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I’m in that situation, we currently live in different countries with different currencies etc. But if we were to live in the same country I would make around double of what my boyfriend does (where his income is above national average). His cooking is amazing whereas I like to clean. We will be moving in together and will use percentage split for costs. I think this is the most fair way to split bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 05:46 PM
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If I’m being honest, some comments/posts in PPD made me wonder about what some guys think.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 06:53 AM
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I had to really think about that one to come up with with something. I would say keeping insects eg. Spiders as pets. My arachnophobia could never and I really hate bugs. Snakes, rats, idk some raptors are all fine just not bugs
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 12:41 AM
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If you explain it and show yourself a bit without them then nothing but without a context it’s super weird. I would think that someone is on drugs etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 05:49 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:05 AM
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I can share TT link if you want to laugh more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:35 AM
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And I’m happy to hear most of the guys think all those scenarios are weird! Some of them were hilarious to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:34 AM
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There is a comment about sunglasses one, also about tipping.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:29 AM
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I was genuinely curious what guys will think. Why people take it so seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:27 AM
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You want to take it that way, I really simply wanted an opinion. I absolutely do not think men are “trash” in general. Some men are some women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:19 AM
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You can see in the comments some of them sound actually normal for others. So Imo it made sense, sometimes on PPD I see things that are obvious to me and see in the comments that it’s not obvious to me. I could almost bet that every woman has this kind of weird date.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 08:55 AM
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That’s an interesting one. I would say it’s muli factor problem but more structural. I WILL GENERALISE A LOT HERE Changes (cultural and economic) which happened in last hundred years improved women situation a lot. We are able to live independently of men which was really hard let’s say 50 years ago. This allows women to get into relationships based on different standards. Men needed (some still do) to adjust to that. Either by taking care about themselves more or working on their behaviour (Ind…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 12:41 AM
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You can have golden retriever girlfriend/wife as well! It’s type of personality created by internet and it just really stuck with me in a positive way. It’s a short way how to describe many qualities. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 09:12 PM
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Absolutely agree. I think most of the things in life have similar patterns. If you would ask about what’s important in a car etc etc. without specifying what you are looking for you would also get very mixed replies which could potentially confuse you even more. If guys would ask specific questions like: I would like to find a girl who is like this and like that they would get waaaay better advices. General question, general answer
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 01:00 PM
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Also to add to that, you expect different things from a car you rent for a few days (dating) vs the one you want to buy (maintaining the relationship). And that seems to not be confusing for most men and same goes for dating. Its natural that you have bigger expectations when you want to buy vs rent 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 08:18 AM
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To answer your question I do not think so. I think the biggest problem is people want some golden rules how to get in relationship and get frustrated when it doesn’t work. This I see for both men and women. There are some concepts, but they will never give you 100% success rate because there are too many factors. Of course money and looks increase chances (again speaking about both ganders) but question is if you want a person who mostly cares about those things. Because sometimes you need to so…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 08:10 AM
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Absolutely agree! Love hearing it from a man!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 01:34 AM
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Hmmm, I think your statement works for immature women/young girls cos they do not comprehend implications. I have a guy friend who is successful and working hard, he dates younger girls (students) and then complains that they are complaining that he does not have time. I told him start dating older women (older 25-30 instead of 18-23) who work and you will not have that issue. Universal dating advice doesn’t exist. I want a golden retriever boyfriend (found one), some lady will prefer someone ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 01:24 AM
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Then your reading seems to be a problem. Successful women do not have a problem with providing short term/ being with a person who makes less etc. Being a provider means the whole household depends soleley on your income. That’s dangerous, draining and not sustainable when you want to have kids. Provide something and being a provider is not the same thing. The fact that I can fix a sink does not me a plumber - same logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 04:03 PM
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I guess it’s a very hard concept to grasp that you can provide without being a full time provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 09:26 AM
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I honestly never thought about gay/bi men as weak and I do not have a single girlfriend who think so. I’ve seen so many gay guys being more masculine/manly than straight men that’s it’s actually funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 01:28 AM
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I second that, the only thought I have about bi men is omg I would have to worry about men too? It’s too much hassle… I want my men to have friends, go away with them, go on overnights trips with them etc. I want him to have that freedom and don’t think what is he doing. I would feel weird if that friend would be a woman, and same with man if he was bi… Idk maybe I’m too insecure for that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 01:14 AM
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I don’t think women want to be providers, most want equality/equity. I think women who are really educated and successful know how big of a struggle it is to be a provider, especially mentally and they will not put themselves in this situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 01:07 AM
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Are you aware that there are more and more women in tech and blue collar jobs? I absolutely can see even now that being a good blue collar worker is way better than white collar job. As I said, shift is slow but it happens
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 02:59 PM
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I think it’s slowly dying. Slowly. I know more couples where they provide equally maybe 60-40, sometimes guy makes more sometimes a woman. I know some couples where men are providers. But the shift is very visible.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 02:52 PM
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Honestly I’m sorry, seems like you went through a lot. I wonder if you’ve met wrong women for you or it’s indeed your ego. Or maybe it’s because you feel like those women now do not want you for you but for your looks and that’s why you keep looking. I hope you will find the one you will fall in love with and be like “shit, I wanna marry that girl!” Happy new year!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:51 AM
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What makes you think he's interested in long term relationship? I do not know that and that’s the point. I was curious. It doesn't. The "quality" is roughly evenly distributed across all looks levels Again that was my point, when women give you advice it’s more targeted for quality. Ironically they don't. Most guys either believe women about how being nice and respectful is a pussy magnet and / or completely neglect their looks thinking they will start slaying in their thirties once they become …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:40 AM
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Just out of curiosity, because I 100% agree for women how the guys looks is important, how many of those dates turned into relationships and lasted for over a year? Because I also think there are two approaches for women, guy I would smash and a guy I would marry. Guys have it as well and probably you can second that criteria for each are different. My feeling is that for everybody, better you look more people you will attract. It also comes with questionable quality of people. Bet you’ve met so…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:36 AM
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Tbh advices from both men and women can be bad. Each advice can be bad because it depends on what you are looking for. Both men and women have sometimes unrealistic expectation and no matter the advice, it will not help if someone is delulu. Overweight person who does not care about themselves will have a slim chance of getting with a person who works out regularly and puts a lot of effort in their appearance. Is there a chance? Probably, but more like one in a milion. If you are looking for an …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 03:49 AM
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I would even say that Polish men respect Polish women more than English men respect English women, same with Americans. Polish culture is imo very equal, we have one of the lowest gender pay gaps etc
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 04:20 PM
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You play coy like you do not understand what I’m trying to say. You ask about grooming gangs, for me church is a grooming gang. You want to blame one culture, but it doesn’t fit your agenda that conservative part was doing similar things since ages. This is the problem with conservative people, they think world is black and white and cherry pick examples. There was a Pakistani gang grooming kids - “horrible”. Pedo priest are graping kids - “naaaa”, don’t believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 04:03 PM
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Well, kinda… Read about Polish church. One foundation shared statistics, around 400 reported victims reported since 2001, only god knows how many didn’t report. Conservative Germany: “This happened almost at the same time when the German media published the findings of a report in September, which shows that between 1946 and 2014 more than 3,600 minors were victims of sexual abuse by Catholic clergy in Germany. The report was commissioned by the German episcopate.” So let’s not only blame other …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 08:36 AM
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To add to that marriage rate in us is higher then in most of Europe 😁 just checked because I was actually curious. So maybe you just met different type of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 12:24 AM
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I think it depends where you’ve been. Italy eg has the lowest rate and I know a lot of Italian women do not want to marry Italian men. I think it’s about quality of men tbh. Comparing European guys with American, European guys understand equality more and are still gentlemen. At least that’s my perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 12:19 AM
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Honestly, not sure. From my experience I was running away with fear from polish guy once. I was grabbed by my butt in the club by Polish guys on many occasions when it was crowded and I couldn’t target them. Did not have this experience with Pakistani guys but also did not spend so much time around them. However, now you are missing the point. I agree with keeping immigration policies strict. But this not necessarily means “conservative”. We see what uncontrolled migration does, we make conclusi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:55 PM
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Are you aware that left-Center party is ruling Poland right now? So yeah my point stands. Is it safer, a little bit for sure because I know where I can walk at night 😁. But I spend a lot of time abroad, lived in UK and US. I will tell you US was the country i felt the least safe ever. Not because of immigrants. Londons population is 50% immigrants from different countries. It’s more about culture, respect for women etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:43 PM
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I’m polish, live in Poland. From younger generations not many people are conservative. We are open to foreigners, just the ones who respect our culture. I think this is not about being conservative-liberal but more about seeing what’s going on around. You wouldn’t let stranger to your house no matter your views. I’m more of a liberal-centre.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:34 PM
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For a woman yes. I have a friend and she had a boyfriend. She didn’t want kids yet. He took off the condom in the middle of the deed afterwards when she noticed he said it must’ve slipped. When she wanted to go get after pill he was stalling and was like “probably it’s not needed bla bla… “
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:27 PM
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I agree with the scale as a woman but I think second part is more about neutral attraction than mild attraction. Like “I do not find that guy ugly/unattractive”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 12:12 AM
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This! Splitting in those categories is in my opinion essential. But I would like to add a bit to that. With need is also about your emotional needs. Each person have them different, I for example need a lot of words of affirmation and I know it. Some ladies don’t need it. So first figure out your emotional needs. Without those met I think all the rest is not that important. Then pick don’ts. Be realistic about both, then we have wants which often you need to sacrifice on. People often laugh abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:54 AM
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I genuinely believe some people are here just to rage bite 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 10:49 PM
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Idk, have a hard time agreeing with that. I once posted a question for men if they ever LEARNED that a man from their environment was an abuser and how they reacted to that knowledge. I got few pretty good responses but most of them were kinda “why would I hang out with abuser, women are stupid and pick abusive guys”. They drifted so much from original topic that I was surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 10:46 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 12:19 AM
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Q4M: I was wondering with my girlfriends and here I come: Why guys who are balding have such a hard time letting their hair go? I see so many man who have literal egg nest on their head but refuse to shave their head. I know lots of guys who are bald and attractive. For all women I know full bald waaay better than balding head.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 11:57 PM
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From personal experience, I was happy single. Truly happy. Did I feel lonely? Sometimes, but it didn’t make me unhappy in general. Was single for 3 years. Then I was in relationship. First half of a year was nice and then it went downhill. I was miserable, broke up before we hit one year. Single for 1,5 year after and felt alive again and happy. Now I’m in a great relationship and I am happier. Would absolutely not trade it for being single. BUT as someone stated already: high risk high reward. …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 11:16 PM
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For me it’s gender neutral and I will probably sum up a lot comments above as it’s a universal rule. Find someone who you would like to be friends with and you are physically attracted to. My way of evaluating a guy: I meet a guy and I’m attracted to him. I get to know him and ask myself if I would like to have a friend like that. Look though best friend lens: If you weren’t sexually attracted to that person could you be a very good friends? No? Go next. From a friend you expect respect, similar…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 11:02 PM
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I think so. I know “friend” of my friend stole her boyfriend. Someone said that already, it comes from insecurity. Some women try to fix their insecurities by stealing men. “Ha, im better than her cos i took her man”. Other thing I noticed is kinda thought process of “she picked him so he has to be good, I want him”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 10:42 PM
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I was on both ends of this scenarios, first I had a crush on a guy. Know how shitty it feels. Later when my friend had a crush on me and saw she (she was bi I was hetero) was jealous etc. I decided that the best scenario would be to put a distance in our friendship. I will not change my behaviour with guys around etc. I wanted to give her space and told her that friendship doesn’t exist when one person has romantic feelings and I would be feeling like I’m using her. We didn’t talk for like half …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 10:20 PM
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I think you need to chill a bit. Most of the women I know from Ukraine, and I know quite a lot, want to come back. Am I saying someone’s live is more valuable? No. I think men and women are equal. Am I wrong with my statement tho? It is true that you need more women than men if you want to repopulate the country. Do I support mandatory drafts only for men? No. I’m just stating the fact that it might be a reason, is it a good/fair reason? Depends how you look at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:33 PM
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One thing I’m thinking about when it comes to military service ( where I would prefer it didn’t exist at all, imo politicians who starts the war should fight lol) Let’s take Ukraine as an example. Let’s say the war is over and they want to rebuild the country. I know now less and less people decide to have children. BUT in theory we need more women than men. One guy can impregnate 100 women. 100 guys cannot impregnate one woman. So I think partially that’s why some of the regulations are in plac…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:33 AM
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Not only, check Poland and there were quite a few cases were woman died because of pregnancy. Doctors didn’t want to have legal liability because of messed up abortion laws. Here some examples which discriminate against woman: Rapists can claim parental rights without restrictions in Minnesota. It’s not regulated there and by that I would say it discriminate against victims ( women) In some countries regarding sterilisation, men can have vasectomy but women cannot have their tubes tied without m…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:09 AM
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Yup. You try something a bit flirty, look for reactions. No reaction. He is not interested. Treat him like a regular human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 08:27 PM
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It it ok? No. Does it happen a lot? Yes. That’s why we should only care about opinions of people who we think can give us valuable and substantive one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 11:02 AM
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I think when someone is a horrible human being they get attacked with every possible thing which can possibly harm them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 10:56 AM
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We do not care, because we do not pay attention to every humans being. It’s that simple. With guys it’s the same, do you pay attention to every single woman you come across? That has to be exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 10:48 AM
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Honestly, in my circle I never heard women „attacking” men purely for his stature etc. We simply do not care. Also I kinda do not understand this bottom 50 %. I think for every person everyone is different and has different worth. I think it’s an online thing. I from the other hand see a lot of posts about men saying women are gold diggers and we just want to use men. Im also surprised by that but I do not think 80 % men has that opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 07:05 AM
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Your second point is exactly my point of interest. No one is bragging about being abusive, that’s why I wonder what’s men reaction when they find out by some chance. I think your ex-roommate is a good example and you were right about cutting him off.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:55 AM
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Maybe I didnt clarify that’s why it sounds absurd to you. I meant situation where you for example hear from someone about divorce etc where suddenly you learn that husband was violent to his wife. Of from a friend etc. Exactly like situation you described in the last part. Thank you for your insight!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:49 AM
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Absolutely not, I will give you real live example. I’m in the bar waiting to order guy comes up: Guy: “Let me buy you a drink” Me: “No thank you” Guy: “Come on, I’m a nice guy I just want to buy you a drink” Me not wanting to argue: “OK” Me saying „thank you” and leaving after getting my drink Guy getting mad that I’m leaving because he bought me a drink. Isn’t that creepy?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 10:37 AM
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Well I think it’s not about the threat more about pointing out this behaviour. I know genuinely nice guys and love them! My boyfriend is a nice guy, my bffs boyfriend is a nice guy, my brother is a nice guy. They would never say about themselves that they are nice guys ever. The “nice guy” thing came from guys who do something nice to you and expect something in return and you can feel it and it’s annoying and shitty. Or they use it as an argument when they get rejected. For me definition of bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 11:18 PM
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Sometimes age and career, I work in IT and it’s very intimidating for some men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 10:56 PM
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Idk, I am nice to people and do not expect anything in return. I feel like “nice guy” for women is a guy who is kind and you kinda feel now he wants something in return/want to be praised for that and that’s creepy. Genuinely nice guys do nice things because they are good people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 04:26 PM
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To your first point. What do you think will make women repulsive to men? Because I think those are mainly things related to caring about themselves. I think I can give you a few which would make any girl unattractive for a lot of men. Some apply both to men and women. - long, unshaved hair under armpits - missing tooth, bad tooth hygiene - bad skin (untreated acne, rosacea, scars after) - hairy legs - being really overweight - bad smell - ugly hair (not washed, not taken care of) - dirty, ugly c…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 10:51 AM
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Both men and women who are attractive have more privilege, I do not see much of a difference. So I believe genetic is a factor for both genders. But looks will just give you a head start. I’ve met a guy who was absolutely 11/10. His personality? Horrible. Did he instantly become unattractive to me? Yes. I think the main difference between women and men is that women take care about themselves more. Put more effort in their appearance, which makes more women generally attractive. There are thousa…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 09:53 AM
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THIS! Relationship is a work both partners have to do. When man chase they will do literally everything to win girl over. But then as relationship goes by they drop the ball. I like two sayings: “First a woman treats you how she wants to be treated, then she treats you how you treat her” other one was about woman being a multiplier, you give her a house she makes a home etc.. I’m in a pretty happy relationship with my partner. I feel like we communicate quite well. I stated what I need from rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 11:28 PM
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