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| 1 | Those of you who filed for the divorce due to feeling unhappy in your marriage. How’s life now?Can you expand on the shit tests? I think you are saying you don't try to "pass them" but you understand why the new girlfriend does them? Can you give examples? | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/23 03:48 AM |
| 1 | dont go rooting through the trashOk. That's good and thanks for the clarification. I had read it to mean th knock down drag out fight was in front of them. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/02/23 04:20 AM |
| 0 | dont go rooting through the trashYou shouldn't have done that in front of your kids. Somethings you do need to hide. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/02/23 07:06 AM |
| 4 | Sweet mother, it keeps getting worseHSI doesn't hire the sharpest knives in the drawer and so the new BF might just be dumb enough to run your name through some law enforcement databases, which probably isn't going to tell your ex wife(or STBXW) anything she doesn't already know about you. Doing those searches is one of the quickest ways to get fired or at least jammed up, and he knows this. Yet every year guys get jammed up for running unauthorized searches of law enforcement databases. So he might just be dumb enough. If you rep… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/02/23 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Possible Divorce in California - Basic QuestionsOnly OP knows, and most likely Silicon Valley but there are lots of high earners all over SoCal too and not just in tech. But if tech, at $700k he's not just some interchangeable programmer. Most of the upper management is back in the office, I think. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/02/23 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Possible Divorce in California - Basic QuestionsAnd leave his $700k salary? OP has some skills, but I wonder if $700k jobs grow on trees in AZ or TX, even for him. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/02/23 05:50 AM |
| 2 | Punished for Service, Providing, and being MaleThis is not unique to you, but it seems a majority of men here are getting rake over the coals because their wives never worked, or if they did work they didn't earn much. I assume your dependa(potamus?) stayed at home all of these years? Yeah, you are going to pay spousal support and child support even with 50/50. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/02/23 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Anything to be done- STBXW went on a podcast discussing my “emotional abuse”Sue on what grounds? (Podcaster didn't reach out and isn't required to.) | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/01/23 05:42 AM |
| 1 | Moral/ Legal QuestionsThis. Don't listen to any other speculation from redditors about what may or may not be legal. Ask your counsel! | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/01/23 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Helping the wife moveHe didn't do it. That's not the point he was making though. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/12/22 05:30 AM |
| 1 | 50 50 custody passport questionAre you concerned about International Parental Child Kidnapping? | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/12/22 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Children with a foreign national?DO NOT LET YOUR CHILD LEAVE THE COUNTRY! Trust me. She can raise the child (or co-parent) without her parents. Confiscate the passport. I presume Australia requires both parents to sign to get a new passport. Check on that. But I'm sure there's some mechanism to let the Ministry of Foreign Affairs know that you don't consent to the child leaving or getting a new passport. My work has brought me in contact with fathers whose children were victims of an International Parental Child Abduction (IPCA… | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/11/22 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Lump sum instead of alimony?Interviewed two mediators. They didnt give me a quote until they had an idea of how complicated the uncoupling would be and how much time it would take. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/10/22 05:39 AM |
| 4 | The worst decision of my life = ex wife, Best decision of my life = divorceWhy is there this narrative here that any man that divorces is broken, damaged, a blubbering mess and in need of intensive therapy for years before they can think straight? This must partly be confirmation bias, as I would imagine the happily divorced man isn't on this subreddit seeking solace. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/10/22 04:32 AM |
| 3 | Memory/Cognitive issuesWe are learning that poor sleep is more destructive than we ever imagined. Matthew Walker is one sleep expert that's got a book out and has made the rounds of the podcast circuit. He's legit, not just some Instagram "wellness" guru. Check out some of his videos/talks/podcast appearances. I'm not saying it's not from trauma, but you must fix your sleep, regardless. Best of luck. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/10/22 03:33 AM |
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