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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
68	Redpill Success Story: LTR Breakup to Abundance in 2 Months Flat		AlternativeMain	/r/TheRedPill	30/07/18 06:16 PM

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1	All you have to be is different for her to cheat You set boundaries very clearly, and you do not change them or let them slide back. If she disrespects you in a big way, you drop her end of story. If you game her correctly, she should know your boundaries and respect them. If she doesn't, let her go. Shit testing is normal but the best response is usually no reaction or amused mastery. You are a good guy who has his shit together and doesn't take any shit.	/r/TheRedPill	08/08/18 06:07 AM
3	All you have to be is different for her to cheat Been coming to this sub for years. I've also slept with, and dated numerous women in my 20's and in my opinion, some of the ideology that you're talking about is not bluepill but rather insecurity speaking. A lot of the guys on this sub give their bitterness away through saying things like this. You can be an alpha male and realize there's a certain amount of sweetness women require in an LTR. It's not so much a delusion as a correction after seeing every relationship go to shit as a result of a…	/r/TheRedPill	02/08/18 01:13 AM
1	All you have to be is different for her to cheat Actually, this post hits on a topic that I think is so important, it actually got me to start posting on here. There is this delusion that being a game-playing, hyper-dreading, manipulative, intentionally aloof, toxic asshole is what being alpha is about, and that it will keep women hooked indefinitely. It won't. You will be able to keep her for a few months until she gets sick of how you treat her, and she will leave your ass everytime. The guys you want to emulate are naturally aloof because t…	/r/TheRedPill	31/07/18 06:58 PM
1	Redpill Success Story: LTR Breakup to Abundance in 2 Months Flat Mileage may vary, and generally speaking its easier to pickup where you left off developmentally when you've done this before. This is my 4th or 5th LTR, and I always anticipate a huge turnaround when I become single again so I know the drill at this point. It gets faster and more efficient every time. Except the takeaway I have now is that you have to be sweet to women to keep them.	/r/TheRedPill	31/07/18 06:53 PM
1	Redpill Success Story: LTR Breakup to Abundance in 2 Months Flat Ease off on the bitterness. You have been hurt bad, and that is unfortunate. I'm not lying. To myself, or anyone on this board. Women need emotional connection in an LTR. If you have ever gone 100% "alpha" in a relationship (in the toxic, hyper-dread, game playing sense that some redpillers think being alpha is), watch your girl walk. I've seen it happen to guys who thought they were alpha as fuck, and left their head spinning. You have to still be slightly "blue pill" and treat girls sweetly to…	/r/TheRedPill	31/07/18 06:50 PM
1	Redpill Success Story: LTR Breakup to Abundance in 2 Months Flat Keep going with no contact, and become happy, happy, happy. She will come around, but if she doesn't then you won't care anymore.	/r/TheRedPill	31/07/18 06:46 PM
1	[Field Report] How I went from 3 matches in a week to 22 matches and an f-close the same day of downloading Tinder. - The Importance of Lifting and Frame. Great field report. I love how concise and informative it was pertaining to two crucial tenets of this lifestyle that will never go out of style, and also didn't stray into braggadocios douche territory. Thanks for the post.	/r/TheRedPill	26/05/18 07:02 PM
1	A Psychology Grad Student's Experience with Vulnerability, Empathy, and Attraction I would like to comment on this thread, as I'm surprised to actually come across another piller who is the same field as me. With that being said, I'm not sure if I can confirm or deny what you're saying. In my grad program (very similar to yours, not wanting to give any too much personal detail), I too am one of literally 4 straight guys. The rest is all women or gay guys. I do get approached by classmates, and yes some of them have significant others. I even got a job through one, who approach…	/r/TheRedPill	23/05/18 03:47 PM
2	Are you a Validation Whore? This post is important. The need for validation is essentially the Achilles heel of the self-actualizing man. No matter where we are in our infinite journey towards higher value, this is the thing I feel that bites us in the ass the most and can halt progress, or in some cases even reverse it (long dry spells, string of rejection, unreciprocated oneitis, lack of fulfillment at work,etc.) In fact, I find that this nagging need for validation is one of the biggest obstacles in my way from progress…	/r/TheRedPill	23/05/18 03:35 PM