Alter_Of_Nate Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	"If you could give your younger self just one piece of advice about seduction or dating, what would it be? Don't reject yourself in order to protect yourself from her doing so. Also, women are just people, not special beings to be treated as more important to you than you are. Treat them like anyone else and expect the same from them.	/r/seduction	02/12/24 11:11 PM
1	These are the main four things we like men to do when asking us out. So in the first 2, take the lead and make the decision. In then second 2, oh no... better let her decide. Female consistency at it's finest.	/r/seduction	20/04/24 07:38 PM
2	How do I get rid of my “Smart” look I was wondering if you have any book recommendations for this I think you'll find real value in this book. Leadership and Self-Deception - The Arbinger Group	/r/seduction	12/04/24 02:21 PM
4	How do I get rid of my “Smart” look Everyone I know who talks about how smart they are tend to be in the mid to lower end of the group. And they're all insufferably tedious to everyone else trying to prove it. Now, I'm not trying to say that is you, but it sure sounds like it to me. Clothes don't change the attitude. They'll just make you well dressed and pompous. If you're really that smart, maybe use it to pay attention to people and adapt to their style of communicating. Intellect is not just for showing off. You have to actual…	/r/seduction	12/04/24 02:16 PM
4	How to get her mentally hooked with me ? She talks to another guy more than she talks to me. The question comes off as a bit desperate, and that'll dry her up faster than a mid-summer rain in the desert. You have to figure out her emotional needs and fulfill them better than he does. You have to generate a wide range of emotional experiences and a provide safe place for her to experience them. And then know how to pull her out of them before she gets too deep and attaches a negative experience to you. And then you make her cum really hard at some point in-between them. You don't even ne…	/r/seduction	08/04/24 12:42 AM
1	Pretty woman wanted me to be non-emotionally engaged to her, I set my conditions, she didn't accept them. All I said was that it's fucking goofy to ask for money in the situation that was presented. That comment stands on the bold assumption that this woman is worth fucking for free. How many women do you know that nobody could pay you enough to spend time, let alone sexual attention, on.	/r/PussyPassDenied	26/10/22 01:32 PM
3	What It Really Means Indeed, because when her health takes her out early, she can fertile the whole garden.	/r/PussyPassDenied	22/05/22 01:29 PM
2	lmao slob jobs 😆 We live in a world of irony. The irony of Joey B Toonz and OP also using her dead dad to call her out.... for likes and subscribes. And me using it to calling them out for using it to call her out... We all in on this game.	/r/PussyPassDenied	20/05/22 03:17 PM
-2	Double standards FGM is banned in many places, which objectively does far less damage than circumcision, and far far less chance of leading to death and complications. You seriously need to read up on FGM. That shit can be brutal. Removal of all external genitalia, with or without anesthesia. And in some cases with crude instruments or fingernails. Sometimes leaving a hole just big enough for urine and menses to pass.	/r/MensRights	17/05/22 04:12 AM
5	Is virgin shaming common in women groups if one is a virgin at a “late” age? Why in the world would anyone need to know if you're a virgin? No sense, or reason to spread that information around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 04:08 PM
8	CMV: If the man makes far more money in a "marriage", the female should do the vast majority of home labor/chores/taking care of children This is an immature perspective. It sounds like you want to marry either a mother or a servant. A marriage shouldn't be transactional and this is little more than putting a dollar amount on each and then trying to balance the checkbook. When I was working 70 hours a week, she primarily kept up the house and kids, with me doing what I had time and energy to do when I was off. Sometimes, that wasn't much and I still appreciate that she took care of things that allowed me to make the money I was ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 03:26 PM
1	Little steps Thats a pretty emotional response for someone implying a generalized group of people are soft based on a single article about a specific case. That mirror is strong isnt it?	/r/PussyPassDenied	14/05/22 06:23 PM
3	Vicki Bevan: Woman paedophile jailed for 'shockingly depraved' sexual abuse including rape of girl This isn't a ppd "Before the sentencing, Judge Menary said any "blame sharing" claim by Bevan in her defence, that she was "led on" by the others, would not be accepted." Sounds like PPD to me.	/r/PussyPassDenied	13/05/22 09:17 PM
1	Wife filled husband’s phone with child porn in attempt to get custody of children, Oklahoma police say My wife made a habit of snooping thru my phone when I wasn't noticing. Nothing ever there, but always snooping. It's rude and disrespectful. So now she doesn't have access that was freely available before. She even tried to scan my fingerprint while I was asleep, thinking I wouldn't notice. Nobody should have covert, unfettered access to another's devices. Now, there still isn't anything there, but shell never know that. She's gotten better, but there was a time when she would do this to anyone.…	/r/MensRights	13/05/22 03:32 PM
1	If men want to protect their assets in a true 50/50 relationship, they should not expect traditionality from a woman. What do you do when you are 60-90 cant do much, no social activities, no sports no socializing like younger people and alone nothing can have value beyond your death other than what can be influenced and remain after death. How young are you? This is so wrong, its ludicrous. I'm 60, more active and have far more fun than I did when I was younger. And way less stress than most of the younger, anxiety-prone generations. I have grown kids and still producing value to the family, and the world. And …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/22 04:13 PM
1	Girls not wearing make-up should be normalised. Normalized in some communities. I know plenty of women who choose not to wear makeup except for special events. And even then, its not heavy. TBH, if more women realized how men think about the heavy makeup, maybe they would try the natural look too. In fact, many of the men and women I know have low opinions of all the fakery. Between the bondo facial, painted talons and monarch butterfly eyelashes, can you expect anything about them to be real? Even what they say and do may be as calculated as…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/22 07:46 PM
2	If you're fat, there's no point in complaining about not finding any thin girls to date. Yes, yes. Ectomorph, endomorph, mesomorph. Of course, these differring body types exist because all bodies are exactly the same. Everything that disagrees is just an illusion. Hormone levels and metabolism differences are just an illusion. And yet, we somehow have a mysterious water weight allowance to explain it all away. Oh wait! Water weight differences could be due to differring levels of aldosterone. Naww...that can't be. Its just an illusion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/22 08:10 PM
1	Has anyone else observed that women tend to characterize men they find cute or wholesome as being... sexless? Please be fair to yourself. The energy you bring will overshadow your breast size. The way that you feel about yours will come out in the energy you present to the men in the room. That'll reduce your chances more than you may be realizing. Big boobs may offer initial attention, but even a woman with big boobs will only find men who reduce them to their boob size, if they have unattractive energy. And so I'll repeat.. the confidence of a woman who owns her small boobs like a rock star is very se…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/22 08:44 PM
3	Has anyone else observed that women tend to characterize men they find cute or wholesome as being... sexless? It’s only large breasts that draw mens attention. Not for many of us. Large breast may look good in clothes, but once they come off, they can look far less perky and appealing. And its quite sexy when a woman with small breast has the confidence to own them like a rock star. It seems like the same misperception that men have about penis size, when studies show that, while they are worried about it, most women aren't necessarily looking for the monster sized member that men fantasize they do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/22 08:30 AM
1	Men have almost zero opportunity to meet women unless it is organic or through mutual friends, coworkers or in the short window of time they are in college if they go. You can be the hottest guy in the room, but rarely is it fruitful if you approach. This shows men have it far worse than women. Nice try, it would mean that 100% of meetings may end up in 20% having sex or relationships. And I never claimed the numbers were hard numbers, I clearly stated there would be variables. Its just a theoretical principle that says the minority will achieve the majority if positive outcomes. I would expect different results in dating apps, because not 100% use them and part of the 20% will also achieve a large portion of their outcomes outside of them. Dancing around that any way you want will not…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/22 03:22 PM
0	Men have almost zero opportunity to meet women unless it is organic or through mutual friends, coworkers or in the short window of time they are in college if they go. You can be the hottest guy in the room, but rarely is it fruitful if you approach. This shows men have it far worse than women. It's a rule and will have variances. How is applying it to SMP any different than causes and consequences. This is the part that so many here refuse to accept. In may cases, just read the comments and you'll see that the cause is in the person's thinking, which changes their behavior. When that behavior proves to be ineffective, they blame women instead of their behavior around women. Changing behavior can change the way women respond. Putting all the responsibility on women, or anyone else, wil…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/22 02:15 PM
2	Men have almost zero opportunity to meet women unless it is organic or through mutual friends, coworkers or in the short window of time they are in college if they go. You can be the hottest guy in the room, but rarely is it fruitful if you approach. This shows men have it far worse than women. You're just validating her argument that men only approach because they want sex. Even if I feel her argument unfairly reduces all men to sex-driven beings primarily wanting sex. Its those who think and act like this who fuck it up for those who may really want a chance to get to know them. The whole comment screams of desperation. And that is always a huge attraction killer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/22 01:33 PM
0	Men have almost zero opportunity to meet women unless it is organic or through mutual friends, coworkers or in the short window of time they are in college if they go. You can be the hottest guy in the room, but rarely is it fruitful if you approach. This shows men have it far worse than women. The 80/20 Rule has a name and it applies to all areas of life. Pereto Principle, look it up. Unless learning something new, that contradicts your belief, is too hard on you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/22 01:17 PM
1	Men will do whatever is required in order to obtain sex, and perhaps not a great deal more I agree that many women withhold sex as a means of control. I know the reality. That includes many of those who choose not to have casual sex. In fact, they may be better disciplined at it. And if they are confident that the man doesn't like casual sex, it becomes more effective as he's less likely to cheat. OTOH, maybe the woman who engaged in casual sex realized that it isn't necessarily a good strategy for finding a ltr. Over-correcting happens in all areas of life. If you never date women wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/22 04:27 PM
2	Men will do whatever is required in order to obtain sex, and perhaps not a great deal more Im not understanding your position. If women who have casual don't align with your values, then why are you using them to make the argument? And those who don't have casual sex are more likely to make you wait, because they don't. It almost makes it sound like you want casual sex, but aren't admitting it to yourself, or you want the casual sex woman for a ltr, but on your own terms. I don't deny that women sometimes use sex for control, but you can't have it both ways. Find a woman who shares yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/22 03:05 PM
1	Men will do whatever is required in order to obtain sex, and perhaps not a great deal more Another reason for them to hold out. So she doesn't look like a slut to the relationship dude. Even if you know better. Women who are in long time relationships act in ways to avoid this, even when its been long enough to not be an issue. Likely the effects of western religious societal socialization. Now, if more men would put their neediness aside and learn what makes women desire sex instead of focusing only on their own lack of it, they would find that, in many cases, they would have more se…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/22 02:51 PM
1	Are you all from countries where women dont go to college or work and.. I'm in the US, and I know it someone whose mother and grandmother consigned for her buy a house just before getting married, knowing full well that there is no way she can afford it. They did so specifically so he would be pay the mortgage notes, but she retains full ownership if the marriage fails.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/22 01:56 PM
2	Most women withhold sex because they are afraid they don’t offer anything else You've just given yourself an answer. It comes across as if you really just want sex, and, while I agree it's used by many women as a manipulation tactic, withholding past 3 dates apparently helps to eliminate those who are just in it for the sex. And if you get pushy, or insistent, you may be coming off as needy. Women can smell that shit like a shark smells blood. Thats yet another reason to hold back until they can see what your unspoken intentions are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/22 03:39 PM
4	What would happen if men and women exchange their situations in dating ? On the one hand, this may be the most clearly detailed description of the experience of many women that I've seen yet. On the other hand, it doesn't mention that this is how long it takes for many average, frumpy girls to realize that the handsome prince they pine for, isn't coming to sweep them off their feet and put them on the pedestal they think they deserve. And yet many average, frumpy guys would be willing to let them have the pedestal even when they don't deserve it, just for companionsh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/22 02:07 PM
1	Women and young girls allowed to go topless in public. Wait for the avalanche of cases against men because they looked. Dig in dumbass. Tell us all you're just a male feminist with full acceptance of the double standard. Equality doesn't exist independent of facts, and you can make your own up just so you can pretend to be right. Now, where is your definitive support for your "facts".	/r/MensRights	16/04/22 05:39 PM
10	Women and young girls allowed to go topless in public. Wait for the avalanche of cases against men because they looked. So my brother is gay, and I had to stop visiting him because every time I do, his partner has some weird thing about trying to pinch me on the nipples. Its annoying, offensive and it doesn't feel good. Are you saying that it's acceptable, and not sexual, since I'm a man? What a fucking dumbass	/r/MensRights	15/04/22 06:10 PM
0	The silencing of TRP on Reddit and social media as a whole proves how enormously biased our culture is against males now What you're doing is generalizing a whole movement off of a shitty segment of the people who follow it. The worst of them stick out because they whine so loud, not necessarily because they are mainstream in the movement. Where else is that acceptable?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/22 07:18 PM
-1	The silencing of TRP on Reddit and social media as a whole proves how enormously biased our culture is against males now So, you prefer for it to turn to actual violence before anyone speaks out, right. In a world where micro-aggression is considered violence against women, it isn't violence against men until a building gets blown up. Gtfo. Your ability to advocate for women and against men is gymnastic. What about remove toxic men AND women from online spaces? Oh yeah, you'll just revert back to the almighty advertising dollar. Then stop speaking on social issues and pretending to care about the actual issue. Wea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/22 06:13 PM
-1	The silencing of TRP on Reddit and social media as a whole proves how enormously biased our culture is against males now But you guys seem to want to lock the door behind you and not allow other people to use the rights that you’re crying for every single day. You're being disingenuous by not admitting this is exactly what is happening to the MRA movements. But feminists, even male feminist, refuse to look in the mirror when they point to the demon they are battling. Are you willing to make the same arguments against the toxic group of feminists, and then advocate for censoring/banning them also?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/22 05:27 PM
3	Getting a hobby to attract women is terrible advice What he is saying is that women hate needy, clingy men. They are attracted to someone who has more than her going on in his life. Women quickly lose interest when they realize that they are the only thing you've got.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/22 12:03 PM
-3	One of the worst I’ve ever heard of: NYC woman accused of holding online ‘date’ hostage for $100K in twisted kidnapping, torture scheme So your reading comprehension sucks, you're really just here to get mad, or you're the guy who likes to flash cash on Instagram. Which is it?	/r/PussyPassDenied	17/03/22 06:19 AM
0	One of the worst I’ve ever heard of: NYC woman accused of holding online ‘date’ hostage for $100K in twisted kidnapping, torture scheme Well, you made the logical conclusion pretty easily, so I guess we're both assholes. We have banks, locks and security cameras for a reason. Because, if your shit is hanging out, those who want to abuse it are going to make every attempt to do so. And no matter how much you think you deserve "respect", they don't exactly give a fuck. So you proactively take steps to protect your shit. Its not that hard of a concept, and I'm sure you do so on a daily basis.	/r/PussyPassDenied	17/03/22 06:16 AM
-10	One of the worst I’ve ever heard of: NYC woman accused of holding online ‘date’ hostage for $100K in twisted kidnapping, torture scheme TBH, that's one dumb MF, for flashing cash on Instagram and for going to some random apartment at 1am to meet a girl he only met on Instagram. Meeting new people in public places is a thing for a reason. Not that he deserved what he went thru, but he really did kinda ask for it. Wave the meat in front the lion and the lion does what lions do. This is one for the Darwin Awards.	/r/PussyPassDenied	16/03/22 10:20 PM
1	Who is Barbara Corbo? Pennsylvania High School Teacher Arrested for Sexually Assaulting 17-Year-Old Student in Car Good little catholic girl has sex with good little catholic boy. Good little catholic boy feels guilty due to catholic teachings and reports good little catholic girl to avoid moral accountability. Good little catholic girl goes to hell, so good little catholic boy can feel like his place in heaven is restored. Fuck em both.	/r/PussyPassDenied	11/02/22 09:04 PM
0	Entitled Wife Dumped After Blasting Husband & Father-In-Law Her husband could have communicated with her too, instead of his dad doing it. They all sound entitled. It looks like she's lazy and wants a beta-boi and he wants a momma to clean up after him. His dad should have been the one to tell him this.	/r/PussyPassDenied	05/02/22 12:34 PM
1	Gollum Should have told her his dick was too big for a 5'1" woman. And if it did fit, he don't date short women with a big woman pussy.	/r/PussyPassDenied	30/12/21 04:38 PM