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| 3 | For women, how and when did you start to avoid men? | Question For Women | Alt_Er_Midlertidig | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 12:39 PM |
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| 0 | How much SEXUAL attractiveness does losing weight and putting on muscle add to a guys SEXUAL appeal?I didn't had those even when I was fat. Don't be coy, fat people have fat necks and fat faces. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 01:15 PM |
| 0 | How much SEXUAL attractiveness does losing weight and putting on muscle add to a guys SEXUAL appeal?Because you didn't have chipmunk cheeks and a double chin. Face matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 01:04 PM |
| 2 | How much SEXUAL attractiveness does losing weight and putting on muscle add to a guys SEXUAL appeal?None if his face is ugly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 01:03 PM |
| 1 | FDS are "pick me" womenWanna agree to switch then? You do all the work and earn all the money, I’ll sit around at home and play video games, workout and cook/clean the house. No, because I don't trust you to actually clean or cook. You won't dust the banisters, you won't keep check of my doctors appointments, you won't buy my and your family gifts and wrap them, you won't have sex you can't cum from purely for my benefit. You won't stay on top of our social schedule and make sure MY colleagues can drop by at a moments… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 12:49 PM |
| 5 | FDS are "pick me" women"Pick ME dammit! You stupid misogynist asshole!" One of the core tenets of FDS is "If he wanted to, he would". Another is block and delete. How are they asking for males to pick them if they're willing to see that if he doesn't do it, he doesn't want you and the recommendation then being "drop him", move on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 12:26 PM |
| 1 | A lot of people are so busy “keeping the score” that they’re forgetting to enjoy their life.So you understand Norwegian and Danish? It's why I don't add Swedish, Danish or German in my list of languages I know. I also like the waterways and locks - great yaching area. Yachting is great in Sweden because of the deep seafloor and they have plenty of buoys. I recommend doing the Danish coast as well and if your boat is equipped (seriously, you need to be able to bunker down and ride the storm and have space to put your sails+mast away) you can try western Norway? The jet stream runs by, s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 02:20 PM |
| 1 | A lot of people are so busy “keeping the score” that they’re forgetting to enjoy their life.Ich habe weder dein Profil noch deine sonstigen Beiträge angesehen. Den er grei, jeg snakker ikke tysk 100% men jeg forstår alt du mener. Snakker ikke Svensk heller, om jeg skulle legge til på alle språk jeg kan forstå ville det blitt 7-8 språk. I think that languages you know should be languages your are fluent in, I'm not fluent in German or Swedish so even though I understand them, I don't count them as my languages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 02:04 PM |
| 1 | A lot of people are so busy “keeping the score” that they’re forgetting to enjoy their life.Nei, prøv Norsk neste gang. Ærlig talt, du kunne jo bare ha sett hva annet jeg har skrevet? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 01:49 PM |
| 1 | A lot of people are so busy “keeping the score” that they’re forgetting to enjoy their life.She is 1.79m tall Congrats! I see a lot of tall men who prefer really short women so I applaud a tall man getting with a tall woman. She has HWR of 0.6 and a very female figure - not the runner type. Her bodyfat% is measured at 25% Her and I probably have different body types. ---> which languages? One of them is in my user name? You can probably google it and find the meaning of my username in 10 seconds. I trained long to be multiorgasmic with and without ejaculation. That still doesn't give w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 12:59 PM |
| -3 | If a man is "emotionally unavailable", he is like that for a reasonIf a male is emotionally "unavailable", he doesn't like you. He want's nothing to do with you and you're a placeholder. A man who wants you shares with you what his mother told him, how work is going, how he feels about a certain activity. He lays out his grievances in a "us VS problem" way and not "Me vs You". He is sad sometimes and needs space just like any other person, the difference is he tells you upfront "Hey, I need some time alone, I'm not feeling too good and need to process something… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 12:36 PM |
| 1 | A lot of people are so busy “keeping the score” that they’re forgetting to enjoy their life.--->> i am not native. We can switch to those languages i am better at. But i doubt that you speak more than one language at all. I actually speak three. lifting 140kg twice as a 70kg woman? Is she very tall? 70kg is a lot for a woman. I'm 173cm and weigh 60kg, the most I ever weighed was 69kg and then I got to running more. I doubt that a lot of men will look into. Yup, because men don't care about female satisfaction, just like you. There is also a lot of pregnancy and period related stuff. Ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 12:23 PM |
| 1 | A lot of people are so busy “keeping the score” that they’re forgetting to enjoy their life.as long as lifting values go up. She can deadlift her bodyweight 20 times as reps. So she qualifies talking about fitness. So? plenty of women do that. She's not that special and she obviously has bad judgement IMHO. Why should female brains stop developing at 17? Weird idea? They don't, that's a TRP idea. From my hpov women need a lot of mental stimulation to be that arroused that they cum from penetration alone and/or multiple. Spell better fat man. Also, you should know the clitoris is the eq… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 11:41 AM |
| 1 | A lot of people are so busy “keeping the score” that they’re forgetting to enjoy their life.Clit stimulation is only a minor part women who are not into the man need. /r/badwomensanatomy If yoj [sic] think i am overweight at 18% - that is fine for me. 18% is where my abs are showing well - but not sculped. @18% i wear L standard shirts and have a 97cm waist You're overweight, you're too heavy. Accept it Mr Obese class II. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 10:35 AM |
| 0 | Is marriage worth it in today’s era?Don't get married if you don't want to. How hard is this for you people?! I don't approve of marriage myself, but I support any and all of my friends who choose to have children because some day I might need those kids to change my adult diapers or pay taxes so I can get a carer or wheelchair accessible home. Do you think that marriage is worth it in today’s era? Yeah, you just need to actually LIKE the person you're marrying. All of my friends who are married are so cute with each other, if I s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 01:43 PM |
| 1 | A lot of people are so busy “keeping the score” that they’re forgetting to enjoy their life.--- you/us??? You think you belong to a superior group? Ok. Why are you here? I do belong to a superior group, a group that doesn't lie about why they are with a person. I also don't "choose" mentally ill people to fuck around with because I care about their mental health. the women i've been with - the ltr's - the marriage - and most of the in betweens had big and multiple O's just from penetration. Here's how I know you're lying https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/all-about-sex/200903/the-… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 01:18 PM |
| 1 | A lot of people are so busy “keeping the score” that they’re forgetting to enjoy their life.Even the bipolar are a real catch in their maniac times You're gross. You're actively taking advantage of people with mental instability. Not me. I advocate being yourself. Be yourself to them, not here with us. Show them what you think of them. Been chased more when i had a ring. By cheaters who wanted to pursue the MAD doctrine. But just do not commit to them. Do you lie about loving them and enjoying their company? That's one of the reasons I'm going to remain single if my SO ever screws up a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 12:51 PM |
| 1 | A lot of people are so busy “keeping the score” that they’re forgetting to enjoy their life.OK, then don't be monogamous? Just be upfront about it. A lot of women think of sex as joyful MUTUAL activity, at least that is what it should be... Males think of sex as something they can buy, coerce or intimidate women into. Of course you don't have the same view. You view it as something you TAKE from us. That's why males hate sluts. It's not because of women having sex, it's because another penis was there. There are so many males here on PPD who advice lying, cheating, or bread crumbing/fu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 12:01 PM |
| 6 | A lot of people are so busy “keeping the score” that they’re forgetting to enjoy their life.It's not the money. It's the effort. My SO when we were first dating planned dates. I want to see a male putting effort into wanting to be with me. No, that doesn't mean chasing. It means planning a museum date on a "free entry night, limited tickets" Going for a "on the go meal" like hot-dogs at a cheap but extremely popular place. I think our first date cost less than 30USD for him. We had a first date that lasted almost an entire day, that he PLANNED and put EFFORT into. The second date, he i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 11:43 AM |
| 2 | If “pornsick” is an actual thing wouldn’t being “alpha widowed” be real too considering they’re basically the same thing?So no evidence, just a blog post? Whereas I have posted evidence, told you how it works and engaged you in a good faith debate? Stick your pixels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 02:13 PM |
| 2 | If “pornsick” is an actual thing wouldn’t being “alpha widowed” be real too considering they’re basically the same thing?Because people are not 100% horrible all the time? There are plenty of people who have some admirable qualities, but they're also unstable every few weeks/months. It's how abuse happens. She/he is sweet, kind, understanding like 80% of the time and then the remaining 20% they are actual goblins. I've seen it happen to both males and women. It's sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 02:09 PM |
| 2 | If “pornsick” is an actual thing wouldn’t being “alpha widowed” be real too considering they’re basically the same thing?I tried to read the study based on this and this seems to be a blog post? Do you have an actual scientific paper on this? Chimerism and pregnancy related Y chromosome fluctuation have been studied. It's not sperm. It's the child she's carrying. https://globalnews.ca/news/3558598/no-women-do-not-absorb-and-retain-dna-from-every-man-they-have-sex-with/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 02:02 PM |
| 2 | If “pornsick” is an actual thing wouldn’t being “alpha widowed” be real too considering they’re basically the same thing?guys’ DNA seeping into their bloodstream. You're obviously not a smart person, so it's better you stick with pixels. To give you a clear idea, sperm and DNA does not work like that. Any person who has EVER read or studied biology would be able to tell you that. If you absorbed a twin in-utero, their DNA will be in you and you will be a human chimera. Sperm does not cross the blood barrier. If you as a woman have any Y chromosomes in your body, it's because of PREGNANCY with a male fetus as that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 01:26 PM |
| 5 | If “pornsick” is an actual thing wouldn’t being “alpha widowed” be real too considering they’re basically the same thing?So many guys expect women to love anal even though is painful for them & are completely shocked when a girl doesn't love anal & act super excited or happy he did it against her wishes. Not to terrify you, but A LOT of men in the mansopshere KNOW women don't have a prostate and a lot of women do not enjoy anal. They do it because it's degrading and they WANT her to feel pain. There was a post on trueoffmychest about a guy who was miffed about his GF having tried anal once, not liking it and being… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 01:09 PM |
| 1 | If social norms regarding lawful romantic preferences are your current prison, you will never know future happiness.you're powerless to stop dishonesty. Ah, the glorious male "honour" and "dignity", truly a sight to behold! At least you're honest about being trash😘 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 07:54 AM |
| 1 | If social norms regarding lawful romantic preferences are your current prison, you will never know future happiness.Whining like one while not being one is the female issue. The only one whining is you. Maybe go help your bros 😘 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 11:48 AM |
| 1 | If social norms regarding lawful romantic preferences are your current prison, you will never know future happiness.homeless beggar Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but that's a male issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 10:17 AM |
| 1 | If social norms regarding lawful romantic preferences are your current prison, you will never know future happiness.Cool, so just be honest about it? Like a typical male you forgot the most important part. BE HONEST about it. Shout it out to the world, you can be the new hank-hilled ass Leo Decaprio! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 04:21 PM |
| 1 | If social norms regarding lawful romantic preferences are your current prison, you will never know future happiness.Of course, this is overwhelmingly (if not entirely) applicable to men, since modern mainstream messaging encourages and lionizes women's preferences, while shaming men's preferences as muhsogynistic, shallow, insecure, etc. So you want to fuck teens? Just try it, say it and be done with it. But don't be surprised when women don't want males around their teen daughters. My dad was always with me for my guitar lessons because he doesn't trust males with teenage 13-19 year old girls. Fuck em. Fuck … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Objectively, does red pill have real life relevance? Does it "work"?Agree and Amplify works on both sexes. Working out, works on both sexes. "Action speaks louder than words" that's also something that works on both sexes and in almost all situations. Being physically active is preferred for both sexes, being the best you can be is preferable for both too. That's not purely TRP though. Those are common sense tactics in either getting what you want, or becoming the person you want to be. All in all, TRP just packages common sense advice into a "waaahmen bad" ribb… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Women who follow male red pill content and are interested in it - why?What do you mean by self aware? Not sure what she means by it, but for me it was more like being consciously aware that most men don't actually "like" women. I mean sure, they want to sleep with us, but most don't and won't ever respect you. So it's better to live life as if they don't matter at all. I also liked the self-improvement factor of The Red Pill. Physically, I've almost gone back to my teenage run-times, I'm prioritizing going for a run more often. I've become more cold towards any an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 11:59 AM |
| 0 | What is so bad about Female Dating Strategy's teachings?Also you do realize that most crimes are committed by same 2%(I don't remember exact number) of psychopaths, right? Source this. 90+% of all violent crime is committed by men. It would follow that 90+% of all men CAN be a victim or a perpetrator. Why should women offer themselves up as sacrificial lambs to the slaughter when cats and wine are readily available and children can be foregone by ways of birth-control? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Men still don't know how women decide their mate.Go prostitute yourself then. Here we go, keep changing the rape laws Rape laws? You mean those that cannot be prosecuted at all? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape_in_the_United_States For every 1000 accusation around or less than 25 accused will go to jail. https://www.rainn.org/statistics/criminal-justice-system Most rapists are serial rapists, they rape their SO and they rape opportunistically. But being around a male or males in general speaks against a woman's "character". So, men have an "… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 01:25 PM |
| 0 | What is so bad about Female Dating Strategy's teachings?OK, spread more of it to your bros then. They really need it, also, can you tell them to stop murdering each other? K.thx, cool | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 12:20 PM |
| 1 | What is so bad about Female Dating Strategy's teachings?Are standards subjective? Of course, your standards are probably not like mine. How did you come up with yours? I observed men, I found out that most watch porn, and all over the world they subjugate women. You only need to look at what happened with ISIS and Afghanistan in recent time. But somewhere it seems like people’s standard making process got all janky. And all of this goes for both men and women but it seems like women are suffering more from this dissatisfaction No, this is on purpose.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Men still don't know how women decide their mate.Truu | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Men still don't know how women decide their mate.look at the fatherless households numbers, Men leave women and children, it's their nature. Tell me your country and I will provide you with sources of how males just up and leave and the women are stuck with kids that were planned and wanted by BOTH. That's one of the reasons I will never have a baby. I won't become a single mother ever, and if I am, I am dumping that child on the father. IDGAF. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Men still don't know how women decide their mate.43% of American women are pro-life. There are even more in certain European countries. Religion and upbringing plays a huge role. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Men still don't know how women decide their mate.It's fun to see how the rest of men turned out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Men still don't know how women decide their mate.Is that bad for you though? Why would you want to be settled for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Men still don't know how women decide their mate.Thanks! Being with a "bad" man means being blamed for picking him, so it's better to not pick any at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 11:44 AM |
| 1 | Men still don't know how women decide their mate.The supply does not cover the demand. Do you really mean to tell me that women are genuinely pleased at taking dicks for a flat rate in brothels and they want to continue doing that? The only people who love sex work are models (only fans) and madams/pimps running brothels. Prostitutes have this to live with. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violence_against_prostitutes https://nordicmodelnow.org/tag/punters/ https://www.independent.co.uk/voices/sex-work-punters-what-do-they-think-prostitution-expl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Men still don't know how women decide their mate.Consent can't be bought. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Men still don't know how women decide their mate.Hatred? Please explain to me HOW women are hating you just by staying away from you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 11:31 AM |
| 1 | What is so bad about Female Dating Strategy's teachings?I encourage men to go their own way. From what I've seen online, ya'll hate us. Go be with your bros. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 11:12 AM |
| 1 | What is so bad about Female Dating Strategy's teachings?I wish you were less violent, but that's just me.😥 PS. Consent can't be bought, sex work is NOT work and the sexual exploitation of young boys, girls and adult women is degenerate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 10:14 AM |
| 7 | What is so bad about Female Dating Strategy's teachings?Or, Ovarit is the only female space online and males hate it when we congregate and talk about you.😘 *edited to add We don't talk about murdering you, disenfranchising you, putting you in rape pens etc. We distance ourselves from you. Why can't incels do the same if we're so similar? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 09:47 AM |
| 10 | What is so bad about Female Dating Strategy's teachings?All this talk, just to tell women to settle. Who cares if a woman wants a Ferrari when all she can afford is a Honda Accord? Like leave her be. Let her be single. I advice everyone to remain single unless their standards are met. Not a revenge fantasy just a bit more sensible advice. Of course not, because I already found my over 6ft, full head of hair, simping and broad shouldered man. Owning a Pet elephant 🐘 that eats 5k lbs of food everyday is going to cause a shit ton of more problems if you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 08:35 AM |
| 1 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.Anyone who does not serve my interests is a nonentity in my existence. Just be honest about it. I basically operated on the same principle when I was "dating". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 07:14 AM |
| -4 | What is so bad about Female Dating Strategy's teachings?Lol? Why would I care about telling them anything? There we have it folks, the coveted "male integrity", where is your "honour" and "dignity" now? lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 06:59 AM |
| 1 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.Fuck you gonna do about it Drop me your location so I can tell other women that's what you want. I bet you're a future faking NVM. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 06:58 AM |
| 6 | What is so bad about Female Dating Strategy's teachings?I have committed. A life with my SO doesn't mean I don't have family, friends and responsibilities outside of the relationship. I love him dearly, but I won't set myself on fire to keep another person who is not my child warm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 06:57 AM |
| 0 | What is so bad about Female Dating Strategy's teachings?So you other males can tell them right? After all, you know what all women think, so YOU can advice your boys and tell them to leave us alone. Right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 06:29 AM |
| 19 | What is so bad about Female Dating Strategy's teachings?Being realistic means checking your own bank account and if theres only $25k in it, go get the toyota corolla. No being realistic means you don't get a car if your bank account only has 25K in it. You start walking and it's good for your health. The least happy demographic of human beings in the west are women in their 40s, still single and no kids. I need a source on this. From what I've seen, women in that age bracket WITH children are the least happy. Also, I need you to source the happiness … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 06:20 AM |
| 1 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.OK, then leave us alone? No one is forcing you to pursue us. Just go be mad with your bros. Trust me, us women are fine being alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 06:04 AM |
| 4 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.I don't have casual sex ever. I didn't even have sex with my first BF who I was with for a whole year dating exclusively. (we only kissed or groped each other) My SO and I were together exclusively for almost 6 months before any type of touching beneath the belt. In the mean time, he paid for almost all of our dates. I had keys to his home and he has keys to mine. I invited him to meet my friends, my co-workers and family and he did the same. We are focused on having a relationship that lasts an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 06:02 AM |
| 2 | Q4W what do you think of men sarging?Oh, but they DO! I'm pretty sure there is a PUA group near my place of work and whenever I go outside at around 1-3pm, the same guys are always there. One of them has asked me my "star sign" 5-6 times and he still doesn't know I am the same person he asked two weeks ago. These are Old men, they might be in their late 20's but they look early 40's. 😶 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 05:53 AM |
| 1 | There are no "intimidated" men.I'll fuck you in the ass and you'll love it. I just need to restrain you first. I'll be holding a gun while I'm instructing you to take your clothes off and and handcuffing yourself to the sink. Would you feel threatened? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 05:45 AM |
| 1 | What is so bad about Female Dating Strategy's teachings?Girls always opine about how men talk to each other but never quite hit the mark. *Women And yes, it's because we're not horrible people who enjoy the subjugation of others. https://apnews.com/article/292e020044f0c02ade7ea50156064f88 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 05:41 AM |
| 22 | What is so bad about Female Dating Strategy's teachings?No. He wants women to be realistic about themselves. Being realistic means that if you can't find what you want, you stay single. That's the FDS mantra. If I can't have something better than my own solitude, I won't even try. Being alone is preferable to being with an NVM. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 05:32 AM |
| 8 | What is so bad about Female Dating Strategy's teachings?So why are the other 80% of guys pursuing us KNOWING we don't want them? Go your own way already. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 05:30 AM |
| 11 | What is so bad about Female Dating Strategy's teachings?Divorce is actually a net loss for women. Monetarily speaking. The woman is stuck with the kids and a paltry 100-300 USD in child support depending on the earning capability of the father. She must work, provide a home, sustenance, and activities for the children. Like, children outgrow clothes at a ridiculous rate. The money paid by child support isn't even enough to feed and clothe 1 child, much less 2 or 3. *Edit, I was wrong, the average child support is 430 USD in the US https://supportpay.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 05:26 AM |
| 4 | What is so bad about Female Dating Strategy's teachings?FDS is nothing, you should check out Ovarit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 05:17 AM |
| 1 | All sexually charged social spaces are sausage fests, not just dating appsTotally agree. My friends with kids are mostly too far away to request my babysitting services Bummer, but also lucky you! You won't have to walk around with a toddler at the park knowing their parents are probably banging. 😥 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 09:21 AM |
| 1 | All sexually charged social spaces are sausage fests, not just dating appsWhy? Some of my friends have crotch fruits, we still invite them or they invite us. The kids are usually either ready for bed or they're at a sleepover. I can understand the first 1-3 years, but after that, taking care of children becomes a community effort. I have babysat for so many times I've practically become child-free. Do you not babysit your friends children? Pick them up if you have the opportunity? Take them to a movie, show, park, activity so their parents (your friends) can have a bi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 09:03 AM |
| 2 | All sexually charged social spaces are sausage fests, not just dating appsIt's entertaining though right? Like one commenter basically admitted to being a pimp but using flowery words. He gets poorer girls for rich boys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 08:37 AM |
| 2 | All sexually charged social spaces are sausage fests, not just dating appsI think this is only true when there is no entry filter/criteria That's very true. As I've gotten older I mostly just host dinner parties at home or attend them at my friends homes/family homes. It basically becomes a rotating list of events for almost every weekend. It also helps to be social, have some money, be well dressed and always bring the host a gift. But I digress, what I want to say is that we make sure our single friends get along, we invite those who invite us. Next time, instead of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 08:28 AM |
| 1 | Did this sub help you in actual dating life?If I took it seriously I would probably be in an asylum by now. Same! Enjoy your "degenerate life", I bet it entails eating beans and sous vide cooking of steak. 😋 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Did this sub help you in actual dating life?Why would I be with a man I'm not attracted to? I don't think ugly people are lesser, I just don't want to share my time, body or home with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 07:50 AM |
| 2 | Did this sub help you in actual dating life?I know I can come across as a horrible person online, but it worries me that you answered so fast. You should and need to prioritize IRL interactions. I'm only here when I have time waiting for stuff to happen. I think deep down you're an OK person :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 02:57 PM |
| 0 | Did this sub help you in actual dating life?It is an actual honest opinion. I don't spend time arguing with people but I will tell you I am prude and I don't accept community dick. He also needs to be taller than me, and have the type of physique I am attracted to, (broad shoulders, slim hips, thick calves and butt, hands bigger than mine and big strong forearms, in addition to a full head of hair, no hair on the chest or minimal, uncut penis because I am against genital mutilation, big eyes, neat sort of head hugging ears. Cute nose, etc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Did this sub help you in actual dating life?I tend to my parents often, does that count? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Did this sub help you in actual dating life?Thanks, I try :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 02:13 PM |
| 6 | Did this sub help you in actual dating life?Reading TRP helped me judge and ascertain whether a male was worth getting to know better in work/study etc. It also made me very suspicious of males in general, I don't know which males are on the manosphere and that is a huge area of the net. I am porn negative and sex-work negative. It made me realize so many men are absolute degenerates, I block and delete males from my social media, I never accept a friend request from a male, I only support males I have already vetted, but even then I can'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 12:48 PM |
| 5 | Did this sub help you in actual dating life?Not really, it just re-affirmed my belief in that if I ever become single again, I'm staying single. It re-affirmed my belief that some men are predatory trash and some will try to "future fake" you to get into your pants. I already knew that, but now I can actually read it being spelled out by men with their own words. It also re-affirmed my belief that there are very few men who fit my standards, so, if I can't keep the one I have now, I'd rather remain single for the rest of my life. IMHO bei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 12:36 PM |
| 2 | This sub makes no sense considering were all from different countries and different culturesI've also heard on Nordic areas first dates aren't a thing. Like you don't meet to get to know each other. You have sex and if the sex works you go out on a date. Wild stuff That only happens in friend groups or work settings, as in the people involved have known each other for a loooong time first. My First SO and I spent a lot of time together and had it official without any sex first or even ever (late bloomer for me, he was busy playing in a band and studying chemistry) My and most girls exp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 01:05 PM |
| 2 | What birth control method do you use?I started on pills when I was 20 it wasn't for sex, I just didn't want to have a period anymore. My SO and I still use condoms because I am NOT into getting pregnant, but I am also not getting an abortion. (pro-choice, but I believe a child is created by conception) As for brittle bones, my mom is a health care worker and advises all women to take up weightlifting to build up bone density and to drink milk/take calcium supplements. She made me drink fish oil when I was growing up so... yeah.😐 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 07:31 AM |
| 2 | Only women can stop themselves from becoming “forever girlfriends.” Men do NOT have to be upfront about their long term plans with women and it serves them better NOT to beThank you for this screenshot I can show off. FDS is right more often than not, men will lie about everything just for a whiff of pussy 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 10:37 AM |
| 3 | Developed countries are living in a global dating market, and it has having detrimental affects on men and women. CMVI'm going to rock your world. I, as a woman care about legacy. i don't want to birth children, but I want/wanted my man to have some sort of pedigree. It's because I myself have options in my parents accumulated wealth to fall back on. I still work, but I wouldn't date a man without his own home, paycheck, friends he actively spends time with, a good family he loves and will take care of, a great relationship with his father and mother, hygienic, generous and a full head of hair in addition to b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 11:34 AM |
| 2 | Older virgin women, why are you still virgins?Just stick with your standards and requirements. I am in my 30's now and I see the young ladies who married at 22-28 being divorced now with kids because they picked and stuck by a man hoping he would improve. I'd rather be picky, petty and single than a single mom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 11:17 AM |
| 1 | If You Want Prostitution Illegal, What's Your Reason Behind ItThey would be trained in male psychology and pleasure, as well as safe sex practices. Treatment could be prescribed by a doctor, and they would share notes with a psychologist. Do you want to become a "courtesan"? Take dicks, speak with therapists and share info with doctors? I somehow think that YOU yourself do not want to become that, yet you advocate for it... I advocate for a living wage for minimum wage recipients, because if I were one ( I have no qualms about taking such a job) It should … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/21 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Do women think men are OK with being a safe option or a second thought?I actually do it really often, you'd be surprised the amount of hate messages I get from males complaining about it. One day I might post it on r/niceguys or something, but usually it's just rape and death threats lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 09:24 AM |
| 17 | Older virgin women, why are you still virgins?Not sure if I can answer, but I didn't have sex until my early 20's. I was a late bloomer, I also wasn't really interested in sex with other people at all. I was too busy. I had school, volunteering, work, chores at home, friends to hang out with, family to keep up with. Basically no time for a relationship. My first relationship did not include sex at all, we kissed and made out a few times, but there was just no time for any build-up of any sort. I'm not into casual sex, so even when I did go … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/21 03:24 PM |
| 1 | To what extent can a man become more attractive by working out?With surgery? Yes. I know this doesn't really compare, but I have an acquaintance that had a stipulation that her husband pay for a tummy tuck after pregnancy. Her stomach area looks great now and the scars have faded so it just looks like she had c-section. (She gave birth vaginally, she didn't want doctors cutting up her abdominal muscles, possibly contributing to a permanently split abdomen) YMMV, but loose & saggy skin after weight loss can be fixed by surgery. You just need the money for it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/21 06:49 AM |
| 1 | CMV: When young women have it harder in life, men have an easier time dating them.According to you misandry= women have the choice to fuck attractive men, go to school, work, own property and have clear boundaries as to what type of males they interact with. Don't forget you wrote this: After that age they only need (sexual) validation from girls their own age, they don't need a mother figure or a female teacher Me responding to you in kind is misandry, but your sex subjugating women as a whole is what? "normal"? You need a dose of reality and you need to understand that I am… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/21 11:04 AM |
| 1 | Increased promiscuity among women leads to a higher sexual inequality for men and less sex overall for the average man.It kind of does, when some men are advocating going to other countries to"escape" western women. But if you don't want to discuss, then delete your other comments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/21 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Increased promiscuity among women leads to a higher sexual inequality for men and less sex overall for the average man.So what exactly DO you want? Stop playing coy and making us guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/21 06:57 AM |
| 0 | Increased promiscuity among women leads to a higher sexual inequality for men and less sex overall for the average man.Ok, so, what exactly are you saying? Am I right in assuming, you want to go to a place without western women and fuck those women, without paying for anything? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/21 06:48 AM |
| 2 | Increased promiscuity among women leads to a higher sexual inequality for men and less sex overall for the average man.I didn't say anything about marriage I said “relationship” im against marriage 100% but I would do a relationship for a little bit. Why would a supposed "traditional" woman be in a "relationship" with you if not for marriage? Those women aren't stupid. They're desperate and impoverished but not stupid. Unless you're thinking of shacking up with a prostitute, which is actually quite common in Cambodia, Philippines, and to a lesser extent Vietnam? But that's not traditional, you're just paying for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/21 06:11 AM |
| 6 | Increased promiscuity among women leads to a higher sexual inequality for men and less sex overall for the average man.sexual conservatism is the the actual culture and beliefs of the women there. It's not just sexual conservatism though. It's the whole conservatism part. She won't be OK with you watching porn, gaming or not providing. Sure you can beat her, but if she has brothers and a father, they'll beat you too, but neither of you will be able to divorce. You'll both be told to suck it up. If you want a hard life of providing for a woman who will gain weight to escape sex with you and spend all her time wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/21 06:06 AM |
| 1 | Increased promiscuity among women leads to a higher sexual inequality for men and less sex overall for the average man.I just looked at pictures of him, he's not particularly attractive IMO. He has something off about his eyes and mouth. His whole face is proportioned in such a strange way. His tattoos are also extremely off-putting. But then again, attraction is subjective. 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/21 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Women, how would your perfect partner act in a relationship?Of course, I already simp for my SO, back in the day it was called "being generous". We have our own things we do, I need him to be able to entertain himself, be independent without me. I still want him to think of me and preening me, same as I do with him. For instance, my SO has a very light skin, he also has the gene for getting melanoma or skin cancer. I take pictures of his back every week and compare them to previous pictures and also share them with his mom who is super concerned. He alwa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/21 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Women, how would your perfect partner act in a relationship?Strong in his convictions, healthy weight, particular about his own hygiene. Clean and good smelling. But equally importantly, simping for me. Also, I get it it's a given that he is attractive right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/21 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think some women end up as "forever girlfriends"? What would you recommend to women in that position?Then don't get married? Just be upfront about it when dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/21 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Why do you think some women end up as "forever girlfriends"? What would you recommend to women in that position?Thanks for that reply, overall, I think we agree more than we disagree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/21 06:54 AM |
| 1 | Why do you think some women end up as "forever girlfriends"? What would you recommend to women in that position?I'm OK with a man earning less than me, but it's to a certain extent. If I were to ever become pregnant with him I know I could go away from my job for a little while raise a baby to 1-2 years, hand it off to one of our parents and go back to work and none of our bills would be affected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 02:52 PM |
| 2 | Why do you think some women end up as "forever girlfriends"? What would you recommend to women in that position?most women marry up financially. Because childbirth. It can be debilitating. A lot of young women get married, get pregnant and holy shit, can't hold down a job because they throw up all the damm time. Then the husband HAS to step in, bills for housing, insurance, cars, groceries need to be paid. Someone has to step up while the woman is busy fainting from low blood pressure, or having pregnancy induced migraines, or even diabetes. So, gotta have a dude that earns enough for both you and him and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think some women end up as "forever girlfriends"? What would you recommend to women in that position?I earn about the same as my SO, I think we might have a discrepancy from 2020 but that's only due to Covid and I got a bonus. I do NOT want a stay-at-home-partner. Chiefly the reason being paying out 50/50 after a divorce. All assets that are co-mingled are considered joint. Marriage is a business contract first and foremost. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Why do you think some women end up as "forever girlfriends"? What would you recommend to women in that position?Some families have a "grandchildren inheritance" clause. As in women and males have parents who won't bequeath anything to them, but rather their children (i.e. grandchildren) There is also the huge social impact on your job, your day to day living etc. Your social circle, friends and co-workers will all KNOW you are now taken. And for a lot of young women and males, it's worth it. It will not only help legitimatize your relationship, it also shows that you are serious. You are reliable. Especia… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 02:23 PM |
| 3 | Why do you think some women end up as "forever girlfriends"? What would you recommend to women in that position?The advice is — don’t be her and get stuck, because of your whishful thinkings. If marriage is what you want and it’s that important to you, you need to date men with marriage intentions. Yup 100% agree. Do not ever maintain a relationship you are "feeling" icky about. End it before children or living together. Make sure that if marriage is what you want, you say so from the get go. Be consistent in turning down offers for co-habitation. Don't ever live/pay rent with a man who is not your husban… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 02:13 PM |
| 1 | As a male, I find it embarassing that other men wish to restrict womens freedoms just because they're "Lonely and sexless"Many many women would love the opportunity to be able to avoid all of that though. Why didn't you take advantage of that opportunity? There are so many stylish, young looking gay men who would have loved to be able to treat you to a nice house. Yes, and that is again WHY YOU NEED TO PICK THE RIGHT FUCKING MAN. How is a 22 year old supposed to be able to pick the "right" man? What does she know? 4 years ago she was being grounded by her parents. So, if she WILL be blamed if or rather WHEN the rel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 01:50 PM |
| 3 | Women of Reddit, why would you cheat?Thanks! have a great day 💕 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 12:44 PM |
| 1 | As a male, I find it embarassing that other men wish to restrict womens freedoms just because they're "Lonely and sexless"Solid and well established career. That doesn't only bring money, but security in life as well. Money. More importantly, I've proven myself as a responsible adult, being able to do all things required for having a good life as such. Money I have an amazing house to live in an zero debt. Money I have much greater life experience and I am much more mature than a 25 year old guy. That includes pretty much everything in life. Greater chance for controlling or abusive behavior if not wielded by the "… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 12:42 PM |
| 3 | Women of Reddit, why would you cheat?OH, don't get me wrong, I wouldn't cheat. I would just end it.😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Women of Reddit, why would you cheat?I got destroyed for telling people me and my ex broke up because she was cheating on me. How the fuck? What type of people are you hanging around with that would try to even question you about that break-up?! PPD sometimes calls me a misandrist, but I seriously feel for you dude. I hope you've recovered. That type of trust being betrayed can be life-changing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 11:59 AM |
| 3 | Women of Reddit, why would you cheat?Not the person you asked, but I'm petty and not getting my way more often than not would make me end a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 11:56 AM |
| 17 | Do you put your money where your mouth is when dating?I'm not interested in having kids Get a vasectomy. Seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 11:54 AM |
| 4 | Do you put your money where your mouth is when dating?Yeah, I think both my SO and I had that type of "date" with each other. It was basically an interview and a lot of vetting from both sides until we decided to try out a non-sexual, monogamous relationship. We're both non-sluts so it worked for us same as it did for you and your wife. When I was younger and didn't know what I wanted Exactly, which is why I didn't date anyone when I was younger. I of course suffered in that I didn't 100% know what to expect or how to react, but being well-rounded … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 11:53 AM |
| 1 | As a male, I find it embarassing that other men wish to restrict womens freedoms just because they're "Lonely and sexless"In comparison if I pick the 25 year old woman, she will probably be more attractive (on average again), but more importantly we will have many years to enjoy life together before the necessity to make kids. Your sperm declines, you on average will die much earlier. Already this is a loosing bet for her. The only thing you got going compared to men her own age is money. I thought men hated gold diggers? don't quite agree. Men mature/develop much later in life than women on average. No, young men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 11:28 AM |
| 1 | As a male, I find it embarassing that other men wish to restrict womens freedoms just because they're "Lonely and sexless"Because the end result seems to be that many women focus so much on developing their careers that they end up not investing enough time/effort into finding a good partner. So at some point they realize they are old already and there is not enough choice of good partners anymore, because most of the good men would not want them at this point. Do you not see how this is horrible for women? Your only asset for finding a "good partner" is being young. There is no guarantee you won't be replaced. It'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 10:42 AM |
| 1 | As a male, I find it embarassing that other men wish to restrict womens freedoms just because they're "Lonely and sexless"Maybe, I can't know for sure. But I really doubt a solid Chad will stick with a feminist like you. I really doubt a beautiful and great person would stick with you, but here we are. At an impasse. However, you are speaking as every older guy being interested in dating younger women is a creep, which is not the case at all. Most are, I never said all, you just inferred that. You are not the problem by yourself, the problem is that there are many women with your thinking. How is it a problem to te… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 10:15 AM |
| 0 | As a male, I find it embarassing that other men wish to restrict womens freedoms just because they're "Lonely and sexless"I was hit on by adult males and groped at age 12. Yes, I am protective of younger girls because I don't want them to be subjected to older males masturbating in front of them or groping them on the bus. If you find that to be jealousy on my part, that speaks a lot about you as a person. Women are just jealous, because the desire from men to commit to you for a serious LTR drops down the hill after you are 35. Revenge fantasy. Ugly people remain ugly, attractive people find their like and now ugl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 09:31 AM |
| 2 | How long *should* it take someone mid-20’s actively trying to get a relationship?Inded, I find bald men ugly and I think I'm the only woman on PPD to say that. I also find old men ugly... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 11:53 AM |
| 7 | CMV: When young women have it harder in life, men have an easier time dating them.I am 26yo. I have no, zero, nada influence and had no benefit from whatever happened to women. You have benefited from other men holding us down. like lol, do you think you and I would get treated the same in any other non-western country? You have the opportunity to travel the world without a full 50% of the population in 115 countries just salivating at the thought of raping you. You benefit from male violence. Men are doing terrible in this system and dropping out, losing motivation and drive… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 11:51 AM |
| 14 | CMV: When young women have it harder in life, men have an easier time dating them.You could give men the option to opt out of society: pay 0 taxes, get 0 social benefits. I think most men would gladly take that option. You already can. It's called living off the grid or "vanlife". I'm not stopping you dude. A minority of violent men are a part of this world and you are going to need to be protected against them. Just like the average man protects himself or pays for protection against this same violent male minority too. What's your point? Taxes my man. We are talking about t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 11:23 AM |
| 4 | How long *should* it take someone mid-20’s actively trying to get a relationship?Men actively LOOKING for a relationship and approaching the dating scene as if they are LOOKING to commit to one single girl will without a doubt be coming across as unattractive and beta AF to the majority of young single girls. That seriously depends on how attractive the guy is. My SO was seriously looking to find a life partner, and although he had a few dates here and there, he came recommended to me by colleagues and family. We dated exclusively for a very long while with no sex. He is HPV… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 11:05 AM |
| 0 | How long *should* it take someone mid-20’s actively trying to get a relationship?Depends on if you are upfront in what you are looking for. As a woman I get hit on by males a few times a week. I'm taken but I know I could have date lined up by tonight if my SO ended it with me today. There is no guarantee that this date would be even half as good as my SO though, so I would be wasting my time going out on dates. Better to just scout my family, friends and work connection and maybe find someone to spend years and years with again. Of course, that takes initiative on my part a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 10:56 AM |
| 10 | CMV: When young women have it harder in life, men have an easier time dating them.Men die earlier, men also don't give birth. A huge amount of taxes goes into children and guess who receives child tax benefits? Yup, women. A huge amount of taxes goes into old people, you know who survives the longest? Women. The only way to fix this is to kill old women and deny hospital births for young women. I'm sure most women would just flock to that. Better to just work a job whilst young, save up money for sperm donation and live in a "single mother by choice" commune where you put in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 10:47 AM |
| 2 | When women are willing to sleep with men without commitment, do you think it makes harder for all the other women to get a long-term partner?Nope, I'm not into casual sex, never have been. If a guy can get sex elsewhere it makes it easier for me to find a man who will wait. Obviously I need and must spend a lot of time with someone for the sexual acts to happen. Being careful and upfront and strict about it has served me very well. No man who doesn't want you for more than sex, is willing to wait almost half a year for the act of coitus. Plus, you get to know him and become even more attracted to his great "personality" (good looks a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 10:34 AM |
| 14 | As a male, I find it embarassing that other men wish to restrict womens freedoms just because they're "Lonely and sexless"Men DID treat women horribly. I'm sorry you find that to be distressing, but it is a fact. Men in other countries STILL treat women horribly. Some males do not understand that we are human, with faults. They consider us as commodities and the further we get from them, the angrier they are. Males like you for instance. I will be 100% honest with you, I don't like unattractive males. I think bald men are ugly, I find fat men unattractive. I think old men are ugly too. Males are not happy about thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 01:55 PM |
| 1 | What makes a man desireable?That really depends though. You know how dicks have different sizes? well vaginas are different sizes too, The depth of the vagina matters, the time of the month matters too, because sometimes a woman's vagina is very shallow because of a distended cervix. Most vaginas are 3-6 inches deep depending on the time of the cycle. Some are less and some are more. I think most women are more concerned about the dick being HARD and beyond 4 inches. There is also the fact that fat men have shorter dicks b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Men struggle because they don't know the difference between attractive and sexually attractiveI can admit, attractiveness matters. Ugly men are ugly and attractive men are better. So what more do you want women to do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Men struggle because they don't know the difference between attractive and sexually attractiveThere are A LOT of men who are not bad looking but once you get to know them they are horrible. I myself am extremly discerning as to who I dated, and basically just stay away from single men (It has made partnered men think I'm into them, but that's only because I thought of them as "safe" people to compliment, share rides with or grab a lunch with, since you know, he is partnered, he is safer than a single man) Attraction is key, I've never been with a man I was not attracted to or even contem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Men struggle because they don't know the difference between attractive and sexually attractiveevery man he knows that gets a whiff of that interaction with the dancer will lose respect for him, and while I pity the fool, many men will just mock him behind his back because he brings it on himself. And they aren't wrong. I guess this is what some women say about their males going to strip clubs? You can't have a healthy relationship when you're practically salivating over the prospect of younger sex-workers. Do you think her husband elicits that same kind of excitement at the touch of his … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 11:04 AM |
| 2 | Rationale for Reactive AbuseIt can be, it really depends on the grip strength. My SO can crush my fingers easily, if we were holding hands he could probably break a few fingers if he squeezed very tight. Men are ridiculously stronger than women. Guys that are shorter than me can easily overpower me by pure muscle strength. All women know this, it's why so many guys complain about being seen as a "creep" or "predator". But come on now, we would be blamed if we let a man near us enough to hurt us. If my SO ever decided to be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 10:35 AM |
| 1 | RP men, what do you want?Casual sex banned, slut shaming would be heavily promoted. Divorce looked down on. This will just ensure that women stay away from men in general. If you slut shame women who have access to their own money, education and shelter, it will lead to more women foregoing relationships entirely from an earlier age. Women would default to their husband but the husband needs to display good decision making for the wellbeing of her, earning the wifes submission. As long as women have financial freedom, t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 10:18 AM |
| 2 | RP men, what do you want?If I'm 6'2 and my a girl is 5'2, I'm gonna carry her stuff. Not because she can't but because obviously its easier for me. That kind of thing. But wouldn't you do that for anyone who is comparatively physically weaker than you? I think that's just good manners. I'm a woman and during the lockdowns last year before the vaccines were available there were a few older people on my street, basically neighbours but across the road. I joined a neighbourhood delivery service where those of us who were y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 10:08 AM |
| 2 | How much should you tell your significant other about your financial situation?50/50 housework is not feasible really. In most couples some work longer hours than the other, or have a more physically demanding job. They should both do what they can to lift each other up. You can't expect your husband or wife who has been working a 12 hour shift or just came back from a 2 day work trip to start cooking dinner because "it's your turn today!". Being petty like that is a recipe for disaster. Instead, I propose and still do a 100/100, we both do everything we can to lighten the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 08:40 AM |
| 13 | How much should you tell your significant other about your financial situation?I think for women who are looking to get married and have children, biology isn't fair. She will have to take time off after the birth or even prior to it. She will be breastfeeding unless she sends her newborn to a care facility after her 6 weeks of recovery (minimum for vaginal birth). So how can you be 50/50 about that? It's one thing to pool money together for the rent and vacations, but how can you expect a man to breastfeed or birth baby nr 2 when you've birthed baby nr 1? If having kids a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 06:43 AM |
| 2 | What makes a woman "relationship material"?I mean seriously progressive young women have an absurd rate of mental health issues relative to the general population. Do they actually have mental illnesses or is it more that they seek counselling, therapy and are willing to explore the reasons for their perceived "illness"? A lot of women are diagnosed as ADHD or ASD later in life because those are primarily MALE conditions, likewise, they are over-diagnosed as BPD because they have anxiety and become depressed. And unlike young men who, wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/21 09:33 AM |
| 3 | The vicious cycle of feminismI feel like the discussion here has been focused on the age gap in relationships and marriages between consenting adults and how that impacts the dating market conditions in cultures where feminism is mainstream. Feminism or rather, education of girls, the freedom for women to get banking, credit, jobs and equal pay has made the age gap way less. This is from the 2017 US census https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships When we see how education and job prospects has lim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 07:03 AM |
| 5 | The vicious cycle of feminismThe biggest influence in reducing child marriage education of girls. Pretty sure that's feminism 101. In almost every country where women and girls have access to education, they follow it up with taking up jobs and in some places (especially in Africa) if you can keep your daughter from being raped/having sex, she can work and support the family and the money can then be used to buy a bride for your sons and your daughter can be your caretaker when you're old. There are A lot of things mothers … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 06:34 AM |
| 1 | The vicious cycle of feminismI don't think FDS women want to argue with TRP. They're strictly about keeping away from any and all men who are even slightly aligned with TRP (other than lifting and grooming). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 06:26 AM |
| 1 | This aged well today, in regards to the earlier post of men who do not want to wear condoms yet complain about the repercussions.In that case, every woman who has ever had sex is a murderer. A lot of eggs are FERTILIZED and fail to implant, some implant and are discarded by the body in the exact same way the abortion pill does. A spontaneous abortion and a medical abortion with pills are impossible to differentiate because the exact same hormonal process happens. And even if life starts then, so what? You're not required to give blood to anyone you've harmed. Even if you were to try to murder someone and they now needed a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 05:08 AM |
| 2 | Telling unattractive men that increasing their "status" will boost their SMV is a red herringIf it takes you over a month of actively trying, or over one or two dates, whatever the situation, she just isn’t into you like that. I think that really depends on the woman in question. My SO actively pursued me for ~5 months or so dating exclusively, but then again I don't do and have never done casual or hook-ups or even flings. I was looking for something serious and long term and was straight up about it. It has no bearing on how attractive the guy was, if he couldn't wait until I was read… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 06:27 AM |
| 1 | For women, how and when did you start to avoid men?I also want skinny and fun Are you a male or a woman? I wouldn't put it past a male to conceal himself as a pick-me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 03:08 PM |
| 1 | For women, how and when did you start to avoid men?is it possible to change titles on Reddit? I have tried now and it doesn't seem to work. Sorry, really! I only wanted to get a discussion going. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 03:06 PM |
| 2 | For women, how and when did you start to avoid men?You're a masochist, your husband trades you so he can fuck other women and watch you being fucked by other men. You have pictures on your profile that, last I saw, portrayed you as a submissive cumdumpster. You say you have kids and you support your husband whilst you're the breadwinner, while at the same time he is the captain? You complain about young girls not wanting old balls as a partner while you yourself are old as fuck in TRP terms. Remind me again, how old are you? late 30's? You advoc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 02:32 PM |
| 1 | For women, how and when did you start to avoid men?Can this be changed to a discussion flair? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 02:20 PM |
| 2 | Women not wanting to date you because you’re ugly, short, and not attractive are valid reasons to not want to sex/date you.Women STARTED the whole "avoid relationships" thing. Yes, because why be a slave when you can aim for freedom and have the opportunity to support yourself? Shit hit the fan economically when men later joined them. Japans economy is still strong, its just not growing at the rate they'd prefer because they are steadily losing consumers (deaths by the elderly along with no new babies in addition to very strict immigration laws). This is capitalism working as it says on the tin. The same thing is ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 08:01 AM |
| 1 | Getting sucked into RedPill content distorts your perception of realityWomen here are realizing that without men that are willing to fight for them, they will lose everything. There is one solution to this. Unfortunately most women are too soft-hearted to even think of it as a viable and effective solution. Enjoy the decline. You wrote the script. Males wrote the script, you're the ones torturing and killing both eachother and women and children. Your inherent lack of empathy and drive towards anger and hate is what we are seeing unfold in the world. As more women … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Women not wanting to date you because you’re ugly, short, and not attractive are valid reasons to not want to sex/date you.In japan women were the ones opting out... They'd rather go to school, get a job that pays well and live single for the rest of their life. https://www.nytimes.com/2019/08/03/world/asia/japan-single-women-marriage.html Women as a class are thriving in Japan as a result, they have their own, bars, tour guides, apartment complexes solely catered to single women living alone etc. This self segregation of sexes will continue happening in the rest of the world. More women would forego love, sex and m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Getting sucked into RedPill content distorts your perception of realitywomen's attitude and radicalization towards men Yup, I'm glad I'm radcalised against men. The way women feel about men is a result of how males have acted towards women for almost all of recorded history. Not wanting sex with you is enough to literally make some of you go on shooting sprees. Most males are fragile, shallow, murderous and hypocritical. You don't know how to handle your emotions AT ALL. If I'm upset I'll have a little cry and be right as rain a few hours later, you guys literally … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Getting sucked into RedPill content distorts your perception of realityUm, who? Muslims? Males. From gay hating Ugandan evangelicals to bride burning Hindus. Careful, the mothership censor engine might come your way. Choose your targets well Fuck China. They're one of the worst countries in the world and some westerners only like them because they produce our stupid phones and cheap knock-offs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Getting sucked into RedPill content distorts your perception of realityno matter what they say, will lie to get in their pants This is the part young women should know and internalize. Men have wholeheartedly gone in and said things like, "I love my daughter, but I will sexualize her friends even if they are 15 year olds* then you complain about women automatically suspecting you when you're at the park with your kids. Most males for some reason love to either hurt/abuse girls physically. We see it with the Incels, the jihad *warriors who equivocate success with ch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/21 12:55 PM |
| -3 | Tall women, particularly those 5’7” or taller, here’s an interesting question.I'm 5'8 144lbs woman. For a man to reject me, I first have to be interested. Plenty of men shoot their shot, but you know how it is. They'd fuck a hole in the ground if it were available. Anyways, I can tell you how romantic rejection from males came about in my life. I tried to date a guy shorter than me and he said something about my heels making him look short. Other than being an insecure (yet very good looking) twat, he did nothing wrong. However, I'm not about to give away, sell or never w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 05:05 PM |
| -1 | Did our Paarents tell us lies and then expect us to be succesful in relationships?You're either diagnosed or self-diagnosed with a learning disorder. Whatever you say has no bearing on normal people and those who agree with you should seek medical intervention. My parents had a responsibility to churn out a human being who is not a liability to them and who can function in society without them. They succeeded. They even have grand kids by my sister, and will most likely have a grand kid by my brother later this year as well. It still doesn't mean that all men are horrible nor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 04:38 PM |
| 4 | Did our Paarents tell us lies and then expect us to be succesful in relationships?No, that's not how it works. Your parents had sex because they spoke to other people, their peers, about relationships. Your father has a friend or acquaintance somewhere that your mother rejected because either she or her friends found him strange. My parents have an age gap, and they both advocate against it in their own ways. My father by being incessantly worried and making sure I and my sister can survive without him and my mother by always making me aware of how faltered you can become by … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 04:27 PM |
| 3 | Red Pill Youtuber Alexander Grace says that pursuing casual sex is next to impossible for all but the very top men, and most men are better off finding a high quality woman and getting out of the dating market asapIf that's what a purplepill male looks like then... At least some redpillers lift, sometimes. I'm going to be 100% honest with you. That dude in the video comes across to me as a low-T wanna-be. You know how you instantly are turned off when a woman gives you the type of "crazy enough to fuck your whole world up" eyes? Yeah, he has that. The bad thing (good for all women really) is that he keeps talking. I wish more males would just eat pussy and shut up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Youtuber Alexander Grace says that pursuing casual sex is next to impossible for all but the very top men, and most men are better off finding a high quality woman and getting out of the dating market asapYup, do you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 03:57 PM |
| -1 | Red Pill Youtuber Alexander Grace says that pursuing casual sex is next to impossible for all but the very top men, and most men are better off finding a high quality woman and getting out of the dating market asapGood, keep doing that. This is me saying you should continue being genuine to yourself, and doing something you think is worthwhile. It's no skin off my teeth that men refuse women, I wish more men did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 03:56 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill Youtuber Alexander Grace says that pursuing casual sex is next to impossible for all but the very top men, and most men are better off finding a high quality woman and getting out of the dating market asapSo in other words, you're a slut who had his time and now you're finding it difficult to pair bond because your Oxycontin* receptors are blasted? Good luck being a single dad, but we all know you won't ever take your kids for a week at at time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 03:18 PM |
| 3 | Red Pill Youtuber Alexander Grace says that pursuing casual sex is next to impossible for all but the very top men, and most men are better off finding a high quality woman and getting out of the dating market asapYou forgot the receeding hairline. How old is this dude? His hair says 40 but his sloped shoulders say 4? Granted he does have pretty eyes, lashes and ears, but the rest of him is just meh. I bet he has a beer belly, and judging by the hairs poking out from his shirt, he'll be bald in a few years with a shag carpet on his back. If only he would shut up long enough for a woman to think he's OK, he'd do alright. Most women who are into casual sex would probable find him OK. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 03:12 PM |
| 4 | Red Pill Youtuber Alexander Grace says that pursuing casual sex is next to impossible for all but the very top men, and most men are better off finding a high quality woman and getting out of the dating market asapmen these days are better off quitting dating altogether. I support this. I wish fewer males were out there trying to date. I 100% agree that most males are below average. Even the good looking ones have mommy issues and porn addiction. It's best for all men to actively avoid women. I hope more men focus on their payhecks, friends and therapy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 03:07 PM |
| 3 | Getting sucked into RedPill content distorts your perception of realityFinding the red pill meant for men is the best thing that can happen for young woman. The faster young women learn that males, no matter what they say, will lie to get in their pants the better. The sooner a woman learns of male nature purely by the things males write to each other in full confidence of anonymity the better for her. I also suggest for young women and girls to read "The Gift of Fear" and "Why does he do that?" Thank you TRP for allowing me to send links of your field reports to m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 10:12 AM |
| 0 | Getting sucked into RedPill content distorts your perception of realityHow do women act like children? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 10:00 AM |
| 5 | Women are not wrong in their criticism of "men nowadays"😂 You're absolutely rocking it in that picture! Keep on keeping on and don't let these un-washed hetro-males talk back at you. They wish they had a sliver of your relationship but won't but in any of the work you do. 💖 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/21 11:39 AM |
| 8 | Women are not wrong in their criticism of "men nowadays"I hope you return the favor! A good relationship is built on giving each other pleasure! Best of luck to both you 🥰 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/21 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Women often say that they can't be nice or polite to men because it's interpreted as romantic interest by the latter. Do you think that is true?Does anyone really want to be a server? I respect them and appreciate that they do they jobs they do. I'm absolutely willing to pay extra to make up for all those horrible people they meet all day every day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 06:57 PM |
| 0 | In reality people always need to settle or compromise on something. Out of your list of the desirable traits of the opposite sex, what would you compromise on if they were a great person "besides" it? In your experience have you ever compromised your standards, how did it turn out ?I'm talking about submission. You're talking about slavery. Submission is slavery. Submission is to an authority. If you submit, you are less than the person you are submitting to. I'm pretty sure your man submits to you, mostly because that's what you tacitly expect. No he doesn't, he can do and frequently does whatever he wants. The only thing he controls about me is how I get home. I get a taxi if it's too late and that's because he cares about my well being. There can be only one captain. Yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 05:10 PM |
| 1 | We are headed for a huge population cliff mainly because men and women have been conditioned to hate each other.The mythology of changelings was likely an excuse for infanticide, and Hansel and Gretel is the story of leaving your kids to die of exposure in the woods because you don’t have enough food. Yes the myth of changelings is very prominent here. Hansel and Gretel are different only because they are so old when their father abandons them. As late as in my great-great-grandparents age, people were killing their children by smothering them and claiming the child was dead on arrival. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 04:59 PM |
| 1 | In reality people always need to settle or compromise on something. Out of your list of the desirable traits of the opposite sex, what would you compromise on if they were a great person "besides" it? In your experience have you ever compromised your standards, how did it turn out ?What's really going on is that you demand that men act subserviently to you. No, My SO is never subservient towards me, i wouldn't ask it of him or ever expect it. I want him to be his own person and put himself first. You don't like it. And because you don't like it, you are deliberately refusing to understand it. Submission is like being a servant. I know what I am talking about because I watched my mother being submissive towards my father after she came home from working, serving us all and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 03:54 PM |
| 1 | In reality people always need to settle or compromise on something. Out of your list of the desirable traits of the opposite sex, what would you compromise on if they were a great person "besides" it? In your experience have you ever compromised your standards, how did it turn out ?"Mission and vision" means the man determines what the overall course of the relationship will be. She steps into his life; How is she stepping into his life? Like is she giving up her job, friends and family to travel to live with him in HIS house? That's not what happens in this society. He is the "tie breaker" Sure if a person is better educated on the subject, they often are the tie breaker. That doesn't mean it's divided by gender though. Usually, men are better at this and more suited to i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 03:34 PM |
| 1 | In reality people always need to settle or compromise on something. Out of your list of the desirable traits of the opposite sex, what would you compromise on if they were a great person "besides" it? In your experience have you ever compromised your standards, how did it turn out ?a man providing mission and vision for your relationship Can you please explain in your own words what you mean by this or perhaps give me a few examples? You know, us foreign speakers don't want to get confused by English. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 02:43 PM |
| 2 | In reality people always need to settle or compromise on something. Out of your list of the desirable traits of the opposite sex, what would you compromise on if they were a great person "besides" it? In your experience have you ever compromised your standards, how did it turn out ?It was all in good fun, I didn't mean to make you upset. It's just very rare to find other people who speak the same languages as me sometimes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 02:42 PM |
| 1 | In reality people always need to settle or compromise on something. Out of your list of the desirable traits of the opposite sex, what would you compromise on if they were a great person "besides" it? In your experience have you ever compromised your standards, how did it turn out ?that's fair if it's just your opinion. I think it's a flaw personally. It's like someone who doesn't know or doesn't want to improve on any other flaw they have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 02:40 PM |
| 4 | In reality people always need to settle or compromise on something. Out of your list of the desirable traits of the opposite sex, what would you compromise on if they were a great person "besides" it? In your experience have you ever compromised your standards, how did it turn out ?Lol, you're just jealous because English is the only language you speak. Det kommer til å gå bra kjære 🥰 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 02:36 PM |
| 1 | In reality people always need to settle or compromise on something. Out of your list of the desirable traits of the opposite sex, what would you compromise on if they were a great person "besides" it? In your experience have you ever compromised your standards, how did it turn out ?Yes, when the man provides the overall vision and mission for the relationship and marriage. How is a man providing a vision and mission? Can you give me concrete examples of this? You have a nontraditional marriage. I don't believe in marriage. Why would I tie my financials to another person and they can just run off with half my pension? lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 02:35 PM |
| 1 | In reality people always need to settle or compromise on something. Out of your list of the desirable traits of the opposite sex, what would you compromise on if they were a great person "besides" it? In your experience have you ever compromised your standards, how did it turn out ?Nah, he's lazy with cooking anything other than BBQ that I've already marinated and made the sides for. He just doesn't like cooking. He is very enthusiastic about cleaning up in the kitchen because he is WAY more neat than I am. It's an evenly distributed day-to-day task list I think. I cook, he cleans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 02:21 PM |
| 1 | All things being equal, do you believe a woman being a virgin in her mid 20s a red flag or turn off?" Hey I'm not doing that because I am not here to get your coffee" Is a LOT different than" Making me get coffee is Sexist " This is exactly how we agree. I understand now what you mean, and a woman saying something would indeed suffer professional repercussions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 02:12 PM |
| 1 | All things being equal, do you believe a woman being a virgin in her mid 20s a red flag or turn off?I'm not sure I agree with you here. Women setting boundaries and refusing to be hazed is not them saying "treat me differently" it's them saying "this treatment must stop". Just know that you'd never be taken seriously professionally. After all- you place your value on being female. Not being a professional It's an inescapable fact that I am and will forever be a woman. My professionalism should be measured on its own, by merit. I'm still not OK with people hazing their juniors, they should be r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 01:46 PM |
| 0 | In reality people always need to settle or compromise on something. Out of your list of the desirable traits of the opposite sex, what would you compromise on if they were a great person "besides" it? In your experience have you ever compromised your standards, how did it turn out ?But being a horrible cook is a character flaw no? Every adult person should know how to cook at least 1 excellent gourmet meal. I make several on like 200$ a week. Yes, we do have a bloody steak once a week, (I am anemic and I have to get that spinach, steak and broccoli in!) Him not cooking is kind of OK though, I would kind of hate it if he was infringing on "my" hobby. It's also nice to have someone to test things out on and who willingly does the dishes no matter which home we're at. I still… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 01:39 PM |
| 1 | All things being equal, do you believe a woman being a virgin in her mid 20s a red flag or turn off?Why be miffed ? Because a lot of young women are always degraded by doing lowly tasks, they're hyper sensitive about not being taken seriously. If you're doing hazing, it should feel like hazing and not just shitting on someone for their gender. I am privileged and lucky in that I never experienced a toxic work place where my gender was ever an issue. That's how you never earn your place or be taken seriously Setting boundaries and being strict about them is one thing that makes other people tak… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 01:24 PM |
| 10 | We are headed for a huge population cliff mainly because men and women have been conditioned to hate each other.People didn't have access to abortion and birth control in the harshest of time periods People had access to infanticide. A lot of our ancestors killed some of their own children. It was the norm and accepted. I know in my own country, back in the old days, people would leave newborns out in the woods. From different religious texts you can see just how prevalent infanticide was. From smothering, to drowning to even burying them alive. I'm not sure if this from the Koran or the Hadith, but it sp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 12:37 PM |
| 2 | In reality people always need to settle or compromise on something. Out of your list of the desirable traits of the opposite sex, what would you compromise on if they were a great person "besides" it? In your experience have you ever compromised your standards, how did it turn out ?Thanks! We were plotting on how to take over North Korea so I'm glad that amuses you 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 12:29 PM |
| 8 | We are headed for a huge population cliff mainly because men and women have been conditioned to hate each other.Also, of some of the most crucial, the easily available (raw) resource deposits aren't exactly replenishing, so what needs doing is exposing the maintainers to harsher conditions, leading to an accelerated reduction of their numbers. Fun times, huh? So you want more single moms? I don't understand what exactly you want? How are women supposed to reproduce without men, it takes a sperm too you know. As for women not wanting to reproduce, well DUH! it's a painful, long and arduous procedure. Would… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 12:24 PM |
| 11 | We are headed for a huge population cliff mainly because men and women have been conditioned to hate each other.Women are becoming more educated. One of the most effective forms of birth control is letting girls go to school. Even without contraception girls prefer being educated rather than popping out babies. Instead of being married off at 15-18, they're now opening up tiny little workshops after getting a loan. Widespread use of contraceptives and, to a lesser extent, girls' education through at least age 14 have the greatest impact in bringing down a country's fertility rate. Link https://www.science… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 12:10 PM |
| 1 | In reality people always need to settle or compromise on something. Out of your list of the desirable traits of the opposite sex, what would you compromise on if they were a great person "besides" it? In your experience have you ever compromised your standards, how did it turn out ?Thank you, I really appreciate that 💕 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 11:41 AM |
| 1 | In reality people always need to settle or compromise on something. Out of your list of the desirable traits of the opposite sex, what would you compromise on if they were a great person "besides" it? In your experience have you ever compromised your standards, how did it turn out ?I don't ever look at usernames so it didn't click for me at all! Best of luck man, I mean it sincerely! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 11:31 AM |
| 1 | In reality people always need to settle or compromise on something. Out of your list of the desirable traits of the opposite sex, what would you compromise on if they were a great person "besides" it? In your experience have you ever compromised your standards, how did it turn out ?Same, grew up in a strict and conservative house hold, not religious of course, but my traditional preferences I think came from the way I was brought up, and not from any belief in religion since I'm an atheist too. Yeah, I think that has really clouded the way I behave as a woman. I was always told be wary of strange men, to defer to my father but never another man unless I was married to that man, and even then my fathers word took precedence (weird, I know, don't ask, freaking religions man!… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 11:29 AM |
| 1 | In reality people always need to settle or compromise on something. Out of your list of the desirable traits of the opposite sex, what would you compromise on if they were a great person "besides" it? In your experience have you ever compromised your standards, how did it turn out ?Nah, neither of us were virgins, but we both had 2 LTR's before getting together and no casual sex/hook-ups. We spent around 5 months dating exclusively before having sex. I'm hyper vigilant about contracting herpes so I don't kiss on the mouth or share drink containers either until I know for sure the person is not positive for herpes simplex (basically 70% of adults have some sort of herpes, it's often disguised as saying "It's just a cold sore!") I'm happy to know that both my SO and I do not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 11:15 AM |
| 3 | In reality people always need to settle or compromise on something. Out of your list of the desirable traits of the opposite sex, what would you compromise on if they were a great person "besides" it? In your experience have you ever compromised your standards, how did it turn out ?Yeah, sounds like traditionalism that's up-to-date with the times. I hope I find this sort of relationship someday. Yeah, you're right in that we are quite traditional when our relationship is looked at critically. I just don't agree with using the word "submission" for either of us. Each of us does what they are most capable of and most comfortable with. We've both grown up in very conservative families (compared to our liberal country) and now we're both Agnostic/Atheist. I really hope you fin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 10:57 AM |
| 3 | In reality people always need to settle or compromise on something. Out of your list of the desirable traits of the opposite sex, what would you compromise on if they were a great person "besides" it? In your experience have you ever compromised your standards, how did it turn out ?These are relationships without the women respecting and submitting to her man. Respect and submission are two very different things. Wtf, even if i had a smoking hot gf I wouldn't put up with that holy shit that's disgusting. Yeah, some people just wipe after shitting. They don't wash and find no issue with this. I've luckily convinced my SO otherwise because fuck that. Exactly, so you didn't settle, the problem is afbb, You're right, I didn't settle, I'm happy with the choice I made. I would h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 10:49 AM |
| 4 | In reality people always need to settle or compromise on something. Out of your list of the desirable traits of the opposite sex, what would you compromise on if they were a great person "besides" it? In your experience have you ever compromised your standards, how did it turn out ?Submission in a relationship is when the women defers leadership in the relationship to the man. I don't think I've ever deferred to my So's "leadership". Does it count as submission to be the one planning vacations, translating when we're abroad since I speak more languages, cooking dinner and doing the recycling? In turn, my SO is very capable and handy at repairing my bikes (yes, I have several) and does the spring cleaning of both of our homes, is he being submissive then? The most well know… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 10:31 AM |
| 2 | In reality people always need to settle or compromise on something. Out of your list of the desirable traits of the opposite sex, what would you compromise on if they were a great person "besides" it? In your experience have you ever compromised your standards, how did it turn out ?That's a rather toxic definition of submission, I think that's the most common definition of submission? For someone to submit there must be an authority. I don't think we have submission in my relationship. I'm guessing if he was unnattractive looking you wouldn't accept his mannerisms and you wouldn't accept his other character traits of not cooking. He wouldn't date me if I had messed up teeth and dry skin. What he puts into his own body is his business, I just wish some fruits and greens wer… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 09:59 AM |
| 5 | In reality people always need to settle or compromise on something. Out of your list of the desirable traits of the opposite sex, what would you compromise on if they were a great person "besides" it? In your experience have you ever compromised your standards, how did it turn out ?properly submit to him if he is not physically desirable What do you mean by this? I don't think that I am in any way "submitting" to my partner. What does submission mean to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 09:29 AM |
| 3 | In reality people always need to settle or compromise on something. Out of your list of the desirable traits of the opposite sex, what would you compromise on if they were a great person "besides" it? In your experience have you ever compromised your standards, how did it turn out ?Jeg tror ikke disse folka her forstår at man kan være tiltrukket og kjærlig ovenfor sin egen kjæreste men ikke ville være slik med andre menn. 😂 Tips når det gjelder smothiene, du vet at på Rema så har de sånn frossen smoothie mix med mango, og appelsin b.la? Den er super digg, jeg anbefaler å putte i en klype salt og litt sitronsaft for å piffe opp smaken. Du kan spe den ut med enten vann, melk eller yoghurt og jeg tror pr pose koster under 30kr. Holder lenge i fryseren og i ca 1 uke i kjøleska… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 09:27 AM |
| 2 | Women often say that they can't be nice or polite to men because it's interpreted as romantic interest by the latter. Do you think that is true?Statisically casual sex does not get women off, if you as a woman want an orgasm an LTR is the way to go. Women shouldn't propose, it's a mans job and you'd be emasculating him by being in charge of that. Yes, You should dump anyone when they lie to you. I would dump my SO on the spot if he lied to me about something substantial. I can't stand liars and I have no time to baby-sit another person and always be doubting them and what they say. Better to just remove that head-ache from my life. That… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 09:21 AM |
| 5 | In reality people always need to settle or compromise on something. Out of your list of the desirable traits of the opposite sex, what would you compromise on if they were a great person "besides" it? In your experience have you ever compromised your standards, how did it turn out ?I'll be the first one to admit if ever there was any question, attraction is not negotiable. I just think he's attractive not just physically but also personality wise and his disgusting habits with regards to feeding himself is not a problem as long as he doesn't get scurvy. so you submitted to him. Helping and taking care of your partner when they lack a skill is not submitting to them, he's not submitting to me by rubbing my feet after a run or helping me put suncreen on my back when I wear a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 09:10 AM |
| 1 | In reality people always need to settle or compromise on something. Out of your list of the desirable traits of the opposite sex, what would you compromise on if they were a great person "besides" it? In your experience have you ever compromised your standards, how did it turn out ?Well yeah, that's a compromise right? It's a small compromise from my side because I like being in charge of my kitchen, I still would like it if he tried to eat something that wasn't nuts, protein bars, and porridge. For his own health. In any case, we are quite traditional in our relationship roles even if we didn't intend it that way. I'm happy to serve him dinner, he is happy to rub my feet or surprise me with gifts like expensive perfumes, or drive when we're road tripping. It's just a bala… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 08:26 AM |
| 3 | In reality people always need to settle or compromise on something. Out of your list of the desirable traits of the opposite sex, what would you compromise on if they were a great person "besides" it? In your experience have you ever compromised your standards, how did it turn out ?Jeg klarer å lure inn masse frukt og grønnsaker ved å blande egne smothier å ha dem i fryseren. De tiner opp i kjøleskapet iløpet av natten. Altså, han er ikke totalt ubrukelig, men mat er ikke noe han er intressert i. Spennende å treffe en annen nordmann da! Lykke til! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 07:46 AM |
| 1 | Women often say that they can't be nice or polite to men because it's interpreted as romantic interest by the latter. Do you think that is true?And? You living by such a rule only shows the extent of your fearmongering goes. I'm just appropriating male culture, is it hate against women when Mike Pence does it? Thanks for saying men are a monolith. I never said that, in fact if you could read, you would see that I said the exact opposite. I do like you admitting to being a TERF and you say you don't hate men but hate men who wish to be women. I don't hate anyone, I'm ambivalent to most people, males and women alike. I am a proponent of b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 07:15 AM |
| 6 | In reality people always need to settle or compromise on something. Out of your list of the desirable traits of the opposite sex, what would you compromise on if they were a great person "besides" it? In your experience have you ever compromised your standards, how did it turn out ?OMG! Ja, fucking skogsbæryoghurt! Spiser din havregrøt med kanel og epleskiver til middag også? Altså all ære til havregrøt, men du kan da ikke spise det til middag! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 07:07 AM |
| 1 | Women often say that they can't be nice or polite to men because it's interpreted as romantic interest by the latter. Do you think that is true?Funny how you promote the Pence rule and say if that's hating men I am somehow fragile. I guess you are okay with me being afraid of women as you women are gold diggers and FDS women are prostitutes and such I should treat women as being such What you do and how you live your life is none of my concern. I live by the Mike Pence rule (notice it has a male name?) because I have to in my line of work. If anything happens to me, I will be blamed. It's better to be safe than sorry. Eh maybe. Though I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 06:32 AM |
| 1 | What will be the effects of the present dating market 10 years from now?Him and I deserve each other. I've never agreed with you more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 06:07 AM |
| 3 | In reality people always need to settle or compromise on something. Out of your list of the desirable traits of the opposite sex, what would you compromise on if they were a great person "besides" it? In your experience have you ever compromised your standards, how did it turn out ?That was so strange yet refreshing to read, thank you for being so open. People like you really make this board great to peruse! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 05:53 AM |
| 3 | In reality people always need to settle or compromise on something. Out of your list of the desirable traits of the opposite sex, what would you compromise on if they were a great person "besides" it? In your experience have you ever compromised your standards, how did it turn out ?"I'm disagreeable and manlike so I deserve a masculine guy" You don't have to be any of that to have a great career. Just be able to have a good work-life balance and it evens out. Besides, a woman being in charge at work does not make her masculine. I had a woman superior who was poised and feminine at work, she taught me a lot about being a woman in a male dominated work-space. "I have a great ass and I'm supportive and smart so I deserve someone with a great career". This is not how it works.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 05:49 AM |
| 12 | In reality people always need to settle or compromise on something. Out of your list of the desirable traits of the opposite sex, what would you compromise on if they were a great person "besides" it? In your experience have you ever compromised your standards, how did it turn out ?Does settling on character traits work here? I didn't settle on looks or kindness or charisma. I was however, OK with him not cooking. Like ever. I've forced him to cook for me a few times and the food was passable, not enjoyable. He eats for sustenance, and is 100% OK eating protein bars, yogurt and oatmeal with apples for breakfast lunch and dinner. His eating habits when I'm away disgust me, but oh well, he looks good and is charming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 05:34 AM |
| 1 | All things being equal, do you believe a woman being a virgin in her mid 20s a red flag or turn off?I meant in a relationship sense. Like. Please make the coffee sense. Small but significant as a sign of respect towards the male. I don't know why per se it makes a difference but it does make the woman more attractive for a relationship. This is just a couple being polite and doing each other small favors no? I do that all the time for my SO, and he does the same for me. In a professional sense - funny story. During residency our teams would often have the most junior person do scut work or go … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 05:19 AM |
| 2 | Women often say that they can't be nice or polite to men because it's interpreted as romantic interest by the latter. Do you think that is true?I really don't think I am all that nice, just polite and courteous to those who are forced serve me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 05:14 AM |
| 2 | What will be the effects of the present dating market 10 years from now?I enjoy being skinny and it turns me on to be passed around. So admit it, you're not trad, you have a fetish and your husband indulges you. Houseplants vs depraved whore: My father prefers my mother and although I'm not privy to their sexual escapades they are both in good shape and are still having sex judging by the condoms appearing in their bathroom trash, that I still have to remove whenever I go over to their house. (children take care of the trash, chop vegetables etc) Yep. That means I'm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 09:34 PM |
| 1 | What will be the effects of the present dating market 10 years from now?So, your husband is a cuckold and you let him be "in charge" so you can get as much dick as you want lol AFBB indeed. The women don't have say and have to fuck whoever. Are you telling me that's not hot? Disgusting and trashy. Your husband is a cuck. You would do well to recognize that. So he picks out a stud for you and just what? watches? Has sex with the guys wife? Ya'll are disgusting and absolutely NOT TRADITIONAL. There is nothing traditional about you. Even your faux humility is a fetish.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 09:24 PM |
| 1 | All things being equal, do you believe a woman being a virgin in her mid 20s a red flag or turn off?Talking about when women don't do things for someone Because that someone who happened to ask is a male Do you mean like in a professional sense? I sometimes deny doing something for others purely because I just don't have time to help them/coach them/ write them. I always let them know first though so they won't have to depend on me. In a friendly sense? I try my best to never be alone with male friends ever (Mike Pence rule) If they need advice I will of course give it, and we can sit privatel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 09:13 PM |
| 1 | What will be the effects of the present dating market 10 years from now?I don't know if anyone has told you this before, I know that I'm better looking and a better time than other women. You're not. I'm very sorry to say this. You're not OK, and only slightly average because most people are fat, which is probably why you feel the need to be so skeletal and be OK with your husband passing you around. You're old too... You're almost my mothers age and while she is relaxing at home and tending to her plants, you're getting railed by strangers while yours husband watch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 08:52 PM |
| 1 | All things being equal, do you believe a woman being a virgin in her mid 20s a red flag or turn off?I get it. But so many women now will automatically decline to take direction or request from a man because he is a man. I take directions from my father, I always will. It doesn't matter how freaking brain dead his contraptions are, as long as it's safe, I'll help him. My father is also a poster man of misogyny, as in he is an actual misogynist. He just couldn't bear to treat his daughters the same way he advocated for women as a whole to be treated. Some how, we're "better" than all those other… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 08:05 PM |
| -3 | Women often say that they can't be nice or polite to men because it's interpreted as romantic interest by the latter. Do you think that is true?I never got any good treatment from women, only the bare minimum of decency What does that mean? Like I personally go out of my way to be kind and nice to people who are for instance service people (tipping, even when not required) I hold doors open for anyone behind me, I say hello, thank you and please whenever appropriate. I also sometimes compliment trusted males (co-workers) on their shirts, shoes, ties etc. A few years ago I saw a colleague who had sat on some gum at some point and his jac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 07:53 PM |
| 4 | Women often say that they can't be nice or polite to men because it's interpreted as romantic interest by the latter. Do you think that is true?I have seen women respond that they can't afford to do that because many men interpret any sign of sympathy and friendliness as romantic interest. This is sometimes true. SOME men think that a woman being kind, friendly, courteous is an invitation. Most men don't. But as a woman, if you've been burned a few times you just stick to keeping males at an arms length. The repercussions if you don't are solely on you as a woman. If you accept a ride home from him and he assaults you in the car, it's y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 07:31 PM |
| 1 | All things being equal, do you believe a woman being a virgin in her mid 20s a red flag or turn off?On the flip side - a girl who hasn't had an ltr may not know how to BE in an ltr. That makes sense, I didn't know how romantic relationships worked when I first decided to give a guy a chance. But honestly if you were spending time with your dad- major major bonus points You know how dads are simultaneously needy yet also looking down on you? But still needing you to hold that soldering iron still so they can "Try out this new thing!" And then when it faiils (because of course it fails, wtf!!) T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 06:57 PM |
| 1 | What will be the effects of the present dating market 10 years from now?Because I don't. It's just some cheap entertainment. Grow up. But you are. Who in their right mind would fuck another person while their SO was watching? You're a cuckqueen, and your husband is a cuckold. Just say the words, it will be OK. So? I'm a 40 year old mom. Guarding me would be sad. In addition to being passed around, you're also insecure. How sad indeed. Maybe you can find some fulfillment doing porn? Has your husband ever tried pimping you out? Maybe that's a new avenue you two can di… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 06:29 PM |
| 1 | What will be the effects of the present dating market 10 years from now?I'm not adverse to sex with MY man, but you won't see me posting pictures of my emanciated body and begging for dick anywhere. A radfem is all for honest, open and mutually beneficial sex. I don't have sex unless I cum, and I always make sure my SO cums so he always makes sure I cum. We are porn free so we have sex once a day and it's always lovely. It doesn't have to culminate in a PIV but we both get an orgasm and it just makes my day and his I suppose. I guess you're not used a man loving you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 06:24 PM |
| 1 | What will be the effects of the present dating market 10 years from now?What do you mean by "keep" a man? If he want's to leave he will. Your total submission wont keep a man. Exhibit A: You. He trades you with other women and in return pays with your body by letting other men fuck you. Exhibit B: Your man is a cuckold in the truest definition of the word. He gets off on seeing you railed by other men. Why on earth would any person male or woman agree to this? Why can't you just admit that you have a fetish for humiliation/masochism and be done with it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 06:08 PM |
| 1 | What will be the effects of the present dating market 10 years from now?Why can't you just admit that you want more dick than your husband can provide and be done with it? Don't bring your weirdo sex fetish onto us regular sexual trads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 05:31 PM |
| 2 | What will be the effects of the present dating market 10 years from now?Ya'll are basically fetish people, you are not trad at all. There is absolutely nothing trad about your relationship. You're a fleshlight for a man who swaps you out whenever the mood strikes him and he is willing to put you into a position where you have to fuck other men to make him happy. Your husband/BF/situationship is you supporting a cuckold. That's not trad at all. Admit it, ya'll are loving it being able to score new couples to fuck with. You are a freaking lib. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 04:41 PM |
| 2 | What will be the effects of the present dating market 10 years from now?Just say you're both swingers and go about your day. He fucks other women and you fuck other men. That's not Trad in any way. I am a radfem and STILL more trad than your whatever weird concoction of a "relationship" is. You're such a horrible lay your man needs other women, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 04:38 PM |
| 6 | What will be the effects of the present dating market 10 years from now?lol, no-one listens to you. You're not even trad, your husband is a cuckold, in the actual literal form, who watches you get railed (from what I gather?) You also have an eating disorder of some kind and pride yourself on being some sort of "free hole" for men to use. You're not Traditional at all. I am actually traditional socially and sexually and your lifestyle is NOT something acceptable for any woman or male. Make yourself a sandwich for once. As a Pick-Me, you should be trying to not have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 02:34 PM |
| 3 | Survival & Reproduction: Only Men Compete in LifeLol, that's even more dramatic, and even more reason why you should be spreading them cheeks. Your bros will help you out with a reach-around I'm sure. And to think, you won't even have to pay for dinner! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 10:59 AM |
| 3 | Survival & Reproduction: Only Men Compete in LifeDon't pay for her shit, go spread your own ass cheeks to your bros. Maybe they'll even pay for your dinner as a thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 10:01 AM |
| 3 | Survival & Reproduction: Only Men Compete in LifeMales are so dramatic. If getting your dick wet is so important and all encompassing why can't you take turns in pegging each other? As for being used as cannon fodder, you should take that up with the males in charge of your societies through-out history. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 08:15 AM |
| 3 | Survival & Reproduction: Only Men Compete in LifeMen write stories about other men... surprised that there are so many male heroes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 08:01 AM |
| 5 | Survival & Reproduction: Only Men Compete in LifeNot getting your dick wet whenever the mood strikes you is not "suffering". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 08:00 AM |
| 2 | Maybe it's human nature... maybe it's Match GroupYou mean like Ashley Madison? The site that said something to the effect of "OMG, so many hot young MARRIED women are looking for a stud tonight!" And then they were hacked and it turned out that it was just a giant sausagefest, with bots and some COMPANY made accounts of women? It was a huge scandal. https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/gadgets-and-tech/news/ashley-madison-hack-just-three-every-10-000-female-accounts-infidelity-website-are-real-10475310.html Just three in every 10,000 Ashle… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 01:21 PM |
| 2 | All things being equal, do you believe a woman being a virgin in her mid 20s a red flag or turn off?Cool, thanks for the heads up! Will do 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 12:32 PM |
| 2 | All things being equal, do you believe a woman being a virgin in her mid 20s a red flag or turn off?Why are you a virgin though? Is it because of lack of opportunity or because you just have other more important stuff going on in your life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 12:28 PM |
| 7 | All things being equal, do you believe a woman being a virgin in her mid 20s a red flag or turn off?I was a virgin until my early 20's. I didn't have high standards, I just prioritized my schooling, internships, family, friends, hobbies. A guy to have sex with was the least of my worries, even if they hit on me. I could just go home to my vibrator and if I wanted a hug or a compliment or someone to watch a movie with I would hit up my mom, sisters, brothers or friends. I also spent an ungodly amount of time with my father holding stuff and fetching stuff while he tinkered with his hobby of dis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 12:21 PM |
| 12 | In your opinion. When you look at the men around you. What do you think is causing the modern sexlessnes of under 30 men?A partner should be like a best friend you can fuck. Someone who makes it easy to spend time with them, who takes your thoughts into consideration. A person who is not a doormat, who is capable of handling their own shit and who is attractive to you and is also attracted to you. You don't NEED that type of relationship, but it sure is nice to have it or to want it. Do you have that ted-talk? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 06:09 AM |
| 10 | Even if a woman lowers her standards, she won't be ATTRACTED to the man she's lowered them for...Masturbation and sex are two very different things though? I know I spent a lot of time in my youth being single and not wanting to date but I still invested in a vibrator because sometimes I just needed to get myself off (no porn). When I now have sex with my SO, it's very much a a "THING". I need to be in the mood for penetration, and kissing and hugging as well as touching etc. If I'm repulsed by the person touching me, my vagina is not going to tent, it won't lubricate and sex will be painfu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 12:27 PM |
| 5 | What does it look like to men for a woman to be sympathetic to the fact that it’s harder for me to get casual sex?I would be open to doing this, but I don't want to reward simps and White Knights. I don't think that those guys deserve sex. If a guy thinks that women should vote, I'm not fucking him. Make up your mind Ms Masochist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 08:52 AM |
| 2 | Men should normalize wearing height extenders, as they are comparable to make-up for womenWaterproof mascara and eyeliner exists, tinted sunblock exists, heck waterproof eyebrow pencils exists, as do tinted lip balms. Do you not consider those to be make-up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 05:19 AM |
| 5 | Gender roles and double standardsSorry you feel that way. I'm not actually against men, I just joke about what happens to women daily and men are upset about that. Enjoy your day, mine has been too hot 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 01:13 PM |
| 2 | Gender roles and double standardsHow is it sexism to point out what actually happens to female fetuses? You're just pressed because you don't want women exercising that same brute force of eliminating all males. Don't you think it's funny that you're OK and not pressed about the injustice already happening, but when I put out words and just express the exact same, all of a sudden it's "omg, you can't joke about dead babies!" You'd laugh If i asked you how quickly you could paint a barn red (depends on how hard you throw the bab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Gender roles and double standardsThings that actually happen are worse than words. Are you dense, stupid or just another male? At least we don't rape you or pimp you out to other degenerates. You should be grateful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 12:52 PM |
| 4 | Gender roles and double standardsLol, males are so fragile, can't even joke about hypothetically aborting them. Mean while, can't talk about girls actually being aborted, killed, neglected, sold off into marriage etc. Have you heard of maybe considering a very male typical past time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 12:50 PM |
| 2 | Gender roles and double standardsNo worries, and best of luck! I hope you get to your ideal and wish you happy training in the future! Btw, I quick tip, BBC good foods and Bon Apetit magazine have some great recipes for simple and nourishing meals. After all, you can't outrun your fork, personally I love using https://www.simplyrecipes.com/ . I just decide on the protein and try to find a way to work it into the recipes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 12:02 PM |
| 7 | Gender roles and double standardsBecause joking about something that already happens to baby girls? None of you are pressed about that, but the moment I say something about maybe doing the exact same I am banned. You don't think that's funny? I find it hilarious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 11:56 AM |
| 10 | Gender roles and double standardsYes? Are you a man? This should be easy for you. Your legs and butt are made for lifting, I squat around 230 and that's very close to double my own body weight. The record for women's power lifting is around 590-600 I think. I only bench around 90-120 but that's because women have lower/shit-tier upper body strength. We also have smaller hands so pull-up bars are harder to find. I personally find it difficlut to source gym equipment that fits me. Dumbells, bars, even freaking grip exercisers (li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 11:35 AM |
| -3 | Gender roles and double standardsI spout bullshit daily, I was even temp banned from this sub for advocating for the abortion of male fetuses. Me speaking and joking is obviously more harmful to males than the actual gender inbalance that happens in the real world when women are forced to undergo abortions or have their female children drowned, smothered, suffocated, neglected or just plain left to die of exposure. As for benching, you should be able (as a grown healthy adult) to carry your own body weight, at minimum. Squats s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Skip women who don’t have sex on the first date.I followed the same advice as her. I have a relationship with a loving, caring, generous and attractive man. Took about 3-4 months of exclusive dating before we slept together. It works, you just have to be OK with being single if all your demands are not met. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 07:34 AM |
| 4 | Q4All: How are we supposed to take dates seriously if they're sleeping around?Who cares, this is unisex advice. Stop depending on 1 one other person to make you feel good. You should be nourishing and maintaining bonds with friends and family to have that. At least you should be happy with yourself and your own activities without another person. I love being alone and reading any dramatic crime thrillers. I also enjoy spending time apart from my SO just test cooking. I love it when he is away either with his family or working out. I adore the time we actually do spend tog… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 02:46 PM |
| 6 | Q4All: How are we supposed to take dates seriously if they're sleeping around?Don't slice the people, only the cured meats! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 12:36 PM |
| 5 | Q4All: How are we supposed to take dates seriously if they're sleeping around?It's all about how having a partner makes life easier and better. A partner, NO. Family, friends and colleagues should be able to replace any partner if you have cultivated and nurtured those structural bonds. My SO could leave me today and I would have around 5-10 other women helping me by either moving, decorating my new place, taking me out for breakfast, lunch and dinner. I have my parents and my siblings as well and although I wouldn't divulge of details I know I could seek support from the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 12:04 PM |
| 20 | Q4All: How are we supposed to take dates seriously if they're sleeping around?1: Do not do OLD 2: Do not start dating again without properly examining your reasons as to WHY you want to date. 3: Set your standards and your boundaries from the get go. 4: Spend some time on self-reflection, take some time for therapy if you can afford it. 5: If you still feel good about dating, do so but only date in meatspace, join a meetup group if you're new to the area. Take a class/hobby/guest lecture and try to get to know more people. 6: Expanding your social circle means you have mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 07:45 AM |
| 16 | Q4All: How are we supposed to take dates seriously if they're sleeping around?I think most people looking and who have mixed friend groups are bound to find someone at some point. When a friend or acquaintance tells me he or she is looking for a relationship, I casually introduce them to someone else from another circle of friends I have. If they hit it off, great, if not, at least they've made a new friend. You need to have what TRP calls abundance mentality, i.e, whatever happens, there is more out there for you. I think it's important not to display desperation. until … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 07:39 AM |
| – | How is playing video games and watching porn holding modern men back?But there are actual living, breathing people on that screen being, doing, hurting, bleeding or asphyxiating. You wouldn't accept it if most women were turned on by the slapping, spitting and strangling of young boys on the cusp of being men. That's what happens to them on the gay male porn sites. The "submissive" always get abused, and they are mostly young boys. My mom has sometimes council ed young men like that, and you'd be surprised how often attractive young males are pimped out. I would … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 02:30 PM |
| – | How is playing video games and watching porn holding modern men back?vibrators are the only acceptable option here, it also really depend on the type of vibrator. Those you can hold close to the vulva that are palm shaped are the best. Next best thing is the Hitachi or Sybian (Rip sybian creator) which are massagers. Most women do not like direct clitoral stimulation, you should know this. The clitoris however is shaped like an upside down Y the bottom encloses the vulva and vagina, which is why PIV sex can feel good. The top part has the "bean" which sometime ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 02:15 PM |
| – | How is playing video games and watching porn holding modern men back?wtf is a sex machine? Also I thought giant dildos were for men? I don't support the porn industry, but if someone asks me what porn I watch, I will always answer with hard core CBT with gay actors. For some reason males find that off putting? In all honesty, I don't watch that shit because those actors are being hurt violently and some of them are just teenage boys being railed. I feel empathy for them and I want them to be able to get a regular job that pays for their home, their food, their lu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Men are more likely to agree in what women are attractive, while women are more likely to disagree in what men are attractiveinb4 anyone else comes by saying “muh short man syndrome” I am not a short man. You're not a short man, but would you actually have children with a 4'9 woman? My SO ended his previous relationship because she was very short and he did not want to have below 5'7 kids. I am the shortest of all my siblings at 5'7, in fact I am the shortest in my whole immediate XX family. Every other close family woman is 175-180cm tall. Even my grandmother is 175cm. My grandfather was 195 or something. My father i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Men are more likely to agree in what women are attractive, while women are more likely to disagree in what men are attractiveinferior experience It's not just women who care about a man's height. Women are primarily NOT the ones doing casting for action movies, yet most action heroes (apart from Tom Cruise, the Scientology NUT!) are above average height. Women are not the ones deciding how to pay men, yet shorter men earn less than their equally qualified taller counterparts. Being tall is an asset, it shows you've received good nutrition while young (see how the average height for Chinese men has increased after indu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 09:03 AM |
| 1 | Women don’t have to fuck to show interest on the first dateNo, I think this is because women readily experience having an emotional connection with people who they do not fuck. I have friends, family members, even acquaintances of the womanly variety that touch my arm, my fingers, stroke my hair, give me compliments etc. I am not adverse to holding my brothers' arms when walking while I am talking to them. Touch is nothing to me personally. I am however disgusted by unknown males touching me. Even known males are disgusting unless it is purely in a non-… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Men are more likely to agree in what women are attractive, while women are more likely to disagree in what men are attractiveI'm not worried at all, I'm parroting exactly what short men say they struggle with. There are also studies that show that shorter people (males and women) are seen as less competent, more fragile, have lower paying jobs are not taken as serious etc. Why would you want any potential children to be born with that brick on their shoulder? Most parents want a good life for their children, that includes being able to attract their preferred sex/gender of mates. Making it possible to determine Down s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 08:05 AM |
| 66 | Stay safe ladies. Always trust your instincts. The gift of fear is yours to use.A good male friend of mine was drugged after he intercepted a drink meant for a female friend. It took like 10-15 minutes from when he started chugging it to violently throwing up, being incoherent and just a fleshy meat sack that couldn't hear us or understand anything we said. We couldn't move him, this was a big burly guy, hadn't even finished his first beer for the night until he was out cold. We had to call an ambulance and we called the police as well since he looked like he had been drugg… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 06:22 PM |
| 2 | Men are more likely to agree in what women are attractive, while women are more likely to disagree in what men are attractiveI'll answer your question truthfully. Shortness in males is a negative, who would actually want a short son? Most males complain about not being tall enough, so if you are a short woman and looking to birth children, you should do everything you can to give your son a leg up, that means dating and conceiving with men taller than you, providing good nourishment for your children i.e, you can spend 1-2 years breast feeding fully or intermittently at all times which means you must either take a par… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 05:54 PM |
| 17 | Men are more likely to agree in what women are attractive, while women are more likely to disagree in what men are attractiveMost men are taller than most women. A man being SHORTER than an average height woman is an aberration much like a woman being taller than average height for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 02:01 PM |
| 8 | “Withholding sex” from a date isn’t about getting men to act right. It’s about vetting out fuckboys.Yeah just keep playing house for more extended periods (this is your third one right) totally way more profound than casual lmfao honestly even the highest commitment marriage is today a glorified quickie breakable for no reason or any reason it's just all pointless mental masturbation You can't force people to be with you. You get what you give, and I got what I got. I'm still way below in average number of sexing people but that's because sex isn't the be all/end all for me. It takes like a sn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 02:12 PM |
| 0 | “Withholding sex” from a date isn’t about getting men to act right. It’s about vetting out fuckboys.Answer this question for yourself: if you could somehow magically know someone was 100% perfect for you, would you still wait? I would. But I am a seriously monogamous person. I have no problem NOT having sex. You have to remember, I am one of those not fat, actively fit women. Around 30-35% of my countries population in my age group. I can pick and choose. I think I picked well, and seeing how much he adores me and how much I adore him in return makes me think that this is a strategy I will sti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 02:06 PM |
| 19 | “Withholding sex” from a date isn’t about getting men to act right. It’s about vetting out fuckboys.90% of times there is. Most women will not make Chad wait and if they do it won't be nearly as long, because he's already physically arousing so they'll fuck him for their own sexual pleasure. Who is this Chad? Please explain in your own words wtf Chad brings that an average man doesn't? Is he good looking? There you go, people in general are nicer and more accepting of the faults of attractive people. That's just how it is. Taller, more beautiful people get the benefit of the doubt more often t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 01:28 PM |
| 1 | The childish illusion of free sexI'm from Scandinavia, but I've spent a lot of my time volounteering or being voluntold in immigrant communities. I've mostly helped out in DV, addication and educational offers for immigrants/asylum seekers. It's honestly really eye opening how some men view women, and I myself am from a quite conservative family (both my parents worked, but my mom was the house manager and taught all of us how to "be") Honour killings is not the most of it, there is also FGM, the threat of rape by "family membe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 11:03 AM |
| 1 | The childish illusion of free sexExactly, but men here seem to think that marriage is a prostitute/mommy. And to some males, yup, it's true. She doesn't want you and would be 100% ok if you pushed your noodle somewhere else because she is forced to be in that marriage just as much as he is. She can't even have sex outside the marriage because she will be the one beaten/flayed or even killed. Just take a look at the "arranged marriages" in places that DO have patriarchy. The daughter is a commodity and in some places, if a man t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 10:37 AM |
| 1 | The childish illusion of free sexIsn't that basically marriage in all of the monotheistic religions? Two fathers see that one has a son and the other a daughter, they can combine their families/wealth/influence by marriage and after grandchildren are born the bond is cemented. Marriage was always a contract to keep family land, influence or power. In some ways the peasants were much more free in who they chose to marry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 09:16 AM |
| 1 | The childish illusion of free sexPretty sure a vasectomy costs less and is practically pain free compared to even an abortion. If men are so adamant about being child free, they should get a vasectomy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 09:10 AM |
| 1 | The childish illusion of free sexTime is the biggest component. When I was single and kind of looking, I wouldn't spend time or money on a stranger. Most of my dates came recommended to me and I either already knew them or knew of them. My current SO was "given" to me by my previous boss's wife. He's tall, chad like, had just gotten out of an LTR (amicably) and was looking for someone to have a new LTR with. He paid for our first date since he was the one asking me out. He paid for the second one too and after that I can't even… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 09:07 AM |
| 1 | [Q4ALL]Do you believe average/below average people overstate how easy dating is for hot people in their gender?I agree with you here, hot people do have it easy in attracting others. I think the problem for hot people is determining who is with them just because they are hot/arm candy vs someone who actually cares about and likes them. I think it's the same for very rich people, once you're set financially, how can you know if the guy or girl actually likes you, vs they just like what you give them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 08:53 AM |
| – | What are your thoughts on skincare?Wear sunscreen, every damn day. Drink water, moisturize your body after every shower, don't smoke, keep alcohol to a minimum, don't frown or smile too often, exercise so your heart and lungs can become strong and not leave you with a poor blood circulation. Good sleep, good diet and a healthy social life. This goes for both women and males. Do those things and your skin will keep looking better than that of your peers. Start early, prevention is better than cure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 08:09 AM |
| 1 | [Q4ALL]Do you believe average/below average people overstate how easy dating is for hot people in their gender?So your hot friend attracts hot women who find him attractive? I don't see how this is a problem at all. Attractive people are attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Does an over reliance on advice hyper-focused on self-esteem and self-worth cause women to avoid the type of advice that may lead to painful realizations about themselves?All I see is choosing beggars of the woman variety, some of them being single moms, what type of thinking is being exposed here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/21 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Does an over reliance on advice hyper-focused on self-esteem and self-worth cause women to avoid the type of advice that may lead to painful realizations about themselves?I don't want to go to a different sub and not understand what you mean, so please give me an example of the type of accountability you believe women lack. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/21 06:44 AM |
| 2 | Does an over reliance on advice hyper-focused on self-esteem and self-worth cause women to avoid the type of advice that may lead to painful realizations about themselves?I’ll let you delete this and write something intelligent. All I want is for one woman to accept accountability for her past actions Which past actions? What actions would a woman need to take responsibility for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 03:34 PM |
| 2 | Does an over reliance on advice hyper-focused on self-esteem and self-worth cause women to avoid the type of advice that may lead to painful realizations about themselves?They will not accept accountability for anything and if something goes against their perfect fairytale narrative they’ll resort to attacking you if need be. Please explain what you mean by this, I don't want to fall into the loop of "being emotional". Explain in your own words what you mean by the following (bear in mind, English is NOT my first language, it's not even my third) *accountabillty, for what? *good faith i, in what? the stereotype of women always having to look through a lens of pur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Are men actually the more logical gender?So then it's better for society for single mothers to also abandon their sons and only keep their daughters? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 09:07 AM |
| – | Vigorously avoiding risk and discomfort is the source of many modern problems, including dating problemsIf you don't want children, you should get a vasectomy. There is no 100% guarantee that you and your partner will be able to detect a pregnancy soon enough to abort. The limit in most places is 12 weeks. Some women don't find out until that time and it may be too late. Unless you're testing twice a month. And even then, taking a plan-b or having an abortion is not a cake-walk. Most women bleed a lot and have their hormones fucked up for 1-6 months after the Plan-b, a medical abortion can cause c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 08:44 AM |
| 2 | What do women gain from being married in this day and age?It's actually unmarried men who are "penalized" in the workspace. Married men are more often promoted compared to their equally competent single counterparts. For women, married women are penalized, employers don't promote them as often as single women because they expect her to be busy with the children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 07:26 AM |
| 2 | The 80/20 rule and raising a sonI hope you nuke your profile every once in a while. Just delete all comments so no-one can crawl through and stalk you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/21 12:52 PM |
| 5 | How will the current prevalence of rape culture in schools affect the future of dating and relationships?Don't you know that having to LOOK at commercials with colored people or HEARING the voices of grills is oppression? There are also CARTOONS with more colors than beige! AND! AND! Star wars now has women in it! I'm 100% OK with a shitty space-opera wannabe, but I draw the line at shitty space-opera wannabe with a FEMALE protagonist! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/21 12:46 PM |
| 2 | Is the government interested in this?If it could be proven to them that a given man is a reasonable and fair option and that they can't expect someone better, perhaps they wouldn't be quite so reluctant Why settle though? I would rather be single and alone than with someone who is just "ok". I don't know how you males can even stand to fuck someone you don't find attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/21 12:14 PM |
| 3 | Is the government interested in this?Right now, they are banking on men’s sex drives to pull them back in to wife up post wall woman. I think you've got it wrong. You don't need to entice males to have ex with women, the bottleneck of in human reproduction is women as a whole . https://wol.iza.org/uploads/articles/228/pdfs/female-education-and-its-impact-on-fertility.pdf Educated women have less children, they stay more away from "long term" relationships and they are more likely to remain single (Don't know if they are happy or no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/21 12:05 PM |
| 1 | How important is sexual attraction really? 🤔However, this does not absolve GC of advocating for sex based abortions of men. I personally think that sex based abortions against male fetuses is good for women and the future of women. Plus, it's better to just stop their endless suffering of "no wet dick" whilst still in the womb. I'm not a hippy, liberal feminist, I am an actual misandrist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/21 04:31 PM |
| 24 | The type of gold digging never talked about: men will date you to boost their careers, status and ultimately to make money.Financial independence, promotions, new skills, friendships, accomplishments and goals. A HVM of good character will already know the intrinsic value of women. I can't support this enough! Don't do those things for men, do it for you and so you can reach self-actualization! HVM is just a cherry on top of the kick-ass sundae you've already made. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 03:37 PM |
| 0 | How important is sexual attraction really? 🤔I mean there were the threads on GC where they talked about selectively aborting male foetuses. Need I remind you that sex based abortions already take place and it's always female fetuses being aborted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/21 12:59 PM |
| 1 | How important is sexual attraction really? 🤔Have you seen the incel forums? I can't find ANY feminist or woman centric forums where you're encouraged to kill, rape, maim or remove the civil rights of males. At most they do what FDS does, which is to advocate the <Block, delete, forget> type of approach/un-approach. Most women who hate men actively avoid men, it seems like most men who hate women actively want to physically hurt women in some way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/21 02:16 PM |
| – | Porn use is a symptom, not a cause, of male sexlessnessWhy don't you just buy one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/21 01:27 PM |
| – | Porn use is a symptom, not a cause, of male sexlessnessThis is how I know you're male, you think a vibrator is a dildo. A dildo is any sex toy that is used for insertion; be that vaginally, anally, or orally. That means it's a unisex type sex-toy. A vibrator is a handheld vibrating unit, it's typically flat or curved to be held against the vulva. Some are pointed like a bullet (thus the term bullet vibrator which is a category of it's own really) The vast majority of vibrators are never inserted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/21 01:26 PM |
| 7 | How important is sexual attraction really? 🤔Okay, explain to me what you mean by that in your own words. Can you give me an example of this loathing and hatred? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/21 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Prostitution - Nordic modelIf the reality doesn't match, that doesn't mean I think it's okay, it means I didn't have the actual data. The data does exist. Look to any other country where it is legalized. It shows that there just isn't enough supply. Most women, men, young boys and girls would rather have a regular job. The markets are flooded with "product" from countries where wages are lower than the host country, where there is not much prospect in going into "legitimate" work etc. It's the same thing that happens to m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/21 01:14 PM |
| 7 | How important is sexual attraction really? 🤔Is it hatred or just indifference? Most women are just neutral towards most males. Even I, the actual misandrist never go out of my way to inconvenience a male or be rude to a male. If an ugly one asked me that I would say "Here you go" Not look at him and just go on with the rest of my day. I helped an older male a few days ago with his grocery bags, because it was hot as hell and he looked to be carrying something too heavy. He refused to let me carry it, so I offered him my arm to lean on and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/21 01:05 PM |
| 11 | How important is sexual attraction really? 🤔You wish. Unattractive men are just background scenery, we don't "feel" any type of way either for or against them. We just ignore them and somehow that's "violent". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/21 11:21 AM |
| 6 | How important is sexual attraction really? 🤔Yet women still hate them. Lol. You're being disingenuous, women hate incels because incels aspire to kill women, rape women and remove their civil rights. If incels were just commiserating about being unable to find love, romance, success in dating it would be 100% cool. But they don't. They worship killers, they say things like "incel uprising" meaning incels killing the chads and raping the stacies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/21 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Prostitution - Nordic modelBecause I would totally be a regular at the man-brothel. Women don't pay for sex. Dick is abundant and of low value. You would be servicing males, but you're OK with that right? After all, you're providing a service and your mouth works just as well as a woman's mouth :p | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/21 11:00 AM |
| 3 | Prostitution - Nordic modelIf the sexual market was regulated and made safe, then trafficking shouldn't be such an issue for legitimate businesses operating under the law The problem is that demand vastly outstrips supply. Which is why in places where prostitution is legalized, you can never have "enough" prostitutes. Add to it that the AGE, inexperience, and attractiveness are the things most commonly sought after, the "product" is less valuable, the more you sell the services attached to that product. I'm not concerned … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/21 10:53 AM |
| 0 | What argument here has changed your mind?you're proving you don't love him, don't care about him, and just want to use him and lie to him. No, you just don't want someone who thinks you are cheating on them. I can't love someone who thinks I'm cheating, I can't trust someone who thinks I'm a cheater and I most certainly won't care about someone who thinks that way about me. He says he wants the test to make sure the child is his, particularly since if it is his he's on the hook for 18 years of child support. The only way the child isn'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 02:01 PM |
| 0 | What argument here has changed your mind?. What the man wants and needs is vital too. He can have that, no-one has ever disagreed with you on that. I'm not sure what the problem is here? I and the other poster are saying that if you accuse your wife of cheating on you, she will and is fully entitled to leave you. You can have your ease of mind and know that the child is yours, and she will have her rest and ease of mind knowing she is no longer with someone who doesn't trust her. Btw, this isn't a male vs woman issue, if your wife accu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 01:43 PM |
| 2 | What argument here has changed your mind?Arguments and comments like yours have really changed my mind. I used to think males were just like me, other than the dangly bits. That they probably were just misunderstood, that the vast majority of them were kind people who were set in boxes by societal expectations. I now and also to a certain extent back then understand males for what they are. They absolutely, if they could, would love to oppress women. They look back on the past as "why don't I have a bangmaid?!" instead of thinking, I'm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 01:37 PM |
| 0 | What argument here has changed your mind?By protesting, resisting, and divorce raping, you're proving you don't love him, don't care about him, and just want to use him and lie to him. Or, you're hurt that you're being accused of cheating. Why would you stay with someone who thinks that way about you? Sure, have the test, but divorce papers follow. You obviously don't trust her, you think she cheated and she's just supposed to what? Be OK with that and remain with you? I understand the other poster completely and I would do the exact s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 01:17 PM |
| 1 | What argument here has changed your mind?I mean, this is a recipe for success if it were a male? 1: Relationship, -> she has to make add something that makes my life great in every way. 2: Being single is 100% OK, because I can just pump&dump or try getting a soft harem of fuck-buddies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Declines in drinking, increased computer gaming and growing percentage who live with parents all contribute significantly to the decline in casual sex, for menWell, yeah the implication here is that guys who play video games typically make bank and can afford their hobbies. The implication is that guys who play video games spend hours each day doing just that. I have a set amount of hours pr day once I subtract my working hours and sleeping hours. If I subtract the time spent commuting, the time spent on my hobby (which luckily is cooking and I try to reduce that to 1 hour pr day) I have around 4-5 hours pr day to take care of my relationship includin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Declines in drinking, increased computer gaming and growing percentage who live with parents all contribute significantly to the decline in casual sex, for menDo you literally not have any friends or even acquaintances that know other women? I'm not sure how old you are and that could be an inhibiting factor. There are plenty of homebody women who are single and childless and probably also looksmatched to you. They just don't go out much, and when they do they're out with friends, family, co-workers etc. You need to penetrate their circle of friends/family/co-workers to get to them and if you're an obnoxious person that people don't like, it's gonna b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Is there a difference between FDS-er and being a RedPill woman? If any, what are said differences?The western world still contains people from those places? Are you not familiar with the concept of immigration? If you're a western male I've got some interesting reading for you: Parents of daughters divorce more often https://www.economist.com/science-and-technology/2021/02/06/parents-of-daughters-are-more-likely-to-divorce-than-those-with-sons Schools being closed hit mothers the hardest. Because even while working they're still the primary care-giver. https://www.theguardian.com/society/202… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 04:13 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Is Online Dating a Scam?It's absolutely a scam for both women and men, not matter how attractive they are. Two of my friends set up Tinder, Bumble, Hinge and Happen accounts back in January. They set up a male and a female account and swiped until they matched with each other. These apps are staggering the amount of views your profile gets, and even while we were monitoring in it on weekends (which is when it's supposedly at the highest user rates) They would swipe a match on each other and it would take about 1 week b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 02:45 PM |
| -3 | Women, what is the extent to which height matters on a man?To me, it's the end all be all. 5 anything need not apply. I already found my over 6 foot guy, and I wont settle for some Billy beta 5'7 with a chip on his shoulder because Tracy wouldn't dance with him at junior prom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Is there a difference between FDS-er and being a RedPill woman? If any, what are said differences?In all honesty, men started the hating first. Like I can't for the life of me find any woman who specifically targeted young men and boys to abuse and kill. The only woman serial killer I know of who targeted men was Aileen Wurnos and she specifically said she was killing Johns because they would rape her. I think males in general won't stop hating, hitting and killing women until women start fighting back. We should go the passive route and just abort all male babies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 06:41 AM |
| 4 | Is there a difference between FDS-er and being a RedPill woman? If any, what are said differences?This is still a thing in a number of countries. It's why a lot of women refuse to date Indian, Pakistani, Chinese, Nigerian etc men. And then those men cry on the internet about how "all these sluts only want white men!!" "why won't Becky let me fuck so I can go on to my virginal FOB wife picked for me by my parents?! WHY??!!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 06:37 AM |
| 2 | It’s better for the man to ask you on a date, asking a man increases the likelihood that he’s settling.Since women are generally pickier than men, they should do the chasing. A lot of attractive women complain about undesirable men in their DM’s… then fine, go chase after the men you want then. A lot of women in that range would rather be single than approach a man. Hell, my SO was basically foisted on me by my previous boss's wife! I admit, I owe her and her husband one for that because my SO is as Chadly as PPD would describe a Chad being (look wise that is). He paid and still pays for all of o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 01:53 PM |
| 1 | It’s better for the man to ask you on a date, asking a man increases the likelihood that he’s settling.They are still cold approaching even in this frigid Scandinavian landscape. I'm not even all that, but I am tall and athletic and even when I am with my SO just out for a walk or drink, the moment he leaves, the trash appears. It's why I only keep women and girls as friends, males are not to be trusted at all unless they are your brothers or your father and even then some women have had horrible expiriences. just search "stolen undewear" on the relationship subs. Some are no doubt fetish posts, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 01:31 PM |
| 5 | What Standards that the Opposite Sex has do you Consider Acceptable/ Encouragable?That's the exact reason why my SO ended his previous relationship. She was 150-ish cm tall. I've met her, she's very cute , but tiny in stature. All in all, they had a great relationship, he just didn't want kids with her because he was worried about the height of his future children. Jokes on him, I don't even want kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 09:11 AM |
| 3 | Most Legitimately Average Men Don't Have Such A Huge Problem With Having SexAnd also, it seems like all those complaining that only attractive guys get dates on dating apps are forget that women are constantly judged based on their looks. Yup, I know for a fact that I would not be getting the type of attention from males that I do if I were not attractive. Luckily I am shielded from most attempts by either co-workers, friends, family or my SO. I am hardly ever alone unless I am walking to a destination to meet any of the above mentioned. Dick is abundant and of low valu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 01:38 PM |
| 3 | I think we all need to calm down a littleIt most definitely is! One of my favorite things to do is to burrow myself in that nook. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 11:51 AM |
| 2 | I think we all need to calm down a littleI like to listen to men speak, most men have a nice voice to listen to. I truly enjoy the maleness of their looks. I love the broad shoulders they have, just the basic male form is good to look at. Edit; I enjoy hugging my brothers and my father. I love how men just ARE, some men have such a drive and passion for the most mundane of things. Like marble racing, belly splash championships and RC cars/helicopters. In some ways I am a tiny bit envious that society disregards female-centric hobbies, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 11:49 AM |
| 3 | How do large age gaps work?100% in agreement. I'm lucky enough that ALL the trusted males in my family/friends group where actual adults who saw me as a child when I was growing up. I was still groped by gross old men at who sat too close, or tried to snatch away my coursework while waiting on the bus (in my elementary school uniform) and wouldn't give it back until I gave him a kiss. Luckily, someone else intervened because I was crying at that point. I don't even know if it was a man or a woman who helped me retrieve my… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 11:05 AM |
| 2 | How do large age gaps work?You're probably just not used to a woman not being a feminist. Like willing to do something for men. Not every single thing has to benefit the woman all of the time You're not used to anything benefiting YOU as a person. That has nothing to do with feminism, but rather how you are a masochist. You can do what you want, stay where you are. That's a part of feminism too. I don't agree, but you do you. I'm still together with my first boyfriend after 20 years. Enjoy your life, I just hope you don't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 10:58 AM |
| 5 | Most Legitimately Average Men Don't Have Such A Huge Problem With Having SexFor instance, for me I will happily approach a woman anywhere if I feel like I’ve been given solid IOI’s. In a way, that’s the woman opening me non verbally. It’s a cue for action. You're a competent and socially aware human being! Most women don't mind being asked, it's the persistence or the touching that creeps us out. You seem to be doing OK, so just keep on keeping on. I may not say yes to going out with you, but if you accept that, honestly and truthfully from the start, there is a chance … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 10:30 AM |
| 6 | Most Legitimately Average Men Don't Have Such A Huge Problem With Having SexI'm Norwegian, just yesterday on my way home to my SO after a long day at work, some absolute goblin grabbed my hand and asked me if he could take me out for a drink, like right now, because I was looking happy. I was happy because I wanted to make a salad Niçoise for my SO and I to enjoy in the park while it was still hot and sunny outside... I told him to fuck off, because holy shit that is a boundary violation. Approaching strange women is fine, but just don't do it while they are walking. If… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 10:21 AM |
| 5 | Most Legitimately Average Men Don't Have Such A Huge Problem With Having SexMen are 70% of the active user base on Tinder. https://www.statista.com/statistics/975925/us-tinder-user-ratio-gender/ I could only find as recent as March of 2021, but OF COURSE there are only 20% men being picked, there are about 20% women actively looking for a man and some are either OF or bots trying to get you to visit websites. So, 20% of males are picked by the 20% of women who are actually on Tinder to get a date/hook-up/relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 10:09 AM |
| 2 | Most Legitimately Average Men Don't Have Such A Huge Problem With Having SexBecause over 70% of active users on OLD are male, of course you're not realizing that you are in a marked heavily flooded by dick-pics and rape threats. That's why it has been consistently around 20-30% female active users on almost all platforms. Please just take a look at the Ashley Madison hack and see how many active male users there were compared to active female users (of course, exclude the COMPANY MADE FEMALE USERS; MADE SPECIFICALLY TO CATER TO MALE USERS) They were sued for that shit! … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Most Legitimately Average Men Don't Have Such A Huge Problem With Having SexI still couldn't interact much with the women at work in a way that could lead to something romantic. Don't hit on your colleagues, be friends so you can befriend their circle of friends and hit on THEM. I took a break from dating and now thinking about dating again but my main concern is how do I meet these women? What do you really, truly enjoy doing that you can do with other people? Chances are there is already a group doing that, but you have to put in effort, be genuinely there for the act… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 09:51 AM |
| 3 | How do large age gaps work?when the underlying message is that you would fuck him if the circumstances were right I wouldn't, I just think he's a great actor and a male who looks great for his age. Sorry, but not everything is about who you would fuck. I think Taika Waititi is a great director with inspiration and drive to make great movies, I can appreciate his work and not want to fuck him. But, please continue your crusade. Maybe go picket outside of Leo or Clooney’s house too while you’re at it. First of all, Leo is a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 09:28 AM |
| 6 | How do large age gaps work?Dude, you can keep saying it, the stats prove it. There is a higher divorce rate with higher age gaps, teen mothers are fare consistently poorer in all outcomes (education, job prospects, wealth) Old men are still old men, for every 20 year old who dates a 40 year old male, there are 10 others who absolutely loathe older males. Cry in your pillow about it, I'll keep ragging on gross old creeps until the day I retire with my goats. In the mean time, stay salty while I happily have mutually enjoya… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 09:10 AM |
| 4 | How do large age gaps work?I'm sorry to hear you had to almost skip a generation to find someone who liked you enough. Luckily I won't be changing any adult diapers when I myself am ready for a river cruise down the Danube. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 08:38 AM |
| 3 | How do large age gaps work?My dad was still banging his college students into his 60s Your dad was cheating on your mom? Your dad was exchanging grades for sex? Your dad was preying on young students he was supposed to be teaching and not fucking? Do you condone his behaviour? Do you think it's OK to be 60 years old and still doing that to young students you have authority over? Btw, I just saw your profile. You're not just a pick-me, you need some sort of intervention. I would totally take my man to some third world coun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 08:36 AM |
| 5 | How do large age gaps work?Like they had a bad experience and are now on a crusade to stop all of those evil, manipulative and coerced by the creepy man age gap relationships. Most women experience their first sexual harassment/groping in their early teen years and it's almost ALWAYS by men significantly older than them. I am absolutely suspicious of any adult man who is "flirty" (creepy) towards teenage children. Here is some really good data on the father side of teen pregnancies, almost 40% (39%) of fathers of the chil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 08:30 AM |
| 1 | People are allowed to have ridiculously high standards if they want to, even if it doesn't suit your own tastes.I "won't ever be disappointed by the women who match with" me because no women will match with me. The ones who are 100% OK with paying their own way on a date would interpret the mention of "not into foodie calls," or anything like, as a red flag. With regards to this part of your reply, I wanted to give you an opening line you can use for your dating bio that will explain you are not paying for others and is still tactful. "I'm a counter-culture type of person and would prefer a woman who take… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 08:13 AM |
| 1 | People are allowed to have ridiculously high standards if they want to, even if it doesn't suit your own tastes.Do you say that in your Bumble profile? You should do a test where you have it there and where you don't, and then we can see if you get lower matched. I don't do and never have done dating online. I've met or been in committed relationships with men who were either my friends, or were recommended by others. It still meant that I spent a significant part of my early years alone because I chose to either be single or find someone who met my standards. How do you not understand that saying I'll on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 07:41 AM |
| 2 | Has this sub changed your views or interests in any way?Women are going to be 50, single because they rejected average men, I think most women are OK with being single? Unless birthing your own children and having a man to be their father is highly prioritized, most women do just fine. on Zoloft and depressed, in higher numbers than they already are! Meaning they're treating their depression and not killing themselves. Maybe males could seek out some therapy and meds so they too can stop killing themselves. Pussy is not therapy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 07:35 AM |
| 1 | Has this sub changed your views or interests in any way?Just for you, I will continue supporting AI and flesh like silicone research. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 07:40 PM |
| 0 | People are allowed to have ridiculously high standards if they want to, even if it doesn't suit your own tastes.I'M TRYING TO TALK ABOUT RACE, NOT CULTURE. How is Indian a race and not a nationality? India has a vast and diverse culture, it just so happens that most of it misogynistic. You can still enjoy it, just remember that even today, honor killings, acid throwing, bride burning (because of insufficient dowries) gang rapes, the exclusion of menstruating women in temples, the giving away, killing or aborting female children/fetuses, is prevalent. Do people make it a point not to date white people beca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 07:10 PM |
| 1 | People are allowed to have ridiculously high standards if they want to, even if it doesn't suit your own tastes.Both times it was clearly a foodie call. The general acceptance of "men should pay for the first date" makes it easier for these fraudsters to exploit people. This and this I "won't ever be disappointed by the women who match with" me because no women will match with me. The ones who are 100% OK with paying their own way on a date would interpret the mention of "not into foodie calls," or anything like, as a red flag.. Makes it evident that you sought these women out, invited them out for a date… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 06:57 PM |
| 2 | People are allowed to have ridiculously high standards if they want to, even if it doesn't suit your own tastes.Stop trying to turn it into a religion thing too, excluding someone because of their RELIGION is perfectly acceptable in the dating world. Most South-Asian men (Indian, Pakinstani,Bangladeshi) are religious or their families are. All of them, even the Christian ones are misogynistic in practice, especially from the older generations. I'm sorry, that you think me racist for excluding the lineages of men who have actively aborted, killed or restricted their daughters. Not. So you wouldn't date a 3… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 06:40 PM |
| 1 | People are allowed to have ridiculously high standards if they want to, even if it doesn't suit your own tastes.'Western women' is not a race, its a culture. Indian men is not a race either, it's a nationality. The Culture of India, Bangladesh and Pakistan is very misogynistic, one is primarily Hindu and the others two primarily Muslim. It's not because of the way they look. It's solely based on how they treat the women in their communities. I wouldn't want to be a Chinese, Russian, or Ghanaian woman either and I have actively excluded men from those countries from my dating pool when I was single. That's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 06:11 PM |
| 2 | People are allowed to have ridiculously high standards if they want to, even if it doesn't suit your own tastes.Internalized Racism. Is it though? I would think it was racism if she were avoiding Indian women too, but this is a male only issue. Besides, you can be as racist as you want with your pussy or dick, no-one lambastes John Mayer for saying he only wants to date white women. Not wanting to date Indian men because India as a country has problems with misogyny is not racism. It's like saying you're not dating "western women" because they have "unrealistic" expectations of men. Imagine guys here sayi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 05:31 PM |
| 1 | People are allowed to have ridiculously high standards if they want to, even if it doesn't suit your own tastes.Secondly, unlike in a job seeking situation, you're not privy to knowing what the other guy brought in, you cant exactly look him up on linkedin and see that he actually has MORE experience and unlike you he is already knows the business owner from way back. Care to respond to this then? From college on, what women desire in a partner has remained fairly consistent. What they settle for, now that could be a different story. I'm saying that you shouldn't settle, no-one should, not ever. I don't a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Lowering your standards is for desperate people. Those who don't mind being alone don't have to lower their standards.what’s wrong with pointing her to a colleague that was single? You describe her as a harpy. I personally would not point out a colleague to a harpy. Did you hate your colleague or something? In any case, we are moving beyond the scope of the OP, which was that you shouldn't mind being alone if you are not desperate. Clearly, both your co-worker and this "harpy" were either desperate or they met each others standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 04:31 PM |
| 3 | Lowering your standards is for desperate people. Those who don't mind being alone don't have to lower their standards.I was the one that jokingly directed her to target him. Just so he would get out of his parents basement. You actively turned a person who was supposedly your friend into the fireline of someone you knew was horrible? What kind of a friend are you? Yes, we made fun of her husband. Because he fell for it. You're still making fun of him behind his back. They fact they were still together surprised me. But I think the guy is just too much of a doormat to leave. I have no words, because you have bee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Has this sub changed your views or interests in any way?I'm not arguing, just stating facts. Enjoy your evening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Lowering your standards is for desperate people. Those who don't mind being alone don't have to lower their standards.Also, why would having sex with someone you don't find attractive/find less attractive be deemed "disgusting". It might be difficult, but I don't understand why it would be disgusting. Explain that part to me please. I can only speak for myself, but as a person who loves sex, but is also the receiving partner in sexual acts, it just disgusts me to even think of having sex with someone I'm not attracted to. It's repulsive to me in the same way as wading through sewage is. Sure, some other people … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Has this sub changed your views or interests in any way?Calm down, you're being testerical. No one hurt you. You're still not speaking your truth, on a debate sub no less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Has this sub changed your views or interests in any way?I'm not opposed to males moving beyond needing women. I would very much like for people to happy, but you cannot make your happiness contingent on other people having sex with you. Everything a woman can do for a male can be done by either male friends, male family members or male sex-workers. Your dick being sucked by a male is still getting your dick sucked, and it's not like you care about the feelings of the person sucking, so why should who is sucking it matter? The needed market will arriv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 03:52 PM |
| 1 | People are allowed to have ridiculously high standards if they want to, even if it doesn't suit your own tastes.Please. They wasted the time I spent talking to them up to that point, and putting something in my profile like "I don't pay for women on first dates" makes me look bad regardless of what a woman thinks about the topic. Every social change starts with one step. Put that in your bio and you won't ever be disappointed by the women who match with you and you will never be lead on either. This is a CMV post acting like there is no problem with "ridiculously high standards." I gave you an example whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Lowering your standards is for desperate people. Those who don't mind being alone don't have to lower their standards.I'm gonna be frank with you, I hope you have a lovely relationship for decades going forwards. The two of us probably just don't have the same social pressures as to how we choose our partners. It was really very enlightening to discuss with you, no snark, wish you a nice day!💕 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Lowering your standards is for desperate people. Those who don't mind being alone don't have to lower their standards.OK, I still don't understand, but I can see how you might feel that way. And props to you for looking beyond I guess. I just cant fathom being with someone who I don't think is 100% attractive to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Lowering your standards is for desperate people. Those who don't mind being alone don't have to lower their standards.Because the comment you’re replying too said nothing about men haveong sex with women they find disgusting, Having sex with someone you're not attracted to is disgusting, it's actually repulsive. I actually think it’s better to go for women slightly less attractive than yourself, as it makes them less likely to monkey branch OK, you lost me here. Can you feel genuine love and happiness with someone you describe as "less attractive"? Do you tell them this or do you just string them along? Holy sm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 02:54 PM |
| 0 | Lowering your standards is for desperate people. Those who don't mind being alone don't have to lower their standards.Nah dude, it's tactless. You don't tell a fat friend to put down the fork, if you're really looking out for them you encourage the healthy choices they make and remain neutral/non-approving on the bad choices. Being fat is a personality flaw, much like binge drinking and other types of addiction. Telling them something they already know won't fix the situation and that means you're not just being honest. You're being tactless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 02:51 PM |
| 1 | People are allowed to have ridiculously high standards if they want to, even if it doesn't suit your own tastes.Lol, I already have a relationship. You would have known if you read the comment you're replying to. I'm not stressed about it ending either, I think this is what RP calls abundance? Dick is cheap, unfortunately I do not want just dick, I want an actual human being I get along with who I find attractive and who meets my standards. I'm not a business, so I don't do charity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 02:46 PM |
| -2 | Lowering your standards is for desperate people. Those who don't mind being alone don't have to lower their standards.No I'd like women to be honest with their friends. "put down the fork" is not being honest, it's being tactless. What do you think is worse, lying to your friend and feeding her delusions so that she ends up alone What's bad about being alone if people don't meet your standards? If you have standards, you stick to them. It's better to be alone than to be in a shitty relationship where you DON'T respect the person because you think you "settled". It's also extremely unfair to the person being set… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 02:35 PM |
| 2 | Lowering your standards is for desperate people. Those who don't mind being alone don't have to lower their standards.Oh right I forgot women only want guys who look like Dee Snyder LOL. I don't know who that is, so I can't comment. What I can comment is to say that DUH, women want men that are attractive, it doesn't take much to figure that out. It's also hilarious that any relationship you end up with is automatically a shitty one unless it ticks all the insane requirements that the fatty wants. Why do you care what fat women bemoan? I am absolutely repulsed by fat men but I have never in my life devoted as m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Lowering your standards is for desperate people. Those who don't mind being alone don't have to lower their standards.the higher non-fat women standards become So you're worried about fat girls distorting the views of non-fat girls? Why wouldn't you want non-fat girls to have high standards? I want all males to have super high standards, I want people in general to have higher standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 02:28 PM |
| 1 | People are allowed to have ridiculously high standards if they want to, even if it doesn't suit your own tastes.You expect him to die before his mother? Now I am really worried about him, you know. That woman could survive anything, I wouldn't find it obscene at all that she outlived the both of us. Who said that is mutually exclusive things? I agree to a certain extent with you on this. I just can't treat people as sources of benefits and dispose them when they become useless I'm treating the relationship that way, not the person. It should be mutually beneficial. If we are not in agreement on 98% of thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 02:24 PM |
| -1 | Lowering your standards is for desperate people. Those who don't mind being alone don't have to lower their standards.So, you want women to be assholes to their friends the way males are? lol, no thanks. I don't have any fat friends because I personally think being fat is a personality flaw, BUT I can't for the life of me ever think to step into a fat persons daily life and tell them to put the fork down. Not my circus, not my monkeys. I also, still don't want them to lower their standards. Jesus. If you don't like fat women, them having super high and wildly inappropriate standards is GOOD for you because then… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Lowering your standards is for desperate people. Those who don't mind being alone don't have to lower their standards.value matters otherwise there would be no difference between eating Fajitas at your local Chilis and eating a gourmet meal at the French Laundry. This is like eating at the French Laundry and complaining that the local chilis exists and has customers. No one is asking you eat at chilis, they're also not asking you to pay a fortune to eat at French Laundry when you can make a cozier and less costly meal at home (i.e. being single) I know I don't have to date her. But the same moron demands that m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Lowering your standards is for desperate people. Those who don't mind being alone don't have to lower their standards.I knew a gal at work that ran her “daring scheme” Almost like a project at work. She had to hit so many mixers and dating sites each week hoping to find a guy that wasn’t “gross” so she could marry by 30 and pop out a couple of kids. The final victim worked with us, and surprisingly they are still together. Isn't this what dating is for young people these days? Getting out there and trying to find someone who is "not gross" and otherwise meets their standards? You're calling her husband a victim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 01:44 PM |
| 2 | Lowering your standards is for desperate people. Those who don't mind being alone don't have to lower their standards.If those are your standards, then those are your standards. I don't think you will find anyone to dissuade you from that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 01:39 PM |
| 2 | Lowering your standards is for desperate people. Those who don't mind being alone don't have to lower their standards.Sometimes guys don't have a choice. They do have a choice, remain single. Due to all the aforementioned reasons, some men feel that its easier to just find someone who is remotely your type and has a lower SMV compared to you, so that you don't fall to the dark side - a.k.a. get blackpilled! This just sounds so alien to me. A male would have a relationship with someone who he doesn't even care for or find attractive, just so he can what? Have sex? That's disgusting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 01:38 PM |
| 6 | Lowering your standards is for desperate people. Those who don't mind being alone don't have to lower their standards.So? you don't have to date her. You don't even have to look at her unless you're seeking out fat approval or HAES type pages. I'm not into fat men either, I think they look gross, I'm still not offended or feel any type of way when they complain about not finding women to date them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 01:30 PM |
| 1 | People are allowed to have ridiculously high standards if they want to, even if it doesn't suit your own tastes.I hope he will get a proper funereal at least when time will come. I'm sure his mother will arrange a wonderful funeral. Maybe. But unfortunately I failed to become cynical and immoral enough to treat humans like this. Stupid me, I know. I'm not cynical, I'm realistic. Let's use one example from my own life. Most men watch porn. It's not cynical to say that because most men watch porn, which I am against, it is good for me to not get involved with any man unless I am assured he does not watch po… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 01:23 PM |
| 2 | Has this sub changed your views or interests in any way?There is something called sarcasm. I was agreeing with you without wanting to argue. Are you that hurt over my comment? If you were being sarcastic, then you don't agree. Just speak your truth and be done with it instead of being a mealymouthed coward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 01:13 PM |
| 0 | Has this sub changed your views or interests in any way?"Women won't fuck me and I'm mad about it" isn't really an issue women can empathize with. This is a gender/dating/strategy/politics sub, and as such the lines drawn are gendered. There have been countless threads where women ask "what do you want us to do about male sexlessness and the answer is always "have sex with more men! Give a chance to men you're not attracted to!" I've always responded that if physical contact and caresses and maybe an orgasm is all they want they can turn to Grindr, b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Has this sub changed your views or interests in any way?Can you name 3 things you want women to start taking responsibility for? I'm asking you in good faith, name three. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 12:49 PM |
| 1 | People are allowed to have ridiculously high standards if they want to, even if it doesn't suit your own tastes.Of course he will. He is useless dead after all, doesn't he? Why would I keep a corpse? So you don't see them as humans until proven otherwise? They're humans I'd like to avoid until proven otherwise. I think all of male worries/fears about women would be assuaged if they had the same way of thinking about women as I do about males, don't lower your standards, and stick to your convictions. It's better to be alone than to be in a shitty relationship. Just truly and genuinely embrace your own com… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 12:33 PM |
| 1 | People are allowed to have ridiculously high standards if they want to, even if it doesn't suit your own tastes.Really? And you expect them to be ok with that? If someone who is not indifferent to me don't see me as a human I will call it a disrespect (and that's me being generous) and cut them off. Not all men are inhuman, but if I were to make a mistake in who I trust, I would be judged, so it's better for me to be cautious. Poor fellow. But that is his problem not mine. He'll live | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 12:15 PM |
| 2 | People are allowed to have ridiculously high standards if they want to, even if it doesn't suit your own tastes.Is it racist to say that India has problem with it's males? It's not a race issue, it's a male vs female issue. The comment you linked to is an Indian woman explaining why she is avoiding Indian men. I frankly don't blame her. The best thing a woman can do for her own safety is to limit the amount of men around her and to be cautious when dating men of ethnicities where "honor" crime are prevalent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 07:53 AM |
| 1 | People are allowed to have ridiculously high standards if they want to, even if it doesn't suit your own tastes.I would admit to my consumer attitude towards men. I don't consume them, I'm hyper picky about which men I talk to. I consider most men to be depraved and it has served me well. Never been in an abusive relationship, never had a pregnancy scare, never had to compromise on anything and I still found my Billy Beta as you would call him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 07:48 AM |
| 1 | People are allowed to have ridiculously high standards if they want to, even if it doesn't suit your own tastes.First of all, I dont agree with your premise that a job can be compared to a relationship. Secondly, unlike in a job seeking situation, you're not privy to knowing what the other guy brought in, you cant exactly look him up on linkedin and see that he actually has MORE experience and unlike you he is already knows the business owner from way back. You can have high standards, but STICK TO THEM. People often have high standards and parade it to the world. After a while they quietly change them an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 07:43 AM |
| 1 | People are allowed to have ridiculously high standards if they want to, even if it doesn't suit your own tastes.I did this, with two different women. Both times they immediately unmatched me. I care because they wasted my time. But they didn't waste your time, they immediately unmatched you. Do you want them to time travel and prevent matching with you in the first place? what they think they wants isn't really what they want, and is going to make it harder to actually get what they actually want Maybe you should realize that you're not the sole arbiter of what a woman "wants". creates and perpetuates bad… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 07:26 AM |
| 47 | A picture is worth a thousand words...Wanda Sikes had a joke about this. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jv5pjSRSLGQ It's funny in a "omg, that's horrifying" way. She even talked about how you can't trust your pussy to be left alone at home if you have an LVM living with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 05:33 AM |
| 1 | The uncomfortable truth in the dating realm: women have to be, men have to become.Thank's for proving FDS want men to simp for them? Why would you have a relationship with someone who won't simp for you? You think it's just him doing the simping huh? Class is nothing but a set of behaviors that people like you who makes you think your better than others because you act "proper". Finally, you're making some sense, YES, class is a set of behaviours and expectations. With it comes status, in a hierchial society, status and class are very much intermingled. And yes, status CAN be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 05:30 AM |
| 1 | The uncomfortable truth in the dating realm: women have to be, men have to become.Average men stop getting any kind of love, affection or physical touch after we hit adulthood, Are you saying men become hermits after adulthood? Do you not hug your bro's? Talk and get validation from your parents/siblings? Get a pet and some friends. Jesus. Pussy is not Therapy. I personally am sick and tired of men thinking they just need a crumb of pussy so they can "feel loved". No, you don't. If you did, you'd be more discerning as to who you had sex with, but you're not. Any hole will do.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 05:08 AM |
| 1 | The uncomfortable truth in the dating realm: women have to be, men have to become.Not single, but go off I guess. All you've proven here is that you're a slave to your dick and you can't possibly be happy on your own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 05:02 AM |
| 1 | The uncomfortable truth in the dating realm: women have to be, men have to become.If you were really some high value woman a man would have married you I don't believe in marriage, besides, I already have my 194cm tall Chad.💖 He simps for me hard and you can die mad and alone about it. Hey hun its like money is part of status and class. Evidently, you think money = class, I was telling you it's not. He may not, but he certainly be a breadwinner to her. And I know how you women love your breadwinners. He's still a pleb, and it's amazing how you think money can be transferable … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 05:01 AM |
| 1 | The uncomfortable truth in the dating realm: women have to be, men have to become.So he is obese and charismatic? And still he is sleeping with obese women... It makes me wonder how low are his standards. Let me ask you candidly, would you sleep with a very hot woman if she were a criminal or had a documented history of being an absolutely awful person? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 03:27 PM |
| 2 | The uncomfortable truth in the dating realm: women have to be, men have to become.No sensible man wants a relationship with a modern woman. It’s a form of slavery. Then don't have relationships with modern women. Do you understand that you can be happy without a relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 01:28 PM |
| 1 | The uncomfortable truth in the dating realm: women have to be, men have to become.It's not just about the money, you dunce. It' about the status and class. A plumber can marry and have a great life with a specialist nurse who make a lot of money for a pink-collar profession or an elementary school teacher who make a lot less. He won't fit in with the Art History major who then went on to take an MA/MS and is looking to study further for a P.hd. During this whole time it's possible she's only making 30KUSD per year, but she is in a whole different environment. I've met plenty … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 01:24 PM |
| 0 | The uncomfortable truth in the dating realm: women have to be, men have to become.First of all, great going on the salary! I love to know other women are making bank 💖 Secondly, I agree with you, men here don't realize that looks matter. They were fed Adam Sandler movies and think they can coast on flip flops, baggy shorts and a speech impediment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 01:16 PM |
| 1 | The uncomfortable truth in the dating realm: women have to be, men have to become.most men in history never passed on their genes, this doesnt sound lucky Which gender was in charge at that point in time? It sure wasn't women. So you can blame men for cock-blocking other men. The truth is, women would much rather be alone than be with a male that can be a detriment to her. It's better to remain childless and unmarried than to marry a man or be impregnated by a male who either leaves, dies or is cruel to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 01:10 PM |
| 3 | The uncomfortable truth in the dating realm: women have to be, men have to become.In what way are they worth double the average man? Men wanting to fuck you is NOT a positive, it's a net drain on your physical and mental health. Please name something that makes a woman's value double that of males that does not include "men want to fuck you". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 01:08 PM |
| 1 | The uncomfortable truth in the dating realm: women have to be, men have to become.Then don't be a breadwinner, don't pay for anything? Just be upfront about it and don't pay. How is this so difficult for you males to understand? If you don't want it, don't do it. No is a complete sentence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 01:04 PM |
| 0 | The uncomfortable truth in the dating realm: women have to be, men have to become.I wish it would be easier just to casually date :/ Just date men then. If you're not into a woman being actually attracted to you to date you then why can't you date men you're not attracted to either? I've always been a proponent of "Attraction cannot be negotiated". If you want women to negotiate their attraction, then you should be able to negotiate your attraction too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 12:59 PM |
| 1 | The uncomfortable truth in the dating realm: women have to be, men have to become.Knowing you have to be in insane shape/handsome and super confident just to bed the same women tall guys get for just existing There are no fat slobs getting laid left and right just because they're tall. Your problem is you want something you can't have. Beautiful women have standards and you don't meet those standards because of your height. Your choices are to slum it or be alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 12:51 PM |
| 1 | The uncomfortable truth in the dating realm: women have to be, men have to become.they are either dating pigs or they’re alone So you have a choice! You are not as alone as you think you are, you can date pigs too or you can be alone. No worthwhile woman wants to end up with a “short guy”. For myself, yes, I can 100% agree. If I had two men to choose from who were otherwise identical and both fulfilled my list of requirements, I would go for the taller man, unless he was freakishly tall like 2m or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 12:48 PM |
| 2 | The uncomfortable truth in the dating realm: women have to be, men have to become.Isn't this something ALL short people struggle with? Short men just have the added "difficulty" of finding a partner. https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/health-news/tall-people-more-likely-be-successful-life-study-find-a6919431.html https://www.apa.org/monitor/julaug04/standing http://www.chinadaily.com.cn/lifestyle/2006-08/28/content_675747.htm https://www.sciencemag.org/news/2016/08/even-when-sitting-tall-people-are-better-judging-distance There are so many detriments… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 12:46 PM |
| 2 | I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable?Which of those preferences are not conducive to a long lasting relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 07:58 AM |
| 2 | I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable?Everyone dies alone, especially women since they outlive their husbands most often. Dying alone is preferable to being with someone you resent, and even OP of the original list said it herself that she didn't mind being single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 07:09 AM |
| 3 | I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable?I mean, I would feel totally OK with that? I looked at her list and those are qualities I myself posses, apart from the pets thing. I don't like animals inside the house and I really do not like dog smell. So if a dude had that as a deal breaker, that would be 100% fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 07:07 AM |
| 1 | Does a woman being funny change her value in relationships at all?Weather can be funny. Just couch it in different terms. I made a 100% clean and non-anti-Semitic joke about the rain earlier today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Does a woman being funny change her value in relationships at all?I just wonder if many men value or appreciate this kind of characteristic in a woman. Nope, they only care if she laughs at their jokes. Her being "funny" means she laughs when he says "Haha, politics go brrrr". Males don't find women funny at all. It's actually very funny how although women have never been top in stand-up comedy, they are very frequently considered extremely good comedy writers, that is until the males figure out a woman wrote what they like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 12:14 PM |
| 3 | Every damn time..but oh coincidence, they have never met one, none of their male friends are, never have seen one... not even all those obviously other misogynist comments wrote by their fellow men in the same thread It's why my most trusted male confidant is my 22 year old brother, I don't know how it went right but that young boy is conscious, aware and shuts down any anti-woman talk. His GF (it probably won't last, they're both young and funny and figuring out their life) is lucky to have him as her training … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 04:16 PM |
| 1 | What are terms of endearment you use when you're interested?Thank you vennen! Had a bad experience with abuse so I can't have anyone monopolizing my time and policing my behaviors 24/7 again Bare hyggelig vennen! (it's a remark that means "no worries my dear") I think you have a great outlook on life and hope you continue to never allow anyone else to police your behaviour going forward 💕 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: what are your Big 5 Personality Traits?I have the opportunity to get into a lot of arguments too, but don't you ever think to yourself " nope, not worth it" and just walk away? I think part of being emotionally stable is the ability to say. "Nope, not my circus, not my monkeys" and to quietly disengage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 02:04 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: what are your Big 5 Personality Traits?I don't ascribe to judging people's personality off a test sheet but here is mine. Extroversion 96 Emotional stability 93 Agreeableness 71 Conscientiousness 98 Intellect/Imagination 96 I guess it fits me when I read the trait description, but this is just horoscope reading by any other name. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 01:53 PM |
| 1 | What are terms of endearment you use when you're interested?Someone with similar tastes and big on individualism. I'm not even sure if I wanna live with an SO again. It might be practical but may not offer enough space for some You seem like a sensible man with his head on straight, I'm not sure you've heard this before, but stick to your convictions. It's better to be alone than to be with someone you resent. As for the topic at hand, I agree with the other poster who said she'd use their name when texting them. There is using casual phrases like "babe"… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 06:35 AM |
| 1 | What are terms of endearment you use when you're interested?Ah, sorry, I might have misunderstood your premise. That sucks, as for the ones you're referring to, try using just their names like another poster suggested. Starting to use pet names in a platonic relationship can be a bit difficult especially if it's a new thing you've started with. At least one of them would want to date me but the compatibility issues are too much. It's good that you're thinking about the compatibility issues straight off the bat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 05:33 AM |
| 3 | What are terms of endearment you use when you're interested?That's the nice thing about being MGTOW. I can say to a 9 in yoga pants and a sports bras: "Hey lady, Back of the line." You're MGTOW, there is no line. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 05:19 AM |
| 1 | What are terms of endearment you use when you're interested?Call her babster, chicks dig that, or you can call her something sweet and silly like smoothie, sweetnose, favourite flavour etc. It really depends on how old you guys are too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 05:17 AM |
| 2 | Dating over 30+English is not even my second language. Same here, so we are evenly matched. You didn't answer on the age of the women you are approaching / harassing. Are they closer to 19 or 30? I don't care if you're kicking it with 25+ year old when you yourself are 30 or even 35+. I just want young adults to be with other young adults. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 05:51 PM |
| -1 | Dating over 30+and i still have my hair, Location is important my dear. Hairy backs aren't attractive. Dating younger women has never been an issue for me or for any of my acquintances. * 30 and 25 is A-OK my dude, just leave the teenagers be OK? *Correction on the word because you as an over 30's man should know how to spell the word. Acquaintances | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Dating over 30+When their personal choice affects young adults who would be better off being with other young adults, that's when I shame them. I never quite understood why greasy male pubescent always try to run interference for greasy old males. I mean, you're the one being benefited by young women dating young men. It would be prudent for most sane and sensible adults, especially those over 40 to try to get their retirement in order. We live until 87 on average and for 20 of those years we shouldn't be work… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Dating over 30+Still, technically, a cuck, That's not how technicality works. If he were a cuck, he would be watching, enjoying OR have experienced his wife running out on him. I thought you males were good with logic? If we could get away with it, we would absolutely practice infanticide. Yeah, males hate children. They especially hate female children, which is why two of the most populous nations on earth have a huge problem with "not enough women". I'm glad we had this talk, it re-assured me in my belief th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Dating over 30+You're a pauper my dear, calm yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 04:29 PM |
| 3 | Dating over 30+Maybe that 40 year old should invest in their pension plan instead of pursuing young adults. He's 30 years away from either nursing home or death. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Dating over 30+Mine's a lot better. It obviously isn't. You're dissing a guy for having what he wants. Emasculating him by calling him a cuck. I remember males saying something about lacking "support" in the choices they make in life. Maybe you should start supporting the bro's in your life if you think they're being so "used". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Dating over 30+All negated by the fact that the 20 year old has the pussy and controls access to it. She is still a 20 year old. A 40 year old has more leverage. it's not a problem for younger women WHO DO WANT older men. You mean sugar babies? Sure go ahead, just make it clear upfront that that's what you meant. Attraction cannot be negotiated and it is a FACT that most men look their best in their 20's too, it's only in their late 20's that they start to develop more of those horrible male traits like baldin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 03:05 PM |
| 4 | Dating over 30+And you're a redpiller. That didn't stop me from replying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 02:58 PM |
| 3 | Dating over 30+They hate the truth, but it's right there! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Dating over 30+It's also the reason why you're not demanding a BJ from your boys when you take them for lunch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 02:55 PM |
| 5 | Dating over 30+Women grow up faster than men in their teens and 20s but after that their mental development is pretty much stunted or goes downhill from there. Source on this bullcrap please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 02:52 PM |
| 4 | Dating over 30+Because, males have told us from time immemorial that what you value in women is youth and good looks. That's it. That's all you value from us. Even on TRP, women are only valued for their looks and their youth. Are you going to convince all the women that males are now suddenly into ripped jeans, k-pop, ombre's and sepia colour schemes so now they're thirsting to talk about that with women who understand them? lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 02:49 PM |
| 3 | Dating over 30+I'm sorry, I'm not sure I understand. You want 20 year olds fucking 40 year olds and it's not even for marriage? Is it at least for money? Why else would a young, spry and gorgeous pseudo child be fucking a 40 year old lol. What does a 40 year old have that a 25 year old doesn't apart from money? and even then, a 25 year old with no money is leagues better looking than a 40 year old. Attraction cannot be negotiated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Dating over 30+Lets look at a 5 year age gap, that's reasonable. How about if one is 10 and the other is 15, do you think that is a fair age gap for dating?Do you think that maybe the 15 year old has more "power" than the 10 year old? How about a 10 year gap, this time 10 and 20, do you find something wrong with this? Why? Ok, lets adjust, 16 and 26, do you think the older partner is maybe more developed, more sure of themselves and has more "power" than the younger? I hope you're not an idiot who doesn't unde… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Dating over 30+How is he a cuck? Her kids are great, which comes from good parenting, she herself is probably OK since your co-worker is with her. And yet, he is a cuck?! How? Is it because sometimes he spends time with people his wife birthed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 01:47 PM |
| 8 | Dating over 30+If a woman in her early 20s wants men in their late 30s-early 40s, what's the problem? Why can't she have what she wants? She can, but you have to understand the fact that most young women DO NOT WANT old men. Most young women are repulsed by older men. Most young women are in a relationship with a man who is AT MOST 5 years older. Power imbalance? Are you serious? A 40 year old has lived longer, has more experience, has more leverage compared to a 20 year old. In addition to that, that type of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 01:43 PM |
| 77 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.Romcoms made by and for men. It was men instructing other men to ignore us and our decisions from the get go. "bUh DiSneY LiEd tO mE!" Yeah, and who were all those people making those disney movies? Men? There you go! Men lied to you about women! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 01:53 PM |
| 1 | The real reason some women are against porn, prostitution and pick mes has nothing to do with protecting their fellow women. It has to do with monopolising sexual pleasureBut you "do" want to strangle them :) If a woman is introducing her kids to strange men/offering up her kids so he will stay with her, that's accessory to child abuse and I would want to strangle that woman. I'm sure you would feel the same if a man was doing the same for his child molester girlfriend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 08:11 AM |
| 2 | The real reason some women are against porn, prostitution and pick mes has nothing to do with protecting their fellow women. It has to do with monopolising sexual pleasureThis is stupid. It just means that they support a person getting paid for what they do. Much like how I support seamstresses but would not support a sweatshop factory. In any case, I'm against OF too, doing porn is not empowering, the human body or it's organs should not be sold. Consent cannot be purchased. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 07:59 AM |
| 3 | The real reason some women are against porn, prostitution and pick mes has nothing to do with protecting their fellow women. It has to do with monopolising sexual pleasureOnly "child" sex dolls are banned. https://www.nbcmiami.com/news/local/mom-fights-to-ban-child-sex-dolls-after-daughters-likeness-was-used-for-one/2287435/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 07:46 AM |
| 1 | Why is a man’s biological desire towards women seen as “objectifying” aside from it just being harmless sexual attraction?Does it hurt your feelings? I mean, he is literally a meat shield. He provides protection against other males. That's his biological purpose. AMALT 😘 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/21 12:38 PM |
| 0 | When will dating ever get better for men in the United States?Either way you're insane. I hope you end up a single mom (most likely you will) so your kids can despise you. You were really hurt by my comment huh? It's okay darling, let it all out and tell me more about your revenge fantasies. 😘 Btw you can clone an egg you know. As if you could afford to clone an egg. Do us all a favor and go do something typically male🤞 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/21 04:40 AM |
| 0 | When will dating ever get better for men in the United States?You can outsource fertile eggs from a 6 ft girl too That's going to cost you a lot more. Firstly, there is the whole donation part. You have to entice young beautiful AND smart women to give up their eggs. Then there is the fact that egg harvesting is a seriously invasive procedure. The companies selling eggs will be charging a lot! That's not gonna change in our society unless prostitution is legalized. Even here there is a sellers market. There are fewer women selling sex than men buying. That… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/21 01:59 PM |
| 0 | When will dating ever get better for men in the United States?When artificial wombs are created. This will just encourage more women to outsource the biological process of pregnancy and birth lol. If anything, it will further encourage women to have casual sex while young, get a mcjob at a mcoffice making some power point presentations about "synergy", save up for an artifical womb and get your egg + sperm from a young 22 year old, 6ft tall college athlete = baby! Yey! This is the future I want, and I'm pretty sure salty cumbrains will still remain salty o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/21 07:49 AM |
| 1 | Are men who are effected by the unfairness of sexual relationships socialists of the dating world ?How does that excuse them for being a net negative on taxes? So women should no longer bear children then? Anyway, that's irrelevant. Them being a net negative shows how their choices are being subsidized by men. It's not irrelevant. It's the reason WHY you can use those stats to say women are a net negative. The only possible solution for women to NOT be net negative tax contributors is to die younger and not have children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 11:16 AM |
| 0 | What's an advantage that the opposite sex takes for granted?https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Glass_escalator he just needs to slum it out on the floor for a bit, he'll be in admin soon enough and he can complain more about how he had to have an assistant with him when doing personal care for patients because males have and still rape female patients. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Are men who are effected by the unfairness of sexual relationships socialists of the dating world ?Women are a net negative on taxes. Women live longer than men, women birth children, and women take time out from work to nurse those children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 10:36 AM |
| 2 | Are men who are effected by the unfairness of sexual relationships socialists of the dating world ?It's not about penthouse or a suburban house. It's about eating at a fancy restaurant vs eating a hot dog off the floor vs eating at home (being single). Of course, If my options are eating pavement hot dogs, I'd rather stay at home and cook and start looking for places to adopt a cat from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 10:33 AM |
| 2 | AskMen post discussionHow is it funny? having a GF is not as important as having a job. A job , no matter how low paying, is still enabling you to buy food and rent a shelter. A GF does none of that, having a relationship is not a need to the same degree as having a job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 10:12 AM |
| 3 | AskMen post discussionA highly planned, yet cheap date that comes to mind, is going on a "historical walk". Many cities advertise their historic landmarks and as a plus, most of them are free to view from the outside. Plan a walk looking at historical buildings together (if you are both into architecture). You can also focus on street art (So many cities have fantastic murals that are nice to look at if you are both into art) There are also a lot of "free bands" that play outdoors these days, take a musical tour arou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 10:07 AM |
| 2 | How sex surrogates are helping injured Israeli soldiersThis is the most famous case I can think of. https://www.reddit.com/r/todayilearned/comments/6p3q5z/til_an_orangutan_named_pony_was_used_as_a_sex/ I doubt women were the ones fucking a shaved Orangutan kept in a brothel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 06:00 AM |
| 4 | Why do men have such low and underdeveloped standards?I hold the same opinion of black males as I do white males and Asian males. So if a couple of guys went on a rampage, all lonely men are potential rapists? Dude, we're on PPD, some women doing porn is proof of all women being degenerate whores. All males are rapists or potential rapists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/21 12:22 PM |
| 1 | During your college/school years, which was more important to you, your education or sex/dating life?Education, without a doubt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/21 12:19 PM |
| 1 | How physically attracted to you does a man need to be?Who is Chad? You'll find women who love skinny, broke artists with hair and buff, blue collar baldies with no hair. That's because women are not a monolith. The magazines you read, the movies you watch were made by men for men, even the romantic comedies (especially the romantic comedies, have you SEEN Adam Sandler movies?!) Yes, we are attracted to attractive males. NO, 45 year old Josh who just got rich of bitcoin and spends his early retirement day trading and "looks maxxing" is NOT my cup of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/21 12:03 PM |
| 2 | How physically attracted to you does a man need to be?most desired Most desired BY HIM. Not by others. If I'm with a man and he doesn't desire me more than other women, then we are incompatible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/21 11:53 AM |
| 4 | Why do men have such low and underdeveloped standards?The sheer lack of independence is horrifying. You're right! I think a lot of youngesters have been inundated with the idea that independence is only financial. In truth, being independent means you can fix things on your own and you know how to delay gratification. Saving and investing are great for young people, and the younger you are the more risk you can take on in your portfolio. The absolute, most important part (imo) is taking care of items you've already bought. It actually saves you mon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/21 11:24 AM |
| 0 | Jordan peterson said that it's common for women to have affairs with high status men. Is this accurate?Would you trust an addict to tell you how to live? If that's you, that's OK. I just hope you don't follow other " Do as I say, not as I do" people. That would be detrimental to your well being as a human. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/21 11:04 AM |
| 4 | Why do men have such low and underdeveloped standards?Agreed! Btw, love the flair. If only eh? My country sort of dismantled the home-economics classes back in the early 2000's and I didn't know until one of the kids under my tutelage didn't know how to sew back a button on his blazer. Both boys and girls in my generation (millennial) learned how to mend their clothes and do simple repairs like sewing a button back on. He didn't even know HOW to sew. Disgusting. Don't worry though, I bought him a mending kit and taught him the rudimentary of sewing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/21 10:31 AM |
| 7 | Why do men have such low and underdeveloped standards?And the reason for all but one of those things you listed is women's behavior Do men lack agency? What exactly have women done for men to act this way? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/21 10:12 AM |
| 8 | Why do men have such low and underdeveloped standards?If the Herbivore men phenomena took off in the west, it would be an awesome spectacle. I think it would be just fine? Most women, other than those consumed by the need to procreate are OK with being alone. They'll just vent to their girlfriends, get some pets/plants and have boxed wine for dinner a few more times. They certainly won't be comitting any crimes as a result of "men refusing" them. I'm worried about males going on violent rampages because society didn't supply them with a bangmaid. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/21 10:11 AM |
| 7 | Why do men have such low and underdeveloped standards?Everyone should be forced to take home-economics (how taxes are worked out, how to budget, how credit works, how to cook cheap, simple and healthy meals, how to do simple repairs, how to operate and identify common faults in household machines, how to clean and air out your home to prevent/mitigate mold and bugs) We as humanity would be better off for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/21 10:06 AM |
| 7 | Do you consider yourself to be a good catch? Do you think the typical person would consider him/herself lucky to have you as a partner?Nope, for the vast majority of males I am not a great catch at all. I'm obstinate, stubborn, I place a lot of value in my career. I am also childfree. What traits do you possess that make you a lucky catch for a relationship? On paper, I'm a thin, athletic woman, low n-count, facially very feminine (neotenos features) a nice voice, financially stable, polite and courteous. My personality however is very jarring compared to what I look like. So, physically, yes, most males would probably date me,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/21 10:00 AM |
| 6 | If women are financially independent these days, why don't more of them date younger men?Leonardo decaprio Eww, fat baby face! He looked the best when he was in his 20's and has HEAVILY declined since then. The only good thing he has are his hair and maybe a nice butt. Idris Elba is a timeless heartthrob, he has that Jeff Goldblum charisma but even you can't deny that both those men their best 20 years ago. Most 20 something year old guys won't find a 40 something year old woman attractive Have you SEEN Marissa Tomei, Halle Berry, Colbie Smolders (39) Salma Hayek? (granted they too … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/21 09:24 AM |
| 1 | The technological threat to relationships won't be sexbots, but artificial intelligence companionsimpossible to predict or stop. I don't think it should be stopped. I'm very much in favour of MGTOW. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 05:39 AM |
| 1 | The technological threat to relationships won't be sexbots, but artificial intelligence companionsSeparatism! You know, like Going your own way before males started appropriating it. Grab the popcorn! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 10:22 AM |
| 3 | CMV: It is a total myth that male friendship is "real friendship" and that women aren't good friends to each other. There is actually evidence that the opposite might be the case: Men are not good friends to each other and usually rely on women for emotional supportThis must have left a deep scar, no? From your own writing, sounds like a dismissive attitude towards a father figure, which has high chances of manifesting in your attitude to any and all males you'll "have to endure" in your life. Perhaps it's what lead you (I certainly do see it being the case) to the misplaced notion that Keep trying to triangulate me. My parents were lovely parents but seeing their flaws as human beings is just a part of growing up. You should try that sometime. Maybe you'l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/21 07:53 AM |
| 3 | CMV: It is a total myth that male friendship is "real friendship" and that women aren't good friends to each other. There is actually evidence that the opposite might be the case: Men are not good friends to each other and usually rely on women for emotional support. You missed a period. If you were a woman you would have known. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/21 07:24 AM |
| 7 | CMV: It is a total myth that male friendship is "real friendship" and that women aren't good friends to each other. There is actually evidence that the opposite might be the case: Men are not good friends to each other and usually rely on women for emotional supportuh huh, I've seen a lot of true crime, so that must mean all males are out to kill their GF's and wives. Now, why did that make you so mad? Very telling. I don't think you understand what mad is, it's OK, males have difficulties with written speech and language in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/21 07:17 AM |
| 1 | CMV: It is a total myth that male friendship is "real friendship" and that women aren't good friends to each other. There is actually evidence that the opposite might be the case: Men are not good friends to each other and usually rely on women for emotional supportLol, if you read further you would know my father was very present in my life as was my mother. It is however painfully obvious that males do NOT take childcare seriously. I'm only quoting statistics darling. I flourish in all that I do 😘 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/21 07:15 AM |
| 5 | CMV: It is a total myth that male friendship is "real friendship" and that women aren't good friends to each other. There is actually evidence that the opposite might be the case: Men are not good friends to each other and usually rely on women for emotional supportWhy would you ever rely on friends for intimacy or emotional support? Why wouldn't you? Your friends are your peers, they are social group there to help you and you help them in turn. If one of your friends has a bad break up and is feeling lonely, don't you feel compelled to either go to them or ask them to come to you so you can comfort them? That's intimacy and emotional support. If one of your friends had a death in their family, wouldn't you offer condolences, cook something for them or cle… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/21 07:11 AM |
| 4 | CMV: It is a total myth that male friendship is "real friendship" and that women aren't good friends to each other. There is actually evidence that the opposite might be the case: Men are not good friends to each other and usually rely on women for emotional supportAnd sad to hear about your dad. I'm sure you and other single girls from your group womanned up AF and carried him through the bad times. Right? Most males don't bother to connect with their children either. Luckily, my father (He is a benevolent misogynist) actually took interest in me as a human being and if my parents were to ever be divorced, I would 100% be there for him and for my mother. In any case, my father DOES rely on my mother to organize all social events for him. She tells him whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/21 07:02 AM |
| 4 | CMV: It is a total myth that male friendship is "real friendship" and that women aren't good friends to each other. There is actually evidence that the opposite might be the case: Men are not good friends to each other and usually rely on women for emotional supportYou mean to say your family won't come to your aid when you need them? I have more friends than family members, but I know for a fact that each and every one of them would support me. Even those I've called fat. If I got cancer today, lost my job, my pets and had to pay for all treatment out of pocket, my life really wouldn't change, because my friends and family would step up. When I die, I will either have out lived everyone or my niece and nephew will be there to hold my hand hopefully with c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/21 06:51 AM |
| 11 | CMV: It is a total myth that male friendship is "real friendship" and that women aren't good friends to each other. There is actually evidence that the opposite might be the case: Men are not good friends to each other and usually rely on women for emotional supportGo to the army, a police station or a group of rescue or firefighters. Plenty of guys there that would give their lives to save your sorry ass and their country's https://www.washingtonpost.com/world/2021/03/19/france-firefighters-consent-julie/ https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-england-leeds-56404920 https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Daniel_Holtzclaw https://www.yorkshirepost.co.uk/news/crime/west-yorkshire-police-officer-charged-with-rape-and-sexual-assault-3166262 https://www.justice.gov/opa/pr/former-… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/21 06:44 AM |
| 10 | CMV: It is a total myth that male friendship is "real friendship" and that women aren't good friends to each other. There is actually evidence that the opposite might be the case: Men are not good friends to each other and usually rely on women for emotional supportThis must be a male fantasy or something, because it keeps happening in MOVIES. I have 5 friends that I've had for 15 years or more I have 1 best friend. We all make time for each other, we all invite each other in turn to do things, during the pandemic it has been book club online and setting up a discord to just chat and hang out for a few hours. Sometimes we would meet in parks, keeping social distance and still sitting around talking about everything. You are not privy to the relationships w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/21 06:29 AM |
| 2 | If your man watches porn because he has limited to no access to sex with you, there is a 0% chance that you can pity yourself for the situation you got into.I'm against pornography for ethical reasons. I do not adhere to lib-fem "choice" feminism. I do not believe you as a person should be allowed to sell your physical pain as entertainment. It's the same reason why I am against American Football (the brain damage those young boys get is horrific) I am also against boxing as a sport (brain injury is common, particularly in gloved boxing) It's also why I am against the selling of human organs, poor people would sell their extra kidney, or a piece of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/21 06:14 AM |
| 0 | Why is a man’s biological desire towards women seen as “objectifying” aside from it just being harmless sexual attraction?I have a meat shield, so most of the time it's OK. That's actually one of the things males are good for, protection against other males. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/21 05:34 AM |
| 3 | Why is a man’s biological desire towards women seen as “objectifying” aside from it just being harmless sexual attraction?Your hatred is simply prima facie evidence that you lack the empathy you just claimed you had. Males and women fundamentally do not understand each other. My ignoring males, being cordial to those I have to interact with and otherwise just existing is hatred to you. I consider actual physical harm and the proliferation of abuse by males towards everyone in society to be hatred. You’re a riot. Thanks boo-boo, try not to rage out at your video games later 😘 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/21 05:29 AM |
| 3 | Why is a man’s biological desire towards women seen as “objectifying” aside from it just being harmless sexual attraction?My hatred doesn't hurt them, just as much as their staring doesn't hurt me. I don't understand what the problem is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/21 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Why is a man’s biological desire towards women seen as “objectifying” aside from it just being harmless sexual attraction?Darling, that's you though. How do I know that the complete stranger WONT jump in my face and tell me they they're thinking about paw-patrol and how it is cop-propaganda?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/21 03:52 PM |
| 3 | Why is a man’s biological desire towards women seen as “objectifying” aside from it just being harmless sexual attraction?I'm glad we agree, and I'm glad you understand that you would not like that to happen to you either. Problem is, there is very little time between those glares/oglings that you males are so fond of and the catcalling that follows. Do you agree with me then, that it's better for all women to ignore all glares, glances, ogling, even if they make her uncomfortable and instead make it so that there is as much space as possible between her and the male in question? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/21 03:33 PM |
| 3 | Why is a man’s biological desire towards women seen as “objectifying” aside from it just being harmless sexual attraction?murder also happens on the regular but nobody would consider murder a normal everyday thing. I'm not being murdered everyday, I'm also not experiencing those horrible situations everyday. It happens often enough and for so long from so many different males that I've just stopped caring. I've just come to accept that males want to be horrible to all women around them. and i dont think the unwanted attention of a gay man is harrasing or threating ... when the person just looks ... nothing bad. Pay… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/21 03:20 PM |
| 6 | Why is a man’s biological desire towards women seen as “objectifying” aside from it just being harmless sexual attraction?A whore is a woman making money with sex. For this she dresses to evoke lust in men. I see, so girls wearing school uniforms are dressing like whores then? That's when I got the most cat calls... I'm 100% certain I do not wear a whore uniform, I wear pant suits and skirt suits. I'm still catcalled. Even in a puff jacket that went all the way down to my knees I was cat called in January. The only actually good deterrent against cat calling is being arm in arm with another man. Then it doesn't mat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/21 02:58 PM |
| 6 | Why is a man’s biological desire towards women seen as “objectifying” aside from it just being harmless sexual attraction?Even if you do notice his noticing or looking, that shouldn't bother you, because that's what men do. It does bother me, but I ignore it. I'm smaller than them and weaker than them so I can't psychically DO anything. But I do notice and it makes me hate the males who do it. You don't get to demand that men change because their noticing or looking at your body makes you uncomfortable. I know this, because you males have told me this countless times. It does not change how I feel about it though. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/21 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Why is a man’s biological desire towards women seen as “objectifying” aside from it just being harmless sexual attraction?Not at work and not to strangers and most def not to family members. Express your sexuality to those you are dating. Think of it like shitting or pissing, you don't piss where you stand, you wait until you are in the right room to do so. Same with shitting. Your sexual urges are primary urges like the need to eat. But you don't go on a frenzy at the food court, you decide what you want, you say your order politely, you pay and get your food and you sit down to eat it while chewing with your mout… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/21 02:36 PM |
| 3 | Why is a man’s biological desire towards women seen as “objectifying” aside from it just being harmless sexual attraction?Hey, it's me! I'm that type of feminist! Only fans grooms kids into being toys for adults. I don't think people will care until OF starts advertising this to Gay-for-Pay straight young boys. Homophobia is very strong with most men, and although they would not accept their daughters becoming whores, they will accept it even less of their sons. I am banking on OF being sued to smithereens by the father of a 14 year old boy who somehow got on the platform. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/21 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Why is a man’s biological desire towards women seen as “objectifying” aside from it just being harmless sexual attraction?Not the person you asked, but I do. Which is why I don't comment on their bodies in derogatory ways in passing. I'll ask males around me how their day was, if their weekend was good, let them know their shoes are nice or need buffing, you know, cordial, polite, friendly conversation. I don't express my sexuality to them and I expect them to do the same. The way adults behave you know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/21 02:16 PM |
| 9 | Why is a man’s biological desire towards women seen as “objectifying” aside from it just being harmless sexual attraction?More than half of college age men admit to coercing women into sex, https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/to-your-health/wp/2016/06/03/more-than-half-of-college-athletes-surveyed-at-one-university-admit-coercing-a-partner-into-sex/ A third admit that they would rape a woman if they could get away with it. https://archive.thinkprogress.org/1-in-3-college-men-in-survey-say-they-would-rape-a-woman-if-they-could-get-away-with-it-ffa7406b9778/ Males hurt women physically. to get out of paying for a din… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/21 02:11 PM |
| 7 | Why is a man’s biological desire towards women seen as “objectifying” aside from it just being harmless sexual attraction?It's not extreme cases, this shit happens on the regular. It's not everyday, but it IS at least 2-3 times a month. This shit starts at age 11-12-13 and it was always the worst whenever I wore clothes that showed I was a girl (school uniform) When I walked around in basketball shorts, or in my football uniform on washing days I NEVER got harassed by adult males. We've lived two completely separate lives, and it is separated by your genders absolute need to subjugate mine. You won't listen to us w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/21 01:57 PM |
| 15 | Why is a man’s biological desire towards women seen as “objectifying” aside from it just being harmless sexual attraction?Trust me - most of the time, you have no idea at all when men are ogling or leering at you. You know about maybe 10% of that. You don't even see the vast majority Trust me- we do, we just ignore it. It won't do any good to confront it and the best thing to do is to walk away and put distance between you and the ogler. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/21 01:47 PM |
| 8 | Why is a man’s biological desire towards women seen as “objectifying” aside from it just being harmless sexual attraction?If you allow dressing that way it's only natural men stare and objectify. Males need to be confined somewhere. The eyes of males who stare and objectify should be plucked. That lust/thirst stirring in them could be stilled. We as a society cannot allow males to walk freely without blinkers on! Btw, what does it mean to dress like a whore? If a woman wears male running attire, is she a whore? You males sexualize everything we wear to such a degree that even wearing veils is now a "turn on". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/21 01:43 PM |
| 2 | As a man with low libido, my dating experience is way better than a normal man's.100% agree. Women masturbate a lot more than having sex. The upsides of masturbation is just far beyond what you can expect of a man at all times. Orgasms are great, and if I can't get that with sex, I would rather masturbate to fanfiction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/21 12:35 PM |
| 0 | As a man with low libido, my dating experience is way better than a normal man's.Are you a male? If and when prostitution is legalized as a service on par with flipping burgers, there will be no re-course for anyone to ever refuse a job at a brothel if it is part of receiving benefits. (In many EU/EEC countries, if you don't have a job and are receiving benefits, you must take jobs that you are qualified for) Brothels are sorely lacking young males, if you were a 19 year old boy, who lost his job in this pandemic, would you take up prostitution as your job? Let's not be coy,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/21 12:29 PM |
| 1 | The genders live different realities (socially) and no middle ground can be foundangry sad people. Why are you so angry and sad? You are not oppressed just because women won' fuck you. You are not oppressed by women, OTHER MEN are the ones robbing, raping, beating you and in charge of the injustice system that places you in jail for non-violent offences. If you are so sad and angry, maybe you should do what feminists have done and lobby for justice reform, seek out male focused therapy groups and talk to other men about how to improve your life and emotional well being. I do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 07:54 AM |
| 1 | The genders live different realities (socially) and no middle ground can be foundDon't you think that's a good solution though? I personally am very against casual sex, and the type of people who are into casual sex are low-inhib, which makes them (both women and male) more likely to abandon their kids. It's better to just have free abortion and free vasectomies (with the opportunity of retaining sperm on hold cost free until at least the age of 35). It would make for a better family planning program for all, and we could then be more accurate with our population expectation… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 03:44 PM |
| 1 | The genders live different realities (socially) and no middle ground can be foundSure, go ahead. It would make it easier to finally enact separatism, the countries where abortion is legal could sponsor visas for women from countries where it is banned and ta-da! Men and anti-choice women get their cake and they can eat it too! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 03:28 PM |
| 1 | The genders live different realities (socially) and no middle ground can be foundSo? Gay for pay exists, get that money baby, unless you think sex work is not empowering? 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 03:25 PM |
| 2 | For men who feel lied to by society about women, can you give examples of things in popular culture you feel mislead you?Yes you do. Women compete by becoming the most sexually attractive. You win by maintaining the continued commitment of a HVM. Which you only care about to show off to other women. You fail to recognize that I am a human being and my worth is intrinsic in my humanity. I don't want to be sexualised any more than you want to be killed. How would you feel if men only wanted you not because they actually cared about who you are, but so they could show off to their friends and keep up tmwoth the jones… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 03:24 PM |
| -1 | The genders live different realities (socially) and no middle ground can be foundI know, I'm just being contentious for the fun of it and also to bother males :) Edited: Most males wouldn't, but plenty of males already do. So if I were to judge males by their most common miscreant behavior, I should be taking this into account. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 03:03 PM |
| 1 | The genders live different realities (socially) and no middle ground can be foundImpossible to be impregnated with a hysterectomy. The equivalent would be a tubal ligation, because even then a woman might experience an ectopic pregnancy. Good try though! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 03:02 PM |
| 1 | The genders live different realities (socially) and no middle ground can be foundBut women have the same experience as homeless males, they just have the added benefit of taking dick. Why won't you be a woman and get on that gravy train of money where all you have to do is take dick? Are you saying that taking dick is NOT a benefit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 03:00 PM |
| 1 | The genders live different realities (socially) and no middle ground can be foundBut one is worse no? I know if you asked me point blank which I would rather be, I would choose to be a homeless male. You know you would choose it too, unless you would thrive in an environment where you would have to take dicks all day every day 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 02:41 PM |
| 0 | The genders live different realities (socially) and no middle ground can be foundThey do, it's called a bride price / dowry depending on where you live. The bride price is what the daughters prospective husband pays for her hand in marriage. It's very common in the middle-east and in some other countries like Pakistan and Afghanistan. It means that males can sell their daughters to pay for schooling for their sons or even just to put food on the table for the rest of the family. Some Iranians even practice something called a Nikah mut'ah or pleasure marriage. It's basically … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 02:37 PM |
| 1 | if you shame women (not men) with high body counts, you shouldn't complain about 80% of women sleeping with the 20% of men.I'm not a casual sex type of person, so I can neither corroborate nor verify that statement. Maybe? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 01:13 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Red pill is just mostly scammers who are trying to take advantage of down on luck menFDS encourages block and delete, how is it "enjoying the decline" when you're actively minimizing the number of men you date? They also warn women against relying on men financially, he can buy you gifts but you should not rely on him paying your rent/food/bills/insurance etc. A dude buying my allergic ass flowers shows he just wants to flex, so I'd block him if I were dating. But then again, I've never been a proponent of choice feminism, I think sex work is degrading to women and girls as a cl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 12:48 PM |
| 1 | What’s your “area of improvement” or “detractor” when it comes to attracting the person you want?And if a girl wants to get to know me as a person, they either find it weird that I won‘t tell them about my family background and say that I‘m difficult to read or they drown me in pity after I opened up to them and won‘t let go from seeing me as a pitiful loser although I‘m a grown man, who overcame all the hardships of his youth and childhood. Telling them about my past completely changes their view on me and they can‘t see me as a sexually attractive man anymore. I never ask for their sympat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 12:19 PM |
| 7 | if you shame women (not men) with high body counts, you shouldn't complain about 80% of women sleeping with the 20% of men.Women would be discouraged from casual sex and using it in order to get commitment. Nah, women would rather just be single. Why settle when you can orgasm via vibrator, have friends and family to hug and work a simple desk job to feed yourself, your cats, your wine and book addiction? Plus, no male to pick up after. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 11:36 AM |
| 2 | The genders live different realities (socially) and no middle ground can be found– if feminism is about equality why are feminists not fighting for men to be removed from the draft list? OR why do feminists fight to prevent woman from being drafted into wars? Bullshit, feminists have been working this in two seperate schools of thought. One that is pro-draft Including women, (As president Joe Biden has said he would do) and one against all drafting of anyone regardless of sex. https://hasbrouck.org/draft/women/feminism.html – if feminism is about equality – why do men receiv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 11:15 AM |
| 1 | The genders live different realities (socially) and no middle ground can be foundSo you look upon that time as "good" for all mankind? Even though women were oppressed? This is why I try to not have any empathy for males. They would sell their own daughters (still do, if they don't kill them first) just to get a bit more of the creature comforts. What happened to the whole live free or die trying thing you males are such advocates for? Does it not occur to you that women have those feelings too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 10:38 AM |
| 1 | The genders live different realities (socially) and no middle ground can be foundwomen have a much easier life on the bottom Would you like to be a homeless woman in India/Pakistan or a homeless male in India/Pakistan? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 10:32 AM |
| 0 | The genders live different realities (socially) and no middle ground can be foundPaper abortion should only be available to men who have a vasectomy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 10:19 AM |
| 0 | The genders live different realities (socially) and no middle ground can be foundThey no touch pee-pee! Males are oppressed because now women can choose who to have sex with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 10:18 AM |
| -1 | The genders live different realities (socially) and no middle ground can be foundthey were spoon fed from birth that men want to hold them down and oppress them Hmmm, It might have something to do with history and the current status of the world. You personally don't have the power to oppress women, but many men do, and boy do they love it! Just take a look at countries outside of the west and you will see how great males are. And if you look back just 80-100 years before in the west, women had the exact same struggles then as those women do now. Men hate women to a degree t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 10:16 AM |
| 0 | The genders live different realities (socially) and no middle ground can be foundYou don't have to care about it, just leave us alone. Seriously, most women just want men to leave them alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 10:13 AM |
| 0 | The genders live different realities (socially) and no middle ground can be foundI want revenge. For what? That other men rob you? Other men murder you? Other men keep your wages down? Other men control the media around you? Other men control the religion around you and tell you to feel bad unless you do what their MALE deity days? I personally want men to go their own way. I harbor no ill intent towards most men, mostly I just want them to not talk to me. You as a male want some sort of "revenge" because what? A woman crossed the street when you were walking in the same dir… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 10:12 AM |
| 2 | For men who feel lied to by society about women, can you give examples of things in popular culture you feel mislead you?"uhh yeah? How were you not aware of this? Whats the problem exactly?" The problem is that women in a patriarchy don't get to compete. They are only objects for men to attain. The most patriarchal societies in the world are heavily influenced by religion and such will restrict women in ways it does not restrict men. It curtails their movements, their ability to learn or earn anything for themselves. It makes them dependent on the moods of men for their everyday survival. That's the problem. Woul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 08:09 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women: How exactly are men supposed to improve themselves even further?Wage slaves. Aren't the men in traditional society wage slaves? What makes it "better" for them to be wage slaves than when women are wage slaves? I think you're just upset because women don't need men to eat a meal, get a bank loan, work a job, get an education or anything else that men have kept away from women BY FORCE. It's better to be single and a wage slave than being an unpaid, bangmaid broodmare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 08:12 AM |
| 2 | How many "options" do you personally have?I guess one could call me above average in attractiveness, that alone makes the offers of dick plentiful. I have attracted men of different social strata, young, old, accomplished, attractive, not attractive etc. I don't do anything to deliberately attract men, I am however a very social person IRL (charity work, outreach programs for youth, arranging orienteering events) So, I meet a lot of men IRL, and that's where I get most of the "asking out" stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 07:20 AM |
| 1 | [Q4M] Would you move to a foreign country to date women that are more (positively) receptive to you?A 55 year old woman pursuing men in their 20's is a predator. Women like that will abuse the young men, financially, emotionally and maybe even physically. An older adult should not be with a person they could realistically be the parent or the grandparent of. There is a huge power and expirience imbalance in that type of relationship. The older person can and will manipulate the younger one. I would 100% distance myself from a person of any gender who preys on those who are weaker than them. Ag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 07:10 AM |
| 2 | How many "options" do you personally have?Dick is abundant and of low value, so I don't ever bother with casual sex. For LTR, IRL, the sky is the limit. I've never actively dated on OLD, but I have made accounts just so see what it was like and it was HELL. Too many thirsty dudes, too many dick picks, too much eww. Also, wtf is up with all these 40-50 year olds who lie about their age? Their profile says 30 but then they say "I'm actually 44, but it won't let me change it, haha". Do you think you could realistically score a LTR with som… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 01:07 PM |
| 4 | Describe a 5/10 man and a 5/10 womanAre you male? For me, it's not hard to tell at all. I find that males have a harder time looking at a picture of a woman and seeing the make-up. She is wearing a full face of make-up. Next time you look at pictures of a woman that you think looks natural, try to see if you can see any pores or imperfections on the skin. Look at the eyes, dark liner at the top or the bottom is a tell tale sign, especially on white women. Look at the brows. She probably has used a brow pencil and brush, the straig… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 05:32 PM |
| 6 | Describe a 5/10 man and a 5/10 womannot wearing makeup either. She is wearing makeup. Her eyebrows are plucked and lined, she is wearing mascara, eyeliner and a "nude" lip color, def foundation and concealer. This is called a "no-make up" make-up look. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 09:09 AM |
| 1 | [Q4W] If your own son turns out to be short, doesn’t make a lot of money, and has a small johnson, what are you going to tell him when it comes to dating?wow, I didn't believe you that the average male height in Nigeria was that low, but it's true! I wonder why that is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 07:38 AM |
| 3 | What's going to change as many millenial women are now entering their late 30s/early 40s while still single?Even if you're both capable, competent and loving people, a set back like a miscarriage, death of close family member/friend, a major illness or accident can all set off a person. They can become depressed, addicted to pain meds after an accident, abusive because of stress at work etc. A happy life can be derailed very quickly, and that wonderful wife you married is not strung out on pain meds following issues after birth or your dear husband has become a gambling addict to cope with stress at w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 07:28 AM |
| 1 | Danger of legalizing prostitutionOk so if you need to see a nurse you need to go be a nurse first, if you want a fireman to put out your house you need to go put someone else house fire out. See how stupid it is? Healthcare is a need. Sex is not. You can and will die without healthcare. And yet you still buy and use services that cause illness and death to others just like we all do. Thats so disenginuous of you and you know it. Sex is not a need. if it were you would die without it. So you can absolutely treat sex work like an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Danger of legalizing prostitutionNo you have stupid proposal. Why can't we make that a prerequisite for visiting a prostitute? You said it yourself, we can mitigate the risks, we can treat them like nurses. If sex is such a need, they can get it twice. Is the health and safety of children and adults worth destroying for your new iphone,tv,car,clothes? Of course not, which is why I support workers rights and try to the best of my ability to buy products and do business with companies that pay their workers a living wage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Danger of legalizing prostitutionNurses and care home workers would like a word. They wear scrubs, gloves, and other protective gear. Risk to oneself is not the baseline of what can be considered a job. Hell most jobs nowadays are a risk to yourself. In all of those jobs, we try to mitigate that risk. In all of those jobs we encourage and ensure the safety of the workers. If you are injured on the job your employer can be sued for not following proper health and safety regulations. Are the clients going to be sued? The state? T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Danger of legalizing prostitutionit can never be like "any other legal profession". No other profession requires you to be in contact with the bodily fluids of others, risk STD's (condoms do not protect 100% against herpes) A risk of pregnancy and injury to your anus/vagina/penis due to the client requesting things like bdsm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 11:39 AM |
| -1 | Danger of legalizing prostitutionIt's a utilitarian trade off. We would only be making one problem slightly worse, but eliminating another huge problem altogether. Sexless men are on par as a "problem" as sex trafficking? lol. If sex is such a huge need, why won't men turn to other men for relief? A homeless person bunks in rooms with total strangers so they can have shelter for the night, a starving vegan will eat meat so they no longer starve. A sex less man (if sex really was a need) would have sex with men. Prostitutes are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 11:08 AM |
| 2 | Are women inherently more aware of male nature than men are of women’s?I think that's because you don't consider the stuff women do as "interesting". Plenty of women in their 20's are busy building up their social support network, joining book clubs, volunteering, crocheting/knitting/needlepoint/sewing, some have have hobbies devoted to collecting (things like, cups, plates) Some are very into fashion and make-up, spending their time practicing "looks", watching youtube vidoes/making youtube vidoes about it etc. True crime fans mostly women too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 08:23 AM |
| 5 | Are women inherently more aware of male nature than men are of women’s?Any Adam Sandler movie. There, I saved you money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 08:12 AM |
| 1 | [Q4M] Would you move to a foreign country to date women that are more (positively) receptive to you?What do you mean that it doesn't apply in the US? Women don't even have any adequate maternal leave after birth lol. The vast majority of men and women in the US rely on being a two-income or 1 and a half income household. Childcare in the US is exorbitant and plenty of women stay home with the child until school age or work part-time (giving her no benefits mind you) until they can go back to work again and STILL be the primary care-giver. You have absolutely no idea at all what you're talking … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 09:37 AM |
| 1 | [Q4M] Would you move to a foreign country to date women that are more (positively) receptive to you?Lol, This shows much more about how you think than anyone else. I've been to a lot of other countries and dated there. I can directly compare beliefs and attitudes. I can't really think of any other place than the US where so many women seem to think doing housework and spending time with their children is a horrible life draining burden. If it's not such a horrible, life draining burden, why won't you do it? I'll tell you plainly why it's a burden. Every year a woman is outside of the workforce… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 08:11 AM |
| 1 | [Q4M] Would you move to a foreign country to date women that are more (positively) receptive to you?It's a cope for you to believe every American going out there to date foreign women is doing it to control them. Truth is, American men (if they take care of themselves and aren't fat slobs) are the most desired in the world. American women aren't. lol, dude, American men are just as fat and slobbish as their female counterparts. And I would say the difference is you act like men, not women. What does "acting like men" mean in this? Does it mean being outspoken? Not taking shit from other people… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 08:05 AM |
| 1 | [Q4M] Would you move to a foreign country to date women that are more (positively) receptive to you?Have you ever traveled abroad once in your life?? Why do you think women abroad are necessarily all poor women that cannot get a job or go to school because they are women?? Have you ever been to another country? Don't play dumb with me, we both know those men aren't going to China, Singapore, S.Korea or Japan to try their luck. They're going to Vietnam, Thailand, Cambodia and the Philippines. And we both know it's because they can use their money to bribe young women with poor prospects to eith… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 08:00 AM |
| 2 | [Q4M] Would you move to a foreign country to date women that are more (positively) receptive to you?You just said western men contribute to the bad dating market Western men are not a monolith. Some are great, some are awful, the ones who seek women who don't have the means to get by are downright disgusting. And I’m sorry if you think that the women abroad over there are living in chains and are slaves so that you can convince yourself that they are being forced to be feminine.. Do you think any person wants to be the vessel of another? Can you frankly see yourself being subjugated and loving… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Why are both men and women flakey these days? Also do flakey people realize they burn bridges by being flakey?What type of flaking are you talking about? They type where people say "uhhhhh... yeah.... sure, let me just get back to you later" or the "Yes, Of course I will be there!" For the former, you as a properly socialised person should know that any time it's not an outright YES it's a maybe or a NO. If you had ever arranged a party you would know this. As for the latter, the people who outright say "YES!!" and then fail to turn up, those are in two camps, the ones who let you know in advance and th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 03:38 PM |
| 2 | [Q4M] Would you move to a foreign country to date women that are more (positively) receptive to you?Better dating prospects i.e more feminine and easier to be around women.. As in those women don't get a choice. They didn't live in a heated home with a fridge full of snacks. They toiled the fields and if they were pretty they were sold to brothels or to other men to keep food on the table for the rest of the family. This is an absolute fact. Western sexpats go to Thailand, Cambodia, Vietnam and the Philippines to exploit young sex workers sometimes rape 11-16 year olds. This is a fact. And tel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 03:16 PM |
| 1 | [Q4M] Would you move to a foreign country to date women that are more (positively) receptive to you?Then stay single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 03:07 PM |
| 2 | [Q4M] Would you move to a foreign country to date women that are more (positively) receptive to you?Well its also possible they might appreciate your physical traits more like being white in a country where white is not common could give you more of a niche appeal and being 5'9 in a country where the men are shorter could be more appreciated or at least less disadvantageous than being that height in a taller country. Stop lying to yourself, it's because of the cash and the prospect of leaving her shitty country behind. No woman would EVER start a relationship with a guy just because he was "oh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 03:05 PM |
| 2 | [Q4M] Would you move to a foreign country to date women that are more (positively) receptive to you?an average looking traditional type guy who is hard working and dependable So he is average looking, traditional in what sense? He mows the lawn once a week in the summer and sometimes shovels snow in the winter, leaving all the daily indoor time consuming tasks to his female partner? Working long hours, so he won't be there for childcare, he won't pick up the slack if you're sick because he isn't there. Dependable? No way. A man who lives to just work and be "traditional" is just going to ruin … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 02:48 PM |
| 0 | Q4W - how WOULD you structure society so that men and women and the future generations would EQUALLY be able to flourish into the future?most of those countries want to keep feminism OUT of their countries and what they do not want is western women bringing their ideas and culture into their country I don't want to get into politics either, but that's just blatantly false. Europe isn't just Hungary, Belarus, Romania, Poland and Russia. Estonia, Latvia, Finland, Sweden, Denmark, Norway, Germany, France, Spain, Italy, Croatia, Iceland, UK, Netherlands, Belgium, Luxembourg, Malta, Austria and Greece would welcome those women. That's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 05:13 PM |
| 1 | What is a superficially unattractive man from your point of view?They wear red caps, duh! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 08:52 AM |
| 0 | Q4W - how WOULD you structure society so that men and women and the future generations would EQUALLY be able to flourish into the future?your wife or g/f will despise you but needs you. Why would she need you? Unless jobs are taken from the women too? Women were saying they would leave the country if Trump got into office yet they stay anyways, shocker. There not going anywhere. People were saying the exact same thing when Obama was elected and yet they stayed too. That's not a woman only thing, that's a politics thing. Most women would leave. The only women who would even think of staying are those who are married, have children… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 05:58 AM |
| 2 | Q4W - how WOULD you structure society so that men and women and the future generations would EQUALLY be able to flourish into the future?I'm pragmatic like that. So, you agree, women get a head up that in 6-12 months time, all voting rights will expire for women? I think in the case that the welfare state is dismantled everyone, including women, get all their taxes back and women can use that to leave the country. You'll find very few women staying behind and practically any educated woman would head for the borders first, the wealthy would travel to Europe. I can imagine women from highly religious communities staying put though… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/21 03:22 PM |
| 4 | Q4W - how WOULD you structure society so that men and women and the future generations would EQUALLY be able to flourish into the future?Only if women have the opportunity to leave the country before it goes into effect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/21 02:38 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill is wrong about the SMV of menWtf is the beta game? The vast majority of people have 2-3 LTRs 2-4 hook-ups before meeting someone they marry and that happens in their late twenties. So, a relationship from 16-18, a hook-up after that ends, a new relationship from 19-22 2 new hook ups after that ends, and new relationship from 24-marriage. That's the timeline most men and women work with. some have very long dry spells in between. Something like 50% of women have had 1 one night stand, the sheer lack of women on dating apps s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 04:29 PM |
| 1 | What is your ideal body type for a potential partner?Ah, sorry, I thought males were always direct and honest with their opinions. Now you tell me they can be sarcastic as well? What ever will I do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 04:16 PM |
| 3 | What is your ideal body type for a potential partner?Everyone does. Does it taper though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 04:06 PM |
| 1 | What is your ideal body type for a potential partner?1: Attractive face 2: Good posture 3: 2-4 Inches taller than me 4: Beefy thighs and butt 5:Broad shoulders 6: Well defined forearms 7: Full head of hair In that order. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 04:04 PM |
| 1 | What is your ideal body type for a potential partner?It's not 5'7 guys complaining, it's guys in the 160cm range. Most men are taller than most women, that is a fact. Most women prefer a man taller than them and the average height of women in your country matters a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 03:53 PM |
| 5 | What is your ideal body type for a potential partner?A big butt when you're fat is like braggin about being green when you're a chlorophylled plant. A big butt only matters when you have a waist and I say this to men too. I like men with beefy glutes and thighs, but they need to be showing off that narrow pelvis and have a tapered waist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 03:43 PM |
| 1 | What is your ideal body type for a potential partner?A lot of tall men prefer to have relationships with taller than average women. That would be somewhere around 5'5-5'9 range. I myself am in a relationship a man who is 193cm so me being 175cm was a a specific trait that he was looking for in an LTR. Height matter to men too, she can't be too tall, but she also shouldn't be too short. I think a lot of us get confirmation bias because we look for things we don't have ourselves. I grew fast over 2 summers between ages 15-17 and saw a lot of shorter… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 03:35 PM |
| 3 | [Q4All]What was the thing that surprised you the most about the dating game as you gained experience?Men think women are flirting when they're being nice to them. This is how women act and behave around men who are not threatening i.e. married men. Of course, men being such a logicaltm gender think "She's smiling at me, she wants the D!" "Ever since I got married women are smiling at me! They even say hello back! THEY WANT DEEZ NUTS!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 06:18 AM |
| 2 | What do YOU bring to the table? What are your standards, and do you yourself satisfy those standards?Nope, I'm from a different western country, although I've spent time in the US. I still can't fathom they PAY for education. My country paid ME to study and the loans I got were for living costs even while in the US. Maybe it's their culture of "keeping up appearances"? I know I got a lot of slack and backtalk for wearing unfashionable clothes but now it's called being a hipster lol. I think a huge issue in the US is that wages have stagnated compared to inflation. A dollar 30 years ago is worth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 03:29 PM |
| 157 | This is the double bind society presents women with when we try to speak the truth about male pattern behaviour. If we call it out, it’s misandrist. But if we don’t call it out and end up getting harmed anyway, it’s our fault for not seeing the signs. Head men win, tails women lose. Again.They do this to children too. The most egregious case I have ever come across IRL was when the grandfather of an acquaintance of mine died. Her mother and her aunt both refused to go to the funeral. They were lambasted for it and a few years later I found out through the grapevine that it was because he had sexually molested them both when they were little kids. It was not reported, the girls were just sent away to live with their grand-aunt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 02:49 PM |
| 2 | What do YOU bring to the table? What are your standards, and do you yourself satisfy those standards?I'm sorry, but this must be a joke. 100usd/month is a joke. I live in a poorer country where average salary is €900/month and I'm easily able to invest more. Like I said, I didn't know what your situation was, this was aimed for someone who might have less money coming in. but riding a bike was still cheaper. Since I do a lot of running/sport and didn't like to be sweaty when getting around Yup, Riding a bike is dirt cheap, as for the getting sweaty part, I fortunately had access to gym and show… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 02:38 PM |
| 2 | [Q4All]What was the thing that surprised you the most about the dating game as you gained experience?12 rules was written before that. So he had the solution and still fucked up? lol Men are order because they exist in hierarchy, and that creates social order. Only reason they respect authority is by the threat of violence by other men. If women reacted as violently to being violated, they would respect women more. Unfortunately, women are timid and passive either by socialization or by nature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 02:31 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All]What was the thing that surprised you the most about the dating game as you gained experience?Act flattered, then tell me she's sorry, but she just doesn't feel that way and still wants to be friends, and we've had no history of her trying to take advantage of my generosity? You want her to stroke your ego. Blow me off for two weeks after I ask, ignore me at social events, and then act hurt that I stop talking to her because "I thought we were friends"? Nope. If you considered me a friend you wouldn't have played with my feelings. She gave you space to decompress and hopefully get over y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 01:57 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All]What was the thing that surprised you the most about the dating game as you gained experience?So you slept with a person you suspect is mentally ill and the only thing you got out of it was "Wouldn't mind another bout in couple months"? Males are not a romantic gender, they're predatory opportunists. You completely lack empathy for another human being and you're so callous about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 01:49 PM |
| 2 | [Q4All]What was the thing that surprised you the most about the dating game as you gained experience?He invited it by not practicing what he preaches. Fuck out of here thinking I should respect a drug addicted, charlatan who's whole shtick is "The women are chaos!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 01:47 PM |
| 2 | [Q4All]What was the thing that surprised you the most about the dating game as you gained experience?They do, they have the option of leaving those women alone, block, delete, do not engage. I guess you males have a hard time saying no to your urge to wet your wick. Even if it results in child support for a baby you abandon that you had with an absolute nightmare of a nutcase. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 01:44 PM |
| 2 | [Q4All]What was the thing that surprised you the most about the dating game as you gained experience?It is why wearing a wedding ring as a man actually increases the amount of women interested in you. No, women are just more comfortable being nice and cordial towards you because they think "He is harmless, he already has a wife at home!" You can look up data on this yourself, the vast majority of men think women are flirting with them when they're just being nice/friendly/polite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 01:32 PM |
| 2 | What do YOU bring to the table? What are your standards, and do you yourself satisfy those standards?people who consider financial stability being employed for multiple years and pay the bills on time This is financial stability. financial stability is having 10 different streams of income, owning a business, having diverse investment portfolio and detailed escape plan if things don't go well. This is over the top. But having an investment portfolio even if just 100USD set aside every month from your mid-20's to retirement is a great long term plan. I know pension plans (separate from investmen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 01:21 PM |
| 11 | What do YOU bring to the table? What are your standards, and do you yourself satisfy those standards?Lol, how is paying your bills, cleaning yourself and your surroundings and having friends/activities such a high standard? It's the basics of being an adult! Mental and emotional maturity is something you work on from your teens and onward. This is not perfect, this is the bar I've set because this is what I myself have achieved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 12:35 PM |
| 6 | What do YOU bring to the table? What are your standards, and do you yourself satisfy those standards?It's better to be ugly and alone than to be with someone you're not attracted to. Just saves everyone the frustration of being settled for. I personally think more men should wear "natural" make-up, concealer, hair colouring, cosmetic procedures to fix your hairline. Everyone uses braces or gets their teeth fixed with no issue, so I don't see why that should be an issue either. Yes but it is an extremely relevant standard that people expect of their partners, I feel like if it's so important it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 11:01 AM |
| 1 | What do YOU bring to the table? What are your standards, and do you yourself satisfy those standards?Godt jobbet! Fortsett videre, det er flere scandinaviere her faktiks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 10:22 AM |
| 8 | What do YOU bring to the table? What are your standards, and do you yourself satisfy those standards?Well of course, he has to be attractive, that's not a personal attribute though, that's physical. I see women who have those qualities who are also overlooked but they're ugly too. Sucks to be ugly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 10:21 AM |
| 1 | What do YOU bring to the table? What are your standards, and do you yourself satisfy those standards?Hva får deg til å tro det? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 09:45 AM |
| 13 | What do YOU bring to the table? What are your standards, and do you yourself satisfy those standards?These are the bottom of the barrel attributes that I expect of any adult. 1: Financial Stabillity 2: Top Notch personal hygiene 3: Clean up after themselves, because cleanliness is next to godliness. 4: Courteous, polite to those around them, especially service workers. 5: Mental and emotional maturity, I won't accept holes in any of my drywall. 6: Healthy balance of indoor and outdoor hobbies. 7: A friend group or a best friend so you're not crowding your SO and have a social life of your own. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Is your current boyfriend in the top 20% of men looks wise?Suit yourself, but maybe you should go tell all those Indian textile companies that their female staff is terrible at doing their jobs and should be replaced by men instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Is your current boyfriend in the top 20% of men looks wise?OMG, I can't believe I have to say this. A fully tented vagina is only about 4-5 inches deep,(some women have deeper vaginas, some women have an oddly placed cervix that cuts their vagina short) the part of a vagina that feels sensations are the first 1-2 inches by the entry. Girth matters, length beyond 5-6 inches is just meh or painful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 12:15 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Is your current boyfriend in the top 20% of men looks wise?Yeah, that's why women make horrible seamstresses and terrible sweat shop workers sewing those labels on your Nikes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Is your current boyfriend in the top 20% of men looks wise?You didn't take into account that the size is measured on the diagonal. You being horrible at measuring distances does not mean every other woman is. If you worked in a traditionally female type of work, like sewing, needlework, quilting etc, you would have known how to measure those, but you don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Is your current boyfriend in the top 20% of men looks wise?I guess it's more like "women don't care about the difference between 6.5 inches and 5.5" Of course you can see the difference, but sometimes, it's better to just let sleeping dogs lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Is your current boyfriend in the top 20% of men looks wise?In the US? Yes, lol. Here? Nah, He's like a dime a dozen. Probably in the 30-40%. He has a typical cyclist build though, meaty butt and thighs, well defined calves, very nice forearms and hands, full head of hair, strong jaw, broad shouldered. He's taller than me and taller than average here, way taller than average in the US. These are just the superficial stuff about him. someone who is consistently called good looking by non family members unprompted What do you mean by this? Most people are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 11:57 AM |
| 4 | Why is the "move on" advice given all the time, no matter how small the circumstance?But what if it's something as harmless as liking video games or forgetting to wash the dishes? Dating gamers is detrimental to your mental health and your relationship. It turns men into low T, rage filled cum socks. /s As for forgetting the dishes? No body forgets doing dishes, they're literally RIGHT THERE every time you are in the kitchen. I can understand forgetting to put the dishwasher on though. Just don't make it a habit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 07:25 AM |
| 1 | "Invisible Women: Data Bias in a World Designed for Men" by Caroline Criado PérezSo you have no solutions, you are arguing in bad faith. I have an idea for lengthening the lifespans of men, we suppress their testosterone. Eunuchs live longer than intact males in all of the animal kingdom, I say we try that out. After all, we want men living longer right? I'm glad to have your support in this! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 05:59 AM |
| 4 | "Invisible Women: Data Bias in a World Designed for Men" by Caroline Criado PérezOK, start up a fundraiser for that. Make it male only. You have not answered what to do about women incurring such a high cost for society though, I mean, on one hand they do birth the next generation and change their diapers, care for them, breastfeed them etc all while having either major abdominal surgery or major vaginal injury. Then they have the audacity to live as long as they do. So what do you suggest we do with this 50% of the human population? Kill them when old or sterilize them whil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/21 04:39 PM |
| 4 | "Invisible Women: Data Bias in a World Designed for Men" by Caroline Criado PérezSo, what do you want us to do about that? Kill old women? Sterilize young women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/21 04:14 PM |
| 4 | "Invisible Women: Data Bias in a World Designed for Men" by Caroline Criado PérezFirstly, women live longer, secondly women give birth. I'm not sure if you need me to tell you this, but being in a hospital to give birth or being in a care home/needing carers when you're past 87 costs society a pretty penny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/21 02:25 PM |
| 2 | Why are most men never taught how to attract women?I hope you keep that same energy when the women you pressured into sex come forward and say "NinjaOfTheSouth pressured me, he wouldn't take no for an answer and eventually I just froze up because I was scared" And then more women say the same thing. Because that is what you're admitting to doing. If you're OK with how you feel about this, post it with your name attached. I don't think you understand, I'm looking out for you. Stop pressuring people. You know exactly what I mean, but you don't car… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 07:03 PM |
| 9 | Why are most men never taught how to attract women?Unless you think of men purely as useful worker drones to provide resources for women I'm a woman and none of my parents ever talked about how to "get" sex with me. They focused on education, after school activities, work ethic, discipline, and setting boundaries. With my brothers they focused on the exact same things in addition to being safe while outside (boys get into fights) I know we all talked a tiny bit about who was cool or hot but it was never a blueprint to get a dick wet or a pussy c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Do you or your friends care about the pleasure of your female casual sex partner?lol, most of the dudes here think I'm sort of an evil harpy, so likewise! Have a happy, safe and consensual sexual future, we all deserve that :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Do you or your friends care about the pleasure of your female casual sex partner?That's OK, as long as you are both comfortable with the act of sex it should be fine. You don't have to eat pussy to make it good for her, fingering or even grinding with the palm against the vulva can be good too. Just make sure you're both into it, don't put any pressure into it and don't ask for something you're not willing to give in return. Please use protection and if you go down on a casual partner, use a dental dam. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Women prefer spending non-sexual time with their partners and men prefer spending non-sexual time with their friends.This is actually false. Most daycare workers and teachers are female. Most kids grow up inundated with the female POV. All books they read, all the cartoons they watch, all the movies they see, the world at large around them would give that a BIG FAT NO. No. That's how women interpret it because women are not used to the male competitiveness. No, men telling you you're not funny, or shut the fuck up is not competitiveness. They actively try to shut down or shout down any all women/girls who say … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 06:27 PM |
| 8 | Why are most men never taught how to attract women?How is "stop pressuring people for sex" FDS? If this is your MO, then no wonder you and guys like you are worried about being "metoo'ed". You're literally the bullies in this scenario. STOP PRESSURING PEOPLE FOR SEX. That's literally all women ask of you and apparently that's too much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 06:13 PM |
| 8 | Why are most men never taught how to attract women?and don’t mistake her being shy or silent or responding weirdly to the touch to her not being dtf later that night or even 30 mins later. This is horrible advice and the reason why men like you are suspect of the metoo movement. Stop pressuring people and leave them alone. You wouldn't hate on a bullied victim eating punches, why is it OK when the bully sticks a dick in them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Why are most men never taught how to attract women?My own family was more concerned about me doing well in school and getting a good job than teaching me how to attract girls for relationships or casual sex. What type of family WOULD encourage you or even teach you about getting casual relationships? So yeah, I think that many parents are more concerned with their sons being financial successes than being successful with women. Of course, because being financially successful is a plus no matter what type or lack of sex you're having? WTF is wron… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Women prefer spending non-sexual time with their partners and men prefer spending non-sexual time with their friends.Because they are actually funny and don't just exploit group think. You fail to mention the fact that we have ALL been inundated with the male POV since childhood. That's why you find dick jokes funny and complain when women talk about periods. My point was about comedians - people who make others laugh for a living My point was about society. Men and boys are not used to women joking and either take it as an insult or become belligerent because for once something isn't about them. We don't unde… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 04:43 PM |
| 3 | Do you or your friends care about the pleasure of your female casual sex partner?I think a lot of young women try out a one-night stand and then they find out it just wasn't worth it. One thing men fail to recognize is that bad sex for women can be painful, Good sex is wonderful, but it's not worth risking bad/painful sex. Personally I've never had casual sex because I just wasn't interested in sex with other people, masturbation was fulfilling for me. I am interested in some sex with another person now, but only with a committed partner. I and the vast majority of my friend… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 04:35 PM |
| 4 | Women prefer spending non-sexual time with their partners and men prefer spending non-sexual time with their friends.Same, I have kept friendships from primary school, high school, university, colleagues from different jobs and what we all have in common is that we are women who are around the same age (25-36) Some have kids now which I will gladly babysit so they can relax for a few hours, some are busy at work becoming careerist women but I will happily be their plus 1, we just text every other week or so just to keep up and make plans months in advance. I really take care of an nurture my friendships and I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 03:53 PM |
| 4 | Women prefer spending non-sexual time with their partners and men prefer spending non-sexual time with their friends.You don't think women are funny because you don't hang out with women nor are you socialized in the female sphere. It's not biological, it's simply a matter of being exposed to what women find funny. It's ok. I don't find men funny, I actually think most men are boring, but that doesn't mean that others can't find them funny. We joke about things that matter to us and you joke about things that matter to you. That's OK. Unlike you males though, we've been listening, reading and watching male "hu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 03:42 PM |
| 2 | As a man, are there any benefits to marriage?You sound extremely hurt from your experiences and scared to give yourself to another person I've never been hurt romantically by another person and it's because I have always had my friends, family and work to focus on. This is good economic times and abundance of choice privilege cringe take. Most people don't and didn't end up with their perfect partner throughout all of history. I still maintain that it is better to be alone than with someone you resent. Would you seriously spend time, effor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 03:30 PM |
| 5 | Over the years, men have become more feminine and women have become more masculine - how has this impacted modern dating and relationships? Has it been a good or bad thing?lol, then you can keep it in your belly. I find it amazing how men downplay actual physical pain that women experience and then be all like "omg, I can't believe you're being mean to me!" It's why I encourage all women to either stay away from men or grind down their will to live so they will eliminate themselves from the gene pool. I'm happy to admit that I've cause the depression and anger outbursts of at least 2 men last year and I hope to make it 3 in 2021. After all, what are men good for i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Over the years, men have become more feminine and women have become more masculine - how has this impacted modern dating and relationships? Has it been a good or bad thing?If your goal was to become a mommy, which is a noble one, why get a specific education you’ll never need when you could be raising kids from an earlier age? Because children need an educated mother? Children benefit from having an educated primary care taker. Society as a whole benefts from children being born to educated parents. It just so happens that educated women don't have children. It's easier to just work than to be a caregiver+working and still getting shit on by society as a whole. I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 02:47 PM |
| 3 | As a man, are there any benefits to marriage?It might get there at some point, but that would be better for a lot of guys theman being alone. Being with someone you resent is worse than being alone. I think a lot of young men need to pull up their standards and realize that having a woman is NOT anything like being with A woman who you truly enjoy the company of. Friends family and work can't compete with that intimate bond of being with someone all the time, loving and caring for them . You need to internalize that you don't need women. Y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 02:00 PM |
| 2 | "Smart people have fewer friends" - a discussionbut gifted kids tend to be extremely competitive I think that really depended on what type of gifted kids. There are those who succeed with hard work, discipline and I think they are more competitive. Then you have those who can just read for a bit and get straight 100% on every test they take. There are also those who are horrible at tests but are brilliant at exams. Most kids, depending on the type are usually co-operative at least for doing homework or studies, this is just my personal experi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 01:49 PM |
| 4 | Over the years, men have become more feminine and women have become more masculine - how has this impacted modern dating and relationships? Has it been a good or bad thing?use for a couple of years before dropping out of the workforce for long patches to be a mother. Because they are breastfeeding and probably need to stay with the kids to do so for more than 6weeks. And once you have one, it's better to just get it all over and done with at the same time so tey grow up together. That means somewhere between 3-5 years out of the work force and when they get back, they are most likely the primary care taker so WILL have to be the one to pick up the sick child or st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 01:37 PM |
| 1 | As a man, are there any benefits to marriage?it's gauranteed everyday access to woman. Pretty big perk imo. Seriously, why do you need a woman so much? You're not even considering the fact that women are human, you just want one the same way my brother wants a new motorcycle. If it's because of sex, why cant you men just have sex with each other, if it's validation, why don't you validate each other? What exactly does a woman do for a man that he can't get either through friends, family or work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 01:21 PM |
| 11 | Over the years, men have become more feminine and women have become more masculine - how has this impacted modern dating and relationships? Has it been a good or bad thing?It’s made a sizeable portion of women undateable. They ape a cartoonish impression of masculinity which they mistake for success, and which renders them virtually worthless as a life partner. I think you mistake womens need for fulfillment as something against men. Most women go into tertiary schooling for their own sake, not because it's "masculine". Most women work jobs either as a career or as a wageslave to pay their bills, afford food and maybe put away a bit for savings. These are things a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 01:02 PM |
| 26 | The ✨Perfect✨ WomanHah! Try being a woman who is not attracted to hairy men, I mean not in that pedo way, but more like, "I can't be having a shag carpet in my bed" way. I want their hair to be on their heads, not on their back and most def not an unkempt jungle in their pants. Trim your pubes, do not shave them. It's better for you and your vulva :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 12:25 PM |
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