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| 6 | How to handle loss of motivation to pursue women?If you're not motivated to pursue women, go do something you are motivated to do. You don't have to pursue women for us | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/20 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Lay Report - Flaky Colombian party girlI'm the first commenter, hope OP didn't delete his post because of the comments, because I think discussion is good. If your goal is to get laid with multiple women (OP comes across like that's his goal) there is a lot wrong with this strategy (or maybe not wrong, but it's not very efficient). And 2 chicks a year if you would switch to my strategy is a very low estimate if you play this game right. My dating app stats this covid year were something like 1 match a day on average (in total, I used… | /r/seduction | 26/12/20 10:06 PM |
| 3 | Lay Report - Flaky Colombian party girlYou've spent way too much time and energy on this chick. The most terrible part of the story is that you needed to get a whole group of girls drunk and needed to have an emergency meeting with your 'wings' (not even real friends, just extra stepping stones you need in this extremely long process) to make a plan. And all this effort (months of texting and 'memes', be available at times she flaked you again and again, invite a bunch of strangers in your house, get them drunk, all this for an ONS).… | /r/seduction | 26/12/20 10:05 AM |
| 8 | The modern dating paradox after discovery of TRPStop worrying about other guys she might have fucked on the first date. If you plate a girl for a while she'll subconsciously give you all the information you need to decipher her sexual history. With this info (and other factors ofcourse) you can decide if you want this girl to be more than a plate | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/20 10:19 AM |
| 0 | American MasculinityWhat if I told you you can be as masculine as you want, and teach your son to be masculine while rainbowpeople live the lives they want too. Sometimes I feel like the weird guy in TRP for saying everyone should be able to fuck and marry who they want | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/20 10:57 PM |
| 1 | American MasculinityI'm watching a bit of his 21 conv speech (looks like that's the one) but can't imagine him saying that (don't feel like watching the whole thing to find out). Is this a real quote by him? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/20 10:53 PM |
| 5 | 50/50 or 100% for hotel (100% DTF)Hard to answer without knowing how expensive the room is and how much your spending money is, but if you want to fuck this girl I'd just the pay the hotel room, not go for a split. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/20 02:44 PM |
| 3 | Better job offer, but all of a sudden I’m doubting my abilities.Go for the new job, and read about 'impostor syndrome', you might be experiencing it | /r/askTRP | 14/09/20 11:01 AM |
| 1 | How often or even should I communicate with this girl until December?Just text her around once every 3 weeks, won't take a lot of time and you might get a 2nd date out of it | /r/askTRP | 13/09/20 02:47 PM |
| 5 | Brother's SMV and profile improvement suggestion?Other people will see it as a misogynic community, trust me :p And yes, if you indeed are a pro football player it will harm you if your employer reads about how you're 'using people' and your drug use. Im just trying to help. On topic: you and your brother are both way more attractive than 99.99% of guys on this subreddit so don't be insecure about your Instagram game and just do with girls (and life in general) what you want | /r/askTRP | 13/09/20 02:19 PM |
| 8 | Brother's SMV and profile improvement suggestion?So you deleted the post with your profile (after I adviced you to do so) but now you share your brothers account here, while still showing with the unmasked Greek letters you guys are Greek? Either you're someone else sharing the ig pages of these two dudes or you are really naive. If the latter is true: don't worry about the smv of you and your brother, go forth and slay, but please get smarter about digital privacy and don't get shamed publicly for being red pilled | /r/askTRP | 13/09/20 01:50 PM |
| 4 | Sex with a girl on the pill?You'll thank yourself for not having a plumber over to dig all your condoms from the drain while both of you are standing in knee high shitwater | /r/askTRP | 13/09/20 10:56 AM |
| 1 | Suggestions to improve my overall SMV and social media game? (pictures)Just saw your name is even on the screenshot you shared. Trust me, this is not smart | /r/askTRP | 13/09/20 10:38 AM |
| 1 | Suggestions to improve my overall SMV and social media game? (pictures)If I were you I'd start worrying more about getting doxed. Anyone who reads this could use the information 'pro football player who lives on Greek island' and find your name and contact your employer that you're active on a 'misogynic' forum about fucking girls and you could end up in some deep shit. The Internet is a pretty rough place, stay safe man | /r/askTRP | 13/09/20 10:29 AM |
| 11 | Tinder date walked out on me, whole conversation prior was that she was just looking to make new friends. was this my fault or what? [Pictures of messages included. Full details in text]Don't try to use the friendzone as a springboard. If you're romantically/sexually interested in a girl and she says she's just looking for friends, say: I'm not looking for friends, I'm looking for a date. If she's okay with going on a date, cool. If she doesn't want a date, cut off the communication and continue looking for a date. You did not have a date with this girl, so don't call it a tinderdate | /r/askTRP | 12/09/20 11:13 AM |
| 1 | Am I being played by my colleague?You handled the situation perfectly. Seems like she's going through a hoeing it up phase, which is nice. Don't chase her, it will scare her off. Eventually you'll have sex with her. Make sure you've got screenshot of texts in case things go sideways in the HR area | /r/askTRP | 11/09/20 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Despite reading the sidebar and TRP, do you ever catch yourself slipping?Mostly Tinder and Happn (and some from daygame/social circle). I've come up with a very good textgame 'script', of which I just copy paste the messages, with some minor editing. I target girls that study from abroad that come to study in the city where I live. If you have about 3 fresh dates a month (out of maybe 50 matches on both apps combined) and only 20% flakes because of solid textgame and you make 90% a first date lay because of good kino and statement of intent you get this numbers. u/No… | /r/askTRP | 29/08/20 12:59 PM |
| 18 | Despite reading the sidebar and TRP, do you ever catch yourself slipping?Sure, laid about 50 girls in the last two years, of which I 'plated' 8? Oneitis still occurs sometimes, and feeling bad when being ditched by a 'special' girl. Remembering the theory + experience makes it last only one or two days though, after that I'm myself again | /r/askTRP | 27/08/20 05:00 PM |
| 6 | Plate considering onlyfansI would keep her as a plate, do the 'manager' things, but make sure it can't be traced back to you (don't let your social media accounts be linked to any of it). You're basically a pimp now, but the whoring is only digital, congrats. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/20 01:48 PM |
| 5 | any way to use my big penis size to get laid more?Women talk with each other about the sex they had with a guy, and if he has a nice dick. So just have sex with one girl of a group and the rest of the group will know, and they will start making jokes about it with you, and that will be the beginning | /r/askTRP | 26/08/20 09:44 AM |
| 1 | Matched with girl I’m talking to’s roommate. Best course of action?There are two possible worlds. World 1: you want to be monogamous with this girl, therefore you are not on a dating app. World 2: you are on a dating app, you might be recognized on this app by girls she knows, and if they do they will tell her. This is not a problem though, because you're not thinking about being monogamous with the girl. By calling her you now tried to create a 3rd World: one in which you want to be monogamous with this girl but you were on a dating app, this world doesn't mak… | /r/askTRP | 21/08/20 03:11 PM |
| 4 | Do women care if you suck at sports?Ofcourse the better you are at the thing you and others are doing in any given context the better it would be for your SMV. Just keep improving though, practice extra in your spare time and you'll become a better player and you'll start rising in this hierarchy. You calling football soccer makes me think you're from the US/Canada. Good luck from a country where kids play football from the moment they can walk, I'm rooting for you man :) | /r/askTRP | 17/08/20 10:06 AM |
| 3 | Redpillers with only fans, Is only fans worth it if you have a big dick?Do you honestly think girls are going to pay for only fans? Sure, go ahead. Wouldn't leave your job yet though, see how it pans out first : p | /r/askTRP | 17/08/20 09:29 AM |
| 1 | Best way to ask a girl to come over (haven't met yet'Hi [Name], I propose you and I hang out sometime. What does your schedule for this week look like?' 'Hi [Name], let's hangout sometime this week. Tell me which works better for you: Tuesday or Thursday night' Propose/suggest is more leading than asking, but not as hardcore as 'commanding'. Commanding will be a bit too hardcore I think, might scare her away (but you gave us very little background info to work with). Good luck man :) | /r/askTRP | 17/08/20 09:01 AM |
| 2 | The good-ole blue pill days. What iconic blue pilled moment in your life makes you thankful for how you’ve turned out today?Was at a party. There was a really hot girl at the party. I asked whether she wanted to go home with me when the party was over at 3 in the night. She said 'yes, I'm pretty hungry by the way'. When we were at my place I made her a sandwich and we talked a bit. After a while she went home. Felt pretty good that she went with me to my place. Never dated her again. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/20 08:03 AM |
| 1 | How to escalate with girl on my hostel who I was making out with last night?Texting 'hey T, come meet me by the showers' and expecting it to work is very ambitious. I would try to isolate her at a bar outside the hostel and find a more comfortable spot. Some burned koala's grave perhaps. 'Hi T, I propose you and I meet up for a drink at XYZ tonight' | /r/askTRP | 17/08/20 07:53 AM |
| 2 | Catfish ruined my energyA couple years back I set up a date with a 23 yo cute girl with a great looking body I matched with on Tinder. I would pick her up from the trainstation and we'd go to my place to have a wine and chill. When she got out of the train I recognized her face but she was really fat in person. Asked her how recent her pictures were and she said something like 'fairly recent'. I told her her body did not look anything like on the pictures, she started crying, people were looking at us, it was really aw… | /r/askTRP | 16/08/20 08:33 PM |
| 2 | She wants to "meet first"This makes perfect sense IMO, she wants to make sure you're not a creep and/or catfish and it's Anti Slut Defense. Text her 'sure, let's meet up at this nice bar close to my place at 8 to get to know each other a bit'. When at the bar kino it up, move in for a kiss if you feel it's going to land (after 30 min-1 hour?). Propose to have another drink at your place (or show her something you told about during the drink 'I have this photobook/piece of art/thing at my place' (I would advice against '… | /r/askTRP | 14/08/20 02:15 PM |
| 0 | How to approach fucking a girl in a relationship?If you don't know the guy (or know the guy and you don't like him): just do it. Once a guy came to my place with an axe but I de escalated that and had a beer with him and all was fine | /r/askTRP | 14/08/20 07:30 AM |
| 3 | First date escalated but didn't get the pull. What can I do better?Sounds like you did pretty good. When saying bye I would've kissed her again instead of a hug. You can't expect every girl to come home with you after date 1, and if you're honest she's probably more attractive to you now that you didn't bang her on date 1. For date 2 you can meet around 17:00 or something close to your place (you already did groceries earlier), go for a drink, when you guys get hungry invite her over to cook dinner at your place together. If she declines again: eat all the food… | /r/askTRP | 14/08/20 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Having erection issues at 22 years old.I was a couple years older but yes, I masturbated almost every day and bumped into that problem. Now when I'm with a girl my erection works 99% of the time | /r/askTRP | 14/08/20 06:37 AM |
| 6 | Girl only wants ONSI recently had a first tinderdate, found out she would only be in my country for 5 more weeks because she would return home, had two drinks, proposed to have another drink at my place. Made her orgasm within 10 min of entering my place. Afterwards she said the next day she would be going to the beach to which I said 'cool, looking forward to your bikini pictures' or something like that. She said there wouldn't be further contact since this was a one time thing. I said that's okay, then sent her … | /r/askTRP | 12/08/20 02:14 PM |
| 2 | is this common? (daygame)Don't switch a strategy that has worked for you in the past because of one chick that ghosts you. If you want to experiment with a new approach that should be a rational decision, not something triggered in panic by an incident. I don't approach aggressively either, but on a normal working day with commute in public transport + going for groceries I 'approach'/interact with about 2 - 3 girls? And yes, things like this happen. Just keep going :) | /r/askTRP | 11/08/20 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Dipping your pen into the company ink?This sounds really douchey but it's true: it's more important that there's 0% doubt about consent. Also: don't do it with someone you work with everyday, like someone on your team. Also: agree that you won't tell anyone at work or make jokes about it, no one can know. Also: gather some evidence (sexual texts by here, nudes) that can be useful in case things do get sideways. Black or white answer: don't do it | /r/askTRP | 11/08/20 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Having erection issues at 22 years old.I haven't fapped in more than 2 years and I can tell you this is probably what's causing your problem. You'll probably see the difference already after quitting for 30 days or something like that, stay on it though. It's better, trust me | /r/askTRP | 11/08/20 05:29 PM |
| 6 | Should I go monk mode?Have you started watching more porn and increased your fapping recently? That's what I did when my LTR ended and I had the same experience as you with the first two girls after that. Going NoFap solved it | /r/askTRP | 11/08/20 12:52 PM |
| 6 | All the men around me seem to be settling down or going MGTOW, but I can't stop thinking about fucking hoes. Is this a sign of immaturity?I'm the same, without the LTR. I'm 29 and just love the thrill of the hunt. I think it would be nice to settle down with a nice girlfriend. If you got one I'd advice against giving her up for 'fucking hoes', because that never ends and is really shallow imo (+45 notches in last 2 years) | /r/askTRP | 03/08/20 07:49 PM |
| 1 | How did you get majority of your lays?The boost while driving is very smart, but doesn't the app advice you to actively swipe during your boost? | /r/askTRP | 31/07/20 07:47 PM |
| 1 | How did you get majority of your lays?What does tinder gold bring you? I've had tinder plus for 6 months, I think I got exactly 1 extra lay in these 6 months from one of the extra superlikes, the boosts never did anything for me. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/20 11:49 AM |
| 5 | Plate dates?Introduce the idea, not drop the let's bounce to my place all of a sudden. Last night I had a tinderdate, we met at a bar. When sitting there, she asked why I picked this bar, I said it's one of my favourites, and I live 3 minutes walking away (seed 1). After a while we had a discussion who would be the best cook of the two of us, in which I said we should do a cooking duel once, and I said I have a very modern and cool kitchen (seed 2). Then after two beers at the bar I proposed to have another… | /r/askTRP | 31/07/20 09:35 AM |
| 1 | How did you get majority of your lays?Tinder: 52 Social circle: 8 Festival/'nightgame': 2 Daygame: 0 | /r/askTRP | 31/07/20 09:17 AM |
| 3 | Did I handle this situation correctly? PLATE BROKENA wise man once said 'all girls have mental issues', not a reason to not have a girl as a plate or gf imo | /r/askTRP | 30/07/20 04:12 PM |
| 8 | Did I handle this situation correctly? PLATE BROKENLeft on read, you didn't want to double message because you hardcore followed trp theory. She prob acted weird as well and this combo lead to you missing her birthday party. IMO the play would've been to call her and check the time and place of the birthday party. Did you act correctly: no, but it's normal that you think of shit tests and things like that too binary in the beginning. Is it salvageable? Maybe, just call her, ask her if she wants to go for drinks with you, make it a date night, th… | /r/askTRP | 30/07/20 04:10 PM |
| 2 | Stuck in an endless cycle of dead end jobs (due to my own stupidity) and I fucking hate it. I don't want to just survive anymore, I want to start living. Looking for advice.'some dude jumps out and smacks you in the back of the head with a baseball bat' -> that dude would've been you. Subscribe to uni, pick a study that you actually like and get that degree. We're rooting for you man! | /r/askTRP | 29/07/20 08:49 AM |
| 2 | If you are great at sex, are plates less likely to break?Of course this matters. Being able to make girls squirt for example, especially if they have not experienced it before, is going to help with retention a lot. Don't talk about the fact you think you're good at sex though, that's just weird imo | /r/askTRP | 28/07/20 10:06 AM |
| 1 | Sending first dates back to their homes after sexDepends on the time as well. I live right next to a trainstation, so if they can still catch a train and I want to sleep alone I'll suggest she catches a train and walk her to the station. 3AM is superlate though, it's literally in the middle of the night, I think it's pretty weird to kick her out at that time. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/20 09:52 AM |
| 2 | Woman says she has a boyfriend but then proceeds to give me her number. What to do next."I told her I would be out of state for 1 week and that I would text her when Im back. In the evening I text her something like “Hey, this is my num. text you when im back.” To which she never replied." Just text her when you're back, like you said you would do. Text her something that will make her curious. 'Back from the weirdest out of state trip in a while. I propose you and I meet up for drinks this week' | /r/askTRP | 27/07/20 03:34 PM |
| 2 | Getting Unmatched on TinderTalking is also something you learn by doing it, with friends, by talking to people you don't know yet at parties, by making conversation with random people (male/female) in waiting rooms/public transport, in queues. During dates you can ask her (let her do most of the talking) about: do you have brothers or sisters, what fun travel stories do you have, what characteristics are you proud about, what kind of books/movies/series/music do you like? About being obese: work everyday on getting in bet… | /r/askTRP | 27/07/20 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Getting Unmatched on TinderType what you want to reply in your notes first. Check whether if the way your message is phrased strikes the right tone. Improve it if need be. Maybe even close the app and come back a while later to see it with new eyes. When texting/chatting, the benefit is you can take a lot of time to perfect a message, use that benefit. And as with everything: practice makes perfect, learn from your mistakes like OP. In case you need advice on texting, going from match to date through text/call, send me a … | /r/askTRP | 27/07/20 02:55 PM |
| 4 | Getting Unmatched on TinderPro tip: when thinking about how to respond, I type it in my notes first. Think a bit about what you're going to send, in what ways can it be interpreted? If you're sure it's what you want to send, copy and paste it in the app and send it. Textgame is an art. Keep typing and sending what's on top of your mind for the chats with your friends | /r/askTRP | 27/07/20 02:50 PM |
| 6 | Getting Unmatched on TinderThis is exactly where all 'red pill' hardliners go wrong. What you did may be 'holding frame' but you never met this girl before, so there is not enough comfort yet to do what you did. She probably talked to a friend about her plans, friend warned her not to meet up with a guy she doesn't know at home as a first date (makes sense imo, as a girl you only have to bump into a fucked up individual once and you get raped in your own place). Perfect mix of giving her the comfort she needed and not thr… | /r/askTRP | 27/07/20 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Trying to figure out what to do about a date tomorrow? How should I proceed?I would invite her over and just have fun, don't overthink it. If she asks why are we not going to the beach tell her your mom needed your car for the church camping trip, I actually think it's kinda cool. If she insists on the beach, just reschedule to a moment where you have your car again. Good luck, let me know how it went :) | /r/askTRP | 26/07/20 12:13 PM |
| 1 | Since TRP is getting banned tomorrow, is there a complete guide and compilation of posts in a pdf that I can download?I missed this. Googling for it didn't result in any extra info. Why do you think TRP will be banned tomorrow? | /r/askTRP | 29/06/20 08:22 AM |
| 1 | My biggest issue in life is procrastination how can i break free from bad habits?Baby steps. Want to wash all the stuff in your sink? Wash all the plates, it's 2 minutes work. Then decide what you want to do afterwards. Have to write a report for work/study. Write 10 sentences. Then decide what you want to do afterwards. Want to get more fit? Put on your running shoes, or the best shoes you have for running if you don't have running shoes, and go for a 1 mile run. Then decide what you want to do tomorrow. Start with step 1, or maybe even step 0.1, but just start. And be prou… | /r/askTRP | 28/06/20 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Who pays / ventingPaying or splitting on the first date is an extremely interesting topic in my opinion. You're on a first date, so you know her from a dating app, social circle or cold approach. Whether I'm okay with paying the bill depends a lot on how the date went. My first date game is already pretty sexual: kino, lots of eye contact, jokes and banter implying we're going to have sex. If she goes along with this and we're having fun I'm fine with paying. I'm 29 and I have a pretty decent job, the girls I dat… | /r/askTRP | 27/06/20 10:47 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on NoFap?My problem was that I did not get back to work (workout, work on getting my sexual situation as I wanted it to be, eat healthy) after rubbing one out, I became lazy and fapped almost every day to porn (something I don't even really like). Breaking the cycle (and actually breaking down into tears after my first week of NoFap) is what got me back to work. I agree that's also unhealthy to obsess over not fapping, but if you're addicted that's a phase you'll have to go through (probably will take 1 … | /r/askTRP | 26/06/20 01:57 PM |
| 12 | What are your thoughts on NoFap?Next week will mark 2 years of NoFap for me. My advice would be to do the 90 days challenge (no porn, no fapping) and see how you feel afterwards. It helped me a lot and after my 90 days I just didn't feel like fapping again (that I'll never fap again is something we'll have to see, but for the next couple of years I'll think I'll stay on this path). Found theredpill through the NoFap subreddit. Learned about Game through theredpill. Found the motivation to start working out with the energy I ha… | /r/askTRP | 26/06/20 10:03 AM |
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