due to working in ridiculously overworked jobs can have a better living situation than you bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 12:16 AM
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Lol if you really feel the need to insult me and flex about your job and education on Reddit you must have some low as fuck self-esteem. I will work a regular 9-5 job which I tolerate (doesn't make me miserable with too high demanding work or stupid hours) so I can actually use the money I earn to have fun in the hours outside of it. Living with friends will be a lot more fun than getting married and being nagged at 24/7. Living costs will be way cheaper shared between three or four people compa…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 12:10 AM
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Lol if you're single you can buy a smaller place which is cheaper. You can live in a one bedroom flat instead of a family house. Or you can just live with housemates. In London a lot of people are doing this as adults because of the house prices. I am sorting out the same kind of deal right now. Just me and my mates smoking weed and playing Xbox can't beat that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 11:59 PM
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Depends entirely what type of job and industry you're in. Like I said if you are able to live on a lower wage (because you don't have to pay for wife, kids, etc) you can easily choose a more basic job that doesn't involve stupid long hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 11:53 PM
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Not in the slightest. It's even often ridiculed by TRP, the mods even removed it from the sidebar. TRP mods don't even want to be associated with it. RoK is more extreme than TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 11:44 PM
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Are you sure you're not confusing the MRM with RoK? Because they're not the same thing despite what Tumblr and Twitter may tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 11:08 PM
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There are people willing to work ridiculous hours in many places, but you can choose a job with fewer hours if you don't have as many financial obligations. Safe to say if you only look after yourself you have way fewer obligations than someone who is pressured to provide for an entire family himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 11:05 PM
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Nonsense, if the man didn't have the obligation of providing for his wife, kids, and grandparents, he'd be able to cut back the hours and still have more disposable income. It's those burdens that force him to work so hard. Men absolutely do care about work/life balance because most of them don't like being in a cubicle all day. It's not fun. I'd rather be in work for as little time as possible so I can get money which I can go spend on hookers and coke. But what's the point of working for that …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 10:48 PM
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Thanks. Good to see like minded peeps around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 10:38 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 12:18 PM
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This is an issue RP is very split on which is why they're not all tradcons. You will even see some of those who believe in the whole "Western society is failing" rhetoric simply saying "enjoy the decline." It also seems to me the majority of RP is an "every man for himself" type philosophy where they teach you how to use things to your advantage, rather than having an obligation to society. You might respond "ah yes, but that's nihilistic", but not really - not believing you have an obligation t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 09:50 AM
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But you're missing my point. Even if the women were doing all the housework, it is still not an ideal situation for the man to be a corporate slave and the woman to be a domestic slave. That's not making anyone happy. If you were the man in that situation I doubt you'd be enjoying it even if your wife were perfectly subservient because the long hours of hard work would kill you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 09:08 AM
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That I don't really disagree with, it's the segment of red pillers who look at the 1950's through rose tinted glasses who I question.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 09:05 AM
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I didn't say anything about the past, I said it's useless now in modern society. Back in the past you needed marriage for exchange of property and to have a family. That's obviously not true in the Western world 2015. There is no reason to get married right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 09:04 AM
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The thread here on PPD recently about how women become attracted to men actually seems to back that quite strongly. Plenty of women saying they became sexually attracted to men only after getting to know them. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/3gmmno/does_female_sexual_attraction_happen_at_first/
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 01:34 PM
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My favourite bit of the Charles Manson thing is that Manson said she was the one who'd be getting scammed since he believes he's immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 01:06 PM
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If Mr. Nice Guy goes up to Miss Vulnerable and gets rejected. Then Mr. TRP goes up to her and sleeps with her that night, where's the problem? Your problem with it is that she's sleeping with a dickhead, not a nice guy. Holy shit this is an excellent observation. The whole "RP only works on damaged women" thing is exactly the same as "I'm such a nice guy why don't women like me?"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 12:53 PM
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Just to clarify, the reason I don't personally find girls who've had lots of sex attractive is because of mismatched life experience. I don't go out drinking frequently, I find sex to be very personal and wouldn't find it easy to connect with a partner who doesn't. I much prefer quieter girls who match me in life experience. I can relate to this 100%. Cool to see someone on the same page as me on that one. But I think the modern reasons for slut shaming are different to the historical ones you t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 12:49 PM
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I had the same basic thought. Her body has no shape to it, which just looks kinda weird. Not necessarily unattractive, but just unusual, so it stands out and looks strange to me. As you said models are chosen because they wear clothes well, not because they're attractive to men. I don't know why so many guys hold models up as paragons of beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 12:06 PM
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Oh man I remember that guy. Apparently he's one of the TBP mods as well. And he talked about how great it felt to be a virgin. Of course I can't link to any actual source for this, but I'm sure /u/PostNationalism will accept it really happened anyway :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 11:59 AM
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"She say she's on her period? I ain't hearin' it. Put a rubber on, I ain't fearin' it." -Juicy J
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 11:55 AM
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This is a sensible response. You see too many BP saying "yeah well I was told that as well but I was so super smart as a kid I learned it was bullshit before I was born so if you actually believed it then you're a fucking idiot." I think that's why RP gets pissed off.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 11:48 AM
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Nothing good happens after midnight Perhaps they thought you were a Gremlin?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 11:44 AM
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Lol I got this too. I'm so special and above average blah blah. Bullshit. And the fact everyone is told this is what fuels /r/iamverysmart. One of my friends in secondary school summed it up when she said "everyone is above average these days." Luckily this didn't damage my academic performance because I knew my grades were crap. Although some subjects were just fucking easy anyway. IT I could pass even though I was playing games for half the lessons, but that's less because I was smart and more…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 11:38 AM
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According to the article, cohabitation is low because there's a big stigma over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 11:31 AM
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As /u/cxj summarised, it's corporate slavery for men and domestic slavery for women and neither exectly sounds ideal. It would not surprise me at all if both genders are opting out here, but as the stats show women are obviously leading. It seems from the S Korean women's comments posted here, they just find the concept of those traditional marriages extremely depressing, and don't want to give up their lives. On the other hand I am sure it's also true men don't want to work themselves to death …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 11:29 AM
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You've summed it up perfectly, indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 11:23 AM
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It's a tradition problem because it's the men who are expected to earn all the money for the entire household (which obviously requires those long hours) and the women who are expected to do housework all day. Sounds almost like the glorious patriarchy RP keeps getting sentimental over. Doesn't seem so great in reality though does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 11:20 AM
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One good thing about the US and some other western countries is that we don't have hundreds of years of rigid traditions to try to adapt to modern life. Indeed, reading this kind of stuff makes me thankful we live in a culture that's pretty much disregarded old fashioned traditions completely. Those who like traditions can choose to live by them, but that's not expected of everyone. It's very good. I don't get RP tradcons glorifying patriarchy. All it means is men have to work really hard and wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 11:14 AM
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I'm definitely interested man, this is very good insight. Not at all surprised marriage is being dropped in this social climate, and if the expectation all women act as servants in marriage is still being upheld I'm not surprised the women are the ones choosing not to do it. Although with the men also working so hard I would also not be surprised if they don't have time for marriage. I also wouldn't be surprised if men and women both would rather not have kids when they are such a massive burden…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 11:06 AM
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I don't disagree. Hell I think destroying marriage altogether is a good thing because it's pointless, at least it certainly doesn't fit into modern society at any rate. The declining marriage rates show a lot of people agree with me. I just found the idea of women being the ones opting out of the marriage to be interesting and worthy of discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 12:29 AM
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Yeah I don't think the situation is as one-sided as the Economist article is making out. I think it is more likely both men and women are keeping away from marriage for their own reasons. But I don't know enough about Korean culture to really make that call beyond mere speculation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 12:00 AM
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Keep things going as they are until the singularity happens and computers take all the jobs and make us obsolete in the near future, then just sit around flinging shit at each other and watching porn all day because our existence really won't matter anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 11:43 PM
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What I advocate is mildly forceful indoctrination of values Fucking hell, even when you're trying to butter it up it still sounds like something straight outta 1984.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 10:57 PM
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This is the weirdest fucking thread I've seen on PPD for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 10:54 PM
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In my experience, people cannot distinguish between what's unproductive and what they disagree with. You make a good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 10:47 PM
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Okay you want to take kids at a young age when they don't really know better and teach them that your personal idea of morality is what they should believe for the rest of their lives. Totally not brainwashing tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 10:47 PM
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Meh I consider myself 5-6 and I do fine. It's all about keeping fit and having a personality that grabs interest man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 10:43 PM
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we innovate through technology/the singularity and make the battle of the sexes irrelevant Well we can be pretty certain this is what'll happen anyway. I give it a few decades until all the low skill jobs are replaced by machines and another few decades after that until we reach the singularity and they've taken over the high skill ones too. If any of you have kids, in their lifetime they will see themselves be made obsolete by machines. This will force massive social change. It won't be the 195…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 10:41 PM
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To be fair he's not wrong about Soma. That's some good shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 10:35 PM
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So you wanna brainwash kids. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 10:34 PM
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As I said the best solution is to encourage people to only downvote comments that don't contribute to the discussion. Trying to disable downvotes altogether will never work. You can see right now it's not working.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 10:18 PM
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Sounds like you just want a BP hugbox. Luckily it already exists, it's called TBP. But this here is PPD which is a debate sub. You will encounter people who disagree with your opinion often. Sometimes these people will remove one of your internet points. If you don't like that stick to the echo chamber.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 10:00 PM
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The votes reflect the attitude of the individual threads. I find it interesting to see, because you get some threads dominated by BP and some dominated by RP. It differs depending on the thread, and the votes of the posts help show what perspective is heavily popular in each thread. I think there is a reason both upvotes and downvotes exist on Reddit and it makes little sense to skirt around it. It's best to encourage users to follow the "reddiquette" so don't downvote merely out of disagreement…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 09:53 PM
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Anyone who whines about internet points needs to calm the fuck down no matter what "pill" they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 09:47 PM
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All I'm seeing is you whining about losing imaginary internet points.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 09:41 PM
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Yep most people do not work out. That's why simply being fit is enough to make yourself stand out in terms of attraction. Lots of fatties out there. If BP seriously think most people are fit and healthy they clearly don't live in the US or UK.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 09:38 PM
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Stop whining about them then.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 09:27 PM
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General rule of Reddit: complaining about downvotes gets you downvoted. Just chill, they're made up internet points.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 09:18 PM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 09:16 PM
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Exactly, pretty obvious isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 06:16 PM
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A better question is what is the situation around legal def of rape in UK? It's exactly what /u/GridReXX said. The law defines rape as a penis penetrating a vagina. That's it. Nothing else counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 05:04 PM
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don't act like its feminists who made it that way Again with people fighting strawmen... I never claimed feminists made the law the way it is, I said they are not doing anything about bringing awareness to it in the UK even when they find time to whine about "manspreading" and other trivial BS. Which is absolutely true. Patriarchy says men are too strong to be raped not feminism. https://i.imgur.com/5rXuOiY.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 04:21 PM
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With laws like that I'm not surprised. That shit shouldn't exist in any society that actually respects individual freedom or even just basic property rights. I understand with marriage you sign a contract that gives up some rights, but if the state forces that on you that's certainly a valid concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 03:37 PM
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Readers who are on the lookout for trigger warnings are advised to give Worm a pass. I like this already. I'll give it a try, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 03:35 PM
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Seriously? If true, that's just a very shitty fucking law. I would go full MGTOW if that was the law here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 03:13 PM
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Good thing this advice works then: Keep your finances separate (a smart idea anyway) and don't present yourselves to the community as if you were married and those laws will not effect you even if they exist where you live.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 03:05 PM
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Lol first I'm not even RP, look at my flair. Second if you can't even back up your own argument and instead have to resort to insults clearly your argument isn't exactly strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 03:04 PM
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Can you link to the actual study rather than blogspam?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 02:35 PM
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Indeed. And you won't hear the feminists who totally care about men too bring up that issue here either. It's not even something most people are aware of. It's also not even something that exclusively affects men. If a lesbian commits rape that doesn't count under the law either. It has a lot of shitty implications but there's no group with actual influence (MRAs have none) trying to bring attention to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 02:33 PM
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Am I only fucking them or am I looking for an LTR in your scenario? If it's just sex, then yes the SMV is identical. If it's an LTR then more practical considerations have to be taken into account so the woman with the good job is preferable. But that's not the same as being more sexually attractive which is what we're talking about here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 02:23 PM
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Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 02:21 PM
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She could be charged with sexual assault which means she will get a slap on the wrist. Compared to a man doing the same to a woman being charged with rape and getting 14 years in jail. /r/PussyPass has many examples of this in action.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 02:01 PM
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Realistically I don't see that happening. Here in the UK the law does not even recognise women can rape men. That's before we get to the issue of discussing how male victims are shamed and dismissed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 01:15 PM
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You are ignoring the difference between being impressed with someone's achievements and being sexually attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 01:00 PM
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You do realise that even when a man is half passed out he can still get hard yeah? He could have literally no idea what's going on and a woman could mount him in such a state easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 12:56 PM
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The drive for self-preservation by any means is absolutely found in all humans. If I put you out on the street tomorrow I'm sure you'd do all manner of "immoral" things to continue surviving. That is because, of course, survival is the first very basic self-interest. Now once you're at a level where the basics are taken care of and you have shelter and food if you desire more the same rules apply. Most people are happy not having lots of money and power. Frankly most people are just lazy. That's…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 12:42 PM
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Did you just imply the "pray the gay" away things actually work?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 12:30 PM
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I'm just quoting Machiavelli. Whether it's better or not depends on context really. It's certainly better (and actually very difficult) in a business sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 12:29 PM
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You're not the first to tell me that. Right now I'm too busy reading Deadpool because the movie comes out in 2016 so I'm like hey the comics are out now let's read these fuckers. I'm doing the same with Suicide Squad after. Never really sat down and read comics before but Deadpool is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 12:13 PM
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Pretty sure marriage was originally nothing to do with love. That's a more modern concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 02:31 AM
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Fuck but don't commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 02:20 AM
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Indeed. Best not to have kids then. In fact you might as well go full MGTOW if you distrust women as much as you claim, sounds like you'd be happier that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 02:12 AM
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You can still have kids without getting married. But then you're just risking child support...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 02:00 AM
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So you want a certain type of life but don't want to actually take any steps to ensure you get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 01:54 AM
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Lol I should have seen that coming. It only applies in an insignificant number of US states and even then there are prerequisites such as shared finances before it can be enforced. Keep your finances separate (a smart idea anyway) and don't present yourselves to the community as if you were married and those laws will not effect you even if they exist where you live. Or if it still bothers you, move to another state that doesn't have those laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 01:48 AM
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Cohabitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 01:41 AM
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Same as what women do with slut shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 01:38 AM
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Indeed, it is better to be feared than to be loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 01:34 AM
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A smart man. Of mankind we may say in general they are fickle, hypocritical, and greedy of gain. -Machiavelli
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 01:31 AM
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One sounds bad and is easier to demonise.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 01:27 AM
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gr8 b8 m8 i r8 8/8
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 01:24 AM
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No one is talking about sex specifically. That mindset can apply to anything. Usually it's money and power. Sex can be involved but that isn't required at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 01:22 AM
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That does not make the pursuit of law enforcement a lost cause Of course not. But it doesn't make law enforcement moral either. Personally I think it is immoral to throw people in prison for ingesting substances that aren't alcohol or tobacco. Yet LE does this all the time. or the expression of distaste for immoral acts invalid. Well this is just subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 01:12 AM
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No I'm just honest. All human beings are serving their own self-interest. You can parade your holier-than-thou moralfaggotry around all you like but you're hardwired to put your self-preservation above everything else just like all other humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 12:53 AM
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Which is a niche sexual fetish, am I right? No, I don't think you are. BDSM is far from niche. The demographic that goes to actual BDSM clubs certainly is niche, but in the privacy of their own bedrooms I think most people do some type of BDSM activity. At the very least I think most people fantasise about BDSM - 50SOG didn't become a best seller for nothing. tried to apply it to ~ 3 billion women When? I literally never once claimed that post is representative of all women. You are attacking a …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 12:50 AM
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I like the satire, but thing is I agree with this completely. If your MO is to get married for money then more power to you. If the guy can't see you're a gold digger and falls for it then that's on him. You're just pursuing your own self-interest like all human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 12:45 AM
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That's just one of the blogs it was reblogged to. That's not the original author of the list. If you look at the notes, it says "1475", that's how many people liked or reblogged the post, and if you scroll further you can see a list of all the other users who did just that. I am not saying it's indicative of all women, and clearly it is a post specifically about BDSM in any case. I just found it interesting to see TRP views reflected so perfectly in a female sexual fantasy of a dominant male, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 12:37 AM
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Kim Jong Un would love that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 12:19 AM
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She is correct though. I could state [politically incorrect opinion] and SJWs would hate me for it but my social circle would agree with me. "Society" is not a hivemind of people holding a single set of views. People hold a variety of views.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 12:17 AM
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Isn't a crime just a severe version of an immoral act? This assumes all laws are moral, and violation of the law is always immoral. Which is a ridiculous premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 12:14 AM
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48 Laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 12:10 AM
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Youth of Reddit? Fuck that, the actual government is already doing this in many countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 12:07 AM
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How do you even get that from what JP said?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 12:06 AM
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He's describing the perspective of literally any honest human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 12:04 AM
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Had similar problems when I first went on SSRI's. Same for men too. You can be as attracted to your partner as you want but SSRIs will still fuck with your libido and make it a lot more difficult to get it up. It's a fallacy to say the only reason someone wouldn't want sex is a lack of attraction. Even something as simple as being too stressed out can have a man not in the mood and I'm sure the same is true for women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 11:59 PM
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It's funny because I saw confirmation of some TRP shit on Tumblr of all places just this morning. A dominant man will not seem ‘desperate’ for your attention. Getting dates or getting laid is not his problem; he can find women on kink sites, at work, or in the grocery store. He knows women, and women are drawn to him. Many women, kink or vanilla, prefer a man who is take-charge both in the bedroom and in life. If a ‘Dom’ becomes frantic, anxious, or despairing because you don’t write him back ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 11:51 PM
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Not even an MRA but I gotta say... Fairness is an illusion. It’s unobtainable in the real world. If you want to use this an argument against a rights movement, where does it end? "Yeah look I know I'm selling black people as slaves but the world ain't fair so what you gonna do?" It's an easy way out, a way to dismiss something without a real argument. Also this guy sounds like a white knight faggot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 11:44 PM
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"Derogatory" depends entirely on the context in which it's used.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 04:41 PM
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See to me those are just different words with the same meaning. It is you who is adding a moral judgement to one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 04:24 PM
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Language has meaning, it just has no inherent emotional connections outside of the ones you choose to assign to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 04:10 PM
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Shitty? Did you just say shitty? I'll have you know I have rectal cancer and you just triggered me with your offensive language! I must now cry for the rest of the day! it doesn't matter whatsoever which words you use then! The only sensible thing you've said ITT. Shame it was sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 03:42 PM
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I don't get offended by simple words I can tell you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 03:22 PM
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If my death would fix all the problems I'm referring to here, you'd have a point that I should go right ahead and do it. But as I just explained it'd create more suffering and have absolutely no effect on the course of the environment. Therefore it'd be completely pointless for me to kill myself because of these ideas. The only way my suicide would fix the problems caused by humanity is if my death killed all the other humans as well. My original reasons for attempting suicide were more personal…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 03:11 PM
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It's other people's fault for being thin skinned and easily offended, absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 02:53 PM
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Making a word taboo only gives it more power. Using a word casually removes that power. I use the word slut even though I have nothing against 'em either. And yes I also (jokingly) call my gay friend a faggot. Then he'll hit me with a comeback and we'll laugh and move on. Words are only offensive if you give them the power to offend you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 02:18 PM
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<3
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 02:13 PM
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This is the standard response I get when I express this view. Seriously if I had a quid every time someone told me this I'd have enough money for like a whole one bedroom flat in London. But again it is not logical. I am talking about both the suffering life creates and the negative effect of the species as a whole on the planet. One human killing themselves would not solve either of those problems - my death would create suffering among my friends and family, and the loss of a single human woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 02:10 PM
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This thread is being brigaded by TBP, btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 02:01 PM
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If they actually integrated into English culture then yes. As I said the problem is getting them to integrate into the culture of the country they've emigrated to. If you can sort that then you're cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 01:54 PM
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Did you even read the post you linked? It warns you not to be too much of an asshole: There’s no denying this guy is an asshole, and there’s no denying he would be a miserable failure with women And I still see no evidence of RP suggesting racism is a positive trait for attracting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 01:29 PM
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Seriously the majority of differences between natives and immigrants comes from culture not genetics. I've seen this first hand in London and in one half of my own family. First generation immigrants always have trouble integrating, but even by the second generation most of those problems usually disappear for the most part. Not all the time but a lot of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 01:26 PM
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Again please point me to the bits of RP that say this: bigotry, racism and unpleasantness which TRP thinks women love Because RP has said a lot of shit I don't agree with, but I've not seen them say "being a racist bigot gets you pussy" even once.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 01:22 PM
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James Bond the character was invented in 1953 man. You cannot expect him to have always conformed to the sensibilities of 2015. Obviously you have to adjust for the environment you are in, and indeed James Bond himself has developed with the times, which is why it's still a ridiculously popular franchise. Now as to your point about RP, I don't see anything on RP saying "women like it when you're racist." I don't know where you're getting that from. But the wealthy handsome confident masculine ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 01:11 PM
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You really don't think a real life James Bond would get pussy? I mean seriously? Simply being thin, confident, masculine, and wearing a suit is enough really. If you drive an Aston Martin it's a sure thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 01:04 PM
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Ah so as I thought, your views are driven by an irrational, emotional view of how humans are so great. This is delusion, narcissism, and solipsism. You think the apes that can make the best tools are the only beings on the whole planet that actually matter. I think the ecosystem containing the rest of the creatures that inhabit the planet would benefit a lot by humans being gone. We've even gone as far as to drive whole species to extinction and we're tearing down the forests and taking every ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 12:52 PM
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Bullshit, that's like saying you can cure mental illness if you just believe. While you can make the decision to get out and socialise more and learn to be more confident, if being social drains your energy that's just how your brain is wired and you can't just change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 12:36 PM
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Indeed this is the more optimistic view. It also sounds like the kind of thing I'd say after eating one of those strong Dutch MDMA pills. However even if we keep this view you're still ignoring the fact humans are responsible for the destruction of the planet and most of the suffering in the world. Why do you believe it is a positive thing for more humans to be created? I put it to you that you only think this due to emotion, because we're emotionally driven to propagate our own species like a v…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 12:33 PM
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What about kids? What about them? I see a lot of RP caring way too much about this because they're tradcons. Personally I serve only my self-interest. Even if the next generation is reduced by half that's NMFP. I do me, I have no responsibility to "help society." And that's before we even get onto the debate about whether the continuation of the human race is a good thing. But that's a much bigger, other discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 10:14 AM
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I don't see where he claimed that advice was exclusive to RP. But it is still advice they give.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 09:37 PM
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If you're calling my post appeal to emotion fallacy the same can apply to yours, especially the "human greatness" nonsense. But we're talking specifically about emotion here. I think we simply have different views. I'm definitely in the camp that says morality is subjective and the same certainly applies to emotional responses as well. Really I think the strongest argument for antinatalism is the somewhat misanthropic fact that humans cause most of the harm to the planet and all the life within …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 09:22 PM
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Those people wouldn't be suffering if they weren't born.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 09:11 PM
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If a close family member died tomorrow would you still be saying that? I doubt it. It's one thing to say shit like this when talking suffering as an abstract concept, but not so much when it actually happens to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 02:43 PM
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Oh yeah they gave their view I'm just giving mine. But when I look at the advice given from /r/relationships it does make me see why people hate on that place so much. Should be called /r/shittyrelationshipadvice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 02:15 PM
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That's not his responsibility though. She knows it's just FWB, he has told her he doesn't want it to be anything more. He has made his position crystal clear. Now if she is not happy with that situation, it is up to her to take responsibility for her own actions and exit the situation. It's not up to him to save her from herself. And if she doesn't do that, and keeps fucking the guy when she knows he doesn't want a relationship, that's down to her. She has agency, she's an adult, and she made th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 02:02 PM
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They want more than sex. Nobody can stop someone from continuing if both people are happy to have sex, but if you don't want anyone to hurt, it's better to leave it off. In OP's scenario, the FWB was explicitly told by the guy that he only wanted sex, yet she continued to fuck him anyway. That's her decision to continue consenting to sex with him. He's already been honest with his intentions, he is not doing anything wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 01:55 PM
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Starting a relationship will make you happier but also most certainly make you suffer (unless it is you who dies or breaks up) thus you should do MGTOW. On a logical level this is 100% correct, yes. Especially when the biological reason we pair up is to procreate and I have zero interest in procreation. The avoidance of suffering should not go in to the way of experiencing pleasure for it is much more valuable and suffering can be overcome and forgotten. This only applies to existing life. If yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 01:47 PM
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Good for you. But that's really beside the point. If you were not born you wouldn't be having fun but the absence of pleasure in this context does not create any suffering, because if you don't exist you're not there to be depressed at the lack of pleasure. But if you are born it's 100% certain you are going to go through some level of suffering multiple times in your life no matter who you are. So not bringing life into the world = no happiness, no suffering. That's nothingness, it's completely…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 01:33 PM
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To be fair judging by his username it seems he puts money higher in his priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 01:12 PM
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The primary idea behind antinatalism is to avoid suffering. You cannot kill yourself without creating further suffering. You will suffer and your friends and family will suffer. The only way to truly ensure there is no suffering caused by your existence is to never exist in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 01:08 PM
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If OP is truly an antinatalist then he is if anything the opposite of a sociopath. The idea behind antinatalism is that bringing life into the world is an inherently immoral act because the only way to avoid someone going through pain is for them to never be born in the first place. So it is a philosophy based on empathy. A quote from a well known antinatalist says "I love my children too much to bring them into this world."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 12:50 PM
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It says "this is how manipulation works." Like I said, how you use that info is now up to you. This is why they call themselves amoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 11:10 PM
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Unless I'm at a nuclear power plant I fucking hate the word "toxic." People manipulate each other constantly and understanding how this manipulation works is a useful skill throughout life. Whether you simply use it to understand how others try to manipulate you, or you use it to manipulate others, is up to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 10:54 PM
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If they enjoy being dominant sexually then they'll be into submissive guys. It's just far from common, which is why a dominatrix can make so much money, more than regular escorts even if they don't perform actual sex. The number of submissive men significantly exceeds the number of dominant women out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 08:59 PM
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Dunno why this is downvoted. Not only are you right but I'd go further and say it's down to culture too. For example in London speaking to strangers unless it's to ask for directions is a big no no. Whereas in smaller towns it's a lot more socially acceptable to speak to strangers almost as if they're friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 08:55 PM
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It's a level of social anxiety sure. But that doesn't mean it's a level that will harm your quality of life. There's plenty of shy people out there and most of them just don't like speaking much when they don't need to. They can still speak to people they know particularly when they have to e.g. when they're at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 07:49 PM
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Being shy and awkward in social environments doesn't necessarily mean you have no social skills at all, nor does it mean you have crippling social anxiety. That's quite a jump.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 07:31 PM
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sedated a entire generation of men sedated Ritalin Why do some RPers randomly hate on ADHD drugs anyway? They just make you concentrate on shit very hard. As stimulants they can also boost confidence and make you more outgoing and social. Hell they can help you pick up girls pretty fucking easily. It seems there is this misguided notion that they're somehow mind control drugs that make the user do what "the man" wants. This is far from the case. Ritalin in particular is just stronger caffeine wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 06:58 PM
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Truth. And (sexually) dominant women are rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 06:50 PM
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Awkward nerdy guy = attractive guy with glasses.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 06:37 PM
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Heh this is me. This is why I meet most the girls I fuck with online. Once I'm comfortable with someone I'm fine, but during the attraction and getting to know phase I'm terrible unless my inhibitions are chemically lowered.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 06:28 PM
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Being shy and awkward is only a "disease" if it's something you don't like. Many people enjoy solitude and don't care much for being social butterflies, and therefore have no reason to "cure" themselves. Also, if you are introverted, you can't change that. That doesn't mean introverts can't socialise more, but it does mean socialising will always wear you out and you'll need time alone to mentally recharge.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 05:56 PM
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Also keep in mind what they say about the quiet ones... they're the weird kinky types. I've found this to be true in my experience. Most of the girls I've been with were down for some weird BDSM shit and of those only one wasn't shy. That said, I was only able to have actual successful relationships with them when I myself became more confident. People don't like hearing this but shy girls tend to want strong dominant men just like 90% of other women. Harsh but true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 05:50 PM
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I'm not really easily offended at all and I'm mostly here because I enjoy debating. That's why I'm purple, just kinda sitting in the middle not caring about taking sides. But I would guess the people who are offended by RP are the same peeps who were offended by coontown. It doesn't really matter if it's "getting results" they just object to what's being said on a moral and ideological level.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 05:21 PM
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Plot twist: you were never actually a compulsive liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 12:26 PM
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The "nice guy" thing is either oneitis or white knights pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 12:24 PM
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At least five judging by my teenage years.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 12:17 PM
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No one is shamed for bettering themselves, it's specific RP beliefs that are shamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 10:54 AM
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Their fault for not bettering themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 01:33 AM
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That's pretty much the idea behind literally every dating site ever. That's why they have matching algorithms and when you're super bored you can answer literally hundreds of those questions on Okc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 10:26 PM
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When you grew up, did your parents have an equal relationship or was there a power dynamic? My mum was the boss, no doubt. Did your parents teach you any red pill truths, blue pill truths or anything about dating at all? If not, from where did you get your knowledge about dating? My mum told me I should keep my weight low and exercise to remain attractive and that men and women are different. My dad told me bullshit like if a wife cheats on her husband then it must be the husband's fault. I list…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 09:29 PM
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Most people's social skills are just fine despite the same media influences. Sounds like they have some deeper problems requiring therapy and medication, not a bitter angry internet board that re-enforces the exact shit that's causing their problems. On the real though take any of these skinny nerdy guys, give them a little Adderall and Xanax, then watch them pull bitches. Aspie girls can probably have sex easily because they're still girls. But when it comes to relationships they still have a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 09:08 PM
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I thought your sarcasm was aimed at my assertion that white knights are a minority, rather than at the fact TRP is popular. You were hardly being clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 09:02 PM
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"Our" meaning TRP? Because one internet board with 100k subscribers is still very niche in the big picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 08:39 PM
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I'd argue the number of men willing to take on that burden especially for an overweight woman are a small minority. It's not that they don't exist, it's just far from the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 08:38 PM
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So it's Tinder but it matches you with friends of your friends instead of using location. An interesting idea but I don't see how it's "the anti-Tinder." This kind of clickbait reminds me of when the tech press used to call every single new smartphone "the iPhone killer."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 07:25 PM
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I remember seeing something on /r/showerthoughts "waterboarding in Guantanamo Bay sounds fun if you don't know what either of those things are."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 07:21 PM
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Number one is rule of Facebook is no family, everyone knows that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 07:17 PM
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Chad's wife isn't going to leave and take half of his stuff. You know why? Chad has no wife. Yep marriage is stupid like that. But this is far from specific to swinging. It's possible for her to elope with Nancy, but is it as likely as with Chad? No. I don't really understand your basis for that beyond emotional bias and pure hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 07:14 PM
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Only if you don't mind being an ATM. Which most guys object to in this day and age where women are also expected to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 07:11 PM
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White knight faggots are a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 06:10 PM
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The only person winning is Chad. Husband is still having fun fucking around though. He's essentially doing the same thing Chad is. my wife probably isn't going to fall in love with Nancy. Why do you think that? If your wife in this scenario is bisexual then she may very well end up falling in love with Nancy. You just don't perceive this threat because you feel more threatened by other males. This is letting your emotion get the best of you and doesn't line up with the logical reality. If Wife i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 06:08 PM
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The wife can fuck more men and hotter men with less effort. Comparative to the husband who even though he has game, must still put in the work. Well yeah no shit. But at the end if they're both fucking other people how has the husband "lost"? And it seems like you can't muster up the type of game to convince a girl to only fuck women with you. My current gf is actually perfectly fine with that kind of arrangement. I've not taken advantage of this yet but may do in the future. You can choose to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 05:37 PM
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I'd agree with that, women value it more than men. But men still value it to an extent, e.g. a fat lazy NEET woman would be just as unattractive as the male variant. The porn example got me on another interesting line of thought, because you often see the women dressed as nurses or schoolgirls or whatever, characters that reflect being nurturing (nurse) or vulnerable (schoolgirl). Whereas the men always wearing suits and being rich and successful in romance books reflects the traditional male ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 05:33 PM
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All of what you're saying is based on the assumption that the husband isn't also out there fucking other women. You never addressed this. Of course women have to put less effort into getting sex, but if a man has enough game he can still do it pretty easily. TRP brushes this to the side because they can't seem to muster that kind of game up it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 05:28 PM
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Pretty sure the bull testicle thing is a myth. Hitler did love his meth and morphine though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 05:22 PM
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you'd find a bisexual girlfriend/wife and tell her "we're only going to fuck women". That's called a unicorn lol. Anyway no I'm not hamstering. Surely if TRP really believes in all the game shit they will believe they are capable of fucking at least a few new women every week if they're going out trying? If you disagree, then you are basically saying game can't help you and contradicting TRP. But if you do believe TRP can help you increase your value and get laid easily, then obviously you'd agr…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 05:10 PM
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There's lots more tradcons than there used to be when it started life as Seduction 2.0.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 05:06 PM
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Status in and of itself makes men attractive to women, but doesn't do much to make women attractive to men. Eh I disagree, see the Emma Watson example. Part of her attractiveness is down to her massive status.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 03:20 PM
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I don't see why you think this message is given only to women. Society encourages everyone to pursue their own self-interest. That's what capitalism is and we're in a capitalist society. You don't win the game of life by having the nicest morals or most noble intentions, you win by doing whatever's in your personal interest even if it means others lose. That's the world we live in. There's no fairness here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 03:10 PM
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Seriously when did TRP become so full of radical tradcons who actually take /pol/ seriously? It's like they've taken over (at least here in PPD) over the past six months or so. Anyway, I've always said these guys who claim open relationships are cuckoldry are just afraid of competition and don't believe their game is good enough to get more pussy, which is ironic considering what the entire premise of TRP is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 02:47 PM
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Love is different from fucking lol. I certainly think more men with low standards exist than women with low standards, but I would not paint most men in this light. Anyone with their shit together is going to have standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 02:44 PM
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Everyone should assume strangers they don't yet know are rapists, serial killers, psychopaths, thieves, those weirdos who don't like Nutella, whatever. You can ease up on this and begin to relax more once you begin to see behaviour in the other person which suggests they aren't all those things. That said, while you obviously shouldn't isolate yourself from everyone over these possibilities, I don't believe you should ever place full trust in anyone either. Statistically you are most likely to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 02:38 PM
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I don't see things so black and white and I don't agree women have it as easy as you claim. There was a thread here in PPD not too long ago where a few female aspies were posting, and they all said they had a lot of trouble getting into relationships, or even talking to the opposite sex. I think anyone who is socially awkward (and being overweight and unhygienic are heavily correlated with bad social skills) will have trouble relating to others in a sexual or romantic way. I think that's all it …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 02:22 PM
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Why do you have such a low opinion of men? I've not seen this behaviour at all. In fact most men are hesitant to commit at all, let alone fall in love with anyone who shows them intimacy. It seems like you believe all men have borderline personality disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 02:16 PM
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And heroin is still used a painkiller in many UK hospitals. But people abuse things, and when you abuse things they harm people. Heroin is top example, but I put it to you GHB, roofies, and any other so-called "date rape drug" is not. As far as "date rape drugs" go the most widely used one is perfectly legal and you could easily go pick some up today if you wanted to. You might even have it in your house right now. It's called alcohol. All this hysteria over "date rape drugs" is just as ridiculo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 02:04 PM
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That's a false equivalence if I ever saw one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 01:43 PM
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Because most women's prefferences overlap. Says who? How else would you explain athletes having to run away from women Athletes have status. Bill Gates isn't exactly jacked but he has a wife. I put it to you that status is a universally admired trait in humans regardless of your gender. For example if you could fuck Emma Watson or some random girl at a bar, which would you choose? and the incel phenomenon? Motherfuckers whining on the internet because they can't get pussy, usually due to being o…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 01:32 PM
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Take Adderall/Vyvanse/etc before you go out. Suddenly become the most confident fucker alive. Maybe some Valium to take the edge off then some Xanax for the comedown. 'Tis my daily routine.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/15 11:11 PM
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Those women are talking about only being attracted to a certain percentage of men they encounter on an average day. Why is it that TRP suddenly reads this as them only being attracted to the "top _%" of men all the time? Exactly, I was going to point this out myself. Why do they think one woman's preference = what all women find attractive? That's a massive fucking leap. Speaking as a guy I have similar standards too. I know you see plenty of guys on TRP saying they'll happily fuck anything with…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/15 11:08 PM
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The bloke is just going all out to get attention. All publicity is good publicity. And it's working fucking brilliantly. It also reminds me of the Black Mirror episode about Waldo. An animated bear ends up winning political elections purely because he had comedy value. Donald Trump is basically the real world version of the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/15 09:32 PM
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I am a man lol. Having sex with average looking women is fucking easy. Dunno what you're whining about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/15 06:33 PM
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Well I mean all you do on here is talk about how shitty you have it and how good women have it and project those insecurities onto everyone else. Go do something useful to improve your sex life if it pisses you off that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/15 06:20 PM
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Do you ever do anything other than feel sorry for yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/15 06:13 PM
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Rightly so it's good shit just like most of what Felix Dennis said.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/15 12:42 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pzDgaGTARqE
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/15 12:18 AM
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I dunno why people spend so much time trying to run from that fact. I find it so relaxing and freeing. I can essentially do whatever the fuck I like because I know it ultimately doesn't fucking matter anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/15 12:06 AM
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If it floats, flies, or fucks, it's cheaper to rent. Shame I hardly ever see this quote attributed to its author, Felix Dennis. He died last year sadly. He was an awesome guy, classic "rags to riches" story. Went from not being able to afford rent to being worth £500m by the time he died.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/15 12:02 AM
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I worked with a lot of old people. Most of them got married and had kids. Most of them were also still very much alone because their SO (and most of their friends and family, for that matter) died and their kids are busy living their lives. The old adage "we all die alone" is very much true. One of the old people I worked with even told me she often just wishes she was dead because she's so alone. She was married and had kids. The only way to avoid this shit is either be "lucky" enough to die ea…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 11:58 PM
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Within the next few months if things keep going at the current rate. It's pretty much the biggest controversial subreddit. Frankly I'm surprised it wasn't wiped out before FPH. But they have a backup forum thing like someone else said. A lot will probably also migrate to Voat.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 11:57 AM
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To me, humans seem to have a basic mechanism that is inherent to their biology that drives them to enforce moral policies. If this was true we would not need police and the only criminals would be genuine psychopaths. But that's not how the world works is it? Everyone has their own moral code and what is moral to someone else may not be moral to you. Yes this means ideologies including RP are not a universal path for everyone. I think it's ridiculous they try to claim otherwise. Personally speak…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 11:38 AM
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And that song was criticised by the MSM for it. As was pretty much anything Eminem has ever done for similar reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 12:10 AM
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If anything, she'd be less likely to sleep with him... Why'd you say that? MDMA creates more intense emotional connections even with strangers and it increases libido like all amphetamines. It would most certainly make her more likely to sleep with him. As with any "date rape drug" topic though I'd like to point out that the number one date rape drug is alcohol. In terms of shit that just knocks you out and fucks with your memory, I mean. Roofies were hardly ever used for this purpose and don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 12:09 AM
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Ohh cool. Female INTJs are rare as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 11:01 PM
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As an INTJ learning to program right now this gives me confidence. (yes I know MBTI is mostly BS anyway)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 10:50 PM
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I've been with plenty of girls who don't go out partying. I avoid the ones who do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 09:07 PM
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I know, and that's an improvement. But I still think the idea of private organisations doing investigations and acting like police is fundamentally fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 09:05 PM
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You're right it means nothing on its own. It has to be taken in context with other things too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 05:28 PM
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Honestly everything you're saying is alien to me and I see no evidence for it. Unless we're just talking about ONS, having sex only once you're in a relationship is far from "unicorn" - if anything it's just the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 04:43 PM
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But they can still hold "trials", label someone a rapist without having to prove anything beyond reasonable doubt, and kick someone out over it, yes? /u/caesarfecit mentioned lawsuits, and I'm not surprised. Labelling people rapists without proper due process to prove such a serious offence is just asking for libel lawsuits by the tonne.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 04:41 PM
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That's just fucking insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 04:38 PM
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Courts should be the only ones doing investigations in the first place. How is America allowing a private organisation to act like police? The very concept is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 02:21 PM
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Yep or dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 02:12 PM
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TV and movies tell you the same shit too and other kids have the same influences.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 02:11 PM
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Eh if I want a serious LTR I don't want a girl who gives it away too easily. I can respect that. I don't mean waiting for a year or some bullshit, but only having sex once you're in a relationship? That's a plus for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 02:11 PM
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Tabloids are still very good at taking shit out of context and spinning it. Look at how they made up the story about Blurred Lines being about rape simply because they took one line out of context. A whole song about how great men are would be a fucking goldmine for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 02:06 PM
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So that's why the head teacher had a swastika tattooed on his head? No but seriously of course not, that's just how the world works. When talking to kids especially, people will parrot the politically correct thing they know they're meant to say. It's only when you become an adult people begin speaking to you more frankly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 11:31 AM
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few guys will see sex early as a negative. If I wanted an actual relationship I would certainly see it as a negative, by TRP's own logic... because you don't want a slut as a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 11:28 AM
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There is a lot of negative stigma against nice guys, from feminists most of all. Yeah but this only really exists on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 10:58 AM
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And the other people around you are either kids who were given the same messages as you or adults who re-enforce them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 10:53 AM
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I got that advice. I turned out fine. So did I when I wised up at around 18. How many hobbies do / did you have? A few, but I was very focused on them. How many female friends did you have growing up? About half of my friends were female as a teenager. Can't really remember when I was younger than that. I've always been myself and if people don't like it, fuckem. Lol see this is the attitude I had a teenager and it's exactly what fucked me over.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 10:52 AM
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It's not just feminism, who doesn't like an obedient calm child? Why deal with a kid when you can just send him away and he'll come back to you cured, blonde and blue eyed? The weird Nazi reference aside, any actual good parent understands before they have kids that they won't be perfectly behaved and will require, you know, actual parenting. You seem to live in a world where literally all parents avoid parenting which isn't the world I've seen. We're raised to believe that everything we consume…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 10:43 AM
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Exactly. It just promotes the whole "one true soulmate" fallacy which is complete bollocks through and through.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 10:29 AM
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I think if such a song was released today it'd cause at least 100 angry Buzzfeed and Jezebel articles.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 10:26 AM
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Of course, but I mean if they're able to get it up they're obviously turned on to some degree and in any case don't exactly have very high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 10:35 PM
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Ah Concerta, I still got a big bottle of that. Couldn't stand the stuff. Comedown is horrible. Vyvanse is where it's at.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 10:32 PM
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do as I say, not as I do. Yeah this is common, but I mean while kids resent it they usually still accept it if only because they have no better source of information. They still look up to adults as authority figures. Now when they become teenagers they end up rebelling against this, but still they're pretty much clueless and don't have anywhere else to turn aside from the adults in their lives if they want someone more experienced than themselves to look up to. Perhaps the internet will change …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 10:29 PM
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Not to mention that girls who use tinder for hook ups (most are looking for relationships) Lol come on now. Tinder is a hookup app. Everyone knows Tinder is a hookup app. I'm sure some people use it to find relationships. But Tinder is still a hookup app.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 10:23 PM
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Well clearly your grandmother is a bitch, and I'm sorry you had to deal with her. Proves my point though, you're an outliner because of those rather extreme circumstances, most people (thankfully) don't grow up having to deal with abusive family members.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 10:10 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 10:08 PM
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Thought so.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 10:03 PM
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I see someone's watched The Matrix recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 10:01 PM
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A great part of masculinity is being attractive to women. Whether you like it or not it just is. It's hard to be attractive to women when you're growing up segregated from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 10:00 PM
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Oh wow, a report from 1991 showing a few organisations were engaging in fraud. Certainly this proves we're just pumping kids full of drugs because feminism ruined society. Totes. And why aren't you an anti-vaxxer? You're using the same logic as them if you're trying to discredit the validity of mental illness just because such a position happens to fit the conspiracy you hold as a worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 09:58 PM
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Depends if we're talking about casual sex or relationships, because if it's casual sex I've seen women I consider to be a 3 at best bang a lot of guys, and I once got shamed by my peers for refusing the advances of such a woman even though she pretty much attempted to sexually assault me because it's just expected men will take any opportunity to fuck anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 09:53 PM
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Except there is no pay off from banging girls instead of studying. There is however pay off from getting a good degree from a top university, and they've already worked hard just to get into the place. Makes no sense to waste that golden opportunity. After all they will have much better luck getting women out in the real world with a good job and shitloads of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 09:31 PM
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There's a barrage of pharmaceutical and psychological "correction" methods being used on boys just to get them to fit in our "feminized" society. You're not one of these people who think mental illness was invented in some conspiracy by pharmaceutical companies are you? If so, are you also an anti-vaxxer? Cuz you'd fit right in.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 09:25 PM
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I worked it out while I was still in the womb. Ha. No but seriously if you're actually telling the truth you're an outliner. Kids just believe whatever the fuck adults tell them until they become teenagers, and even then they're just kinda mindlessly rebelling against whatever they're told to by their peers and going all over the place with no real direction trying to make up an identity for themselves, and they usually lack the critical thinking skills to truly question something they've taken …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 09:23 PM
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The reply is usually "well, you must be retarded or autistic, because you took that advice literally and DID NOTHING ELSE other than "be nice and be yourself". Why didn't you "just figure out" that you needed to get in shape, dress well and self-improve? Why did you think all you had to do was "just be nice and just be yourself"? What are you, some kind of autistic retard?" What people who make this argument also fail to realise is this is the advice we're given from childhood, then through adol…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 08:54 PM
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I get that it's something that came from history, I'm just surprised gender segregated colleges still exist in the US in 2015, that's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 08:35 PM
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The Adderall market there must be insane tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 08:29 PM
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To be fair RP does encourage men to become successful in their other pursuits and allow the status they get from this success to attract women. Which is the opposite of putting pussy as your top priority in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 08:26 PM
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I think it's probably an unhealthy way to grow up and will impede on your relationships with the opposite sex in the future for both males and females. RP talks a lot about how single mothers can't raise sons properly because they don't know how to raise a man. This has some merit tbh. But along the same lines, never being exposed to women as you develop into an adult will also leave you with gaps in your knowledge which others who have grown up alongside girls will have. And yeah the same goes …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 08:18 PM
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America still lives in the past in regards to so many little things. Also TIL what "coed" means. I kept hearing that term in movies and TV, had no fucking clue what it meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 08:13 PM
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That's a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 06:53 PM
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Ah yes, segregation shall fix all our problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 06:34 PM
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I can guarantee it's the truth in 90% of cases. I knew multiple people who wanted to go to medical school, and they got in, because literally all they did was work work work. During breaks they revised. At home they did homework then more revision. They did little else other than work. At 18 they were still virgins. They weren't meek or shy or ugly, they could have met girls if they wanted, but it wasn't on their agenda. And yes at the risk of enforcing a stereotype they were indeed Asian...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 06:31 PM
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They're too busy working to waste their time chasing pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 05:51 PM
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Hey now I've seen Humans and when those robots develop full conciousness and start killing people I don't wanna be a target thank you very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 05:50 PM
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Songs about being single are very common across the board. Akon's song Lonely is the first thing that comes to mind. Was super popular. The "manic pixie dream girl" thing exists in a lot of songs men write about their romantic interest as well. Like every single Bruno Mars song. The "who runs the world" example is a very good one though. If someone made a song celebrating about how men rule the world it'd get blasted by the MSM.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 05:37 PM
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I think it only really works when it's natural. As in you actually make friends and let what happens happens with her rather than purposely becoming a friend just because you think it'll lead to a relationship in the future. So I mean it's no way to "approach" really, since it's very much down to chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 05:05 PM
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I put Taylor Swift lyrics on my internet history to help you, PPD. [Verse 1] You're on the phone with your girlfriend, she's upset She's going off about something that you said Cause she doesn't get your humor like I do I'm in the room, it's a typical Tuesday night I'm listening to the kind of music she doesn't like And she'll never know your story like I do [Pre-Chorus] But she wears short skirts, I wear T-shirts She's Cheer Captain and I'm on the bleachers Dreaming about the day when you wake …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 04:57 PM
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When it comes to humour I subscribe to the South Park idea of "either everything is okay or nothing is."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/15 07:06 PM
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You sound like Alex Jones mate. On some Infowars conspiracy shit. He literally said some of the exact same stuff you are almost word for word. He calls the economy a ponzi scheme and even rants about low reproduction/fertility rates the same as TRP. Shit I never realised how similar Infowars and TRP are...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/15 06:09 PM
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modern western culture promotes gross hedonism in that everyone should be able to do what they want and be whatever they want without any consequences. The direct outcome is a loss of disciple and fortitude necessary to maintain civil order and production. I see a lot of people going to work being productive even though in your private lives they have greater personal freedom. Seems pretty awesome to me. After all that freedom is what allows you lot at the TRP to have all those hedonistic one ni…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/15 05:48 PM
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The two options you've presented essentially equate to the same thing, i.e. you cannot stop people falling "to [sic] far behind" without limiting others from getting too far ahead. People should be left to their own devices as much as possible with as little state intervention as possible, that's my view.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/15 10:44 PM
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making the extra doctor visits during the pregnancy Because fathers never come with the mothers to ultrasound scans etc? dealing with recovery and potential postpartum depression. I dunno man there's still the actual looking after the kid and that is a very stressful task. I doubt I'd be able to do that shit every day without being medicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/15 07:59 PM
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This one is interesting too. When the authors want to include some BDSM into the plot, they might need to have some context and nuance to avoid having the audience mistake it for abuse. But what if there's no room for nuances, or they think Viewers Are Morons anyway? Simple! All Abusers Are Male, right? And BDSM is gender neutral, so the solution is simple: Make sure that it's never a woman being topped by a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/15 03:58 PM
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Cool. I thought that's what you were referring to but I just read it again and saw the third paragraph. I do disagree with the "what she's wearing" thing because stats show it doesn't really have much effect on the probability of getting raped iirc, however the feminist idea it's referring to is the whole "teach men not to rape" rhetoric which they're right to criticise because it's ridiculous on many levels. My three main issues with it are that rapists are a tiny percentage of all men and that…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/15 03:51 PM
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But the 4chan post uses an example where the woman and man are both drunk, but the man is the only one called a rapist. This raises a good point because if you're both drunk why should one party be labelled a victim of the other? That's just called being irresponsible, no one raped anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/15 03:33 PM
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The first two would make a good start.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/15 03:26 PM
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Do you think men enter high-earning careers and do more overtime because it's fun?! I would argue they want to have a career to feel they've achieved something and worked their own way through life. That and the fact if they were to choose the SAHD route they would get shamed for that so it ends up putting them off.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/15 11:35 AM
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My Dad stated last night that women are a liability to a business due to giving birth and child rearing, as such is the best position for a company to pay a woman a lower wage to cover the liability. Not really true anymore now that paternity leave is a thing that exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/15 11:33 AM
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t's not necessarily "am I as good as her ex", though it could be. It is often "did her ex get more than me"? Ah see now this makes more sense and that's one of the examples I mentioned previously where this thought process makes sense (although I think that was in reply to Atlas so you may not have seen it). The thing is though, if he's thinking that, it means there is stuff he wants to do which she doesn't. Else, again, he wouldn't concern himself with this in the first place. So the jealousy c…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/15 10:50 AM
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Sexual fantasy does not necessarily equal desire for the actual relationship dynamic. But that's only a challenge to your 50SOG example. Because that's a shitty example. I do however agree that most women desire a dominant man though. The right kind of dominant at least. The restrained successful businessman type. I don't buy into the idea most women go for thugs, I think they're a minority (although that minority definitely exists, of course).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/15 12:41 AM
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The accepted gender roles expected of boys are more constrained. Damn that's a good point, seems so obvious when you put it like that. The gender roles for men are if anything even more strictly enforced than the roles for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/15 12:37 AM
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The scenarios like this I have seen in life most often begin with her telling him about the relationship with Chad. What an asshole he was and how happy she is that she ended up with Greg. So most of the time guys, like Greg have a pretty good picture of the ex-relationship. See this makes no sense to me. When a girl tells me "yeah my ex was a shithead, I'm glad I'm with you instead" I just take that as a compliment and roll on. I don't understand the mindset where this would be perceived as a t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/15 12:33 AM
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"At that time, the journal did not practice academic peer review and it did not submit the article for outside expert review by a physicist." And yet it's "a leading North American journal of cultural studies – whose editorial collective includes such luminaries as Fredric Jameson and Andrew Ross" - they clearly don't set the bar too high for these things eh? personally, i prefer metastudies as they serve to weaken the limitations of any one study and find the overriding trend of them all. Metas…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/15 12:29 AM
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He wonders why Chad ditched her. If she is really a perfect gorgeous woman why did Chad leave her? The vast majority of relationships end in a breakup. Most of the time it is down to incompatibility. There is no rationality behind this concern. He also wonders if the compatibility in their relationship really is perfect. This is something else I can only see being a concern if he's already unhappy in the relationship for some other reason. If there were no issues in the relationship he would not…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 11:30 PM
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Yep. Releases both serotonin and dopamine. Lifting is basically MDMA.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 11:24 PM
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Absolutely. Unless some other issue is at play, like the examples I gave, I think that situation is alien to most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 11:24 PM
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you can interview a handful of people for a published magazine article, not so with a published research study. You really overestimate how rigorous the peer review process for social science studies are. I'm assuming you've already seen this. Why should I trust one of these studies over my life experiences? Unless it's hard science I'll trust what I see with my own eyes over some sociology student's survey. that's because neither of us has a large enough and diverse enough friend group to make …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 11:22 PM
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Already answered: restricting female sexuality will be an outcome, not a cause. But why? Explain your reasoning. This jump makes no sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 11:11 PM
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This is true to an extent, but it depends just how emotional you get and crucially how often you do it. If something is bothering you about the relationship, especially if it involves jealousy and a level of paranoia as OP's scenario does, I think the best option is to talk about it. Air out your issues and listen to her responses and if you don't trust those responses then well maybe you shouldn't be in a relationship. I'm not saying get upset and cry because yeah that will kill sexual attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 06:07 PM
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Exercise releases serotonin too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 06:01 PM
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Yo I'm a man. I don't fixate over my gf's ex-boyfriends. Admittedly I would be upset if the boyfriend did stuff with the girl that she won't let me do. Or if she was still friends with this guy. Of if she showed signs of still wanting to be with him instead of me. Or blah blah, basically something that gives me an actual reason to be jealous. But simply being jealous of a guy merely because he used to sleep with the girl I'm currently with? That's alien to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 05:59 PM
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Chad will continue to sleep around, use his time/energy/money not for relationships, but for his career and networking, becomes high-status and finds a perfect gorgeous and compatible (with him) woman he marries. Why isn't Greg thinking he's already at that final stage with his wonderful girlfriend? If he is jealous of someone purely because they're not committed, doesn't sound like he's happy with the relationship he's in and maybe he could consider why that is. Jealousy is usually a symptom of…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 05:56 PM
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Meh I think the future for the Western economy is in things like financial services. That's why Wall Street is such a big thing and why there were bailouts for it - there is an implicit understanding of how vital that type of industry is to the economy. Manufacturing will die out completely in a few decades when 3D printing is perfected anyway. Well, there'd be a limited number of factories to make the 3D printers in the first place, but that's about it. But hey maybe by that point all the jobs …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 05:44 PM
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Social sciences are barely more credible than any random article in the first place. That's kinda my point. You cannot reliably quantify, without bias, human sexuality. If I polled all my friends on their sexual activities, and you did the same to yours, we'd both get different results even if we went through all the peer reviewing in the world. i dispute the amount of people simply looking to hookup. I do think this differs depending on age group (as I already mentioned) along with what country…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 05:32 PM
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have you ever had a friend or relative get a certain car, and suddenly you start noticing that car more than you used to? Have you ever read an article confirming your point of view, then suddenly you start noticing everything confirms your point of view? http://www.latimes.com/science/sciencenow/la-sci-sn-millennials-sex-attitudes-20150508-story.html I see the answer to that is yes. See I can easily find another article saying the opposite. Look, just did. We could do this all day. Fact is ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 05:03 PM
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I don't look to articles for these things because as you pointed out they're biased one way or the other, and plus the data behind them is often just as biased or simply unreliable, especially when it is attempting to quantify human sexual relations. I just go by what I see man, life experience. For example when I was in uni accommodation there were around ten blocks and basically one bloke made it his mission to fuck at least one girl from every block. Which he did, and then some. I believe the…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 04:51 PM
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Hookup culture often does involve having sex with multiple at the same time. Polyamory is a relationship with multiple people. That's not the same as hooking up with multiple people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 04:40 PM
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so plating is normal in society? Urm, yes? Hookup culture is very much booming right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 04:12 PM
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However, what happens if your morality goes against the morality of a society? You get ostracized by this society "Think as you like, but behave like others" You pretend to disagree with dangerous ideas, but in the course of your disagreement you give those ideas expression and exposure. You seem to conform to the prevailing orthodoxy, but those who know will understand the irony involved. You are protected. There is no point in making a display of your dangerous ideas if they only bring you suf…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 09:53 AM
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Sounds like the same as the UK. You can charge people for "your time" but can't solicit sex, so escorts are legal under that loophole, and pimps are illegal but escort agencies are fine. Btw been interesting reading this AMA since two of my best friends are in a similar situation, a couple where the woman is in your line of work. I do get the sense that in their case the guy is not as comfortable with it as he makes out however, although the woman says as the as you in regards to sex with her bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 10:41 PM
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I should send these fuckers some etizolam.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 05:23 PM
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Your flair is very good too. I love your flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 12:02 PM
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Lol no. As others have said they're more quiet about their sexuality compared to men on average. But prudish they ain't. Most of the ones I've been with have rape fantasies for a start. And that really is just the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 08:58 PM
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You've worded my thoughts perfectly. Dread game is showing you can leave. Abuse is telling your SO they can't leave, usually with threats attached. They're whole worlds apart and those who try conflating the two are making a bit of a mockery of abuse victims quite frankly. It's like the woman who claimed to get PTSD from Twitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 08:50 PM
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Women are the fucking experts at manipulation. It just only becomes "abuse" when men learn how to do it. Seriously I've been "dread gamed" by most the women I've been with. That's fucking life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 08:44 PM
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Also very sensible and not at all equivalent to a wish to "destroy a women's life too."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 07:23 PM
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Instead of promoting the idea that companies should pay a man a full wage instead of half, they propose that men should also be allowed to stay at home like women. I've not seen this argued in MR, maybe I just haven't lurked it enough. But it seems like a silly premise to me because it's something that can already be done. Stay at home dads already exist. A movement doesn't need to fight for it. they want to give the man the ability to destroy a womens life too. Do they? Most of what I've seen f…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 11:27 AM
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So much FUD in this thread. No, civilisation won't burn to the ground. People will always have a desire to pair up. Less marriage likely means there will be more cohabitation. Nothing else will change. People will do the same shit they do now but without a contract. It is possible some governments will try and enforce more common law marriage BS, but I would hope they keep their unwanted beaks out of people's relationships. If not I'm sure many lawyers will make a nice profit from helping people…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 09:27 AM
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Uncircumcised because... I'm not a Muslim I guess? Yes I'm happy it wasn't done. I don't think anyone should be genitally mutilated without consent which they obviously can't give when it's done to kids most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 07:07 AM
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This "all men have virtually no standards" myth RP loves to repeat is just ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 07:02 AM
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The TiA copypasta is just mocking the stupid Tumblr identities. You got people on there "identifying" as cats and solar systems and shit. Frankly I think that is a way bigger mockery of transgender people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 10:35 PM
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I'm lucky common law marriage doesn't exist where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 09:06 PM
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Guy needs fucking therapy and medication. Feel sorry for people who have obvious legit mental health issues but try to solve them through scapegoats fed to them by internet boards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 04:16 PM
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Its like the KKK setting up a forum for the 'black lives matter' campaign. Haha perfect analogy for whenever feminists say they care about men's issues too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 04:07 PM
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Male, purple. How attracted they are to me. If your partner is more into you than you are to them you have more power. But it should still be relatively equal, cuz I mean there's no point me being in a relationship if I'm not attracted to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 04:05 PM
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Yeah so they still like marriage, and I've seen many discussions about how to make a modern marriage most like an old fashioned one as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 03:52 PM
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Those laws only apply if you present yourself to the community as married and pass a few other conditions too. So really just don't use the words "husband" and "wife" to refer to each other and that's enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 03:46 PM
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The tradcons love marriage. They may complain about the current divorce laws but they still love marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 03:29 PM
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http://i.imgur.com/o6snO1v.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 10:35 AM
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It depends on if she's making an actual effort to get treatment or not in that case really.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 10:19 AM
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Nah that's right but what the person you're replying to is saying is if it the woman was earning $5k a month and the man is not working then the man would be entitled to a similar alimony. The problem you get is men refusing to request it or outright turning it down out of shame which is their own decision. The system would still allow the man to pursue alimony if the wife earned all the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 11:15 PM
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Not OP but yes, especially if it's an LTR. I would want to help her with her problems not bail out and leave her to suffer. Why would I be in a relationship with her for the long term then suddenly leave her when she needs me most?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 10:40 PM
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Woah, the top post on that sub is really good.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 10:21 PM
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Probably the first one. We were both virgins and we tried to do BDSM stuff right away. I was trying to run before I could walk. Safe to say I was shit at it. Way better now I have more practice under my belt though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 09:32 PM
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This is why you ultimately want to work for yourself. "What am I gonna run around like some teeny bopper somewhere for someone elses money? I make the money man, I roll the nickels. The game is mine. I deal the cards."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 07:38 PM
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Good for you. RP just don't like seeing women that don't match their preconceptions so pay him no mind. You have strong morals and a good attitude. Way too many people (regardless of gender) take the opportunity to freeload whenever they can. Working for your own life is very admirable especially when you could easily get away with not bothering.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 07:36 PM
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It sounds like you're just getting anxious about the possibility of such a major change in your life and relationship. Which is perfectly normal but shouldn't dissuade you if you really do love your boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 07:32 PM
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Why can't you have kids and stay together without signing a contract for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 07:24 PM
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Agreed, I think they'd have a lot more credibility if they didn't do this. "I tried this and it worked for me, maybe you should try it if you're in a similar situation" is a lot more reasonable than "I have discovered the secret truth that society has been hiding from you and everything I'm telling you is scientific fact."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 02:59 PM
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I get that. When I was at uni I hated living with other people. But having roommates and living with someone you love are completely different dynamics and situations. And if your boyfriend loves you he should understand when you need your space sometimes, it's not like introversion is some kind of rare disease, it's a common character trait which I'm assuming he already knows you have. Also keep in mind when you move in with roommates in college you are basically living with strangers. I may ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 02:52 PM
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Society thinks it's weird when men don't get married as well. And they try to shame him into doing to, saying things like "man up and commit." There are negative connotations for women as well, the whole spinster and crazy cat lady shit, but it does go both ways. Society shames anyone who does not conform to its norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 02:46 PM
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Did we just amicably settle a disagreement on the internet? Woah.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 02:32 PM
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That's cool as well, I just assumed you'd wanna do that since you mentioned having an LTR, but if your boyfriend is cool not living together then that's all good. You're both happy that's what matters. My whole point is you choose if you want to be in a relationship or not, you and your partner choose how the relationship works instead of going by what's just expected of you (e.g. marriage, kids), and no matter what you do you don't need the state to enforce it. You might also be interested in /…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 02:30 PM
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I didn't say it was a universal message. I am talking about what individual members are saying. Your claim was that no one on RP was making arguments for why you should get married. I am saying I disagree, I think plenty of the tradcons on RP would and do make arguments for why they think you should get married. I did not claim this was some kind of universal moral content of RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 02:05 PM
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TRP is very split on this with many tradcons on there preaching the supposed benefits of marriage, which is funny with many others in RP just wanting to fuck around as much as possible. But yes your message is sound, don't get married if you don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 01:55 PM
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I don't see the point of marriage for anyone, male or female. If you want a serious relationship you don't need a piece of paper. Live in the same house and have a life together. If you want kids have kids, if you don't want kids then don't have kids. Both genders have a lot of freedom in this respect now compared to even just a few decades ago. No one needs marriage to do this shit anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 01:53 PM
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I agree man. Especially for a group of guys claiming to have such strong frame. If you're that confident in yourself you should be able to joke around and laugh at yourself now and then, shit's healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 12:55 PM
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But come on you know the difference between an OK looking girl and a stunner/model. Ofc but there is still a lot of subjectivity here. The best example is the RP hate for girls with tattoos, piercings, body mods in general, while a lot of guys (me included) love that shit. I wanna fuck a Suicide Girl some day. So I could see a scene girl type and say she's 9/10, a friend could see the same girl and rank her 5/10 because he hates body mods. It's all subjective. Also I don't tend to find models to…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 12:44 AM
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That flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 12:17 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2p69oo/do_you_guys_want_daughters_how_would_you_raise_a/ You cherrypicked the worst comments from this. The top comments from that post are a lot more reasonable. The ones you quoted don't seem to represent the majority view on RP so I don't think it's fair to present them as such. Still makes me sad to see those attitudes exist regardless, though. If those people ever actually breed they will create a lot more subscribers to /r/raisedbynarcissists.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 12:15 AM
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Oh cool, your tone came off as judging but hard to properly convey tone online. I agree with ya tbh. I hope I don't live long enough to see all my friends and family die anyway but if I do I'll just take lots of drugs until I OD. But others will value life more than me. Not something I can relate to but I understand the angle.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 12:03 AM
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Male, purple. Two women have hit on me for casual sex and I turned them both down cuz I wasn't really into them and one of them was drunk. Honestly despite what RP says about men I would rather have a wank than fuck a woman I don't actually find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 11:20 PM
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You can't have low self-esteem if you're on coke.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 11:12 PM
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Nothing wrong with that, we're literally talking about what she prefers in her own life. And I have worked with old people who are alone and they are depressed as fuck and wish they were dead. And most of them have children too so don't think having kids means you won't die alone either. Very common mistake. Just imagine though being old, not being able to move around a lot, your mental capacity ain't what it used to be, and you're just sitting there all alone with nothing to do on top of all th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 11:03 PM
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Monitors where you go, who you call, and who you spend time with. Sounds like Windows 10 lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 10:50 PM
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Title is not neutral so this thread should be deleted. Also learn to grammar.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 10:30 PM
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It's your choice if you give into shame or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 01:10 PM
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Used to say 5/10 but actually I've lost a shitload of weight and been lifting for the past few months so I'd say 6/10 now and I might have a cool new job soon so if that happens it'd be 7/10 cuz I'd be ballin'.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 11:06 AM
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"I've got a 4 year old daughter and the stupid female shit tests start as SOON as they can talk, believe me. AWALT" Google search for this phrase shows nothing. Can you link?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 10:00 AM
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Autism in females is a pretty interesting topic actually because it's rare as shit and if the extreme male brain theory of autism is true (and there's research backing it) then certainly it would act as a large barrier for a woman to act in a feminine manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 09:57 AM
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I had classes in secondary school which taught about relationships etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 12:21 AM
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Boasting doesn't necessarily mean fake by default. I could boast about how many benzos I have but that's true. I have shitloads of benzos man. That said the FRs definitely warrant a healthy level of scepticism. Most are pretty clearly exaggerated.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/15 11:49 PM
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I'm just surprised he's not called you autistic yet...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/15 11:37 PM
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Marriage literally serves no purpose. You get a few legal perks but that's it. There's no overwhelming reason to get married. Cohabitation is the future imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/15 11:01 PM
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Do you honestly see no problem with that? Nope, not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/15 11:06 AM
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Cuz they're virgins who think white knighting for women on the internet might one day get them pussy. Spoiler alert: it won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/15 11:01 AM
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Can you link this study? Not even sceptical I'd just like to read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/15 10:56 AM
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OP didn't ask if it mattered, OP asked what the actual consequences are. So /u/HamTaroAdun is right, there really aren't any because it's a very easy thing to lie about in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/15 10:20 AM
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Certainly gets her juices running when I spank her I can tell you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 11:49 PM
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Plenty of women are NEETs too they just expect their bf to support them while the male NEETs expect the support to come from their parents. Same shit different toilet.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 11:29 PM
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Haha good point it's like a containment unit for SJWs.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 11:21 PM
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I think it is manipulative, and if done wrong it can have the opposite to the intended effect and damage a relationship, but it's not something I'd call abusive. It's also something girls do all the bloody time anyway. But the BP view is dread game is always psychological abuse purely because it's manipulation. Which personally I think is a misunderstanding of what manipulation is, because I don't believe it's inherently bad, it's about how it's used and the context like you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 05:48 PM
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That about answers OP's question for me. Body is way more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 05:28 PM
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Only 1/5 of men are married by age 24. One may extrapolate from this that MGTOW mentality is up and coming these days. How the data is interpreted is basically just guesswork.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 05:15 PM
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That doesn't display merit, it just shows the cancer is currently contained. Which is still a good thing of course. But women's studies is still a course that has no merit. If you want to learn about these kind of things sociology already exists - still a soft science, but at least it, in theory, should not contain inherent biases. But women's studies is just sociology with a feminist bias. It has no value but to serve as an expensive hugbox.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 05:04 PM
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Am I the only one who finds it funny there is a thread on the front page of PPD saying it's taken over by RP, and yet apparently making fun of womyn's studies is enough to get blindly downvoted without any actual debate? Not even complaining about the downvotes, it's the downvotes not being accompanied by debate even on a debate sub, and a debate sub supposedly over-run with red pillers at that. Then again trying to argue women's studies has any actual merit beyond being a cash cow for unis woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 04:50 PM
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So yes in numeric terms even in the larger dots, there is still a single man for most single women or vice-versa. Exactly. For the vast majority this is the case because the population gender split is virtually 50/50 and most people ultimately end up in relationships before they hit their 40's. so really in red pill terms I think what the map is showing is that younger guys are, on the margin, being out-competed by older more established guys. How did you work this one out?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 03:31 PM
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That's some pretty interesting data. Anyone still single by the time they're 40-50 probably has some kind of issues to be honest, and we know most people pair up way before then, so you are looking at a minority situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 02:01 PM
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Easy to order online though. Also it's completely legal to import uncontrolled POM for personal use. Source: British drug user.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 01:53 PM
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Muscles is an american thing. Lol. The mental gymnastics here are almost impressive. You've really gone above and beyond to make up excuses for why you shouldn't bother trying to improve yourself. Bravo.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 01:45 PM
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Bloody hell. The cancer, it spreads fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 01:34 PM
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Women are 51% of the population. There higher ratio of women isn't significant enough for any of this to be relevant today.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 01:33 PM
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I'm in the UK too, I looked on the UCAS site a while back for women's studies and gender studies and nothing popped up. Looks like our polytechnics unis are starting to catch on to the latest wave of bullshit too now, damn. Guess you'll be able to do gender studies alongside textiles and design for GCSE soon too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 01:25 PM
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God knows what goes on in the US universities Anything that makes them money. It's crazy. There's no such thing as "women's studies" in any other country. Why? Because it's a useless subject that teaches you nothing and has no practical application. But makes American unis money so they invented it to market to the Tumblr crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 12:54 PM
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'problematic?' Really? Well yeah this is women's studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 12:53 PM
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Mattress Girl wins for "easiest and most ridiculous way to pass a degree" for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 12:48 PM
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Seems to me that it swings either way depending on what thread you're in.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 10:05 AM
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Benzos have very bad withdrawals so you should keep to low doses and try not to use them daily. They will work very well for anxiety on their own. Just keep the dependence risk in mind and use them carefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/15 06:22 PM
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